Thomas awesome advice, I used to struggle bad with this, I would often end up checking often if she reached out to me or if she did anything on her social media etc. Now I have read the book, whilst I am waiting for her to reach out I am setting dates and meeting new women, it also helps you lose the attachment to her and helps you really have an abundance, indifferent mentality
Illusion (Classic Rock) nah you will be fine, in the end you make the choice, you lose one you gain two, in the end you.’ll find the one always gotta look on the bright side
@@benjamintrnt7329 Amen bro what I've learned from dating other women while the woman of your dreams is being kinda flakey makes you're confidence level increase like while at a first when you was only talking to dream girl you find yourself agonizing over her whe she doesn't contact you in a certain amount of time, meanwhile when you're seeing multiple women you wont give a fuck less about dream girl not texting you back because you now have multiple women to choose from.
Corey is the man. I followed every step possible. From a broken relationship to a new, high level interest relationship. His teaching are more important than PHD classes.
It's funny how differently men and women think. I'm like, "whatddya mean I never say I love you? I told you once 12 years ago. If something changes I'll let you know."
Yea, and also talking in the phone for 2 minutes is much more enhancing and connecting than texting. You have more chances to getting dates if you just talk in the phone to set dates.
in the beginning just text her once a week to set up a date then by the second or third week/date she'll start texting you between your date bc she wants to see you again. if a woman says "i love you" that's how she feels at the PRESENT moment if she wants space giver her the space to come back to you- women are like cats
My ex must be listening to you, lol. He came back around after six months, pursued, made our date, then stopped texting (date is Saturday). The quieter he is, the more I’m interested and excited to see him. Corey speaks the truth 💯👌
@@WayneF23It is the man's job to guide the interaction during the courtship. At first, he must express his interest in order to engage her emotionally and then set the date (aka pursue). The man only needs to pursue like this in the beginning, then the woman will start chasing (pursuing) him as long as he is doing things right and not acting needy.
Coach has an amazing sense of humour, there's nothing better than learning things while having fun, at least for me personally, I owe a coach a lot, kudos to you sir, thank you for making earth better place 🙏🏻
I just realized... This video was posted almost exactly when that girl in high school rejected me.. and now 7 years later she has started messaging me again and I am watching this to get tips to increase my chances with her
masculine energy grows through challenge. when a girl wants space or we wthink uh oh shes distant. i have to do something!. no wonder we get all mixed up. it's in our natrue to accomplish. with women it's different i see now....ah.
Yeah my girl right now texts me throughout the day. I simply just sit back set a date and wait. Sometimes she'll keep texting me and it's hard to just keep bringing it back to just hanging out cause I already said that before Ex. Can't wait to see you then etc. etc. But she keeps texting so I just try to limit my text. Tell her "I want to hear all about it when I see you" But she keeps texting. So I just wait a long as time, do my goal and respond way later.
Texting is such a useless thing for game and pickup honestly, just like coach said only to set up the dates, girls go nuts when you don't text them to only set up the date, but in the meanwhile, you post stuff of you on your social media doing other cool stuff ( with friends and family ( social proof, charismatic,) hobbies ( shows goals, drive, masculinity ) and women ( preselection ). I've learned a lot to not even bother to text girls I stopped my habit of calling girls because for some silly ass reason I thought it would build rapport, but you could do that on the date and I found out it just lowered her interest, I found out a lot of just saying fuck it to texting, only to use it for dates, great video coach
amazing ! thanks bro I realized that I was giving her way too much , being needy is bad like you said , we have to give only 30% and you are absolutely right
I feel, I'm guilty myself, people may have that tomorrow's never certain/ you only live once mentality and gets our thoughts in a rush to do action right away. Not the right method but maybe why dudes & maybe females, get into problems with assuming over chasing will help... it doesn't. Absence makes the heart grow fonder a scientific fact I assume if the significant other deeply cares about you? Thank you for sharing video.
The dating part is easy. It gets hard when you're in a relationship and the woman texts 24/7 fishing for attention. If you don't respond within a few hours, they get pissed. If you respond regularly, they get bored and stop responding mid convo (which is just plain rude). Kunts make no sense.
Above Average Lopes You're gonna make it, brother. Here's an insider tip. Focus on banging them. Leave out the sentimental shit. They secretly love a guy that wants to fuck their brains out but isn't too emotionally attached.
So bloody true man, I had this issue... You dont wanna be a cold fish, yet you still wanna maintain that mystery by being a busy guy focusing on his drive and purpose lol.. I know in coreys book he says once youre gf/bf you can loosen up on the phone slightly... slightly? what is slightly lol 3/4 messages a day? Then saying gotta run baby, ring her once a week for 10/15 mins to chat about her day = my 20% contact a week in my eyes, and she wants you to stay on the phone saying why what you doing instead of talking to me? (am just trying to be mysterious) She messages saying what you up to? am over here like, if i tell you am not mysterious haha then she gets pissed cuz she thinks youre ignoring her but if you always tell her what youre up to all the time she gets bored and attraction goes down hill... FUCK
So my question is, I have been texting this girl now for a good 7-8 days straight. The first 5-6 days we were texting we were both sending long messages talking a lot. I realized I was fucking up after watching these videos so I started taking longer to reply between and wasn’t saying as much. Thing is though, she just got out of a 4 year relationship with a guy, BUT she said she does not want to be back with him and the attraction is not there with him anymore. Am I wrong for trying with a girl who just got out of a relationship or should I continue to barely text her and try and take her on a date?
What's the best way to handle it when a girl says she wants to text to get to know you before meeting? Like I don't have time for small talk back and forth, I'd rather just setup a date like a week later if I have time.
I fucked up as well. Stopped talking to this girl and she started texting me after two weeks wondering why I haven't text her... When she said she needs some time alone! Lol we spoke yesterday and only because she started the conversation. We have plans now. I'm not messaging her. It's easy to do this when you have goals.
Most of these inexperienced dudes don't even know how blessed they are to have had these girls reachout to em after fucking up this much... Smh. T.O. (If you believe to be A King then start acting like one.)
This only works when things are more established, but in the initial dating stage - a woman is going to be turned off by having to initiate communication by doing the majority of calling or texting. I've lost interest in guys that express interest, but if they can't make contact or seem aloof, I'll fall off and replace.
I went out on a hot date and both of us had a great time but unfortunately i think I texted something wrong cause I lost her interest and poof, she was gooown:(
What im stuck texting her because shes always texting back and keeping the fonversation going? Its monday, and our first date is saturday. We matched on hinge 3 weeks ago. Im beginning to pull back, no emojis and i text back when i can but idk if i should ignore her and wait for saturday but i feel like she’d be like wth happened
I REALLY NEED FKIN HELP I met a girl at school and I only see her in one class, so I invited her out and we went bowling, everything was great. The next day after that she told me that she had a great time, and I tried to invite her out the next week, but she said she couldn’t, so I said let’s go out two weeks from now and she agreed. The problem is she is always initiating texts with me, and I don’t want to fuck it up in texts, and I also see her every day in school what should I do????
Keep things nice and brief in the texts, don't text her all day. Make her wait a bit before you text back, be flirty with your texts. At school, just be your confident self, hang around your friends, make her feel that she's not the only girl you're talking to. When you run into her, give her a hug sometimes! Compliment her! Keep things nice and playful but then get the fuck out of there! Walk away! Make her miss you! Remember..Only text to set up dates!
So what if I'm texting another girl from a different country? A girl I work with recommended me to talking to her cousin. We talk threw Facebook messenger
So what happens when you girl texts you everyday... morning, night... lol I dont wanna be a cold fish how can you.be a mystery when she is always messaging you haha 😂
It's quite easy, you don't ignore it. What matters is she is initiating contact so it's okay to respond and be playful, be positive and have fun. Just remember to: 1. always have a date set up so it's not just texting 2. there will be days when she gets a little bored and she won't message you, you don't start chasing, you let her go, you have a det set up anyway so it's okay, she knows you want to see her. 3. If she ever asks "why don't you ever message me?" again be playful about it, say things like "you miss me? :>" etc, if she says she wants you to reach out then do it from time to time, once or twice a week. Easy. :)
If she has a healthy self of steam than coach strategy works perfect . However i found that if she is insecure you should say good morning every 1-2 days. This will keep her attention and attraction high for you and keep those insecurities down on her part. Every person is different depending on their background and how hey were raised. If she decides to text you than you reply. You can train her how to respond but slowly. Find what strategy works for you.
Me and my bf meet like that..its almost 2 yeas. But got intimate only for four months.We just text twice in a week and only call if we upto meet.otherwise it really bothers me to talk if I can't see him.Not to talk often with him makes our Date more exciting. That's our point of view.Im 30+ he is arround 40. But my friends are telling me, I'm into an unhealthy relationship,he is just using me..etc. I would have been agreed with them and nearly was planning to break up!!!!!! , if I didn't see that Vedio
So I set a date in 10 days because I travel a lot for work. I have been checking in like every other day (not 3 a day like the emailer) but I suppose from this video and his book I shouldn’t be initiating any texts during those 10 days?
Coach I set dates up with the women I been talking to. She said that I don’t communicate enough in between our date. But I small talk with her for a few minutes at work. She said that I act like its okay that we only talk at work. I’m confused on how to move. Should I reach out once between the date?
Well, be it once a week, or be it once every 3-4 days it isn't as much as texting her everyday. There a lot of guys who can't even abtain 1 whole day without texting. So texting her once every 4 days it's still a progress.
Whats up everybody!! To many comments for the COACH TO ANSWER! I NEED INPUTFROM YOU GUYS THAT HAVE READ THE BOOK LOTS OF TIMES!!! Im in mexico and she dont have a computer and is tight on money...and i dont Wan to put minutes on her Phone...but we do chat...i handle this chats as a date!!!so my question is: if a date is an average of 3-4 Hours? For how long should i text With her...by the way i always wait for her to texto me first and i once a week!! We are far from each...no Phone, no Skype only text...thanks ladys and guys!!!
What if she continues to keep texting me in between the time I've already set the date? This happened to me and she would get mad when I respond later. I wanted to give her space to think about me but it just seemed like she wants to keep chitchat via text. And when the day of the date came, she would make up some bs excuse as to why she can't make it. Can anyone here give me a solution as to how to make her stop the texting in between?
+SuperDomo1997 thnx for your input bro! I'm not worried about her anymore and I am talking to other women. I figured something was up with her so I let her be with the door open if she decides to come around. It just sucks because I thought we had something special. Not gonna lie, I played it cool until she started backing away, then I went off the rails a bit trying to force things. Definitely a lesson learned.
She is just impatient and less matured or a way too exited for the date, that she can't wait. In the result of getting too exited her interest drops when the time is closer cause she is too tired of being getting exited mentaly... you need to tell her to get calm down and keep going on with her life and u will text or contact her when u will feel free or wish in between the date..
if she is avoiding setting up a date even though you have already hooked up, it means she is unsure of what she truly wants right now. she obviously found you attractive enough to hook up with you, so that isn't a problem. your goal now should be to get her to initiate a face 2 face meeting. if you are giving her the attention she wants without having to have any of the benefits of sex, then you are in the friend zone. when she messages you little things here and there, don't respond in a way that is giving her what she wants, you want to date, she isn't giving you that, so why would you give her the attention she wants if she isn't willing to give you what you want.
Matthew Cooper I like what you are saying man but the problem with most guys, including myself although I have now worked on my inner self, is that they think because the girl hooked up with him she is the only girl on the planet and most guys behave like a dog with a bone instead of backing off
What to do now in quarantine when I'm away from college and stuck at home? I've been dating this girl for two months and I'm gonna stay away from her for a month or two. I'm trying not to text her or over talk, but she always texts me first at least once a day. So when I'm taking with her I get to a point that we don't have stuff to talk and she doesn't help to much, it seems like she just want to see me or video call me and see me, you know?(I'm actually enjoying talking more to another girl I also see) So due to the fact that we are in quarantine, we don't have a lot of new stuff going on our lives to talk... So... As I can't not set a real date with her, what should I do? When she texts me, should i say that I'm busy? How much should I talk to her during this long distance phase? I usually am very focused on my college and life but... Being stuck at home sucks.
What about when a women loves the fact u text her because she says it makes her happy you are thinking about her initially then later she hates the fact you text her especially when you first met her you wasn't big on texting🤔
@@antonioboyd2036 well, 2 months later she asked my to date her and we have been together ever since... 2 years and half now. It's going great, thanks Corey for your lessons.
What if your slowly getting back with an ex gf that's long distance and you set a Skype date. How should you handle the Skype date for her to become more attracted or interested?
@@creativekaii to be fair coach does advice skype dates in one of his videos. Cooking dinner together over skype and doing interactive stuff for long distance relationships
So what if you feel that texts (she engages first in) are excessive and you then text this... "How about we limit texts to calls sometimes, We have nice voices. Does that sound ok"? My recent date practically wanted to bang on the first date. But it was late and she was tired, so I backed off even though we kissed everywhere we went after dinner & my co-workers band performance. The next day today she give me a good morning, she's with her kid and will later be on vacation away from family to a festival for a week. I thought we could talk once in while and when she gets back I'll plan a second date. Do you think that text was necessary. I kind of like this one.
‘Men who understand women don’t argue with them’ best quote 10/10
Facts
@@EJayyDreadHead you everywhere man, seems like you need some help again haha. Best luck mate
Then stop being a bitch and we won’t
@@_KingofKingss exactly.
They know it's a waiste of their time 😂⌚
You don't have to live in a VOID while you're giving her SPACE. GO talk to other women!!!!!
Don't give 1 woman that power over you.
Thomas amen
Thomas awesome advice, I used to struggle bad with this, I would often end up checking often if she reached out to me or if she did anything on her social media etc. Now I have read the book, whilst I am waiting for her to reach out I am setting dates and meeting new women, it also helps you lose the attachment to her and helps you really have an abundance, indifferent mentality
Thomas wish I could bring myself to do this. I’m worried if I’m dating someone else I will lose her.
Illusion (Classic Rock) nah you will be fine, in the end you make the choice, you lose one you gain two, in the end you.’ll find the one always gotta look on the bright side
@@benjamintrnt7329 Amen bro what I've learned from dating other women while the woman of your dreams is being kinda flakey makes you're confidence level increase like while at a first when you was only talking to dream girl you find yourself agonizing over her whe she doesn't contact you in a certain amount of time, meanwhile when you're seeing multiple women you wont give a fuck less about dream girl not texting you back because you now have multiple women to choose from.
Right. If a guy is worried that a woman will find someone else during his "push" he has already lost the game.....
Corey is the man. I followed every step possible. From a broken relationship to a new, high level interest relationship. His teaching are more important than PHD classes.
@@mavisser3211 like what?
This dude saved me
Same
same man!
Same
Same here
@@raygipson8896 same here
“It’s like constantly opening the oven when there is a cake in there baking,” ‘is it done yet?’ “You’re just letting the hot air out.” LMAO!!!!!
It's funny how differently men and women think. I'm like, "whatddya mean I never say I love you? I told you once 12 years ago. If something changes I'll let you know."
Lmbo that's funny
I hate texting... If I can't actually talk to a woman face to face or on the phone then I don't waste my time... try it sometime, it does work.
Yea, and also talking in the phone for 2 minutes is much more enhancing and connecting than texting. You have more chances to getting dates if you just talk in the phone to set dates.
God dammit, why didn't they teach this wisdom in school? Ended up wasting so much time and energy on women over the years
Chuck G - ross RIGHT BRO OMG!!
Now you know young grasshopper
in the beginning just text her once a week to set up a date
then by the second or third week/date she'll start texting you between your date bc she wants to see you again.
if a woman says "i love you" that's how she feels at the PRESENT moment
if she wants space giver her the space to come back to you- women are like cats
No wonder I'm a dog person. :P
I will never text for a date ever again. I call now because it looks weak if you text, trust me guys.
Hahah cats
You must be old. Any woman younger than 35 will think you’re creepy if you call vs text
@@mperformance3502whatever you say, zoomer.
My ex must be listening to you, lol. He came back around after six months, pursued, made our date, then stopped texting (date is Saturday). The quieter he is, the more I’m interested and excited to see him. Corey speaks the truth 💯👌
Nice to see from a female perspective
@@WayneF23It is the man's job to guide the interaction during the courtship. At first, he must express his interest in order to engage her emotionally and then set the date (aka pursue). The man only needs to pursue like this in the beginning, then the woman will start chasing (pursuing) him as long as he is doing things right and not acting needy.
U're truly the MAN, Corey. Regards from a veteran PUA
Coach has an amazing sense of humour, there's nothing better than learning things while having fun, at least for me personally, I owe a coach a lot, kudos to you sir, thank you for making earth better place 🙏🏻
I just realized... This video was posted almost exactly when that girl in high school rejected me.. and now 7 years later she has started messaging me again and I am watching this to get tips to increase my chances with her
I can’t believe i used to be like this guy in the email lol. Thank God for growing up and learning, and for help from Corey Wayne.
masculine energy grows through challenge. when a girl wants space or we wthink uh oh shes distant. i have to do something!. no wonder we get all mixed up. it's in our natrue to accomplish. with women it's different i see now....ah.
You cant control the forces of nature but you CAN control your thoughts, perceptions and actions
"All we are, all we are we are. We are all, all we need." -- Warlock (Doro Pesch)
Yeah my girl right now texts me throughout the day. I simply just sit back set a date and wait. Sometimes she'll keep texting me and it's hard to just keep bringing it back to just hanging out cause I already said that before Ex. Can't wait to see you then etc. etc. But she keeps texting so I just try to limit my text. Tell her "I want to hear all about it when I see you" But she keeps texting. So I just wait a long as time, do my goal and respond way later.
MrVolcomclassic kudos
This is what I find happens lol! The other thing that happens is getting a text within an hour after leaving her house in the morning
A good problem to have.
Texting is such a useless thing for game and pickup honestly, just like coach said only to set up the dates, girls go nuts when you don't text them to only set up the date, but in the meanwhile, you post stuff of you on your social media doing other cool stuff ( with friends and family ( social proof, charismatic,) hobbies ( shows goals, drive, masculinity ) and women ( preselection ). I've learned a lot to not even bother to text girls I stopped my habit of calling girls because for some silly ass reason I thought it would build rapport, but you could do that on the date and I found out it just lowered her interest, I found out a lot of just saying fuck it to texting, only to use it for dates, great video coach
thanks man
amazing ! thanks bro I realized that I was giving her way too much , being needy is bad like you said , we have to give only 30% and you are absolutely right
Lmfao I see you holding in them laughs man your a G the way you tell advice man lmao "it tells me you probably haven't read my book" 😭
I feel, I'm guilty myself, people may have that tomorrow's never certain/ you only live once mentality and gets our thoughts in a rush to do action right away. Not the right method but maybe why dudes & maybe females, get into problems with assuming over chasing will help... it doesn't. Absence makes the heart grow fonder a scientific fact I assume if the significant other deeply cares about you? Thank you for sharing video.
In the world of dating there are no victims only volunteers
this guy is a character hes GREAT 🤣🤣
GIVE HER A FUCKING MINUTE BRO...
The dating part is easy. It gets hard when you're in a relationship and the woman texts 24/7 fishing for attention. If you don't respond within a few hours, they get pissed. If you respond regularly, they get bored and stop responding mid convo (which is just plain rude). Kunts make no sense.
Anxious Drift you ain't lien lmao I'm trying to get past the dating phase lol I need a girl
Above Average Lopes
You're gonna make it, brother. Here's an insider tip. Focus on banging them. Leave out the sentimental shit. They secretly love a guy that wants to fuck their brains out but isn't too emotionally attached.
So bloody true man, I had this issue... You dont wanna be a cold fish, yet you still wanna maintain that mystery by being a busy guy focusing on his drive and purpose lol.. I know in coreys book he says once youre gf/bf you can loosen up on the phone slightly... slightly? what is slightly lol 3/4 messages a day? Then saying gotta run baby, ring her once a week for 10/15 mins to chat about her day = my 20% contact a week in my eyes, and she wants you to stay on the phone saying why what you doing instead of talking to me? (am just trying to be mysterious) She messages saying what you up to? am over here like, if i tell you am not mysterious haha then she gets pissed cuz she thinks youre ignoring her but if you always tell her what youre up to all the time she gets bored and attraction goes down hill... FUCK
Anxious Drift that's why u have to train them in the beginning that ur not always available for chit-chat
So my question is, I have been texting this girl now for a good 7-8 days straight. The first 5-6 days we were texting we were both sending long messages talking a lot. I realized I was fucking up after watching these videos so I started taking longer to reply between and wasn’t saying as much. Thing is though, she just got out of a 4 year relationship with a guy, BUT she said she does not want to be back with him and the attraction is not there with him anymore. Am I wrong for trying with a girl who just got out of a relationship or should I continue to barely text her and try and take her on a date?
Good job man.....great stuff....I thought I was perfect at this but I have found many flaws....Thanks
if someone loves you one minute and then doesnt the next. that person has borderline personality disorder or has another personality disorder.
Or...they are a woman.
This dude...... is awesome. And yall should not click away from his vids. Its hard truth in segments
What's the best way to handle it when a girl says she wants to text to get to know you before meeting? Like I don't have time for small talk back and forth, I'd rather just setup a date like a week later if I have time.
You tell her good luck with everything and move on
I fucked up as well. Stopped talking to this girl and she started texting me after two weeks wondering why I haven't text her... When she said she needs some time alone! Lol we spoke yesterday and only because she started the conversation. We have plans now. I'm not messaging her. It's easy to do this when you have goals.
I done the no contact rule and what do ya know, text me at night but only to find it was a chicken drumstick emoji? should I set a date to get KFC ?😂
Steve Hartley Be flirty
You should of said this exact joke to her, this is funny and flirty lol
Lol
She wanted the drumstick 🍗
Should have said I got some chicken you can choke.
I love the cake in the oven analogy you made fukin funny dude real talk
Most of these inexperienced dudes don't even know how blessed they are to have had these girls reachout to em after fucking up this much... Smh.
T.O.
(If you believe to be A King then start acting like one.)
Checking in on her like she's your fucking drill sergeant! CLASSIC!
9:10 What to do when a woman backs off/ gets bored
This guy (the emailer) reached the PONR. He ruined that one real bad. No chance at fixing that...
Im so happy i found this stuff lol
Me 2
All girls aside corey. Your principles have helped me alot in my business. Cheers man!!
When Coach reads an email, calls them out on what they've been doing wrong and it's exactly what you've been doing 🤔😑
This only works when things are more established, but in the initial dating stage - a woman is going to be turned off by having to initiate communication by doing the majority of calling or texting. I've lost interest in guys that express interest, but if they can't make contact or seem aloof, I'll fall off and replace.
Not if you are attracted to then ;) that's the key ;)
No, even if attracted it comes off as not present or seeing other people
You attract what you are in life.. that’s deep
Waiting for Hang Out, Have Fun, Hook Up T-shirt. Corey?
12:31; this dude is sending her a text message for breakfast, lunch and dinner he's out of his mind 😆😆😂😆😆😆
I am a woman who followed your advice to just use texting to set up a date and I got a date!!!!!
lol Coach Coreymedian Wayne...man when i watch these videos and the level of neediness the email shows, i feel like it's almost a trolled email
What if she contacts you on the same day after leaving her house in the morning? I’m talking 4-5 weeks into dating her?
What the fuck?? Women are told men are supposed to do ALL the texting....
She’s always always responds after 3-4 days of me not txting or perusing her
I went out on a hot date and both of us had a great time but unfortunately i think I texted something wrong cause I lost her interest and poof, she was gooown:(
awh man. her loss! once she realizes most men out there suck she'll be back ;)
Shouldn't have been texting other than for making dates
Plot twist: it was your date that sucked
Steve Kimble S. Yea its hard to always say the right thing. I guess keep it short and simple next time
What im stuck texting her because shes always texting back and keeping the fonversation going? Its monday, and our first date is saturday. We matched on hinge 3 weeks ago. Im beginning to pull back, no emojis and i text back when i can but idk if i should ignore her and wait for saturday but i feel like she’d be like wth happened
this dude was tricking off his money!
Terrific & valuable advice
I love this guy!!
I REALLY NEED FKIN HELP
I met a girl at school and I only see her in one class, so I invited her out and we went bowling, everything was great. The next day after that she told me that she had a great time, and I tried to invite her out the next week, but she said she couldn’t, so I said let’s go out two weeks from now and she agreed. The problem is she is always initiating texts with me, and I don’t want to fuck it up in texts, and I also see her every day in school what should I do????
Joshua Guerrero if she texts, reply don’t ignore her. Just don’t be the first to initiate it. In school be your self and act like a confident beast.
go with the flow
Keep things nice and brief in the texts, don't text her all day. Make her wait a bit before you text back, be flirty with your texts. At school, just be your confident self, hang around your friends, make her feel that she's not the only girl you're talking to. When you run into her, give her a hug sometimes! Compliment her! Keep things nice and playful but then get the fuck out of there! Walk away! Make her miss you! Remember..Only text to set up dates!
So what if I'm texting another girl from a different country? A girl I work with recommended me to talking to her cousin. We talk threw Facebook messenger
So what happens when you girl texts you everyday... morning, night... lol I dont wanna be a cold fish how can you.be a mystery when she is always messaging you haha 😂
TEMPTED_ YOUTH dude...I'm in the same fucking ⛵ I would love to hear others' thoughts on it
It's quite easy, you don't ignore it. What matters is she is initiating contact so it's okay to respond and be playful, be positive and have fun. Just remember to:
1. always have a date set up so it's not just texting
2. there will be days when she gets a little bored and she won't message you, you don't start chasing, you let her go, you have a det set up anyway so it's okay, she knows you want to see her.
3. If she ever asks "why don't you ever message me?" again be playful about it, say things like "you miss me? :>" etc, if she says she wants you to reach out then do it from time to time, once or twice a week.
Easy. :)
This guy should be the TA for corey. :)
If she has a healthy self of steam than coach strategy works perfect . However i found that if she is insecure you should say good morning every 1-2 days. This will keep her attention and attraction high for you and keep those insecurities down on her part. Every person is different depending on their background and how hey were raised. If she decides to text you than you reply. You can train her how to respond but slowly. Find what strategy works for you.
@@will4evermoore Dude..it's Self Esteem. Not even down in Biloxi they spell it Self of Steam...cmon!!!
What if she is constantly texting me?
Rick Reeves make a date :)
I had a taken lady do that to me
Me and my bf meet like that..its almost 2 yeas. But got intimate only for four months.We just text twice in a week and only call if we upto meet.otherwise it really bothers me to talk if I can't see him.Not to talk often with him makes our Date more exciting. That's our point of view.Im 30+ he is arround 40.
But my friends are telling me, I'm into an unhealthy relationship,he is just using me..etc.
I would have been agreed with them and nearly was planning to break up!!!!!!
, if I didn't see that Vedio
I wish I would have seen this video three weeks ago! Lol
Just tell her that you’re ESSENTIAL
Your the best coach!
How does this apply if she texts you she had a good time when you leave her place the next morning? Set another date or wait until the next day?
What a fucken great video . Thank you so much . Facts I love it !!!
So I set a date in 10 days because I travel a lot for work. I have been checking in like every other day (not 3 a day like the emailer) but I suppose from this video and his book I shouldn’t be initiating any texts during those 10 days?
Maybe once or 2..
Corey, Thanks Man!
ooo that Oven!!!! guys that is the secret
What if women just want to chat on the phone, do you always give them an excuse as to why you cant speak and just make a date?
Man Corey your da man!
Corey is fucking awesome
Coach I set dates up with the women I been talking to. She said that I don’t communicate enough in between our date. But I small talk with her for a few minutes at work. She said that I act like its okay that we only talk at work. I’m confused on how to move. Should I reach out once between the date?
Just say your really busy but you want to see her when is she free
so once a week in texting hu? in another video, you said every 3-4 days..is 3 or 4 days enough days in between to call someone again??
Well, be it once a week, or be it once every 3-4 days it isn't as much as texting her everyday. There a lot of guys who can't even abtain 1 whole day without texting. So texting her once every 4 days it's still a progress.
Whats up everybody!! To many comments for the COACH TO ANSWER! I NEED INPUTFROM YOU GUYS THAT HAVE READ THE BOOK LOTS OF TIMES!!! Im in mexico and she dont have a computer and is tight on money...and i dont Wan to put minutes on her Phone...but we do chat...i handle this chats as a date!!!so my question is: if a date is an average of 3-4 Hours? For how long should i text With her...by the way i always wait for her to texto me first and i once a week!! We are far from each...no Phone, no Skype only text...thanks ladys and guys!!!
Eduardo Noguez read the book and PHONE is only for setting up dates
" Back the Fk off.... " hahahahah
I'm fasting from texting women who show low interest in me
Good info 👌🏾
I wish i had seen this video just a week ago...
What if she continues to keep texting me in between the time I've already set the date? This happened to me and she would get mad when I respond later. I wanted to give her space to think about me but it just seemed like she wants to keep chitchat via text. And when the day of the date came, she would make up some bs excuse as to why she can't make it. Can anyone here give me a solution as to how to make her stop the texting in between?
+SuperDomo1997 thnx for your input bro! I'm not worried about her anymore and I am talking to other women. I figured something was up with her so I let her be with the door open if she decides to come around. It just sucks because I thought we had something special. Not gonna lie, I played it cool until she started backing away, then I went off the rails a bit trying to force things. Definitely a lesson learned.
She is just impatient and less matured or a way too exited for the date, that she can't wait. In the result of getting too exited her interest drops when the time is closer cause she is too tired of being getting exited mentaly... you need to tell her to get calm down and keep going on with her life and u will text or contact her when u will feel free or wish in between the date..
What if a woman text you alot but when you try to set a date she avoids the question and keeps texting like a friend. but we have already hooked up
if she is avoiding setting up a date even though you have already hooked up, it means she is unsure of what she truly wants right now. she obviously found you attractive enough to hook up with you, so that isn't a problem. your goal now should be to get her to initiate a face 2 face meeting. if you are giving her the attention she wants without having to have any of the benefits of sex, then you are in the friend zone. when she messages you little things here and there, don't respond in a way that is giving her what she wants, you want to date, she isn't giving you that, so why would you give her the attention she wants if she isn't willing to give you what you want.
Matthew Cooper I like what you are saying man but the problem with most guys, including myself although I have now worked on my inner self, is that they think because the girl hooked up with him she is the only girl on the planet and most guys behave like a dog with a bone instead of backing off
Do i need an equation to find my precentage of speaking? :thinking: what if i speak 1% more????????
Xaris Ciffer bro don’t get paralysis of the analysis.
What's the name of your book?
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Superman
What to do now in quarantine when I'm away from college and stuck at home? I've been dating this girl for two months and I'm gonna stay away from her for a month or two. I'm trying not to text her or over talk, but she always texts me first at least once a day. So when I'm taking with her I get to a point that we don't have stuff to talk and she doesn't help to much, it seems like she just want to see me or video call me and see me, you know?(I'm actually enjoying talking more to another girl I also see)
So due to the fact that we are in quarantine, we don't have a lot of new stuff going on our lives to talk... So... As I can't not set a real date with her, what should I do? When she texts me, should i say that I'm busy? How much should I talk to her during this long distance phase? I usually am very focused on my college and life but... Being stuck at home sucks.
What about when a women loves the fact u text her because she says it makes her happy you are thinking about her initially then later she hates the fact you text her especially when you first met her you wasn't big on texting🤔
@@antonioboyd2036 well, 2 months later she asked my to date her and we have been together ever since... 2 years and half now. It's going great, thanks Corey for your lessons.
Is it done yet! Is it done yet! 😂😂😂 that is exactly what i used to be
I need to hear a woman version of you. Any suggestions?? anyone. Advice for woman exactly like this? lol
13:11 more like Parole Officer
Love stinks..
Smith love is a fairytale
Ya! Ya!
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Coach. What do you think about read receipts??
+swinglineswizzle wait for the other person to hit the ball back if u hit it to them............. weekly hi's and hey's
What if your slowly getting back with an ex gf that's long distance and you set a Skype date. How should you handle the Skype date for her to become more attracted or interested?
Did you listen to anything this coach is saying dude ???? your out of touch man !!
What the fuck dude! Skype date😂 I hope you didn't do it.
@@creativekaii to be fair coach does advice skype dates in one of his videos. Cooking dinner together over skype and doing interactive stuff for long distance relationships
Noted 📝
So what if you feel that texts (she engages first in) are excessive and you then text this... "How about we limit texts to calls sometimes, We have nice voices. Does that sound ok"? My recent date practically wanted to bang on the first date. But it was late and she was tired, so I backed off even though we kissed everywhere we went after dinner & my co-workers band performance. The next day today she give me a good morning, she's with her kid and will later be on vacation away from family to a festival for a week. I thought we could talk once in while and when she gets back I'll plan a second date. Do you think that text was necessary. I kind of like this one.
Bruh should of just bang her
Drill sergeant 😭😭😭
Guilty
This is a good way to get you dumped! Text your girl daily boys or you'll lose her. This guy is wrong.
Men you just remind me the basics¡ txs
Title
The 1st guy...really?
if high value men wants realtionship with high value women, don't expect those ladies to chase you. so those 30/70% is pure BS. Just saying
Hall monitor hahahahahahahaha LoL
12:57s #DrillSergeant :))
Trevor Jones He is so funny!! 😂😂😂😂😂