Anna and Mandi, I promise you both, you wont regret leaving these relationships, you'll regret the time it took for you to leave. Get out and go find the men who you both truly deserve. Do you love your boyfriends or are you both just settling because youre both attached and feel like youve invested so much time? As soon as you start questioning "do I deserve better?" is the moment you know its time to leave. xxx
Anna it's such a red flag that your boyfriend didn't even want to wait 10 minutes for you. A gentleman would wait hours. You deserve way better, please dont waste your time girl
i know u don’t want to hear this. i was in a toxic relationship. and it is like that…your partner has to respect you! ofc arguments are normal! it should be. but those arguments are not arguments anymore. it’s manipulation. and i am not here to judge, because i was in the exact same situation, but i love you both so much and i just want to see you happy
Anna it's really not worth staying just for the sake of having a boyfriend and not being lonely. You will find the man you deserve once you start setting boundaries and stop settling for any less. Trust me, you deserve wayy more than this
You deserve a gentleman Anna, he is out there trust me. There's nothing wrong in wanting what you want but hoping someone changes is a losing game.. Take it from an aunty who has lived life.
Anna, this podcast wouldn't be the same without you. If we wanted a comedy show we would've tuned in elsewhere. You both form a balanced narrative, you are the perfect duo! Sisters in the city would be redundant without either of you.
Only saying this because I want the absolute best for you both, but the right men are out there who would never make you question your relationships. A bit of drama and bickering is fine, but disrespect and inconsideration shouldn’t be. Time with someone means nothing, when you know you know. ❤
Cowslick and Gingerbeard remind me of my emotionally abusive ex who I loved so much and was so attracted to, who claimed to love me but never respected me. The spare room story reminded me so much of the incident that caused our first breakup. He fundamentally didn't respect women and this is a blocker to a healthy environment. Nothing good can grow from that. I left when I thought about having kids with that person. A child doesn't need to witness Daddy disrespecting Mummy or take on those toxic attitudes. Or, much worse, be on the receiving end of their mood swings and spite! I know you don't want to hear it but maybe considering the implications of bringing an innocent soul into that environment will put things into perspective for you both.
I loveeee you guys but all jokes aside, these sound like relationships you don’t want to be in. Just imagine if there was kids involved etc. not good. Coming from a place of love!! ❤️❤️
Whenever I hear Anna talk about her relationship it sounds like she’s settling ALOT and deep down I think she knows it too. But take what I say with a pinch of salt cos I don’t know the in’s and out’s ofcourse
"Real confidence isn't the ability to say no to things you don't want, real confidence is the ability to say no to things you do want when they're not right for you"
Anna and Mandi, I promise you both, you wont regret leaving these relationships, you'll regret the time it took for you to leave. Get out and go find the men who you both truly deserve. Do you love your boyfriends or are you both just settling because youre both attached and feel like youve invested so much time? As soon as you start questioning "do I deserve better?" is the moment you know its time to leave. xxx
The vulnerability in this podcast is so raw, really brave to put it out here. ❤️
Anna it's such a red flag that your boyfriend didn't even want to wait 10 minutes for you. A gentleman would wait hours. You deserve way better, please dont waste your time girl
Babe, the fact that he is obsessed with Andrew Tate 😮 that alone should be a deal breaker honestly, not to mention the other 10 billion things
Biggest red flag is they listen to andrew tate tbh. Completely tells u have they don’t respect women 😭
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them" - Maya Angelou.
i know u don’t want to hear this. i was in a toxic relationship. and it is like that…your partner has to respect you! ofc arguments are normal! it should be. but those arguments are not arguments anymore. it’s manipulation. and i am not here to judge, because i was in the exact same situation, but i love you both so much and i just want to see you happy
Anna it's really not worth staying just for the sake of having a boyfriend and not being lonely. You will find the man you deserve once you start setting boundaries and stop settling for any less. Trust me, you deserve wayy more than this
Never ever ever stop this podcast
You deserve a gentleman Anna, he is out there trust me. There's nothing wrong in wanting what you want but hoping someone changes is a losing game.. Take it from an aunty who has lived life.
Anna you’re so loved and also needed just as much as Mandi💗
Thanks for being so raw. People might judge but trust me a lot of people relate to you guys
Anna, this podcast wouldn't be the same without you. If we wanted a comedy show we would've tuned in elsewhere. You both form a balanced narrative, you are the perfect duo! Sisters in the city would be redundant without either of you.
Anna, you add so much to the podcast, it’s your synergy with each other that makes the podcast so funny and unique! ❤
Only saying this because I want the absolute best for you both, but the right men are out there who would never make you question your relationships. A bit of drama and bickering is fine, but disrespect and inconsideration shouldn’t be. Time with someone means nothing, when you know you know. ❤
Cowslick and Gingerbeard remind me of my emotionally abusive ex who I loved so much and was so attracted to, who claimed to love me but never respected me. The spare room story reminded me so much of the incident that caused our first breakup. He fundamentally didn't respect women and this is a blocker to a healthy environment. Nothing good can grow from that. I left when I thought about having kids with that person. A child doesn't need to witness Daddy disrespecting Mummy or take on those toxic attitudes. Or, much worse, be on the receiving end of their mood swings and spite! I know you don't want to hear it but maybe considering the implications of bringing an innocent soul into that environment will put things into perspective for you both.
I loveeee you guys but all jokes aside, these sound like relationships you don’t want to be in. Just imagine if there was kids involved etc. not good. Coming from a place of love!! ❤️❤️
Whenever I hear Anna talk about her relationship it sounds like she’s settling ALOT and deep down I think she knows it too. But take what I say with a pinch of salt cos I don’t know the in’s and out’s ofcourse
I don't want to be this person but you two honestly deserve soooo much better than Gingerbeard and Cowslick.
"Real confidence isn't the ability to say no to things you don't want, real confidence is the ability to say no to things you do want when they're not right for you"