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dowry.. taking simping to the next levle.. well if the culture is like that... i possiblkt have no problem with that.... the point is... in Estonia, centuries ago dowry was paid by the family of the daughter to the man... since the man will have to take care of the woman the rest of her life, wich is expense.... so you were basicly paid to marry their daughters, so they wouldnbt be leftover women rofl.... .. personally i wouldnt ever pay someone to get to marry their daughter... like wtf... they can fck off... if u think 10k is bad.... try china.. where dowry is easily 100-150k$ ... and dont forget.. u will be feeding entire family tree, not just that wife of urs.... sry... but the grass isnt greener on the other side rofl..... thai and european culture differences are so vast, that my friend couldnt handle the relationship for longer than 6months....
A older man picked up a bar girl next morning she was gone and she left a note welcome to give club he got back home few mths later become positive health went down hill died at 58 take not where you go
Hi Dan, I know an old Thai lady who lives here in the UK, she was married to an English man who died about 3 years ago and left her a lump sum and pension. I asked my Thai wife why she didn't want to return to Thailand and was told that her family would suck the last penny off her if she did. So it also happens to Thais too.
@@trevorharvey105… Only if they say “yes” to every request. If she has learned the value of ensuring your own interests, before “helping” family…. Different story. If the woman understands the concept of “saving for the future”, or “saving up to achieve a goal”…. And can identify the absurdity of some of those requests…. You may have found a rare one.
@@markrcca5329 more than that in some cases they manipulate you to buy a house which cannot be in your name. You think they love you but they just need money. It is difficult to understand as we have never been that poor. The filipinas family sometimes have meetings to work out how to suck you dry. Maybe she does not want a part of it but family loyalty runs deep. She will choose her family over you or she will be cut off from them all. Many filipinas who marry foreigners have to estrange from their family it is so sad.
The moment her attitude changes, just tell her "pack your things and get the F out!" I lived with a thai girl in pattaya for 3 months and twice i had to tell her that,,and both times she begged me to let her stay and her attitude changes. You can't be afraid to throw her out if she acts up.
So eventually you threw her out? You said you lived with her for 3 months... that's such a short time. I'm with my wife now 11 years. She never had that attitude. But before I met my wife (many years before) I had several Thai "girlfriends" who started asking money just one week after I met them... they didn't last. My wife only asked money if she needed shopping and is very carefully with money...
@@SjaakSchulteis Was your wife a bar girl ?? It seems most trouble comes from those girls especially younger one's. They haven't learnt there is a time and a place for every thing.
I think Philippinas are much better. Most of them just want a better life with you and they will appreciate it. I've been to Thailand and the Philippines and know the score. I'll tell you a story about a friend of mine who met a Thai girl in the States. She and her mom were staying at her aunties, who owned a Thai restaurant. She was here on a student visa. She was 21 and gorgeous. My friend was 50, but fit. Still, big age gap. They started dating and she moved in with him because she didn't want to be around her mother any more ( and of course, her goal was to get a visa status change and get a green card by marrying my friend, who was clueless about it). After living with him for 6 months, they got married. My friend worked a fireman's shift ( 2 and 1/2 days away from home ) so he had plenty of time to spend with her. This was about 10 years ago, and he was making decent money ( about $80,000 a year ) and he had plenty of accumulated vacation time, so he took her all over the place: cruises, other countries, other cities in US etc. He paid for everything, including her clothes and cosmetics. She was a great cook , besides being beautiful, and he thought that he was in heaven. After about 6 years, she got antsy staying at home and decided that she wanted to work. My dummy friend paid for her acting school (of all things that will ruin a relationship ) Any way, one day he went on a business trip and when he came back, she was gone and so was everything in his house, including his car. She left a note saying not to try to find her and that her lawyer will get in touch with him. He never knew what hit him. She was with him for 6 years and really thought that she loved him. Must have been a hell of an actress and a patient one at that. Moral of the story: When there is a significant age gap, there is no real love on the part of the much younger person. Both Thai and Philippina women are known for marrying much older men but for the most part, the Thai women almost always do it with a plan to take advantage of the guy and leave him, whereas Philippina women, for the most part, are just happy to have someone that treats them good. For them , it's a trade off but they remain loyal. If you want to have a lot of good aerobics with different partners, Thailand is the place. If you are looking for a woman to settle with who doesn't mind the age gap, marry a Philippina.
Not doubting it but why do you think there is such a difference between Philippine and thai woman? The language barrier could be a small part of it I suppose
lol no. I and one of my friends married filipinas. Mine abandoned me 2 months after she got her green card. My friends filipina wife left after he paid for her college education Marry them fine, NEVER bring them to the US, live there in PH only.
@@puppetmasterblaster Yeah. I have heard a Filipino wife can make you very happy for the rest of your life, but you better plan to live in the Philippines. If you bring them to the US they quickly adapt to the culture here, and pick up many of the feminist views that are not promoted at their home.
The point starting at "Women on the Payroll" is the pivoting point in your relationship with a Thai woman. If she starts to get moody or sulking and says money will fix whatever the problem is, then that is the moment you tell her to pack her bags and leave. It isn't negotiable. If you equivocate, she wins and you will never be happy again without paying for her affection. Out she must go. If she bucks up her ideas and drop the money demands then you have proved yourself to be the man in the relationship and you can proceed (with care). Do not back down. Thai women do not respect weak men.
That's how I tamed my one. As soon as she started those money for family requests, I showed her to the door. When she realized it didn't care to lose her at all, she immediately stopped and complied, being a good wifie-gf as it gets. Apparently, she calculated that it was still better to stick to me than going back to her former life. So what is the secret? Simple one: do not fall into emotional dependency on any single one of those women. These one thing makes you winner at all times and circumstances.
No woman, of any Nationality, will ever respect a weak man! So Man up, pull on your Man pants, and renew your Man card! Or you will be every 304's doormat for as long as you live!
Common senses evaporates in the heat of the thai sunshine and the company of a beautiful thai girl. Easy to see the situation on the outside looking in, but love ( real or orchestrated ) is blind. Sadly ….. so many dreams turn to nightmares.
After my latest tryst with udon thani lesbian farm girls,trust this: Make them at least pay for your hotel room. You are just a rusty knife in her mind.
@daenackdranils5624 Bawahaha! It is funny when someone gets triggered when anyone gives their own personal opinion. I would not BS you, because are my favorite turd. Bawahaha!
Love to hear these stories I’ve been going to Thailand since 2008 and i can definitely say staying single is the key to happiness Rent accommodation Rent female company No commitments Be free don’t be her ATM 😅😂 pay a divorcé settlement every morning 😅
@@Mishmash63I'm the same as yourself but don't call these guys losers. Sure they lose sight of reality but I bet most of these guys have succeeded in other ways in life and likely nice human beings
Your "story" is about a Thai woman and a guy in Thailand. But it could also be the same story in any western culture country, like the US, the UK, Canada, Australia, NZ, Europe, or maybe any country in the world. It's a very old story that has been happening more and more frequently. Men of the world, heed Dan's advice and story.
Xavier, I agree. But in western worlds you never see a 30 year old bomb shell dragging a 60+ grandpa around shopping....that is ....unless he is uber rich. That is where the huge difference lies.
We gave my ex wifes parents a hundred thousand baht on our wedding day and her mother gave it back to us the day after! Her parents were two of the most pure people i ever met ...may God take care of both of them in heaven because im sure they are there
that´s old school working people with old school pride my parents were like that never took nothing from nobody and never ever appologuised for nothing n o t h i n g and there were reasons for them to say sorry for being so stuborn and own-wise and being wrong time to time but no no they didn´t give a fokk and never did and i know there´s something to be said for that but i mean that´s hardcore mentality for ya ....... yeh hehehh i´m totally different on that and work ethics from getgp pffft just to get respect and a white foot from the family noh thank you and live in that whole spectrum fokk that ....... but they they kept it like that till the end hehehehh
I watch your videos every time you post just to keep the reality of Thai women games fresh in my mind. After 3 decades coming to Thailand I still get tempted so I understand that men fall into these traps. You are providing a great service to men. We need to face reality even when it seems as if its different this this time.Thank you for your content.
One thing is don't meet them in bars unless it's a jumpoff....Seems like guys want to meet them in bars or on the side of the road near Pattaya beach.... 11:52
The number one rule of “dating”, (just about anywhere in the world) is… Always maintain willingness to walk away from her… Unless/until she proves that she won’t create the need to.
@@evelyna_paula1747 Well, they are helping starving young women and their families in a poor country instead! Even if they did not understand that is what they are signing up for.
Once an old native Indian told me: “Women, no matter where they are from, they all speak the same language” My lesson was to learn to gradually give a millimeter of fingernail before you even consider giving a finger. If you give a full hand from the beginning, you will loose a whole arm really quickly.
Not with God. You give Him everything and you will be a peculiar treasure to Him. He is God and never needed anything you had to give in the first place.
I casually dated a Thai woman with 2 kids that mentioned a dowery to me... I laughed right in her face. I have a friend who was quite smitten with a ladyboy ( I dont judge ) She said the same thing to him... LOL! I agree with you... There are woman in Thailand that were raised better than that and under no circumstances will ever be working girls. I have met a few and dated one before covid. I am finally moving to Pattaya in September and plan on being 100% single and staying out of the bars ( not much of a drinker ) I have lady friends there that will come hang out by the pool when they have a day off and not expect anything besides fun and maybe lunch... Paying for a GF is the most insane thing I have ever heard!
Paying for girl is insane? Depends what you mean by paying. Of course, not for stupid demands like dowry or fees for their sick buffaloes, but if she lives with you, you will pay something in any case. Heck, you gonna need to spend even if you keep a dog or cat at home, to feed and take care of them, let alone human who fks you and cooks for you. So it's all about healthy balance.
Spot on Dan. You summed it up perfectly. But if people still don't get it....well, let them get on with it. This is probably your best video ever. This is exactly what it's like......if you fall for a Hooker. Let it be known.....Not all Thai Ladies are like that at all.
But, there are wonderful women who will ultimately be used by the family to do what is discussed. She'll hate doing it but ask her: "If there's an issue do you do what the husband tells you to do, or will you always do what the family (often papa, but not always) do. And the answer may be: "I must do what the family says." If so, run. Never, never under-estimate the family.
Your most powerful video yet, by far. It all rings 1,000% true. Great job. My experience is that you can have a successful relationship with a Thai woman, as long as she's never been near the bar scene. But speed is your enemy. Take it slow. If she has ulterior motives, they will begin to shine through.
Dan your 100% spot on. This is reality with a thai village marriage and paying a dowry and when you are no longer an ATM that very second it finished with her and her family. Guys listen to Dan Its true.
Easy solutions: Mostly stick to one day rule, and cut them loose. If you want to take a one week vacation with company...fine, one week rule and cut them loose. If you want to keep your dream alive....remember this. Its cheaper to rent than it is to own.
These women operate from the same text book. Of course, not all of them are like that. But based on the stories, it sounds like if you know one girl you know all of them in terms of behaviour. Remove the wallet, and the so-called "relationship" is on life support.
Only problem is, local women will do the same thing. I had a millionaire uncle, until his non-working US born wife wanted a divorce, took 85% of his wealth, now he's struggling...
85% of his assets hmmm, I find that hard to believe. Perhaps 50%. It can really be not more than that in Australia , maybe higher if dependant children are involved. And then it is only 50% of the assets aquired during the marriage, not before, those assets aquired are shared. If a man has $1 miilion at marriage and 1 million at devorce like a house he owns for a long time she will get very little or none. She will get 50% of the incresed value of his house. Any increased value of the mans house is treated a common property and must be shared. That how it usually works. But of course in Thailand nearly always when you buy or build a house the land has to be in your Thai wifes name and then you lease it from her through a complicated system of leaseing. She usually gets the final properety ownership if you devorce. Farangs cannot own land in Thailand like they can and receive title in their names in most Western countries. Big, big trap for old farangs.
This proves again that being rich doesn't mean being smart. One famous Japanese entrepreneur once said: "any fool can make money. Intelligence is in not spending and losing them".
USA...$900,000 home, American Man and Woman, married w/ kids. The moment he paid off the house it all went bad. Divorce she filed and won. Sold the house for a cool Million and he still is on the hook for child support, payments to her, and other expenses. It Matters not that this was an American-African couple. What does matter is the mindset of motivation modern women embrace. If you see a Cosmopolitan Magazine or similar content in your home, protect your assets first and then plan your exit strategy.
Not true in Australia re assets owned before marriage being safe - as per the Family Law Act, divorce financial settlements must take into account the financial contributions of each party to the marriage, which includes assets brought into the marriage by each party. All good so far. However, there are 2 aspects to the law - there's the written legislation and there is what's called case law - which is the Court's interpretation of how the written law applies. In relation to pre-marital assets, the Family Court looked at this issue in a particular case in the 70's and issued a ruling that after a reasonable time , assets brought into the marriage become IRRELEVANT - and that a reasonable time is 10 years. Hence ever since then it's been a general rule based on that case law that after 10 years of cohabitation she gets at least 50% of everything (including e.g. 50% of the house you owned before the marriage). Less than 10 years and she still gets a proportion - I tell people that a good rule of thumb is expect to lose entitlement to 5% of your assets each year during the first 10 years of cohabitation. Don't be mislead into believing that assets you owned before marriage are yours - they are not!!@@davidwalden2887
When you are dealing with women, especially foreign women, you have to remember that you are the prize. If she isn't treating you well or making you happy you don't try to placate her, you replace her. Especially if you are in Thailand or the Philippines it should be very easy to do if you are a foreign man, especially one with money.
Spot on Danny! Alway's take what u say with all due respect. Yea I fell in that trap. Was with her 12 yrs. Even have a 10 yr old son together but as soon as I lost my job she told me I have no plan for her and our son and dropped me like a hot potatoe. She blocked me then won't me even talk to our son. Well I never seen that coming. Anyway stay cool, kind and generous!
Good piece and hugely accurate. We have a lot of Thai and American friends, have been hanging out for over 20 years between ASEAN and USA, and followed the saga of many American and European guys in Thailand. Dan, your story line is hugely accurate and it is sad to say a cliche, most of these things happen exactly as you describe, even to our good friend who married and brought his wife to the USA and now have grown up kids - and sleep in separate bedrooms. After this length of time, we see right through the innocent young ladies, but honestly with great respect, this is the only resource that a lot of Thai families have in life and they have learned to make it very profitable for the entire family. If they came to you up front for $100,000 and an honest promise of a great life, you would walk away.
I used to hear Thai women say "No money, no honey." It's a hard lesson I took on board young & have found women the world over are hard wired like this the same way we men want to be a "white knight". Always remember that pretty much all human relationships are transactional.
It’s not them that’s hard to figure out. These girls are hookers so …… scams so simple and obvious you can see them a mile away. It’s the guys who continue to fall for them despite info being everywhere to warn them. Can’t fix that kind of stupid.
I totally believe that your story and many like it are accurate, but, for the sake of a balanced perspective I wish to point out that I have been happily married to my Thai wife for 7 years now, living back and forth between Thailand and Canada, and have 3 other friends (not Thai), married to Thai wives for many years, all doing well and very happily settled in to Thailand. For those watching this video, I assure you there are many successful Falang/Thai marriages, if you choose carefully, and, as in all countries, have a combination of good judgement, common sense, patience, and the requisite dash of good fortune - and assuming you bring some desirable contributions to the relationship yourself.
Thailand is one of a few East and Southeast Asian countries where girls can demand a monthly salary to be your girlfriend. It's just a cultural thing - fine if one is prepared to do that. However, as soon as the relationship ends, she's going to want either a financial settlement (like redundancy pay) or for someone else to take over her financial arrangements. I lived in China for many years where the culture is very similar and where many girls can demand an apartment, all bills paid, and a monthly allowance, but you always have to remember that she does not consider the arrangement permanent. As mentioned in the video, countries like Thailand are OK for sex tourism, so stick to that.
I’m not too sure if it’s a cultural thing this salary or all made up due to their laziness? If you’re going to pay a woman money may as well just have regular hookers.
You guys sound so much nicer than I. I'd kick her out and find a new one when she stops smiling the first time. That's my vetting process. I want someone who is fair minded, but failing that, I want someone I can control should the worst happen. Asian families are very supportive and closed. I can see why that would be a huge problem - they don't care about you and they never will because you are from outside their world. It can happen though that there are nice women out there.
I’m an African-American guy, and I live in Thailand. And this is real talk. And this is also why I stay to myself and avoid Thai women like a plague!!! Fuck That!!! Damn, good video, brother. And what you just shared is 💯% true. Real talk.
Word for word “EXACTLY” what has happened to a friend of mine in the last 3 years…..except she “Accidentally Deliberately” got pregnant and now she has even more power! Threatening to take their daughter back to Thailand all the time…to the 2 new houses and new Ranger she’s got out of him. I’ll send this story in soon, unfortunately the story keeps writing itself. But half of the story you’ve just done a video on! Crazy true stories!!!!
my ex treated to take my 5 yr old daughter to her country, Venezuela, saying that I'll never see her again..when the judge got wind of that, she told both of us that my daughter is not allowed to go beyond Pennsylvania, Delaware or New Jersey until she turns 18
Good morning sir- I was getting ready for work this morning and decided to drink some coffee and watch your video. You absolutely made my morning!! The way you broke down the ruse that these lovesick puppies experience is informative. Being a working class person from New York , I more than likely would never witness this interesting technique being done in Thailand (thank God) Your delivery is awesome and there were parts in your video that were outright hilarious ! GOOD SHOW AND keep up the good work!
I am impressed with your presentation. I decided to do all that you mentioned in your presentation of this clip. And lost $165,000. I did everything even got married. But luckily I was still in the states. So I am still ok. But I have been taking your advice and a few other expats from the western / developed world 🌎 . I may never get that money back. But it is a lesson , an expensive lesson. Thank you my friend.
Common sense men, for any nationality: if you go to a poor country and find a girl 10-20 years younger, start by doubting. I'm not saying young women can't date older men, for sure these work if the men is looking and acting similar to her age range. But if you are a regular 50' something guy and you think that 25 year old is into you, think twice.
Your a classic Dan, I’m laughing so much at you only because it’s all true , just the way you express yourself you made me laugh. Your 100% right in what you said about sin sod , I love you MUK , Blah,Blah,Blah……. Hahahah Yes your spot on son, once they suck every last cent from you then the wife will find excuses to fight with you & leave you to find another farrang…. These women think we are millionaires, maybe in her country we look rich but in our own country we are average… Surely men can’t be that stupid ! ONE RULE ! Only give as much as your willing to lose ….. *** Thai law doesn’t support the farrang , contracts need to be written up or just say bye, bye …..
I met a Thai girl through my Thai friend in the US. I stayed with her for three weeks on a beautiful Koh Chang island. She was nice and shy, not sure if it was part of acting. Sex was like a rape, she was glad it was over to take her phone and get on TikTok. All day long she was reviewing dumb TikTok videos with pajamas on. I didn’t notice anything about her being a good cook or clean the place we stayed at, she had nails longer than my fingers. Beauty wasn’t enough for me, I always look at other qualities. When I told her she isn’t the woman I am looking for, she started to cry, apologize and told me she is going to wait for me anyway. It scares me to death brining a woman from overseas and having divorce later. Fiancé visa is only 90 days, which gives you no time to vet her. Big risk.
No, never bring such girls to the west, especially the US. At most, just do the fake village wedding IF she accepts to forgo the dowry. If not, there's the door.
I do know that these horror stories happen, a lot, but not all Thai ladies are like this. Granted I never dated a bar girl or from a website. I am in a long term relationship (11 years) and when marriage was discussed and Sin Sod was mentioned, as a true Yorkshireman I just laughed out loud and stated that would never happen, so if needed she should leave me and go find someone else. She didn't and marriage was never mentioned again. I have helped her along the way but way less than any English woman would expect me to. She works hard to make her own money and takes care of me way better than any Western woman would ever do. So yes, there are a lot of bad Thai ladies, as there are Western but many are also genuine. I guess the rule of thumb is do not be led by your little trouser friend, if you come across a bad one and you get a red flag, move on and wait it out for a good one. Good luck all! BTW, I love living in Thailand and would never go back to the UK.
First I am amazed at the foreigners that come to Thailand and fall in love with a Thai girl. The one thing that really stands out for me is the guys will do things for Thai women that the would not even do for their own mothers. And they seem to be really proud of themselves for doing it. Ask yourself would you dating a girl in your own country would you be giving her cash money? How about knowing that she is still sleeping with other men while you are not there. In fact sleeping with many men? How about buying her a home knowing that you have no legal control over that home that you bought even if you have proof that you paid for it. And then when you have the home built the women you love so much moves her family in the house and still never can stop asking for more money. I have lived and worked in Thailand for over 55 years first coming here in 1968 and I have seen it all. And the one thing that I have noticed is that only at best maybe 2% died of old age and happy with his Thai wife. I know of Thai wives that had their husbands killed for ownership of businesses and even their live insurance these I have read about in Thai newspaper since the girls were caught who knows how many got away with it with out getting caught. This is not only in Thailand it is common all over Asia, many of the men I have worked for have left Asia stone broke while the love his wife waved goodbye fat and happy. A classic story was a man named Tiger Rydberg who owned the world famous Lucey's Tiger Den" I day famous since back in the 70's and 80's when I would walk into his bar there were New teams from America and Australia with cameras filming his bar and interviewing Tiger. When I was traveling between jobs and passing through Europe or American airports I often saw people with Lucey's Tiger Den T-shirts on walking through the airports. After his Thai wife was finished with him we people that knew Tiger had to take up a collection to get money fly him to the Philippines and money to live on for cheaper medial care and cost of living, Tiger died shortly after arriving in the Philippines. To be honest I never bothered with a Thai girlfriend. During the times I was working in Thailand I rented a house and hired a maid to run the house, cook, wash and iron. The never asked for money except for the money I agreed to pay for their services, I never tried to get them in bed either. When I wanted a woman I would go out and get the best looking woman I could find, take her to dinner, some times dancing and then take her to a hotel for the night and always paid up in front. the next morning I took her to the hotel restaurant and have breakfast with her while eating I would ask the waiter to get a cab for the lady, I gave the lady taxi fare and wished her good luck. Never going back for a second time but I am sure that sometimes I had been with the girl before but actually did not remember her. I did this for 30 year until I met my Thai wife who had just graduated from medical school. I never cheated on my wife and she for sure has never cheated on me. She had never had a boyfriend before and never ever been in a bar before. We have been married 25 years and have a 16 year old son. My wife is a department director of our local hospital and I am retired and fully enjoying my life at 77.
If you stick to the rule "one time only", gives you immunity against the vampires )) No matter how good, fantastic this one time was, it's likely to be downhill from there.
It seems like you get it brother!! I don’t understand why most guys do not. I always say “NEVER BREAK THE 2 RULE” You say 1 rule, and that’s probably even smarter.
You can put all under your name (motorbike, car, condo, and house) except the land if you decide to build. However, you can also get as an example lifetime land usufruct to protect your investment and rights, which means it's practically impossible that if you separate, the family take your property. Instead, make strong papers to let them know that selling is the only option. Be wise and not too kind, know your rights 👌 Also, don't trap yourself in paying any monthly salaries. Instead, help your girlfriend to start her own business. Hopefully, it's online-related so you can also enjoy travelling. Unless you want 9-5 gf? Lastly, give yourself better odds and forget the bar girls. There are many smart and goal-oriented Thai girls wanting to meet their foreign partners. Don't rush! Jay
@@athitaya6898 you should always do papers to protect your investment, but many foreigners don't do that, and in case of separation they lose their money. So it doesn't matter if your gf is from Isaan or not
Great video. Used to date a girl from a poorer background in Philippines. Physically beautiful, sexy, etc. One way of another, I got to the place where I realised that there wasn't much there, so killed the relationship (have never lived there and only visited). Now, dating a professional lady from Manila, where the large family own their own home and she runs a business... Have heard that THEY are now asking about MY financial situation (I am on a salary of £50k+ a year, own my own home outright etc) and whether I am the gold-digger... lol... Beware if you date at a bar girl...
As a wise Thai lady once told me: She will be sweet in the start and all of a sudden her families buffalo dies and she needs your money to pay for it 555
This is absolutely brilliant. The best video I've seen in a long while. It just summarizes everything. A must view. Everything that glitters is not gold. And what a slow boil.
A wealthy British farmer was battered to death and then barbecued over charcoal by relatives of his former Thai wife. The body parts of Toby Charnaud, age 41, from Chippenham in Wiltshire, were then scattered in a Thai national park, one of the last areas in the country where tigers roam, a court has heard. He was killed on a trip to pick up the couple's five-year-old son, Daniel, whom he had gained custody of after the couple divorced, Petchaburi court in northern Thailand was told yesterday. The Marlborough-educated former land agent and farmer met and married Pannada Laoruang, known in the family as Som, in 1997 and they initially returned to Wiltshire. He gave up his farming business and the couple bought a bar in Hua Hin resort in Thailand. But when Ms Laoruang, now aged 38, ran up heavy gambling debts in 2004, the couple divorced. Ms Laoruang and five of her male relatives and friends stand trial for murder. Mr Charnaud's mother, Sarah, said she understood her son had gone to a property he rented for his former wife on 27 March last year, after receiving a call to pick up Daniel. But a group of men were there, some related to Ms Laoruang. They first tried to shoot him but the gun had backfired, Mrs Charnaud said. Her son was later battered to death and his body disposed of on the edge of a national park near the Burmese border, she added. Mrs Charnaud said she understood that three men had admitted murder while her son's ex-wife had admitted involvement in helping to dispose of the evidence. Ms Laoruang was "seriously in debt", Mrs Charnaud said. "He had to pay off a lot of her debts. We had money in this country for Daniel's education and that had to be transferred to pay off her debts." She said Ms Laoruang's "motive was clearly to use Daniel as a meal ticket". Describing her former daughter-in-law, Mrs Charnaud said: "We welcomed her to the family, as one does. It was fine, she appeared to fit in. She was involved in all family activities. But I became aware their marriage was getting into difficulty due to Pannada living her own life. She was using money from the bar without his knowledge." Mrs Charnaud, 70, and her husband Jeremy, 69, received a phonecall from Ms Laoruang on 29 March last year, two days after Mr Charnaud's death. The couple hired a private investigator. "After we were told he was missing, we were determined to pull out all the stops to find out what had happened. What else could we do?" Mrs Charnaud said. Yesterday, Hannah Allan, Mr Charnaud's sister, said: "This was a disgusting, pre-meditated murder which has ruined our family's lives forever. That includes the life of Toby's six-year-old son, who has been torn apart by what's happened to his daddy." Daniel is being cared for in Britain. Shortly before Mr Charnaud's death, he won a writing competition for a short story published in a Bangkok magazine. The story, named "Rainfall", is about a British tourist named Guy who falls in love with an unfaithful Thai woman who builds up gambling debts. The book ends with Guy being murdered by one of her lovers. Ms Allen, described the story as "eerie".
There's a documentary on you tube called Money, Love, and Murder: The Tragic Story of Stephen and Evelyn..it's about a British man who married a Filipino bar girls and was murdered by her Filipino lover because she asked him to so they could have her husbands money.
The food is amazing but when you live here it gets repetitive. I limit myself to 4 Thai meals a week these days so that I really enjoy it like I just arrived yesterday
@@L-Nino The risk is too high - once Married especially in the west the first thing out the window is sex - then she says she is not happy out of no where - I Married twice never again how ever much I might love Thai ladies
The 3 day rule isn't full proof either. Some guys can fall for a girl in that time too. Also what's the point in only 3 days when she fukks like a pornstar? I retired to Thailand just over 2 years ago. I currently see 3 girls that I've bonked 107, 32 and 30 times. I haven't fallen in love with any of them and all 3 give me top level sexual gratification. In my opinion it's not 3 days maximum it's 3 girls minimum and 1 week maximum between reruns. Sure I have a favourite of these 3 and if any of them was to move on I'll be sad for a day or two in which I'll get over it with one of the other 2 anyway.
LOL Married 13 years. Met through a friend who knew her mom. Mom is staying with us and cooks very well. She helped me remodel my first house and has been close to my side. My net worth has improved 8X, and hers 50X. But she was a bit chubby and sheltered. Sometimes the simple girl is better.
I wanted happy life with my Honduras wife but my embassy messed my life up and my Honduras wife life up breaking up my legal marriage so if me an malee hit it off that what I want happy life not messed up life
I recall reading that a Thai woman will beg for a man to buy her jewelry. If he says 'I just bought you some!" she'll answer "That was yesterday; this is today!" The same article said she'll bring her friends into the house and play mahjong, and even if she doesn't smoke, some of her friends will so they stink up the house for hours.
When you go to Disney world you enjoy your vacation. You don't marry Minnie mouse and bring her home and you definitely don't move into Disney world. 🤪🙄😳
I'm curious Dan, how do you see your future? A single father for the rest of your life in Thailand? I'd appreciate a video on your thoughts, with the benefit of hindsight.
I know exactly how that story goes, but i never heard it explained as well as that Dan👍. Only problem is you're doing such a good job helping people that I'm afraid we'll eventually run out of car crash stories about Thailand 🤷♂️😄🇮🇪
Thanks 👍 I didn't even rehearse it 😅 just had the idea and just created it and no matter how many people become aware they will still jump into the fire 🔥 but hopefully this channel will help wake them up when they are releasing something just isn't right 😬
I don't think it's a good idea to go into any relationship thirsty. You won't think clearly or rationally. Feelings are a horrible basis for decisions, especially with money! Stay safe, bros!
I used to interview patients and nurses from the Philippines and they followed a similar progression. I saw comments of Thai women being worse, but I can't tell the difference. Same advice regardless of where you live. As a man, secure your career or business, establish your house, vehicles and other assets all in your name only. Whether you get a wife or a live in: never put anything in both names, never pay a bill for her, don't let her use your credit card or debit card. Look into it, no document should have your name and her signature, or vice versa. I knew an acquaintance that shared these gems with me. But it was too late for me. When his wife left him, he offered to help her put her clothes in the trunk of an old Mercedes of his and give her the title. She got a lawyer, but nothing else. It works.
Nicely explained. I haven't myself but know many that pretty well lived that story you just shared. You can get good ones but you need to be diligent - and man up & learn how to say NO early in the piece. Run your own tests to determine if they are, as they often say, "Real or Copy" Cheers
Fantastic Dan ...today 2 great vlogs and within the 2 vlogs so much information and advice amazing.... Please Please listen and watch these over and over again as honestly this is the truth this is what happens and believe me your worst nightmare is nothing compared to what can happen to you when you fall for the tricks. Please please listen to Dan as this channel really does show the true side and please do not fall for the sweet girl trick ...the gremlin ...is so very true
This video is the winner ! You win definitely Man ! Thanks for the very wise and realistic scenario! Everybody here in Asia should watch your video as a golden lesson in life before even Coming to those countries !! ❤❤❤
This is one of your best videos, I think, because it gives such an *excellent* overview of the overall path of the long-term game. You did a SUPERB job of describing it! 🙂 Thank you! It was especially wise of you to say that the guys are trying to keep their dreams alive - that's a _deep_ understanding of male psychology. You make me feel like I should visit Pattaya as a newbie (but armed with all your video knowledge!) just to see how many of your lessons I can remember and how well I end up doing! One of the comments said, "If you're destroyed and feeling weak, Pattaya is NOT a place you should go when you're weak," (if you know what he means... :-)) Thank you for your work!
I’m thinking about setting up a Sin Sot negotiation businesses, 10, 000 baht per visit, it will save you mugs a fortune, be aware your isaan princess and her family may not like the questions asked.
I have my experience with girls there since 20 years. Two times married and divorced. And i need to tell you, all stories and what you say is true really. It is like this. I had a normal from Chiang Mai, i paid 18 years for my son coz she lives here in germany with me. I had a super rich, daugther of Mr. Tiewtranon who has own clinic and hospital. Also had a medium rich from Tran with many rubber plantations in the family. I could tell you stories a lot. But no time to write all. Just want to say, what you report and public here i can give you a 100% like and confirm that it is true. Drama queen i also had that wanted to kill herself if i leave her. She still alive. hahhahhaha. You explain all very real and in the right way and like it is really. It depends on the woman you meet. And eveybody needs to decide for himself how far wants to go. My ex wanted land and house in Trang, i had the money, she did not know, but i denied. I lived before in Southamerica. Venezuela three years, argentina and peru. I had lot of experiences. Dont trust any girl................. only after some tests and time. At the end in countries like thailand you are lost, coz you cannot own the land that easy. And the house at the land will be lost also. Same if buy a car at her name or anything. Just want to say, i like your videos, coz they so real and they are also made to the point. Not speak only bad or only good. You explain and someone like me, knows.................. is real. Thank you for your content. I aprechiate it a lot. Uwe
I really appreciate your feedback thank you, it's nice to hear from people that have been here a long time and truly understand how things operate here 🤝
Thanks, Dan for keeping it real, In the land of money and honey, there are always bees. It's like Vegas, every player that sits at a game in Vegas ultimately thinks they can win, no matter how many losers they see getting up from the table. You can play but you caint stay. Let's not put it all on the Thai girls. We have to check our own motivations and egos, money can't buy love. I think that was in a song.
hit the nail on the head mate hope everyone takes note how real this shit gets over in thailand ,bleed you dry and leave you high and dry and goodbye on to the next guy and repeat 👍👍
Awesome video Dan, I've been hearing very similar stories since 1999 when I was only 19 yrs old and started to visit those GO GO bars. I still keep that in mind whenever I go to Thailand or The Philippines as precious advise from the experts. Don't get hooked with the girls for more than few days. If you're a newbie no more than ONE night !!! If you don't follow this GOLDEN RULE , You'll surely repent later... Happy mongering, Cheers from Australia mate !!!!!🙂
Also this video sounds like you are talking about my crazy roller coaster ride with my thai family and so much more. I would tell any man that comes to Thailand have a great time then RUN like hell!
Excellent post! Not just Thai ladies. Filipinas will bring game also. I married one that was not a bar girl. Her vice was the over religious thing. Soon as she got to the states she hooked up with a Filipino religious group and it's been hell ever since. It's a borderline cult imo. Finally after 25yrs, I reached my limit and decided to rid myself of her and her BS. My advice...Don't get caught up in how cute they are.
@rhh176 No. She was doing the religious think prior to getting married. It later became her excuse to be with her friends. As far as I'm concerned, she may very well have been cheating. It all adds up to disrespectful bs. I've never heard of a religion or church that encourages someone to not prioritize their family. Exception to that is a cult. 😆 She has a well paying job so she's never ripped me off...lol She substitutes that with trying to not pay her share of the bills.
Pessimistic but true on occasion. A longer version however, one that can be far more expensive in the long term, is when a Thai lady has a child from a former relationship ( horrible Thai man ) then without previously taking money in large sums from a foreign boyfriend has a child with him, from that moment on that foreign man is hooked even if their relationship breaks down because his love for his own child ensures his inability to move on at the risk of losing all contact with his own child. Then drip drip maintenance payments can last a lifetime. Sometimes with the lady living secretly with the father of her first child ( the horrible Thai man who might have been in on it all along )
Some great advice on this channel - and at the risk of stating a massive cliche - one that many of you may have heard before - I'll just say it again for those of you who haven't; "you can take the girl out of the bar - but you can't take the bar out of the girl".
Dan your a prophet when it come to Thai girls and relationship. But love blind us all…. Even yourself in dealing with your baby moma.. Guess it’s love and human nature … keep up the good work… You was born for this…and fatherhood for your son William
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Sounds like the Philippines love story with an old fart expat!
Wow they learned off western women fast
dowry.. taking simping to the next levle.. well if the culture is like that... i possiblkt have no problem with that.... the point is...
in Estonia, centuries ago dowry was paid by the family of the daughter to the man... since the man will have to take care of the woman the rest of her life, wich is expense....
so you were basicly paid to marry their daughters, so they wouldnbt be leftover women rofl....
.. personally i wouldnt ever pay someone to get to marry their daughter... like wtf... they can fck off...
if u think 10k is bad.... try china.. where dowry is easily 100-150k$ ...
and dont forget.. u will be feeding entire family tree, not just that wife of urs.... sry... but the grass isnt greener on the other side rofl.....
thai and european culture differences are so vast, that my friend couldnt handle the relationship for longer than 6months....
A older man picked up a bar girl next morning she was gone and she left a note welcome to give club he got back home few mths later become positive health went down hill died at 58 take not where you go
so everyone here is agree that thailmand is one of the worst countries for dating
Hi Dan,
I know an old Thai lady who lives here in the UK, she was married to an English man who died about 3 years ago and left her a lump sum and pension. I asked my Thai wife why she didn't want to return to Thailand and was told that her family would suck the last penny off her if she did. So it also happens to Thais too.
Exactly the same in the Philippines. Once gone abroad they can never go back to their home town or they will be taken for everything by their family
@@trevorharvey105…
Only if they say “yes” to every request.
If she has learned the value of ensuring your own interests, before “helping” family…. Different story.
If the woman understands the concept of “saving for the future”, or “saving up to achieve a goal”…. And can identify the absurdity of some of those requests…. You may have found a rare one.
Of course.
@@trevorharvey105what does it mean "taken for everything"? They will demand lavish gifts?
@@markrcca5329 more than that in some cases they manipulate you to buy a house which cannot be in your name. You think they love you but they just need money. It is difficult to understand as we have never been that poor. The filipinas family sometimes have meetings to work out how to suck you dry. Maybe she does not want a part of it but family loyalty runs deep. She will choose her family over you or she will be cut off from them all. Many filipinas who marry foreigners have to estrange from their family it is so sad.
The moment her attitude changes, just tell her "pack your things and get the F out!" I lived with a thai girl in pattaya for 3 months and twice i had to tell her that,,and both times she begged me to let her stay and her attitude changes. You can't be afraid to throw her out if she acts up.
You are wright..and I do same if they done behave...to many expats are to kind..to weak and to naive..they will be paying...
Exactly…
You should consider this as a universal truth…. Anywhere in the world.
So eventually you threw her out? You said you lived with her for 3 months... that's such a short time. I'm with my wife now 11 years. She never had that attitude. But before I met my wife (many years before) I had several Thai "girlfriends" who started asking money just one week after I met them... they didn't last. My wife only asked money if she needed shopping and is very carefully with money...
@@SjaakSchulteis
Was your wife a bar girl ??
It seems most trouble comes from those girls especially younger one's.
They haven't learnt there is a time and a place for every thing.
@@robertgrey6101 No, she was a grown up woman who (like many of that age) divorced from her Thai husband before. She happen to work in Home Pro.
I think Philippinas are much better. Most of them just want a better life with you and they will appreciate it.
I've been to Thailand and the Philippines and know the score.
I'll tell you a story about a friend of mine who met a Thai girl in the States. She and her mom were staying at her aunties, who owned a Thai restaurant.
She was here on a student visa. She was 21 and gorgeous. My friend was 50, but fit. Still, big age gap.
They started dating and she moved in with him because she didn't want to be around her mother any more ( and of course, her goal was to get a visa status change and get a green card by marrying my friend, who was clueless about it).
After living with him for 6 months, they got married. My friend worked a fireman's shift ( 2 and 1/2 days away from home ) so he had plenty of time to spend with her.
This was about 10 years ago, and he was making decent money ( about $80,000 a year ) and he had plenty of accumulated vacation time, so he took her all over the place: cruises, other countries, other cities in US etc.
He paid for everything, including her clothes and cosmetics. She was a great cook , besides being beautiful, and he thought that he was in heaven.
After about 6 years, she got antsy staying at home and decided that she wanted to work. My dummy friend paid for her acting school (of all things that will ruin a relationship )
Any way, one day he went on a business trip and when he came back, she was gone and so was everything in his house, including his car.
She left a note saying not to try to find her and that her lawyer will get in touch with him.
He never knew what hit him. She was with him for 6 years and really thought that she loved him. Must have been a hell of an actress and a patient one at that.
Moral of the story: When there is a significant age gap, there is no real love on the part of the much younger person.
Both Thai and Philippina women are known for marrying much older men but for the most part, the Thai women almost always do it with a plan to take advantage of the guy and leave him, whereas Philippina women, for the most part, are just happy to have someone that treats them good. For them , it's a trade off but they remain loyal.
If you want to have a lot of good aerobics with different partners, Thailand is the place.
If you are looking for a woman to settle with who doesn't mind the age gap, marry a Philippina.
Great info! 💯👌🏻
Not doubting it but why do you think there is such a difference between Philippine and thai woman? The language barrier could be a small part of it I suppose
lol no. I and one of my friends married filipinas. Mine abandoned me 2 months after she got her green card. My friends filipina wife left after he paid for her college education Marry them fine, NEVER bring them to the US, live there in PH only.
@@puppetmasterblaster Yeah. I have heard a Filipino wife can make you very happy for the rest of your life, but you better plan to live in the Philippines. If you bring them to the US they quickly adapt to the culture here, and pick up many of the feminist views that are not promoted at their home.
@@puppetmasterblaster Been married to my Filipina wife for 42 years now...US women do the same thing.
The point starting at "Women on the Payroll" is the pivoting point in your relationship with a Thai woman. If she starts to get moody or sulking and says money will fix whatever the problem is, then that is the moment you tell her to pack her bags and leave. It isn't negotiable. If you equivocate, she wins and you will never be happy again without paying for her affection. Out she must go. If she bucks up her ideas and drop the money demands then you have proved yourself to be the man in the relationship and you can proceed (with care). Do not back down. Thai women do not respect weak men.
Easier said than done but also well said.
That's how I tamed my one. As soon as she started those money for family requests, I showed her to the door. When she realized it didn't care to lose her at all, she immediately stopped and complied, being a good wifie-gf as it gets. Apparently, she calculated that it was still better to stick to me than going back to her former life. So what is the secret? Simple one: do not fall into emotional dependency on any single one of those women. These one thing makes you winner at all times and circumstances.
like japanese they're money driven
@@gscranage4594 it is easy to do all you gotta be is not weak will be a man no woman respect a weak man
No woman, of any Nationality, will ever respect a weak man! So Man up, pull on your Man pants, and renew your Man card! Or you will be every 304's doormat for as long as you live!
Why any man would pay a sin sod (dowry) for a “working girl “ to put it politely is beyond me
@@bigal2417 Sod or pronounced 'Sot' in Thai means 'Fresh'--unused , untouched --virginal? Only an idiot Farang would buy into this BS!!
Really it has to be the other way around 😆
Common senses evaporates in the heat of the thai sunshine and the company of a beautiful thai girl. Easy to see the situation on the outside looking in, but love ( real or orchestrated ) is blind. Sadly ….. so many dreams turn to nightmares.
After my latest tryst with udon thani lesbian farm girls,trust this:
Make them at least pay for your hotel room. You are just a rusty knife in her mind.
You have seen some of these dudes hanging out over here right? Explains everything! Not exactly the cream of the crop roaming the bars here!
Spot on! Your videos should be played on every incoming flight to Thailand.
Hahaha yes with red warning lights 😂😂
LOL
This man may be talking only about Thailand, but in my 79 years of life, I find this fits almost every woman in this world to one degree or another.
79 yr old virgin?
@@vancouverlife1040 Making comments about things you know nothing about just shows your ignorance!
@daenackdranils5624 Learn to spell correctly before commenting on what someone knows!
@daenackdranils5624 Bawahaha! It is funny when someone gets triggered when anyone gives their own personal opinion. I would not BS you, because are my favorite turd. Bawahaha!
@daenackdranils5624 No respect needed! And who is that "we" you talked about? Do you have a mouse in your pocket? BAWAHAHA!
Love to hear these stories I’ve been going to Thailand since 2008 and i can definitely say staying single is the key to happiness
Rent accommodation
Rent female company
No commitments
Be free don’t be her ATM 😅😂 pay a divorcé settlement every morning 😅
Correct I do exactly the same sign 2010 I didn't fall not even in 10 baht , let the losers to it ,
Spot on, that really is the only way to go!
@joneil0022 exactly English people Acting like a shark they're Fake . be well and stay safe 🙏
Or settlement in the evening. I only long time 1 girl. The other 4 short time only
@@Mishmash63I'm the same as yourself but don't call these guys losers. Sure they lose sight of reality but I bet most of these guys have succeeded in other ways in life and likely nice human beings
Your "story" is about a Thai woman and a guy in Thailand. But it could also be the same story in any western culture country, like the US, the UK, Canada, Australia, NZ, Europe, or maybe any country in the world. It's a very old story that has been happening more and more frequently. Men of the world, heed Dan's advice and story.
Very good point, sir.
True indeed.
That’s right
Xavier, I agree. But in western worlds you never see a 30 year old bomb shell dragging a 60+ grandpa around shopping....that is ....unless he is uber rich. That is where the huge difference lies.
True...Getting Roll in Your own Country Too By Western Women AND Asian Women...Reason Must be a Women Pussy Thing Overrated...
Exactly winde up with a bar fly drug addict or gambler they're all over the world, maybe see what she has to offer to bring to the relationship.
We gave my ex wifes parents a hundred thousand baht on our wedding day and her mother gave it back to us the day after! Her parents were two of the most pure people i ever met ...may God take care of both of them in heaven because im sure they are there
Don’t even believe they did……
@@gscranage4594 yeah im lying...dickhead
@@gscranage4594typical response
that´s old school working people with old school pride my parents were like that
never took nothing from nobody and never ever appologuised
for nothing n o t h i n g and there were reasons for them to say sorry for being so stuborn and own-wise and being wrong time to time but no
no they didn´t give a fokk and never did and i know there´s something to be said for that but i mean that´s hardcore mentality for ya
....... yeh hehehh i´m totally different on that and work ethics from getgp pffft just to get respect and a white foot from the family noh thank you and live in that whole spectrum fokk that .......
but they they kept it like that till the end hehehehh
I watch your videos every time you post just to keep the reality of Thai women games fresh in my mind. After 3 decades coming to Thailand I still get tempted so I understand that men fall into these traps. You are providing a great service to men. We need to face reality even when it seems as if its different this this time.Thank you for your content.
One thing is don't meet them in bars unless it's a jumpoff....Seems like guys want to meet them in bars or on the side of the road near Pattaya beach.... 11:52
The number one rule of “dating”, (just about anywhere in the world) is…
Always maintain willingness to walk away from her…
Unless/until she proves that she won’t create the need to.
This is pretty much women's nature... this video is so well said it should be mandatory for every young man
When you give someone you love everything, sooner or later everything WON`T be enough!
True. And if you have that much love, why not help starving widows in much poorer countries. It is lust.
@@evelyna_paula1747 Well, they are helping starving young women and their families in a poor country instead! Even if they did not understand that is what they are signing up for.
women have too many options and the bloke down the road will not hesitate to sleep with your wife girlfriend
Once an old native Indian told me: “Women, no matter where they are from, they all speak the same language” My lesson was to learn to gradually give a millimeter of fingernail before you even consider giving a finger. If you give a full hand from the beginning, you will loose a whole arm really quickly.
Not with God. You give Him everything and you will be a peculiar treasure to Him. He is God and never needed anything you had to give in the first place.
I casually dated a Thai woman with 2 kids that mentioned a dowery to me... I laughed right in her face. I have a friend who was quite smitten with a ladyboy ( I dont judge ) She said the same thing to him... LOL!
I agree with you... There are woman in Thailand that were raised better than that and under no circumstances will ever be working girls. I have met a few and dated one before covid.
I am finally moving to Pattaya in September and plan on being 100% single and staying out of the bars ( not much of a drinker ) I have lady friends there that will come hang out by the pool when they have a day off and not expect anything besides fun and maybe lunch...
Paying for a GF is the most insane thing I have ever heard!
Paying for girl is insane? Depends what you mean by paying. Of course, not for stupid demands like dowry or fees for their sick buffaloes, but if she lives with you, you will pay something in any case. Heck, you gonna need to spend even if you keep a dog or cat at home, to feed and take care of them, let alone human who fks you and cooks for you. So it's all about healthy balance.
I don't judge... ladyboys look better than the real thing. 🤣
Spot on Dan. You summed it up perfectly. But if people still don't get it....well, let them get on with it. This is probably your best video ever. This is exactly what it's like......if you fall for a Hooker. Let it be known.....Not all Thai Ladies are like that at all.
But, there are wonderful women who will ultimately be used by the family to do what is discussed. She'll hate doing it but ask her: "If there's an issue do you do what the husband tells you to do, or will you always do what the family (often papa, but not always) do. And the answer may be: "I must do what the family says." If so, run. Never, never under-estimate the family.
Your most powerful video yet, by far. It all rings 1,000% true. Great job. My experience is that you can have a successful relationship with a Thai woman, as long as she's never been near the bar scene. But speed is your enemy. Take it slow. If she has ulterior motives, they will begin to shine through.
Dan your 100% spot on.
This is reality with a thai village marriage and paying a dowry and when you are no longer an ATM that very second it finished with her and her family. Guys listen to Dan
Its true.
Sin sod is in exchange for their daughters virginity.
Easy solutions:
Mostly stick to one day rule, and cut them loose.
If you want to take a one week vacation with company...fine, one week rule and cut them loose.
If you want to keep your dream alive....remember this. Its cheaper to rent than it is to own.
These women operate from the same text book. Of course, not all of them are like that. But based on the stories, it sounds like if you know one girl you know all of them in terms of behaviour. Remove the wallet, and the so-called "relationship" is on life support.
They are 90% the same !!!
You want to keep Thai women you need do like Thai men be a boss because Thai women love men in charge and do all the plans
@@wilsDav3 I agree 1000%
Excellent comment and so true. Well done.
@@wilsDav3 Kinda goes for all women in my experience. No wallet, no boss then she gets bored real fast.
Only problem is, local women will do the same thing. I had a millionaire uncle, until his non-working US born wife wanted a divorce, took 85% of his wealth, now he's struggling...
Say no to marriage
85% of his assets hmmm, I find that hard to believe. Perhaps 50%. It can really be not more than that in Australia , maybe higher if dependant children are involved. And then it is only 50% of the assets aquired during the marriage, not before, those assets aquired are shared. If a man has $1 miilion at marriage and 1 million at devorce like a house he owns for a long time she will get very little or none. She will get 50% of the incresed value of his house. Any increased value of the mans house is treated a common property and must be shared. That how it usually works. But of course in Thailand nearly always when you buy or build a house the land has to be in your Thai wifes name and then you lease it from her through a complicated system of leaseing. She usually gets the final properety ownership if you devorce. Farangs cannot own land in Thailand like they can and receive title in their names in most Western countries. Big, big trap for old farangs.
This proves again that being rich doesn't mean being smart. One famous Japanese entrepreneur once said: "any fool can make money. Intelligence is in not spending and losing them".
USA...$900,000 home, American Man and Woman, married w/ kids. The moment he paid off the house it all went bad. Divorce she filed and won. Sold the house for a cool Million and he still is on the hook for child support, payments to her, and other expenses. It Matters not that this was an American-African couple. What does matter is the mindset of motivation modern women embrace. If you see a Cosmopolitan Magazine or similar content in your home, protect your assets first and then plan your exit strategy.
Not true in Australia re assets owned before marriage being safe - as per the Family Law Act, divorce financial settlements must take into account the financial contributions of each party to the marriage, which includes assets brought into the marriage by each party. All good so far. However, there are 2 aspects to the law - there's the written legislation and there is what's called case law - which is the Court's interpretation of how the written law applies. In relation to pre-marital assets, the Family Court looked at this issue in a particular case in the 70's and issued a ruling that after a reasonable time , assets brought into the marriage become IRRELEVANT - and that a reasonable time is 10 years. Hence ever since then it's been a general rule based on that case law that after 10 years of cohabitation she gets at least 50% of everything (including e.g. 50% of the house you owned before the marriage). Less than 10 years and she still gets a proportion - I tell people that a good rule of thumb is expect to lose entitlement to 5% of your assets each year during the first 10 years of cohabitation. Don't be mislead into believing that assets you owned before marriage are yours - they are not!!@@davidwalden2887
Whatever you do…..don’t get her pregnant. Next level drama
Omg. That’s very bad. It’s the end .
If you do, next stop - Philippines 😆
What do you the END ? I once had bedroom activities with a bargirl (unprotected). I didn't get her pregnant , did i dodge a bullet?
@@RomanVarl😂😂😂
@@RomanVarlexactly. Just run.
When you are dealing with women, especially foreign women, you have to remember that you are the prize. If she isn't treating you well or making you happy you don't try to placate her, you replace her. Especially if you are in Thailand or the Philippines it should be very easy to do if you are a foreign man, especially one with money.
💯 Bruh 😂
Spot on Danny! Alway's take what u say with all due respect. Yea I fell in that trap. Was with her 12 yrs. Even have a 10 yr old son together but as soon as I lost my job she told me I have no plan for her and our son and dropped me like a hot potatoe. She blocked me then won't me even talk to our son. Well I never seen that coming. Anyway stay cool, kind and generous!
Unfortunate man and a sad fact of life
Really don't sound that much different then here in America. Pay now or pay even more later.
That’s harsh pal.
Hope you bounce back bro
"... enjoy Thailand ... For what it is ..." Great advice Dan!!
Good piece and hugely accurate. We have a lot of Thai and American friends, have been hanging out for over 20 years between ASEAN and USA, and followed the saga of many American and European guys in Thailand. Dan, your story line is hugely accurate and it is sad to say a cliche, most of these things happen exactly as you describe, even to our good friend who married and brought his wife to the USA and now have grown up kids - and sleep in separate bedrooms. After this length of time, we see right through the innocent young ladies, but honestly with great respect, this is the only resource that a lot of Thai families have in life and they have learned to make it very profitable for the entire family. If they came to you up front for $100,000 and an honest promise of a great life, you would walk away.
I used to hear Thai women say "No money, no honey."
It's a hard lesson I took on board young & have found women the world over are hard wired like this the same way we men want to be a "white knight".
Always remember that pretty much all human relationships are transactional.
Wow we have them figured out Finally!!!! 🎉🎊 🎉🎉🎉
It’s not them that’s hard to figure out. These girls are hookers so …… scams so simple and obvious you can see them a mile away. It’s the guys who continue to fall for them despite info being everywhere to warn them. Can’t fix that kind of stupid.
I totally believe that your story and many like it are accurate, but, for the sake of a balanced perspective I wish to point out that I have been happily married to my Thai wife for 7 years now, living back and forth between Thailand and Canada, and have 3 other friends (not Thai), married to Thai wives for many years, all doing well and very happily settled in to Thailand. For those watching this video, I assure you there are many successful Falang/Thai marriages, if you choose carefully, and, as in all countries, have a combination of good judgement, common sense, patience, and the requisite dash of good fortune - and assuming you bring some desirable contributions to the relationship yourself.
Thailand is one of a few East and Southeast Asian countries where girls can demand a monthly salary to be your girlfriend. It's just a cultural thing - fine if one is prepared to do that. However, as soon as the relationship ends, she's going to want either a financial settlement (like redundancy pay) or for someone else to take over her financial arrangements. I lived in China for many years where the culture is very similar and where many girls can demand an apartment, all bills paid, and a monthly allowance, but you always have to remember that she does not consider the arrangement permanent. As mentioned in the video, countries like Thailand are OK for sex tourism, so stick to that.
I’m not too sure if it’s a cultural thing this salary or all made up due to their laziness? If you’re going to pay a woman money may as well just have regular hookers.
Been visiting 24 yrs now love the place, stay single then your in paradise.
You guys sound so much nicer than I. I'd kick her out and find a new one when she stops smiling the first time. That's my vetting process. I want someone who is fair minded, but failing that, I want someone I can control should the worst happen. Asian families are very supportive and closed. I can see why that would be a huge problem - they don't care about you and they never will because you are from outside their world. It can happen though that there are nice women out there.
"I want someone I can control"
Yeah, you're real catch. 🙄
I’m an African-American guy, and I live in Thailand. And this is real talk. And this is also why I stay to myself and avoid Thai women like a plague!!!
Fuck That!!!
Damn, good video, brother. And what you just shared is 💯% true. Real talk.
Bro laid it out the game step by step. Wow
Hiya Dan & all the Guys out there, I've been to Thailand around 10 times since 2007. It's simple 'Never break the 3 day rule'
Don’t go visit the family. If you do ditch her at the grocery store and leave.
Word for word “EXACTLY” what has happened to a friend of mine in the last 3 years…..except she “Accidentally Deliberately” got pregnant and now she has even more power! Threatening to take their daughter back to Thailand all the time…to the 2 new houses and new Ranger she’s got out of him. I’ll send this story in soon, unfortunately the story keeps writing itself. But half of the story you’ve just done a video on! Crazy true stories!!!!
Sorry to say it, but your friend deserves everything that he's getting for being an id-i-ot.
my ex treated to take my 5 yr old daughter to her country, Venezuela, saying that I'll never see her again..when the judge got wind of that, she told both of us that my daughter is not allowed to go beyond Pennsylvania, Delaware or New Jersey until she turns 18
Good morning sir- I was getting ready for work this morning and decided to drink some coffee and watch your video. You absolutely made my morning!! The way you broke down the ruse that these lovesick puppies experience is informative. Being a working class person from New York , I more than likely would never witness this interesting technique being done in Thailand (thank God) Your delivery is awesome and there were parts in your video that were outright hilarious ! GOOD SHOW AND keep up the good work!
I am impressed with your presentation. I decided to do all that you mentioned in your presentation of this clip. And lost $165,000. I did everything even got married. But luckily I was still in the states. So I am still ok. But I have been taking your advice and a few other expats from the western / developed world 🌎 . I may never get that money back. But it is a lesson , an expensive lesson. Thank you my friend.
Thanks for sharing! Men need to heed the warnings here!
Common sense men, for any nationality: if you go to a poor country and find a girl 10-20 years younger, start by doubting. I'm not saying young women can't date older men, for sure these work if the men is looking and acting similar to her age range. But if you are a regular 50' something guy and you think that 25 year old is into you, think twice.
Your a classic Dan, I’m laughing so much at you only because it’s all true , just the way you express yourself you made me laugh.
Your 100% right in what you said about sin sod , I love you MUK , Blah,Blah,Blah……. Hahahah
Yes your spot on son, once they suck every last cent from you then the wife will find excuses to fight with you & leave you to find another farrang….
These women think we are millionaires, maybe in her country we look rich but in our own country we are average…
Surely men can’t be that stupid !
ONE RULE ! Only give as much as your willing to lose …..
*** Thai law doesn’t support the farrang , contracts need to be written up or just say bye, bye …..
I met a Thai girl through my Thai friend in the US. I stayed with her for three weeks on a beautiful Koh Chang island. She was nice and shy, not sure if it was part of acting. Sex was like a rape, she was glad it was over to take her phone and get on TikTok. All day long she was reviewing dumb TikTok videos with pajamas on. I didn’t notice anything about her being a good cook or clean the place we stayed at, she had nails longer than my fingers. Beauty wasn’t enough for me, I always look at other qualities. When I told her she isn’t the woman I am looking for, she started to cry, apologize and told me she is going to wait for me anyway. It scares me to death brining a woman from overseas and having divorce later. Fiancé visa is only 90 days, which gives you no time to vet her. Big risk.
No, never bring such girls to the west, especially the US. At most, just do the fake village wedding IF she accepts to forgo the dowry. If not, there's the door.
I do know that these horror stories happen, a lot, but not all Thai ladies are like this. Granted I never dated a bar girl or from a website. I am in a long term relationship (11 years) and when marriage was discussed and Sin Sod was mentioned, as a true Yorkshireman I just laughed out loud and stated that would never happen, so if needed she should leave me and go find someone else. She didn't and marriage was never mentioned again. I have helped her along the way but way less than any English woman would expect me to. She works hard to make her own money and takes care of me way better than any Western woman would ever do. So yes, there are a lot of bad Thai ladies, as there are Western but many are also genuine. I guess the rule of thumb is do not be led by your little trouser friend, if you come across a bad one and you get a red flag, move on and wait it out for a good one. Good luck all! BTW, I love living in Thailand and would never go back to the UK.
I suspect the key to your good fortune is you keep your options open not dependent on one woman - by NEVER marrying.
Marriage is always mostly a downfall for most us men
First I am amazed at the foreigners that come to Thailand and fall in love with a Thai girl. The one thing that really stands out for me is the guys will do things for Thai women that the would not even do for their own mothers. And they seem to be really proud of themselves for doing it. Ask yourself would you dating a girl in your own country would you be giving her cash money? How about knowing that she is still sleeping with other men while you are not there. In fact sleeping with many men? How about buying her a home knowing that you have no legal control over that home that you bought even if you have proof that you paid for it. And then when you have the home built the women you love so much moves her family in the house and still never can stop asking for more money. I have lived and worked in Thailand for over 55 years first coming here in 1968 and I have seen it all. And the one thing that I have noticed is that only at best maybe 2% died of old age and happy with his Thai wife. I know of Thai wives that had their husbands killed for ownership of businesses and even their live insurance these I have read about in Thai newspaper since the girls were caught who knows how many got away with it with out getting caught. This is not only in Thailand it is common all over Asia, many of the men I have worked for have left Asia stone broke while the love his wife waved goodbye fat and happy.
A classic story was a man named Tiger Rydberg who owned the world famous Lucey's Tiger Den" I day famous since back in the 70's and 80's when I would walk into his bar there were New teams from America and Australia with cameras filming his bar and interviewing Tiger. When I was traveling between jobs and passing through Europe or American airports I often saw people with Lucey's Tiger Den T-shirts on walking through the airports. After his Thai wife was finished with him we people that knew Tiger had to take up a collection to get money fly him to the Philippines and money to live on for cheaper medial care and cost of living, Tiger died shortly after arriving in the Philippines. To be honest I never bothered with a Thai girlfriend. During the times I was working in Thailand I rented a house and hired a maid to run the house, cook, wash and iron. The never asked for money except for the money I agreed to pay for their services, I never tried to get them in bed either. When I wanted a woman I would go out and get the best looking woman I could find, take her to dinner, some times dancing and then take her to a hotel for the night and always paid up in front. the next morning I took her to the hotel restaurant and have breakfast with her while eating I would ask the waiter to get a cab for the lady, I gave the lady taxi fare and wished her good luck. Never going back for a second time but I am sure that sometimes I had been with the girl before but actually did not remember her. I did this for 30 year until I met my Thai wife who had just graduated from medical school. I never cheated on my wife and she for sure has never cheated on me. She had never had a boyfriend before and never ever been in a bar before. We have been married 25 years and have a 16 year old son. My wife is a department director of our local hospital and I am retired and fully enjoying my life at 77.
Dan just told the story, word for word, of my life for the last eight years.
If you stick to the rule "one time only", gives you immunity against the vampires ))
No matter how good, fantastic this one time was, it's likely to be downhill from there.
It seems like you get it brother!! I don’t understand why most guys do not. I always say “NEVER BREAK THE 2 RULE” You say 1 rule, and that’s probably even smarter.
@@L-Nino 2nd time is not as good as 1st "conquest" of a woman, you have to admit. Being honest with yourself is a must-have skill
@@RomanVarlI Agee. But my motto is, try everything twice.
@@L-Nino re-heated yesterday's pizza is not so bad, agree ))
@@RomanVarl You are all reheating twelve day pizzas. Nasty!
You can put all under your name (motorbike, car, condo, and house) except the land if you decide to build. However, you can also get as an example lifetime land usufruct to protect your investment and rights, which means it's practically impossible that if you separate, the family take your property. Instead, make strong papers to let them know that selling is the only option. Be wise and not too kind, know your rights 👌
Also, don't trap yourself in paying any monthly salaries. Instead, help your girlfriend to start her own business. Hopefully, it's online-related so you can also enjoy travelling. Unless you want 9-5 gf?
Lastly, give yourself better odds and forget the bar girls. There are many smart and goal-oriented Thai girls wanting to meet their foreign partners. Don't rush!
Jay
Why bother with all the paperwork, avoid isaan peasant types and you won’t have these problems.
@@athitaya6898 you should always do papers to protect your investment, but many foreigners don't do that, and in case of separation they lose their money. So it doesn't matter if your gf is from Isaan or not
@@PloyandJayinThailandhere’s a better idea, get your girl to get a loan in her name that you pay, if it goes pear shaped you walk away.
@@athitaya6898 that's one good option if your gf gets a loan 👌
@@PloyandJayinThailand I think the better option would be never get involved with these hillbillies
So spot on. It isn't different in the Philippines if you met her in the bar, on the street, or the internet.
Great video. Used to date a girl from a poorer background in Philippines. Physically beautiful, sexy, etc. One way of another, I got to the place where I realised that there wasn't much there, so killed the relationship (have never lived there and only visited). Now, dating a professional lady from Manila, where the large family own their own home and she runs a business... Have heard that THEY are now asking about MY financial situation (I am on a salary of £50k+ a year, own my own home outright etc) and whether I am the gold-digger... lol... Beware if you date at a bar girl...
I find Philippine people are highly materialistic and their culture or lack thereof doesn’t go well with mine. I don’t get heavily involved with them.
As a wise Thai lady once told me: She will be sweet in the start and all of a sudden her families buffalo dies and she needs your money to pay for it 555
IMMA STAY SINGLE AND KEEP MY MONEY
I'm staying single and spending it on long and short times
me too!
Same bro
This is absolutely brilliant. The best video I've seen in a long while. It just summarizes everything. A must view. Everything that glitters is not gold. And what a slow boil.
A wealthy British farmer was battered to death and then barbecued over charcoal by relatives of his former Thai wife. The body parts of Toby Charnaud, age 41, from Chippenham in Wiltshire, were then scattered in a Thai national park, one of the last areas in the country where tigers roam, a court has heard.
He was killed on a trip to pick up the couple's five-year-old son, Daniel, whom he had gained custody of after the couple divorced, Petchaburi court in northern Thailand was told yesterday.
The Marlborough-educated former land agent and farmer met and married Pannada Laoruang, known in the family as Som, in 1997 and they initially returned to Wiltshire. He gave up his farming business and the couple bought a bar in Hua Hin resort in Thailand. But when Ms Laoruang, now aged 38, ran up heavy gambling debts in 2004, the couple divorced.
Ms Laoruang and five of her male relatives and friends stand trial for murder. Mr Charnaud's mother, Sarah, said she understood her son had gone to a property he rented for his former wife on 27 March last year, after receiving a call to pick up Daniel. But a group of men were there, some related to Ms Laoruang. They first tried to shoot him but the gun had backfired, Mrs Charnaud said. Her son was later battered to death and his body disposed of on the edge of a national park near the Burmese border, she added.
Mrs Charnaud said she understood that three men had admitted murder while her son's ex-wife had admitted involvement in helping to dispose of the evidence. Ms Laoruang was "seriously in debt", Mrs Charnaud said. "He had to pay off a lot of her debts. We had money in this country for Daniel's education and that had to be transferred to pay off her debts." She said Ms Laoruang's "motive was clearly to use Daniel as a meal ticket".
Describing her former daughter-in-law, Mrs Charnaud said: "We welcomed her to the family, as one does. It was fine, she appeared to fit in. She was involved in all family activities. But I became aware their marriage was getting into difficulty due to Pannada living her own life. She was using money from the bar without his knowledge."
Mrs Charnaud, 70, and her husband Jeremy, 69, received a phonecall from Ms Laoruang on 29 March last year, two days after Mr Charnaud's death. The couple hired a private investigator. "After we were told he was missing, we were determined to pull out all the stops to find out what had happened. What else could we do?" Mrs Charnaud said.
Yesterday, Hannah Allan, Mr Charnaud's sister, said: "This was a disgusting, pre-meditated murder which has ruined our family's lives forever. That includes the life of Toby's six-year-old son, who has been torn apart by what's happened to his daddy." Daniel is being cared for in Britain.
Shortly before Mr Charnaud's death, he won a writing competition for a short story published in a Bangkok magazine. The story, named "Rainfall", is about a British tourist named Guy who falls in love with an unfaithful Thai woman who builds up gambling debts. The book ends with Guy being murdered by one of her lovers. Ms Allen, described the story as "eerie".
Wow! That woman was evil. Never thought it would happen to an Old Marlburian.
There are many more cases comparable to this over the last 20 years I’ve been coming to Thailand 😢
Bedding with the devil.
There's a documentary on you tube called Money, Love, and Murder: The Tragic Story of Stephen and Evelyn..it's about a British man who married a Filipino bar girls and was murdered by her Filipino lover because she asked him to so they could have her husbands money.
Such a true, real, in-your-face and blunt story…thanks for sharing
Holy shit where do I sign up? My ex wife took 12 years to drag out something that a Thai girl could accomplish in a much shorter time.
yup, No dowry in the US, Western women get paid at the backend through the Divorce.
That is halarious 😂😂😂
Very well done. I feel much broker than when the video started.
I was in Thailand last month and honestly i really enjoyed Thai food. Thailand is a great place for fun and joy. ❤❤
Stephanie from London
The food is amazing but when you live here it gets repetitive. I limit myself to 4 Thai meals a week these days so that I really enjoy it like I just arrived yesterday
yeah no asian countries are good for the dates except in philippines
oh why@@darassylmoniakam
aha@@graguitar6493
@@FunTravelLondon thais and many asians women are manipulative , but if you're introverted you're good
Very usefull video it will save the life of thousands guys seeking to help and save a " princess" abroad
Call no man unhappy until he is married.
A man may be a fool and not know it- but not if he is married
Question: have you ever met a happily married man? I mean truly happy. I HAVEN’T!!!
@@L-Nino Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel.
Here in Pattaya i see many foreign/Thai couples. None of them look happy, especially the man with a hottie 😅
@@L-Nino The risk is too high - once Married especially in the west the first thing out the window is sex - then she says she is not happy out of no where - I Married twice never again how ever much I might love Thai ladies
Good Video Dan 😊. Keep the videos coming 👍.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
Love this guy's accent. Also a lot of real-time useful information.
This info this very true Dan, I've been going to Pattaya since 1993 and I always stay Single
And this gentlemen is why the 3 days rule exist. Ignore it at your own peril.
The 3 day rule isn't full proof either. Some guys can fall for a girl in that time too.
Also what's the point in only 3 days when she fukks like a pornstar?
I retired to Thailand just over 2 years ago. I currently see 3 girls that I've bonked 107, 32 and 30 times. I haven't fallen in love with any of them and all 3 give me top level sexual gratification.
In my opinion it's not 3 days maximum it's 3 girls minimum and 1 week maximum between reruns.
Sure I have a favourite of these 3 and if any of them was to move on I'll be sad for a day or two in which I'll get over it with one of the other 2 anyway.
Can’t understand why others don’t get this, especially with the age gap
Yes sir. Come Sunday, she's hitting the bricks.
I don't like rules - you just have to know the game
@@marksallai2289 Very well said Sir.
Wisdom from a young man. Wise beyond his years.
LOL Married 13 years. Met through a friend who knew her mom. Mom is staying with us and cooks very well. She helped me remodel my first house and has been close to my side. My net worth has improved 8X, and hers 50X. But she was a bit chubby and sheltered. Sometimes the simple girl is better.
I wanted happy life with my Honduras wife but my embassy messed my life up and my Honduras wife life up breaking up my legal marriage so if me an malee hit it off that what I want happy life not messed up life
I recall reading that a Thai woman will beg for a man to buy her jewelry. If he says 'I just bought you some!" she'll answer "That was yesterday; this is today!" The same article said she'll bring her friends into the house and play mahjong, and even if she doesn't smoke, some of her friends will so they stink up the house for hours.
When the money runs out.u r done & dusted.they go on to the next sucker.wake up guys omg
That's every country. Let's not fool ourselves.
Surely it would be better to pay the rent for a place for the family than to buy them a house. I bet that control would have the girl in check.
Why the fuck would you pay anything? Invest the money in your own future. It’s just pussy.
When you go to Disney world you enjoy your vacation. You don't marry Minnie mouse and bring her home and you definitely don't move into Disney world. 🤪🙄😳
This is the best Thailand Video that I've seen. Good job. Thank you
I'm curious Dan, how do you see your future?
A single father for the rest of your life in Thailand?
I'd appreciate a video on your thoughts, with the benefit of hindsight.
If I were Dan, I’d take his son and leave!
One of your best videos, Dan.
I know exactly how that story goes, but i never heard it explained as well as that Dan👍. Only problem is you're doing such a good job helping people that I'm afraid we'll eventually run out of car crash stories about Thailand 🤷♂️😄🇮🇪
Thanks 👍 I didn't even rehearse it 😅 just had the idea and just created it and no matter how many people become aware they will still jump into the fire 🔥 but hopefully this channel will help wake them up when they are releasing something just isn't right 😬
I have been watching many but I love the sound and pics you have put hem😂 everything you are saying is so true !! 100% stay happy and blessed always 😊
I don't think it's a good idea to go into any relationship thirsty. You won't think clearly or rationally. Feelings are a horrible basis for decisions, especially with money! Stay safe, bros!
DON'T EVER GROCERY SHOP WHEN HUNGRY; YOU'LL ALWAY OVER SPEND. IF THIRSTY, HORNY YOU'LL THINK MOSTLY WITH YOUR DICK.
Wow ! This is your best video yet. I had to laugh as you are absolutely right on the money. YES HOW MUCH NA !
I used to interview patients and nurses from the Philippines and they followed a similar progression. I saw comments of Thai women being worse, but I can't tell the difference.
Same advice regardless of where you live. As a man, secure your career or business, establish your house, vehicles and other assets all in your name only. Whether you get a wife or a live in: never put anything in both names, never pay a bill for her, don't let her use your credit card or debit card. Look into it, no document should have your name and her signature, or vice versa. I knew an acquaintance that shared these gems with me. But it was too late for me. When his wife left him, he offered to help her put her clothes in the trunk of an old Mercedes of his and give her the title. She got a lawyer, but nothing else. It works.
Fantastic video. Rather than safety instructions they should play this mandatory on every flight entering Thailand.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great video 👍🏼
WOW! Dan! Thank you for your highly informative and enlightening episode! Thanks! ASE'!
“ Wise men say, only fools rush in, but I can’t help falling in love with you” - Elvis
Nicely explained.
I haven't myself but know many that pretty well lived that story you just shared.
You can get good ones but you need to be diligent - and man up & learn how to say NO early in the piece.
Run your own tests to determine if they are, as they often say, "Real or Copy"
Cheers
Fantastic Dan ...today 2 great vlogs and within the 2 vlogs so much information and advice amazing.... Please Please listen and watch these over and over again as honestly this is the truth this is what happens and believe me your worst nightmare is nothing compared to what can happen to you when you fall for the tricks. Please please listen to Dan as this channel really does show the true side and please do not fall for the sweet girl trick ...the gremlin ...is so very true
This video is the winner ! You win definitely Man ! Thanks for the very wise and realistic scenario! Everybody here in Asia should watch your video as a golden lesson in life before even Coming to those countries !! ❤❤❤
Watch a few Thai soaps on tv here, it will give a useful insight into Thai culture....
100% you learn a lot by watching Thai TV, especially the soaps 😬
This is one of your best videos, I think, because it gives such an *excellent* overview of the overall path of the long-term game. You did a SUPERB job of describing it! 🙂 Thank you! It was especially wise of you to say that the guys are trying to keep their dreams alive - that's a _deep_ understanding of male psychology. You make me feel like I should visit Pattaya as a newbie (but armed with all your video knowledge!) just to see how many of your lessons I can remember and how well I end up doing! One of the comments said, "If you're destroyed and feeling weak, Pattaya is NOT a place you should go when you're weak," (if you know what he means... :-)) Thank you for your work!
Brilliant and hilarious vlog and a warning to all us old codgers who fall in love with young Thai women.
100% this happen to me exactly, but we've been married 23 years now and she is in America and works hard and helps with all the bills
My wife has a Thai friend who is great but it’s rare my friend, rare.
Here come the "MINE is different" white knights' in shiny armor coming to protect all.
I’m thinking about setting up a Sin Sot negotiation businesses, 10, 000 baht per visit, it will save you mugs a fortune, be aware your isaan princess and her family may not like the questions asked.
I have my experience with girls there since 20 years. Two times married and divorced. And i need to tell you, all stories and what you say is true really. It is like this. I had a normal from Chiang Mai, i paid 18 years for my son coz she lives here in germany with me. I had a super rich, daugther of Mr. Tiewtranon who has own clinic and hospital. Also had a medium rich from Tran with many rubber plantations in the family. I could tell you stories a lot. But no time to write all. Just want to say, what you report and public here i can give you a 100% like and confirm that it is true. Drama queen i also had that wanted to kill herself if i leave her. She still alive. hahhahhaha. You explain all very real and in the right way and like it is really. It depends on the woman you meet. And eveybody needs to decide for himself how far wants to go. My ex wanted land and house in Trang, i had the money, she did not know, but i denied. I lived before in Southamerica. Venezuela three years, argentina and peru. I had lot of experiences. Dont trust any girl................. only after some tests and time. At the end in countries like thailand you are lost, coz you cannot own the land that easy. And the house at the land will be lost also. Same if buy a car at her name or anything. Just want to say, i like your videos, coz they so real and they are also made to the point. Not speak only bad or only good. You explain and someone like me, knows.................. is real. Thank you for your content. I aprechiate it a lot. Uwe
I really appreciate your feedback thank you, it's nice to hear from people that have been here a long time and truly understand how things operate here 🤝
Thanks, Dan for keeping it real, In the land of money and honey, there are always bees. It's like Vegas, every player that sits at a game in Vegas ultimately thinks they can win, no matter how many losers they see getting up from the table. You can play but you caint stay. Let's not put it all on the Thai girls. We have to check our own motivations and egos, money can't buy love. I think that was in a song.
hit the nail on the head mate hope everyone takes note how real this shit gets over in thailand ,bleed you dry and leave you high and dry and goodbye on to the next guy and repeat 👍👍
Excellent warning! I have a friend over their now to get dental work. Im going to send him this link. Thank you
Awesome video Dan, I've been hearing very similar stories since 1999 when I was only 19 yrs old and started to visit those GO GO bars. I still keep that in mind whenever I go to Thailand or The Philippines as precious advise from the experts. Don't get hooked with the girls for more than few days. If you're a newbie no more than ONE night !!! If you don't follow this GOLDEN RULE , You'll surely repent later... Happy mongering, Cheers from Australia mate !!!!!🙂
Also this video sounds like you are talking about my crazy roller coaster ride with my thai family and so much more. I would tell any man that comes to Thailand have a great time then RUN like hell!
Excellent post! Not just Thai ladies. Filipinas will bring game also. I married one that was not a bar girl. Her vice was the over religious thing. Soon as she got to the states she hooked up with a Filipino religious group and it's been hell ever since. It's a borderline cult imo. Finally after 25yrs, I reached my limit and decided to rid myself of her and her BS.
My advice...Don't get caught up in how cute they are.
the phillipines have been ruined by pedo adventist sects. it's all part of US foreign policy there. keeping them stupid under the marcos boot.
@rhh176 No. She was doing the religious think prior to getting married. It later became her excuse to be with her friends. As far as I'm concerned, she may very well have been cheating. It all adds up to disrespectful bs. I've never heard of a religion or church that encourages someone to not prioritize their family. Exception to that is a cult.
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She has a well paying job so she's never ripped me off...lol
She substitutes that with trying to not pay her share of the bills.
Very well explained. I’ve heard about this many times and you sound spot on.
Pessimistic but true on occasion. A longer version however, one that can be far more expensive in the long term, is when a Thai lady has a child from a former relationship ( horrible Thai man ) then without previously taking money in large sums from a foreign boyfriend has a child with him, from that moment on that foreign man is hooked even if their relationship breaks down because his love for his own child ensures his inability to move on at the risk of losing all contact with his own child. Then drip drip maintenance payments can last a lifetime. Sometimes with the lady living secretly with the father of her first child ( the horrible Thai man who might have been in on it all along )
WOW !!!
Some great advice on this channel - and at the risk of stating a massive cliche - one that many of you may have heard before - I'll just say it again for those of you who haven't; "you can take the girl out of the bar - but you can't take the bar out of the girl".
Dan your a prophet when it come to Thai girls and relationship. But love blind us all…. Even yourself in dealing with your baby moma.. Guess it’s love and human nature … keep up the good work… You was born for this…and fatherhood for your son William