It is TOOOO DIFFICULT TO BE HIS FRIEND. Their is NO MUTUAL RESPECT, TRUST, RELIABILITY, NO TRUSTWORTHINESS, NO SPEAKING the TRUTH. NO WINNING, NO NO NO CONVERSATIONS about anything that MATTERS, IMPORTANT Situations, NO DISCUSSIONS about topics, or vacations, or do we have enough MONEY to LIVE ON & for HOW LONG??? DISCUSSIONS about bills, expenses, reality the present day & tomorrows. NO Building, planning, etc. 😮😮😢😢. No heart to heart discussions. 😢😢😢😢
He let me talk so he could later judge me for everything I said and when he did talk he was comparing everything to me and he did talk about what he did and what he is basically trying to make me see him in a specific image
Yes! everything l confided in him… he then told thats why this or that happened to me, criticizing me, etc. to the point l kept promising myself l’d never do that again
I have been dealing with a guy for 10 years for him to want all the relationship things bit often tells me we just friends . He always hold me to my pass! One minute he loves me next he acts like he can't stand me.. I need help causes I've been faithful I do love him. But I'm so unhappy. I have allowed this man to play with my heart feelings emotions for 10 years I try to let go but seem to can't walk away 100 percent is it my fault that he does this
It's almost like he had a script with everyone he met. He listed all the accomplishments he had in one way or another. Absolutely exhausting. I would open up, he wouldn't, then he'd bring it up later to some how blame me for something I told him previously or use it against me
Lee I have been watching you for a long time and really appreciate your total direct honesty! I have learned a lot that has helped me personally and professionally. This video was really funny -the charger cord was making me die laughing SO TRUE!
He had no real friends outside of people he used. Three faiiled marriages. No family that had anything to do with him and no contact with his children. But excuses for all of it..
Just because it looks like a human, talks like a human, and act like a human, DOES NOT MEAN IT'S HUMAN!!! Once you know,you can't unknow, if you educate yourself well, you will KNOW WHEN YOUR DEALING WITH ONE!!!!
@tonebone69 People confuse psychopaths with narcissists. Psychopaths don't necessarily have a bad and traumatic childhood, but most narcissists did. Thank you 💖
@Annie-ol3jx Their response is a trauma response. They couldn't develop normally like other children because they were abused/neglected or had a physically ill or depressed mother who couldn't take proper care of them. These children lived in survival mode due to their surroundings. It's a very horrific experience for a child to have.
Hi Lee, Hi everyone ❤ I hope the holidays were wonderful for everybody!!! Finally catching up on your videos and Im enjoying them! Proud of you and thank you for having empathy for us even though you don't like it sometimes 😂 we need your help
Wow yes he does he can talk for hours and expect me to listen but as soon as i open my mouth im told im disrespectful also yes he just to me cause i was crying that he not falling for that nomore its like tears just on my face so cold to say im so lost!! I know i can do better and someone will love me for me but i cant seem to get him out my system
I have been explosive most of my life. I was diagnosed as borderline in my youth. Went through alot of residential treatment centers and such at a young age. No one ever said i might be a narcissist except one doctor and i was so angry and offended by that that i stopped going to that whole facility and stopped getting help for almost 10 years. Now they just have "cluster b personality traits " on my chart not a diagnosis. Do you shift between the cluster b's? Or are you always a narcissist. Also what do you feel like inside?? Do you actually beileve your better than people or do you just project it that way?? Do you still get moved by music and have empathy?? I do. But id be lying if i said i didnt meet the criteria for npd. Its a trip. Im 28 now. I feel like i have potrayed all the cluster b personalitys at some point in my life but idk . Oh also have you ever had a spiritual experience on psychedelics??? Cause i have and i feel like it broke my narcissim. I realized all the hate and anger i project out is really just how i felt about myself. That was in march 2023. Since then i have come along way in trying to get better and be a better person.
HAHA! My "vulnerable narcissist" only spoke about his past, his ex, his alcoholic mother and his father who abandoned them when he was born. Then said his exes cheated on him, then accused him of cheating. Now I know better. Unfortunately, eleven years had to pass before I knew what narcissism was. Then he cheated. That's all I needed to leave.
What is so hard for me Lee after all these years is that he turned the tables on me and wants me to believe that I am the one at fault and that I’m the narcissist. It’s such a gaslight. You start second-guessing yourself and start going over and over things, especially since there was never a closure he said such horrific things to me during the divorce ain declarations when he was trying to get the kids that it broke something in me, and I’ve never got my confidence all the way back to date where I could move on and find someone else he really did a number on me. What do you suggest or anybody up here? It’s been since 2008.
Exactly what she does then somehow uses some of my conversations as a weapon. Even when i have something important to say. I get ignored while she never cares
@@Itshowtime7223 Develop your escape plan efficiently my friend. Remember women that love themselves must be approached with the philosophy of less is more as generation z would say "standing on business".
Thanks you that’s happened to me he had love booming to me and after one week he ask me I come over I told her no he disappeared he block me I ask her why he unblock me to me he told me he’s bc to much work I searched the dating apps I see multiple girls it’s all lie I’m glad that god help me all I know and I blocked hem I pretend that I don’t know I move forward
Can you do a video about if the narcissist is able to be happy when they have consistent and lots of supply during their whole lifes? I'm wondering since narcissists need a lot of supply, if they will be happy if narcissists are able to gain a lot of supply in a consistent matter during their lifes and or this makes their insecurity goes away?
I have a question for EVERYONE and also for Lee. How do narcissist feel when they become 30? I know a lot of people talking about a narcissist aging and being in their 50's or what not but were there narcissist you encountered when they were becoming 30 leaving their twenties or didn't your narcissist mind?
They have a ton of acquaintances but not a lot of actual “friends”
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Yes, I noticed this.
It is TOOOO DIFFICULT TO BE HIS FRIEND. Their is NO MUTUAL RESPECT, TRUST, RELIABILITY, NO TRUSTWORTHINESS, NO SPEAKING the TRUTH. NO WINNING, NO NO NO CONVERSATIONS about anything that MATTERS, IMPORTANT Situations, NO DISCUSSIONS about topics, or vacations, or do we have enough MONEY to LIVE ON & for HOW LONG??? DISCUSSIONS about bills, expenses, reality the present day & tomorrows. NO Building, planning, etc. 😮😮😢😢.
No heart to heart discussions. 😢😢😢😢
He started out as Prince charming and turned into the devil and the devil doesn't bargain.
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@@MentalHealness thanks Lee. 😊
Pretty tightly worded. Well done.
@@SonjaSmith-qi8hd lmao
Mines did too. 😥
Extremely charming..world wind romance...move sooo quickly. He mirrored everything I liked and wanted to do. Then hated it all
That's why when you know you go Quietly🤐🤫🏃➡️
He let me talk so he could later judge me for everything I said and when he did talk he was comparing everything to me and he did talk about what he did and what he is basically trying to make me see him in a specific image
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Same happened to me only wanted to know things to judge me & use against me . Then when I didn’t want to share no more it was oh I’m being secretive 🙄
Yes! everything l confided in him… he then told thats why this or that happened to me, criticizing me, etc. to the point l kept promising myself l’d never do that again
I have been dealing with a guy for 10 years for him to want all the relationship things bit often tells me we just friends . He always hold me to my pass! One minute he loves me next he acts like he can't stand me.. I need help causes I've been faithful I do love him. But I'm so unhappy. I have allowed this man to play with my heart feelings emotions for 10 years I try to let go but seem to can't walk away 100 percent is it my fault that he does this
Yessss omg 😩🤦🏽♀️
It's almost like he had a script with everyone he met. He listed all the accomplishments he had in one way or another. Absolutely exhausting. I would open up, he wouldn't, then he'd bring it up later to some how blame me for something I told him previously or use it against me
Yes!
When i would cry he had a little smile on his face
Mines too. He called me timid. I stopped crying instantly and knew it was time to go.
Narcissist Are nothing but emotional vampires😂
And energy vampires.
Dementors from harry potter
They seem to good to be good true.
I think that i was dating a narcist because he tried to control everything that i would do down to me speeding time with my family
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They’re putting their peg leg forward - incredible 😂
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Lee I have been watching you for a long time and really appreciate your total direct honesty! I have learned a lot that has helped me personally and professionally. This video was really funny -the charger cord was making me die laughing SO TRUE!
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He had no real friends outside of people he used. Three faiiled marriages. No family that had anything to do with him and no contact with his children. But excuses for all of it..
Omg!! Mines too! He didnt see kids, grandkids, him mom spends holidays with his first ex. I think his fam knows how he is.
Just because it looks like a human, talks like a human, and act like a human, DOES NOT MEAN IT'S HUMAN!!! Once you know,you can't unknow, if you educate yourself well, you will KNOW WHEN YOUR DEALING WITH ONE!!!!
They are human beings. Just messed up humans who didn't have a great childhood.
@@melisentiapheiffer3034thank you. You are kind
@tonebone69 People confuse psychopaths with narcissists. Psychopaths don't necessarily have a bad and traumatic childhood, but most narcissists did. Thank you 💖
Talking from experience I see
@Annie-ol3jx Their response is a trauma response. They couldn't develop normally like other children because they were abused/neglected or had a physically ill or depressed mother who couldn't take proper care of them. These children lived in survival mode due to their surroundings. It's a very horrific experience for a child to have.
You're our most beloved narc. Happy New Year! 🥰
This info is 💯 accurate, been burnt by and around all kinds of narcissist and now I keep my guard up when I see these traits
That's why you do not tell them 🤫you are leaving🤐 just leave Add, no contact ghost👻 them
Thats what I did.
I love you LEE❤ you always keep it real
That's how my narcissistic ex-wife is, either people love her or hate her. Most people who know the real her can't stand her
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Putting their peg leg forward!!! 🤣
Hi Lee, Hi everyone ❤ I hope the holidays were wonderful for everybody!!! Finally catching up on your videos and Im enjoying them! Proud of you and thank you for having empathy for us even though you don't like it sometimes 😂 we need your help
I want to say Happy New Year’s and may you continue blessing others with your knowledge and experience as you have done me.
Thank you Lee..You have gotten me through a lot
Wow yes he does he can talk for hours and expect me to listen but as soon as i open my mouth im told im disrespectful also yes he just to me cause i was crying that he not falling for that nomore its like tears just on my face so cold to say im so lost!! I know i can do better and someone will love me for me but i cant seem to get him out my system
Number one 🚩 Flag they move quickly🤔
So true
I have been explosive most of my life. I was diagnosed as borderline in my youth. Went through alot of residential treatment centers and such at a young age.
No one ever said i might be a narcissist except one doctor and i was so angry and offended by that that i stopped going to that whole facility and stopped getting help for almost 10 years.
Now they just have "cluster b personality traits " on my chart not a diagnosis.
Do you shift between the cluster b's? Or are you always a narcissist. Also what do you feel like inside?? Do you actually beileve your better than people or do you just project it that way??
Do you still get moved by music and have empathy?? I do. But id be lying if i said i didnt meet the criteria for npd.
Its a trip. Im 28 now. I feel like i have potrayed all the cluster b personalitys at some point in my life but idk .
Oh also have you ever had a spiritual experience on psychedelics??? Cause i have and i feel like it broke my narcissim. I realized all the hate and anger i project out is really just how i felt about myself. That was in march 2023. Since then i have come along way in trying to get better and be a better person.
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HAHA! My "vulnerable narcissist" only spoke about his past, his ex, his alcoholic mother and his father who abandoned them when he was born. Then said his exes cheated on him, then accused him of cheating. Now I know better. Unfortunately, eleven years had to pass before I knew what narcissism was. Then he cheated. That's all I needed to leave.
What is so hard for me Lee after all these years is that he turned the tables on me and wants me to believe that I am the one at fault and that I’m the narcissist. It’s such a gaslight. You start second-guessing yourself and start going over and over things, especially since there was never a closure he said such horrific things to me during the divorce ain declarations when he was trying to get the kids that it broke something in me, and I’ve never got my confidence all the way back to date where I could move on and find someone else he really did a number on me. What do you suggest or anybody up here? It’s been since 2008.
Great message Lee
In parents you see a lot of the "you got that awesome thing from me, that bad trait from your other parent" game
Happy New Year! Thanks for helping me understand!❤
Do you have a video on how a person feels when they are dealing with a narcissist?
Exactly what she does then somehow uses some of my conversations as a weapon.
Even when i have something important to say.
I get ignored while she never cares
It’s wild
@@Itshowtime7223 Develop your escape plan efficiently my friend. Remember women that love themselves must be approached with the philosophy of less is more as generation z would say "standing on business".
Once people find About narcissist They end up ghosting them👻
Thanks you that’s happened to me he had love booming to me and after one week he ask me I come over I told her no he disappeared he block me I ask her why he unblock me to me he told me he’s bc to much work I searched the dating apps I see multiple girls it’s all lie I’m glad that god help me all I know and I blocked hem I pretend that I don’t know I move forward
Waiting!
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Lee too funny 😂😂😂
Love the new intro. Ok on the fome up Lee 😂
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You cant make deals with devil
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Lol Timb on the limb 😂😂
🎉🎉great video
He even said to me ,,And when they holy almighty says it's this and that but when I say it's otherwise it's that way" ... Psycho
Its 2025 bring peace in your life❤🎉
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Mine says potatoes to tomatoes. I feel a throat punch rise up, but stop. 😂😢
A new entrance ❤
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THEY HAVE A PENTAGRAM TATTOOED UNDER THEIR TONGUE
Why do there parents enable bad behaviour ? Vise verse of the parent with ex partner even when having to co parent?
Lee ❤
Can you do a video about if the narcissist is able to be happy when they have consistent and lots of supply during their whole lifes?
I'm wondering since narcissists need a lot of supply, if they will be happy if narcissists are able to gain a lot of supply in a consistent matter during their lifes and or this makes their insecurity goes away?
Peg leg!!😁😁😁
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I have a question for EVERYONE and also for Lee. How do narcissist feel when they become 30?
I know a lot of people talking about a narcissist aging and being in their 50's or what not but were there narcissist you encountered when they were becoming 30 leaving their twenties or didn't your narcissist mind?