The concept of 'purpose' is one of my favorite areas of Coach Corey Wayne's teachings; because I know to be true the effect it has in maintaining a healthy mental and emotional state. My impassioned comments on this topic can be found on many of these great videos, but can be summed up, simply: Follow your purpose, and she'll follow YOU.
+Champ1988 I really value and love your comments! I'm 22. I' m at crossroads and really confuse and don't really know what my purpose is. How can i figure out my PURPOSE? any resources you can recommend?
Gautham C Bro, if you have some activity you love doing, start practising it a lot, for example a sport like football or even chess. You can go out too and try different things to see what stuff you like. Nobody else but YOU can choose what YOUR purpose is.
I think Corey knows women better than we know ourselves. I find myself doing the things he describes in the videos, but don't realise until he points it out. Take notes,guys.
Coach your book is very subtle and densely packed with knowledge. When I reflect at my experience with relevent sections of your book , I am amazed by the simplistic ,yet deliberate and subtle way you put it. The words, their order, the analogies,the mindset behind ...everything is refined to its core. Your's is only book I've found in the non-religious category after Richest man in Babylon with these same traits and thats the reason why it needs 10 to 15 rereads because on surface it appears just common sense but every word has a cause. Thanks a lot Coach. You changed my Life for better .
My Mother taught me to NEVER chase. It was very good dating advice. Does this mean someone I'm interested in might look elsewhere? YES. Those are the facts.
This man changed my life, my ex girlfriend broke up with me little over 2 months ago, I started watching his videos. He talked about a man need to be on his purpose. Of course I begged, pleaded and chased my ex for 2 weeks before discovering this channel, guys now am on my purpose, have my own business, have my UA-cam channel and a lot has changed in my life and guess what? I don’t want my ex anymore.
Wayne, where have you been all of my life? Your curriculum needs to be taught in every high school and college in America. It would've saved me and a lot of other "nice guys" a lot of grief.
You make it sound so easy! Just started reading your book. But wow some guys wanna lock you down super fast! I'm like take it easy.... slow down lol. Thanks CW! You rock
Your content / fundamentals has improved my life much. I’m having a blast in my dating life! I’m always optimistic and truly believe everything happens for a reason. I completely erased doubts and shame from my thought patterns. You helped me become a real man of direction and value.
Corey is so right about being chased by a needy woman. The very girl that hurt me deeply 4 years ago was a highly needy and excessively over pursuing female that sent me tons of messages and yes, it got OLD real quick but when she met another guy, she transfered her behavior towards him and I was hurt. It's not like I didn't love her because I did, but the text bombing me at times was a huge red flag of insecurity.
Yes I believe it cause she definitely was highly affectionate towards me for a while but then that all turned later and she was completely opposite, so it was really strange to see two different sides to her.
yup... lost three years of my life to a woman that was borderline.... it wasn't until one my buddies who is going to school to be a physiologist warned me about her after he met her.
Jack Bravo Yes, sounds like she has emotional dysreg, which is tragic, but a lot of people have BPD/NPD, and it only takes a few weeks or a couple of months at best before the mask slips off of their faces. Those with Borderline are essentially afraid of getting close, because their underlying problem is the fear of being abandoned, which obviously stems from their childhood trauma. I have been in two relationships with BPDs and it was torment--the second one I recognized the traits right away, but it was still painful because I cared about her. I was able to walk away quite quickly, though, without batting an eye after realizing that it wouldn't work out and wouldn't be worth it, considering the fact that MASS CHAOS usually follows with BPDs. You can quickly go from their hero to their zero in a flash. The problem is that it is often like walking on eggshells (there's a book about BPD that is called this, in fact, which is worth looking into), and one never knows what will trigger them, and when they are triggered, this is when things begin to get weird. I always warn people to flee in the opposite direction when dealing with one with BPD, because it usually ends in craziness. They have the capability to love greatly, but they are like emotional vampires, and they are basically using you as their current light to fill their dark voids. It is truly maddening, and also eerie and frightening at times, depending.
STIUPTONOGOOD I am glad that you are in a better position now, though--those three years of your life weren't lost or wasted, I wouldn't say, but rather this was a learning experience, and quite frankly, it makes me one stronger in the sense of being able to understand the traits to look for in someone later down the road. Borderline is such a terrible disorder, and as one who is empathic like myself, who also understands emotional trauma and has a family dynamic of depression, etc., I can understand and feel compassionate towards those that have BPD. However, the problem is that one is asking for a lot of trouble and heartache and so much devastating pain if one continues on with them, when one is privy that they have the disorder. Often times the mask doesn't slip off until much later, and it is truly insane! BPDs have no 'grey area'. They do not want to 'discuss' or 'work things out' like normal healthy-minded individuals, because they do not have the capacity--they FEAR being abandoned, which is one reason why they have issues with holding relationships. BPDs are known for their rocky relationships, and using people to fill the voids, per se. BPDs, as you probably know, will paint you as either White or Black (white being good, black being bad), and there's no middleground. They are triggered easily, and are often thin-skinned. Yes, they can love with great majestic sweeps of glory, but it's clouded with underlying issues, sadly. The worst pain of my entire life was when someone I deeply cared for and was in love with suddenly stopped talking to me, FOREVER. There was no discussing anything. There was no talking to me like a normal person. There was nothingness. I was left in a barren desert, alone and freezing. She couldn't tell me goodbye and that she didn't want to speak with me anymore--no, she ostracized me and gave me the silent treatment (one of their greatest weapons, which is a form of verbal abuse in itself!)... She vanished. Disappeared forever. I understand the pain that victims of BPD abuse have gone through. It was when I educated myself, took care of myself, and realized that it wasn't me, and that other people have had these experiences by the thousands, did it help me to heal from this devastating pain to the very core of my being.
If you read the book that is free if you sign up you’d have your circle established with 5 trying to find room for a single date once a week with your ex as a possible number 6 added to your roster.
i swear Coach, my girlfriend started to get cold, and i changed aproach as you teach, now she is into me like mad. I promise you, i WILL BUY YOUR BOOK, YOU DESERVE IT!!
Thank you for answering this email, Corey! I'll post more context for each question here in case it helps others apply them to their situations: 1. I sought out Corey's work after screwing up with the girl from questions 1-3. I read his book once before writing my email, but my first question's naivete illustrates why it's so important to read it multiple times and carefully reconcile apparent contradictions. I thought I understood the importance of rationing availability until I watched a particular video and confused concepts: There, he recommended making a date on the spot if a girl asks you for one (even while on a date or hanging out), and the frequency of dates will naturally increase over time as she pursues. The caveat is, "Make a date if she asks for one" does not mean, "You can repeatedly agree to hang out tonight/tomorrow if she asks," as I had done. I wrote in specifically seeking that clarification, but I shouldn't have had to. My second read-through (especially pages 39 and 182) reinforced why it's still important to remain a challenge and ensure she earns more of your time gradually. Be aware, you can make the "too available" mistake even if you have your purpose on lock. I'm deeply passionate about my career, but I found myself pursuing it exclusively at the expense of my social life, so I recently started making time for one. I'd see a few friends rather inconsistently on the weekends, but my weekday nights were wide open aside from open-ended solitary hobbies. I'm trying to add balance by integrating new friends and romance into my life, so I saw no reason at the time to tell a cute girl who was pursuing me, "Meh, I'm too busy reading to have you over!" Aside from being too available, my mistakes were a bit different from what Corey anticipated: I met her out alongside some new friends, and she basically fell into my lap. I never initiated contact with her even once, but she started asking to see me frequently, likely from insecurity as Corey explained. This also manifested as drama, and my biggest mistakes were calling her out on it and weakly trying to force a resolution (thereby chasing) instead of backing off with dignity. Even if I'd done everything right, and even if she were more secure, it's always hit-or-miss when the ex returns. As Corey says, all you can do is try not to push them further away, and that's exactly what I did in my ignorance. 2. Corey unfortunately misunderstood my intent here, and I may have tried to make the question too generally applicable: I met the girl above in the process of meeting new friends and expanding my social circle. These new friends often reach out to me, but she's so influential and central to this small group that I couldn't integrate without forcing my way into her life and orbiting as a grotesque side effect. My intent is opposite from finding excuses to see her: I do NOT want to spend any significant time around her unless she comes to me on her own, period. Part of this is because I'd still be glad for that to happen, and imposing myself for the sake of being friends with everyone else would senselessly rule it out. The rest is simply that I want to behave in a centered way I can respect myself for, and hanging with a group she's at the center of is just not compatible with that outcome. What I really meant was, "What's the best way to keep my center without abandoning these growing new friendships?" They're interesting guys, but I don't commit to small group plans unless I'm confident this girl will be elsewhere, and I don't know how to respond if we're out and someone thinks it would be a good idea to call her up. This is precisely because I do NOT talk with them about her (let alone use them for "help," which is insane). Keeping everything to myself felt like jumping through hoops and being disingenuous, so I wrote Corey to learn if there was a forthright/direct/honest way to express that I want to be friends with them without joining their circle. His advice is probably best though, and still useful: Say nothing. Long-term, I'll need to become the leader of my own social circle and invite people as I please. 3. A "let's be friends" letter might be a curveball, but I like to be prepared for any eventuality, because my life attracts weirdness. This was a gap in my knowledge, and Corey's advice makes perfect sense. 4. The question about picking up vs. meeting out was about another girl (same as question 5) who I met through online dating shortly after discovering the coach. We met up for late-evening drinks for our first date, and meeting up had practical advantages for the second date as well. The logistics of sex were obviously better, and I could avoid parental awkwardness. Corey somehow thought I meant, "I can't get along with parents," but I actually meant, "It might interfere with seducing a girl if her parents start making cringe-inducing relationship-y comments right before a second date." Saying that has happened before would be an understatement. That said, Corey has made the point before, "How can I be a gentleman, open the car door for you, etc. if I'm not picking you up?" I wanted to try things his way and give her a different kind of dating experience for our second date, but she insisted it was off the table. That led me to wonder, "Just how important is it to actually pick her up?" Corey's answer from experience: Not as important as the logistics of sex! That's a practical answer I like quite a bit. 5. Corey's advice on the food question is simple: You don't have to eat the same damn thing. In my case I backed myself into a corner, so be careful you don't do the same: Our first date with late-evening drinks had gone well, so I suggested going back to my place. She agreed, but she surprisingly hadn't eaten yet, and I was getting hungry again anyway. It was too late to eat out, but she wasn't interested in anything I said I had at my place. Instead she suggested grabbing a frozen pizza to eat together, which means sharing a single item. I thought, "Hey, why not?" What could go wrong, right? I found out, "She could be picky about toppings and lead you in circles, and you can't retake the lead without being a dick or switching gears entirely." Next time I'll only share a frozen pizza if I already know our tastes align.
I have started to limit contact once I get the number and ask for the date, and its working, they start chasing. I have even deleted their number so I cannot chase and they always get back in touch to chase you for a date. I have been digesting all of the coaches videos, and since looking at this content 2 weeks ago I suddenly feel so much more empowered. Thanks Coach, you are changing my perspective for the better.
Liz, how is using the phone in the dating stage just to set the next date equate to playing games? I have done the text every day and Corey is correct the women loose interest and you are just another guy blowing up their phone. Only needy men and women need the attention and if that puts someone off, then it’s a great filter. I don’t play games, lie or cheat, I just want to meet a nice girl who respects me. How does anyone respect anything, they have to EARN it.
Liz Camacho you are right, but there seems to be a balance Men and Women need to find, and I don’t want a woman to chase me for a date, I probably used the word “chase” when I meant put some degree of effort into the dating stage.
Coach Corey his methods actually work. Ive followed the no contact rule, not chasing her letting her chase me, women are like cats the more you chase them they runaway so i allowed her to come to me. I did not even read the book just listening to his videos was good enough for me. Now im sleeping with the most beautiful woman ever. Thanks Coach!
I am watching your videos since a few years and just read your book! I wasted so much time! Thank you for helping so many people Corey! This is amazing! thank you! Kind Regards from Switzerland
Just purchased your "NO DRAMA ALLOWED" cup. (Already the "SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS") I'm replaying this video after coming across your channel in 2014. Recaping on the fundamentals just like reviewing notes before taking a test. Thanks for your work. Btw, I'm originally from México, and just so people know, Mexican WOMEN, especially in the Big cities, Will test You more (especially if You lead with material things rather than Your character) than American WOMEN. FYI. They Will know within 3 seconds if they sucker You for acting weak or if they Will submit to You when You lead with a strong character. Saludos and thanks. "... The right of the people to keep and bear arms, SHALL NOT be infringed." Shall=must!
corey is a friggin boss. I cherry picked info from his book as I felt needed, watched videos a felt pertained to me and just like he warned, I got dumped. I followed some of the rules and got her where I wanted and then it fell apart. if you want to learn from this bad ass jedi of relationships, read his book like instructed. I fucked up and had the knowledge in my hands. I walked and never looked back and now I'm dating a couple of cute women and reading his book. read number 5 and counting. believe what he says cuz I made every mistake a weak beta male would make. she went from being crazy about me to eh, I'm not ready for a relationship and I love you more like a friend. it's was humbling to say the least. read his book is the greatest advice he can give you in these videos
I've found Corey's advice so helpful especially with the no contact rule, it really works, these millennial girls want you to text every day, and when you have such a great first date and no contact creates so much attraction.
Easily the best line from your book, so far: "If you hesitate, you masterbate." Lmfao. That had me rolling, dude. Thanks for telling us how to get your book for free. Im not even half-way through, and it's already made me see where I been going wrong.
Everyone the book is like a map. Gives you the directions on how to soon approach the destination you desire. Gives you the road and it's necessary to study it so you can know what you encounter when the time comes, when you meet that special girl. It's good to be prepared that way when the time comes you handle it 100% instead of struggling thinking of what you should do.trust me!!!🙏best of luck to all of you.
"This person needs to be on probation as well. Just because they're pretty and have a nice ass doesnt mean they're automatically qualified to be your future wife or girlfriend. You don't know what you don't know yet and remember people can hide who they are in the first 90 days of a relationship." This is golden, coach. Deep down I've always knew this but something in me has always ignored red flad early on. And 10 times out of 10 leads to heartbreak. I have bought your book and I'm excited to see how well this all works for me.
I don't understand one thing, I can probably stop texting her for a week maybe two. But this does not make any sense if I am going to wait for her to respond first after we had amazing dates I mean if I stop texting or calling, seeing relatives the relationship is going to deteriorate fast. How is dating a girl any different? This is mental really. I feel like I will lose interest in her if I don't text her each second day. How will she miss me? Won't she think he probably is not interested in me and stop responding at all. Maybe our next time meeting will feel awkward because of that where she does not want to see me. Too many questions but it's just so weird to believe this. It is because of this I can't see women as human beings anymore since we are social creatures.
This man talks sense. As a man you have as much value as anyone, so do not compromise who you are for ANYONE. Women will try and trip you up, and make you compromise yourself and your values.The dark side is strong with them... Stay focused young Jedis! ✊
I'm starting to realize that everything is temporary. When a girl is into you and announces she loves to watch sunsets, don't plan to watch sunsets every day from now on. It just means today you can enjoy a sunset together. Next week you can maybe enjoy a sunset together. Next month she'll probably block you and be with someone else or something else weird. Enjoy today and the next date, there's no such thing as two compatible people having a long-term relationship peacefully so don't count on it. Every moment is unique and should be enjoyed without assuming there will be more.
In the last year and a half, I've gone from being engaged to a Narcissistic/ abusive/ pain in the butt woman, who made me feel like utter crap all the time and devalued me. To being with a gorgeous model, who dotes on me, surprises me and wants to sleep with me everytime I see her. Thanks to Corey.
I've read the book 6 times in two weeks! I've hit the 15 times reads that you require. I watch your videos every day. there is a girl I'm currently dating that checks everything off my list. I hope to make her my gf soon. If I can pull this off I owe you a donation. it's been a complete mindset shift
@@TheDonMasterG still with her now😊 we’re in love. She tells me I’m literally the man of her dreams. I definitely have the book to thank for it. We’re not perfect. I don’t want it to sound like everything sunshine in roses 100% of the time. But we communicate well and work through tough situations. But overall I’m super satisfied where we’re at!
been following cory for tears and this woman with high interest has my brain keeps trying to rationalize contacting her when I shouldn't be but I'm too wise for that
Corey is the man. I naturally was always doing a lot of these things but damn I was screwing up in big areas and looking back I can see that those mistakes were exactly what was holding me back. Between Corey, Kezia Noble and 33 Secrets I'm cleaning house and getting approached A LOT. Great stuff, wish I would have studied these elements much earlier
after me chasing her I stopped texting her for about a week, she's now texted me back, I haven't opened the message but I see something along the lines of "you got me thinking of you allday" should I reply now or keep waiting
What if a guy wants a feminine woman who stays in her feminine energy and would never chase a man? I agree this works for clueless women, but it makes the man a recieving feminine guy, and the woman an agressive masculine chaser.. Who wants that? I dont? I wouldn´t want a guy who wanted me to chase him all the time, I would stick to my feminine energy ways and recieve from whoever came along and really wanted to invest in me. So what´s your advice to a guy if he wanted someone like me?
Solarium you act as if every man is listening to this guy and like this is the new norm. The thing is, only three percent of guys may listen and apply this Technique. Women always think they know what they want until something unique comes along. Be that unique. this information will make you the stand out guy. women will want to be with you versus you growing on them, and them having all the power. Women are naturally complex, and giving them just a small amount of complexity back stuns them in a good way. If you wanna be traditional and do things like you see in the movies then by all means continue But then you will be just like every other guy she’s ever talked to, predictable and forgettable.
Everyone says living with a woman is a bad idea. Keep dating, don't let her into your house. Maintain separate houses. Attraction grows in space and dies when you start living together.
If your looking to pursue a true feminine, just know she is not going to chase you. Its not in a feminines nature to. Chasing is masculine. When a feminine women wants to purse you back, she become more submissive and vulnerable towards you. Although, a women that is more dominate in her masculine energy will chase you. Masculine and feminine energy is not gender specific. You can be a feminine man and still have a manly appearance and be completely heterosexual. You can also be a masculine woman that look girly and be heterosexual. Im just saying for those of you looking to purse a feminine woman, dont expect her to chase because she will catch on to your game and disregard you.
A lot of the time it’s not a reflection of how much they care about you, but how uncomfortable they are with themselves. If they’re really insecure and anything you do can be perceived as you not being as into her anymore, shits annoying.
Solid GOLD!!! Corey what’s ur deal dude? Are u married? Kids? Relationship? Wtf? I’m not gonna take the time to dig more but ur the MAN!! Be honest, are u slaying 8-10’s or 7’s and below? The scale encompasses all ie. intellect(mentally and emotionally), success, attractiveness(inside and out), etc. Then, is it safe to say that eventually after crushing enough 10’s they all turn to 7’s and at the end we’re just lucky to have someone that consistently tolerates our shit if the ultimate goal is to not be alone until we die?! Or am I just all types of messed up?
I have listened to Corey's audio book loads of times, must be about 15 times coz Audible told me I listed to it 10 times. I find it hard to implement , though, I haven't written the lists he tells you to make about what you want. I worry that I am not in my masculine enough. I'm not dominant , as it were.
My Favorite fucking line! hahah "Let's grab a bottle of wine" ! I watch all your videos just to hear you say that... On my approaches, I don't even say hi anymore. Hey.. lets grab a bottle of wine and go to my place lol
Nice videos. Greats ideas! Also, standard speech with no long pauses is about 150 - 170 per minute. So a 25 minute talking video contain 3,750 to 4,250 words.
First, thank you for putting these videos onto You Tube! You've made a difference and I've told girl and guy friends about you! Both sexes need your information! Listen, I understand when you explained about women naturally should chase men. It makes plenty of sense the way you've explained. So many women and men coaches say men need to chase. And it's because the man needs to earn the woman or he won't appreciate her. Where is the balance of these together? Men do need to earn to appreciate, but we aren't prizes either! I mean, prizes are won, then on to the next one to win. I want for keeps! Have I missed a video on this balance? Thank you, Coach Corey!
+Vanessa Petrea I never said women should chase men, I explain why they naturally do when a man behaves like a man. My book explains this in detail. Other people who teach the opposite are teaching unnatural behavior which is unsustainable
+Coach Corey Wayne I want sustainable! I watched a Brent Smith video on "stop chasing women" earlier today. I felt distracted and un-engaged. While his thing is similar to yours, it drug out and was boring, though perhaps because I've listened to your video's. I asked if he was dehydrated or had indigestion, because his swallowing and mouth sounds distracted me. He didn't seem solid present and confident to me. He was speaking before men, and I guess men are more casual with other men. I wouldn't have chosen him in a group, myself. He didn't seem grounded enough for me. And I've noticed I need that and presence in a man. A man won't be solid every second and will have fear and nervousness come up; wanting to do the best and right thing. I get it! I would still accept a man when he's nervous and confused. I just need him to show up and be. It lets me know he's there. I want to build a bridge with that kind of man. Not one that feels hesitate and squirrelly. I need to feel safe!
+Vanessa Petrea Corey Wayne and Brent Smith have very similar philosophy, ideas and approach but have very different goals. Brent Smith does not date, no emotional relationship at all. just physical. Also, Brent Smith is a really bad teacher. He doesn't know how to explain his ideas as good as Corey Wayne.
+cazador45 Thank you for commenting and letting me know that information. It makes sense now. I figured he was nervous, and I don't normally watch him. Nor will I again. Doesn't sound like I'd want anyone from his classes either! Coach Corey is so much more informed and I trust him. Have a great weekend!
Thank you soooo fucking much Corey :D still working on reading your book but it has already had a major impact!! I took my time with a girl who I had interest in and gave her space. Basically her boyfriend ended up going to jail and we started talking a little bit, and ended up going to a concert over the summer. Didn't end up doing anything that night because I respect peoples relationships, and now here I am a few months later, took her out for new years and definitely had success :D used your technique of increasing touching, reading her body language, and by midnight I just grabbed her and kissed her!! That definitely set things in my court corey!!! my god I still cant even believe it!!
Do you want to save your time, energy, and money? (Sory Corey) Just be natural, get away from obviously crazy and complicated women and get together with those who are not nor are they playing games.
It never hurts to go back and brush up on the material if you feel yourself slipping back into old habits which made women ghost. Trust the material. Its proven. If not, write your own book and see how well it does.
6:57 That is very true what he said. Met a woman just like that, calling and texting constantly, wanted to book me up for the weekend and she even talked about how she wanted kids in the future... Mind, she is in her 30s and that future is probably three months from now or sooner I figured so I bolted.
I went on a date with a girl who gave me shit because I wanted my steak 'Well Done'...I looked at her right in the eyes and said "The more like chewing a tire the better...don't come to me if you get Mad Cow Disease"😉 We were making out on the trunk of her car for an hour after the date
You say that you want a woman who's gonna jump fences to be with you, but then you won't do the same for her because you don't wanna chase her, doesn't it send a message that tells her that you aren't interested or like her enough to be jumping fences to be with her? Isn't it gonna make her feel like you are not feeling the same way towards her?
SAXiDaGuiden but everytime you feel the same way for her she leaves you by calling you the too nice guy or the too clingy guy. women are just never satisfied simple.
Now I understand... because I met a girl not that long ago that texted me every day, and she has seen me only one time when I tried to pick her up (we had a date on the spot). She said that she thinks a lot about me and wants to meet me very much, and told stuff like "oh you will get bored with me soon" sooo she is very insecure, right? And I should stay away from her?
corey you're the man thanks for your simple but enlightening information. i made the mistake of asking this girl out last night and telling her i'd pick her up even though i dont really know her, she seems cool though we'll see what happens lol thanks again corey!
Trust me about this, some girls are a SERIOUS TURNOFF because of their needy acts! - I feel bad to say this, but I drove a girl to hate me once just because she was needy: I didn't want to feel bad for getting rid of her, so I let her do it! (I was 21 back then).
Coach always keeps it real, I'm going to buy the book soon. Everytime I forget information I come back and watch videos, it would be better if I read the book and memorize the information. Appreciate the advice as always, keep it up Corey!
Everytime you want to text her, read corey's book as a distraction
Akioblast 95 I've been doing this and it helps so much. The Illusion of Action is malevolently poking at our brains.
Or sleep like I do 😂
@@samhines5084 Yup Sleepin is healthier then waitin for a phone to ding
Best advice ever. 2nd place - text yourself what you wanted to text her
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If you pay attention to women it's not hard. You make her laugh and she has fun with you, you got her. Period.
Juice8815 Agree!
dzugi mgtow420 well if you're too boring, get a personality so you don't have to act lol xD
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I feel like that means you're not that attractive then . . .
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I think he really wants us to read the book.
Abel Ramirez doubt it 🤷🏿♂️
... where did u get that from 🤣
its free, why wouldn't you?
I would
im on my 3rd read and finding things I forgot in first two reads.
its true, you must read it 10-15 times.
The concept of 'purpose' is one of my favorite areas of Coach Corey Wayne's teachings; because I know to be true the effect it has in maintaining a healthy mental and emotional state. My impassioned comments on this topic can be found on many of these great videos, but can be summed up, simply: Follow your purpose, and she'll follow YOU.
+Champ1988 I really value and love your comments! I'm 22. I' m at crossroads and really confuse and don't really know what my purpose is. How can i figure out my PURPOSE? any resources you can recommend?
+Champ1988 true that
This was a beautiful comment! but i'm confused about what i really enjoy doing.
exactly dudes are so focused and worried on stuff that they really should not be worrying about, having a purpose is so so important.
Gautham C Bro, if you have some activity you love doing, start practising it a lot, for example a sport like football or even chess. You can go out too and try different things to see what stuff you like. Nobody else but YOU can choose what YOUR purpose is.
I think Corey knows women better than we know ourselves. I find myself doing the things he describes in the videos, but don't realise until he points it out. Take notes,guys.
+Infinity Alchemist Yeah, he's awesome .
oh yeah corey is the fuckin man!!
I've come to the understanding that most women dont know what turns them off or turns them on until it actually hits
Coach your book is very subtle and densely packed with knowledge. When I reflect at my experience with relevent sections of your book , I am amazed by the simplistic ,yet deliberate and subtle way you put it. The words, their order, the analogies,the mindset behind ...everything is refined to its core. Your's is only book I've found in the non-religious category after Richest man in Babylon with these same traits and thats the reason why it needs 10 to 15 rereads because on surface it appears just common sense but every word has a cause.
Thanks a lot Coach. You changed my Life for better .
My Mother taught me to NEVER chase. It was very good dating advice. Does this mean someone I'm interested in might look elsewhere? YES. Those are the facts.
"well first of all you need to read the book 10-15 times" I laughed so hard when he started it off with that but it's true.
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This man changed my life, my ex girlfriend broke up with me little over 2 months ago, I started watching his videos. He talked about a man need to be on his purpose. Of course I begged, pleaded and chased my ex for 2 weeks before discovering this channel, guys now am on my purpose, have my own business, have my UA-cam channel and a lot has changed in my life and guess what? I don’t want my ex anymore.
Wayne, where have you been all of my life? Your curriculum needs to be taught in every high school and college in America. It would've saved me and a lot of other "nice guys" a lot of grief.
You make it sound so easy! Just started reading your book. But wow some guys wanna lock you down super fast! I'm like take it easy.... slow down lol. Thanks CW! You rock
Patricia Maree lmaoo right, you definetly read the book
Insecure boys do
Men play it cool, let the women come to us
Cw is a smart man
Keep reading 😎
Your content / fundamentals has improved my life much. I’m having a blast in my dating life! I’m always optimistic and truly believe everything happens for a reason. I completely erased doubts and shame from my thought patterns. You helped me become a real man of direction and value.
Corey is so right about being chased by a needy woman. The very girl that hurt me deeply 4 years ago was a highly needy and excessively over pursuing female that sent me tons of messages and yes, it got OLD real quick but when she met another guy, she transfered her behavior towards him and I was hurt. It's not like I didn't love her because I did, but the text bombing me at times was a huge red flag of insecurity.
A lot of people with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) will do this in the beginning, as well--it is often called "love bombing".
Yes I believe it cause she definitely was highly affectionate towards me for a while but then that all turned later and she was completely opposite, so it was really strange to see two different sides to her.
yup... lost three years of my life to a woman that was borderline.... it wasn't until one my buddies who is going to school to be a physiologist warned me about her after he met her.
Jack Bravo Yes, sounds like she has emotional dysreg, which is tragic, but a lot of people have BPD/NPD, and it only takes a few weeks or a couple of months at best before the mask slips off of their faces.
Those with Borderline are essentially afraid of getting close, because their underlying problem is the fear of being abandoned, which obviously stems from their childhood trauma. I have been in two relationships with BPDs and it was torment--the second one I recognized the traits right away, but it was still painful because I cared about her. I was able to walk away quite quickly, though, without batting an eye after realizing that it wouldn't work out and wouldn't be worth it, considering the fact that MASS CHAOS usually follows with BPDs.
You can quickly go from their hero to their zero in a flash. The problem is that it is often like walking on eggshells (there's a book about BPD that is called this, in fact, which is worth looking into), and one never knows what will trigger them, and when they are triggered, this is when things begin to get weird.
I always warn people to flee in the opposite direction when dealing with one with BPD, because it usually ends in craziness. They have the capability to love greatly, but they are like emotional vampires, and they are basically using you as their current light to fill their dark voids. It is truly maddening, and also eerie and frightening at times, depending.
STIUPTONOGOOD I am glad that you are in a better position now, though--those three years of your life weren't lost or wasted, I wouldn't say, but rather this was a learning experience, and quite frankly, it makes me one stronger in the sense of being able to understand the traits to look for in someone later down the road. Borderline is such a terrible disorder, and as one who is empathic like myself, who also understands emotional trauma and has a family dynamic of depression, etc., I can understand and feel compassionate towards those that have BPD. However, the problem is that one is asking for a lot of trouble and heartache and so much devastating pain if one continues on with them, when one is privy that they have the disorder. Often times the mask doesn't slip off until much later, and it is truly insane!
BPDs have no 'grey area'. They do not want to 'discuss' or 'work things out' like normal healthy-minded individuals, because they do not have the capacity--they FEAR being abandoned, which is one reason why they have issues with holding relationships. BPDs are known for their rocky relationships, and using people to fill the voids, per se.
BPDs, as you probably know, will paint you as either White or Black (white being good, black being bad), and there's no middleground. They are triggered easily, and are often thin-skinned. Yes, they can love with great majestic sweeps of glory, but it's clouded with underlying issues, sadly.
The worst pain of my entire life was when someone I deeply cared for and was in love with suddenly stopped talking to me, FOREVER. There was no discussing anything. There was no talking to me like a normal person. There was nothingness. I was left in a barren desert, alone and freezing. She couldn't tell me goodbye and that she didn't want to speak with me anymore--no, she ostracized me and gave me the silent treatment (one of their greatest weapons, which is a form of verbal abuse in itself!)... She vanished. Disappeared forever.
I understand the pain that victims of BPD abuse have gone through.
It was when I educated myself, took care of myself, and realized that it wasn't me, and that other people have had these experiences by the thousands, did it help me to heal from this devastating pain to the very core of my being.
sometimes they can hide who they are for more than 90 days, it might mean you got blinded or it can mean they can be very devious, it can happen
I left her at the restaurant With the check
Nice on
alpha asf
LMAOOO
Nothing like winning
Hahaha nice one bro
dude, my ex left me, I learned about you Coach, applied your methods and now I'm waiting for her to come to my house to have sex. Thanks Corey.
Yeah the same here bro but since I read his book 15 times, there's going to be an orgy at my house tonight 😎
If you read the book that is free if you sign up you’d have your circle established with 5 trying to find room for a single date once a week with your ex as a possible number 6 added to your roster.
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she must be desperate like u.....
Tim Stultz What do you mean alpha male stratrgy ? Mind to share the link bro?
i swear Coach, my girlfriend started to get cold, and i changed aproach as you teach, now she is into me like mad. I promise you, i WILL BUY YOUR BOOK, YOU DESERVE IT!!
Thank you for answering this email, Corey!
I'll post more context for each question here in case it helps others apply them to their situations:
1. I sought out Corey's work after screwing up with the girl from questions 1-3. I read his book once before writing my email, but my first question's naivete illustrates why it's so important to read it multiple times and carefully reconcile apparent contradictions. I thought I understood the importance of rationing availability until I watched a particular video and confused concepts:
There, he recommended making a date on the spot if a girl asks you for one (even while on a date or hanging out), and the frequency of dates will naturally increase over time as she pursues. The caveat is, "Make a date if she asks for one" does not mean, "You can repeatedly agree to hang out tonight/tomorrow if she asks," as I had done. I wrote in specifically seeking that clarification, but I shouldn't have had to. My second read-through (especially pages 39 and 182) reinforced why it's still important to remain a challenge and ensure she earns more of your time gradually.
Be aware, you can make the "too available" mistake even if you have your purpose on lock. I'm deeply passionate about my career, but I found myself pursuing it exclusively at the expense of my social life, so I recently started making time for one. I'd see a few friends rather inconsistently on the weekends, but my weekday nights were wide open aside from open-ended solitary hobbies. I'm trying to add balance by integrating new friends and romance into my life, so I saw no reason at the time to tell a cute girl who was pursuing me, "Meh, I'm too busy reading to have you over!"
Aside from being too available, my mistakes were a bit different from what Corey anticipated: I met her out alongside some new friends, and she basically fell into my lap. I never initiated contact with her even once, but she started asking to see me frequently, likely from insecurity as Corey explained. This also manifested as drama, and my biggest mistakes were calling her out on it and weakly trying to force a resolution (thereby chasing) instead of backing off with dignity. Even if I'd done everything right, and even if she were more secure, it's always hit-or-miss when the ex returns. As Corey says, all you can do is try not to push them further away, and that's exactly what I did in my ignorance.
2. Corey unfortunately misunderstood my intent here, and I may have tried to make the question too generally applicable: I met the girl above in the process of meeting new friends and expanding my social circle. These new friends often reach out to me, but she's so influential and central to this small group that I couldn't integrate without forcing my way into her life and orbiting as a grotesque side effect. My intent is opposite from finding excuses to see her: I do NOT want to spend any significant time around her unless she comes to me on her own, period. Part of this is because I'd still be glad for that to happen, and imposing myself for the sake of being friends with everyone else would senselessly rule it out. The rest is simply that I want to behave in a centered way I can respect myself for, and hanging with a group she's at the center of is just not compatible with that outcome.
What I really meant was, "What's the best way to keep my center without abandoning these growing new friendships?" They're interesting guys, but I don't commit to small group plans unless I'm confident this girl will be elsewhere, and I don't know how to respond if we're out and someone thinks it would be a good idea to call her up. This is precisely because I do NOT talk with them about her (let alone use them for "help," which is insane). Keeping everything to myself felt like jumping through hoops and being disingenuous, so I wrote Corey to learn if there was a forthright/direct/honest way to express that I want to be friends with them without joining their circle. His advice is probably best though, and still useful: Say nothing. Long-term, I'll need to become the leader of my own social circle and invite people as I please.
3. A "let's be friends" letter might be a curveball, but I like to be prepared for any eventuality, because my life attracts weirdness. This was a gap in my knowledge, and Corey's advice makes perfect sense.
4. The question about picking up vs. meeting out was about another girl (same as question 5) who I met through online dating shortly after discovering the coach. We met up for late-evening drinks for our first date, and meeting up had practical advantages for the second date as well. The logistics of sex were obviously better, and I could avoid parental awkwardness. Corey somehow thought I meant, "I can't get along with parents," but I actually meant, "It might interfere with seducing a girl if her parents start making cringe-inducing relationship-y comments right before a second date." Saying that has happened before would be an understatement. That said, Corey has made the point before, "How can I be a gentleman, open the car door for you, etc. if I'm not picking you up?" I wanted to try things his way and give her a different kind of dating experience for our second date, but she insisted it was off the table. That led me to wonder, "Just how important is it to actually pick her up?" Corey's answer from experience: Not as important as the logistics of sex! That's a practical answer I like quite a bit.
5. Corey's advice on the food question is simple: You don't have to eat the same damn thing. In my case I backed myself into a corner, so be careful you don't do the same: Our first date with late-evening drinks had gone well, so I suggested going back to my place. She agreed, but she surprisingly hadn't eaten yet, and I was getting hungry again anyway. It was too late to eat out, but she wasn't interested in anything I said I had at my place. Instead she suggested grabbing a frozen pizza to eat together, which means sharing a single item. I thought, "Hey, why not?" What could go wrong, right? I found out, "She could be picky about toppings and lead you in circles, and you can't retake the lead without being a dick or switching gears entirely." Next time I'll only share a frozen pizza if I already know our tastes align.
its never too late to "eat out" ;)
One of the best quotes - "throw it in the fire, let it keep you warm for a little while" ... (grin). Coach on fire ;)
best thing ive heard in ages LOL im stealing all these hahaha
You may not be responsible for who you attract, but you are responsible for who entertain.
I have NEVER seen Corey this frustrated!
😂🤣😂
I have started to limit contact once I get the number and ask for the date, and its working, they start chasing. I have even deleted their number so I cannot chase and they always get back in touch to chase you for a date. I have been digesting all of the coaches videos, and since looking at this content 2 weeks ago I suddenly feel so much more empowered. Thanks Coach, you are changing my perspective for the better.
Sounds awful. I would not want to date a man that plays games like you. Don't agree with Corey's videos.
Liz, how is using the phone in the dating stage just to set the next date equate to playing games? I have done the text every day and Corey is correct the women loose interest and you are just another guy blowing up their phone. Only needy men and women need the attention and if that puts someone off, then it’s a great filter. I don’t play games, lie or cheat, I just want to meet a nice girl who respects me. How does anyone respect anything, they have to EARN it.
@@simonthompson7820 a lady should not chase a man for a date is what I meant.
Liz Camacho you are right, but there seems to be a balance Men and Women need to find, and I don’t want a woman to chase me for a date, I probably used the word “chase” when I meant put some degree of effort into the dating stage.
@@WesternCali why not?
"..hey I was thinking about you, saw a movie that reminded me of you.." - That kinda shit.
LOL
Coach Corey his methods actually work. Ive followed the no contact rule, not chasing her letting her chase me, women are like cats the more you chase them they runaway so i allowed her to come to me. I did not even read the book just listening to his videos was good enough for me. Now im sleeping with the most beautiful woman ever. Thanks Coach!
I am watching your videos since a few years and just read your book! I wasted so much time! Thank you for helping so many people Corey! This is amazing! thank you! Kind Regards from Switzerland
Just purchased your "NO DRAMA ALLOWED" cup. (Already the "SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS")
I'm replaying this video after coming across your channel in 2014. Recaping on the fundamentals just like reviewing notes before taking a test.
Thanks for your work.
Btw, I'm originally from México, and just so people know, Mexican WOMEN, especially in the Big cities, Will test You more (especially if You lead with material things rather than Your character) than American WOMEN. FYI. They Will know within 3 seconds if they sucker You for acting weak or if they Will submit to You when You lead with a strong character.
Saludos and thanks.
"... The right of the people to keep and bear arms, SHALL NOT be infringed."
Shall=must!
This guy Creates real Mens if you do what he say!
Gerard Cainen his pic is a guy called lenny. Kind of a running joke lol
Gerard, the kind of man women want. a real man. not a boy.
you look like a big stool coming out of the bog
corey is a friggin boss. I cherry picked info from his book as I felt needed, watched videos a felt pertained to me and just like he warned, I got dumped. I followed some of the rules and got her where I wanted and then it fell apart. if you want to learn from this bad ass jedi of relationships, read his book like instructed. I fucked up and had the knowledge in my hands. I walked and never looked back and now I'm dating a couple of cute women and reading his book. read number 5 and counting. believe what he says cuz I made every mistake a weak beta male would make. she went from being crazy about me to eh, I'm not ready for a relationship and I love you more like a friend. it's was humbling to say the least. read his book is the greatest advice he can give you in these videos
I've found Corey's advice so helpful especially with the no contact rule, it really works, these millennial girls want you to text every day, and when you have such a great first date and no contact creates so much attraction.
Man I wish I found you before I got dumped. I could had my ex drooling over me. I'm getting so much attention from chicks now.
It was a blessing in disguise bro if the break up lead you to his videos in the first place
@@David-js3bk love the positivity and common sense!
Easily the best line from your book, so far: "If you hesitate, you masterbate." Lmfao. That had me rolling, dude. Thanks for telling us how to get your book for free. Im not even half-way through, and it's already made me see where I been going wrong.
That's actually a Jim Carrey line from The Cable Guy
Everyone the book is like a map. Gives you the directions on how to soon approach the destination you desire. Gives you the road and it's necessary to study it so you can know what you encounter when the time comes, when you meet that special girl. It's good to be prepared that way when the time comes you handle it 100% instead of struggling thinking of what you should do.trust me!!!🙏best of luck to all of you.
18:06 the funniest sound and look on his face. Just watched it 10 times laughing on my balcony!!!!!
Coach is like: MANN read the fucking book !!! haha
The book! The book! The book!! hahahaha
In coach Wayne voice: "Come on mayn!"
Hey Corey where did you get the screen (with your logo and website on it) behind you made? It's cool and I want to get one for my business.
"This person needs to be on probation as well. Just because they're pretty and have a nice ass doesnt mean they're automatically qualified to be your future wife or girlfriend. You don't know what you don't know yet and remember people can hide who they are in the first 90 days of a relationship."
This is golden, coach. Deep down I've always knew this but something in me has always ignored red flad early on. And 10 times out of 10 leads to heartbreak. I have bought your book and I'm excited to see how well this all works for me.
He's right about reading the book 10 to 15 times, I'm really hoping I can learn so I can save my marriage.. ..
Eric Jones How is it going brother?
What’s the update?
Ditch the ol lady and start slamming sidepieces. Much more fun that way beg my pard
Update?
They got divorced
I don't understand one thing, I can probably stop texting her for a week maybe two. But this does not make any sense if I am going to wait for her to respond first after we had amazing dates
I mean if I stop texting or calling, seeing relatives the relationship is going to deteriorate fast. How is dating a girl any different? This is mental really. I feel like I will lose interest in her if I don't text her each second day. How will she miss me? Won't she think he probably is not interested in me and stop responding at all. Maybe our next time meeting will feel awkward because of that where she does not want to see me. Too many questions but it's just so weird to believe this. It is because of this I can't see women as human beings anymore since we are social creatures.
throw that friendship letter in the fireplace let it warm you up for a minute or two... its winter time... LMFAO I love this guy, so trueee
This man talks sense. As a man you have as much value as anyone, so do not compromise who you are for ANYONE. Women will try and trip you up, and make you compromise yourself and your values.The dark side is strong with them... Stay focused young Jedis! ✊
This is great. I am fascinated. You really understand women and the dance of relationships. I am getting your book, for sure.
I'm starting to realize that everything is temporary. When a girl is into you and announces she loves to watch sunsets, don't plan to watch sunsets every day from now on. It just means today you can enjoy a sunset together. Next week you can maybe enjoy a sunset together. Next month she'll probably block you and be with someone else or something else weird. Enjoy today and the next date, there's no such thing as two compatible people having a long-term relationship peacefully so don't count on it. Every moment is unique and should be enjoyed without assuming there will be more.
Corey seems very angry with the email guy bcoz he cherry picked information from the book.
😂 😂
Lol
For real.😂
In the last year and a half, I've gone from being engaged to a Narcissistic/ abusive/ pain in the butt woman, who made me feel like utter crap all the time and devalued me.
To being with a gorgeous model, who dotes on me, surprises me and wants to sleep with me everytime I see her.
Thanks to Corey.
Nice brother. I on the other hand am currently separating from ex wife second time around and just found his work. Better late than never
Hallelujah this man is preaching the words that need to be heard but ALL men
I've read the book 6 times in two weeks! I've hit the 15 times reads that you require. I watch your videos every day. there is a girl I'm currently dating that checks everything off my list. I hope to make her my gf soon. If I can pull this off I owe you a donation. it's been a complete mindset shift
How it go
@@TheDonMasterG still with her now😊 we’re in love. She tells me I’m literally the man of her dreams. I definitely have the book to thank for it.
We’re not perfect. I don’t want it to sound like everything sunshine in roses 100% of the time. But we communicate well and work through tough situations. But overall I’m super satisfied where we’re at!
been following cory for tears and this woman with high interest has my brain keeps trying to rationalize contacting her when I shouldn't be but I'm too wise for that
Corey is the man. I naturally was always doing a lot of these things but damn I was screwing up in big areas and looking back I can see that those mistakes were exactly what was holding me back. Between Corey, Kezia Noble and 33 Secrets I'm cleaning house and getting approached A LOT. Great stuff, wish I would have studied these elements much earlier
The point is she has to chase you, but you have to do your part luring her with a good piece of Swiss cheese 🐭🍮🍪
ok, honestly these videos are fuckin gold. I just love this guy. Straight to the point, hilarious and very knowledgeable. I just crack up sometimes.
Me too dude!
after me chasing her I stopped texting her for about a week, she's now texted me back, I haven't opened the message but I see something along the lines of "you got me thinking of you allday" should I reply now or keep waiting
SouthPaw Rey Don't reply yet, you need four more months to reply.
Text 'Hey babe I'd love to get together, when are you free?'
tubenachos good job. You replied a year late
I actually want to know what happened 😂
@@tubenachos 😂😂
this dude is Alpha Male #1 he knows his shit and women!
Let's go Corey. I've gone through the book once and I know I'm a novice.
This works, but it can get pretty annoying, actually, when you have more women chasing you than there are days in the week.
What if a guy wants a feminine woman who stays in her feminine energy and would never chase a man? I agree this works for clueless women, but it makes the man a recieving feminine guy, and the woman an agressive masculine chaser.. Who wants that? I dont? I wouldn´t want a guy who wanted me to chase him all the time, I would stick to my feminine energy ways and recieve from whoever came along and really wanted to invest in me. So what´s your advice to a guy if he wanted someone like me?
Solarium you act as if every man is listening to this guy and like this is the new norm. The thing is, only three percent of guys may listen and apply this Technique. Women always think they know what they want until something unique comes along. Be that unique. this information will make you the stand out guy. women will want to be with you versus you growing on them, and them having all the power. Women are naturally complex, and giving them just a small amount of complexity back stuns them in a good way. If you wanna be traditional and do things like you see in the movies then by all means continue But then you will be just like every other guy she’s ever talked to, predictable and forgettable.
Everyone says living with a woman is a bad idea. Keep dating, don't let her into your house. Maintain separate houses. Attraction grows in space and dies when you start living together.
If your looking to pursue a true feminine, just know she is not going to chase you. Its not in a feminines nature to. Chasing is masculine. When a feminine women wants to purse you back, she become more submissive and vulnerable towards you. Although, a women that is more dominate in her masculine energy will chase you. Masculine and feminine energy is not gender specific. You can be a feminine man and still have a manly appearance and be completely heterosexual. You can also be a masculine woman that look girly and be heterosexual. Im just saying for those of you looking to purse a feminine woman, dont expect her to chase because she will catch on to your game and disregard you.
I like needy girls, that means they actually care about me and appreciate our time together.
Why would you complain?
You ever come home a few minutes late from work??? It's not worth the fight
@@chrismendoza5102 🤦🏽♂️🤣🤣🤣
A lot of the time it’s not a reflection of how much they care about you, but how uncomfortable they are with themselves. If they’re really insecure and anything you do can be perceived as you not being as into her anymore, shits annoying.
You may want to look at codependency. Needy isn’t good.
You look like tanos
D Fernandez Thanos you mean?
Hahahahah
What about Rick Harrison?
Solid GOLD!!! Corey what’s ur deal dude? Are u married? Kids? Relationship? Wtf? I’m not gonna take the time to dig more but ur the MAN!! Be honest, are u slaying 8-10’s or 7’s and below? The scale encompasses all ie. intellect(mentally and emotionally), success, attractiveness(inside and out), etc. Then, is it safe to say that eventually after crushing enough 10’s they all turn to 7’s and at the end we’re just lucky to have someone that consistently tolerates our shit if the ultimate goal is to not be alone until we die?! Or am I just all types of messed up?
Nothing is worse than a woman that is constantly calling and texting you nonstop.
How is that worse?
I’m curious to hear a woman’s perspective on how long you wait to call or text first when you get her number. Ladies what are your thoughts?
I have listened to Corey's audio book loads of times, must be about 15 times coz Audible told me I listed to it 10 times. I find it hard to implement , though, I haven't written the lists he tells you to make about what you want. I worry that I am not in my masculine enough. I'm not dominant , as it were.
I’ve only read the book once. I wonder I keep getting rejected 😂
Thank you for all the advice this helps out more than you know
My Favorite fucking line! hahah "Let's grab a bottle of wine" ! I watch all your videos just to hear you say that... On my approaches, I don't even say hi anymore. Hey.. lets grab a bottle of wine and go to my place lol
hahaha yeah loved the casual way he says it Im definately using that line and mastering it
NOOOO! Settle down with the first girl you meet! Or else you'll be alone for the rest of your life!!!
this ^ so true
if you're a fat ugly loser with no self confidence or social skills or the mental capacity to learn them...
We gotta keep up with the scarcity mindset, there aren't that many girls left in this world!
uh no dude. what if that first girl is a materiliastic bitch that nags all the time
That's better than having nobody! Go for it!
Nice videos. Greats ideas!
Also, standard speech with no long pauses is about 150 - 170 per minute. So a 25 minute talking video contain 3,750 to 4,250 words.
First, thank you for putting these videos onto You Tube! You've made a difference and I've told girl and guy friends about you! Both sexes need your information!
Listen, I understand when you explained about women naturally should chase men. It makes plenty of sense the way you've explained. So many women and men coaches say men need to chase. And it's because the man needs to earn the woman or he won't appreciate her. Where is the balance of these together? Men do need to earn to appreciate, but we aren't prizes either! I mean, prizes are won, then on to the next one to win. I want for keeps! Have I missed a video on this balance?
Thank you, Coach Corey!
+Vanessa Petrea I never said women should chase men, I explain why they naturally do when a man behaves like a man. My book explains this in detail. Other people who teach the opposite are teaching unnatural behavior which is unsustainable
+Coach Corey Wayne I want sustainable! I watched a Brent Smith video on "stop chasing women" earlier today. I felt distracted and un-engaged. While his thing is similar to yours, it drug out and was boring, though perhaps because I've listened to your video's. I asked if he was dehydrated or had indigestion, because his swallowing and mouth sounds distracted me. He didn't seem solid present and confident to me. He was speaking before men, and I guess men are more casual with other men. I wouldn't have chosen him in a group, myself. He didn't seem grounded enough for me. And I've noticed I need that and presence in a man. A man won't be solid every second and will have fear and nervousness come up; wanting to do the best and right thing. I get it! I would still accept a man when he's nervous and confused. I just need him to show up and be. It lets me know he's there. I want to build a bridge with that kind of man. Not one that feels hesitate and squirrelly. I need to feel safe!
+Vanessa Petrea Corey Wayne and Brent Smith have very similar philosophy, ideas and approach but have very different goals. Brent Smith does not date, no emotional relationship at all. just physical. Also, Brent Smith is a really bad teacher. He doesn't know how to explain his ideas as good as Corey Wayne.
+cazador45 Thank you for commenting and letting me know that information. It makes sense now. I figured he was nervous, and I don't normally watch him. Nor will I again. Doesn't sound like I'd want anyone from his classes either! Coach Corey is so much more informed and I trust him. Have a great weekend!
Coach, should you be weary if your boyfriend/girlfriend is friends with their ex? Should you talk to them about it or just act like it’s no big deal?
I learned not to rush a woman recently, the hard way !
Great video🎉🎉🎉🎉
"The lady will have the linguini and clam sauce and a coke with no ice and I'll have the same"
Thanks cory...you are getting me through a crazy chick breakup
Thank you soooo fucking much Corey :D still working on reading your book but it has already had a major impact!! I took my time with a girl who I had interest in and gave her space. Basically her boyfriend ended up going to jail and we started talking a little bit, and ended up going to a concert over the summer. Didn't end up doing anything that night because I respect peoples relationships, and now here I am a few months later, took her out for new years and definitely had success :D used your technique of increasing touching, reading her body language, and by midnight I just grabbed her and kissed her!! That definitely set things in my court corey!!! my god I still cant even believe it!!
+Chummbo Oh btw you're wrong about the sex in the parents house ;P hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Corey smart great video
This guy is on point. I'm glad to have run into your channel.
Love your videos Corey..... Good stuff man.
Thanks!
Gift to the world indeed.
Do you want to save your time, energy, and money? (Sory Corey) Just be natural, get away from obviously crazy and complicated women and get together with those who are not nor are they playing games.
It never hurts to go back and brush up on the material if you feel yourself slipping back into old habits which made women ghost. Trust the material. Its proven. If not, write your own book and see how well it does.
I find it interesting how many of Cory's videos include the phrase, "It's clear you haven't read the book ten to fifteen times."
Total fraud. He has never had a successful relationship. Every. Lol
what book are you referring to around 2:25 in the video, your 1st or 2nd?
6:57
That is very true what he said. Met a woman just like that, calling and texting constantly, wanted to book me up for the weekend and she even talked about how she wanted kids in the future... Mind, she is in her 30s and that future is probably three months from now or sooner I figured so I bolted.
I went on a date with a girl who gave me shit because I wanted my steak 'Well Done'...I looked at her right in the eyes and said "The more like chewing a tire the better...don't come to me if you get Mad Cow Disease"😉 We were making out on the trunk of her car for an hour after the date
What if she texts me everyday after two or three dates in two weeks? I can't keep asking her out but i do keep shit short.
Chicks always do this to me
Alright corey, ive bought your book. Lets see what happens in future. Until that, youre doing great work that helps us men alot.
Bro, what happened? Any success stories?
You say that you want a woman who's gonna jump fences to be with you, but then you won't do the same for her because you don't wanna chase her, doesn't it send a message that tells her that you aren't interested or like her enough to be jumping fences to be with her? Isn't it gonna make her feel like you are not feeling the same way towards her?
SAXiDaGuiden but everytime you feel the same way for her she leaves you by calling you the too nice guy or the too clingy guy. women are just never satisfied simple.
Now I understand... because I met a girl not that long ago that texted me every day, and she has seen me only one time when I tried to pick her up (we had a date on the spot). She said that she thinks a lot about me and wants to meet me very much, and told stuff like "oh you will get bored with me soon" sooo she is very insecure, right? And I should stay away from her?
I went to the Kindle store. Corey
always talks about read his book. There are several to choose from. Which is the best book to choose ??
corey you're the man thanks for your simple but enlightening information.
i made the mistake of asking this girl out last night and telling her i'd pick her up even though i dont really know her, she seems cool though we'll see what happens lol
thanks again corey!
Why doesn't he write a book on this? I would love to read it 10-15 times
Trust me about this, some girls are a SERIOUS TURNOFF because of their needy acts! - I feel bad to say this, but I drove a girl to hate me once just because she was needy: I didn't want to feel bad for getting rid of her, so I let her do it! (I was 21 back then).
"You haven't read the book so you're pretty much clueless" 😂
I worship you, corey.
your work is golden man. thank you. is it possible to purchase a physical copy of the book?
Coach always keeps it real, I'm going to buy the book soon. Everytime I forget information I come back and watch videos, it would be better if I read the book and memorize the information. Appreciate the advice as always, keep it up Corey!
Ugh .. really gotta get my hands on your book!
Thank you master Wayne