Patience pays off. As I heard Coach say years ago, "Women are like cats, you have to let them wander and do their own thing. Trying to possess them results in them running away."
I love a really masculine man who stays calm and is like the rock you can orbit around. Women want security but not neediness. I have been happily married 27 years. My husband is very easy going and treats me like a Queen but he also has a very driven career and many hobbies, that usually involve making/fixing/building stuff in our garage or shop, while he also like to hit the gym 3 -4 times a week. He is a calm guy with a good sense of humor and doesn’t over react. However he is also very protective of me and our kids and will immediately jump to make sure we are protected and OK.He would always put himself between us and any form of danger. He is true to himself but is very solid and grounded in who he is. I can depend on him 100%, he is very hardworking and smart, with a good sense of humor. I really respect and admire him. I make sure our kids are grateful to their dad and understand all that he does and provides for us. We are a close and loving family. Never take a great spouse for granted.
Probably shouldn’t have agreed to being exclusive immediately the moment she brought it up. If she doesn’t feel like she earned it, she won’t value it.
I agree! a couple months is really quick to be exclusive. Six months, minimum. Especially if they really only see each other 1x a week. You can't really get to know someone like that. You have to be around each other on a regular basis to find out how compatible you really are with a person.
@@keeperofknowledge4120 how ironic you claim six months is too little time to be exclusive. Yet many of you have casual sex with people you knew for six minutes. The latter is more foolish.
I've spent a shit week because I was being needy with a woman I'm very attracted to. The pain caused by my anxiety/insecurities was unbearable, and I decided I was done with that ! Ended up on one of your videos for advices, and it's soothing as F, so thank you a lot. I ordered the book, time to git gud and join the 10/15 club ! LET'S GO.
@Gray Avenue well I can't remember which one exactly because I watched so many of them over the course of the week haha. But I think it was about beating the competition or something, as I was afraid she was seeing someone else.
The secret to female attraction is building and developing the right connection with a woman or women that means not staring , but looking her in her eyes (as eyes are the window to the soul) , looking away after three seconds then hold eye contact with her again after / while asking her question(s) about her 20% of the time and listening to her the other 80% as women love and are turned on by a guy that listens to them and pays attention to them with what they are saying, also confidence , body language and leadership (making the right move at the right time) are massive traits a guy can potray / show with any woman or women. That is what i have learn't anyway, then again i could be completely wrong about all of that, but as far as I'm aware it's all right. Also if you come off as a needy / weak guy or a lap dog to women and don't realise it until it's too late the best way i would say to get her attraction back is concentrate on your purpose because "when you concentrate on you the women do too" and it's ok to be vulnerable, but nit too much to the point where you are acting and saying femine things, be masculine as i believe that is what us men are supposed to do and that is coming from a guy that is / was shy ( but is a now lot more confident especially in himself). Change your attitude , be and stay positive then you will go futher in life and with women.
@@VBGCgirl1 Thank you I have learned so much more aswell from experience and coach corey wayne e.t.c. like how to give a woman the best satisfaction and pleasure by giving her real mind blowing orgasms, interacting and stimulating certain sensitive parts of her body such as her neck , ears (behind , sides e.t.c.), nipples and breasts, but most of all her most sensitive part of her whole body(to put it in a nice way) her vagina. I'm not going to go into explicit details , but i can guarantee majority of guys don't know where and how to interact and stimulate a womans vagina parts e.g. her vulva, clitorus and most of all her g spot (and where/ how to locate, interact and stimulate it. I believe its located in different area's for every woman and not too easy to locate 😂).
@@NiceOne1706 understood but that doesnt mean you cant be with one. The problem is all these guys get attached and cant let go once they screw them over .
"Women do not like to deal with your emotions, they want to have your shit together. They want you to be happy and grateful, no matter how much or how little time you spend together...", crap. If someone is reading this, it took me years to get into this point, learned it, plus after a lot of frustration and depression...
Bro, I just came here to say your book is amazing! I got the audio version and it’s on repeat. Guys, if you are lacking game (you decide but you’re here so you probably are) then get this book. Seriously!
This man need to read the book ( 1st book) at least 50 times and then never, "NEVER" stop reading it. Women instinctively know when a guy is more into her and is codependent, that's like rotten flesh to them. Men, keep improving and yes keep talking to other women to keep your flirting skills and to avoid being overly invested, is reverse psychology with modern women, most men don't understand you could either love them or understand them, try both and see which one gives you the best results....
@Anthony Timmers I call bullshit on this. Myself and even coach Corey has blown it. At the end of the day you will get used to being alone and then you have the choice how to persue. I drove women away, been mistreated, blown off, and texted but never asked out and wondered why? I now go on dates and have had a few relationships. I am careful now and ask out quickly with confidence. Women notice. It's not hard stuff
Back off buddy, let her come to you. Trust me, been there, failed, had her leave, it sucks. Just trust she will come to you, if you chill out and give her the space to come to you.
You're right Corey they put a label on it oh, now you're exclusive, like you said doesn't mean anything, and then they go back to their ex boyfriend, even though she said we're exclusive🥰
@@NelsonCartierGaming Coaches must do more videos on that. Like how to behave after 4th or 5th date. I always got on that stage and then I keep failing
@@alananderson007008 It's in the book, but to help, keep contacting once a week to arange date no chit chat, straight to the point. If rejected throw ball in her lawn(ok when your schedule frees up gime a call) and wait for her to contact you. If she texts/calls a lot inbetween dates just act busy and be grateful for her call but you have to do whatever you have to do(even if ur in bed yanking and bored to death)...
on page 50 of you book about to read 50 more. this book puts my mind at ease as my last relationship was not ideal. Social media is not your friend when in a relationship
I was in the same predicament she was bringing up being exclusive but I was seeing her less. She was going out and drinking with other guys friends and I didn’t pass those test. I lost her and a week after she’s dating someone else. Darn covid messed me up but I’ve gotten a handle back on my life. Now corey gave me the right responses to use next time this happens. Thanks coach!
Fuck that. She was snooping around or you over persued and she got uncomfortable. Who knows? Follow his work and let women decide with their girly intuition and touchy feelings about connections and us be men and follow our careers and passions. In nature notice how you see the bucks butt heads with their antlers or the male birds do their dances and show their colors in mating dances? The female watches and picks the winner. Same with humans. Don't be fooled by her kind and nurturing nature as women are less evolved underneath that to being picky when being turned on. Male beta orbiters help us alphas behind ways as they make us look stronger and push these girls into our arms 😂
@@timothygibney5656 this happened in May and I heard a story about her hanging out with my friends and "talking about me for hours" I went to a party and saw her there, only made eye contact waved gave a little smile and continued doing what I was doing. Guessing the rebounded isn't working out too well but that isn't my business. Either way I'm seeing new people and focusing on my work.
@@Dalt73 Wow awkward and she probably didn't know how to handle it. At this point you are SOL and she doesn't respect you. With me I never take girls back after something that as subconsciously she won't ever respect. I know that sounds twisted but women don't think logically. More than likely the sex would be great but after she leaves she would think, wait a minute I cheated and he just took me back?? What kind of guy does this and I don't know what I am doing etc. Fuck that and good luck and learn. You will keep them longer as you apply what he teaches and they won't desire to cheat if she gets her masculine needs met by you when she ovulates (that's when they do this)
I was seeing an amazing woman with whom I had tremendous chemistry...when Covid hit and messed everything up. She eventually broke off contact with no explaination right after my birthday last year (August 2022) and stupid me, I chased her through occassional text for a few months - with zero response. I eventually wised up and went no contact, and the emotional de-tox began. It was really difficult to control myself some days, but I powered through to fight off "one-itis". Working on re-reading the book now and getting back out there. It was a painful lesson in my mistakes, but hoping I learn from it and move on to even better experiences soon.
Bro her going out drinking with a bunch of a guys isn’t ‘a test’. She’s showing you who she is. If that kind of woman doesn’t align with your values, then good riddance. It’s not a test at all. She’s just a 304
Currently reading it for the 6th time, just got friendzoned by a girl I was interested in that I used to work with, but oh well keep learning and on to the next one.
I’m dealing with this with my neighbor. I know she likes me. She lets me hang out in her house with her kids but she lies and say she want nothing more. I tell her I’m not looking for anything but fun. I’m playing the wait game.
it seems like the majority of men do not realize you dont have to pursue and worry if she will text you or see you soon or forget about you. you dont have to do anything but be yourself. if she wants to see you thats exactly what she will do. she will be the one that pursues you. I have actually in the last year stopped pursuing women completely. I got completely tired of it. what that did was made the one that actually really want me they will show me they want me. I have never initiated sex with women on dates because I know they want sex because they want it and will give it. the sex is so much better that way
This video popped up at a great time, It was good reminder. I messed up, expressed my frustration with plans changing not once but twice. As soon as I did it I knew I messed up. I ended up just going back to reading 3 percent man again and talking to my buddy who follows coach also. Definitely a hard habit to break but I’m learning.
A woman's actions speak louder than words. Like in basketball, you watch the feet, not the shoulders. Secondly, don't take a woman that's _fresh out of a divorce_ seriously.
@@SavedbyGrace7773 life changing, its a not just what to and what not to do for dating but the general mindset for all relationships, intimate, casual, and professional. Ironically when I first read the book about 8 times I got hella cocky and figured I didn't need to read it 2 to 7 more times, but when I ran into snags here and there I re-read it 4 more times and learned the subtle nuances and that the book isn't literal and its more like a field guide. What I've been finding funny (but im not judging cuz I made the same mistakes) is that alot of the videos have people that ignore some of the most important things in the book. Only spend time with those that show a high-level of intrest, pre-screening women with quality questions, being in the moment, constantly gauging intrest levels,, not letting roadblocks (if you will) stop you, having a backbone without coming off as butt hurt, and fantasizing about the future. For the sake of not making this any longer than it is I'd just pick up the book OR get the audiobook, the information is all the same. I myself have read it 16 going on 17 times and I'm probably not going to stop reading it (as a brush up to stay consistent).
I’ve dated this girl for like 6 months now. I’ve known her for like 4 years but she’s been in and out of relationships during that time. Whenever her relationships get messy she comes back to me.. This time around we’ve been a lot together and I have been the nicest guy to her. I have taken her out for dinner, travelled around the city, bought gifts for her. I have done everything she has asked me to do, only to please her and make her the happiest girl in the world. She says i’m perfect and everything about my life is perfect, but her life is a mess. She told me the other day that her feelings for me have changed which I really can’t understand bcuz these last couple of months have been really, really good. She now wants to get back together with her ex who she told me is an idiot and is bad for her. I now realise I have just been too Nice to her which really buggers me bcuz I have only been good and romantic all this time. She even said I am everything she needs. I have a good social life, I am very caring, I work out, look decent, have a good job, consider myself funny, friendly, have a lovely family and the list goes on... Why are women so complicated? Why can’t it just be more straight forward.. please help! I really need some advice
Like most single women, she is broken and damaged.nobody can fix her...being nice doesn't work because she never received actual love as a child and therefore doesn't understand love or know how to give it. Cut your loses...find a woman who had a stable loving family background. The broken women will only drive you crazy! .
@@davidspicer9949 just had a looooong talk with her now. We decided to move on. She has feelings for her ex which she can’t control. She really wish she could, but her heart is another place :(
That is for the best...leave room in your life for a woman who values you and isn't hung up on what is often an abusive ex..they need drama to survive and you can't change her..she needs to change herself.
Sorry to hear man, if you read Corey's book, gifts are only for birthdays/special occasions or after you're exclusive (been there done that). Don't change who you are for other people but try and see what you do from another persons perspective. If a woman bought you gifts constantly, you end up not appreciating it as much.. Keep the door open with her and she will come back eventually, just remember - no contact. When she does, act indifferent and arrange a date.
Maybe it's just me, but I don't buy that she doesn't have ANY time to see him. Even a half hour for lunch or something? If he was super important, she would find a way...something tells me he's stressful to her and she can't handle that plus the house, so she says she's too busy to hang out.
It’s a lame excuse. No one is so busy. Women are able to set dates at 10 pm. If she wants to see you. And if she doesn’t have time for you, she doesn’t value you.
I never buy the busy excuse over a long period of time. It's a sign of low interest plain and simple. I understand if she's busy a few days but not being able to pick a time in a 7 day week means it's lack of interest for whatever reason.
Keep reading his work bro 10 to 15 times. Women test and do this shit all the time. Basically if they sense immaturity and beta behavior they will get annoyed and test you even further and keep upping the ante until they dump you. They want a man. He failed her test and unfortunately she now knows she can run all over him so she will be less sexually attracted to him. My hunch is he is over texting and calling. You got to be in your A game and be aware and know how to respond. Best way to show she shouldn't do that is to act distant back and refuse to play along by being busy and not responding to texts back. Women notice that shit and go fuck what have I done to him I shouldn't do X anymore etc
@@ADUAquascaping Hate to say this but ALL women test you. Sometimes it's a small subtle test if she says she disagrees with you on something. Sometimes she will blow off a date to see how you react. They need some drama. If you refuse to play that can show strength. It can also show you as a wuss who can't control his behavior or gets butthurt and will dump you or test you more until you dump them. Women love that too so that way they don't have to feel guilt since you were the one doing it. It's part of the game. I ignore them and get distant and they get message or ghost me back and I move on to the next. Even corey had a gf who did this and caused shit after a trip and acted uninterested after a trip. He asked if she was testing him. She laughed and thought it was funny and admitted she was wondering if he was all that
@@ZlobniyXren666 - Wince I posted this I have purchased premium. But I’m paying $17.xx (with tax incl). Where did you find it for $5? Please share! Gracias Amigo
Great Coach Corey Wayne! Personally, I keep Fefes in the infatuation phase, besides a pull-back periodically reminds them I "reward" not award a Fefe's behaviors & actions. ~Bachelor, I Stand..."Yes Camille, you & Yessenia may wash my feet now. Dead sea salt is new daddy!"
Listen to this bloke, maybe. If you do, chances are more women than ever will be frequenting your COREY! Mostly Brits and Londoners will get this one. I still think let the quiff come to you. Treat the Birches mean and keep 'em keen. 😎
Weak needy beta male behavior always ends badly. Offer her to help with her closing and move and simply be there if she reaches out, in the mean time go enjoy yourself.
What could i be doing wrong. I never see any women checking me out, I have practiced the body language and I walk with a confident posture but still I never see any women looking at me or even checking me out. I would say I’m a decent looking guy but at the moment it feels like I’m invisible, anything I may be doing wrong? Thanks all :)
I was recently in Majorca, in a nightclub with mates , who hooked up with a group of women, one of whom was particularly attractive, bouncing around dancing, I sat at the bar and completely ignored her , eventually she tapped me on the shoulder and said “ what is it with you , you’re not interested “ I said sit down and let’s have a drink, we had a great time, nothing went on just good fun and laughter. My mates couldn’t believe I pulled without trying and I’m 5ft 3 not great looking just cool and calm
Theres a girl at my gym who i cold approached. Ive only talked to her 3 times over a course of 5 months. Never asked for her number.. whenever we talk it seems to go good and i always keep it super quick. The problem is yesterday she was at the gym and i didn't even know she was... i saw her leave walking past me and she looked a little mad. Perhaps im overthinking. However is one tome not talking to her because i really didnt see her enough to turn her off?
Seeking advice, Started seeing a girl in Aug (both military) turns out she started dating a Captain in Oct and building a house $$$. I had no clue. I've been doing no contact for a week but wtf do I say if I see them at work?
Corey your videos are great BUT almost every video ultimately suggests the same thing - back off is the answer to everything. Can you come up with some diversified techniques?
Not sure where these pick up artists get their theories from but in essence they are teaching to be totally unattached no matter what she does? I don’t see how that works to be honest if you are really involved with the girl you love unless of course she is just a fwb material or some casual partner. If you are really unattached or indifferent to what her plans or decisions are or if you can’t talk to her what’s bothering you, is that really a genuine loving relationship? That’s a mind f..uk. But then again, pick up artist in essence is a man who plays on the insecurities of young guys teaching them tricks to pass a woman’s tests, rather than telling young guys women only test men they don’t value or respect.
This is an old comment…. But you’re clearly not understanding this in its proper context The context of this information is based on the very early stages of dating. You shouldn’t be “in love” with a woman after a few dates. Even if you think you are… you’re probably wrong. You barely know her. The point is that you should be a happy, complete and fulfilled person who is also discerning and not needy. When you first meet someone.. you are getting to know them just as they are you. And you’re evaluating them to see if they are a good fit You shouldn’t be hurt, upset or complain if they aren’t fully meeting your needs. You just met. That takes time. You should have a take it or leave it attitude Different story if you’re in a relationship for a year and they are not meeting your needs and don’t seem willing to try. Relationship game is different than “just started dating” game
Even though western culture has high divorce rates they easily find a partner after a divorce, while in my country its even hard to get a gf when you are single and its impossible to get another partner after a divorce, western culture people are very open minded, much respect
Can i ask a totally irrelevant question?? At 5:13 he says "either way" with two different pronounciations. What is the difference? Why ia he correcting it?
Who cares man. These videos worth real money. Open your ears to this gold mine of information. Appreciate that there is youtube giving you access to decades of experience.
Hey Coach, big fan for yrs, read 3% man 3 times (I know I know, 12 more times to go). My only issue with this is the exclusivity part - "Letting her come to you" and infinite patience when you're exclusive. No matter how much Im on my purpose and busy, as a man, I need to have sex. It's like going to the bathroom, you can offer me a billion dollars, no amount of money can stop me from being human. When you have a rotation (non-exclusive), you can let a woman roam the neighborhood and come when she wants, your needs will be met dating other women. In this case, if she asks you to be exclusive, it's unfair to take hold the sex hostage (intentionally or unintentionally). If this dude misses a week, that's 2 weeks without sex since he's exclusive. I understand that if you're in a long term relationship, those times might happen, but to me, if a girl's time even when she has high interest is scarce from the beginning, that's a red flag. So what do you do in this case? She's the one you want to be exclusive with, but you hardly have sex? masturbate? Like you said with your british girlfriend - as perfect as she was, no matter what, the circumstance can't make you sacrifice your core needs... be it intimacy, sex, etc.
Bro... 8 weeks? Hang out, Have fun and Hookup. You're lucky you don't have to help her move all her shit lol.. Moving sucks.. Be there to give her a "massage" when she's done with all that..
I think the neediness people display in the "relationship" dance is all sub conscious attempts to resolve issues early on with parents....the traps people fall into in sex love initiation... are about getting to that point of trying to work it all out from the past.......but its a trick....two people dating should be two independent people working on their own independent issues always...even after marriage.....not two people merging and glomming onto each other...expecting to rewrite the disappointment of long ago with parents....and resolve it......that is a fantasy that won't result in knowing your own power. just keeps people from growing, which is the purpose of life in the end. Often in life acceptance that there is NO resolution for so many things IS a resolution in and of itself,, it frees people to be authentic, accepting that they will never tie things up in a nice tidy bow. It is the mystery.
Sh1t just lost another hot one to another, because I'm the one bringing the drama and forgetting the key words...girls just want to have fun, I'm being wayyy to serious.
Love you Corey you're my hero dude... Do you think I can continue having a relationship with my current long term girlfriend and have an affair with our neighbour who's interested in me but being tactically cautious but showing interest but I as the man have to pursue her but not over eagerly of course it's been slowly escalating into me making the move so should I continue trying to hang my hot neighbour or just try an work things out with my girlfriend? ??? Please help????
We all been there done that in our lives. Otherwise we wouldn't be here. 4 years ago I was a different man before Correy and would be texting 3 to 4 girls at a time and get a date once a month if I were lucky. No second dates. Maybe one second date every 6 months and always some dude would steal the chick and i never got pussy. Now I get a date 90% of the time and turn down women for sex and relationships who I don't dig. They come to me. This shit works 😄
Patience pays off. As I heard Coach say years ago, "Women are like cats, you have to let them wander and do their own thing. Trying to possess them results in them running away."
I've got 6 Cats, no girlfriend. I'm trying to learn from my cats how to understand Women.
@@brachiosaurus6541 If you find a woman with more than 3 cats, you're a match. lol
David every week under Coach's video, I see you have a positive word or two to say. Keep it up bro👍
@@00-CD Just trying to learn more as I go and share my experiences with others. We're all in this together.
@@davidp2888 yes sir, you got that right!💯👍
I love a really masculine man who stays calm and is like the rock you can orbit around. Women want security but not neediness. I have been happily married 27 years. My husband is very easy going and treats me like a Queen but he also has a very driven career and many hobbies, that usually involve making/fixing/building stuff in our garage or shop, while he also like to hit the gym 3 -4 times a week. He is a calm guy with a good sense of humor and doesn’t over react. However he is also very protective of me and our kids and will immediately jump to make sure we are protected and OK.He would always put himself between us and any form of danger. He is true to himself but is very solid and grounded in who he is. I can depend on him 100%, he is very hardworking and smart, with a good sense of humor. I really respect and admire him. I make sure our kids are grateful to their dad and understand all that he does and provides for us. We are a close and loving family. Never take a great spouse for granted.
Women always do
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Sounds a great guy , good for him and good for you ❤
If you are always busy, you give off the illusion of patience. So.....keep being busy.
This dude was Married before . Probabbly married young. And fresh out in dating and is used to the "Married" style commitment. I was like this
Probably shouldn’t have agreed to being exclusive immediately the moment she brought it up.
If she doesn’t feel like she earned it, she won’t value it.
I agree! a couple months is really quick to be exclusive. Six months, minimum. Especially if they really only see each other 1x a week. You can't really get to know someone like that. You have to be around each other on a regular basis to find out how compatible you really are with a person.
I understand but what should you say when she confession that she wants to be in a relationship..and asking you about it
@@keeperofknowledge4120 how ironic you claim six months is too little time to be exclusive. Yet many of you have casual sex with people you knew for six minutes. The latter is more foolish.
Hush Animation underrated comment 🔥
@@msc8245 Yeah but I bet you won't block Chad.
“Great. So you got a label. What changes?.... Nothing really” 😂😂😂
Bro it really doesn’t lol
The realization of that was one of the biggest developments in my life. Marriage is different though. That’s a liability if not handle d correctly.
@@stevenc8717 Perhaps that a lot of marriages fail. What really changes other than a contract?
Best just to keep 3% Man as a study guide regardless of how many times you’ve read it. 👏
I definitely agree with you on that.
I've spent a shit week because I was being needy with a woman I'm very attracted to. The pain caused by my anxiety/insecurities was unbearable, and I decided I was done with that ! Ended up on one of your videos for advices, and it's soothing as F, so thank you a lot. I ordered the book, time to git gud and join the 10/15 club ! LET'S GO.
Hell yess amigo read it and soak it up brotha.
@Gray Avenue well I can't remember which one exactly because I watched so many of them over the course of the week haha. But I think it was about beating the competition or something, as I was afraid she was seeing someone else.
How did it go?
What's the result so far? Curious
The secret to female attraction is building and developing the right connection with a woman or women that means not staring , but looking her in her eyes (as eyes are the window to the soul) , looking away after three seconds then hold eye contact with her again after / while asking her question(s) about her 20% of the time and listening to her the other 80% as women love and are turned on by a guy that listens to them and pays attention to them with what they are saying, also confidence , body language and leadership (making the right move at the right time) are massive traits a guy can potray / show with any woman or women. That is what i have learn't anyway, then again i could be completely wrong about all of that, but as far as I'm aware it's all right.
Also if you come off as a needy / weak guy or a lap dog to women and don't realise it until it's too late the best way i would say to get her attraction back is concentrate on your purpose because "when you concentrate on you the women do too" and it's ok to be vulnerable, but nit too much to the point where you are acting and saying femine things, be masculine as i believe that is what us men are supposed to do and that is coming from a guy that is / was shy ( but is a now lot more confident especially in himself).
Change your attitude , be and stay positive then you will go futher in life and with women.
I’m a woman and you nailed it.
@@VBGCgirl1 Thank you I have learned so much more aswell from experience and coach corey wayne e.t.c. like how to give a woman the best satisfaction and pleasure by giving her real mind blowing orgasms, interacting and stimulating certain sensitive parts of her body such as her neck , ears (behind , sides e.t.c.), nipples and breasts, but most of all her most sensitive part of her whole body(to put it in a nice way) her vagina. I'm not going to go into explicit details , but i can guarantee majority of guys don't know where and how to interact and stimulate a womans vagina parts e.g. her vulva, clitorus and most of all her g spot (and where/ how to locate, interact and stimulate it. I believe its located in different area's for every woman and not too easy to locate 😂).
The one coach who doesnt bash females. There is good and bad females just like males. Alot of these ppl getting brainwashed by other coaches.
@@NiceOne1706 understood but that doesnt mean you cant be with one. The problem is all these guys get attached and cant let go once they screw them over .
Yeah that is very tiresome these dudes that bash females never say their own faults
"Women do not like to deal with your emotions, they want to have your shit together. They want you to be happy and grateful, no matter how much or how little time you spend together...", crap. If someone is reading this, it took me years to get into this point, learned it, plus after a lot of frustration and depression...
Sounds like this guy needs to read the book 12 more times
No 15 times
He already read it 3 times F$#$ stick
hahah what a comment
3% men club in the comment section!!🙌🏽
My boy and I literally have meetings discussing your material. Thanks for continue to put these out!
Bro, I just came here to say your book is amazing! I got the audio version and it’s on repeat. Guys, if you are lacking game (you decide but you’re here so you probably are) then get this book. Seriously!
audiobook on which application? audible?
I got mine on Apple Books but it is likely on Audible and other services
This man need to read the book ( 1st book) at least 50 times and then never, "NEVER" stop reading it. Women instinctively know when a guy is more into her and is codependent, that's like rotten flesh to them. Men, keep improving and yes keep talking to other women to keep your flirting skills and to avoid being overly invested, is reverse psychology with modern women, most men don't understand you could either love them or understand them, try both and see which one gives you the best results....
@Anthony Timmers well said. Co-dependents usually attract narcissists.
@Anthony Timmers I call bullshit on this. Myself and even coach Corey has blown it. At the end of the day you will get used to being alone and then you have the choice how to persue. I drove women away, been mistreated, blown off, and texted but never asked out and wondered why? I now go on dates and have had a few relationships. I am careful now and ask out quickly with confidence. Women notice. It's not hard stuff
Back off buddy, let her come to you. Trust me, been there, failed, had her leave, it sucks. Just trust she will come to you, if you chill out and give her the space to come to you.
You're right Corey they put a label on it oh, now you're exclusive, like you said doesn't mean anything, and then they go back to their ex boyfriend, even though she said we're exclusive🥰
I don't have any problems attracting a girl at first. I have problems in keeping it.
I agree especially after they move in oh God help me
@@NelsonCartierGaming Why are you moving females in with you?
@@NelsonCartierGaming Coaches must do more videos on that. Like how to behave after 4th or 5th date. I always got on that stage and then I keep failing
@@alananderson007008 Whenever you hit a snag, go ahead and get your head in the book and read.
@@alananderson007008 It's in the book, but to help, keep contacting once a week to arange date no chit chat, straight to the point. If rejected throw ball in her lawn(ok when your schedule frees up gime a call) and wait for her to contact you. If she texts/calls a lot inbetween dates just act busy and be grateful for her call but you have to do whatever you have to do(even if ur in bed yanking and bored to death)...
on page 50 of you book about to read 50 more. this book puts my mind at ease as my last relationship was not ideal. Social media is not your friend when in a relationship
EAST OR WEST COREY IS THE BEST!!!! YOU ARE THE MAN COACH. YOU'VE BEEN IN THIS FOR SO LONG NOW.
I was in the same predicament she was bringing up being exclusive but I was seeing her less. She was going out and drinking with other guys friends and I didn’t pass those test. I lost her and a week after she’s dating someone else. Darn covid messed me up but I’ve gotten a handle back on my life. Now corey gave me the right responses to use next time this happens. Thanks coach!
Fuck that. She was snooping around or you over persued and she got uncomfortable. Who knows? Follow his work and let women decide with their girly intuition and touchy feelings about connections and us be men and follow our careers and passions. In nature notice how you see the bucks butt heads with their antlers or the male birds do their dances and show their colors in mating dances? The female watches and picks the winner. Same with humans. Don't be fooled by her kind and nurturing nature as women are less evolved underneath that to being picky when being turned on. Male beta orbiters help us alphas behind ways as they make us look stronger and push these girls into our arms 😂
@@timothygibney5656 this happened in May and I heard a story about her hanging out with my friends and "talking about me for hours" I went to a party and saw her there, only made eye contact waved gave a little smile and continued doing what I was doing. Guessing the rebounded isn't working out too well but that isn't my business. Either way I'm seeing new people and focusing on my work.
@@Dalt73 Wow awkward and she probably didn't know how to handle it. At this point you are SOL and she doesn't respect you. With me I never take girls back after something that as subconsciously she won't ever respect. I know that sounds twisted but women don't think logically. More than likely the sex would be great but after she leaves she would think, wait a minute I cheated and he just took me back?? What kind of guy does this and I don't know what I am doing etc. Fuck that and good luck and learn. You will keep them longer as you apply what he teaches and they won't desire to cheat if she gets her masculine needs met by you when she ovulates (that's when they do this)
I was seeing an amazing woman with whom I had tremendous chemistry...when Covid hit and messed everything up. She eventually broke off contact with no explaination right after my birthday last year (August 2022) and stupid me, I chased her through occassional text for a few months - with zero response. I eventually wised up and went no contact, and the emotional de-tox began. It was really difficult to control myself some days, but I powered through to fight off "one-itis". Working on re-reading the book now and getting back out there. It was a painful lesson in my mistakes, but hoping I learn from it and move on to even better experiences soon.
Bro her going out drinking with a bunch of a guys isn’t ‘a test’. She’s showing you who she is. If that kind of woman doesn’t align with your values, then good riddance.
It’s not a test at all. She’s just a 304
Scarcity creates value
Lot of people in the comments have read the book 10-15 times.
Good job fellas!
Currently reading it for the 6th time, just got friendzoned by a girl I was interested in that I used to work with, but oh well keep learning and on to the next one.
I’m dealing with this with my neighbor. I know she likes me. She lets me hang out in her house with her kids but she lies and say she want nothing more. I tell her I’m not looking for anything but fun. I’m playing the wait game.
Pretty soon you’ll be baby sitting.🤣🤣🤣
Always be the charming James Bond
man I currently am talking to the hottest girl I've met in my life and I'm diving back into all the materials. Tough stuff tbh
She’s just another human nothing more , don’t put her on a pedestal
@@Simon-og5vy I know. I'm just here to refresh my man. Funnily enough, I got a date with an even prettier girl. My luck just keeps getting better
@@garp9433 what’s garp mean
@@z-bohardstylemusic1199 It's a character from one of my favorite shows of all time. Just search "Garp" and then images and you'll see who it is.
Kind of had a similar situation but handled it more indifferent and it had a good effect on her
Great tips, i have found the bigger i grow on social media there more female attention i get
it seems like the majority of men do not realize you dont have to pursue and worry if she will text you or see you soon or forget about you. you dont have to do anything but be yourself. if she wants to see you thats exactly what she will do. she will be the one that pursues you. I have actually in the last year stopped pursuing women completely. I got completely tired of it. what that did was made the one that actually really want me they will show me they want me. I have never initiated sex with women on dates because I know they want sex because they want it and will give it. the sex is so much better that way
This video popped up at a great time, It was good reminder. I messed up, expressed my frustration with plans changing not once but twice.
As soon as I did it I knew I messed up.
I ended up just going back to reading 3 percent man again and talking to my buddy who follows coach also.
Definitely a hard habit to break but I’m learning.
A woman's actions speak louder than words. Like in basketball, you watch the feet, not the shoulders.
Secondly, don't take a woman that's _fresh out of a divorce_ seriously.
@@aephemerial because youre probably the rebound
If he is not careful. He is going to run her away.
It's (not) crazy that most of these situations can be easily avoided if you read the book 10-15 times.
How was the book?
@@SavedbyGrace7773 life changing, its a not just what to and what not to do for dating but the general mindset for all relationships, intimate, casual, and professional. Ironically when I first read the book about 8 times I got hella cocky and figured I didn't need to read it 2 to 7 more times, but when I ran into snags here and there I re-read it 4 more times and learned the subtle nuances and that the book isn't literal and its more like a field guide. What I've been finding funny (but im not judging cuz I made the same mistakes) is that alot of the videos have people that ignore some of the most important things in the book. Only spend time with those that show a high-level of intrest, pre-screening women with quality questions, being in the moment, constantly gauging intrest levels,, not letting roadblocks (if you will) stop you, having a backbone without coming off as butt hurt, and fantasizing about the future. For the sake of not making this any longer than it is I'd just pick up the book OR get the audiobook, the information is all the same. I myself have read it 16 going on 17 times and I'm probably not going to stop reading it (as a brush up to stay consistent).
@@dreriggins5089 man, I really appreciate it. I'll buy it.......Thank you. :)
Listen to this man read the book! Thanks coach your stuff really works!
Keep centered, stay patient and help her with her huge stresses
Great video coach, but damn, you got more ads than the Super Bowl.
I’ve dated this girl for like 6 months now. I’ve known her for like 4 years but she’s been in and out of relationships during that time. Whenever her relationships get messy she comes back to me.. This time around we’ve been a lot together and I have been the nicest guy to her. I have taken her out for dinner, travelled around the city, bought gifts for her. I have done everything she has asked me to do, only to please her and make her the happiest girl in the world. She says i’m perfect and everything about my life is perfect, but her life is a mess.
She told me the other day that her feelings for me have changed which I really can’t understand bcuz these last couple of months have been really, really good. She now wants to get back together with her ex who she told me is an idiot and is bad for her.
I now realise I have just been too Nice to her which really buggers me bcuz I have only been good and romantic all this time. She even said I am everything she needs. I have a good social life, I am very caring, I work out, look decent, have a good job, consider myself funny, friendly, have a lovely family and the list goes on... Why are women so complicated? Why can’t it just be more straight forward.. please help! I really need some advice
Like most single women, she is broken and damaged.nobody can fix her...being nice doesn't work because she never received actual love as a child and therefore doesn't understand love or know how to give it. Cut your loses...find a woman who had a stable loving family background. The broken women will only drive you crazy! .
@@davidspicer9949 just had a looooong talk with her now. We decided to move on. She has feelings for her ex which she can’t control. She really wish she could, but her heart is another place :(
That is for the best...leave room in your life for a woman who values you and isn't hung up on what is often an abusive ex..they need drama to survive and you can't change her..she needs to change herself.
Sorry to hear man, if you read Corey's book, gifts are only for birthdays/special occasions or after you're exclusive (been there done that). Don't change who you are for other people but try and see what you do from another persons perspective. If a woman bought you gifts constantly, you end up not appreciating it as much.. Keep the door open with her and she will come back eventually, just remember - no contact.
When she does, act indifferent and arrange a date.
Don’t believe what she says but her actions
Let go of attachment
Yes be emmotionaly unavailable.
Corey Wayne = The Savior of simps
If you “need” something you’re pushing it away.
Maybe it's just me, but I don't buy that she doesn't have ANY time to see him. Even a half hour for lunch or something? If he was super important, she would find a way...something tells me he's stressful to her and she can't handle that plus the house, so she says she's too busy to hang out.
It’s a lame excuse. No one is so busy. Women are able to set dates at 10 pm. If she wants to see you. And if she doesn’t have time for you, she doesn’t value you.
I never buy the busy excuse over a long period of time. It's a sign of low interest plain and simple. I understand if she's busy a few days but not being able to pick a time in a 7 day week means it's lack of interest for whatever reason.
soygamer3 if Elon Musk has time to date, so can a random woman. She ain’t that special.
Keep reading his work bro 10 to 15 times. Women test and do this shit all the time. Basically if they sense immaturity and beta behavior they will get annoyed and test you even further and keep upping the ante until they dump you. They want a man. He failed her test and unfortunately she now knows she can run all over him so she will be less sexually attracted to him. My hunch is he is over texting and calling. You got to be in your A game and be aware and know how to respond. Best way to show she shouldn't do that is to act distant back and refuse to play along by being busy and not responding to texts back. Women notice that shit and go fuck what have I done to him I shouldn't do X anymore etc
@@ADUAquascaping Hate to say this but ALL women test you. Sometimes it's a small subtle test if she says she disagrees with you on something. Sometimes she will blow off a date to see how you react. They need some drama. If you refuse to play that can show strength. It can also show you as a wuss who can't control his behavior or gets butthurt and will dump you or test you more until you dump them. Women love that too so that way they don't have to feel guilt since you were the one doing it. It's part of the game. I ignore them and get distant and they get message or ghost me back and I move on to the next. Even corey had a gf who did this and caused shit after a trip and acted uninterested after a trip. He asked if she was testing him. She laughed and thought it was funny and admitted she was wondering if he was all that
If you are looking for a video with 9 commercial interruptions, this one is for you!
Lmao pretty much all his vids, but they’re worth it
😂😂
Just buy the premium and watch ad free, its like 5 dollars a month🤷🏻♂️
@@ZlobniyXren666 - Wince I posted this I have purchased premium. But I’m paying $17.xx (with tax incl). Where did you find it for $5? Please share!
Gracias Amigo
@@tamuman93 i dont know, im in russia and it costs me 199 rubles a month 🤷🏻♂️
Patience
Once a week date
Control the fear
More Gold from Coach !
Thank goodness some men can entertain themselves without whining. How awesome is that?
Probably one of the most important things to learn.
The secret is u can’t control it.. or anyone else.. knowing that is the key
After the break up I got me free time and myself back
Man how you doing now ???
I despise texting with a vengeance...
Women live on text these days
Thank you for the tip Coach Corey!
Corey, you are a legend and much more. 👍🏻😉
Men have to be rooted in their core identity and values first. Have A priori rules, boundaries and limitations.
Great Coach Corey Wayne! Personally, I keep Fefes in the infatuation phase, besides a pull-back periodically reminds them I "reward" not award a Fefe's behaviors & actions. ~Bachelor, I Stand..."Yes Camille, you & Yessenia may wash my feet now. Dead sea salt is new daddy!"
Great "I can go bowling "
Pop Eye .... Exactly, especially for girls that aren't interested in bowling. Girls that do like bowling, are kinda cool.
This dude sounds like someone here in Vegas! I bet he popped the question to her shortly after the email was sent.
Listen to this bloke, maybe. If you do, chances are more women than ever will be frequenting your COREY! Mostly Brits and Londoners will get this one.
I still think let the quiff come to you.
Treat the Birches mean and keep 'em keen. 😎
You're truly the best Corey🙌
Look at what they do, not what they say
Many thanks for all the useful information coach 👍🙏✌
Coach on read number 3 in counting
Weak needy beta male behavior always ends badly. Offer her to help with her closing and move and simply be there if she reaches out, in the mean time go enjoy yourself.
Better studio than joe Rogans
The slurping sound of no drama 🎭
I just finished reading your book for the 34th time
What could i be doing wrong. I never see any women checking me out, I have practiced the body language and I walk with a confident posture but still I never see any women looking at me or even checking me out. I would say I’m a decent looking guy but at the moment it feels like I’m invisible, anything I may be doing wrong? Thanks all :)
You probably lack style and swagger and experience
The problem is, as is evident in the nature of your comment, you don't believe in yourself.
I was recently in Majorca, in a nightclub with mates , who hooked up with a group of women, one of whom was particularly attractive, bouncing around dancing, I sat at the bar and completely ignored her , eventually she tapped me on the shoulder and said “ what is it with you , you’re not interested “ I said sit down and let’s have a drink, we had a great time, nothing went on just good fun and laughter. My mates couldn’t believe I pulled without trying and I’m 5ft 3 not great looking just cool and calm
Great video coach👍
Corey is a genius
Theres a girl at my gym who i cold approached. Ive only talked to her 3 times over a course of 5 months. Never asked for her number.. whenever we talk it seems to go good and i always keep it super quick. The problem is yesterday she was at the gym and i didn't even know she was... i saw her leave walking past me and she looked a little mad. Perhaps im overthinking. However is one tome not talking to her because i really didnt see her enough to turn her off?
This video in particular is full of insight. Awesome by the Coach.
Seeking advice,
Started seeing a girl in Aug (both military) turns out she started dating a Captain in Oct and building a house $$$. I had no clue.
I've been doing no contact for a week but wtf do I say if I see them at work?
I would have just suggested a different night then.
I’d love to hear Corey’s opinion on a recent presidential debate
Corry at 50 what are the ages of the females you go out with? Thanks Coach
what about if u live together?
Corey your videos are great BUT almost every video ultimately suggests the same thing - back off is the answer to everything. Can you come up with some diversified techniques?
Good video (I didn't still watch it only the ads and first few seconds) 🤣😃
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@lapatrona6993 I just saw your comment hahhaa 7 months 🤣😅
I like the "heart and loins" background you have now Corey 😉🤓
Not sure where these pick up artists get their theories from but in essence they are teaching to be totally unattached no matter what she does? I don’t see how that works to be honest if you are really involved with the girl you love unless of course she is just a fwb material or some casual partner. If you are really unattached or indifferent to what her plans or decisions are or if you can’t talk to her what’s bothering you, is that really a genuine loving relationship? That’s a mind f..uk. But then again, pick up artist in essence is a man who plays on the insecurities of young guys teaching them tricks to pass a woman’s tests, rather than telling young guys women only test men they don’t value or respect.
Read the book 10-15 times.....
The Walking Rex lol
Blue pill mangina
This is an old comment…. But you’re clearly not understanding this in its proper context
The context of this information is based on the very early stages of dating. You shouldn’t be “in love” with a woman after a few dates. Even if you think you are… you’re probably wrong. You barely know her.
The point is that you should be a happy, complete and fulfilled person who is also discerning and not needy. When you first meet someone.. you are getting to know them just as they are you. And you’re evaluating them to see if they are a good fit
You shouldn’t be hurt, upset or complain if they aren’t fully meeting your needs. You just met. That takes time. You should have a take it or leave it attitude
Different story if you’re in a relationship for a year and they are not meeting your needs and don’t seem willing to try. Relationship game is different than “just started dating” game
Awesome book
thank u . Sir.
Taco Tuesday lol read the book 10 to 15 times
It's truuuue you have to learn the philosophy
Even though western culture has high divorce rates they easily find a partner after a divorce, while in my country its even hard to get a gf when you are single and its impossible to get another partner after a divorce, western culture people are very open minded, much respect
There are so many ads on this video it’s unwatchable!
Go right to the end. Let is play out. Then when you hit rewatch ads are gone.
@@marm506 wow!! It actually works. You're awesome. 😂😎
Can i ask a totally irrelevant question?? At 5:13 he says "either way" with two different pronounciations. What is the difference? Why ia he correcting it?
Sup coach!!
Too many ads. Unwatchable.
youtube premium eliminates all youtube ads. its worth the money
Or just get ad blocker app that's free
Who cares man. These videos worth real money. Open your ears to this gold mine of information. Appreciate that there is youtube giving you access to decades of experience.
Corey looking scruffy.
Hey Coach, big fan for yrs, read 3% man 3 times (I know I know, 12 more times to go). My only issue with this is the exclusivity part - "Letting her come to you" and infinite patience when you're exclusive. No matter how much Im on my purpose and busy, as a man, I need to have sex. It's like going to the bathroom, you can offer me a billion dollars, no amount of money can stop me from being human. When you have a rotation (non-exclusive), you can let a woman roam the neighborhood and come when she wants, your needs will be met dating other women. In this case, if she asks you to be exclusive, it's unfair to take hold the sex hostage (intentionally or unintentionally). If this dude misses a week, that's 2 weeks without sex since he's exclusive. I understand that if you're in a long term relationship, those times might happen, but to me, if a girl's time even when she has high interest is scarce from the beginning, that's a red flag. So what do you do in this case? She's the one you want to be exclusive with, but you hardly have sex? masturbate? Like you said with your british girlfriend - as perfect as she was, no matter what, the circumstance can't make you sacrifice your core needs... be it intimacy, sex, etc.
Try Semen Retention bro..
@@isracarrillo2294 I was just about to say the samething
Whatever you don't DO NOT masterbait
Bro... 8 weeks? Hang out, Have fun and Hookup. You're lucky you don't have to help her move all her shit lol.. Moving sucks.. Be there to give her a "massage" when she's done with all that..
I'm surprised she didn't ask him to help her move and be her little gopher
There is a secret?
I think the neediness people display in the "relationship" dance is all sub conscious attempts to resolve issues early on with parents....the traps people fall into in sex love initiation... are about getting to that point of trying to work it all out from the past.......but its a trick....two people dating should be two independent people working on their own independent issues always...even after marriage.....not two people merging and glomming onto each other...expecting to rewrite the disappointment of long ago with parents....and resolve it......that is a fantasy that won't result in knowing your own power. just keeps people from growing, which is the purpose of life in the end. Often in life acceptance that there is NO resolution for so many things IS a resolution in and of itself,, it frees people to be authentic, accepting that they will never tie things up in a nice tidy bow. It is the mystery.
Strategic patience, fuck fear if she likes you it just happens when it happens.
Sh1t just lost another hot one to another, because I'm the one bringing the drama and forgetting the key words...girls just want to have fun, I'm being wayyy to serious.
Love you Corey you're my hero dude...
Do you think I can continue having a relationship with my current long term girlfriend and have an affair with our neighbour who's interested in me but being tactically cautious but showing interest but I as the man have to pursue her but not over eagerly of course it's been slowly escalating into me making the move so should I continue trying to hang my hot neighbour or just try an work things out with my girlfriend? ??? Please help????
routine in anti-seductive
Last few vids have had way too many adds. Idm one or two at start or end but all the way through is super annoying.
These relationship focused guys makes these dude old on our eyes
We all been there done that in our lives. Otherwise we wouldn't be here. 4 years ago I was a different man before Correy and would be texting 3 to 4 girls at a time and get a date once a month if I were lucky. No second dates. Maybe one second date every 6 months and always some dude would steal the chick and i never got pussy. Now I get a date 90% of the time and turn down women for sex and relationships who I don't dig. They come to me. This shit works 😄
New house “crap?” - sounds a bit sour.