I Found the Perfect Thai Woman but then it went Sideways & I don't know why ? 🇹🇭
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- I Found the Perfect Thai Woman but then it went Sideways & I don't know why ? 🇹🇭
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Dan’s stories should replace the inflight safety videos for all single male travellers to Thailand
55555 🤗🤗🤗
But I think is not interes of Thai aircompanies to show in the screen the bad experience in Thailand
Couldn't agree more! 👍
☝️☝️☝️😂😂😂 absolutely!
Love it, genius 😂
Older guy my partner worked with bought his much younger Thai wife back to Australia. He met her in a brothel apparently - not that anyone knew that at the time. Not only was she an absolutely atrocious gambler but was seeing several men behind his back. She and her fellow Thai girlfriends used to get together to gamble at cards all day and every single one of them had a much younger side piece. Have your fun gentlemen but don’t ever believe it’s true love.
8:24 why are women always expected to be selfless? ridiculous.
As an Asian woman. I really don’t understand why men thinks if their partner never had any argument with him is a good thing. You need to ask yourself why?
1. She wants to please you
2. She is using a long line to catch a big fish
3. She has no more than 3 brain cells 😂
My family is not rich !! When I marry my husband (British), my parents didn’t ask for dowry or build them a house. I gave my parents allowance before I met my husband and they know I will continue to give them allowance after we got married. I love my husband and I wouldn’t let my parents take him to the cleaners.
Depends on the argument when it's just nonsense shouting and accusing then I also assume the woman has no more than 3 brain cells. My arguments are in general more of discussions and working out solutions after understanding each other. I would not call this arguments. So for me arguments are always a bad thing and after a stupid argument without an immidiate apologize within some days I consider the relationship dead and move on. I was married to a woman who was up for a fight at all times and it was hell. I had enough of this bs for my whole life already.
@@frankindabank I was referring constructive arguments. Your ex wife sounds irrational to me , maybe psychological issues ?
Ur a keeper 😊
@@busybee5156 Yes psychological issues for sure. But I had no escape route, I had a daughter to protect so I couldn't just run away. So I got some psychological issues too I think. Now I found another Vietnamese woman (despite I never ever wanted to date a Vietnamese again) who is so caring and kind it's unbelievable. She also sacrificed for her family, she is a divorced single mom and has a horrible job. I will try again with her and move to Vietnam with her I guess. Seems she is my soulmate.
@@frankindabank That’s good to hear about your new relationship with a nice Vietnamese woman. Good luck to everything 🤞
First red flag - woman from Isaan.
Here's my take: she already has a sponsor or two or more. She only hung around with you coz she was bored. She enjoyed the good life and food on your dime. Left early every morning to chat with sponsor and other prospects. Sponsor now coming to Thailand so she cut you off; no use wasting time on you any more.
No matter how smart you think you are, these women are 10 steps ahead. Ruthless & cold.
Suggest you get the PI report for your own sanity. I'm sure it will be an eye opener.
2nd red flag = boob job
What does a PI report stand for and how do I go about doing this on my gf?
Good solid analysis there. Private Investigator
@@DJ33970 is she a thai?
@D33970 private investigator. A private detective essentially who will even spy on her to find out what other wang she's blowing when she's told you she's at "work".
"This seems unlikely becasue she spent all her free time with me"
Never underestimate a womans time managment skills and resources in order to replace you.
In the UK I used to pay for a girl's cab home found out she was going to another lads house and he was having sloppy seconds women are devious creatures
Oh yes, we met a bar girl in a Patpong gogo bar whose falang boyfriend believes she is a nurse working backshift and nightshifts in the hospital! My mate bar fined her for a 2,500 Baht short time. She makes a lot more money than any nurse!
I would rather live a simple life, stay busy, stack my cash, go to gent clubs every once and a while, and travel.
I need the love
So true...agree with you...live life. No wife ..certainetly not a thai
@@nightravenonline 👍
That can be a great life until you hit your 70s and your health starts to fail and, you have no wife, no kids that care about you and you live your least few years utterly alone possibly in an assisted care place with nothing to show for it as if you never existed.
@@spartanx169x you are out here dropping knowledge on these young fools and I appreciate that thank you my friend
The game is ruthless 😅 and Thai girls are super good players
Yep that’s true. She was looking more for security than a good time and this man he did not provide the security only the good time.
The irony is rich, he claims the women he dates need to bring something to the table other than sex and he lives in Pattaya. Tell me, has anyone here ever had an intellectually stimulating conversation with a Thai woman living in Pattaya, or for that matter any Thai woman? LOL
With that said, I agree with Dan.
There is only 1% of Thai women will go with foreigners, these women are businesswomen looking to make quick money from foreign men, those Thai women who can hold a stimulating conversation go with Thai men. Being with a foreigner is doesn't look good on a Thai women, so there is only a certain women go with a foreigner, many foreigners don't get this, because they are looking for LOVE and just want to empty their balls.
I've had a lot of intellectually stimulating conversations with Thai girls across Thailand, including Pattaya. Not sure what you class as intellectually stimulating but Thai have a lot of wise ways and a lot of interesting things to say if you listen. Some women can be a bit dull but no different to the west.
Nope Never their tiny brains 🧠 are not capable
@@Paul_in_ThailandYour standards must be very very low 😂😂😂
@@neilyounan3241or your arrogant and just a boom boom tourist who hasn't taken the time to get to know them on a human level and speak to them in Thai? 😂😂😂
Dan, I always look forward to your videos. The last one was the deepest horror story I have ever heard. Poor Mark.....I feel for him so much.
Thank you and yes Marks story was very sad, just hope he and his son do ok in the future 🙏
Indeed horrible story...(and I believe it's true) these girls are capable of really crazy things.
Especially the part she got pregnant for 3th time by a neighbor 😢 holy s. That's crazy
Thai women 😂😂😂 women 😂😂😂 the thing is that men are apples and women are oranges. There's your answer. It's pretty simple. Why make it confusing? Ask yourself why you want the woman, and be honest about it. Remember, same culture relationship is difficult, multiply that by a factor of X for cross cultural relationships. It becomes pretty obvious to see the chance of failure is exponentially higher. I don't understand what all these men don't understand? Are they all dumb. I understand how a beautiful woman can make you feel, but it is your emotion, your choice, your reality. What do we need him to help him understand? If it was a train wreck, or just a car crash? It was a car crash.....and you were driving....😂😂😂😂❤
She wanted a salary...I have just been through the exact same thing. Your correct.
Salary. idk if that word is commonly used like that outside the USA. In USA, it denotes money paid an employee, usually fixed (the other is wage, as in $10/ hour for example)
In USA, we use allowance, stipend, or even allotment.
[im mentioning this b/c the person doing the video is saying salary too.]
Dan, you started this video with a pretty good salute.
She probably thought she could change his mind about getting money. After 6 months she knew that she couldn't change him and gave up. She's probably looking for another victim. He's better off. Ladies playing the long game can keep up the charade a few months but sooner or later her true colors come out. Sorry mate....I had a lady feed me the same story who worked at the Dragon restaurant on Pratumnak 5. I wonder if it's the same one. Sounds eerily similar. Never took her out but we talked a lot when I used to eat there frequently. 😮 I figured out what her game was and I wasn't interested in playing it 😅
She would've been under pressure to 'turn the trick' --get the money from this guy or move to another! Families in debt everywhere here, gambling is not the answer but they all do it! Deep seated boyfriend or husband? They nearly all have one! The dark secrets you learn when its TOO LATE!
@@senianns9522100% SPOT ON!!!!!
Fake boobs - a HUGE red flag in southeast asia. Taking time alone is another one... So many other red flags there. Surprisingly, the guy still does not get it at 56. 🙄
Correct! It is easier when we have lived her for some years. When friends visit from my homecountry, I can again se this naiv trust and believe in everything a thai woman tells them! I have been there too...but not any more!
He got off cheap. What is he crying about? He should consider himself one lucky guy.
He clearly doesn't get that she wanted more than he could/would give. He had no intentions of marriage. Which a lot of guys say, but will come around for the right/wrong woman. He did not. She came to that realization and did what she did.
Your analysis is 100% correct
Excellent work Dan..
This was a great great episode. Thank you Dan
She probably found a guy who's 1) older 2) more gullible 3) more generous 4) a combination of the above and decided to abruptly jump ship. If it doesn't work out with the new guy she'll come back to you, crying and crawling. Mind you, it won't be tears of guilt for having caused you pain. No, these will be tears of regret because the big plan didn't pan out.
Solid tale. Thank you
She found a better offer, from someone else, simple !
Great analysis, Dan, as always. Interesting point about the travel. It's nice and fun, but does nothing for her future. Those trips were about the subscriber having his fun with her. He's not future thinking and she is. Then he wonders why she moved on.
Man you are killing me. Cannot get enough oxygen with so much laughing. "Her brother helped her with a boob job😅😅😅"
Here's my take for what it's worth. Like other mature Thai ladies she is extremely jealous over her farang lover and any little thing will set them off in the wrong direction. I had a gal claim I was cheating when she found long black hair in my personal hair brush. The truth was it was her hair. Six months.... these gals want to marry after three months. Bless her heart she made it to six but she realizes you were not going to marry any time soon and high season was just around the corner so a new crop of newbies would be arriving soon for her to choose from. Someone who's not already set in his ways and easy to manipulate unlike you. Lastly but not the least of them, I think these gals get bored easily and once the honeymoon phase is over they tend to look elsewhere for that adrenalin rush they have accustom themselves to.
Lol he said they listened to Dan's channel often. The guy must know she's going to listen to this and that's why he dropped the bits in the story that she would have gotten all his money after he died had they stayed together. Subtle and sneaky way of getting revenge in my opinion.
Exactly! That's my passive aggressive way to say FU!😂
I really do wish that some of the "passport bro" channels could direct viewers here. The delusion that all Thai women are "traditional" and perfect in every way is widely promoted.
Password Bros are just a show on here to make $$$. It's Total bs if you ask me. Obviously they don't know the score in Asia and are frauds.
Passport brosnis B.S. salesmanship for views to make money . Woman same around the world in 2023 and beyond. All these asia girls only care about money and thier family not you . Been all over southeast asia for the last decade living here and all the relationships take the same pattern amd same desire from these girls .
DELUSIONS Indeed : which thailand was & still is extremely good at
She is seeing someone else. She played the long game and realized you weren’t worth the effort. Simple.
As soon as she mentioned sin sod “Dowry” he should of run a mile. There is no Dowry to pay,she’d been married before so that had already been payed. I found that out to my benefit 15yrs ago from my wife. Asking for a Dowry when you’ve already been married is a total scam. Run man run. 555!
I would tend to agree with you Dan with what you stated at the end of your video. I would say that she may have possibly found someone else from overseas and wanted to end things without losing face herself, which is what we know they hate terribly. If she is as lovely as you state in your story, she may be looking to leave Thailand and your subscriber is saying that he lives in Thailand so, she would never get away from her family and experience the world if she stayed with this guy. I really feel sorry for him as he has invested a long time in this relationship, but as you stated it was in her eyes going nowhere!!
Unfortunately, it usually turns out that there is another guy (on the web?) who offers more in terms of a material future... offers more hope. There is an old saying that '... they don't let go of one branch before they have grasped hold of another'.
I have the same opininon
"I have dated many beautiful women and used to make a lot of money" says every man over 40
Yea I believe less than 8% of the background details. She probably found out the truth.
What he meant to say was banged a lot of beautiful women prostitute because I had a lot of money to blow. LOL. 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good Video Dan 😊.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
You nailed the analysis Dan, however, I think she did find someone that's speaking the "language" she wants to hear 💃
Hi dan, another great content well read story that i listened to every word of it. I was abit baffled at the key card slipped under his door. That was obviously planned. I was waiting for your experience to say what happened then when u said at the end of the story that seemed a perfect conclusion and answer to why she finished with him. Probably she had another online guy lined up ready with more commitment financially as well . Thanks again Dan for a great story 👌👌👌
Dan u set out your opinions giving clarity now i see how she was thinking & it makes sense. Basically she was thinking she is not getting anything tangible in terms of money out of him for her 6 months of sex time & effort & cut her losses Dan i think u r right 👍🏻
Good show Dan. Bummer deal man. Take care and hope William is doing great. As alway's stay cool,kind and generous!
Oh Dan brilliant story
I love you Dan ❤❤❤❤❤ Top videos!
They close the relationship because they understand we are not bringing what they want and at the same time they are chatting with new potential boyfriends online so you been nice and kind doesnt matter to them. They need more so they force to close, make drama, invent excuses saying the hair of a lady in your room is not her, or ways to see how you react.
On to the next one... ❤
Dowry for 41 year old with a kid? They should pay him! 😅
@@newafricanforum Sex is never free. EVER. It's just a matter of cost and how its paid.
Salute with the right hand.
Dan when you do a catch up story can you put a link to the original story
Cheers
Hi i enjoy watching your channel thanks for a great channel
If her brother is a doctor..why is she the primary caregiver..?
Also ,That's what i was thinking ?
When dealing with any of these freelancers the first thing you must say for them before they speak is, once upon a time…
And you absolutely know they’re lying if their lips are moving!
Her brother is the primary care giver
The Dr brother is paying off all of his student debts
@@L-NinoUnless they do not do a BJ...555
My guess is that before she met him she had another man living o/s that visited her once a year but she did truly love this guy and went every where with him. She was going to marry the o/s guy who probably had money and was due in Thailand in the near future. This caused her a problem because Thai girls think about their future when they get old and because this guy didn't spell out what happens to her if he dies she went with the bird in her hand. A similar story as what happened to me but that is another story. You see money is God in this country and a girl will choose money over love every time.
I'd never have told her she'd get everything if I died after a year like he planned to - that's how "accidents" happen.
She's monkey branching. All the girls do it.
@@davidgoodliff4486 Well Said. Especially In & For Thailand : Western Men having 'a/any thai beneficiary' = 'Western Men & The Pattaya Plunge' AKA "THE BALCONY DID IT?", etc.,
"a girl will choose money over love every time." Thats not just Thailand thats 95% of women around the world.
They're all different until they're not. The few good relationships I know about between Thai woman, and western men are not between bar girl and farang. But two people who met organically with the right values from the get go. I heard more positive things about Vietnamese women.
All these SEA cultures have more enmeshed families than Western families. Learn what that is and be very careful what it means for you.
Hi Dan I recon she just got fed up with him planting the object so she had a reason to end it. he was not providing a salary maybe she did not have another guy and wanted to move on
Dan seriously mate - how do you keep a straight face ? 😂😂 friggin hilarious stuff some of these
Love this stuff
True Dan. There will be a financial aspect to all relationships. Even with genuine, decent Thai girls, the same rule applies as it does to bargirls. NO MONEY - NO HONEY
"Finding the perfect Thai woman is like finding the perfect parking spot - elusive, full of surprises, and sometimes you end up with a ticket."
I totally agree with what you said
I am married to a genuine honest Thai girl but wish I could turn the clock back.😊
Dan, the little video snippets inserted into your main videos are great.
MAN I LOVE THIS CHANNEL. i always lol....
I think this guy was ok and glad he didn't pay her pocket money. Bravo!!!
I suggest this American does his “fishing” on dating sites in America. Plenty of well educated women who were once married, with grown up adult kids who are looking for a sensible mature man to do things with.
Yea, lets go and simp for the land whales..
I think the brother is really the husband.
Indeed
Agreed
Me to but she invited me on a trip with him
That'd be fucked up😂
@@scottnewton3089it happens
@@scottnewton3089I know a man would let his wife to sleep with others, as long as he can peek from the window 😂
Every guy starts the story with how great and knowable he is.. how fit and rich… then gets scammed 🤣
She is obviously playing the game that he will call her and beg to take her back. It’s all about leverage with women
Always makes me laugh 😂
Hi Team, I believe that Dan hit the nail on the head with this one. The lady though appearing perfect had her secret long term objective of marriage and security. Ultimately when she felt it was going to happen she abruptly cut her losses and moved on.
I got married when I was 24 and my wife was 20. In fact, those were pretty normal ages to get married back then. And we didn’t act like total idiots, so I wouldn’t cut them any slack because of their youth. They’re adults.
She probably has some interest from someone else to end things so abruptly but the main problem is her feeling undervalued according to how a lot of Thai women view relationships. You made it clear you wouldn’t pay a salary and whether or not she would be entitled to a dowry under Thai tradition you also made it clear you wouldn’t be paying one. A few trips away and good company just don’t cut it in the end when she’s looking for an easier life. Doesn’t mean she didn’t have feelings for you but at her age she’s looking for some future security and in her eyes you just weren’t offering any given the above points. In Thailand there’s no such thing as a free lay so either you help out a girl who has mutual feelings for you or spend that same money having fun with bar girls or freelancers. Either way it’s gonna cost you so choose your poison so to speak.
Finally someone who understands the system.
@@shanev011 learnt through bitter experience, took me 12 years to find a decent Thai woman
Just to add, there is no such thing as a "Free lay", period, regardless of nationality, country or ethnicity. There is ALWAYS a cost. In some way, shape or form, there is always a cost.
hit the bid bro, sell, cut your losses and move on. market opens again on Monday.
Hey Dan. Would love to see from these videos the age differences in these stories.
There are a lot of "happy endings" in Thailand but not a lot of happy ending stories. I've seen too many men crash and burn once they got sucked into the honeypot. Women there play games that we are not prepared for.
Dan, I understand by and large the emphasis on this channel is on opening the unsuspecting eyes of naive farang to the honey traps that can and do await them with the well-experienced Thai women. However, I’m also aware of some of the Thai women’s and bar girl’s experiences with farang men that are downright unspeakable. I was in a casual conversation with a bar girl once, and I looked down at her upper thighs and saw bite marks all over them. When I asked her what happened, her only reply was “customer”. I’ve also heard first-hand stories of short-time transactions turning into a two or more day kidnappings against their will that became terrifying ordeals.
Thailand attracts some of the most perverted and despicable men on the planet. They come to places like Bangkok and Pattaya with the sole intent of physically and sexually abusing girls. I would bet very good money that ALL female sex workers have had at least one bone chilling non-consensual experience with some sicko farang who’s there to act out a lifetime of sexual hostility on an unsuspecting girl once he gets her alone.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m a huge supporter of consenting adult sexual transactions. I truly believe that if prostitution was legal all around the world, the world would be a better place. However, when some sicko perv thinks he just bought complete ownership of a girl and is free to ignore the limitations of what’s consensual, it’s serious abuse and can scar a young person for a lifetime. Not to mention create cultural stereotypes about certain types of farang. You don’t hear a lot about it, but it happens more than we’d care to believe. I’d love to hear this “other side of the story” at some point in your videos. These young girls’ experiences deserve to see the light of day every once in a while too.
I’ve been here 37 years and I’ve known of a few documented cases where Falang serial killers have passed through Thailand. But as far as bar girls being “kidnapped” on the regular, that’s just breathtakingly unlikely. These hard-core bar girls aren’t these delicate flowers you seem to think they are? They are some hard people. Good luck to the man who would ever try to kidnap one of these girls. He’d be the one being kidnapped! And at the end of the day would be PAYING a healthy Ransom in order to leave the situation and this country. As far as physical evidence, like bite marks? Yes, that’s possible? but again at a price I’ve seen girls tattoo their faces with some Assholes name because he had given her 5,000฿ any damage done usually comes at an agreed price. Are there some unsavory men that come to Thailand? Yes! Most. But the true villains in most of these stories are the girls hillbilly parents and family.
@@L-Nino …Nobody said anything about kidnapping on a “regular” basis as you suggested. But it does and has happened. “Delicate flowers”?? Stop trying to read my mind, you’re not very good at it. You are reading things into what I said that are just not there. In fact, I don’t disagree with you about Thai women in general for the most part and it is not my intention to give them a free pass by any stretch. Most of them have become - or are in the process of becoming - hardened and jaded by their work and the hand they’ve been dealt in life. And yes, far too often this starts with their abusive home families, relatives, and environment.
It is simply my suggestion that every now and then Dan highlight the flip side of the coin and acknowledge that it does take two to tango. However small in numbers they may be, these disrespectful and deranged sickos exist. And they make it more difficult on all of us.
I've just got my violin out.
These girl are utterly ruthless and will turn over any guy they can.
99% are inked up thick as $hit garbage who's greed is off the scale. The good bit is they pi$$ all the money away and end up with nothing.
Especially In & For Thailand : Western Men having 'a/any thai beneficiary' = 'Western Men & The Pattaya Plunge' AKA "THE BALCONY DID IT?", etc.,
It’s important to point out that a dowry is a cultural thing in Thailand. This is not a red flag. Requesting sponsorship however is a red flag. Never send money to anyone abroad.
Yep, had a chick ask me for a Gucci bag to be "the holiday girlfriend." It sounded silly to me.
Impossible to know. Women will have a change of heart for many reasons. A Thai woman I chatted with once told me I wasn’t sincere. I don’t know why she thought that. I think they are hyper sensitive to being cheated on because it’s the norm there.
Wow, 41 years old, gym rat, nice car, but only making 18,000 baht from part-time work? Her whole backstory is probably not entirely true (beside the son, did this guy even meet the young man?), breast augmentation with a dubious story, then the 180 switchero. If she wanted more, why not express it? Instead, she goes blank, generates a flakey reason to save face and then disappears? Run like hell. Plus, if she is really taking care of a father debilitated by a stroke there is no way she could have been able to spend all that time with this guy,
The best part I love about myself is that I can fall out of love as quick as I can fall in love with someone depending on what she does and how she acts. Glad I haven't gone to Thailand in order not to deal with all the hassle. But if I had, after watching so many videos like this, I'm sure no woman could get me to spend a penny more than what I have planned to spend on them. Good luck to the young and/or lonely blood-boiling gents/teens.
At the end of the day you won't find a decent girl in tourist areas ,these girls are working and will either take your money or your heart ,its going to cost you either way .
I was involved in something very similar until I caught her texting other men then I ended it ....
Stick to the 3 day rule ,...
I've got one playing the long game 555 I like games
You can't turn a pro into a housewife LO. L. What part of that? Don't you understand? LO? L?
Some people never learn.
The captain Jack cutscene was funny. She’s 40+ and assuming he is indeed a good guy and not cheap, there are other fish in the sea. But there’s a good case that this guy wasn’t all that.
Well its clear that he had no intentions of marriage. She eventually came to terms with that and acted accordingly. For most women, marriage is a way of a better life. Heck for most people its a way for a better life if you can both contribute and share the costs of living. But the Risk is real and the costs associated with it going bad are real. In America, the divorce rate has been 50/50 for decades and that is usually when people knew each other very well.
Dan u should charge for your time spent counselling people as a relationship coach i am sure people wont mind & the extra money u deserve it to help provide even more for your son
I’m Totally Shocked 😳
😂😂😂
I think the guys lucky that she left . She did him a huge favor
I need to send dan my story..it's a doozy, but not a thai bar girl. I'm living in thailand currently and have been back and forth for 8 years..
But Dan never explained why this happens? these are not love relationships, these are give and take accounting relationships. We give money and affection, they give kindly and affection too. Never real love
This kind of stuff is. ? I’ll, 6 or 7 years later still am digging to find out the depth to be kind Nationals-inn😊😊 😊
Likely that she found someone else...that's all. As soon as you find another you'll forget all about her...just a fond memory.
Thais are real good at kicking sand in your face… seemingly going along well and really looking after her then “boom” pulls this bullshit “your having a affair save face breakup crap”.
Personally I think she’s doing the …if he really wants me he’ll chase me back. You will ask what’s wrong and she will begin to tell you some hardship story, my family need money crap or some other story requiring money to fix, and make you offer to sound like it’s your idea to help her…and if she’s done the long game well… you’ll pay too.
How much does a PI background check cost?
About $1000 USD
Hi Den, are you fluent in Thai?
It was a lucky escape
Most women see a relationship as a job, especially in Thailand, and eventually expect financial rewards for it. In her eyes he was her manager, and bit her lip the whole time like employees do, which is why there were no arguments. Like men, women don't usually quit their job until they have a better one lined up. The term is monkey branching. Obviously a better offer came in. Their arrangement is 100% over, and it's time to move on. In this case, he got the better end of the deal, and should be totally happy about getting her on the cheap for 6 months. In SE Asia, never make yourself worth more dead than alive by setting up a windfall. If you have no kids, soon it will be possible to set up an AI network as a legal person, the same as a corporation, based on your tastes and preferences, to manage your investments while you are gone. You can instruct your AI self to have your DNA cloned when it is someday possible, if you want another bite at the apple of spreading jeans to spread your genes, this time as a born-again multi-millionaire with the benefit of wise advice from your original self.
Like your aviators Dan ... nice !! Language barrier and cultural difference's make this a challenge. Why are you guy's looking for so much out of these girls? Why not just date? No moving in together, and nothing serious !! As an American woman just sayin...🤷
Well, in a way you answered your own question, if you can see it..
Edit: As a Scandinavian man, just saying..
That's not how Thai women think. We Westerners think sex is an important part of the process of getting to know him/her, but a lot of Thai women expect marriage once you've slept together. Never mind that you barely know each other yet.
There were red flags way before he mentioned the dowry. 1. Smearing the ex..."He was an alcoholic/he beat me/ YOU arent like him!" 2. "She was into fitness too"..mirroring his interests. 3
She was super attentive...mining him for information to enable mirroring
I'm guessing she had worked out he was not going to pay Sin Sod to her family and had found someone else who was accepting of the idea of Sin Sod. I ended a good relationship with a decent woman whose family expected 800000 baht to marry her.
Well Done : Never Ever Execute That 'sin sod' Nonsense
Thank you for the US Veterans Day salute mate 🇺🇸
I had same experience with Italian woman was with her a year and then she went out of the blue.
No salary, so she kept shopping, and she found her salary elsewhere. Until she found someone "better," she hung around and fished about to see what you had, but you kept her in the dark. She found an immediate provider somewhere.
You see, gentlemen, There are a lot of factors to consider when a Farang decides to get into any relationship with a Thai lady. Most notably among them:
1st- Her family always comes first, always.
2nd- Although they may not seem religious to you when you meet them.
They are more religious than you think.
I'm mentioning that because most Thai people feel that Farangs don't really respect their faith or traditions, or should I say, don't think much of it.
For example, they blame farangs for using Buddha faces/ figures as decorations.
Or, like when my ex was offended when I refused to pay her mother a dowery(Sin sod) amount she requested!
Of which, by the way, asked for half a million Bahts! I felt as if I was buying her from her mother.
But that's their tradition. What else can I say?!
That's why most (Not all) Thai ladies don't take farangs seriously.
They go out with foreigners for fun, money, gifts, and free travel to nice places. And will drop without hesitation or guilt for the next farang willing to spend more money on them.
By the way, they have many Thai Facebook groups, where they share tips, advice, personal stories, and even how generous a farang is by their age, country, or profession. I learned that from my ex!
"But that's their tradition. What else can I say?" You could have said. No I'm not paying that. Then tell the potential wife, that she is more than free to send her family HER own money that she can earn with her own job/career as much as long as it does not affect yours and her finances and thats the way its going to be. If she can't accept those terms, then move on. I did that with my one and only Filipina wife. We have been married for17 years. She could leave me tomorrow(she has no interest in doing so), but I could still say it has been a success.
@@spartanx169x That's exactly what I did! Happy for you with your Filipino wife. I guess she was sold on you, not your bank account! I wish you a happy, long life together! 👍
Thanks for the videos, lve been there for a month and what a big game, just confirming what l thought, thai ladies are experts , easy to fall in some moment but for me that lve lived almost all my Life in tourist areas many things were more than obvious and l got robbed by one because she saw l would not pay to be with her
It seems that once any relationship in Thailand or perhaps around the world becomes long term problems occur and both sex as well as overall quality go precipitously downhill. Rarely have I heard a story where a relationship improves with time; unlike Burgundy. Yet people long for it perhaps trying to unconsciously recreate a relationship they had with their mother. So the best answer is to change partners as soon as the relationship goes south and when you get old make sure you have enough money to hire a lady to take care of you and change your diapers and while doing that pay her extra to see if she can wake up the one eyed monster occasionally.
Peace
The last thing I would ever want is a relationship like I have with my mother. What nonsense psychology book did you get that out of. Here is the reality, LOTS of men do come to Thailand looking for something they wanted where they were from but they utterly failed where they were at. Most dated very little got married, got divorced, and now want the sex and attention and get suckered because they never dated enough to learn all the red flags of broken women. I dated over 100 women before ever getting married. I'm still married to my one and only wife. But I dated for over 20 years in my own country. Women are the same everywhere. There are bad ones and good ones and good ones are hard to find and take the most work to find, which most men do not want to do and thus they end up in Asia where its trivially easy to meet women.
@@spartanx169x
Thanx for your reply.Regardless of psycho bubble most mothers love their children unconditionally and that love is the first love a child experiences and any subsequent love is related to it. Of course there are mothers who abuse, neglect or even kill their children but those are a small minority and invariably such children suffer for it even as adults.
I would agree with you that many men who look for love in Thailand and other poor countries have been unsuccessful in relationships in their own country but not all. Some like yourself had many relationships and been married for many years, others may have been widowed etc.
Ultimately what I tried to say that the entertainment workers look at a relationship with a farang as a business so logic should dictate that one moves to a new deal once the old one is concluded.
Peace
Even though you are providing a good life and trips and nice meals they want financial help for them and the family its the Thai culture
🤣 🤣 That started off well, until the "beneficiary" crap.
This "long game" perspective is different for everyone. Us guys have differing tolerances of what a long game is, and we can get a false sense of security after 3, 6, 9 months. We are all different. And usually or "long game" period is compared to some situation before, or situations we've heard about. But the girls have their own agenda and it's tactical. As Dan said, treating a thai girl well, high lifestyle etc, counts for shit to them if they're not banking cash at the same time. Perhaps what the lifestyle does do is boost the calibre of their IG photos 🤣. And if we have money, a nice apt, car, etc, that too doesn't count as being of any value because it's not theirs lol. We have to remember that their "long game" is theirs, we never know what it is. But just when you think things are real, you get burned. I think they sense that contentment in us, it's the trigger when they turn the screw and get narcy, awkward, push you away, thinking it'll draw you in closer and up your giving game. No matter what "rules" you lay down at the beginning, trust me, they're thinking they can change them if they suck & f### well enough lol. And speaking for brits, we don't respond well to these narcy manipulations, and this is often when we hear the stories on Dan's YT - when we've had enough, woken up and whiffed the coffee.
Dan is right: love is blind! Let me add, deaf dumb and stupid. Guys, just adjust to the fact that these girls are running a gig with us. Take the good times for as long as they last. And if you ever feel like you're in love, SLAP YA'SELF!
And finally.... We are better educated, more successful and should be more street wise than 99.999% of Thai people. If you're getting played by them then you should check yourself. "Love", see... it'll get you every time.
Its been my experience that 18 months is the make it or break it point. No person man or woman will stay in a relationship for 18 months if they want something more than a real marriage as equal partners. At 18 months, the "newness" of the relationship is gone. Meaning, people will show their tempers, their down days, their bad days. The "excitement" in sex is gone because it has become expected. Still enjoyable, but nothing out of the ordinary because at that point most things have been tried. Also by then you should have had more than one discussion on what exactly each other is wanting out of the relationship. Most that want money won't put in that amount of time. Its too much of a risk for them. Its too much of an investment.