@@benstevens2164 my lil silly a** took them back n got hurt again lol .Now I’m just done because he has anger issues out the hoo-ha!! I am done done! He told his mom “oh im gna be with her” NOT! Don’t wantcha! 😭😂🥹
@@johnAcDaniels I mean, when they just up and left at the first sign of me not doing what they wanted(me switching my room around all the way) and making (everything) his way in my home because he was planning to move in. I told him “hey I don’t want everything to be just your way we can make it our way so we are both comfortable”. He looked and said” oh no, I can’t do this” I’m going home. That became a pattern in his behavior. At the drop of a dime over the silliest of things he would literally flip and leave. Because I thought I loved him so so much, I tried to make things work with the wrong person. I turned a blind eye to a lot of flaws and toxic ways he had. Which drove myself crazy. Fearful of him leaving again due to my own abandonment issues he became an easy trigger. And resentful towards him and even myself for allowing a lot and resentful for my flesh being stronger than my spirit. Resentful towards him because the leaving only got worse. In every situation he left and refused to communicate in a healthy way. That’s what I mean.
Did the same with her didn't last long why simple I coudnt hold myself back I couldn't sleep I'm a really protecting guy I can't sleep if I don't know shes fine if I see a story of hers every day I know ho she still lives she's fine and I can move on with my day if I don't know I'm 1 step away from the car to go to her haus to check if she's fine I'm way to protective some people woud hate it athers woud love it im the same as my perence and I love them the way they are
Ho why you leave someone if you love him go back and get this sxhit fixed. Anything is possible if two people are against the problem and not against each other
Only the last point is valid... The first 3 doesn't mean they've moved on... blocking you, and telling u to move on are statementa that reflect where they are at emotionally towards u at that point in time, but they don't know how they'll feel about you in few months down the road, especially when u go no contact. I've seen an ex blocked me and unblocked me, only to beg me to take her back through my kid brother. My advice; go no Contact, if they are trully over you, no contact will help u test that theory, and 9 times out of 10, it usually would turn out in ur favour, magically ❤
To be honest, If they hate you they’ll give you such treatment. A good person wouldn’t constantly tell you to move on. Only bitter people. A good person would just tell you that’s that. And silent afterwards.
My ex has done all this, it’s been 4mths. She is now with the man she cheated with. I’m moving on but it hurts. I got played. However I learned a very valuable lesson. I hate what happen but I’m glad I learned many lessons from it. I only wish I could stop missing her and feeling the love we once had. My question is when does this love and missing feeling go away? Cause at this point I hate the emotions.
same here...4 months. she hasn't removed any photo and i think she reads my occassional post (where i usually either leave improvement photos/activities) but i post sparingly (maybe once a week/2 weeks)...
@@LondonWulfe360 aye....feel you bro. You keep missing her and thinking about her. You know you shouldn't but hard not to do that after five years.... And you wonder how they can move on so quickly...
@@DivaDivine88and that’s why relationships don’t work. Women want to “give signs” instead of communicating like a mature adult. Not everyone communicates through signs.
I had all of those signs but still refused to see the truth! As time goes by I’m learning to live without the love of my life, wish I understood these signs earlier 😅
She shows first two. She told me to move on. But she didn't want to meet me. It almost felt like she was running away from confronting me, or atleast, looking at me, meeting me. She didn't want contact. Now this was like a month ago. Yesterday I learned she's been going out. Felt super sad, but I'm holding on. The thing is, I had prayed for her to come back. I guess I gotta be back to playing.
If she doesn’t wana meet you and wants to avoid you that’s a sign it’s done at best she doesn’t wana feelings to reemerge at worst she’s got someone new
I guess that's her way of saying you work on certain things about yourself. So work on it and make her realize you can overcome that flaw about yourself. Ofcose make her notice that and don't reach out directly to her.
I don't get it why one has to tell they moved on or seeing someone less. Just go low key n silence tells it all. Informing the other party I personally find it immature. Unless there was marriage.
@@mimi-G87 I have a question . Do you think that once somebody moves places or moves to a different country they forget about the person they once loved
lol, I told my ex to move on, I am indifferent, unfriended from all social media, and go find someone new. I meant it all at the time. A week later, I recanted, and now she’s telling me all the same things I once told her. Life’s funny that way.
Mine still follows me and likes my story post on socials , recently ones the gym too , ended things on good terms we still follow eachother but we just in no contact rn idk how long it’s gonna last but I’m gonna continue living my life 😊
It's been 12 months since she ghosted me and blocked me from texting her no phone calls . Two weeks from her ghosting me I went into the hospital for 90 days. My friend who I worked with for three years is having a relationship with him, He monitored me for those 90 days telling me he was a friend, when the reality he was seeing was where I was with her. He's still married for 9 years I believe he's not planning on leaving his wife. Birds of the same feather flock together. I don't believe she will return. What's amazing that same day she told me she'd loved me, then ghosted me. what a crazy person.
He tells me if I’m moving on he’s happy, he is telling me he is moving on, he keeps saying GL to my new journey, which I have no one! But, I’m just happy alone & happy to be alive!! 😮😢😅❤ He’s such an Energy Vampire… Great tho!! 😢😮❤
Don't worry man im in the same boat , it's been 3months ago I thought I have move on until I saw her yesterday I literally cried while coming back home it hurts idkhow to even move on now, she told me to move on 1month ago but I still couldn't believe that she just give up on me
Oh God from one fight after days he unfollowed and blocked me yesterday when i was crying he said you need docter, move on do something good in your life i hope you get success meanwhile he immediately made new friends but he was my only friend. I am crying from 47days but i didn't know he was happy with his new friends without me. It broke my heart 💔
My ex moved on and idk what to do. I loved her but she was seeing someone behind my back and moved her feeling to that person. The only thing I hope for is karma getting her back for cheating
Whatever reason for them needing out it's excellent as long as you free from their toxic behavior trying to control and manipulate you. I'm so happy she blocked me then calls me. God I ignored here calls...
1, 2 and 3. Yet I stupidly still have hope after 5-6 months. The last 2 finally being NC cause I realized 5 of those months she’s been seeing someone which was long distance for 3/5 months.
I look at it like every relationship it's not the same it really depends on the person yes people do come back people do get second chances or third chances those signs can be reasons she won't get your ex back but like some other people have commented on here that their ex did come back after all that. You cannot put a percentage of how many people come back it's more like if they come back they do if not you have no choice but to move on. There's no time limit it could be months to years
Same was intimate 2 weeks after break up intense I love you lasted for hrs was two days of us acting like a couple then she got cold against and broke it off
Its hard to accept how they blocked me, is indifferent, and told me to move on, and it all happened so fast. So that's 3 out of 4 signs, meaning they really have moved on that fast.
I DONT CARE !!! WERE USING EACH OTHER MORE THAN LIKELY, UNTIL WE FIND SOMEONE BETTER. LIKE THEY SAY DONT QUIT A JOB TIL YOU FIND A BETTER ONE WITH MORE MONEY BETTER LOCATION & MORE PERKS !!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
blocking and unfollowing is to kerp me from hurting bc i miss him so much . not bc ive moved on. i had to leave him bc his meth use snd lies is out of control. then csme verbal abuse. 4 months later snd i still cry daily and feel i can barly breathe
He told me that he is happy in his marriage, but he still contact me every three to four weeks. He also has this romantic ❤voice and he doesn't want to end our conversation. I am the one who ends the conversation all the time. 🤔
For me, my ex told all those things out of anger. Yes, she had blocked me on everything,but I persisted on tic tok lol. She called me laughing saying you know that you're annoying me. Finally, im trying to give her space (it's been about 2 years ). One day, she reached out a couple of times, but it's in the eyes... they never lie, and also, the feeling we both feel it's weird. Any who I'm slowly unblocked ,getting calls, but I'm going to take it slow. As friends, we will start over. So their are somethings I disagree with and persistent work. I'm just doing me right now and I can give a fuck about what people say. What's right is right, and I know she's right.
Another sign is they neglect the child you share with them. They are so angry and blame you for everything, refused to do child exchanges at a mutual place😏
Yup, my ex and I were together for 15 years and have 2 kids. She left for a young coworker and hasnt seen or talked to our children in almost 2 weeks. Like how can people become complete strangers after so long together and destroy families.
@dirkdiggler2695 yeah its unbelievable, how they can forget everything weve been through just like that, no remorse, no feeling, no nothing. Sometimes i think shes a robot programmed to break every mans heart.
Yeah I’m blocked on everything the first day we broke up 😖😭 but I also blew his phone up with messages and probably hurt him saying he didn’t do enough
My ex wife had a very abusive childhood and we split up after 27 years. After 2 years of trying to save the marriage I finally gave in. But she still ask about the grandkids, my dad, and me! We says she needs time to heal and has issues with men and does not want to date anyone. I tho cannot get over her to move on. I am holding out for hope someday. We were very much in love. But now she wants to be alone. I do not believe it, but every time we talk she states it. I going to date but I do not want to have anything serious. I am hoping she may change her mind, but her friends say she has moved on. But who knows?
Now that's wierd. My ex broke up with me but still wanted to come over even though he had my number blocked on his phone. I even said who cares enough to block your number if there's no emotion involved?
My ex dumped me for a drunkard because after years of not treating her good she finallymoved on but not for the better I guess just to spite me for all the hurt I put her through. No cap I'm the one who didn't reciprocate the love that I received because I didn't know what real love was like and after finally thinking I was gonna do right she dumped me. I'm the bad ex and I should be the one chasing but the fact that she dumped me for a drunkard tells me everything I need to know. I'm moving on because I can't manage the pain, I just deleted every message,picture, video and memory it's a clean slate now and even though I'm hurting so bad it's the best decision for my sanity.
I have only experienced the first one on the list. She blocked me on every one of her social media pages and I'm sure removed my pictures but she didn't block me on SMS and I am still able to text her. But she's not indifferent but rather angry and hostile towards me. She has been single since we were together and she switches her profiles from public to private and posts a lot of selfies then later deletes them and acts rather sad sometimes it talks about being lonely but delete those afterwards as well. But she never gave me closure. She never told me it's over and to move on one single time.
It's crazy how our generation is filled with many broken people. When can we find true love then? Well I'm sick of getting hurt over and over again. So preferably I stay safe.
I don’t get it…blocking and being indifferent sounds a contradiction (and this video contradicts itself). If the person is indifferent, there is no need to block.
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 Lol. Hmm...the examples you've listed sounds like that person hasn't moved on...if I'm indifferent, I would not care what my ex thinks or not. Why should I care? I'm not seeking their approval. Of course, I understand blocking means if someone keeps harassing.
@@HOUExplorer hmm maybe 🤔 what do you think about this situation. Mines blocked me on ig but keeps me on other apps watches my stories not as quick as she use to but screen shots my posts and pics. We are in not contact says she doesn’t wana be with anyone due to something that happened in her family. Has told me to give other women a chance we been broke up since middle of April Hooked up end of April then broke it off again she posted 3 selfies in a app she never posts before almost like to get my attention she’s super reserved just bout her kids and work really so idk threw me off still in no contact . What do you think ? I personally think she will end up back with her ex husband or someone new later on
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 Hard to tell since I’m not sure how close she was with her ex or how long the divorce took place. And how long you were with her before the breakup. Only you would know. From what I see, as a general opinion, it is possible that she is trying to grab your attention (most likely bread crumbing). I would simply do nothing and continue no contact. She needs to make an effort to contact you and win you over if she dumped you. I recommend listening to Coach Corey Wayne. I believe there was a video that is similar to your case.
@@HOUExplorer will do and well she left him for me she’s been with him since she was 15 so for 16 yrs left him like a month of meeting me he’s trying to make it to the USA now to be with her has been trying since Nov we dated prob 10 months max on and off
My fiance ghosted me for 4 days. Then I didn't talk to her for 1 week. She prolly hooked up w.her ex who was asking for closure. Or some new guy. What sucks is she was amazing person in every sense of the word for 3.5 years. We never really faught before. I was blindsided. Had every right to ignore her like she did me. I should be mad at her. My heart is broken.
It's been 2 years, they did the first 3 at first. Made the mistake of going FWB for a bit before those 3. Now they're back. Added on FB and they apologized for everything. I asked why and they basically claimed guilt and that best case maybe we can be friends bur they don't wanna push my boundaries.... Now what?
The only thing that makes me think my ex is moved in is when she told me that I need to move on and to never let anybody treat me the way that she did. That I should not wait for her and not to prevent myself from finding someone else.
And you should move on. If someone doesn’t wants you that should be the biggest turn off for you. Learn to be alone for a while, keep exploring yourself and your interests more. Im also going through the same and i have realized that no matter how good looking or how intelligent you’re, for the wrong and unworthy person you will be never enough because deep down they’re unhappy with THEMSELVES. You deserve someone who’s always there for you no matter what.
What I don’t understand is if we broke up why when I ask if she seeing someone else she tells me she’s single but blocked me everywhere anyway, just tell me your not single or you’re dating and I would have left her alone.. only reason I was still trying was bcus she said she was single but I should have known that was a lie not to hurt my feelings I guess, there’s no way in 9 months she hasn’t dated someone
I’ve told my ex to move on and I’ve denied her pleads to get back with me and I’ve dated others but not me and her still ended up getting back to getting a few months later because deep down I still loved her, it just took me some time Btw we broke up again 😂
What does it mean when your ex does all of these things, but then chooses to not block your phone number? Because in all honesty, once I saw mine didn’t do that I immediately blocked them. There’s no value in having communication with them if they are choosing to funnel it through one means. They abandoned the thought of talking emotionally about our relationship, why should I give them a chance?
Every other point is well connected to my present situation....except the social media thingy.....she dumped me mercilessly 😢 even after all the begging and pleading....it's been two weeks and still there is no progress... 😮
Totally pull back,ignore her 130% no contact ,socialize find new prospects ,get busy ,go to the gym ,she'll be back begging ,I have been there a month ago ,she cam back begging and I rejected her .
Blocked me, removed all pics during the break up and has basically been a ghost on socials. After begging to get back with me then starting an argument which lead to her breaking it off. She asked me to move in with her then a week later broke up with me over a petty argument. She was hiding her phone heavily which I mentioned which lead to the final break up. What y’all think? Lol
All of them!!! But still trying to hoover me back!!! But she still can't see how she treated me emotionally, mentally n physically!!! Now I am free!!! ✌🏾
My ex moved on from her bfs less than a week after dating them. later i found out its because she liked me and her friend forced her to tell me sooner than she wanted to and i had liked her for 3 years so i was overjoyed and could not stop being happy but i asked her “why did you get with them other boys if you didnt like them” and she got angry at me then this lead to her arguing and lecturing me at me then she blocked me and INSTANTLY 2 months later got over me and got with another boy The funny thing is she posts about him and comments about him a whole lot but never did with any of us so i just said “nah id win” and yoinked all of her exes and now we have a friend group 😂
Then he was flirting with someone while you were together too ! Imagine spending time with your man everyday your bond is inseparable, you do everything together. He makes you feel like you’re the only girl in the world there’s no way he’s unfaithful in any way. But then you find messages that he’s been inappropriate with other women
My boyfriend and i were in long distance relationship for 3 years. We shared a lot of unforgettable memories. But it os always on and off but he never left me and only wait for the upcoming success in our relationship. He is now working as a mechanic and I'm facing 17 days of no contact. No blocking. But also not taking my calls or any others calls.. I don't know what happened to him😢then what is this a complete break up or a short silence
I unfollowed my ex.. doesn’t prove I don’t want them back, did that for my sanity 😂
can I ask how it was for sanity? I'm genuinely curious 😭
Just for you to get peace , it might not make sense right now but you will be happy later @@inyagirlsdms7770
I wanna know what did you do after that, how did it turn out?
@@taurknuckles7353 I’m sorry man 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@inyagirlsdms7770 bruh you ain't ever lost someone you love I'm guessing.
The only sign that matters is that they left. Never take back someone who abandoned you.
I did this and it drove me crazy, fearful, resentful and paranoid
@@successcentral766you took them back or didn't?
@@benstevens2164 my lil silly a** took them back n got hurt again lol .Now I’m just done because he has anger issues out the hoo-ha!! I am done done! He told his mom “oh im gna be with her” NOT! Don’t wantcha! 😭😂🥹
@@successcentral766kindly explain what you mean
@@johnAcDaniels I mean, when they just up and left at the first sign of me not doing what they wanted(me switching my room around all the way) and making (everything) his way in my home because he was planning to move in. I told him “hey I don’t want everything to be just your way we can make it our way so we are both comfortable”. He looked and said” oh no, I can’t do this” I’m going home. That became a pattern in his behavior. At the drop of a dime over the silliest of things he would literally flip and leave. Because I thought I loved him so so much, I tried to make things work with the wrong person. I turned a blind eye to a lot of flaws and toxic ways he had. Which drove myself crazy. Fearful of him leaving again due to my own abandonment issues he became an easy trigger. And resentful towards him and even myself for allowing a lot and resentful for my flesh being stronger than my spirit. Resentful towards him because the leaving only got worse. In every situation he left and refused to communicate in a healthy way. That’s what I mean.
Another sign that your ex has moved on is if it’s been years and you haven’t hear anything about them.
True
That's not true I had many axes that came back after 10:15 years
@@NathalyNateholy shit
Fuck em
@@NathalyNate true i have one that tried after 12 years.I didn't respond
The one and only sign he never calls you back and you never see him again
He did most of this before and then came back. So there’s hope for yall
For How long you have been blocked,?
This is called narcssism
She did half these things and wants tp come see me on my birthday. Maybe just seeking validation but i wont give her any.
I blocked my ex because I’m hurting. Though I still love him, i thought it’s the best way to have peace.
If he changed his ways would you take him back
Did the same with her didn't last long why simple I coudnt hold myself back I couldn't sleep I'm a really protecting guy I can't sleep if I don't know shes fine if I see a story of hers every day I know ho she still lives she's fine and I can move on with my day if I don't know I'm 1 step away from the car to go to her haus to check if she's fine I'm way to protective some people woud hate it athers woud love it im the same as my perence and I love them the way they are
Ho why you leave someone if you love him go back and get this sxhit fixed. Anything is possible if two people are against the problem and not against each other
@@SABSCORPIONthey hate that bro. I stopped doing that. Stop doing that maybe she comes back
Only the last point is valid...
The first 3 doesn't mean they've moved on... blocking you, and telling u to move on are statementa that reflect where they are at emotionally towards u at that point in time, but they don't know how they'll feel about you in few months down the road, especially when u go no contact. I've seen an ex blocked me and unblocked me, only to beg me to take her back through my kid brother.
My advice; go no Contact, if they are trully over you, no contact will help u test that theory, and 9 times out of 10, it usually would turn out in ur favour, magically ❤
What about when you share kids and have to pick up and drop off. How can you go no contact?
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@fasttl by being indifferent, grey rocking and parallel parenting.
This dude is a sweetheart. He's the real. Bless you, bro.😎
❤️
@@theblackbookbasics 💖 atya.
This was useless banter at best... They are ur ex.....move on..period.
To be honest, If they hate you they’ll give you such treatment. A good person wouldn’t constantly tell you to move on. Only bitter people. A good person would just tell you that’s that. And silent afterwards.
Or good luck in life
My ex has done all this, it’s been 4mths. She is now with the man she cheated with. I’m moving on but it hurts. I got played. However I learned a very valuable lesson. I hate what happen but I’m glad I learned many lessons from it. I only wish I could stop missing her and feeling the love we once had. My question is when does this love and missing feeling go away? Cause at this point I hate the emotions.
She did you a favor. Better doors will open and it all goes away when you find someone else to share your time and heart with. Much love ❤
same here...4 months.
she hasn't removed any photo and i think she reads my occassional post (where i usually either leave improvement photos/activities) but i post sparingly (maybe once a week/2 weeks)...
@@jswagg1826 thanks dawg I keep moving forward, gym work home repeat. Thanks for the support
@@SFragger100 biggest thing I just want to stop loving a person who never really loved me. Fuck feelings.
@@LondonWulfe360 aye....feel you bro. You keep missing her and thinking about her. You know you shouldn't but hard not to do that after five years.... And you wonder how they can move on so quickly...
I don't care. I moved on.
Thanks
They still come back,especially men they never really move on
Im hoping she dose come back
That’s cap men move on only weak men don’t
I disagree😊
@@jayjayhernandez5073she will
They play games,do all these to get a reaction and then one day they are back again...
I got ghosted,.. I'm left with no answers and feel empty.. I feel down, I just understand how fast she moved on. Damn 😔
She's a narcissist most likely. you're better off
Bro I have become animal after breakup ita been 14 months I still call and message her and trouble her
what about now
Men are always "blindsided" when a woman leaves them.. I guarantee she gave you signs she wasn't happy
@@DivaDivine88and that’s why relationships don’t work. Women want to “give signs” instead of communicating like a mature adult. Not everyone communicates through signs.
Bro your words hurt ngl 😭
Hurt really bad 😢
But his words held truth
I had all of those signs but still refused to see the truth!
As time goes by I’m learning to live without the love of my life, wish I understood these signs earlier 😅
Not THE love of you your life but A love of your life.
You just described every sign I’ve experienced. By Gods grace, I am finally moving on.
A better analogy Koda is a Ranger tab, which is a leadership qualification. While a ranger scroll is being inducted to the ranger regiment.
She shows first two. She told me to move on. But she didn't want to meet me. It almost felt like she was running away from confronting me, or atleast, looking at me, meeting me. She didn't want contact. Now this was like a month ago. Yesterday I learned she's been going out. Felt super sad, but I'm holding on. The thing is, I had prayed for her to come back. I guess I gotta be back to playing.
If she doesn’t wana meet you and wants to avoid you that’s a sign it’s done at best she doesn’t wana feelings to reemerge at worst she’s got someone new
Any update since then?
I guess that's her way of saying you work on certain things about yourself. So work on it and make her realize you can overcome that flaw about yourself. Ofcose make her notice that and don't reach out directly to her.
Eyes never lie. I could tell he doesn't love me anymore no matter what he said and did.
Her eyes were full of confusion, and she said mine were full of love and pain
This is exactly how i feel . I'm literally in tears
Seeing someone else is the best sign
Good she destroyed my life from 21-26 Im healthy, not on drugs and have a good paying job. I've lost over 75 pounds and loving myself more and more.
It ain’t over until I feel it’s over
Ur a narc, he needs to RUN
@@dontworry2113 Yo my ex said this exact statmen " I leave when i want to leave" thats what she said
@@loveequityholdings593 bro she will leave u high n dry jus leave n get it over with ull find someone better
@@loveequityholdings593 😜she must really love you!
😅😅😅
He moved on because it’s been a year and he has not tried to talk to me or reach out. So glad I made it without trying to stalk him.
Relationships is fun but it hurts when you split
Real men never tells a woman to move on all what they do is just to distance themselves
Only if you have their respect
I don't get it why one has to tell they moved on or seeing someone less. Just go low key n silence tells it all. Informing the other party I personally find it immature. Unless there was marriage.
@@mimi-G87 I have a question . Do you think that once somebody moves places or moves to a different country they forget about the person they once loved
@@ephemeralwarrior I don’t think you ever truly forget someone you once loved
@@rileybimm6950 yeah but they must move on tho?
Your ex has moved on it's when you leave the house 😮😮
lol, I told my ex to move on, I am indifferent, unfriended from all social media, and go find someone new. I meant it all at the time. A week later, I recanted, and now she’s telling me all the same things I once told her. Life’s funny that way.
Mine still follows me and likes my story post on socials , recently ones the gym too , ended things on good terms we still follow eachother but we just in no contact rn idk how long it’s gonna last but I’m gonna continue living my life 😊
Holy shet, I was the one who got dumped 8 months ago and I’m the one exhibiting all of these signs.
Meanwhile my ex, the dumper, they look miserable.
Power to you!
It's been 12 months since she ghosted me and blocked me from texting her no phone calls . Two weeks from her ghosting me I
went into the hospital for 90 days. My friend who I worked with for three years is having a relationship with him, He monitored me for those 90 days telling me he was a friend, when the reality he was seeing was where I was with her. He's still married for 9 years I believe he's not planning on leaving his wife. Birds of the same feather flock together. I don't believe she will return. What's amazing that same day she told me she'd loved me, then ghosted me. what a crazy person.
He tells me if I’m moving on he’s happy, he is telling me he is moving on, he keeps saying GL to my new journey, which I have no one! But, I’m just happy alone & happy to be alive!! 😮😢😅❤ He’s such an Energy Vampire… Great tho!! 😢😮❤
Felt. Though every situation is diff.. These gave me grief
I think its time i get over this girl I've tried im tired of waiting I WASTED MY TIME ON HER😭
Don't worry man im in the same boat , it's been 3months ago I thought I have move on until I saw her yesterday I literally cried while coming back home it hurts idkhow to even move on now, she told me to move on 1month ago but I still couldn't believe that she just give up on me
@doubleJJ01 u got this tho I got over her and now I'm with someone else
Oh God from one fight after days he unfollowed and blocked me yesterday when i was crying he said you need docter, move on do something good in your life i hope you get success meanwhile he immediately made new friends but he was my only friend. I am crying from 47days but i didn't know he was happy with his new friends without me. It broke my heart 💔
Not yet blocked but got a random text that they seeing someone I should not text them.🤷🏾♀️.I was woohh. Congratulations thanks for the info.
You know when it’s over when they put a retraining order against you.
My ex moved on and idk what to do. I loved her but she was seeing someone behind my back and moved her feeling to that person. The only thing I hope for is karma getting her back for cheating
Whatever reason for them needing out it's excellent as long as you free from their toxic behavior trying to control and manipulate you. I'm so happy she blocked me then calls me. God I ignored here calls...
The only sign he never calls you back and you never see him again
She had all these.. but now she is watching my stories.
1, 2 and 3. Yet I stupidly still have hope after 5-6 months. The last 2 finally being NC cause I realized 5 of those months she’s been seeing someone which was long distance for 3/5 months.
Did she come back to you ? I was in that situation, and how did it go for her and the out of towner.
I think we need to start a group or something like that there’s a supreme amount of hurt going on in this world
I look at it like every relationship it's not the same it really depends on the person yes people do come back people do get second chances or third chances those signs can be reasons she won't get your ex back but like some other people have commented on here that their ex did come back after all that. You cannot put a percentage of how many people come back it's more like if they come back they do if not you have no choice but to move on. There's no time limit it could be months to years
4th sign for me,
We were intimate after a month and now he acts like it was nothing and there has been no contact.
wow it must have been not good then,,,most guys would want more
Same was intimate 2 weeks after break up intense I love you lasted for hrs was two days of us acting like a couple then she got cold against and broke it off
Don't wait for any more signs
Its hard to accept how they blocked me, is indifferent, and told me to move on, and it all happened so fast. So that's 3 out of 4 signs, meaning they really have moved on that fast.
We are over because she blocked me on TikTok and Snap! We had a blowup after that and it's pretty much over. I agree with everything he said
I DONT CARE !!! WERE USING EACH OTHER MORE THAN LIKELY, UNTIL WE FIND SOMEONE BETTER. LIKE THEY SAY DONT QUIT A JOB TIL YOU FIND A BETTER ONE WITH MORE MONEY BETTER LOCATION & MORE PERKS !!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thanks so much ,my Lord!❤❤❤
She's a diagnosed covert narcissist. Im glad. Im moving on!
Well,he never mentioned a restraining order, so I guess I'm still good to go‼️😆😆😆
blocking and unfollowing is to kerp me from hurting bc i miss him so much . not bc ive moved on. i had to leave him bc his meth use snd lies is out of control. then csme verbal abuse. 4 months later snd i still cry daily and feel i can barly breathe
He told me that he is happy in his marriage, but he still contact me every three to four weeks. He also has this romantic ❤voice and he doesn't want to end our conversation. I am the one who ends the conversation all the time. 🤔
For me, my ex told all those things out of anger. Yes, she had blocked me on everything,but I persisted on tic tok lol. She called me laughing saying you know that you're annoying me. Finally, im trying to give her space (it's been about 2 years ). One day, she reached out a couple of times, but it's in the eyes... they never lie, and also, the feeling we both feel it's weird. Any who I'm slowly unblocked ,getting calls, but I'm going to take it slow. As friends, we will start over. So their are somethings I disagree with and persistent work. I'm just doing me right now and I can give a fuck about what people say. What's right is right, and I know she's right.
Another sign is they neglect the child you share with them. They are so angry and blame you for everything, refused to do child exchanges at a mutual place😏
Yup, my ex and I were together for 15 years and have 2 kids. She left for a young coworker and hasnt seen or talked to our children in almost 2 weeks. Like how can people become complete strangers after so long together and destroy families.
@dirkdiggler2695 yeah its unbelievable, how they can forget everything weve been through just like that, no remorse, no feeling, no nothing. Sometimes i think shes a robot programmed to break every mans heart.
Yeah I’m blocked on everything the first day we broke up 😖😭 but I also blew his phone up with messages and probably hurt him saying he didn’t do enough
My ex wife had a very abusive childhood and we split up after 27 years. After 2 years of trying to save the marriage I finally gave in. But she still ask about the grandkids, my dad, and me! We says she needs time to heal and has issues with men and does not want to date anyone. I tho cannot get over her to move on. I am holding out for hope someday. We were very much in love. But now she wants to be alone. I do not believe it, but every time we talk she states it. I going to date but I do not want to have anything serious. I am hoping she may change her mind, but her friends say she has moved on. But who knows?
The sign I have is that we don't communicate anymore. They have left without an communication.
What if they unblocked but still have not followed back again?
Wait for them to come to you.
Now that's wierd. My ex broke up with me but still wanted to come over even though he had my number blocked on his phone. I even said who cares enough to block your number if there's no emotion involved?
Thanks for the video I am a new viewer
No one needs to be told this! WE KNOW AND WE'RE SMART
Thank God, let them. Signs of being secure don't chase or beg. Not worth a tear, tell Felicia Bye!
He got into a secret relationship behind my back and lied about it
My ex dumped me for a drunkard because after years of not treating her good she finallymoved on but not for the better I guess just to spite me for all the hurt I put her through. No cap I'm the one who didn't reciprocate the love that I received because I didn't know what real love was like and after finally thinking I was gonna do right she dumped me. I'm the bad ex and I should be the one chasing but the fact that she dumped me for a drunkard tells me everything I need to know. I'm moving on because I can't manage the pain, I just deleted every message,picture, video and memory it's a clean slate now and even though I'm hurting so bad it's the best decision for my sanity.
My ex did the first three and still came back asking for forgiveness
All of them happened , it hurts so much
I have only experienced the first one on the list. She blocked me on every one of her social media pages and I'm sure removed my pictures but she didn't block me on SMS and I am still able to text her. But she's not indifferent but rather angry and hostile towards me. She has been single since we were together and she switches her profiles from public to private and posts a lot of selfies then later deletes them and acts rather sad sometimes it talks about being lonely but delete those afterwards as well. But she never gave me closure. She never told me it's over and to move on one single time.
It's crazy how our generation is filled with many broken people. When can we find true love then? Well I'm sick of getting hurt over and over again. So preferably I stay safe.
That hurts! Damn
Hey lets cut the ish....they are ur ex already....why even care? This sounds simpish. Move on urself and go no contact....no need to linger
I once blocked my ex just because i couldn't stand seeing her with someone else, my love for her is still there
I don’t get it…blocking and being indifferent sounds a contradiction (and this video contradicts itself). If the person is indifferent, there is no need to block.
They block cause they want nothing to do with you or to keep old feelings from reemerging or to not hurt you since they’re seeing someone new
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 Lol. Hmm...the examples you've listed sounds like that person hasn't moved on...if I'm indifferent, I would not care what my ex thinks or not. Why should I care? I'm not seeking their approval. Of course, I understand blocking means if someone keeps harassing.
@@HOUExplorer hmm maybe 🤔 what do you think about this situation. Mines blocked me on ig but keeps me on other apps watches my stories not as quick as she use to but screen shots my posts and pics. We are in not contact says she doesn’t wana be with anyone due to something that happened in her family. Has told me to give other women a chance we been broke up since middle of April
Hooked up end of April then broke it off again she posted 3 selfies in a app she never posts before almost like to get my attention she’s super reserved just bout her kids and work really so idk threw me off still in no contact . What do you think ? I personally think she will end up back with her ex husband or someone new later on
@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 Hard to tell since I’m not sure how close she was with her ex or how long the divorce took place. And how long you were with her before the breakup. Only you would know. From what I see, as a general opinion, it is possible that she is trying to grab your attention (most likely bread crumbing). I would simply do nothing and continue no contact. She needs to make an effort to contact you and win you over if she dumped you. I recommend listening to Coach Corey Wayne. I believe there was a video that is similar to your case.
@@HOUExplorer will do and well she left him for me she’s been with him since she was 15 so for 16 yrs left him like a month of meeting me he’s trying to make it to the USA now to be with her has been trying since Nov we dated prob 10 months max on and off
This Is great
My fiance ghosted me for 4 days. Then I didn't talk to her for 1 week. She prolly hooked up w.her ex who was asking for closure. Or some new guy. What sucks is she was amazing person in every sense of the word for 3.5 years. We never really faught before. I was blindsided. Had every right to ignore her like she did me. I should be mad at her. My heart is broken.
I moved to another State and found someone who valued me!!!! Got married so he knows I’m never coming back😂
U right thanks for telling me this
It's been 2 years, they did the first 3 at first. Made the mistake of going FWB for a bit before those 3.
Now they're back. Added on FB and they apologized for everything. I asked why and they basically claimed guilt and that best case maybe we can be friends bur they don't wanna push my boundaries....
Now what?
The only thing that makes me think my ex is moved in is when she told me that I need to move on and to never let anybody treat me the way that she did. That I should not wait for her and not to prevent myself from finding someone else.
And you should move on. If someone doesn’t wants you that should be the biggest turn off for you. Learn to be alone for a while, keep exploring yourself and your interests more. Im also going through the same and i have realized that no matter how good looking or how intelligent you’re, for the wrong and unworthy person you will be never enough because deep down they’re unhappy with THEMSELVES. You deserve someone who’s always there for you no matter what.
What I don’t understand is if we broke up why when I ask if she seeing someone else she tells me she’s single but blocked me everywhere anyway, just tell me your not single or you’re dating and I would have left her alone.. only reason I was still trying was bcus she said she was single but I should have known that was a lie not to hurt my feelings I guess, there’s no way in 9 months she hasn’t dated someone
If they moved on, we move on as well.
All the signs are totally appropriate with my ex...I must make a move
I’ve told my ex to move on and I’ve denied her pleads to get back with me and I’ve dated others but not me and her still ended up getting back to getting a few months later because deep down I still loved her, it just took me some time
Btw we broke up again 😂
My ex has done all that, but she still text me. Has gotten mad because I don’t call her.
What does it mean when your ex does all of these things, but then chooses to not block your phone number? Because in all honesty, once I saw mine didn’t do that I immediately blocked them. There’s no value in having communication with them if they are choosing to funnel it through one means. They abandoned the thought of talking emotionally about our relationship, why should I give them a chance?
Here’s the funny thing, We’ve mostly talked face to face
Every other point is well connected to my present situation....except the social media thingy.....she dumped me mercilessly 😢 even after all the begging and pleading....it's been two weeks and still there is no progress... 😮
She dumped you because of the begging and pleading bro - gotta Re attract her from a place of strength my dude
@@andrewaidman3537 how????
Totally pull back,ignore her 130% no contact ,socialize find new prospects ,get busy ,go to the gym ,she'll be back begging ,I have been there a month ago ,she cam back begging and I rejected her .
@@realtyborisyes!
Begging & pleading will make it a lot worst for you.... it makes you low status in their eyes dont do that.... keep your head up
Blocked me, removed all pics during the break up and has basically been a ghost on socials. After begging to get back with me then starting an argument which lead to her breaking it off. She asked me to move in with her then a week later broke up with me over a petty argument. She was hiding her phone heavily which I mentioned which lead to the final break up. What y’all think? Lol
She was juggling.
@@Redrose-zc7hj I think she used me to get ex jealous tbh
@Damien Reign
Same, my ex used me, he didn't care.
You'll get over it eventually. 😊
@@Redrose-zc7hj people suck these days lol
@@Redrose-zc7hj sorry that happened to you too
This hurts so much 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣
All of them!!! But still trying to hoover me back!!! But she still can't see how she treated me emotionally, mentally n physically!!! Now I am free!!! ✌🏾
My ex can stay gone. I don’t want someone back who never leaves the women from the past alone and tell them all of my secrets
Man my ex took pics down and crawled back 10 times
I see all these signs coach.
She is in a rebound. Deleted all our pics and I am blocked
So how's it going now for you?
Not doing stuff they use to do. Big one!
My ex moved on from her bfs less than a week after dating them. later i found out its because she liked me and her friend forced her to tell me sooner than she wanted to and i had liked her for 3 years so i was overjoyed and could not stop being happy but i asked her “why did you get with them other boys if you didnt like them” and she got angry at me then this lead to her arguing and lecturing me at me then she blocked me and INSTANTLY 2 months later got over me and got with another boy
The funny thing is she posts about him and comments about him a whole lot but never did with any of us so i just said “nah id win” and yoinked all of her exes and now we have a friend group 😂
All untrue! My ex wife did all of this and she came back😊
What if he flirts with u and he has a girlfriend 💀💀
Then he was flirting with someone while you were together too ! Imagine spending time with your man everyday your bond is inseparable, you do everything together. He makes you feel like you’re the only girl in the world there’s no way he’s unfaithful in any way. But then you find messages that he’s been inappropriate with other women
Thanks bro
Any time
My boyfriend and i were in long distance relationship for 3 years. We shared a lot of unforgettable memories. But it os always on and off but he never left me and only wait for the upcoming success in our relationship. He is now working as a mechanic and I'm facing 17 days of no contact. No blocking. But also not taking my calls or any others calls.. I don't know what happened to him😢then what is this a complete break up or a short silence