Our pregnancy story - Infertility struggles
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- Опубліковано 2 лют 2022
- Hi loves,
This is a little bit of a different video. To be honest it was tough to record this, but I really wanted to make a contribution because when I was going through infertility struggles, these kind of videos helped me out. So, here is our fertility journey. It is a lot of information but if my story can help a few women that is good enough. We personally went through a lot of things these past one and a half year including IVF, but in the end we got pregnant naturally. As mentioned in the video this is my story and every story is different. So, one of the big tips I am giving is to find a really good fertility doctor that can help you out in this process, but more about this in the video.
Much love,
Negin
That’s why you should never ask a couple “when are going to have a baby”
You never know what’s their situation and how much your “simple” question can hurt them.
Ps.Happy for you two. Congratulations 🤗🥳
I agree with you 100%
so many still do this unfortunately.. or not even ask, they just assume and comment pregnant in the comment section.
@@janinnero8435 yeah unfortunately. 😔
Absolutely!
Hi Sara, you are so right. But not only because it can hurt. Just simply it is nobody‘s business. Maybe some couples do not want children which is also absolutely ok and their personal decision. On the contrary, we should be thankful for them as well as one of the biggest problems humanity is facing is overpopulation. In 2050 we won‘t have enough food for everybody (and I‘m not talking about unequal distribution). We will not have enough food per se, unless we come up with some solutions in agriculture etc….so all this pressure society is putting especially on women is absolute non-sense and in the future it might even turn around.
The fact that you had to explain yourself so much in the beginning of the video because there are people that feel the need to be hateful is heartbreaking. Infertility is an issue that really should be adressed more and you should be so proud for sharing your journey❤️ sending you and your growing family good vibes🥰
I’m so sorry your first fertility doctor caused such heartache for you. There is so much misinformation about AMH. It is NOT a direct measurement of how many eggs you have left, it measures something about how your body is effectively preparing eggs each month (something like that). In any case, your AMH number CAN change. I started with a .2, and then focused on reducing stress and being healthier, and brought my number up to .67 in about 3 months. Also, egg quality matters, not just the number of eggs. Yes AMH goes down overall over time as we get older, but we can still have hope even if the number is low. So happy for you and thank you for sharing your journey ❤️❤️❤️
My Amh was 1,93 - (39 year) and I have a beautiful boy 🙏🏼🥰💪🏼
@@marijanam. that’s wonderful!
@@sjhappiness11 thank you 🦋
Exactly!!! There is a lot of misinformation about AMH and even a lot of doctors seem not to fully get it. I had two daughters naturally despite low amh and high fsh. It is possible ❤
That’s so interesting! I didn’t know that. Thanks for sharing your knowledge
Hey Negin! I am 28 years old and the tests showed an AMH level of 0.07. I was desperate, I found out about this by accident and do not have a partner to have a baby now, but would like to do it in the future. You gave me hope that anything is possible! You and my doctor who said everything would work out! Thank you very much! We really need to know more about our women's health as early as possible! Thank you for sharing your story, it will help many women! Happiness to you! Congratulations!
Hi! How did you find out? I wonder if I can ask my family Dr for that test.
@@lupsy54 Anybody can do an AMH test, it is more expensive than the normal blood test though. But what Negin said is right. Normally, as all her doctors said, an AMH level can not rise again once it is down. I was in the situation - much older than Negin though - and that was what I was told……but after hearing this story from Negin I would always also check the Prolactin as there seems to be a correlation, at least in some rare cases…
You will I promise you !!!! If Negin did, you will too.
@@g.s.632 It is really important to give hope, but you should not promise things you can not influence or do not know enough about. I have been there myself and I have not had a Happy End. So be careful with easily said promises. It is much more important to give hope also beyond the dream of a child….women are valuable whether they are mothers or not. We should not forget that! But one should not give up hope before having really tried everything possible!
@@johannabaumgartner you are right however be respectful when you address someone. I am not responsible for what goes on in people’s lives. It is less harmful when it comes from me as a human being rather than a doctor. A lot of doctors either tear people down or give them false promises « you’ll have a baby one way or the other ». So alright, I only wrote three words which you not only didn’t agree with but also made you angry, it wasn’t my goal. I think you should give your mind to the doctors and not me.
Women with Endometriosis has infertility issues! 1 in 10 women worldwide has it! Please share this with others and stop women’s pain!
yep :(
It took my husband and I 10 years and 5 IVF treatments to have our beautiful baby girl! Never thought for a second we would struggle and I’d be diagnosed with a low ovarian reserve. Thankfully we were blessed and so were you.. I pray everybody out there trying gets their dream! X
Hi Negin, I’m a doctor in Ireland. I’m so delighted for you both and wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy. This really is such a brave video to post and will help so many couples, well done ❤️
I also got pregnant after getting the fallopian tubes checked for blockages. It's as if they were cleaned out. Congratulations Negin!
What a blessing. You will look at your baby everyday and consider him/her a miracle. I had no trouble getting pregnant but had 4 miscarriages in a row. My son was my 5th pregnancy in 2 1/2 years. He is 9 years old now and not a day goes by that i don’t thank god for the gift of my child. Congratulations!!!!! I am so happy for you both and thanks for sharing. People have no idea how devastating and hard it is to go through situations like this. Lots of love.
More people than you think know it. But we do not talk about it enough. Once someone like Negin speaks up, you see all these reactions and stories - like yours - being told, for everybody to read. It is so important to speak about these experiences and not make people believe that life is picture perfect or easy.
So so happy for you Negin! Thank you for sharing your story, I'm sure it would help a lot of women who maybe are going through the same situation. Can't wait to see you becoming a mum 🥰
I was 31 and ready to start a family when I found out I had a pituitary microadenoma. After going on the prolactin meds for about 4-5 months, we found out we were preganant. Had a boy. Went back in the prolactin meds a few years later for our second baby. Had a girl. And then we had our 3rd baby without even going on the meds again. Apparently pregnancy hormones sometimes help to kill off the tumor naturally. (And every time you get pregnant, the tumor can shrink due to your pregnancy hormones and then grow again in a different way after pregnancy.) I hope that happens for you too (that the tunor shrinks and totally goes away). Wishing you all the best! You will have beautiful babies 💖
Both of us are so happy for you. We’re following you for several years from France. We were waiting for that great news. Thank you for your words. Congrats Negin and Mau! Can’t wait to follow your new adventures…
Every time I saw a pregnancy story of you I’ll go back and see the announcement video which makes me cry every time . There are some of the things in all of our lives which is not easy to move on or fight for or even to talk to someone else bit you’re an absolute example of a brave woman who fights for what she wants and a great role model for many girls. So Happy for you both
THANK YOU Negin for sharing your story! You are changing right now the lives of women by encouraging them to get tested as well as their partners and have hope! I cried during the video several times because I could really feel your pain, you are a true WARRIOR ! And I am SO SO SO HAPPY for you and Mau!!! And I wish you have a healthy and beautiful baby!!!
Thank you for sharing. I am so happy for you both. I've just gone through another 2 years of failed IVF. It's the end of the journey for us. I can't continue anymore as we have been trying for almost 4 years and I am now over 40. I've kept it all a secret because of how much pressure people add on my husband and I. That's been the worst part of it all. It's been a very hard, sad and heartbreaking journey. I'm glad there are people like yourself who share their journey. I appreciate how difficult it is for you to do so and I'm very grateful. Congratulations, wishing you continuous joy and smooth pregnancy. Much love xx
I’m 40 and 36 weeks. Delivering soon!!! Don’t give up. 🙏🏼
True don’t give up ! My sister thought she was in menopause because she lost her period she is 42 years old but it result that she was pregnant after 4 months she learnt that ! And recently had his baby boy at 43 years old healthy and happy! With faith everything is possible.
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Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰
You’re so brave and loved for doing this! Keep inspiring so many young women out there like you do ❤️
Wow you’re a warrior and went on such an emotional rollercoaster! So incredibly happy for you and Mauritz💛💛 we struggled to get pregnant for 6 (!!) years and naturally got pregnant and we now have 3 amazing children. Wishing you guys all the best!
I cried with you, SO HAPPY FOR YOU guys ! Love you ❤️ Can’t wait to see you as parents ! 😀
Thank you for knowing the importance of sharing your story. There are women out there thinking they’re not normal because of infertility issues and you being someone with so much influence that many women look up to, it is a relief to know they’re not alone. I am beyond happy for you. You and your fiancé deserve this and so much more. Enjoy the journey. Thanks for sharing 💓💓💓
words can't express how happy I am for you. I am grateful that our generation has a platform where you can talk about topics that are still taboo for some reason.Thank you thank you thank you 💌
Congratulations!! Just know that you’re not alone with these feelings. Many many including myself struggled with fertility. It’s common it’s just many don’t talk about it. Know that you have support and you’re not alone in this. Much love and blessings for a healthy pregnancy 🤰🏽🙏🏼💕
We love you Neign, thank you for being so open and sharing ❤
I watched the other video where you celebrated your birthday with your family and told them about your pregnancy. I could see the joy in your mom's eyes & face as she got up to hug you. I wanted to hug you. So many challenges, hard work and disappointments to get to this place where you are today. I'm a retired labor & delivery & pediatric nurse. This pregnancy is so special. Do everything within your power to stay healthy. Eat well, rest, go for walks, meditate on gratitude, etc. Congrats to the two of you.
You really did so much work to understand everything and explain all the hard medical terminology, I’m soooo happy for you
I started to cry when you were crying at the end cause I really felt everything you said about how you didn't want to upset your family and Mau. And I am so so happy for you two ☺️
I'm so so happy for you! You're so brave to speak about this sensitive topic. I guess it is very inspirational for a lot of women who are struggling with getting pregnant.
Oh Negin, I'm in tears over here. Thank you sososo much for sharing, and congratulations, you two!
Congrats Negin, thank you sharing your story. ❤️ This information is so valuable and more conversations should be brought up surrounding this even before trying to conceive. I appreciate you a ton!! i’m so happy and I can’t wait to see the rest of your journey unfold.
Thank you for sharing your story and journey! I went through about 2.5 years of infertility myself, and two cycles of IVF. My issue was a balanced translocation (making most of my eggs not chromosomally normal) however I did not know this for the first 1.5 years, so I was like you and googling everything, educating myself, self diagnosing myself with everything (lol) but yeah it was a tough journey with lots of tears and I know the feeling of a failed IVF/not making it to the transfer is so hard. Thankfully when we did transfer, it stuck and our son is now almost 7 months old and such a blessing! Looking back on my journey I appreciate what I went through as weird as that sounds (however its because I got my happy ending - had it of not ended well I would not be this positive). I do think its made me a better mom than what I would of been without fertility struggles because I have that extra gratitude. I also used to watch a lot of youtube videos on people struggling with this and their journeys, so I am sure you sharing this is helping SO many people. I am so excited for you guys and excited to see you both become parents! Baby is lucky to have you both
Oh Negin, I watched it with the tears in my eyes. I’m so so happy for you! Thank you for sharing dear!
Wow, I’m a fertility nurse working in IVF but a follower for so long! I also just recently found out I have a lower than average AMH and the panic was real. Watching this just helped me so much, knowing that I am not alone and definitely there is still so much hope! So proud of your strength and journey ♥️♥️
Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰
Thank you Negin for sharing with us what you went through, I am so so happy for you and wish you a very healthy journey!
You describes the highs and lows of fertility treatments and the journey so so well
Negin, you’ll be a great mother. I am a bit older than you and very grateful for this video because I decided to go through this check just to know what is my condition and whether it’s time for me to make a decision. Thank you a lot, girl ❤️
Prolactin IS the thing in my case. It influences fertility, the size of the beasts and mood swings! More over it changes so much everyday, depending on how acitve you are, nervous and so on. I am so happy that you are going to be parents soon! Such a journey!
This is such a beautiful, emotional and raw video. Your goodness shines through, Negin. You both deserve this and more! So happy for you.
You’re amazing, thanks for sharing your story and not letting the fertility issues to be a taboo. You’re gonna be a super mom 😍
Sending this to my friend. I hope she finds it useful. Thank you Negin for being so real, raw and honest. I’m positive this video is going to help many many people. ♥️
Thank you so much for sharing your story, Negin. You are a true beauty inside and out. I’m sorry to hear about your difficult journey, but I know you two are going to be the best parents ever and your little one will be so lucky to have you. ❤️❤️❤️
You're amazingly humble for sharing this. Which you shouldn't feel you have to. Glad you are able to.
Doctors are great but there is alt they don't learn and therefore question us for asking the questions. It's shockingly insightful to find a doctor who is open minded who WANTS to put in the work to answer the questions even the ones they do not have answers to. That journey alone is difficult. Thank you again for sharing this.
So happy for u, Negin! Take care of yourself! Everything will be ok❤️
Thank you for sharing this! This topic is definitely one that should be more talked about! Blessing for you, your hubby & of course your little baby!
Congratulations ! Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy. Went through fertility issues after naturally having a baby without a problem 8 years ago and I definitely relate to the fact that the most difficult part in the journey is to keep going and mobilise positivity and hope over and over again every step of the way. I don’t think it’s a fair warning you get from doctors at the beginning of your experience… that is why vidéos like this one are so important. Even if you get bad news in the beginning, make it a habit to cross check Info, seek second third fourth opinions, research the best professionals in your area etc until you find a professional you feel comfortable with to start the process. Good luck to all the couples out there ✨
Thank you Negin for shearing your story!
I’m so happy for you and mau!
❤️ love
I'm so happy for you. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that pain and heartache, but look what you have to look forward to. Congratulations. I hope you document you journey with us!
Thank you sooo much for being so vunerable!!! This is the best news ever! Sending all 3 of you so much love!!!!!!xxxxxxx
Thank you so much for sharing your journey Negin, and the key takeaways at the end are super helpful 🙏🏽 wishing you and Maurits only the best in this beautiful journey to becoming parents 💗
I’m so happy for you. I am also in this struggle now and it’s been very difficult. Thanks for sharing. Praying for you and to you a healthy pregnancy! 🙏🏼❤️
I love this for you guys, you deserve to succeed with this! And to go so public with something so personally, you go girl!!
What an amazing testimony! What a beautiful miracle. Congratulations 🎊!
Couldn't hold back the tears at how happy I am for you and Mau after such a journey
Sending you so much love and I hope you and your partner will soon have happy exciting news ❤️❤️
Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰
Thank you Negin for sharing your story. I've a similar problem and you gave me hope. I wish you all the best.
Oh I’m just crying and I’m sooooo genuinely happy for you ❤️❤️ so sorry you went through so much but your baby will be so loved by you, Mau and your families. Can’t wait for this next exciting chapter of your life and thank you for educating us and speaking up about this
Thank you for helping. I am so happy for you, you truly are being blessed with a miracle x
So happy for you and Mau ❤️ and I think it’s amazing to bring awareness to fertility issues
Cried with you during this video ❤ I'm sorry that you and Mau and your loved ones all had to go through this much pain, but I'm soooo glad you got what you always wanted! Hopefully the worst is over and this will all just be a small moment in the scheme of things 💝
Months before I got pregnant I took a test and had a light line. My husband and I were so excited. We tested the next three days expecting it to get darker and it never did- it disappeared. It was heartbreaking even though we wanted to actually “try” later that year. I’m so happy that your test was accurate the first time and that it didn’t fail you ❤️
Congrats !!!! I’ve been following you on UA-cam for years and I’ve been dying for the day you two would have a baby! God is good. God bless you guys always and even more through your pregnancy journey ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing. Currently one year and one month into my own journey. It helps to know there are others out there. Much love xx
I’m so happy for you Negin and Maurits! ❤️
Thank you for sharing something so personal. Your story will help a lot of us. You are beautiful and your family is and will be incredible! 😊
Thank you for sharing this Negin, it was really helpful. Wishing you the absolute best with your pregnancy, congratulations!
Such a brave woman 🌷 Proud of you since day one 🧜♀️
Negin, I am so happy for you! Thank you so much for sharing. Was crying with you during this video. Send you love and best wishes!
So happy for you guys! I truly believe you two are gonna be amazing parents ❤️
Congratulations! I'm sure you and Mau will give this baby a happiest life
Tears for your pain and your joy. Very courageous lady!!
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. I'm not trying for kids yet, but definitely want some in the future and this gave me a lot of insight ❤excited for you and Mau and your family, God Bless you all!
Dear Negin,
Thank you for sharing your story… I cried so much being sad and being happy. Thank you for being so brave to share and I know it’s all gonna be okay! I’m happy that you always have your family and Mau around and soon your little baby 💛 just a big gratitude for sharing your journey. I’ve followed you for 7 years now and always considered you as a close person to me… so now I’m just happy
Thank you for sharing your story Negin. You guys are going to be wonderful parents. All the best to you and stay positive! So happy for you two 💙💜
Negin, there were moments where you were speaking through your experience with the doctors/hormone results and the MRI among other things where I listened with my hand over my face, because it was scarily close in similarity and felt mirrored to my current experience. Yet, I have learnt many things from this video and it was refreshing to openly discuss fertility, I cried with you and listened to you. Publishing this video was valiant of you, courageous of you and human of you. Congratulations to your little family🤍✨
Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰
Negin, I have been following you for some years already and watch your videos religiously. In one of your videos you said you were going through something and you didn’t feel comfortable sharing about it yet, i was super sad because your voice broke and you appeared very emotional. I somehow thought it was related to fertility and so when I learned you were pregnant, I tear up of happiness. I love you and your little family, you and Mau seem very kind hearted, super loving, kind, and super smart, I am extremely happy for you two and cannot wait to meet your little angel, you look gorgeous pregnant 😍 thank you for opening up and sharing your story with us, there is definitely a lot to learn from your experience. You are so brave Negin 💪🏼
Thank you so much. Important in so many ways.... for women, for men, for doctors- for all of us. I wish you and your family all the best.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us and being so transparent about it. I'm so happy for you and Mau and I wish all goes well and you'll become parents soon ❤️
You are so strong, you wonderfully designed woman! Such a strong video! Such a strong message! May you and you little one be healthy and safe 🙏🙌 be blessed 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Negin, I am so happy for you and everyhing went well for you in the end despite all the unknown! Congrats to your new family and thank you so much for sharing this difficult journey.
Omg I’m soo happy for you. This made me cry. I’m happy it finally worked for you x well done for being consistent x
Omg, i cant stop crying 😭 i am living the same situation with my fertility since 2018 :( not my turn yet but so so so happy for you ❤️ thank you for sharing your story! for all those who do not live the same situation or do not have fertility issues, please know that they do exist and its so so so hard to deal with. Sending hugs ❤️
Such a brave gesture of you to share your infertility story dear Negin. It gives hope to those still struggling which is my case, for 2 years now. I appreciate you giving out the takeaways at the end, definitely listening to your own voice and doing your own search is a MUST. Enjoy your pregnancy and wish you a healthy and beautiful baby 😘
Being women, I feel like with all our hormones, stress impacts us in such an awful way. It does terrible things to our mind and physical body. So happy for you congratulations and God Bless❤️❤️
Why am I crying 20 seconds into the video? So happy for you and Mau and thank you for sharing this intimate journey with us ❤
Sweetie, do you need help? I could refer you to the great spell caster who helped me with my fertility issues🥰
Have a blessed and safe pregnancy !! Soo happy for you !!
made it till the end! :) I'm very happy for you both. Sending you lots of love and great vibes so you can continue having an awesome and safe pregnancy!
This video was very well done. I didn’t expect to watch until the end. I am so happy for you. I had a miscarriage in October and have really struggles with my emotions and mental state since. TTC is a very very stressful overwhelming process I have found. Thank you for the information in this video.
So happy it finally happened for you! You’re both going to be amazing parents 🤍🤍🤍
Wauw wat ontzettend heftig, echt heel knap dat je je verhaal hebt gedeeld! Ik denk dat je een hoop vrouwen hiermee helpt. Ik wens je alle gezondheid en geluk toe ❤️
You are such a beautiful person Negin, and I’m sure that you are going to be a great mom ♥️ thank you for sharing you story 🥰
Crying with you Negin. Thank you for sharing your story.
So happy for you Negin and Maurits, thank you for sharing your story ❤️
You made my day literally :)
Me and partner are going through the same experience and has been really difficult specially for me to cope with all these bad feelings and move on with my life at the same time…
I also feel like that we all suffer in silence and doesn’t help at all as we consider this subject very private and confidential…maybe we feel embarrassed talking about this with other people as well…anyway my prolactin is also higher than normal and thanks to you today I sent an email to my doctor to ask about this…who knows :)
I think the hardest part of this journey is to stay positive and believe that is gonna happen but the uncertainty sometimes takes over with the few negative pregnancy tests…
I wish all the girls in the world good luck if you are trying to conceive or experiencing the infertility journey!
And one day i hope I can be pregnant too ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this with us and please make another video about that!
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, I’m so happy for you and pray it’s my turn soon. Thank you for all this info and going into depth with your struggles. I realized that in this journey it doesn’t take a long time to start feeling the stress,pressure and disappointment.
Every month hurts. Every negative test hurts. 😢
Thank you for making this video ❤️ I’m sure it will help a lot of people!
As an expat living in the the Netherlands who went through fertility treatment in Italy in the past. with no result and very dehumanizing treat to women who are going through this problems, have to said the fertility clinic here for me was amazing!
now finally expecting my first baby with a barely invasive treatments, all doctors, and health workers where super friendly and kind. So I just have good words for this part of health care here (not to mention the whole process was paid for my basic insurance) so happy for u finally having ur first baby after all the stress u suffer :)
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so glad you found that doctor in Belgium. I started crying when you took the test and showed M. Congratulations and god bless you ❤️❤️
Super mooi verteld Negin en heel erg bedankt om te delen! We hebben zelf ook 1,5 jaar moeten proberen en zijn nu ook plots natuurlijk zwanger. Ik herken me heel hard in jouw verhaal, emoties en traject want onze levens verliepen de laatste 2 jaar heel gelijkaardig. Zo blij voor jullie want jij & Mau gaan fantastische ouders worden! 😘
Thank you so much for your story! You are so brave and I am just beyond happy and you are going to be a great mother ❤️
I'm so happy for you! You have given me so much hope! ❤️
Negin, thank you so much for being strong and sharing your story ❤️ you are just amazing!
so brave!!! thank you for sharing! wishing all the best for you and your family in this new adventure! congratulations!
Ik ben zó blij voor jullie Negin & Maurits ❤️❤️ A true miracle baby!!! You guys will be the best parents! Sending you so much love, thank you for sharing your story 💕