The TRUTH about Thai girls and Older Men + a STORY

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  • @garyaltenburger6667
    @garyaltenburger6667 10 місяців тому +54

    I'll start out by saying that like most expats, I had an eye for young eye candy. I actually lived with several of them but things never worked out. I knew a girl who worked in a restaurant. She was quite attractive but although I had propositioned her several times and she would never go out with me. My friends used to laugh at me because I genuinely liked her. They called her Miss No. I would usually talk to her each time I ate there. I asked her why she was still single. She called herself an old maid at 35 years old. and that no Thai man would ever marry her because she had a mind of her own. She had never been married and had no children. That only increased my interest. I had problems with the young eye candy girls with their insane jealousy. I would never want a wife who was a jealous clinging vine type. I liked the idea of a wife who had a mind of her own and told her so. Eventually she did go out with me and more than 20 years later we are still together. YES, she still has a mind of her own and that suits me just fine. She is definitely not a jealous type and I am free to go where and when I want. She is a farm girl and we live in her house upcountry. I still have my Jomtien condo and during her planting and harvesting times, she tells me to go down to Jomtien and stay in my condo until she is finished. I always stayed down there, normally two weeks or so before I went back home.

    • @AmericanInThailand
      @AmericanInThailand 10 місяців тому +2

      Glad your seriousness and commitment won out.

  • @westmarrocks2369
    @westmarrocks2369 10 місяців тому +9

    The knowledgeable speaks and the wise listens. Valuable content. If we don't pay attention to the hairdresser's stories we are doomed to repeat the same mistakes. Thumbs up Mr Daz, our man in Pattaya.

  • @VaporEG
    @VaporEG 10 місяців тому +22

    I'm getting notifications for every pattaya channel I subscribe to, including yours...and getting recommendations for new ones several times a day.

  • @pranavbhutiani1141
    @pranavbhutiani1141 16 днів тому +1

    Very valuable information and insight. Kudos to your efforts man🙏

  • @bkkmj4250
    @bkkmj4250 10 місяців тому +64

    “She was still an 8-plus, pushing a 9” - classic Daz! 😂😂😂😂

    • @vanpli8570
      @vanpli8570 10 місяців тому +4

      A classic

    • @RobFomenko
      @RobFomenko 10 місяців тому +10

      There are so many beautiful Thai women it can make your head spin.

    • @mcb00m
      @mcb00m 10 місяців тому +5

      Lots of candy to sample in Disneyland 😅

    • @ma3stro681
      @ma3stro681 10 місяців тому +2

      Many men overrate many woemyn … 😂

    • @mrgarrison3516
      @mrgarrison3516 10 місяців тому +2

      If she's an 8, would a shower & shave make her a 9 🤔

  • @bradleynoble46
    @bradleynoble46 10 місяців тому +3

    You were right - I’d been unsubscribed by YT. I just thought you were on holidays and not posting. I’ve re subscribed

  • @ogsilverback971
    @ogsilverback971 10 місяців тому +3

    Wow, you gave a lot of good and realistic information. Thanks for sharing the reality of what it is about

  • @_Alfa.Bravo_
    @_Alfa.Bravo_ 10 місяців тому +23

    "Beauty is enough to catch somebodies eye, to remain in memory good character is needed"

  • @OGCrypto33
    @OGCrypto33 10 місяців тому +4

    I was subbed and never got notified you had new videos out.

  • @josephweeks820
    @josephweeks820 10 місяців тому +1

    Sir, on an entirely different note, you video camera quality, i.e., clarity is outstanding. I am comparing you to a few other Pattaya and Bangkok vloggers and some from Cuba. Cheers from Canada

  • @lexpatterson5098
    @lexpatterson5098 10 місяців тому +3

    Thanks for the info👍 ! When you first started talking about subscriptions being cancelled I would always check and mine was good…. But now, every time I check, It has been cancelled so I have to resubscribe!!!

    • @lexpatterson5098
      @lexpatterson5098 10 місяців тому +2

      For the record,I just checked and they had already unsubscribed me …. Only 10 minutes had passed 😡

    • @CheekyMonkey007
      @CheekyMonkey007 10 місяців тому

      @@lexpatterson5098 WOW not good

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly!!

  • @charlienfriendsinruraljapa1372
    @charlienfriendsinruraljapa1372 10 місяців тому +35

    Women seem to fear, yet also respect and long for : A Man living freely in the Flame of his own Sovereignty. Such a man stays single and as such Pattaya becomes his Nirvana. Yet, as you mentioned some time ago: many men get divorced or split up with their women from back home, come to Thailand and then get wound up again in the bonds of a new relationship.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 10 місяців тому +2

      There are few meaningful relationships but many pretend situationships in Pattaya.

    • @charlienfriendsinruraljapa1372
      @charlienfriendsinruraljapa1372 10 місяців тому +1

      Well said~! The pretend situations . . . the 'fantasy', may well be the best part. One COULD say the same of Life in general. If you know it's a fantasy, know it's just a dream . . .everything is awesome, even the 'bad' parts become fun and entertaining. When one attaches too much 'meaning' -via sentimental expectations- to a "relationship" (>.

    • @gerardpor3191
      @gerardpor3191 10 місяців тому +2

      Very well put

  • @germant5379
    @germant5379 7 місяців тому +2

    Great listening to your videos and stories. Thailand offers so much for so many people. It indeed is a place that offers a person an opportunity to learn, grow and expand their own self awareness. Thank you for your perspective and sincerity.

  • @louiestanley300
    @louiestanley300 10 місяців тому +5

    Loved hearing your story about the ex Gogo you found a year later!! My fav so far

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому +2

      Glad you enjoyed it, I did

    • @theaxiologist
      @theaxiologist 4 місяці тому

      @@everythingPattaya Can you give the names of these "Gents Clubs" please. Looks like that's where I'll be found, since I never date girls younger than 30

  • @suprflye
    @suprflye 10 місяців тому +7

    UA-cam unsubscribed me from your channel, WTF!?!?! I subscribed again but you are correct about them unsubscribing people and that's ridiculous.

  • @arturomaluy2184
    @arturomaluy2184 2 місяці тому +1

    Just love the stories and the way you do the narrative. Love it!

  • @robertjosan
    @robertjosan Місяць тому +1

    Cheers Daz, thank you for another smashing video, is Soapys closed, I heard it might be closed?

  • @derekwhoelse8359
    @derekwhoelse8359 10 місяців тому +2

    Thanks again for a great video.
    Just returned from Koh Chang. Next time it will be Jomtien again.
    Everything you tell in your video's is so recognizable! The best info is to find here.

  • @williamconquest5066
    @williamconquest5066 10 місяців тому +5

    Daz.. you’re a national treasure..!
    Another great story. Thanks a lot keep up the good work…!

  • @JensonRiley-i5q
    @JensonRiley-i5q 3 місяці тому +1

    There are many reality checks to be found in the various youtube channels! All good info...

  • @pAuL-nb2ud
    @pAuL-nb2ud 10 місяців тому +8

    That is a very good observation, that you mentioned 2011, as in 2012 I first visited Thailand in my 20s , ❤ im writing a story for Thailand Bound about this very subject … to be continued : )

  • @ubiquitousdiabolus
    @ubiquitousdiabolus 10 місяців тому +19

    The way to change this would be for older guys to stop giving girls drinks and tips. Only give them money for a bar fine. Then the girls would need the older guys since the young guys don't have enough money.

    • @KangofNomadicTravels
      @KangofNomadicTravels 10 місяців тому +1

      My good naive friend, allow for me to enlighten you on the amount of wealth being generated by the "neuvo riche" young men. I can tell you that there are plenty of young men who now make 6 figures however, they also are dealing with being "jaded and curved" in their OWN HOME COUNTRIES by the local women. Soooooooooo question do you think these young guys are now looking for "the G.F.E. experience or wives" I hope you've been noticing or watching closely or at least watching some docs on the birthrates in most countries right now. These YOUNG guys now HAVE MONEY, they EVEN HAVE HOMES but no women(or for a lack of better terms "VERY VERY VERY LIMITED OPTIONS" I don't think older guys understood the conundrum FEM!N!$M caused in the most WESTERN COUNTRIES it created the "heterosexual flight" to Thailand and countries like the Phillipines for more suitable candidates. This is literally happening in almost every single country that had a benefit from capitalism(*in one form or another). Not to mention the 🏳‍🌈 agenda being pushed in the West. Look at ICELAND and a few other countries. It's serious and I can say unfortunately it is the reason why Thailand & the Phillipines is seeing this extreme uptick in YOUNGER GUYS (*with money) who are now going further out into the world to date, mate, and engage with hetero, traditional women. This is the result of agendas pushed. You don't fix this in a day or a year.

    • @theaxiologist
      @theaxiologist 4 місяці тому +1

      That's the solution, right on the money (so to speak)

  • @65354u
    @65354u 10 місяців тому +2

    Hello Daz I have watched well over #50 of your vidieos, excellent information. I will be arriving in pattaya in april. I plan on going to my first gentsclub. could you plese tell me the name on this famouse gents club you talked about in this video??? thank you.

  • @siavash1000
    @siavash1000 10 місяців тому +14

    Thanks Daz for another informative video.
    I have seen so many young girls on Soi 6 pulling hands of older guys. Actually Thai girls don’t care about age or look as long as they can make some business. That is my observation.
    To be connected on emotional level to anyone , it requires cultural, historical and interest similarities. age is only one small factor among plenty.

  • @alanharrison694
    @alanharrison694 10 місяців тому +9

    Everything you say Daz is correct. I first moved here in 2003 pre smartphones and Facebook era. It was really amazing! Just moved back 2 years ago, and aside from me getting older, things have changed and not necessarily for the better. But overall, Pattaya is still great, and I still get on Thai Friendly and get a lot of likes from very young beautiful women.

    • @sawadeeh
      @sawadeeh 10 місяців тому +2

      Younger girls tickles your ego. Thai friendly is overrun by free lancers.

    • @alanharrison694
      @alanharrison694 10 місяців тому +1

      @@sawadeeh absolutely!😊

  • @ingwisingwis8336
    @ingwisingwis8336 10 місяців тому +17

    Basically, Daz is right. But “older guys,” don’t despair. I'm 64 now and look that old too. My last companion from December, who I will meet again next month, is 20 years old (8 pushing a 9), the predecessors are 21, 22, 24, 26, including Agogo Supermodels. Young and good-looking women are much more selective and harder to get. Nevertheless, with good behavior, friendliness, respect, humor, neat external appearance and the oft-quoted generosity (have good heart/jai dee), there is still a chance of convincing them of you. It's usually not cheap either, as each of them knows their "market value" quite well.

    • @CheekyMonkey007
      @CheekyMonkey007 10 місяців тому +10

      Care to disclose how much you spent on just One of them ???

    • @davidkemp5798
      @davidkemp5798 10 місяців тому

      A man your age shouldn't be messing with girls in their Twenties...

    • @CraigMartin-zo8ho
      @CraigMartin-zo8ho 10 місяців тому +1

      Probably a lot

    • @CraigMartin-zo8ho
      @CraigMartin-zo8ho 10 місяців тому +1

      Do you think a 64 year old should be going with a 20 year old ? I’m 41 and would be looking for 27+

    • @nickjones8867
      @nickjones8867 10 місяців тому +2

      @@CraigMartin-zo8ho Yes im 61 seeing 22yr old

  • @wotreeclapton
    @wotreeclapton 10 місяців тому +28

    Absolutely brilliant! Your stories should be made compulsory reading for Thai visa applications from every country. Also love "The 4 things a Thai girl looks for". Exactly the reason that after 10 years of living here I've never really had a proper Thai GF. 1- Must be older and stable (Well I'm older at least). 2- Must be financially secure (Sorry darling I'm skint). 3-Must be generous (It's my money and I'm keeping it-get a job). 4-Must not be a butterfly (ha ha ha ha).

    • @vanpli8570
      @vanpli8570 10 місяців тому +4

      The comment abt " compulsory visa reading " epic! May I suggest that should be in a book at every travels agency so when you visit to inquire for a ticket should be obligatory exams based on the book of course.

  • @kiyoshitakeda452
    @kiyoshitakeda452 10 місяців тому +3

    Very good advice for new and experienced guys. "Too good to be true have real meaning there". If you understand it then PTT is still as much fun. For them it is about business and Thais work very hard. Thanks for the video. Enjoyed.

  • @sailwinds69
    @sailwinds69 9 місяців тому +2

    Daz very good info Love your wisdom on this sort of thing love in Thailand and young girls loving young guys SO TRUE. I get turned down by young girls all the time and I just laugh. I know what you are saying is true. Right now I am working on a young almost 38 yr old dancer who I feel could be a good GF but of course I am not putting all my eggs in one basket. I sing on you tube and dedicate many songs to her and send them her way to see if I can spark a more emotional love interest towards me. It is a totally different approach then most men can do. Most men are not musicians and cannot do what I do. SO to make a long story shorter wish me luck as I am coming back soon to see her dancing in the club. I have a few others I have already met I will visit too. I always am respectful and give them gifts, tips whatever it takes to put a smile on their faces. I am still a butterfly and do as I please but still have a desire to find love. (its in our DNA as men). Drunken nights in dark hotels where love and sex no longer ally....so true (from the song Hold me closer)

  • @davidkerk5676
    @davidkerk5676 9 місяців тому +1

    UA-cam isn't suppressing your videos...I dont know how i got recommend your video..but i did find it interesting as all hel!

  • @RomanVarl
    @RomanVarl 10 місяців тому +4

    Insightful as usual, thanks 😊

  • @westrm2010
    @westrm2010 10 місяців тому +7

    After watching so many of Daz's videos, I could easily write a book about what to and not do in Pattaya, but that would be plagiarism. Brilliant !!!

  • @rossp561
    @rossp561 10 місяців тому +22

    I was in a go go last year. When a good looking, younger man walked in and sat down, all, and I mean all the ladies, rushed him. They fought for his attention. It was very funny to watch. I think he even got a couple of free drinks.

    • @marksallai2289
      @marksallai2289 10 місяців тому

      sounds like the west older men are ghosted here

    • @mariobuttino6095
      @mariobuttino6095 10 місяців тому +1

      I thought the Ladies liked older Men.

  • @chrissharkey9644
    @chrissharkey9644 3 місяці тому +1

    Nice one!

  • @michaelshirley4874
    @michaelshirley4874 10 місяців тому +2

    Great advice daz , as always

  • @anthonyfoulds44
    @anthonyfoulds44 10 місяців тому +2

    Hi Daz a really good video as usual hey just a quick question can you do a video of getting testosterone jabs out there a lot of my friends are heading over to have it done and really enjoy the fruits of it all and say it's the best they have ever felt could you do one on the pro's and con's on this including your own opinion and prices thanks mate keep up the good work 🙂👍

  • @trickolas78
    @trickolas78 10 місяців тому +2

    Great report, Daz!

  • @michaelzammit8311
    @michaelzammit8311 4 місяці тому +1

    Oh, great channel 👏

  • @georgeg2702
    @georgeg2702 10 місяців тому +3

    Good video and really accurate as far as how 'older' Thai women think. (The ones I've met anyway) .. Nearly all of the women I meet in the 40 and up range (which is my preference mostly - think Kings) see themselves as 'old ladies'. Not all, but many are looking to meet someone who is 'kind', treats them well, will help 'take care' and get them away from a competitive market (All as per your video comments)

  • @tomgolab3958
    @tomgolab3958 10 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for another insight of Pattaya at present. i'm an older guy in the Philippines and must say as expat from US , I've observed over the years similar behavior by the females ( been here over 20 years). Still good and ok but important to know what the expectations are. I'm definitely planning on visiting your turf sometime reasonably soon. Good day! Enjoying your videos.

  • @GoodMan-fq2rf
    @GoodMan-fq2rf 10 місяців тому +1

    As always, I appreciate all of the amazing information you so freely give to us newbies who want to coming to Thailand 🇹🇭. One of your best tips of all time is telling us not to come Thailand 🇹🇭 with a gullible mindset.

  • @jaytilake2601
    @jaytilake2601 Місяць тому +1

    Great program I🇬🇧👍

  • @roninsufi5174
    @roninsufi5174 10 місяців тому +1

    Really impressed with your work and info with this channel.
    What time of day is best for gentleman's club? Also could you recommend the top 3 gentleman's club, thanks.

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому +2

      Daytime clubs from 1pm
      Cat Flaps, Passion, Maggie May
      Evening from 7.30pm
      Heaven Above

    • @doriangray6985
      @doriangray6985 9 місяців тому

      ​@everythingPattaya I undertake my question is for Hua Hin not Pattaya but would appreciate your advice how best to rent a two bedroom pool villa in Hua Hin

  • @RayRoss-cc6jg
    @RayRoss-cc6jg 10 місяців тому +1

    Hey Daz
    I will be over this week. Thanks to your videos. Looking to hook up with Greg for Golf. I don’t think his sister has the beach spot anymore. Can you put me in touch with him? Thanks, Ray.

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому

      Greg's LINE ID is Gregluthergolf1
      email is Gregluthergolf@hotmail.com

  • @G.D.Traveller
    @G.D.Traveller 10 місяців тому +10

    Your hairdresser is a continous source of quality information.

  • @ฐานิตสกอคกิ้น
    @ฐานิตสกอคกิ้น 10 місяців тому +4

    My wife 16 years younger 20 years together she is 50 I am 66 never happier

    • @magiccarpetrider4594
      @magiccarpetrider4594 5 місяців тому

      My wife of 6 years is a 40 year old PhD professor in Hong Kong. She’s loaded. I’m 71 and tap that daily.

  • @alannevard6993
    @alannevard6993 10 місяців тому +1

    Great info as always!!!

  • @joenabs7134
    @joenabs7134 10 місяців тому +3

    Daz, what is "butterfly" in Thai Language?

    • @davideddolls4738
      @davideddolls4738 10 місяців тому

      Man that goes from lady to lady

    • @williamwhite3405
      @williamwhite3405 10 місяців тому

      ผีเสื้อ
      P̄hīs̄eụ̄̂x. I pronounce it “Pisiar “

  • @garysumnall722
    @garysumnall722 10 місяців тому +6

    I first hit Pattaya in 1993, my brother worked for Lufthansa and he got some free flights in business class so i went with him, I was 23 and had never even heard of Thailand never mind what went on there, I don’t remember too much but it was all beer bars and never even went to walking street!!!!!, stayed at Queens Hotel just off beach road and drank in the cat bar most of the time, very different now.
    I do remember it being full of older guys in fact I felt the youngest there, how it’s changed eh

  • @jimstowell1166
    @jimstowell1166 10 місяців тому +1

    Great as always

  • @StevenSacto
    @StevenSacto 10 місяців тому +8

    My first time was in 1988 as a 26 yr old. Fell in love with Thailand. Went back many times before marrying a lady from my country. Divorced and on the hunt again, finally ended up in Thailand again. Now older, wiser and Richer lol I found my soul mate, best friend and wife. Yes she's 23 years younger and I "apparently" act younger than her. Life is great when you find the right one, and there are many in Thailand. And any guy looking serious at a relationship with someone under 30 that's 40+, is not that realistic. Be smart when you choose.

    • @Crushonius
      @Crushonius 10 місяців тому +5

      i have to disagree with you mate even if you are over 50 and want a serious relationship
      your goal should be a 25 year old 27 tops , you need time if you want to have kids in the future .
      first a couple of years to really see if you are compatible , then marriage then kids .
      so if you start dating when she is over 30 it is way to late by the time kids become a discussion .
      this is not misogyny its biology

    • @StevenSacto
      @StevenSacto 10 місяців тому +5

      @@Crushonius I Guess everyone has an opinion, that's a good thing. Your thinking wouldn't work for me. Kids were never going to be part of it, I took care of that long ago. I decided to go with a 33 years old that looked 22 that didn't want kids. Everybody's situation will be different but I recommend any guy that's over 40 and still wanting kids, don't. That's just based on my experience of already having 2 great kids.

    • @iceberg1966
      @iceberg1966 10 місяців тому

      ​@@CrushoniusWhy would anyone over 50 want to start having kids?

  • @syddharth
    @syddharth 10 місяців тому +12

    tbh the 'younger' girls have no personality. My last trip was an eye opener. theres no joy in talking to them and for me that leaves no room for taking the encounter forward. Im 34 btw.

    • @MrNoobophile
      @MrNoobophile 10 місяців тому +9

      "talking to them"
      I see where your problem is.

    • @creiser77
      @creiser77 10 місяців тому +4

      When you are joung just enjoy the experience of old ladies, when you are old enjoy the youth of jung ladies!

    • @SuperheroArmorychannel
      @SuperheroArmorychannel 10 місяців тому

      Talking to them? 🤔 I have yet to meet one that i can even understand, let alone have a conversation with, lol

  • @louisc932
    @louisc932 10 місяців тому +4

    I'm 64 just got back from Pattaya, didn't go to Go Go bars as too expensive but found 9 attractive beer bar girls aged 18,19,21(3) 24,25, 30 and 32. Several were new to Pattaya (maybe they are told to say that). All were ST apart from the 30 year old. Two worked in the senual massage on Soi Baukhaw, two ladies B500, ended up paying B2500 was fun. One bar B400 for room upstairs but B2000 before midnight, B1000 after midnight to leave bar. Went to Soi Baukhaw, six, seven, Thai Friendly and Myth night. Many attractive ladies around. Many only want ST. But I'm fine with that.

  • @Sakurabreeze4
    @Sakurabreeze4 10 місяців тому +27

    You can be a 40 or 45 year old guy and look 10 years younger. That can be a advantage for still getting the younger Thai ladies.

    • @seriousdoubt
      @seriousdoubt 10 місяців тому +18

      Spending a little more money will surely make you look younger in the eyes of any Thai lady

    • @RobFomenko
      @RobFomenko 10 місяців тому +8

      I'm a 65-year-old men and I look 40 to 50 years old. I noticed because I frequently asked all the tigers that I interact with how old they think I am. They usually will say 40, 45 or 50. Once said I know you're retired so you must be in your 60s but you look 50. I did it by going to a barber shop and cutting the beard off and having the eyebrows trimmed.

    • @MrNoobophile
      @MrNoobophile 10 місяців тому +9

      @@RobFomenko your age is directly proportional to how "good" your heart is.

    • @Sakurabreeze4
      @Sakurabreeze4 10 місяців тому +1

      @@seriousdoubt definitely would after a few lady drinks.

    • @jsgdk
      @jsgdk 10 місяців тому +7

      I am nearing 50 and some people think I am in my mid-late 30s on a good day, I do put in ALOT of work, much more than I needed as a younger guy, and I stopped smoking and drinking 20 years ago.
      Mindset/demeneor is also underrated.

  • @larrylhughesjr9280
    @larrylhughesjr9280 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks For Great Info I Hope You are Well..

  • @steverowntree5815
    @steverowntree5815 10 місяців тому +2

    Glad to hear you are sounding better Daz. You sounded a bit raspy on you’re last video.🤒

  • @gobfranklin6759
    @gobfranklin6759 10 місяців тому +2

    Great content Daz. :)

  • @michaellamond9664
    @michaellamond9664 10 місяців тому +2

    what is the name of the other channel you talk about? Patreon?

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому

      The link is below the video, click " more " scroll down and click Patreon

  • @Donvonn71
    @Donvonn71 10 місяців тому +4

    O Daz I made a fool of myself… I watched your videos I listened and I learnt… but I still made the mistake…. my first time in Thailand was last year this time last year and what I thought was, I met a nice girl boy was I wrong!!! Let’s being met her last February was blown away by how good her English was and the way she treated me And I had some good time with her. She showed me all over Pattaya all the places I wanted to see from watching your videos….rite let’s start as you said before when you leave Pattaya and go back to your home country all you will want to do is work save some money and forget all your friends so true that is I didn’t even want to buy a pint beer in my own country of Ireland 😂😂…so met the girl & I just couldn’t get back to her quick enough so booked another holiday for June last for 18 days all the loving again & when I left after that I was booked again to be back at September but September never happened I couldn’t make it…so here I am again back for the month of February back in the arms of my love so I thought 😡😡…out having the fun on the town of Pattaya for a blast with her…paying for everything beers…breakfast lunch evening meals given her some money for herself we all know how it’s works… forgot to mention up to her home village Had a few nights up there another blast …. Bear in mind, I came to see her for a month😡😡…then she tells me that she has to go away 16th of February until the 2nd of march 😡😡..I questioned it what’s going on here…rite some Australian dude 62 of age….she is 36 I’m a fit 40 year old 29 to 30 inch waist line with abs showing doing the gym for the last 20 plus years💪💪…& then she leaves me for a guy that is 22 year older than me & here I am writing this text to you in my hotel bedroom on my own… O man this is a joke…looks like this Australian dude was given her some money for the last few months as we were texting & ringing each other every day when I was back at home…yes she did ask me for some money but I stopped it at 300 euros…I just couldn’t let my self fall into the money trap…& this 62 year old dude she told me he was retired so therefore he has a pension and probably a payment settlement from his previous job for being such a good worker whatever he worked at…this man is going to get spit roasted by her ….she leaves a fit 40 year man for 62 year man that’s 22 years older than me…I do have money I’m doing ok in my financial side but I didn’t tell her…so it’s all about the money god help that man she is going to see I’ll say a prayer for him and his financial side & I hope he is not soft in the head…. and when she walked out of my hotel room door yesterday I said to myself, I’m done with you… be strong there is 5 million other women in Thailand…

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому +1

      Thank for your story, I hope all the guys reading will learn.

    • @Donvonn71
      @Donvonn71 10 місяців тому

      @@everythingPattaya thanks for your reply Daz…and that’s the truth Daz it’s not a made up story…fuck me pink & beat me black & blue …we’ll I’m off out to met another lady now tonight…2nd road she is a new girl in the bar…let’s see how this plays out..😋😋💪💪😎😎

  • @bigj6143
    @bigj6143 10 місяців тому +3

    The part of all this you have to remember is if you are a young, middle age, or even older man, value yourself first. That doesn't mean be conceited or rude, but you yourself have alot to offer that is much more important than intimacy for a price. If you are honest, respectful, and trustworthy, say so and act so. If you are nothing more than a potential business transaction for a ST or sex encounter never be afraid to walk away. Companionship can be a gift that keeps on giving to each other. Not some quickie in a room someplace. You can even give yourself a quickie if you want it that bad. Feels the same and is certainly without a doubt much cheaper. Their problems are not your problems at least not in the early getting to know each other dating stage. Helping someone and being appreciated is so rewarding. Getting used may not be so obvious at first but it eventually shows. It is all in how you really value yourself. Older vs. Younger, more experience plus knowing that, well, honestly, for either of you, how many opportunities in this life will there be? Pretty girls all over the place but you cannot be with all of them. Pretty doesn't always mean good either. Not so good looking doesn't necessarily mean bad either. Taking an older average looking, maybe heavy, or very thin, lady out to dinner, treating her well, those types are more inclined to be appreciative and remember it fondly. Cutey pie girls probably get dozens of the same offers so it might not be as important to them, especially if you don't look like Elvis yourself. Sorry, just some thoughts. Hard to walk away but value yourself, you've earned it.

    • @KangofNomadicTravels
      @KangofNomadicTravels 10 місяців тому +1

      Relevant!!! SALUTE to you. What I tell guys everytime.

  • @Gecko2332
    @Gecko2332 10 місяців тому +2

    Great Video thx... keep on going

  • @RobFomenko
    @RobFomenko 10 місяців тому +4

    I'm heading to Pattaya tomorrow. Currently I'm in Sam Roi Yot. But there's not much to do here. And after a few days I'm going to head back to Bangkok where I met 3 Thai ladies at their bar. Two of them are 30 years old while the other one is 40. They are not 9's to 10s but I really liked hanging out with them. They bought me my drinks and I bought them theirs. Had a fantastic time and can't wait to get back. And one of the 30 year old girls look 20. I had a really good time talking with them about more than just bar stuff and since it was slow in that corner that night they were happy to oblige me. Once a guy came and sat down and right away all three of them went over to him and afterwards I gave them a hard time about it and they all laughed. Of course I was just joking with them because I understand it's just business. But I can't wait to go back.
    I've also been speaking to a lot of Thai ladies on Thai friendly. Many of these women have bachelors in masters degrees. But what I would think of as a middle-aged beautiful lady they think of themselves as old.
    Since I'm trying to move here I really wouldn't mind finding a couple ladies that I can have some fun with.
    But I think I must never forget the fact that it really is a business here.
    Oh and by the way I do appreciate your advice. When I walked into the bar they wanted me to buy them all Lady drinks... And I remembered your video saying about that and I told him no I'll buy one or none. They backed off after that for a little while and then I bought them all a drink. So yeah I appreciate your advice on Thailand it served me well.

  • @martinjames9250
    @martinjames9250 Місяць тому +1

    "...... because they take too long." Hilarious! You speak the truth Daz. As always.

  • @kimtausen1020
    @kimtausen1020 10 місяців тому +3

    Hehe😂. I really love you Daz.... U always nail it 👍👍🙏

  • @JoyCircuit01
    @JoyCircuit01 10 місяців тому +1

    Daz you are a proper legend mate ..love all your videos .. :D :D

  • @danfreisting2874
    @danfreisting2874 10 місяців тому +2

    Great stories

  • @Crushonius
    @Crushonius 10 місяців тому +6

    this is already starting to change back since less customers come to thailand
    i think before 2030 they will be back on their best behavior .
    they mostly go with young guys because they are easier to drain of their money .
    but that money is drying up as we speak the inflation in the west is really doing a number
    and thailand as a whole will feel that immensely

    • @Crushonius
      @Crushonius 10 місяців тому +5

      to clarify i have heard from so many that used to love thailand as a whole
      but pattaya in particular that they are not going back until the attitude of the girls changes back
      the arrogant drink queens have destroyed the atmosphere for the most part
      and people are sick of it .
      the free market always wins and since they will have to compete for the first time in decades
      the attitude will revert back soon enough .
      they are reaping the benefits for now with the higher wages but when tourists stay away
      no more pay , attitudes will change rapidly

  • @WW-to5rc
    @WW-to5rc 10 місяців тому +8

    As a young guy, take out the older girls 30-35 once in a while, they have interesting stories to tell and are very happy to show their friends that they still can get young guys.

    • @ScooterOnHisWay2024
      @ScooterOnHisWay2024 10 місяців тому +4

      And they 'work harder' f if you know what I mean.

    • @WW-to5rc
      @WW-to5rc 10 місяців тому

      @ScooterOnHisWay2024 they want to lock you in as a regular customer, and it works.

    • @ma3stro681
      @ma3stro681 10 місяців тому

      They’re better in the sack, too … 🎉

    • @KangofNomadicTravels
      @KangofNomadicTravels 10 місяців тому +1

      I agree. Some you could literally get "sprung" on if you find out they have some tricks up their sleeve. It will leave you embarrassed

  • @user-oi9to7ux7k
    @user-oi9to7ux7k 10 місяців тому +1

    Central Marina has a wonderful night market out the front in the evening. Lots of mobile vendors selling street food from stands and vans.

  • @clrodrick
    @clrodrick 10 місяців тому +10

    Always like your videos with the 'boots on the ground' perspective. My experience differs a bit though as I just recently got back and can say I had zero young ladies in agogos say no to me when I inquired about barfine. I'm a guy in good shape in early 50s but look 5-10 years younger than my age so perhaps that partially explains it. The only one I actually ended up barfining had no issues at all going to club Lucifer with me and having a few drinks and dancing for a while. I'm each lady is different and maybe plenty are more reticent to be seen with a very out of shape guy looking his (old) age?
    Agree with the gent's clubs though, I had never been in any until this last trip and yeah some good looking slightly older ladies that really wanted to be in my company and lavished way more attention on me than any of the agogo girls.

    • @KangofNomadicTravels
      @KangofNomadicTravels 10 місяців тому

      which gents club did you visit on your last visit?

    • @clrodrick
      @clrodrick 10 місяців тому

      Quite a few! I did a few (gents) club crawls which visit 5 gents clubs over 5-6 hours so hit up a lot around Soi Buakhao area and also quite a few in Pratumnak/Jomtien like Cobra, Cozy Beach, Paradise, and at least one more I forget the name. I actually recommend doing one of the (gents) bar crawls as you meet a lot of other travelers plus each club knows there is a group coming so makes sure they are fully staffed that afternoon/evening. Going on other days can be hit or miss I guess. @@KangofNomadicTravels

  • @PREPFORIT
    @PREPFORIT 10 місяців тому +3

    Interesting history Daz. Thanks.

  • @dennynisevic7848
    @dennynisevic7848 10 місяців тому +1

    Good video, cheers from Serbian fan.

  • @Steven-t9s
    @Steven-t9s 10 місяців тому +3

    Daz,you have an amazing insight into the Thai ladies phsyci.

  • @chevallaz1583
    @chevallaz1583 10 місяців тому +5

    I guess I am not old enough then. Financial secure, no butterfly, went several times to Isaan, taken care about family and friends and still she wants to go with customers. Glad I figured it out before I married her and now she blames me 😄
    The logical thinking of some (or many) Thais is on a high end level.

  • @alannevard6993
    @alannevard6993 10 місяців тому +4

    Loved a soapy in Sabai dee not cheap but for anyone who has not had a soapy you have to do it a least once!!

    • @KangofNomadicTravels
      @KangofNomadicTravels 10 місяців тому +1

      most guys don't have the scratch, mate. I know I went back in the day it was enough to cause one to shake their head to imagine the CBA and ROI

  • @1990-t1j
    @1990-t1j 10 місяців тому +1

    Entertaining, as ever, Daz. And very true. Newbies will still make all the mistakes, though. Everyone does. N

  • @BornSurvivor-xs7ee
    @BornSurvivor-xs7ee 10 місяців тому +5

    I had a similar thing with one of your stories
    Couple years ago I was listing over a burger bar girl then suddenly she vanished
    Few weeks later I saw her in a gents club and bought her also a drink
    Room fine was 400.
    Only in pattaya this can happen

  • @davidwright2706
    @davidwright2706 10 місяців тому +3

    I think most girls in the 18 to 25 age range are looking to have fun and not for anything long term. But their young partners generally don't have very deep pockets. Those thirty and over want more financial stability which they won't find with younger guys as it takes time to build wealth. But if find the right lady and you check all her boxes don't be surprised to see all her younger guys only rules go right out the window.

  • @ScooterOnHisWay2024
    @ScooterOnHisWay2024 10 місяців тому +2

    "Everything comes to he who waits." Amen brother, amen.

  • @moonflow5133
    @moonflow5133 10 місяців тому +2

    Great advice!

  • @maureenlovesskz
    @maureenlovesskz 2 місяці тому +1

    My uncle met a Thai girl online, he went there a few times. Sometimes that girl didn’t even replied to his messages. She still lives with her family, her dad has cancer and she works in a hospital. My uncle gave much money already for apparently their home. They are like 1 year or something together and their are going to marry soon. My family think that this is a scam.

  • @Oman90012
    @Oman90012 10 місяців тому +2

    I have tried both, the ones in their 20s and the above 30s too, and my preference quite frankly is the later ones due to their maturity nature and stability in handling an older customer like me. In the end, it boils down merely to what makes you happy and what quality time you expect to receive. In other words, the younger ones are not necessarily a jackpot and after all, it is still a transactional trade. Hence, don't let the age factor worry you. You and your money will always be in control based on your style and choices on how you wish to enjoy.

  • @snipe1156
    @snipe1156 10 місяців тому +1

    Here with ya Daz

  • @bootney66
    @bootney66 10 місяців тому +22

    Older guys don’t take too long, they just want to get their money’s worth 😀

    • @KangofNomadicTravels
      @KangofNomadicTravels 10 місяців тому +1

      Correct but now we are in a HYPER HYPERGAMOUS era my good sir. It's the reason ST is more favoured by the girls versus the LT(not to say there isn't those situations) but it's changing to an "in and out" dynamic that is becoming very familiar if you pay attention to trends and fads like Daz mentioned in the video about the advent of the SMARTPHONE which changed all of this for everyone.

  • @postbro1
    @postbro1 10 місяців тому +13

    Three things:
    1) Daz is a straight up rabbi, guru, professor, or whatever you want to call him. He knows the Thailand & Pattaya game inside out, and you better listen to him.
    2) "Half your age plus 7." That should be your rule about involvement with a woman, no matter where you are in the world. If your 55, your lower bound should be 34-35. Even if Thai girls start to think they're old, don't gas yourself into thinking how a 30 year old is into you like that.
    3) This is an important one: DON'T. BRING. YOUR. HEART. TO. PATTAYA. If you don't live there, the chances of getting played are extremely high. Now, if you don't care what happens while you are away, get down. But if do, save yourself the heartache by not even getting involved on an emotional basis until you actually live there.

    • @michaelkingy355
      @michaelkingy355 10 місяців тому +1

      I've got a long distance Thai gf 😅 and she in isan at the moment but keeps asking to work in Pattaya not sure what to do? Not 100% sure if she genuinely? I think she is but I have my doubts now and again

    • @postbro1
      @postbro1 10 місяців тому +1

      @michaelkingy355 It isn't impossible to find a true situation, but it's a real gamble when you're so far away, and the game is what it is in Thailand. I wish you the best of luck though!

  • @drewcorry5056
    @drewcorry5056 10 місяців тому +8

    1 Word Outstanding

  • @Red-5716
    @Red-5716 10 місяців тому +6

    You are correct, I have been unsubscribed from your channel and others in Pattaya repeatedly. Your channel it has happened 4 times in the last two weeks. Eventually, it will hurt YT because folks are moving to other platforms to publish their content.

  • @nunuvyurbiz123
    @nunuvyurbiz123 10 місяців тому +8

    Well I'm 55 now, and disappointing to learn my options are diminishing. Sigh.

    • @CAHSR2020
      @CAHSR2020 10 місяців тому +3

      You can still get with younger women, you just have to pay more and do things in private. They wont be going out with you in public but honestly that's not the loss it may seem at first.

    • @SuperheroArmorychannel
      @SuperheroArmorychannel 10 місяців тому +4

      If you take care of your body, stay fit, healthy and dress well then it’s still possible to get young girls. Most guys don’t bother with health or fitness here.

    • @SuperheroArmorychannel
      @SuperheroArmorychannel 10 місяців тому

      @@SunMoonNights most human females over 30-35 tend to be more difficult than young ones.

  • @137dylan
    @137dylan 10 місяців тому +1

    How comes you don't have the music anymore at the start?

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому +1

      Because YT said it is copyrighted, after 3 years, crazy

    • @137dylan
      @137dylan 10 місяців тому +1

      @@everythingPattaya It’s not the same as it used to be. So many people are ‘shadow banned’ now. Your genre and crypto etc. are blatantly being suppressed even if someone’s subscribed and watches that content. There’s channels I sub to whose new videos won’t even appear on my home page

  • @nigelcooke6391
    @nigelcooke6391 10 місяців тому +1

    I exchanged contact details with a girl spent time with on my last visit,when i returned home she started sending miss you messages ans photos and wait for you to return in April, I blocked her

  • @yarmuhammadkhoso2618
    @yarmuhammadkhoso2618 4 місяці тому +1

    Amazing! What about for a man of above 50 years ?

  • @asiatravels007
    @asiatravels007 10 місяців тому +2

    Whats happened to your little jingle at the start of each video? I miss it, you start talking before the video starts now and it looks odd. 🤔😕

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому +1

      Because YT said it is copyrighted, after 3 years, crazy

  • @roberthuff3122
    @roberthuff3122 10 місяців тому +1

    Always entertaining having a dissociative personality commenting on the nuances of human relationships.

  • @lwayne-z3w
    @lwayne-z3w 10 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for your video, advice on Thai girls and also showing the insides of Central Marina Mall. Wasn't even thinking about visiting there but now it's definitely worth a visit.
    Anyway, regarding older guys with young girls, my opinion is that girls, anywhere in the world, grow up imagining the young handsome prince sweeping them off their feet, not an old man providing money. Western girls pictured a young handsome western dude and Asian girls pictured being with a young Asian guy. This based on all the TV, store ads etc. they grew up with.
    Many Asian girls will probably tolerate the older guy but inside will long for the young guy, thus the popularity of host clubs in Asian countries. These girls will act like the older guys chasing them, by dishing out money, cash, cars, clothes and jewelry to the young guys they chase like in your story. If you're the older guy and your young girl is buying your meals, your luxury brand clothes, expensive shoes, jewelry, high end watches and at least a new model SUV, then you're lucky.

  • @paulausten9279
    @paulausten9279 10 місяців тому +3

    Your spot on

  • @roywilliamson88
    @roywilliamson88 10 місяців тому +2

    stories are my favorite thing.

  • @wilsong68
    @wilsong68 10 місяців тому +2

    My wife came to Pattaya looking for a mature farang because all her Thai boyfriends had butterflied her. She reasoned an older farang was more likely to be faithful. We're having our 10th wedding anniversary next week. I'm 22 years older than her. She was 29 when we met.

  • @severe79
    @severe79 10 місяців тому +1

    I just came home from Thailand yesterday, been in Pattaya for a month, and dated a great lady, little younger around my age 44 years old. She was great, showed me around and never ask about money and even paid for little this and that. My initial thought is that she is different from other thai girls, we hold hands and showed affection in public. We had a great time for 2 weeks and she also followed me to Bangkok for my 4 last days in Thailand. She didnt want to follow me to the airport because she didnt want the agony to see me leave, but the day before she altered her plans and followed me and took the train back to her home outside Bangkok. I like her very much and I want to believe she likes me too, we have still contact, but now she is asking about money to pay her bank.... I have read about red signs about thaigirls and money. I havent given her anything, explaining i have my apartment/ interest that i have to pay to the bank also.
    I still dont know if its still about "love" from her side or is it just money...

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому +5

      Watch the video about a month ago, about Thai girls playing the LONG GAME

    • @severe79
      @severe79 10 місяців тому

      @@everythingPattaya yes

  • @wontbelongnow5567
    @wontbelongnow5567 10 місяців тому +2

    I hope someone learns from your experiences because most won't , because you have to let them learn from their own mistakes.

  • @6669-k2f
    @6669-k2f 10 місяців тому +1

    Here is another example (10.40 pm in Pattaya) , tonight I was sneakers shopping @ Central, I didn't notice a single old guy in any of shops (like big Adidas on L3) ,Puma,Scatchers,...................& it was only 8pm ,this tells U a lot about Pattaya meat market .................

    • @everythingPattaya
      @everythingPattaya  10 місяців тому

      Correct, expats don't go shopping at 10.40 pm

    • @6669-k2f
      @6669-k2f 10 місяців тому

      I was posting @ 10.40pm & shopping @ 8 pm !.@@everythingPattaya