@@Da2012Na Had to come back and agree with you, after I just ended things permanently, with the 2nd guy, God actually picked to be my FOREVER. I’m the only person I know this far that God picked 2 Cancer males, for me to be with until death do us part, but when people go from being an Angel to a demon, and is resistant towards getting any help, at one point, and start to show total disrespect of your feelings, I refuse to cater to toxicity to keep a man. I have never dealt with this type of behavior from any other zodiac sign of man. Do so much to get you, then start to treat you in the most disrespectful ways. Which, is why, I look forward to a new beginning with someone who I pray never ends up acting like the 2 Cancer males, God sent into my life. They ruined their own blessings and they both will have to answer to God for that. They repelled true love in the end, even though it was given from my pure heart and soul to them. It is like there’s this dark cloud that they don’t want to disassociate themselves completely from being under. Nonetheless, there’s still good guys out there, so I tell anyone who has gone through relationships or marriage that have had to come to an end for whatever reason, please DON’T EVER GIVE UP ON LOVE ❤️
cancer partner for 19 years. I give him time but then after a few days I start to gently address it. Eventually he'll either get in touch with his therapist, or figure himself out and come back to the world. I'm a Sag so very cerebral and honest. He deals with that pretty well. We grow together and take on self-development to become grown ups. We're in our 50's so it would be interesting if some of these zodiac things would get into how DEVELOPMENT operates on the traits. I think there are immature, young, and mature versions of each sign.
I dated cancer man (I am leo woman) and I was on the bottom of his priorities. His mommy has very, very important part in his life. Mommy first. Also he is very closed off, muddy, driven by his temporary emotions, worried, sad, without initiative, unsecure. Of course this is not just because of his zodiac sign but in general cancers don't fit me males or females.
I’m a cancer man. I’d say a lot also has to do with personality and experience. For example I’ve never held on or had trouble burning bridges w exes. Think I learned it initially and kept the policy. My main agreements are; 1) Sulky/mood is our worst quality and yes allow space and understand we can tenfold positive emotions your way too 2) we absolutely cherish our mothers 3) we are providers and we want peace but are very strong and fight very hard when backs against wall 4) we aren’t easy to match to zodiac characteristics because we are adaptive and introspective. I.e. we feel experiences and remember them so we can can adjust over time too
I apologize in advance for this dissertation... 🗯️ I agree with you 💯. I'm a Libra with a lot of water placements in my birth chart and my best friend (met 37 years ago) and the love of my life; is extremely hard to read. Tbh, I've learned to give him space,as, I need my space as well; which is healthy as far as I'm concerned. I try not to take him personally; especially if I know nothing bad has happened. Let's face it; we're all a little Moody, snarky with a tendency to be closed off. Too what degree varies from person to person, but yes, cancers are very stoic, private & take a while to warm up. They feel very deeply, so, they are prone to mood swings and are very guarded, but you will not find a more reliable friend, nurturer,protector & support person than a cancerian. I am struggling with his inability to tell me how he feels. Though he shows me in many ways; through acts of service and making sure "I'm good"... I'm typing this as I wait for him to have a PET Scan... 🥺🙏🤦♀️( If you're reading this; please send up 🙏 for my crabby patty. . USMC Veteran, an all around great man with the biggest heart and soul I have ever met. 😭) Moments like these; make me struggle with his inability to verbally express how he feels about me bc it's nice to hear. I am terrified right now. All I have been doing since his CT SCAN results, which indicated the need for a PET SCAN; is pray and cry myself to sleep. I know he loves and cares for me through his kind gestures, protective nature & different little things he does that actually have a lot of meaning behind them; when dealing with a cancerian. I don't know how to explain to him why it's important to me to hear him say how he feels without him taking it the wrong way bc as a Libra sun; I know I am pretty straight forward & don't sugar coat, but I'm not hurtful or rude. Just straight to the point no chasers. {Work in progress}.. Since you are a cancerian; can you give me advice on how to approach this so he will understand that I appreciate and see his love in all he does, but I need to hear it from his lips? It's not a matter of needing validation or that I doubt his feelings; it's just my love language as a human being period? I have tried and he looks legitimately confused when I bring it up; like it should be obvious. Which it is but that doesn't have anything to do with it. I know he grew up fast and pretty much took care of himself from 12 on and bc his mother worked a lot, his father passed away and his closest sibling, is 10 years older than him. So he had to learn to self-sooth, deal with his emotions on his own & spent a lot of time by himself and as his older brother stayed a few weeks ago; he was enslaved by his mother. Until her passing last year. Great family and a good mother,as they were close, but I have come to believe that she depended a lot on him. More so than a typical mother son relationship. This health scare has me in my feelings and every time I try to bring anything up I start sobbing bc my heart is so heavy... Let's love who we love with everything we have bc tomorrow isn't promised & if we lost our crabby patty; those traits we bish about would become irrelevant and minute in comparison. So let's not bash one another. Better yet, let's help each other learn from the other. We're all human and a product of our own life experiences. Give Grace as much as possible. Stay safe and God Bless whoever got this far. 🫶🙏🫂
I am a Scorpio and dated two Cancer men and probably will not date another one. Chemistry is off the charts but they are emotionally needy and mentally draining. They both wanted to control every aspect of my time. If you are not with them they want justification that you still put them as high priority. After all the love bombing you’ll eventually see their dark traits. Say you are honest and give them the truth on how you feel in a kind way or they take offense to something they will say or do something to try to hurt your feelings. They are highly sensitive and childish as both men were 9 years older than me. I am pretty logical honest and empathetic so I had to handle them both with kid gloves. I ended both because of red flags and it had a lot to do with their tendency to say or do things because they are insecure and sensitive. Then they try to justify their behavior and think it’s okay because…oh I had an insecure moment. In a nutshell if you are dating a Cancer Man check their moon sign and other placements. For now I don’t have the patience or interest in dating a Cancer Man.
Wow you have described my cancerian to a t,but luckily I'm an intuitive and dedicated scorpio so I can put up with all his faults even if we argue quite a bit,but I do appreciate him because I've had so many disappointments from people and he's the one for me even if at first he was confusing with his moods and isolation and closing up but I've learned to ride the wave,ha ha,but his worth it.
I just met a cancer man a few days ago we've been talking and everything out of his mouth was a lie I'm a Gemini I'm not familiar with this sign at all but so far he is very clingy he keeps calling me every minute and I've caught him in about six lies so far in a matter of today would be day four and I'm about to block him very weird energy but aside from that he talks very sweet started calling me baby within 2 days😂 a little clingy for me and I never meet this sign I just came to listen to this😂😂😂
I'm a cancer woman, and boy am I tired of Gemini friendships. I want to try to date a cancer man though or at least be friends with one to see how that goes
Well I'm Cancerian male. Many things you have correct. Although I don't cling to people who have hurt me. I just want them out of my life and ignore them like they never existed. They may try to get back in to my favour but it never works. I suppose that is where my emotional manipulation comes into play. I make them think I forgive them but I haven't really. If they contact me wanting to be forgiven and back in my life I trick them to thinking there is a chance maybe.
That is so toxic to do that to people, offering false hope lol. Shame on you. Says the Aquarius female, who let toxic people overstay their welcome in life until shit blows up in our face and our life is completely sabotaged to where we are like my exes can go kick rocks barefoot and offer themselves up to Satan for all i fucking care lol
Aquarius female with cancer man 4 years. Haven't seen many Aquarius comments yet. If and aquas see this.... Listen. Cancer men believe the world revolves around them. The charm you see st first quickly turns into an absolute hatred for their confidence. They can't accept attention not being on them selves. It's always me me me They will suck the energy out of any or everyone with no thought about it. Love my cancer but they need a reality check. Who better to do it than an Aquarius ♒️
I've seen this connection and the female (Aquarius) gave at least 10 years of her life to a Gem-Cancer guy- paying bills, getting cheated on, just putting up with way too much!! She still wanted to marry him after all of that, but he didn't marry her. She supposedly went to therapy after that relationship. Sad..
as a leo loving a cancer man, i got to know these things about them, 1) they love it when you chase them. It gives them that " i am the queen bee here " vibe, and they enjoy it too much. 2) they are liers. Yes, they 100% are. They lie if you confront them, they lie if they feel bore just to create drama, they lie just because they wanna avoid situation. I mean bruh, they lie with straight face, without any guilt. 3) great victim card holders. You have to say sorry if you are wrong, you have to say sorry even if you are not wrong. Practice sorry before dating them. 4) they have entire ocean in their eyes. If you even try to raise your voice their eyes will be filled with tears first. At this point, you will be kicking yourself in your mind. 5) they are the most unpredictable sign of zodiac, you will not know till the last moment that they are planning your cascade. They can be the most horrible cheaters if they want to. Still i love my crab baby. He is ultra cute, emo, needy man i have ever seen in my life. If you are a cat person (which i am) and study a lot about their mood swing and behaviour, then you can easily handle a cancer man. Just be ready for some paw throwing - hissing - bitting - ignoring - ghosting and gas lighting ; their purrs will heal you anyway.
1.First point is absolutely wrong at least for me. I don't feel the need to be part of a "team" or be part of the "unit". I actually like to be alone, because I feel free and I can do w/e I want to. 2..The "mother part" is true, but it depends to what degree. My mother took a huge role in my life and still does. She raised me and my sister basically alone, while my father was gambling his ass off while drinking. Ofc I will respect that woman for what she sacrificed for us. Point is she is a Gemini. And Cancers and Gemini do not mesh. In fact my last girlfriend was Gemini and the arguments were just unbearable. At some point my mother got so dominant and so pushy to be "her way" that it went out of control. Gemini in general can't get it through their thick skulls that it's not gonna be always their way. So I am letting my mother know, no matter how much she sulks in the corner or pretends she doesn't want to communicate with me that I am a grown ass man and I can make independent decisions without her interfering every five seconds. So this part is true, but it's up to individuals to accept that your mom will always be a part of your life, as it becomes a weakness when you allow her to interfere in your life constantly. 3. Yes we are emotional, but still it depends. Like the dude said there are two options: either cry like a baby or man-up and pretend it didn't bother you even if it did. I am the second one. I put up a front I take it and then I make a "mental note" like : "this person is not ok - avoid and ignore". I don't give second chances, if you show me disrespect, you are never coming back, no matter how hard you try or what happens. If you are socially intelligent person you would get the signal that I do not like you by simply talking super cold and reserved to you. We know we are sensitive, some of us are aware of it, just like me. But to be honest, the more I suppress it - the better I feel. People's shit should not bother me that much. 4.True, sometimes I don't know how to express things that bother me. It's just the voice in the back of my head telling me: "They won't understand leave it". Which opens the the door for the previous point about the emotions and the front. 5. Yes I want a partner that nurtures and respects me, but not one that "mothers" me. As I said it depends on individuals, but I don't want to compare my mom with my wife/gf etc. I am a traditionalist (yes it maybe boring in modern times, but I think we need "traditional" more than ever in these confusing times). Home and family values will always be a dream and a priority. Jealousy is definitely part of me, even towards close friends, however for me personally after the "Gemini girl" I learned to control it and it passes fast. And I like jealous girls. It just resonates good with me since I am a very patient man and I can explain how things are in reality. 6. ABSOLUTELY WRONG for me. I don't know about others. I don't talk to ex's. I don't talk to people that do not respect me as I said previously. I never learned to forgive to people who deeply hurt or disrespected me. Maybe that's the bad thing, but at least it is safer "for the current situation". 7. True, but is connected to the sensitivity. As I said it - it's about suppression. For example yesterday I caught myself being "moody" towards an individual. After 30 minutes I asked myself "Wtf man, why did you behave like that, it was stupid and for no reason". As I said : it's about awareness. Yes - crabs have claws and they snap with them. But we are all humans, don't we all have emotions, no matter the sign? The manipulative part is true, but for me it was in my younger years. Now I don't really bother to manipulate people to get what I want. It's part of the maturing process, just don't care really. In summary I think we Cancer-men are kind of shits. Especially as youngsters. I had Cancer-men friends as well. Some of them unbearable when we were kids. Even tho I think we are very smart (at times even witty) and our intuition works really strongly even as kids. I remember I was a shy, but very smart and aware kid and very trustworthy as well. The other mothers were always allowing my friends to go out as soon as they heard they are with me, because in general I think we are super reasonable and intelligent people. But as a grown up I am starting to calibrate a little bit easier towards society, even tho my inner world will always be very strong and speaking loudly in my head. Definitely we are learners. We learn and adapt fast. Just like the water. Sometimes complaining too much, even I catch myself ranting sometimes after a long period of silence, but as I said - it's about awareness. Overall if you think you can handle moods and jealousy and you address them to the Cancer in order to make it clear that there's nothing to worry about, you would win in return a loyal, very nurturing partner, romantic, sometimes unable to express his feelings, who would dream to grow a good, big and healthy family with you and will always put them first before anything else.
As a cancer man this is so true but my dealbreakers are with Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini and sometimes even Aquarius women! They never understand how we feel and it always leads to an argument or misunderstanding in the relationship 😂
I’m an Aries woman and a true Christian, and I would never ever talk speak like that towards a broad sign of zodiac women. Even after I had a terrible ending experience with one Cancer man, I still chose to allow myself to fall in love with another one. I didn’t cancel all Cancer men because of such. However, that man’s behavior over time started to become just toxic as the 1st cancer man behavior. I don’t go into any relationship with a person based upon preconceived ideas and never will. Both of the Cancer men I thought I was destined to be with FOREVER, where in their 40’s when I met them and they each had a long history of failed relationships, due to being unevolved, and emotionally immature. I still offered both of them true genuine love and support, but they did things so illogical and what I consider to be emotionally manipulative and wanting to be controlling, for me to go along with everything they said and wanted or else, or else they would try and make me feel like the bad guy. That everybody does me wrong, victim mentality, I had enough of. However, I a, thankful that I eventually through the grace of God was able to leave from these men and have cut off all physical contact with them. Can’t be in a marriage till death due is part, when I’m dealing with toxicity from off a man that gradually gets worse never better. Neither of these men wanted to get any therapy. One claimed to have a relationship with God, but actions weren’t consistent with such. I began to encounter what I can only call as “true narcissistic behavior” from both of these 2 Cancer men. Relationships aren’t 100% easy, neither are marriages. It’s up to both parties to put in mutual effort, engage in mutual consistent communication, engage in mutual respect, and have mutual love and mutual understanding of each other for a true partnership to evolve and be long-lasting. Oh, and to Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, and Aquarius women (my sister is actually anAquarius), I love ❤️ you all. Peace ✌🏼
Gemini women are very loving so for a Cancer Man to say that, is wrong. How are you treating the Gemini woman? How are you making her feel? Is it always about your feelings as a Cancer man? You can't have a stable relationship or marriage if you're overly attached to toxic family
As a Virgo woman, intuitive, good communication,Introvert/Extrovert harmony hardworking,I go by intuition of the energy that’s given. I dated a cancer man he was nice guy , one month of dating recently,I separate myself from him so he can figure out his life , I’ve learned he can be indirect Sarcastically ,He still attached to his toxic past life ,Mixed emotions , He still try to contact me, I don’t answer or waste time,I have low tolerance for Confused men..cancers don’t well fit with Virgos ..The end !
I believe it. I am a Virgo also and I could pick up on my Cancer lies and he didn’t give a crap! I had to let go! They also like to entertain more than one person.
This is an awesome video!! I am new to your channel and will be subscribing. I am a sagittarius dating cancer, and it is good to know these traits. Especially the moodiness. Knowing that it's the complete opposite of me. I am a very optimistic woman. Well, thank you for this video. i learned so much.
Certainly observed the pattern of odd aspect to the relationship with the mother and the rapid mood changes in cancer prominent dating partners before. As a fire/air heavy person who is very intellectually wired, I struggled with understanding it, and ultimately, things didn't work out.
@@ireneyoomikim it's awful. There's a book called When He's Married to His Mother. Its in red font by a psychologist. It can help women too if used properly. It's helped my boyfriend David detach himself healthy from his mother. Also he seen how much love his mother showed to my daughters and seen that his Taurus mother was using the cat to control him. All this month and since November,she's tried everything under the sun to get him to move back to her one bedroom house and he's seeing it all now. He's heartbroken that she has lied all these years about her love for her son. He was shocked when she told him, "if you go with her,no more money for you,Peter". She calls him Peter. That's why he's so confused by his identity. I call him by his name. It helps to get him to behave in a normal manner.
I know a cancer. I think very sensitive pitty pot withdrawals a lot. Not expressive then is. Ihes so up and down. He's insecure I think alot and I'm not used to non confident man. I think his fam messed him up. He would be loving but I always see inside he's scared but I'm intuitive.. but even being intuitive u cant just stay around just cuz u know what they feel inside. U need action and not just promises that aren't followed thru upon. What's funny to is I didn't pursue him.. I think aries is more confident. I'm an aries and matched better with . But upbringing matters I think so too. Cuz cancers supposed to be loving. I know a cancer who burns lots of bridges. Cuz he's a runner.
I’ve been dealing with Cancers my entire life and I’m a Sagg. The universe is against us. Perfect at the beginning but never ends well for us. Love hate relationship.
It's "Water and Fire." There's always gonna a "forcing" of some sort in this connection because the energis don't match. Either of the parties will have to give up too much of themselves just to be happy...
I met a cancer.. he’s horrible. A horrible communicator, horrible liar, selfish (regarding time) too much drama.. he has a mean spirit.. I can’t do it.. I’m a Gemini. BTW, he said he didn’t have parents at all, never did..
Can't stand how everyone makes every Cancer a "prroduct" of their mother. I am a Cancer and I couldn't care less what my mother thinks about my likes or dislikes. Stop the sterotyping please.
It's because the mothers love or no love for her Cancer son or daughter affects the Cancer man or woman and their behaviors and their trust or lack of trust and their respect or no respect for a woman or man, or their relationship problems with women or men. Cancer similar to Leo can be very childish. They behave this way because they refuse to break the past attachments with family and friends.
Real friends don't leave Cancer behind. But when they do, it's because they see the instability and insecurities and their moods and refuse to be treated badly. Or if Cancer is using someone, people will know it by how they act.
Let me balance out my first comment. Also the Cancer who has been abandoned by their Father really hurts them inside and if the Cancer man doesn't let go of his or her past issues with the Father as well, he or she will use emotions and sabotage his or her own life which can cause Cancer in the body and show the Cancer is needing to make peace with their past to heal from the Cancer.
I’m the same, but my Ma had lots of influence on me and my older brother. However, we made our own decisions. Being a Capricorn, she really resented not being able to country’s. I’m glad she taught us very well.
Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Virgo, Aries, Capricorn, Gemini, Aquarius not compatible with cancer Taurus, Pisces and Libra, yes I believe Taurus the most Who am I forgetting?
I'm a Sag female and was in a relationship with a Cancer man for over 20 years. I asked him to go, and he didn't want to leave. So, these relationships, just like any other relationships, can work. Too much emphasis placed on zodiac signs. People are people, and they can make it work if they choose to. Yes, I left him for another Cancer man!
I just started dating a cancer man (I am a pisces woman) and so far we mesh so well together.. I feel like I won the jackpot lol. 🥰
Yeah right.😂..wish u luck
Exactly😂
Love 💣
Exactly cancer males are indeed jackot for women.
I’m a Pisces woman with cancer man for 17 years he always makes sure we’re fed and watered 😂 he’s very sensitive and can read my mind 🦀 💕
How sweet 😍
Never again! Narcissistic, lies, gaslighting, manipulative and MEAN when angry.
Run 🏃
I finally feel more myself after some time to heal 🙏
100% WORST EVER
So sorry to hear about what happened to you. I pray 🙏 that you get all of the blessed healing that your heart ❤ truly deserves.
this iis because he is a narc!!
@@Da2012Na Had to come back and agree with you, after I just ended things permanently, with the 2nd guy, God actually picked to be my FOREVER. I’m the only person I know this far that God picked 2 Cancer males, for me to be with until death do us part, but when people go from being an Angel to a demon, and is resistant towards getting any help, at one point, and start to show total disrespect of your feelings, I refuse to cater to toxicity to keep a man. I have never dealt with this type of behavior from any other zodiac sign of man. Do so much to get you, then start to treat you in the most disrespectful ways. Which, is why, I look forward to a new beginning with someone who I pray never ends up acting like the 2 Cancer males, God sent into my life. They ruined their own blessings and they both will have to answer to God for that. They repelled true love in the end, even though it was given from my pure heart and soul to them. It is like there’s this dark cloud that they don’t want to disassociate themselves completely from being under. Nonetheless, there’s still good guys out there, so I tell anyone who has gone through relationships or marriage that have had to come to an end for whatever reason, please DON’T EVER GIVE UP ON LOVE ❤️
You got a bad apple. I had an Aries like that.
You’re so spot on I’ve spent 14 yrs with a cancer man ! TY for sharing this 💕
cancer partner for 19 years. I give him time but then after a few days I start to gently address it. Eventually he'll either get in touch with his therapist, or figure himself out and come back to the world. I'm a Sag so very cerebral and honest. He deals with that pretty well. We grow together and take on self-development to become grown ups. We're in our 50's so it would be interesting if some of these zodiac things would get into how DEVELOPMENT operates on the traits. I think there are immature, young, and mature versions of each sign.
I dated cancer man (I am leo woman) and I was on the bottom of his priorities. His mommy has very, very important part in his life. Mommy first. Also he is very closed off, muddy, driven by his temporary emotions, worried, sad, without initiative, unsecure. Of course this is not just because of his zodiac sign but in general cancers don't fit me males or females.
The fire signs and the water signs are often not compatible.
You described my reality to a T! Only difference is I’m an air sign
I agree! Us cancers and Leos are not a match
Leo’s have huge egos so the minute something isn’t about them they make a big fuss about it 😂
Man, I look forward to seeing your channel grow! The quality of your insights is outstanding! Keep up the great work! 🎉
Thanks so much. That’s mad nice and motivating to hear
I’m a cancer man. I’d say a lot also has to do with personality and experience.
For example I’ve never held on or had trouble burning bridges w exes. Think I learned it initially and kept the policy.
My main agreements are;
1) Sulky/mood is our worst quality and yes allow space and understand we can tenfold positive emotions your way too
2) we absolutely cherish our mothers
3) we are providers and we want peace but are very strong and fight very hard when backs against wall
4) we aren’t easy to match to zodiac characteristics because we are adaptive and introspective. I.e. we feel experiences and remember them so we can can adjust over time too
I apologize in advance for this dissertation... 🗯️
I agree with you 💯. I'm a Libra with a lot of water placements in my birth chart and my best friend (met 37 years ago) and the love of my life; is extremely hard to read. Tbh, I've learned to give him space,as, I need my space as well; which is healthy as far as I'm concerned. I try not to take him personally; especially if I know nothing bad has happened. Let's face it; we're all a little Moody, snarky with a tendency to be closed off. Too what degree varies from person to person, but yes, cancers are very stoic, private & take a while to warm up. They feel very deeply, so, they are prone to mood swings and are very guarded, but you will not find a more reliable friend, nurturer,protector & support person than a cancerian. I am struggling with his inability to tell me how he feels. Though he shows me in many ways; through acts of service and making sure "I'm good"... I'm typing this as I wait for him to have a PET Scan... 🥺🙏🤦♀️( If you're reading this; please send up 🙏 for my crabby patty. . USMC Veteran, an all around great man with the biggest heart and soul I have ever met. 😭)
Moments like these; make me struggle with his inability to verbally express how he feels about me bc it's nice to hear. I am terrified right now. All I have been doing since his CT SCAN results, which indicated the need for a PET SCAN; is pray and cry myself to sleep. I know he loves and cares for me through his kind gestures, protective nature & different little things he does that actually have a lot of meaning behind them; when dealing with a cancerian. I don't know how to explain to him why it's important to me to hear him say how he feels without him taking it the wrong way bc as a Libra sun; I know I am pretty straight forward & don't sugar coat, but I'm not hurtful or rude. Just straight to the point no chasers. {Work in progress}..
Since you are a cancerian; can you give me advice on how to approach this so he will understand that I appreciate and see his love in all he does, but I need to hear it from his lips? It's not a matter of needing validation or that I doubt his feelings; it's just my love language as a human being period? I have tried and he looks legitimately confused when I bring it up; like it should be obvious. Which it is but that doesn't have anything to do with it. I know he grew up fast and pretty much took care of himself from 12 on and bc his mother worked a lot, his father passed away and his closest sibling, is 10 years older than him. So he had to learn to self-sooth, deal with his emotions on his own & spent a lot of time by himself and as his older brother stayed a few weeks ago; he was enslaved by his mother. Until her passing last year. Great family and a good mother,as they were close, but I have come to believe that she depended a lot on him. More so than a typical mother son relationship.
This health scare has me in my feelings and every time I try to bring anything up I start sobbing bc my heart is so heavy... Let's love who we love with everything we have bc tomorrow isn't promised & if we lost our crabby patty; those traits we bish about would become irrelevant and minute in comparison. So let's not bash one another. Better yet, let's help each other learn from the other. We're all human and a product of our own life experiences. Give Grace as much as possible. Stay safe and God Bless whoever got this far. 🫶🙏🫂
I just started dating a cancer ♋️ I’m a Scorpio ♏️ I’m loving it
You should make a video on scorpio Woman Dating a cancer man.
I am a Scorpio and dated two Cancer men and probably will not date another one. Chemistry is off the charts but they are emotionally needy and mentally draining. They both wanted to control every aspect of my time. If you are not with them they want justification that you still put them as high priority. After all the love bombing you’ll eventually see their dark traits. Say you are honest and give them the truth on how you feel in a kind way or they take offense to something they will say or do something to try to hurt your feelings. They are highly sensitive and childish as both men were 9 years older than me. I am pretty logical honest and empathetic so I had to handle them both with kid gloves. I ended both because of red flags and it had a lot to do with their tendency to say or do things because they are insecure and sensitive. Then they try to justify their behavior and think it’s okay because…oh I had an insecure moment. In a nutshell if you are dating a Cancer Man check their moon sign and other placements. For now I don’t have the patience or interest in dating a Cancer Man.
Wow you have described my cancerian to a t,but luckily I'm an intuitive and dedicated scorpio so I can put up with all his faults even if we argue quite a bit,but I do appreciate him because I've had so many disappointments from people and he's the one for me even if at first he was confusing with his moods and isolation and closing up but I've learned to ride the wave,ha ha,but his worth it.
Cancers and Scorpios get along very well.
Soul mates❤
I just met a cancer man a few days ago we've been talking and everything out of his mouth was a lie I'm a Gemini I'm not familiar with this sign at all but so far he is very clingy he keeps calling me every minute and I've caught him in about six lies so far in a matter of today would be day four and I'm about to block him very weird energy but aside from that he talks very sweet started calling me baby within 2 days😂 a little clingy for me and I never meet this sign I just came to listen to this😂😂😂
Good luck! Relationships are tough-cancers are great, that def seems a bit strong and red flag-ish though!
Maybe you just got worldly cancer, move on for the next one. 😅
Love bombing beware
I'm a cancer woman, and boy am I tired of Gemini friendships. I want to try to date a cancer man though or at least be friends with one to see how that goes
Cancers and Geminis just don’t get along as couples or siblings.
Well I'm Cancerian male. Many things you have correct. Although I don't cling to people who have hurt me. I just want them out of my life and ignore them like they never existed. They may try to get back in to my favour but it never works. I suppose that is where my emotional manipulation comes into play. I make them think I forgive them but I haven't really. If they contact me wanting to be forgiven and back in my life I trick them to thinking there is a chance maybe.
That is so toxic to do that to people, offering false hope lol. Shame on you. Says the Aquarius female, who let toxic people overstay their welcome in life until shit blows up in our face and our life is completely sabotaged to where we are like my exes can go kick rocks barefoot and offer themselves up to Satan for all i fucking care lol
Sad
@@mariehumphrey5328 We are good homemakers and cooks though. Even us male Cancerians.
@mariehumphrey5328 what's sad about it
This ALL checks out. Run.
Libra here and had a child with a Cancer. Liars, manipulative, sneaky and too moody for this air sign.
He was unEvolved.
@@mrsbusiness1 I can believe that.
Aquarius female with cancer man 4 years. Haven't seen many Aquarius comments yet. If and aquas see this....
Listen.
Cancer men believe the world revolves around them. The charm you see st first quickly turns into an absolute hatred for their confidence. They can't accept attention not being on them selves. It's always me me me
They will suck the energy out of any or everyone with no thought about it. Love my cancer but they need a reality check.
Who better to do it than an Aquarius ♒️
I've seen this connection and the female (Aquarius) gave at least 10 years of her life to a Gem-Cancer guy- paying bills, getting cheated on, just putting up with way too much!! She still wanted to marry him after all of that, but he didn't marry her. She supposedly went to therapy after that relationship. Sad..
I want to know two water signs, which are scorpio and cancer
as a leo loving a cancer man, i got to know these things about them,
1) they love it when you chase them. It gives them that " i am the queen bee here " vibe, and they enjoy it too much.
2) they are liers. Yes, they 100% are. They lie if you confront them, they lie if they feel bore just to create drama, they lie just because they wanna avoid situation. I mean bruh, they lie with straight face, without any guilt.
3) great victim card holders. You have to say sorry if you are wrong, you have to say sorry even if you are not wrong. Practice sorry before dating them.
4) they have entire ocean in their eyes. If you even try to raise your voice their eyes will be filled with tears first. At this point, you will be kicking yourself in your mind.
5) they are the most unpredictable sign of zodiac, you will not know till the last moment that they are planning your cascade. They can be the most horrible cheaters if they want to.
Still i love my crab baby. He is ultra cute, emo, needy man i have ever seen in my life. If you are a cat person (which i am) and study a lot about their mood swing and behaviour, then you can easily handle a cancer man. Just be ready for some paw throwing - hissing - bitting - ignoring - ghosting and gas lighting ; their purrs will heal you anyway.
How about cancer man and aries woman?
1.First point is absolutely wrong at least for me. I don't feel the need to be part of a "team" or be part of the "unit". I actually like to be alone, because I feel free and I can do w/e I want to.
2..The "mother part" is true, but it depends to what degree. My mother took a huge role in my life and still does. She raised me and my sister basically alone, while my father was gambling his ass off while drinking. Ofc I will respect that woman for what she sacrificed for us. Point is she is a Gemini. And Cancers and Gemini do not mesh. In fact my last girlfriend was Gemini and the arguments were just unbearable. At some point my mother got so dominant and so pushy to be "her way" that it went out of control. Gemini in general can't get it through their thick skulls that it's not gonna be always their way. So I am letting my mother know, no matter how much she sulks in the corner or pretends she doesn't want to communicate with me that I am a grown ass man and I can make independent decisions without her interfering every five seconds. So this part is true, but it's up to individuals to accept that your mom will always be a part of your life, as it becomes a weakness when you allow her to interfere in your life constantly.
3. Yes we are emotional, but still it depends. Like the dude said there are two options: either cry like a baby or man-up and pretend it didn't bother you even if it did. I am the second one. I put up a front I take it and then I make a "mental note" like : "this person is not ok - avoid and ignore". I don't give second chances, if you show me disrespect, you are never coming back, no matter how hard you try or what happens. If you are socially intelligent person you would get the signal that I do not like you by simply talking super cold and reserved to you. We know we are sensitive, some of us are aware of it, just like me. But to be honest, the more I suppress it - the better I feel. People's shit should not bother me that much.
4.True, sometimes I don't know how to express things that bother me. It's just the voice in the back of my head telling me: "They won't understand leave it". Which opens the the door for the previous point about the emotions and the front.
5. Yes I want a partner that nurtures and respects me, but not one that "mothers" me. As I said it depends on individuals, but I don't want to compare my mom with my wife/gf etc. I am a traditionalist (yes it maybe boring in modern times, but I think we need "traditional" more than ever in these confusing times). Home and family values will always be a dream and a priority. Jealousy is definitely part of me, even towards close friends, however for me personally after the "Gemini girl" I learned to control it and it passes fast. And I like jealous girls. It just resonates good with me since I am a very patient man and I can explain how things are in reality.
6. ABSOLUTELY WRONG for me. I don't know about others. I don't talk to ex's. I don't talk to people that do not respect me as I said previously. I never learned to forgive to people who deeply hurt or disrespected me. Maybe that's the bad thing, but at least it is safer "for the current situation".
7. True, but is connected to the sensitivity. As I said it - it's about suppression. For example yesterday I caught myself being "moody" towards an individual. After 30 minutes I asked myself "Wtf man, why did you behave like that, it was stupid and for no reason". As I said : it's about awareness. Yes - crabs have claws and they snap with them. But we are all humans, don't we all have emotions, no matter the sign? The manipulative part is true, but for me it was in my younger years. Now I don't really bother to manipulate people to get what I want. It's part of the maturing process, just don't care really.
In summary I think we Cancer-men are kind of shits. Especially as youngsters. I had Cancer-men friends as well. Some of them unbearable when we were kids. Even tho I think we are very smart (at times even witty) and our intuition works really strongly even as kids. I remember I was a shy, but very smart and aware kid and very trustworthy as well. The other mothers were always allowing my friends to go out as soon as they heard they are with me, because in general I think we are super reasonable and intelligent people. But as a grown up I am starting to calibrate a little bit easier towards society, even tho my inner world will always be very strong and speaking loudly in my head. Definitely we are learners. We learn and adapt fast. Just like the water. Sometimes complaining too much, even I catch myself ranting sometimes after a long period of silence, but as I said - it's about awareness. Overall if you think you can handle moods and jealousy and you address them to the Cancer in order to make it clear that there's nothing to worry about, you would win in return a loyal, very nurturing partner, romantic, sometimes unable to express his feelings, who would dream to grow a good, big and healthy family with you and will always put them first before anything else.
As a cancer man this is so true but my dealbreakers are with Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini and sometimes even Aquarius women! They never understand how we feel and it always leads to an argument or misunderstanding in the relationship 😂
I’m an Aries woman and a true Christian, and I would never ever talk speak like that towards a broad sign of zodiac women. Even after I had a terrible ending experience with one Cancer man, I still chose to allow myself to fall in love with another one. I didn’t cancel all Cancer men because of such. However, that man’s behavior over time started to become just toxic as the 1st cancer man behavior. I don’t go into any relationship with a person based upon preconceived ideas and never will. Both of the Cancer men I thought I was destined to be with FOREVER, where in their 40’s when I met them and they each had a long history of failed relationships, due to being unevolved, and emotionally immature. I still offered both of them true genuine love and support, but they did things so illogical and what I consider to be emotionally manipulative and wanting to be controlling, for me to go along with everything they said and wanted or else, or else they would try and make me feel like the bad guy. That everybody does me wrong, victim mentality, I had enough of. However, I a, thankful that I eventually through the grace of God was able to leave from these men and have cut off all physical contact with them. Can’t be in a marriage till death due is part, when I’m dealing with toxicity from off a man that gradually gets worse never better. Neither of these men wanted to get any therapy. One claimed to have a relationship with God, but actions weren’t consistent with such. I began to encounter what I can only call as “true narcissistic behavior” from both of these 2 Cancer men. Relationships aren’t 100% easy, neither are marriages. It’s up to both parties to put in mutual effort, engage in mutual consistent communication, engage in mutual respect, and have mutual love and mutual understanding of each other for a true partnership to evolve and be long-lasting.
Oh, and to Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, and Aquarius women (my sister is actually anAquarius), I love ❤️ you all. Peace ✌🏼
Im a gemini….no wonder me and my cancer man always argue lol
Gemini women are very loving so for a Cancer Man to say that, is wrong. How are you treating the Gemini woman? How are you making her feel? Is it always about your feelings as a Cancer man? You can't have a stable relationship or marriage if you're overly attached to toxic family
@@MonicaGriego22 Excellent post! Everything you said is more than true👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@@reservechicbaby thank you 💯🙏
As a Virgo woman, intuitive, good communication,Introvert/Extrovert harmony hardworking,I go by intuition of the energy that’s given. I dated a cancer man he was nice guy , one month of dating recently,I separate myself from him so he can figure out his life , I’ve learned he can be indirect Sarcastically ,He still attached to his toxic past life ,Mixed emotions , He still try to contact me, I don’t answer or waste time,I have low tolerance for Confused men..cancers don’t well fit with Virgos ..The end !
I believe it. I am a Virgo also and I could pick up on my Cancer lies and he didn’t give a crap! I had to let go! They also like to entertain more than one person.
I'm a Virgo and married to a Cancer. 😢
This is an awesome video!! I am new to your channel and will be subscribing. I am a sagittarius dating cancer, and it is good to know these traits. Especially the moodiness. Knowing that it's the complete opposite of me. I am a very optimistic woman.
Well, thank you for this video. i learned so much.
Certainly observed the pattern of odd aspect to the relationship with the mother and the rapid mood changes in cancer prominent dating partners before. As a fire/air heavy person who is very intellectually wired, I struggled with understanding it, and ultimately, things didn't work out.
Venus in cancer are like this too… attached to the mother.
@@ireneyoomikim very true about the Venus in Cancer. 💯🙏
@@MonicaGriego22 my sister has Venus in cancer, and it drives me crazy how much she enables my mom’s toxic behavior.
@@ireneyoomikim it's awful. There's a book called When He's Married to His Mother. Its in red font by a psychologist. It can help women too if used properly. It's helped my boyfriend David detach himself healthy from his mother. Also he seen how much love his mother showed to my daughters and seen that his Taurus mother was using the cat to control him. All this month and since November,she's tried everything under the sun to get him to move back to her one bedroom house and he's seeing it all now. He's heartbroken that she has lied all these years about her love for her son. He was shocked when she told him, "if you go with her,no more money for you,Peter". She calls him Peter. That's why he's so confused by his identity. I call him by his name. It helps to get him to behave in a normal manner.
I’m a Pisces rising with cancer rising.. it’s heaven on earth for us lol
How about Cancer male & Gemini female?
Can we get the other Chiron video?
Looking forward to one of these on pisces men!
Pisces men are not leaders.
Oh yes I owe y’all this one still!
What’s your sign?
I’m Scorpio.
If I'm not mistaken I think Astrology Bro is Scorpio Moon ..
I am Virgo with Uranus in Scorpio 😝🥰
@@Liza-Loves-You thank you! I’m Scorpio sun, Aries moon and taurus ascending
For Cancer man Taurus is the dream match.
No way I'm a Taurus and he disappeared 😂😂
I’m dating very busy cancer man and I am Leo woman🌿
Run
Fire and water.Ooops
I know a cancer. I think very sensitive pitty pot withdrawals a lot. Not expressive then is. Ihes so up and down. He's insecure I think alot and I'm not used to non confident man. I think his fam messed him up. He would be loving but I always see inside he's scared but I'm intuitive.. but even being intuitive u cant just stay around just cuz u know what they feel inside. U need action and not just promises that aren't followed thru upon. What's funny to is I didn't pursue him.. I think aries is more confident. I'm an aries and matched better with . But upbringing matters I think so too. Cuz cancers supposed to be loving. I know a cancer who burns lots of bridges. Cuz he's a runner.
I’ve been dealing with Cancers my entire life and I’m a Sagg. The universe is against us. Perfect at the beginning but never ends well for us. Love hate relationship.
It's "Water and Fire." There's always gonna a "forcing" of some sort in this connection because the energis don't match. Either of the parties will have to give up too much of themselves just to be happy...
I met a cancer.. he’s horrible. A horrible communicator, horrible liar, selfish (regarding time) too much drama.. he has a mean spirit.. I can’t do it.. I’m a Gemini. BTW, he said he didn’t have parents at all, never did..
I am a Scorpio woman with cancer man.
How is it
If he respects his mama, I feel safe with him 😁💓 but he better know how to love mamita as well 💖
Nah sir, we dont want a mom we want a down partner. IF we find that then we are good.
Fecking nite mare so sensitive very dramatic 😮
Staying away from the cancer man
We are amazing
😂
Can't stand how everyone makes every Cancer a "prroduct" of their mother. I am a Cancer and I couldn't care less what my mother thinks about my likes or dislikes. Stop the sterotyping please.
It's because the mothers love or no love for her Cancer son or daughter affects the Cancer man or woman and their behaviors and their trust or lack of trust and their respect or no respect for a woman or man, or their relationship problems with women or men. Cancer similar to Leo can be very childish. They behave this way because they refuse to break the past attachments with family and friends.
Real friends don't leave Cancer behind. But when they do, it's because they see the instability and insecurities and their moods and refuse to be treated badly. Or if Cancer is using someone, people will know it by how they act.
Let me balance out my first comment. Also the Cancer who has been abandoned by their Father really hurts them inside and if the Cancer man doesn't let go of his or her past issues with the Father as well, he or she will use emotions and sabotage his or her own life which can cause Cancer in the body and show the Cancer is needing to make peace with their past to heal from the Cancer.
I’m the same, but my Ma had lots of influence on me and my older brother. However, we made our own decisions. Being a Capricorn, she really resented not being able to country’s. I’m glad she taught us very well.
I hate cancer.. good luck 👍🏼
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True. I even hate myself being a cancer.😂😂😂
Amen to that girl haha
Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Virgo, Aries, Capricorn, Gemini, Aquarius not compatible with cancer
Taurus, Pisces and Libra, yes
I believe Taurus the most
Who am I forgetting?
Scorpio is actually the best match for cancer.
I'm a Sag female and was in a relationship with a Cancer man for over 20 years. I asked him to go, and he didn't want to leave. So, these relationships, just like any other relationships, can work. Too much emphasis placed on zodiac signs. People are people, and they can make it work if they choose to. Yes, I left him for another Cancer man!
Scorpio here and I tried with the cancer men and I can't
How's going on in your relationship it's work,what CONECTION OR COMMUNACATION result now?
Locked in their cage