Things to Know Before Starting IVF

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  • @MakeupByJassy
    @MakeupByJassy 4 роки тому +359

    I Hope everyone who is going through infertility get their miracle soon 😊

    • @dayswithmj104
      @dayswithmj104 4 роки тому +8

      This is sweet. ❤❤❤I'll take some of that hope for a miracle😘😘😘

    • @MsStarryNights
      @MsStarryNights 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you ❤️

    • @malkaaro5086
      @malkaaro5086 4 роки тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

    • @MysticThighs
      @MysticThighs 3 роки тому +1

      I’ve been trying for maybe 2 years now (since I was 20) no luck . The first year and a half was with my ex , the rest of the year is with my boyfriend now . Today someone decided to update me that my ex (who I tried with for a year and a half ) is having a baby 🥺🥺🥺 needless to say I’ve been crying uncontrollably not for my ex but because I feel there is something very wrong with me . Maybe not but it hurts . It hurts to see everyone else getting what I want so badly . I hope that one day I can have a child it’s a dream of mine . Trying not to lose hope but it’s hard

  • @ThePeetes
    @ThePeetes 4 роки тому +224

    My own IVF doctor said “A little bit of science and a whole lot of God”. It’s truly a miracle. IVF is not a guarantee that u are going to get pregnant. So for it to actually stick and work is a BLESSING from God.

    • @MsStarryNights
      @MsStarryNights 4 роки тому +6

      The Peetes I like that! My doctor is nice but it would have been comforting to hear this from her. Glad I heard it from you!

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому +1

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

    • @danicacovic6166
      @danicacovic6166 4 роки тому +1

      That is absolutely unethical to say to a patient.

    • @ThePeetes
      @ThePeetes 4 роки тому +11

      @@danicacovic6166 it absolutely is not. He knew my beliefs and I appreciated it. I've had plenty of drs pray with me that work at christian based hospitals. That is normal. He does not do that with every patient.

    • @lordweneedu8217
      @lordweneedu8217 4 роки тому +1

      That absolutely true.

  • @itsJudysLife
    @itsJudysLife 4 роки тому +287

    I Love that you're sharing your journey!! I'm so sorry you have to read ignorant comments from others hiding behind a screen. Keep doing you girl, we're all excited for you and your fam!!

    • @Jennifer-ow1fj
      @Jennifer-ow1fj 4 роки тому

      Ahhh Judy I love u ND ur family

    • @MariaRojas-ko2xy
      @MariaRojas-ko2xy 4 роки тому

      Were excited for Dulce and you aswell Judy!!❤

    • @jessicaa.4952
      @jessicaa.4952 4 роки тому

      itsJudysLife love you judy ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому +1

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

  • @paigearnolde656
    @paigearnolde656 4 роки тому +117

    I’m 13 weeks with my first baby through IVF and when people would tell me ‘oh it’ll happen when you relax and just have fun’ was the most upsetting thing people would tell me!

    • @Skyebright1
      @Skyebright1 4 роки тому +1

      Paige Arnolde agree it’s stupid, there are serious medical reasons why some people can’t conceive

    • @denikoatay
      @denikoatay 2 роки тому +2

      I even had someone joking "are you sure you know how it's done?" And you find yourself thinking, this person has had the privilege to be born and my baby doesn't?

    • @Bonbonsito05
      @Bonbonsito05 Рік тому

      So true!

  • @oliviamarvel5424
    @oliviamarvel5424 4 роки тому +141

    I was born because of IVF!!! This science is a gift from God. Many blessings for your family & your new baby Dulce!

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

    • @carolinelalam7542
      @carolinelalam7542 Рік тому

      a gift from research and advance technology, the same technology bible people so often reject ......

  • @TheLunita333
    @TheLunita333 4 роки тому +71

    I dislike when haters say using science is playing God...medicine only goes so far and then comes God. If God did not want something to happen it would not happen period. Wishing you and your growing family all the best !! You are full of inspiration and love

    • @gabbylicious_
      @gabbylicious_ 4 роки тому +2

      Wow, beautifully said.

    • @taylorvictoria6894
      @taylorvictoria6894 4 роки тому +1

      AMEN!!! I completely agree! Beautifully said!

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому +2

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

    • @pham4796
      @pham4796 4 роки тому +1

      I completely agree. They want turn every science book in this medical world to keep people artificially alive, but are against this medical procedure, which, if they believe in God, is also an invention of God.

    • @deniseflores80
      @deniseflores80 4 роки тому

      So does God pull the strings in every situation? We have free will for things to happen weather it is good or bad

  • @ejfranco14
    @ejfranco14 4 роки тому +28

    As a born and raised Christian(Pentecostal) I see nothing wrong with you doing ivf. I swear ppl who claim they are Christian are far from being one. They make other Christians look bad 🙄 and that's why people stay away from church and it's so sad. Drs have a purpose on this earth for a reason and God blessed them with so much knowledge to help one in need. Most times we do need the assistance of them and their is nothing wrong with that.

  • @annnguyenvu
    @annnguyenvu 4 роки тому +20

    When we went through IVF we kept it a big secret because we felt ashamed. No one in our family or friends needed to go through it. I'm very blessed to have my 2 oldest who were IVF baby and after all that struggles got out third who was naturally conceived.

  • @SunshineJoleen
    @SunshineJoleen 4 роки тому +15

    The mini rant at 2:27... I felt that in my SOUL. Also... "You're so young! You've got time!" I'm sick of hearing that. If you aren't my gynecologist, stop presuming to know how my body works or how much time I have!!

  • @MsStarryNights
    @MsStarryNights 4 роки тому +80

    I honestly think this video was a blessing and a sign. I just got done crying to my husband at work because I found out on Monday the reason I haven’t gotten pregnant (never been pregnant), so now I have to turn to IVF. Devastated isn’t even the word for me now. I’ve been crying since then. Then I see this pop up on my timeline. After watching this video, you have opened up my eyes. I now realize it is a blessing that I can still have some type of opportunity to get pregnant, even though they say the odds are against me, and that I have insurance that will pay for the majority of it. I have 3 friends that went through IVF and I haven’t confessed to them yet. But when I’m ready, I do have them for support. If you can have a miracle naturally, I can have one with IVF! The clip with you and your husband also made me laugh because that’s how dramatic I picture myself 😂🤣. Thank you for making this video Dulce and spreading positivity about the blessings of IVF and how to ignore any negative or ignorant comments. I was tearing myself down, telling myself I’m “old” and convincing myself it won’t work. I really needed this. Thank you ♥️

    • @stephaniejsmes8991
      @stephaniejsmes8991 4 роки тому +4

      You are in my prayers

    • @MsStarryNights
      @MsStarryNights 4 роки тому +1

      Stephanie Jsmes thank you so much I truly appreciate it! 😢♥️

    • @Keepinitreal55
      @Keepinitreal55 4 роки тому

      What’s the reason they told you you’ll need ivf?

    • @MsStarryNights
      @MsStarryNights 4 роки тому +1

      keepinitreal they told me that they don’t think they will be able to retrieve many eggs and I have a lower count than what I should have 😔

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому +1

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

  • @alyssagodfrey6827
    @alyssagodfrey6827 4 роки тому +18

    I start my stims on Friday!!!!! First fresh cycle for ivf and I cannot wait!! I pray that god is with us every step of the way! Egg retrieval possibly March 9!!! Congrats and I hope to be there one day!!!

    • @usofine0690
      @usofine0690 4 роки тому +1

      Alyssa Godfrey May God bless you with your baby. Hope to one day start this process myself.

  • @avolette4910
    @avolette4910 4 роки тому +33

    Thank you for doing this video! You are giving so many women hope and peace of mind. Hearing you talk about all this has a calming effect.

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

  • @gcsugirl
    @gcsugirl 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video. I’ve been freaking out about my own IVF journey. I have my baseline appointment very soon and I just received my medications. I remember your channel from over ten years ago and I can’t believe how far you’ve come! Congratulations on your new addition!

  • @ThePeetes
    @ThePeetes 4 роки тому +7

    The medications/hormones was my biggest concern too. Starting with the birth control. I was afraid I would go into depression. But it was actually not as bad as I thought it would be. I made sure to meditate and do the things I needed to stay in a positive mental state.

  • @SilviaSelect
    @SilviaSelect 4 роки тому +6

    I worked in IVF and it was such a beautiful experience to see these beautiful families going through it ! You explained it perfectly Dulce !

    • @cunliffest
      @cunliffest 2 роки тому

      I see it as a horrifically traumatizing experience lol nothing pretty about it the women gets constant torture and you miss out on so much life gets put on hold for years while others prance around and get a baby for free

  • @smaileemailee
    @smaileemailee 4 роки тому +34

    I truly feel that God influences doctors and nurses to have the knowledge and ability to come about with ivf. I know that God is mindful of all of us and our needs. Congrats to tour growing family. #Godisgoodalways

  • @kileygabel6289
    @kileygabel6289 4 роки тому +1

    I just started IVF and had my hsg last week! I’ve been dealing with the crazy emotions of this whole thing but i’ve been watching your channel for years and im so happy i can watch your videos along side going through this. thank you so much for this video!

  • @CardenasHaydee
    @CardenasHaydee 4 роки тому +1

    Im so glad you brought this up. People can be so rude! Thank you for speaking for women like us struggling everyday. Can you make a series of your IVF?

  • @michellejuliet8925
    @michellejuliet8925 4 роки тому +1

    I NEEDED this video! Thank you soo much! And omg thank you for speaking on how everyone tells you to relax and that doesn’t work! Gosh I’m so sick of hearing this. Love this!

  • @jazzydollovesyu
    @jazzydollovesyu 4 роки тому

    You just made my day!! I’m so happy you stomped on all those people that are bringing so many negative vibes to you.. you deserve to have a beautiful pregnancy and you will ❤️ Love from Oxnard

  • @steelcity1momo
    @steelcity1momo 4 роки тому +19

    I’m so grateful you posted this journey I’m 26 and having trouble I’m glad to know that In the future I have this as an option if it doesn’t happen naturally

    • @beebeebrittany
      @beebeebrittany 4 роки тому

      Monique Lopez I’m 25 I’ve been having trouble since I was 20. Good luck to you and baby dust 💕💕

  • @whitneysworld
    @whitneysworld 4 роки тому +15

    1. You are beautiful and congratulations on the baby!! So happy for you!🥰
    2. I myself am a Christian and people who are saying those nasty comments are not true Christian’s! God gave men the knowledge of modern medicine so people like you could be blessed with children! Don’t listen to people like that. All babies are a blessing 😊

  • @Megdracula
    @Megdracula 3 роки тому

    I second the part about community! It helps so much to find support groups with women (and men) going through the same struggles and journeys.

  • @jazzi5807
    @jazzi5807 4 роки тому +50

    Just did my embryo transfer! Pregnancy test on 2 March!! Congratulations on your pregnancy!

    • @Tip_Top
      @Tip_Top 4 роки тому +1

      Wish you the best dear

    • @MsStarryNights
      @MsStarryNights 4 роки тому +2

      Good luck! And I wish you a healthy baby to come with a safe delivery!

    • @jazzi5807
      @jazzi5807 4 роки тому

      Thank you!

    • @maryle4660
      @maryle4660 4 роки тому +1

      Jay Tiara good luck!!!!

    • @Nado0r
      @Nado0r 4 роки тому +1

      Good luck💕

  • @minpin109
    @minpin109 4 роки тому

    I enjoy hearing about your journey so much. IVF is a possibility in my future and educating myself on it has eased a lot of my fears and insecurities with the sheer possibility of requiring it. I have PCOS and it’s not a for sure meaning that you can’t get pregnant, but as someone who has deeply wanted children my whole life, it’s a terrifying diagnosis. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.

  • @itssimplyray5555
    @itssimplyray5555 4 роки тому +1

    I'm so glad you did this video and helped put some of my worries at ease. I'm getting some testing done this week to see what our next step will be in this process and was super nervous and scared. Thanks for doing this video it brings alot of comfort and for being open in this journey.

  • @MsAngelareadstoyou
    @MsAngelareadstoyou 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing! The process of trying to get pregnant for a long period of time can be so lonely and frustrating so it makes a huge difference to see other's stories like yours! 🤗 Thanks for posting this

  • @alessiabaldacchino1704
    @alessiabaldacchino1704 4 роки тому +3

    Im so happy for you Dulce💜 ive been watching you on yt since 2014!!

  • @The3Jarasisters
    @The3Jarasisters 4 роки тому +7

    What a blessing!!!💕💕 im just soo happy your pregnancy is Going Great ive been following you since you live in Texas!! Im so happy for you💗

  • @paolamendez7616
    @paolamendez7616 4 роки тому +2

    So happy for you and your family Dulce! ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 May God continue to bless you!💕💕💕

  • @DanielaGubri
    @DanielaGubri 4 роки тому +1

    I am a christian and I'm so happy and proud of you going through this journey of something your heart really desires. You are such and incredible woman and know God will continue blessing you and your family the way it has to be. Thank you for sharing your experience Dulce.

  • @krissiadiaz3168
    @krissiadiaz3168 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you Dulce for sharing your journey with us, your such a strong person. Im trying for my first baby and I haven’t been blessed as of yet. But I pray I do soon. With this video it lets me know I have other options to think about for a little help. Congratulations Dulce!! 😊

  • @jeseniab9720
    @jeseniab9720 4 роки тому +1

    I love this video!!!! I love everything you talked about! The religion part was my favorite couldn’t have said it better!!! So happy for you and your family!

  • @azngyrl4yu
    @azngyrl4yu 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for posting this! I am going into my first cycle of IVF after 2 failed IUIs and the 3rd IUI resulted in a miscarriage. You are so right in everything you said about the comments that people WITH KIDS make to people struggling with getting pregnant. I laughed when you said robot egg and robot sperm!!! I do agree that finding out why you aren't getting pregnant is empowering but there is a large population of women out there with unexplained infertility as myself and we may never know why which is very frustrating. Anyway, thanks and baby blessings!!

  • @BessiMoreno
    @BessiMoreno 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video! No matter what other people think or say it’s a blessing no matter what! I’ve been trying for over a year and nothing! This video will help me and I know it will help other women trying to have a miracle! Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @carahboutbooks
    @carahboutbooks 4 роки тому

    I am so excited for you and your family. Izek will LOVE being a big brother. I think its amazing you are sharing this experience with the internet... it will really help people.

  • @alxndramarie
    @alxndramarie 4 роки тому +10

    Thank you for sharing this for all the women that are struggling! Special shoutout to the women that go to find out why they’ve been struggling for years and all they hear is “everything looks normal”. This is my sister’s experience and its heartbreaking. I know you feel so helpless and at the very least wanting an answer and my heart goes out to you. ♥️
    And I am so appreciative for all those who are open in this community for those who are more reserved. It helps so much.
    Whole-hearted blessings Dulce to you and your beautiful family! 🥰

  • @LinetteArroyo
    @LinetteArroyo 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for being so open about your experience ♥️

  • @mariaelizasullivan6144
    @mariaelizasullivan6144 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this video Dulce! Many blessings to you and your family. 💜

  • @denisebriseno4661
    @denisebriseno4661 4 роки тому +1

    LOVE YOU DULCE! been following your videos and career since the beginning.. i love that you used your voice and experience in this video because it gives women like me hope . i am 43 and in a loving relationship and after having both my kids naturally i am struggling after 14 years to consider alternatives other than just "waiting to see if it happens " age plays a big part for me so this information is helpful with many women of all ages that are looking to get pregnant and are struggling . I thank you for this information and congrats to you and your beautiful family.

    • @ChasingDestiny22
      @ChasingDestiny22 Рік тому

      I am also 43...Any tips? My doctor has recommended IVF

  • @gabbylicious_
    @gabbylicious_ 4 роки тому +4

    Love this video, thank you for educating me. Can you and Jesse maybe do a Q&A for what the male partner goes through/what to expect?

  • @dodojen90
    @dodojen90 4 роки тому +5

    I have 6 year old twins - a boy and a girl- from IVF and I thank God every day for the blessing. The whole process is a work of science yes but also was of love and dedication of my husband and myself. We thank God for having blessed us with the outcome. It is no less of a miracle. Your entire video is spot on!! Especially the part about "relax" lol The best advice I heard while strugging getting pregnant was Dont stress about relaxing Worry all you want!!

    • @pinkvalentine8846
      @pinkvalentine8846 4 роки тому

      dodojen90 thanks for sharing. I’m wondering if you guys knew you were going to have twins and used two embryos or if you just used one embryo and it split into twins?

    • @dodojen90
      @dodojen90 4 роки тому

      @@pinkvalentine8846 Hi Sorry for the late reply! We put two just in case, hoping at least one would stick. Finding out that both did was actually pretty shocking considering my previous struggles.
      Where I live, finding out the embryos gender in advance is illegal so their gender was a surprise too. Hope it helps!

  • @melindavazquez2550
    @melindavazquez2550 3 роки тому +2

    The figuring out why part.. it’s such a privilege to know the WHY. There’s also “unexplained infertility” basically went through ALL exams and everything “looks great” but you’re still not able to conceive.

  • @lauraruiz99
    @lauraruiz99 4 роки тому

    I’m so sorry to hear that during this beautiful phase of your life people are so judgmental and ignorant. People seem to forget to be loving, gentle and caring for one another. It’s so sad that we choose not to take care of one another like brothers and sisters. Instead, some choose to carry stones in their hands to hurt those who do good. We all live separate lives, and therefore we do what is best for OUR OWN lives! Dulce I believe you brought light to this delema of people judging very beautifully and gracefully! I admire you so much! I can see that God lives in you! I love you dulce!

  • @imsaasmee3218
    @imsaasmee3218 4 роки тому

    You're such a strong woman or mother I should say👏🏼. May god bless you and a beautiful heart inside you. Keep encouraging the one who's going through the same situation. Love you dulce😘😘😘

  • @curlyhairtales6746
    @curlyhairtales6746 4 роки тому

    You are such a sweet person. When I hear u talk you sound like such a nice and caring person. U are so brave in so many ways and thank you for sharing so much of ur life journey with us. May you and your baby have a safe and healthy delivery! God Bless You and ur growing family

  • @IXOX0oI
    @IXOX0oI 4 роки тому

    Omg 😢 I am one of the new subscribers and hoping to start IVF next year. Honestly I don’t know if you’re religious but I pray for you everyday and thank God for you every day! I felt so lost and all videos I found were so old and then someone like who is known as one of the bigger youtubers starts to make videos on IVF ! Felt like a miracle
    . Thank YOU SO MUCH 😭 X 💕 👶

  • @priscyy09
    @priscyy09 4 роки тому +4

    We women are already amazing as it is, but to go through with IVF, wow you’re just that much more amazing in my eyes! I just recently learned that IVF doesn’t always work, transfer eggs don’t always work, donor sperm doesn’t always work. Can’t imagine what hearing others opinions with all this going on is like.
    You are so strong for even talking about this!

    • @mrsmrs9214
      @mrsmrs9214 4 роки тому +1

      Priscila Franco it’s a mind bender for sure. Going through IVF and you pay SO MUCH to basically leave it up to chance. Support and love from ppl go a very long way 💕

  • @jessica24bryant
    @jessica24bryant 4 роки тому +21

    We are prepping for transfer #5 😪 I wish I could go back and PGD test our embryos right from the start. We were trying to save on cost but if I could rewind time I woulda definitely spent the extra money, I think it woulda saved us so much heartache after 3 miscarriages and 1 failed transfer. Also I think it’s awesome that you and Desi are being open about your journeys! You both are brining so much awareness to infertility community 💕

  • @amcarrillo85
    @amcarrillo85 3 роки тому

    I’m just starting the journey and your videos are so uplifting and inspiring ❤️❤️

  • @angelicarojas4058
    @angelicarojas4058 2 роки тому +2

    Getting ready to start my procedure and I’m so thankful I have these videos as a guide. I’m scared and nervous and I know this is going to be hard (physically and emotionally) but your guidance makes me feel so much better ❤️

    • @Poisionhimgrrl81
      @Poisionhimgrrl81 2 роки тому +1

      Me too. Baseline appt tomorrow, start on Saturday. I'm so nervous flipping through so many channels right now hoping I can calm down.

    • @ravenlovejoi
      @ravenlovejoi Рік тому +1

      @@Poisionhimgrrl81 how is it going? Hope everything went well.

    • @Poisionhimgrrl81
      @Poisionhimgrrl81 Рік тому

      @@ravenlovejoi Hello, successfully! It was a roller coaster of events so I took a break after egg retrieval to enjoy my Summer. We proceeded back in August and I am currently 12 weeks today. 🙂

  • @ThePeetes
    @ThePeetes 4 роки тому +12

    If it wasn’t for IVF I would not have been able to get pregnant. Thank GOD for IVF!

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

  • @loy831
    @loy831 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you thank you for giving us that information I have been struggling with the same I’m glad you did this video thank you dulce

  • @freddyspom
    @freddyspom Рік тому

    Hi Dulce, thank you for sharing your experience about IVF. What you said in your video about life being created by science was one subject I was concern about because of my faith and religion. Your words have given me the strength to move forward with IVF. Thank you

  • @DaniLills
    @DaniLills Рік тому

    Thank you so much for being transparent about your IVF journey Dulce! Your video was informative and gave me a clear idea of the process and what to expect.

  • @1229janet
    @1229janet 4 роки тому +1

    Bless you and your family sweetie🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👶🏻❤️ TY for sharing.

  • @yen_xo
    @yen_xo 4 роки тому

    Thank you dulce for sharing ❤️ My husband and I have been struggling for over 6yrs on getting pregnant. We had a failed IUI and next step will be IVF. All my tests are normal and my tubes are open. Doctor diagnosed me with pcos. We never received answers for why i have unexplained infertility. Unfortunately, IVF is very expensive and insurance does not cover. I’m so heartbroken that I cannot afford it so my chances of trying to get pregnant are very slim 😭 so you are definitely blessed that you and your family had the opportunity to do it and are successful. I wish you both the best of luck and hope one day I can do the procedure as well.

  • @dayswithmj104
    @dayswithmj104 4 роки тому

    Yes. I'm 100% with you when people tell you to relax. I am 10 years #ttc it's a struggle. Especially if you have other medical reasons on why you can't conceive. Congratulations on your new baby boy. ❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰

  • @pandahugs819
    @pandahugs819 4 роки тому

    Thank you! Im also so exhausted of hearing to relax and stop stressing i took 1.5 yr break and that didn’t work for me, we started our journey in 2016 ive had 3 miscarriages I’ve done 6 timed intercourse cycles and 2 IUI’s and im finally going to start IVF now. Im looking at videos/experiences so thank you! I’m so thankful i have insurance through work but still a lot for me financially. I hope this one works for me because i spent so much money on past treatments and tests idk if i can afford any more. 🤞🏽💕

  • @dubiousjesse
    @dubiousjesse 4 роки тому +2

    Great job Dooohlce Candy!!

  • @Tracks777
    @Tracks777 4 роки тому

    amazing stuff

  • @hildaavila
    @hildaavila 4 роки тому

    👏🏼 👏🏼 BRAVO!! Bien dicho mija. Such a beautiful video.

  • @vivmar8951
    @vivmar8951 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this. Just started my first Lupron injections yesterday and I’m trying to hope but not expect for the best. Blessings

  • @3puppitos
    @3puppitos 2 роки тому

    Love that you touched on the religious aspect. It's very hard going through all of this and then people judging is horrible. Thanks for sharing your journey! I'm starting in about a month. The part where your husband helps with the needle was so funny. Gonna be me lolol

  • @luciapxp
    @luciapxp 4 роки тому

    Dulce sending you so much love ❤️ I admire you since I first saw your makeup tutorials. I am proud of the woman you have become. You resemble strength, humility, beauty so much more. I have always been scared to take the step to find out why I don’t get pregnant. Hearing you encourages me to start finding out why. Thanks for sharing your story thanks for your beautiful soul. Que adiosito te bendiga a ti and your family. And me as a Catholic/Christian ask you to ignore those negative comments, God knows us well. Los tiempos de el son perfectos.
    Have a wonderful journey 💓💕💕💕

  • @cindyding59
    @cindyding59 4 роки тому

    Congratulations dulce candy!!!!! Following your channel you have always wanted a second child, congratulations again very happy for you!!!!

  • @bellalydia
    @bellalydia 4 роки тому

    Thanks for charring your personal experience with us. I like you and i like the way you think 😍😘

  • @SweetAily331
    @SweetAily331 4 роки тому

    Dulce thanks for sharing the intimate details of your journey, for helping other women with an informative video. I completely agree with you, your journey and results are a blessing from above. God gives people the knowledge to make such advances in the medical field, and people should know that it is through Him that such things are possible. Your pregnancy is still no doubt a miracle, IVF isn’t a guaranteed journey for a lot of women. You look radiant nena!

  • @reeliciouskitchen603
    @reeliciouskitchen603 4 роки тому +15

    I'm a Muslim and in our belief IVF is allowed as long as your married to that man .. God encourages us to look for ways that work ❤
    God bless you gorgeous ❤

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому +1

      Ivf kills babies. God is not pro abortion. Research nfp .stop taking artificial birth control. Try natural birth control NFP

    • @Catolica.Univeral
      @Catolica.Univeral 4 роки тому

      The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility
      Textbook by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack

    • @reeliciouskitchen603
      @reeliciouskitchen603 4 роки тому

      @@Catolica.Univeral she didn't kill her embryo her fallopian tubes are blocked no sperm goes up to the egg

  • @matlubak2575
    @matlubak2575 4 роки тому

    Oh, my God, I needed this video so so much, we are in Turkey right now going through IVF. I am 37 now, and don't have children, we did IUI and did not work, removed polyp twice, my AMH is low, have cyst and really hope IVF will work. I get this "calm down" comment so many times, as well as "why don't you wait for while" comments. Thanks again for this video

    • @manila4482
      @manila4482 4 роки тому

      Hii where in Turkey are you making this Treatment? I also wanted to do that

  • @tanikaw6100
    @tanikaw6100 3 роки тому +1

    New subscriber, thanks so much for sharing as I am going thru my first IVF procedure very soon gearing toward my #2021 miracle baby. I am completely anxious, nervous, overwhelmed but I know I will get thru this🙂

  • @carlaalbino89
    @carlaalbino89 2 роки тому

    Thanks lady!! I truly enjoyed hearing your side

  • @mhc562
    @mhc562 4 роки тому +1

    *Greatly appreciate this video Dulce. You've motivated me to take the first step and go get checked out by a doctor. Being 28 years old going on 29 & married I know I'm not getting any younger. We've been trying for quite some time now, but to no avail. There's nothing I'd love more in this life than to be a mom. As for all those supposed "Christians" Ha Ha Ha , they tend to be the biggest hypocrites! You continue being yourself and transparent with us please. Love Ya girly. and blessings to you an your growing family.*

  • @miss81SMB
    @miss81SMB 4 роки тому

    I agree alot with what you are saying. It was one nosespray that made my hormons go crazy. All the other medication did nothing to my mood. It may just be a coincident but the only time I got pregnant, was when I went straight from the clinic and on vaccation. The other times I went home and straight to work the next day. I now have a beautiful almost 4 year old boy!
    💜 IVF💜

  • @christinekommavong2840
    @christinekommavong2840 2 роки тому

    Thank you for talking about the HSG procedure and how painful it was! I felt the exact same way and was traumatized

  • @beebeebrittany
    @beebeebrittany 4 роки тому +6

    THIS IS SO TRUE! “Me relaxing isn’t going to open up my Fallopian tubes”
    I’m so happy for you 💕

    • @kayenguyen6975
      @kayenguyen6975 2 роки тому

      I had my OBGYN told me just relax and wait. When she could’ve atleast ordered blood work and referred me to a specialist. But no…. That’s when I knew she doesn’t care. I had to take matters into my own hands. Waited for over a year and a half. Nothing happens. It makes me upset to think that there’s providers out there like her. To them it’s just another pay check.

    • @kayenguyen6975
      @kayenguyen6975 2 роки тому

      And lots of nosey coworkers.. saying “relax” or “it will come” “travel more” “enjoy your youth” not knowing that I’ve traveled more than enough in their lifetime, enjoyed my youth to the fullest, Both me and my husband are financially stable, live in a nice community. So for them to say those things is so naive and ignorant.

  • @TrinhTran-vz6vs
    @TrinhTran-vz6vs 3 роки тому

    Very eloquently conveyed, you did a great job covering the genetic testing and it is more expensive but will save women the heartache of transferring an embryo that could not sustain life in the first place. 👍

  • @taylorvictoria6894
    @taylorvictoria6894 4 роки тому +5

    Dulce, I’m a Christian and I think there’s nothing wrong with IVF. I have family members who are also Christian, and thanks to both God and IVF, they now have a beautiful baby boy, who will be one next month. Pay no mind to those who are spewing hate. I apologize that you had to endure that backlash. Please know that not all Christians subscribe to those mean and hateful views, because I do not think that way. I thank God for you, your life, your family, and for the gift of IVF God was able to bring into your life so that you and your family could have another beautiful baby boy. Again, congratulations and God bless! 💙

    • @reeyynnaa
      @reeyynnaa 4 роки тому +2

      Taylor Victoria 💙amen

  • @NancySanchezYT
    @NancySanchezYT 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey!

  • @darawilson4101
    @darawilson4101 4 роки тому

    I'm glad your using your voice duice... Not everyone who is a Christian is judgemental.... So happy for your Lil family ♥️💕💕💕

  • @katetaumin7327
    @katetaumin7327 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing this. I’m getting ready to start this journey and your perspective is really healthy and help ease my mind now.

  • @denikoatay
    @denikoatay 2 роки тому

    Oh and i am really sorry for the pain the tests caused. I searched high and low for the painless version and found a center that conducted those. Mine was a breeze, completely painless. I am truly sorry for the pain you had to endure 😔

  • @yenicaarmas1266
    @yenicaarmas1266 4 роки тому

    Watching this make me want to cry on the video of the first shot because I’m going thru this and I was just as freak out as you!! Im almost there!

  • @Ohbee3
    @Ohbee3 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your story 💕

  • @Nakkiastarr
    @Nakkiastarr 4 роки тому

    You are a sweet soul. I have been a subbie from day one. I'm so happy for you. 🙂

  • @MsQuantification
    @MsQuantification 2 роки тому

    Your response to the haters… You Go Girl!! Funny how people how claim to preach so much about LOVE can spew so much Negativity. They need to hold a mirror up to see the message they are really preaching.

  • @amylasher87
    @amylasher87 2 роки тому

    thank you so much for your video hit all the right notes much appreciated as we start our journey 😊

  • @komingtriindahsari454
    @komingtriindahsari454 4 роки тому +4

    Thanks Dulce for the video.. I had my first cycle in the beginning of January, but unfortunately it was unsuccessful. We still have one embryo left, and we will do the FET next month. Wish me luck! ❤️

    • @mrsmrs9214
      @mrsmrs9214 4 роки тому

      Koming Tri Indah Sari same! Wishing you luck, we start next month too- BFNs are the worst 😩

  • @estecolitalia
    @estecolitalia 4 роки тому

    Dulce I love u I am soooo happy for u guys!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 thank you for been so honest love it!!!

  • @cwadep92
    @cwadep92 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing, I am starting IVF soon and your video was personable and genuine, which i appreciate.

  • @cherrymac2929
    @cherrymac2929 4 роки тому +3

    Omg you are speaking my soul out..i have a similar journey like you..my ivf is yet to happen. Wish me strength.

    • @mrsmrs9214
      @mrsmrs9214 4 роки тому +1

      Cherry Mac same! Hanging in there with you 💕

    • @cherrymac2929
      @cherrymac2929 4 роки тому

      @@mrsmrs9214 Wishing you luck🤗

  • @DalexVlogs
    @DalexVlogs 4 роки тому

    Omg, thank you for sharing with us... I am planning to have a child soon too, hopefully in the next 1-2 years...

  • @mj8443
    @mj8443 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing, this has brought me some comfort

  • @rebeccareyes6435
    @rebeccareyes6435 4 роки тому +2

    First to like, view! And comment ❤️😘 i was waiting for another IVF video! 🙏🏼

  • @cynnamonpickett-simpson2384

    2:62 you said something so profound and I’m so glad someone said it. Everyone who says this to me I feel like are being subconsciously insensitive or they say this because they don’t have anything else to say. Thank you for making that known.

  • @ThePeetes
    @ThePeetes 4 роки тому +3

    Omg yes I hated hearing to relax & don’t stress.. that’s when I’ll get pregnant, but like you my tubes were blocked and “relaxing” wasn’t the solution 😐 I was actually not stressed!!! Lol

  • @DLM440
    @DLM440 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am about to start my ivf journey. I’m terrified to be honest. I’m terrified for every single possible outcome

  • @laurenm1369
    @laurenm1369 2 роки тому

    I’m super late but thanks for sharing! Yes to the just relax comment. I smile when people say it but roll my eyes secretly. And clomid with IUI sent me down that deep rabbit hole! Omg it was awful! The most terrifying feeling for me. IVF is next but I’m taking a few months off first!

  • @MH-ui4hm
    @MH-ui4hm 4 роки тому

    You made me tear up at the end of your video. You still have 2 more embryos! Congratulations with your pregnancy!

  • @Lifewithlayah97
    @Lifewithlayah97 4 роки тому +1

    So so happy for you I know u been wanted a baby for a long time iam a christin as well and let me just say we're ever or how ever u choose to have a baby is still a blessing no matter what so again congratulations to you and Jessie 🎉♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ we love you guys