Dating a Cancer...Everything You NEED to Know About your Lover

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  • @tianichelle13
    @tianichelle13 4 роки тому +224

    Hearing an Aquarius talk about how Cancers bottle up how they feel as if they don’t do the same thing is hysterical.

    • @liliana933
      @liliana933 3 роки тому +15

      She has a Cancer rising so... Yeah she's really not talking mess.

    • @henryballester4516
      @henryballester4516 2 роки тому

      Literally

    • @gleffler9313
      @gleffler9313 2 роки тому +2

      As an Aquarius myself you ain’t wrong

    • @romedeleon1715
      @romedeleon1715 2 роки тому +2

      Yea how dare you?

    • @letmedarling4452
      @letmedarling4452 Рік тому +6

      That is not a good match because Aquarius is non emotional and will ghost you in a heartbeat.

  • @Author_Kharisma
    @Author_Kharisma 4 роки тому +226

    As a Cancer I agree with most of what you are saying. One thing I notice about Cancers though, people tend to ignore or minimize our emotional needs, therefore we often decide to stop complaining about it. Like, "No one is listening anyway," so we stop trying to communicate the same stuff over and over again. We are not good at letting go of people we love or care for even when they are toxic, so we keep trying to make it work anyway. That's why you get the "sudden" snapping. There were probably lots of signs and messages relayed before that occurred.

    • @latishawilliams4605
      @latishawilliams4605 4 роки тому +28

      Exactly! Most people seem to not understand that. But I will say that once a cancer evolves and learns how to express their needs etc and if it is not being received then they will walk away after they have had their limit. Speaking from experience I used to bottle things up and then explode which back fired on me. So now I vow to express what is bothering me. I’m still a evolving cancer

    • @CeceNaturalful
      @CeceNaturalful 3 роки тому +11

      Whew! My sister is a Cancer and this described her to the T! One thing I can say is when she's done with someone and gets in that mind frame to leave, there's no going back

    • @emmanuelmelendez9869
      @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 роки тому +1

      very true!!!!!!

    • @dadrienedavis
      @dadrienedavis 3 роки тому +7

      I literally was thinking the same thing! My thing is that a lot of people don’t like being called out on their BS so once you confront them about it they get mad because they know what they did was wrong. Then they play victim and say we’re overreacting and excuse the way we feel about it all together.

    • @isaiahcarter9788
      @isaiahcarter9788 3 роки тому +1

      EXACTLY

  • @aabayside91
    @aabayside91 4 роки тому +104

    My boyfriend is a cancer and he is absolutely amazing. So affectionate caring loving I am a Scorpio and he is my absolute soulmate.

    • @ennilozada1580
      @ennilozada1580 3 роки тому +3

      Funny how you say this when I JUST texted my boyfriend (scorpio) about this video, and I’m a cancer woman.

    • @raymondtaylor4395
      @raymondtaylor4395 3 роки тому +15

      That's because Scorpios are Cancers evil twins 😂😂😂 i'm a cancer and absolutely LOVE Scorpio's. Us Cancers understand you guys

    • @brandilocs4657
      @brandilocs4657 3 роки тому +2

      I've been searching for one positive comment 😭😭😭😭 Female Taurus trying with a Male Cancer

    • @janaybradley7768
      @janaybradley7768 3 роки тому +6

      Awwww 🥰 I’m a Scorpio and my boyfriend is a cancer we’ve been together for 5 years and I swear we are sooo emotional lol arguments will be about food or something little and it will go from 0 to 100 then we’ll hug it out and laugh lol I love my teddy bear 🐻🥰💘

    • @nito209
      @nito209 3 роки тому

      @@raymondtaylor4395 faxxx

  • @MarceleJones
    @MarceleJones 4 роки тому +54

    All so spot on !! Especially the ending. We really might not gaf about you, not intentionally though 😭

    • @sandyaraujo5222
      @sandyaraujo5222 3 роки тому +1

      🤙🏻👍🏿☺️🇲🇽🇺🇸💛🖤😘😍🥰♎️🙏🏿🙏🏻

    • @Quise3.0
      @Quise3.0 8 місяців тому

      Istg if I’m lonely I’ll give the ugly girl all my time n attention make her feel like the only girl in the world. Whole time I’m still trynna find my love. I b bored.

  • @casebycase7750
    @casebycase7750 3 роки тому +99

    This is true. A cancer could be so lovey and cuddly with you and not give a sh** about you. It's true.

  • @beachbumsocal
    @beachbumsocal 4 роки тому +72

    I haven't dated a Cancer. I have been friends with them. They're really caring, go above and beyond for you once they've trusted you...and agree about them being moody They're crabs and their pinchers can come out. Haha. I agree that they are motherly (nurturing) and good cooks. They're closer to their families, especially their Mom. I think they can be stubborn, like a Cappie ( I'm a Capricorn).

    • @emmanuelmelendez9869
      @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 роки тому +2

      im that way

    • @brandilocs4657
      @brandilocs4657 3 роки тому +4

      Craaaaabs. I totally forgot their symbol is a crab.

    • @tkolb2745
      @tkolb2745 3 роки тому +1

      Im a cappie too its good with my cancer 70 good 30 bad

  • @georgeluisgarza287
    @georgeluisgarza287 3 місяці тому +4

    I get what u are saying. The reason we don’t tell u what’s wrong right away is because we are biting our tongues. It’s protecting you out of love for u. A cancer is like a tidal wave or a tsunami when annoyed, upset, irritated or angry. When we unleash our tongues onto others. It is to destroy with extreme prejudice, despite where it is our love ones, or other people in equal. We hold our tongues and try to have patience that u don’t have. We try to be understanding and not allow your attitude to trigger us. Our instincts is to protect ourselves from others who want to use us, the ones who say that they loves us as punching bags with verbal abuse or threats. At times we are understanding and do everything in our power to deescalate the situation out of love for u. We care more and love way more you can fathom. Always remember most cancers, ones u are in a relationships with, will always warn you to stop it before it goes too far. We tell you this because we feel where this is going and want a peaceful solution rather than ugly one. We can be destroyers with out remorse in the moment. But hate it because we wanted a different outcome and we tend to tell you before it happens, especially to the ones we love with everything. As for me I am like a cat, it just my nature. Don’t misunderstand we can learn and we can grow. Good luck to you all. Peace

  • @tamrynmcgear4742
    @tamrynmcgear4742 4 роки тому +16

    As a cancer this video is 1000% accurate. Lovelovelove❤ all the way from South Africa

  • @serenityserenity9829
    @serenityserenity9829 Рік тому +11

    Married to one they are very sweet and caring will definitely take care of you and your whole family ...if they love you but when they get angry they can be the most vindictive,sarcastic,sneaky people....but if you stand your ground they quickly return to their sweet selves.They will manipulate you with all your favorite things and shower you with affection which I actually like because I didn't get a lot of that growing up so it kinda works for us I'm a Saggitarius so yeah it gets interesting

    • @cdosby43
      @cdosby43 10 місяців тому +1

      Good to hear a Sag and a Cancer can make it work.

  • @CatherineBarajas
    @CatherineBarajas 4 роки тому +27

    As a cancer woman this is so spot on 😭
    Definitely know my dark aspects of my moon and really trying hard to work on this because I’ve realized the moods I get into (unintentional) really affect those around me and I had no idea it was that powerful 😭🥺 just thought it was us brooding alone and working through our feelings and humanity but energy definitely transcends so working on this hard! Also with manipulating this is so true and it’s the ego aspect of the sign, once we break that down we can really use it for a common good instead and I’ve learned it goes hand in hand with manifesting. We can really manifest anything because of it! Also as the mood manipulators when we’re really doing well we can help others do better. Hopefully more cancers grow into the developed sign because it’s all love they wanna give!🤍🤍🤍

  • @asu2633
    @asu2633 3 роки тому +15

    We cancers tend to overthink that’s why we already Moody🥺 and yes we want that reassurance and it’s totally like you said we don’t wanna talk but we want to feel loved smth like that.
    Agree with all u said 🥺

  • @Courtney-of1po
    @Courtney-of1po 4 роки тому +73

    I'm a Capricorn that's been with a Cancer for many years. Most of what she said it accurate. My boyfriend's affectionate side is what drew me to him. Before we were even dating he felt so warm and comforting to me. He does have two sides, the quiet, reserved side then at home the talkative, lovey, cuddly side.

    • @shreyosibala9648
      @shreyosibala9648 3 роки тому +1

      Are Capricorn and cancer compatible

    • @tkolb2745
      @tkolb2745 3 роки тому +8

      @@shreyosibala9648 im engaged to a Cancer . He's sweet but can be the biggest jerk a Jekyll and Hyde for sure.

    • @1beatsbytdot
      @1beatsbytdot 3 роки тому +1

      Spot on . Passion kings ♋️

    • @savannahjoseph4968
      @savannahjoseph4968 2 роки тому +1

      @@shreyosibala9648 i a Cancer womn married to a Capricorn man for many years

    • @helensanderson7092
      @helensanderson7092 Рік тому +4

      I'm going out with a Cancer man and I'm a Capricorn woman and it's been the most wonderful relationship I've ever had

  • @henchdan1
    @henchdan1 3 роки тому +36

    I'm a Cancer man and this is spot on, I apologise for us, we are very loving but confusing 😔

    • @carlousmagus5387
      @carlousmagus5387 2 роки тому +5

      There's absolutely nothing to apologize for.

    • @anishibi6948
      @anishibi6948 2 роки тому

      @henchdan1 may I ask you some questions about cancer men in relationships?

  • @TheMizmhe
    @TheMizmhe 4 роки тому +37

    Sometimes I hate being a Cancer 😔😥😅 Hate being moody 😔

  • @chavonvolcy6040
    @chavonvolcy6040 4 роки тому +19

    All of it is spot on. Just made me think of everything. Smh that's all. I Love watching your content. I'm a Cancer and my partner is a Scorpio.

  • @mirnacalderon2793
    @mirnacalderon2793 3 роки тому +12

    So on point!!!! I’m a Leo and I’ve known this cancer guy so many years , totally a different person when we’re on private such a teddy bear how you describe it , but omg very moody !!!

  • @lillinarose420
    @lillinarose420 4 роки тому +22

    I honestly feel like this video was the most accurate description of a cancer. Most videos explain cancers to be like big cry babies but the truth is that they are sensitive just like others. They are humble but don’t fuckem over and you’ll always have a best friend.

  • @lisasims1652
    @lisasims1652 4 роки тому +13

    I've seen your other dating videos for other signs but I am a cancer and have been waiting on this video

  • @asu2633
    @asu2633 3 роки тому +30

    I am cancer ♋️ and I date an Aquarius ♒️ for one year now.
    It’s literally the most beautiful relationship I have now.
    He accepts all my moods and is caring also gives me the reassurance I want or I need. He really is understanding and makes me feel loved 🥰 I couldn’t be any happier.🥰 As you can see I am a cancer and I am moody most of the time especially when it’s the season of full moon 🌕🤣 but even though he is still trying to making me calm down and making me feel at ease so I should not worry or freak out😂
    He is so so understanding!
    Cancer and Aquarius know both exactly what they want in relationships and both are dickheads if they get along with the terms they can get so along and have a happy relationship🥰🥰🥰

    • @mooneymagic4521
      @mooneymagic4521 3 роки тому +2

      Interesting, this gives me hope!

    • @lalo6442
      @lalo6442 3 роки тому +3

      I advise you to run away. Aquarius are going to hurt you for sure!

    • @letmedarling4452
      @letmedarling4452 Рік тому

      Until the non emotional Aquarius decides you are no longer needed and drop you suddenly like trash.

    • @AxlZie
      @AxlZie Рік тому

      Any updates??? 😊

    • @asu2633
      @asu2633 Рік тому

      @@AxlZie we are three years and three months together we have our up and downs but we both need to learn a lot more of each other and in every argument we try to understand each other. We are not perfect at all and as a cancer I am more emotional as he is so I need to accept that I must speak out about the needs we want and think of and not think he is a mentalist who can do magic and read my mind 😆 Also he is strict and has his plans and needs to be sometimes spontaneous that’s what he is working on. He tries to fix also his habits as much as he can. We are on a good way and we love and respect each other ☺️ we are doing great so far☺️

  • @Gyoi0p
    @Gyoi0p 2 роки тому +9

    As a pisces woman - no they don't want you to dug and dig until you find out what they want. No! They want an partner that can simply, UNDERSTAND!

  • @sarahcroy6212
    @sarahcroy6212 3 роки тому +17

    My new 10-year older Cancer guy takes care of me. Food, cooking together, gives me money without asking. Super-sweet man. Kinda like a sugar daddy. Never seen the dark, side, though. A little manipulative, but I'm a Virgo woman, so it's a very compatible match. Comfort zone.

    • @siesiechampion
      @siesiechampion Рік тому +1

      Love bombing

    • @ayshashakur2775
      @ayshashakur2775 3 місяці тому +1

      Girl.. hold onto that tightly honestly.. everyone has flaws even you.. but if hes taking responsibility of you and providing for you and being in his masculine energy allowing u to be in ur feminine hold onto that honestly

  • @YahhGirlJazz
    @YahhGirlJazz 2 роки тому +13

    I haven’t dated a cancer but I did mess around with a few and they are freaks like ughh I haven’t met one who isn’t hyper sexually yet it’s like they crave intimacy but I’m not complaining they do know how to please they partner

    • @maryjanney1361
      @maryjanney1361 2 роки тому

      My heart is full of joy and excitement , Dr RORPOPOR HERBAL is truly the son of his father the medications I order from him can testified to that , A BIG thanks to you doctor Cancer cured ❣️

  • @emmanuelmelendez9869
    @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 роки тому +14

    its true very true, as a cancer i love to cook for people i love i like to be so kind thats why all my firends never forget me becuse i give them food ,, but yes im little manipulate because im sensitive and i would never do something that you can do

  • @KenyetteMorris
    @KenyetteMorris 9 місяців тому +7

    I dated a cancer. I would never ever date one again mood swings 😢 they think they know it all they can tell you about you, but when it comes, you telling them about them self all hell brake out they're user they want to know all your business but, Don't tell their business. Also, live in the pass

  • @nezuko_turtle3589
    @nezuko_turtle3589 3 роки тому +4

    Yes! We need reassurance. If you don't get that, we will see that and won't waste our time.

  • @elizabethharkins2684
    @elizabethharkins2684 3 роки тому +5

    I’m a cancer and these things are all so true! As far as cancers bottling things up, we totally do and it is not fair to others most times. Personally, I sometimes forget that other people aren’t as aware of how they come off to people or as aware of other people’s feelings as I am, because I read others so well and the first thing I’m always doing is reading others and making sure they’re good and happy in every scenario, so I sometimes don’t understand not everyone reads a room or a person that well. Something I do try to work on for sure, but I also feel annoying when I’m calling people out on something that pissed me off cuz I wonder if I’m overreacting or something along those lines! Such a struggle! Lol thank you for this video!

    • @melc7858
      @melc7858 Рік тому

      Well at least you admit it. Most Cancer people I know will never admit it. They rather fight you first,then blame you for what they're doing. That's the first step to healing, is to first admit you have a problem. Best wishes to you, thanks for sharing 🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @naomih4716
    @naomih4716 4 роки тому +5

    I like your driving videos and don't really mind the lighting changes because I usually just listen to it in the background while multitasking

  • @latishawilliams4605
    @latishawilliams4605 4 роки тому +17

    I’m a cancer dating a cancer woman and she is my twin flame/soulmate (not just the fact that she is the same sign) but she literally mirrors me down to the way we think/life commonalities. You hit everything on the nose! Very accurate description of us. The only issue is even though I’m 7 years younger 30s .. she 40s .. I believe I have evolved more than she has when it comes to emotional maturity. I express appropriately and she doesn’t.. she becomes mean and disrespectful/manipulative/deflecting when I try to communicate with her. I feel she has carried her past experiences/ abusive relationships and how people have treated her onto me. I’ve learn to try to have patience with her but I tell you it’s tough at times cuz she can be very stubborn. Other than that it’s a awesome relationship sweet, caring ,loyal, Giving , loving ,fun and deep on both ends . I’m huge on accountability and self reflection. I’ve done a lot of healing and soul searching to better my actions etc. Its definitely a journey that I am proud of because I have come a long way with how I handle situations. I don’t bottle up and explode anymore. I’ve become very direct maybe too direct for some people now. I have learned that we teach people how to treat us. Setting Boundaries are also new to me .So I’m trying to incorporate that into our relationship along with effective communication.

    • @breesechick
      @breesechick 2 місяці тому

      Baby doll. Your sweetheart good benefit from the right therapist. Because I used to do that until I learned what I was doing and how it was hurting the person that I loved and advertently because I was not communicating using words instead I was communicating using my feelings and that was coming across as hostile toward my person.

  • @GhettoJohnWick
    @GhettoJohnWick 4 роки тому +20

    You forgot to mention how we're naturals on the dance floor. I know how to ballroom dance without ever taking a single lesson.

    • @hellosunshine3647
      @hellosunshine3647 3 роки тому +3

      We're pretty good at alot of things the first time around lol. I can cook blind 🤣

  • @nikki2112
    @nikki2112 4 роки тому +12

    Cancer is the roller coaster sign..friggin psychopaths

  • @gennesiededios9761
    @gennesiededios9761 4 роки тому +9

    OMG! You literally the one person understand me. Wow! That's bullseye for both bad and good. Sorry I can't help it.

  • @qwan630
    @qwan630 4 роки тому +6

    Yeah i agree w a lot of what you said about us ♋️ Me personally, i like confrontation lol but maybe that’s cause of my rising (Scorpio ) or something 🤷🏾‍♂️ thanks for making this video! Looking forward to more of this series!!

  • @TheDeerpark243
    @TheDeerpark243 2 роки тому +5

    I’m a cancer, a lot of the things you said were true, but as you know everybody’s different, as far as me I’m older and think I evolved out of some of those traits. One thing is for sure I like to stay at home. To give you a hint, I bought my car in 2018, it had 15 miles on it, as of today I have 11,500, and 4,000 of those miles were in the first month.

  • @richardredick7515
    @richardredick7515 Рік тому +9

    #1 Rule regarding Cancerians: We explore EMOTION. Sometimes that can feel very warm, intimate, and personal; a high detail of care. Every coin has 2 sides. The flip side is detachment. How do you think we can be SO caring? It is because we have plenty of periods of detachment (think wax-on, wax-off). To you know-it-all Aquarians we Cancerians are moody, even manipulative. If you wish to call making sure that the person I have shown compassion to does not come to expect that as a constant "manipulative," then, yes, we are manipulative. We are not constantly flowing with "milk and honey" and compassion. I breathe in, and I must breathe out.
    Rule #2: Don't piss us off. Don't F with us. Abuse of trust is SO OFFENSIVE. If you do that, we are going to yell at you like a monster, and wash our hands of you. Done. Never revisiting that decision. Excommunicato.

  • @yumijiang0312
    @yumijiang0312 3 роки тому +24

    I didn’t understand why my ex was so controlling, even installed location tracking app in my phone while I didn’t know that(it was very creepy,right). Now I learn a lot about Cancer, I totally understand the reasons. Because of him, I started to believe Zodiac, I wish I learned it years ago, at least there would be less conflict and more understanding between me and him. I’m Pisces.

    • @ej13012010
      @ej13012010 2 роки тому +1

      If you bring up controlling off of water signs your wrong I've delt with controlling signs that's not even a water sign everyone has different traits no matter which signs they are

    • @MrChangeordie
      @MrChangeordie 2 роки тому

      Sorry to hear that... maybe u have a lot of guy friends or just so friendly interns of talking to guy 👀

    • @yumijiang0312
      @yumijiang0312 Рік тому

      @@MrChangeordie I was as out going as him and friendly to others. But never cross the line

    • @civilifier
      @civilifier 11 місяців тому +2

      @@yumijiang0312as a cancer when in relationship he will try his best ignoring every other girl just do you without you saying so he will expect the same from you it’s way of showing loyalty he will get hurt ass soon as he knows some random guy or your friend having your time cancer is like baby he wants time of his mother or partner

  • @Phillyhippie215
    @Phillyhippie215 3 роки тому +8

    Aries sun
    Libra rising
    Moon In Scorpio here.
    Cancers at first tend to tread lightly with me once I say I’m an Aries lol. But they realize my moon in Scorpio and balanced Libra rising is far more present in my personality. I get along so great with Cancers. My longest relationships are with cancers.

    • @sydtia3976
      @sydtia3976 3 роки тому +1

      I’m an Aries sun, Leo moon, and scorpio rising. My Aries placements spice up my cancer bf’s life 🤣😭 (he’s my first bf too) I attract so many cancers/am surrounded by them. They’re insane people but I like it!

  • @hellosunshine3647
    @hellosunshine3647 3 роки тому +10

    This is hilarious lol I have to say as a cancer female, you are spot on. Lol as far as the bottling things up I've come to learn this about myself and I'm working on it. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Cancers really don't like to argue or fight so they will do that because sometimes they love you so much, they don't want to lose you by hurting your feelings and or saying the wrong things. When cancers get upset, it is not pretty.. 🤦🏽‍♀️ So they will say nothing. If they value you, they will say nothing lol. Unfortunately it does spill out over time.🤦🏽‍♀️ Because all humans get frustrated. With you saying how considerate and generous cancers are, even though it's their own doing to serve and love others, cancers don't necessarily want reassurance, they want reciprocation. Remember my birthday like I do yours, or make me a cake sometime. Got dang! 🤣❤

  • @angelasambrano1013
    @angelasambrano1013 3 роки тому +19

    Dating a Cancer.. never on time for anything. Gonna be a deal breaker for this sweet n needy Libra 😘

  • @boochieyoung644
    @boochieyoung644 4 роки тому +6

    This me all day ! Hit it right on the dime

  • @brooke-lynnxo
    @brooke-lynnxo 4 роки тому +19

    Cancer with my Venus in Gemini they never see me coming

  • @KINGLDZ
    @KINGLDZ 4 роки тому +20

    IM A SCORPIO, I THINK ME AND CANCER ARE THE MOST COMPATIBLE.. ACTUALLY I KNOW.. LOOKING FOR A CANCER IN MY LIFE AS WE SPEAK.

    • @cancergirl3785
      @cancergirl3785 4 роки тому +5

      Have you been in a relationship with a cancer woman before and how was it cause I find scorpio men so intense and inpatient it’s overwhelming sometimes

    • @onlyforme8453
      @onlyforme8453 4 роки тому +3

      There’s definitely a natural understanding I have with Scorpio men as a cancer girl

    • @lionelfinley6956
      @lionelfinley6956 4 роки тому +2

      I'm a Cancer with a Scorpio woman you're right we are the most compatible it's like our signs just get each other without even trying when I first met her it was instant connection

    • @Ruthf93
      @Ruthf93 4 роки тому +1

      I’m a Cancer and I’ve dated a Scorpio for going on 4 years. He was my high sweetheart. Highly compatible. You’ll find that Cancer soon.

    • @jaydabyrd6609
      @jaydabyrd6609 3 роки тому +1

      @@cancergirl3785 so true I been with one

  • @jerseyd408
    @jerseyd408 Рік тому

    You are great. Thank you for the video. The lighting was fine. your so on point with cancers. Yes more content. Maybe break down signs into different categories family life love money health if you haven't done so already I'm new to your channel. I'm searching for videos to send to a Scorpio about cancer women.

  • @veeem4665
    @veeem4665 4 роки тому +4

    i was so excited when i got the notification !!

  • @jaydenmckissick448
    @jaydenmckissick448 4 роки тому +14

    I met a few cancers someone’s not all need reassurance.

  • @QueenEspeon96
    @QueenEspeon96 4 роки тому +19

    My fiance is a Cancer, but he's very social. On the other hand I'm a Gemini and I'm an introvert. We're the odd couple and that's ok.

  • @shaunware2023
    @shaunware2023 3 роки тому +5

    Am I cancer ♋ man 💕 and I'm in a relationship with a cancer ♋ women

  • @inayssimplerecipe7772
    @inayssimplerecipe7772 3 роки тому +3

    This is really helpful for someone like me that are just so curious to Cancer Zodiac

  • @janettehernandez1384
    @janettehernandez1384 2 роки тому +4

    Next summer i will be marring my Cancer man. Everything that you talked about in his video is so true. They are sweet and kind they are like teddy bears and even call my Cancer man boo bear & he loves it when i call him that or i call him my sexy king because that's what he is to me.

    • @maryjanney1361
      @maryjanney1361 2 роки тому

      My heart is full of joy and excitement , Dr RORPOPOR HERBAL is truly the son of his father the medications I order from him can testified to that , A BIG thanks to you doctor Cancer cured ❣️

    • @marliesluyten8686
      @marliesluyten8686 Рік тому

      What is your sign

  • @inghlei9000
    @inghlei9000 Місяць тому +1

    As a cancer we give them all our love when we care about someone, and it will really drain us when we get nothing in return, .. dont take our love for granted, .. just remember that ❤️ When we just give and give and get nothing in return, .. we get tierd and grompy and moody, .. and thats why we shutt down, .. because we dont wont our feelings to escalate, .. why we really start to say something we regeets. And we dont want to comfront our needs because we dont want to seam demending! So we stay in our shells until we have made our dession about the situation. We have also all our mood swings on the other side to deal with because our moon shifts 5 times a day, .. just have that back in your minds ❤️
    In the end we feel deep inside that people should see our need’s because we do all in our power to se the other people needs ❤
    I think cancers should be whit other wather signs or earth signs. ..

  • @samuraispiritsx
    @samuraispiritsx 2 роки тому +2

    LOL that shit you said about them being hot and cold is true. If we are upset with you, we want you to chase us A LITTLE makes us feel wanted. And also, we don't expect you to know what we are feeling, but we want understanding. Let them vent to you because it means they trust you.

  • @shadywiskerz
    @shadywiskerz 3 роки тому +5

    Can’t wait for dating a Leo

  • @Phantom-Histories
    @Phantom-Histories 6 місяців тому +2

    If were ever in a mood just make us laugh. Its really that simple

  • @nunyafawkingbiz
    @nunyafawkingbiz Місяць тому

    I’m a cancer and I met the love of my life in Brazil and he’s a cancer too ! We mesh so well I’ve never had this before ! Long story short we are getting married soon ❤❤

  • @angelicrhawkins
    @angelicrhawkins 4 роки тому +3

    On point!!! I’m a cancer and I totally agree 💯

  • @timothytaylor5709
    @timothytaylor5709 4 роки тому +3

    Wow! I just learned so much. The whole time I thought it was me.

  • @tebogomsimanga9456
    @tebogomsimanga9456 2 роки тому +2

    My little sister is cancer I'm an aquarius, we stay together omg it's frustrating how moody they can get, but I'm aloof I spend most of my time doing my own thing🙏

  • @Olivia-gh2nk
    @Olivia-gh2nk 4 роки тому +2

    Yes I love this series please finish it 🔥🔥

  • @T.Sumpter
    @T.Sumpter Рік тому +5

    Hey, about the hot and cold aspect of being a cancer, the part when you said we don't know if we want to be consoled or not, here's my point of view: if a cancer hasn't accomplished a level of self awareness that may be very true. In relationships I am difficult to get out of moods when I get in them. But I always tell my woman I'm dating the key to winning me over. That's the self awareness part, knowing yourself and being honest with you. For me, talking doesn't work when me and my lady have conflicts. Reason being, women often try to slip in something that's not reassuring-meaning they add to the fire, either on purpose or inadvertently.
    Example: we are arguing because of social media and likes.
    I shut down and won't talk.
    My lady apologies, and keeps talking after the apology.
    Most likely, the woman will try to rationalize 1 minute into me getting comfortable.
    I get irritated, because I'm not looking for excuses or conversation, I've already seen it for what it is and accepted her.
    So I always tell my woman if I'm in a funk, just hold me and shut up... They do not listen, they try to make me see their point once we both get comfortable. To me, actions speak louder than words. If I don't agree with something my partner does, then I can leave or accept it. So for me cuddling is all I need, not conversation.
    P.S. I understand other zodiac signs like to talk things out. I will when I'm ready, but if I'm in the wrong I will ASAP.

    • @SammyJ96
      @SammyJ96 Рік тому

      " Cuddling is all I need , " do you realize how selfish that whole thing sounded ? What if the woman in question has a different emotional need ? What if talking about the issue is what makes HER feels better ? That is why COMPROMISE is important in relationship. Kmft.

    • @T.Sumpter
      @T.Sumpter Рік тому +1

      @@SammyJ96 I don't know what that kmft shit means and don't care to look. I listen very well, when I'm selfish, I'm selfish. I agree. When I'm caring, I'm caring. Plus I'm a boss, with my shit together, so I have standards. Most women little girls. Good day though 😁

    • @SammyJ96
      @SammyJ96 Рік тому

      @@T.Sumpter Typical dusty bandit.

  • @karettearmstrong647
    @karettearmstrong647 2 роки тому +3

    I talking to a cancer I met him online on a dating site been talking since January and all the time I be asking him to come and see me he never show up he don't talk to me on the phone he just text me all the time

    • @wavykira
      @wavykira Місяць тому

      Girl run!!! He playing games. He will give you excuses cuz really they love having multiple relationships & very manipulative …but charming with words at the same time 😂 just be careful ..always have a plan B w them

  • @couderioussanders1182
    @couderioussanders1182 3 роки тому +6

    I'm Gemini ♊ man I'm dating a Cancer ♋ she so very caring and everything 🤞🏽🤍🥰 she shy but she love me its funny too me but I love it and I love her too 🤞🏽🤍

  • @brittanyj7547
    @brittanyj7547 4 роки тому +13

    I'm a virgo I was dating a cancer for 5 years he broke up with me out the clear blue sky that shit left me crushed I don't know if I'll ever trust another cancer with my heart

    • @terrycroker7815
      @terrycroker7815 4 роки тому +6

      You and me both .. Not nice .
      . I decided never another cancer .. That really hurt ..

    • @SL-sc5vu
      @SL-sc5vu 4 роки тому +3

      Same dude !!!same

    • @terrycroker7815
      @terrycroker7815 4 роки тому +5

      Sounds like cancers need to grow up ..

    • @briasandifer210
      @briasandifer210 4 роки тому +1

      It’s just astrology lmao it’s not that deep.

    • @ggxbrielle
      @ggxbrielle 4 роки тому +2

      what month was his birthday june or july?

  • @aiimsdelhi226
    @aiimsdelhi226 4 роки тому +5

    It's totally resonate with me ❤️
    ♋ cancerian 🎉

  • @kalimbaayinde25
    @kalimbaayinde25 2 роки тому +9

    😂😂😂😂 married to a cancer and there is different levels to them. YOU HAVE TO REALLY BE A STRONG MINDED PERSON to deal with Cancer ♋️. The are moody, crazy. manipulative, sneaky, stalkers, clingy, and sweet. Just be careful with them. All facts.

  • @spike16965
    @spike16965 4 роки тому +10

    Never ever would I date a Cancer. Too emotional

    • @Wildfire4496
      @Wildfire4496 4 роки тому +17

      Someone like you wouldn't deserve a Cancer anyways...

    • @fericel5971
      @fericel5971 4 роки тому +13

      Just because we are emotional doesn’t mean we cry 24/7. we actually hide our feelings and we don’t want to be seen crying

    • @acresy
      @acresy 4 роки тому +5

      @@Wildfire4496 ohhhh 🔥

    • @acresy
      @acresy 3 роки тому +2

      @blue jay agree I have a friend that only date with her compatible zodiac sign which is so stupid 🙄

    • @brandilocs4657
      @brandilocs4657 3 роки тому +2

      @blue jay that's thee only reason I'm continuing to deal because these comments are discouraging but I came looking🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @tinacampbell327
    @tinacampbell327 2 роки тому +2

    I’m a cancer and your on point but not with the manipulative part not for me

  • @dungtruong4105
    @dungtruong4105 Рік тому

    Cancer is your spiritual mentor. Forget about fast love , to a Cancer, love is not food to have a fast food.
    It's more about the journey, everlasting journey to the end of the universe itself.
    As long as you enjoy the journey, you can envolve and learn many precious things to uncover yourself, too.
    Of course, for an unevolved cancer, it's disgusting to date with. His emotion is unstable.

  • @rymfrigui9251
    @rymfrigui9251 4 роки тому +2

    I love this series ❤️🙏

  • @laciedufrene3708
    @laciedufrene3708 2 роки тому

    Why is this so true 🤣 I’m a cancer 🦀 girl you hit the nail on the head 100 %

  • @emmanuelmelendez9869
    @emmanuelmelendez9869 3 роки тому +2

    thank you for telling me things i coudt see in my self,,,, but i always say sorry if i hurt someone i promise, very real wqith my feelings but maybe its to late when i can be real...!!!

  • @JamieBleu
    @JamieBleu 3 роки тому +1

    I like this series a lot.

  • @ladysnowmeditation4208
    @ladysnowmeditation4208 3 роки тому +1

    Always love your stuff! I actually share your videos all the time!

  • @gilliannicole328
    @gilliannicole328 3 роки тому +2

    This is so true girl 😭

  • @sashavoyles979
    @sashavoyles979 4 роки тому +1

    I love this series

  • @Quanmccorry1002
    @Quanmccorry1002 2 роки тому

    Her being cancer rising like me this is on point

  • @needyasf3949
    @needyasf3949 4 роки тому +3

    Maybe it's just my moon in sagg but whenver i'm upset with someone yes I get quiet but afterwards I would talk it out with the person just give me few days and some space for me to get my thoughts right and even if the person wasn't sincere if their fault or etc I would just move on since its better than having bad vibes between this other person just becoz of a small misunderstanding plus holding grudges is tiring I used to do that shit but growing up i'd rather just let go

  • @Ruthf93
    @Ruthf93 4 роки тому +4

    Spot on 😬♋️ I also date an Aquarius ♒️

  • @MadMusician
    @MadMusician Рік тому

    You say you and cancers don't work out. Try being a cancer with your moon in Aquarius like me. These two energies are my strongest and sometimes they are too equal in strength that it's really hard to choose one or the other when I need to.

  • @SL-sc5vu
    @SL-sc5vu 4 роки тому +24

    It’s all TRUE. They are super caring but I Cannot Stand them. They are so bipolar,very insecure, super toxic, and most of all VERY CONTROLLING! I’ve Dates ONE for almost 5 years. What a fucking waste of time.NEVER AGAIN

    • @Wildfire4496
      @Wildfire4496 4 роки тому +9

      That's mostly the men

    • @janetadesida5556
      @janetadesida5556 3 роки тому +1

      Lmao easy there wildfire

    • @casebycase7750
      @casebycase7750 3 роки тому +2

      Not all are that way.

    • @shyguyx1219
      @shyguyx1219 3 роки тому

      Wouldn’t that be considered a relationship if you’ve dated them for 5 years lol

    • @latifahshakur5466
      @latifahshakur5466 3 роки тому +2

      I don’t talk to my dad because the bad outweighs the smidgen of good 😂

  • @madisonspruill6340
    @madisonspruill6340 4 роки тому +1

    Hey Ashley! Pleaseee do Libra next ☺️🥺

  • @ladysnow3444
    @ladysnow3444 4 роки тому +2

    Love your videos!

  • @MrChangeordie
    @MrChangeordie 2 роки тому

    I like her natural beauty 🤭

  • @Sativamarie122
    @Sativamarie122 11 місяців тому +1

    this is so true its kinda scary lmaoooo like did we fw the same guy lol🤣

  • @jenneatsyoursoul
    @jenneatsyoursoul 3 роки тому +3

    As a cancer with a sagittarius moon😬😬😬 I never relate to most cancer things and idk if that's part of it buuuut 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

  • @Majorie614
    @Majorie614 4 роки тому

    I love this content. Pleeeeease Virgo and Libra next. 🙏🏽🥰

  • @Phantom-Histories
    @Phantom-Histories 6 місяців тому

    Im an cancer and I approve this message

  • @moniquee1302
    @moniquee1302 2 роки тому +27

    Anyone interested in a long-term relationship with a Cancer, please be aware that the act of kindness and consideration a Cancer portray is only temporary! I personally think Cancers make better friends than romantic partners.
    If you want to live a life of manipulation/mind games, gas-lighting, one-sided/selfishness, constantly unhappy, and blaming you for everything....then a Cancer is the one for you.
    Everybody loves a Cancer until you have been in a romantic relationship with one for a long time. Don't get fool by their charming personality at the beginning; it is only a put on to catch you. Because of their charming persona; when you start to complain about them, no one will believe you because they are extremely great manipulators and pretensive.
    If you choose to entertain a Cancer for long-term commitment, good luck and be strong, because you are going to need it all!

    • @julianfleming5627
      @julianfleming5627 2 роки тому +5

      Must have been a woman you dated or a super sensitive, insecure man that wasn’t completely in love with you.

    • @moniquee1302
      @moniquee1302 2 роки тому

      @@julianfleming5627 No, it was a man!
      Cancer people would say anything to make themselves seem like a great person to be in a relationship with, hence why people would think they found their soul mate or hit the jackpot when the relationship is new or a few years in. I see it quite often to know. I can't be wrong if lots of people feel the same way I do 😊. Y'all f**kers a pain in the ass!! Unfortunately, you won't know that until many, many, many years later in the relationship.

    • @igajarzebkowska4284
      @igajarzebkowska4284 2 роки тому +15

      Damn, some cancer has hurt you so badly. Not all of us are like that tho

    • @moniquee1302
      @moniquee1302 2 роки тому +3

      @@igajarzebkowska4284 you are right, a Cancer man did hurt me bad; but guess what, so have many people in my life time. Every adult have been disappointed and hurt by people at some point in their life.
      I have interacted with men of all the zodiac signs, and have come to the realization that Cancer men are the worst. I can't personally speak for the women because I have never been romantically involve with one nor am I very close friend with any, on the contrary, I do know a few men who have entertained a Cancer woman, and they too share my feelings about Cancerians.
      I have seen a few videos on here where the astrologer indicated that Cancerians are the worst zodiac sign, and in reference to my personally experience and interactions, I agree! Every Cancer man I know in a relationship, their woman have the same observation and complain as I; every comment I read about a woman's bad experience with a Cancer man, it relates to what I already know; when astrologers describe the good and bad of a Cancerian, it relates to what I already know; it cant be coincidence!
      Cancer men play too much mind-games, like to gas-light people too much, emotionally selfish, too moody, and just straight up a pain in the ass!
      If a man wants to turn me off on the first time we talk, he just needs to say he is a Cancer! 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

    • @_Milcah_
      @_Milcah_ 2 роки тому +1

      Even as friends they exhibit the toxic traits you described (the low-vibrational ones).

  • @Kaycee907
    @Kaycee907 23 дні тому

    It's not moody. We tend to pull back to process our thoughts and feelings. I guess we are greatly misunderstood, but that's fine. I wouldn't want to be any other sign, especially a fire sign!

  • @TheBlueKnitter
    @TheBlueKnitter 4 роки тому +3

    I’m cancer sun with Aquarius moon! I think my Aquarius side takes over a lot in love cause I HATE taking care of other people’s shit! But at the same time I never tell my man how I feel, he should know, lol!

    • @dadrienedavis
      @dadrienedavis 3 роки тому +1

      I’m a Cancer Sun Aquarius moon too

  • @Aquariangirl126
    @Aquariangirl126 4 роки тому +20

    As an Aquarius ♒️ no Cancers for me, too moody, insecure and I don’t like walking on eggshells.

    • @julesprtlz8623
      @julesprtlz8623 4 роки тому +5

      I'm a Capricorn sun and even I can't stand their moodiness, I know they're a fairly okay sign & we're compatible...but once you get into a relationship with one(from own experience) you realize they can have the stupidest logic ever in arguments I'm not hating I swear, but the guy I had a fling with in the past would be like "it's not even about being real it's how what you say makes me feel" another iconic line from him "it's not about what you think is right for you it's about how sometimes you don't even care" (This is a time he wanted me to drop everything for him) my life which (mind you) I had before him should halt for his Highness! they're so entitled and needy. You also literally feel like you're walking on eggshells around them when you say no or try to be realistic or try to keep healthy boundaries...also they ocassionally use their neediness to manipulate you. And if you don't fall for it they take it personally. Too busy being moody and insecure to be levelheaded.
      I'm a very fend for yourself type of person and always kept my shit together so this all was suffocating to a point. Babysitting somebody's mood swings is not what I signed up for. Personally I don't think water signs are compatible with me... my best intimate relationships so far have been with Taurus and a Libra

    • @Ruthf93
      @Ruthf93 4 роки тому +2

      I’m a Cancer and I currently date an Aquarius. I’ve learned to control my moodiness. All in all Cancers and Aquarius just needs to learn how to understand each other. We sit and have deep conversations for hours. I know Aquarius’s hate random/emotional outbreaks so I made sure he understood me from the beginning of the relationship. Dating Aquarius’s helped me learn how to not be as emotional. He is my 3rd Aquarius. 😬 I’ve also come from a family who is outspoken and my friend is pretty blunt so I rather people tell me how it is rather than walk on eggshells. But I see where you are coming from cause I hate emotional Cancer men. Lol.

    • @PJ-po6xy
      @PJ-po6xy 3 роки тому

      @@desmonclark1896 can u read?

  • @uniquejordan1138
    @uniquejordan1138 2 роки тому +4

    You're soo on point im cancer dating a cancer just starting but I'ma bout to drop that nigga

    • @maryjanney1361
      @maryjanney1361 2 роки тому

      My heart is full of joy and excitement , Dr RORPOPOR HERBAL is truly the son of his father the medications I order from him can testified to that , A BIG thanks to you doctor Cancer cured ❣️

  • @Naeyola
    @Naeyola 4 роки тому +2

    Lawd i’m a aquarius talking to a cancer woman, now i’m nervous

    • @mochiiqueen3616
      @mochiiqueen3616 4 роки тому +3

      I’m an Aquarius woman talking to a cancer man, lemme tell you...just be patient if you really love that person.

    • @Naeyola
      @Naeyola 4 роки тому +2

      @@mochiiqueen3616 😅I’m trying, me & her really vibe together so i’m hoping we work out. I am starting to notice a couple things mentioned in the video tho

  • @totrigo6834
    @totrigo6834 4 роки тому +10

    Not directly related to the video but just wanna get this out there, as an astrology enthusiast I find really annoying this trend of replacing zodiac signs with someone birth month.

  • @guelleshah3207
    @guelleshah3207 3 місяці тому

    Anyone help?:
    I am a libra sun, Pisces rising, libra moon, he is a Cancer
    I have known him for like 10 years, but we started seeing each other almost 3 months, not daily basis, long conversations, lot of fun, took intimacy slow and caring, not lustful
    I thought I could never feel love again, it ferls as if though he healed me, made me feel safe, loved, protected, worthy..maybe first time in my 47 years of life I feel this way..
    Now I read the comments and watched this video: "They make you feel lovey dovey, affectionate, cuddly, but may not give a f@ck..." -" Manipulate you".. etcetera.
    Now this triggers my anxiety from the past.. How can I know or trust this then? It is something I seems worth trying, investing time and energy,, and trusting.. Any advice anybody? Thanks in advance❤

  • @lisamarie9834
    @lisamarie9834 2 роки тому +1

    Cancer sun, Gemini moon, Scorpio Mars, & Aries rising...

  • @ricardohanson7010
    @ricardohanson7010 4 роки тому +3

    Can you make a dating a Scorpio video next

  • @adrianaayala8326
    @adrianaayala8326 4 роки тому +1

    5th! Can you upload it earlier cause I’m bored and currently talking to a cancer hehe

  • @anabelsalcido3400
    @anabelsalcido3400 4 роки тому +2

    I've been waiting for the Cancer video! ♋
    Great video Ashley! ❤
    I would love to learn more about Mars signs 😊

  • @talkingcatsproductions1140
    @talkingcatsproductions1140 2 роки тому

    Thank you for the info ☺️

  • @lu1ianaAndom
    @lu1ianaAndom 3 роки тому +2

    I'm a Scorpio and my crush is a cancer

  • @raimonestarks3747
    @raimonestarks3747 2 роки тому +2

    I really love cancer