Hie there, Am from Malawi originary ,but currently living in the Netherlands. I have been here for almost 8 months but i don't feel like i belong here. I can relate to everything you just said almost everything 99% of what you just said is what iam experiencing everyday. Iam suicidal and depressed everyday and i think about going back to Africa. I have been in different countries in Africa but i have never felt like this, the feeling of not belonging. Even if i go back to Africa there's nothing there for me, but just the peace of mind and belonging will do it. Ever since i came here i knew that this is not the place i wanna be. It's good to know that iam not alone, i am male aged 19. Dank u je wel voor deze video. Sending love❤
Sweetie please first you have to reconcile with your past,meaning your mama,then all will be well because when you started you Said your left your mama because of small argument, then pray for that spirit of rejection..please i came in peace😔and pole sana
I live in Düsseldorf if the guy doesn't have German passport then your daughter can't get Aufenthalt and hawa watu ni wakora wabaya that's is the way they do to foreigners kama unge olewa ama upate mtoto wa mzungu unge kaa but tuna pitia pia sisi Sasa wanafikiria hatu pendi kwetu
I came across a saying once when i was at my lowest. "Sometimes when you're in a dark place, you think you've been buried but you've actually been planted". At the time, i thought it was just another cliche and didn't believe it because NOTHING in my life was going right. All i could do was breath and pray. Now i look back and realise it was my old way of life breaking down to make way for new things. I'm not there yet, but now i can definitely see a light and my confidence is growing.
So eloquently and beautifully said!! I became a widow and finally graduated from nursing school 4 years ago. All the plans I thought I’d had for my life crumbled in weeks but The Most High God has restored everything I thought I was losing 10fold and more importantly He’s given me peace that surpasses understanding which can only come from Him. Thank you for sharing beloved and I wish you nothing but continued peace, gratitude and abundant blessings!!! 🤍🙏🏽✨
The problem you did is to move to different States without good papers, like if you had already started Ausbuilding und may be wanted to change to a different city ,they could have verlanger your Visa . This time is hard in Germany because Kenyans pple are bin targeted, when someone is here nd not doing anything, they are bin deported.
Somethings are not adding up here 😢 , cz as a family reunion and your mum was around you were under her care , and living here legally getting your stay is not hard ! I’m sorry though for that bad experience
I have not followed her story apart from this video, but I agree, something is not adding up with her story. There is also no law that says once you turn 18 you should live on your own and leave your parents house. She is only telling what she want us to hear, which is ok. I am Namibian, living in Germany too. 🤔 I guess she just wanted to live on her own and missed some procedures along the way.
@@lindageraldine5980no when u come here under age ur under ur mum,when u finish the shule ur getting uberfriested atomatically,i come with kids now thy have that,she come here when she is already 18,and that is the truth
I dont understand if you went through family reunion,it's the easiest way to get uberfreistat. There is something not adding up here. Is there something you did ?
This young lady mentioned that from the start, she never liked Germany 🇩🇪. So let me say her manifestation came to pass.So let her keep entertaining viewers with stories that don't add up. Some of us here in these European or Africa who have been to these countries know there may be other sides of this story.
Hard to stomach that,Mungu akupee nguvu tu na whatever will happen i believe its for good,i believe in moments like this is when God reveals his power time tumefika mwisho,but honestly ni painful
I also came to Austria with mum and I hated it . .. 23 years later, I’m still here, got my baby, she’s just turned 18, an adult !!! I went through all this school issues and language barriers ! My mum did all the paper work coz I was still underage, and less than a year later, I got the citizenship!! That was my luck ! My mum and I are not friends at all.. issues issues, endless issues since I joined her here those 23 years back. Anyway, enjoy Kenya !!!
This is so heartbreaking. Always go where you feel loved. There’s hate everywhere but some places are more bearable to live. Might be best to go back home to Kenya or another part of Germany that might be more tolerable. If you choose to go back home It might be hard to adjust financially at first but you’ll be fine. You’ll meet Family & friends & it will be like an adventure. But heads up it’s not easy always living with people so the faster you get on your own will be better. And if you’re still not happy, explore options it’s a wide world you bound to fit in somewhere. Thanks for being so transparent💕
The 80 percent who follow you are Kenyans we love you,our people who are in broad because you show us things we have never seen we are supportive as Kenyans shine our country plz🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
If you come to Europe you must stay at one place for 5 years to get a stettlement Status then you are free to move to another place but not out of the Country bcuz every Country has his own rules. Mimi pia nilipitia the same Problem when i came to Swiss the nikaanza kumove around bila kujua in some places i was refused kuji register nikandelea hivyo mpaka nikapata mzungu wa Liechtenstein akanioa but nikachelewa ku apply Passport after divorce nikakua tena treathen to be deported but then i got sick hawakuweza kuni deport wakanipa resident ID ina expire every year but after 3 years i can apply for stettlement Status. Huku ulaya kuna sheria tricky sana kama hujui unaeza kuwa deported very fast. Pole dear trust in God and be honest kwa wazungu watakuelewa and everything will work in your favour.
I am dating a Nigerian too,his a good man very good man but to be honest once you are involved with them be ready for anything coming ur way,yes ppl tend to view them being of bad character,i live in Dubai have dated this man for 3years but am not 💯 sure i can agree to get married to him.Takr care i was going thru ur videos ur search an amazing person and beautiful.Take care of yourself ❤❤❤you will go far
Go to IOM Germany offices near you... They will give you Pesa YA kuanza bizna Kenya and Buy your ticket back home.. Don't be scared of starting up.utakua TU Sawa.
any black man or black woman in Western we are not free we're going through alots of discrimination all that things you said it is all facts 💯 Africans people in Western it is only God knows and he protect us,not only in Germany no it is all European countries USA more madness we're here just to complete our missions back home but in Western there is no life full of racism openly,so i wish you all the best back home my sister your already seen how the wazungu are they
come back to Kenya and trust the process gal. take a piece of paper and manifest whatever you want beggining , prioritize as you manifest and trust everything will unfold
Dada, my heart aches for you, I truly empathize with immigration challenges and I’m so sorry. It’s crazy to me how these government employees treat black foreigners. God give her favor and a miracle.
Here in Spain if you are foreigner and no document.. you have a baby.. after 1 year the baby gets a citizenship.. and you can get a 5 year document because of your child
Greetings young mother go back home with your daughter ❤️ where she will be around your people I live in the west Saint Croix vi be strong peace and blessings
Next time DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT date or have sex with any NIGERIAN. Most of these Nigerians are good at rituals and sex is a good avenue to snatch your destiny. All this rejection you experiencing is because of that. My close friend once told me she used to make six figure salary and had good life until the day she decided to date those Nigerians thats how her life turned into South. She lost her job and went into depressions. She was able to comeback after doing deliverance prayers..Anway now that this has happened go back to your drawing board and look for a serious pastor and get deliverance. You experiencing a spirit of rejection and if you beat it your life will be very smooth. Wishing you all the best
Wasn’t she already having this issues before meeting a Nigerian? Was any of your relatives used for ritual by a Nigerian? Bold of you to judge 230+ million people. I see you Kenyans are perfect!
This is a very stressful situation, your foster family should have made sure you had a Niederlassung permit after 4 years in Germany. This country has immigration burocracy you should strictly follow. And if you do, you can became German in less than 7 years. I am sorry to mention this, but being involved with a Nigerian in Germany is the worst thing you can ever do, they are never authentic. The week your baby was born, you could have processed a "Vaterschaftserkennung' super important!!! This all went wrong because your boyfriend had no genuine documents. When you are in possession of a temporary stay permit, you can not move from county to county in Germany, you have to appy before moving, i have 2 language Schools and i help students relocate. Most of what you did was against the immigration laws. Applying in Frankfurt and then move to East Germany to your Nigerian boyfriend, do the Anmeldung and then Düsseldorf foreign office? Very illegal. So much trouble could have been avoided. But trust me, God has helped you return to Kenya for a good reason, its my 28th year in Germany and i am also returning in Zambia 🇿🇲, but not deported coz i am German 😂, Africa is the best❤
@@VdjPBoy did you voluntarily exit Germany upon recieving a deportation oder, without a ten year ban? if so, then relocating is possible, either through an educational program, blue card, or marriage.I will sells my schools and I plan to exit Germany by 2027.. completely..
East west home is the best. We just have to imagine what would happen today if you are told to go home. We go abroad to get greener pastures. Don't mix up or hook up with bad people
I'm really sorry to hear of all the useless stress they put you through. If you have time to travel at some point look at the Ruhrgebiet. It's the most densely populated part of Germany. It's full of long time foreigners that came to work a few generations ago and new foreigners that are still coming. In the city's there I feel way more welcome as a foreigner than in other parts of Germany (I'm white so my experience is different, but here I feel okay. I can pick up my phone and talk in another language without thinking) Could you explain again what the problem with your visa was? Why didn't they prolong it? Only because you moved? Would that happen if you move from one city to the other or only from state to state? (i'm helping out foreigners here and first hand experience is always appreciated)
I actually live in NRW ,I moved from Schleswig to Frankfurt.Frankfurt are the ones that gave me a deportation without any reason,lawyer said MAYBE because I moved from one state to the other,but Schleswig said I am allowed.even my lawyer doesn’t understand why they gave me the deportation. My current city they are just continuing with what Frankfurt started
It’s so good to know that you are helping foreigners out. Still good people in the world. I try to keep that in mind when I watch heartbreaking experiences like this
Am so sorry about everything you went through, there has been lots of instability In your personal life. Is your mom still in Germany? Moving from state to state was one problem, you should have gone to German offices dealing with immigration stuff not Kenyan one they can mess you up. You had a chance to make a foundation but you also threw it away I understand care giving etc were not your dream jobs, they were small but I know so many people who started from small and eventually got residence permits. You had big dreams but just a little patience would have made a big difference. These jobs are small but they hold so much value when you trying to stay in a country like Germany because they always need people to do it. Germany is very strict when it comes to paper work, just something small and they send you packing 🧳...Anyhow, milk is spilt and that is that. Come back home and start a fresh. It's not easy but you will be just fine. I hope you can make peace with your mom I don't think whatever happened between you two is unforgivable. Find healing and keep going for you and for that kid.
By the way I love Germany a lot. Part of my family members and some friends are there and I visit often. I find Germans ok. It depends where you are and what you do
Sorry that you had to go through all that but l think you experienced alot of Racism because you lived in East Germany.there is too much Racism that side,l live in Frankfurt 10years now and l have not experienced any Racism yet may be because Frankfurt is international,but l am sure there some racists in Frankfurt.So proud of you for telling your story and your so intelligent l am sure you will come out successful in Kenya
I'm German, I've been living on my sailing boat for 25 years and I've been sailing around the world. I visited more than 70 countries. I've never seen a country that didn't have immigration laws. Skin color never mattered. Africans always believe that if they are not allowed to stay there, it has to do with racism because they are black. This view is wrong. Almost every country i visited allowed me to stay for a certain period of time and then i had to leave the country. The idea that i wouldn't be allowed to stay longer because i have white skin never crossed my mind
And that right there is white privilege. Do you have any black friends living in predominantly white countries? Ask them what they go through and you'll be surprised. Yes we have to follow rules and laws ofcourse but they're stricter on black people. We just have to accept the injustice in the world even if we don't partake.
You got a point. Where I live there quite a number of Europeans who struggle to get business permit,some are married and they still have to renew their alien IDs after 3 years. It's not easy anywhere
Staying In Germany isn’t easy, it’s the raciest country than any country 🥹🥹, it’s so damaging to stay here but because of job we keep on staying here 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Stop calling a document a "THING" ..I guess Denmark has nearly the same rules as GERMANY? When you were sent away from yiur apartment by yhe landlord, immediately you should have reported at yhe commune to atleast cancel the previous address, to either a new one or woreva... Thats very important to avoid any of your letters from being sent there.. the authorities might have sent you a letters that would rang an alarm and enabled you to work on things before they got worse... I guess they sent (to the wrong address) coz you were no longer there to receive them, and looks likes you had no current address registered at them during that time.. its very wrong not to cancel previous addresses,, brings alot of doubt.. if they find out for isntance, that a couple that was separated got back together (and even living togther )but secretly wothout coming out clear,and still getting the amount like for ones that were still separated, its a crime.. anyways, take it easy and stop talking much about the mattter... Authority officals atimes visit these kinda plattforms and listen to what you have to say.. be careful what yiu say..take easy and slow.. things might actually work for the best of yiur interests...pray to God , pray ...pray...it is well 🙏... Its gone be fine... I wish you well. Much care and hugs from me though we dont know each other in person
I totally agree. You have to follow the right procedure to avoid unnecessary problems. This is mostly a problem you could have avoided if you took the time to be well informed and follow the law. Hope you find a solution and as advised stop talking about an issue that's in court. You should be quiet and humble because the reality is you were in the wrong the least you should do is hope things work out and do everything they ask you instead of trying to use your situation to make yourself famous on UA-cam. First get out of the situation before you go public with such a sensitive issue.
All i can say for this vedio cause i have been your great fun is everything happens for a reason and every down fall comes with a rise you are a strong stem and mother to your chilld be positive and all will be well 💞💜
This is what people did not tell u , renew all document first and then move to anywhere you want , the German government will not chase paper trails for anyone..
Hie there, Am from Malawi originary ,but currently living in the Netherlands. I have been here for almost 8 months but i don't feel like i belong here. I can relate to everything you just said almost everything 99% of what you just said is what iam experiencing everyday. Iam suicidal and depressed everyday and i think about going back to Africa. I have been in different countries in Africa but i have never felt like this, the feeling of not belonging. Even if i go back to Africa there's nothing there for me, but just the peace of mind and belonging will do it. Ever since i came here i knew that this is not the place i wanna be. It's good to know that iam not alone, i am male aged 19. Dank u je wel voor deze video. Sending love❤
Sweetie please first you have to reconcile with your past,meaning your mama,then all will be well because when you started you Said your left your mama because of small argument, then pray for that spirit of rejection..please i came in peace😔and pole sana
Sorry to hear about your negative experience in Europe. I am happy to see that you’ve made it back to Kenya now. God always provides a second chance.
I love your mentality. I believe things will work out for you. You deserve the best! Thank you for sharing!
Love the positivity.With that mentality alone,you will beat all odds and be a success.
Well done, your mindset is fire 🔥 continue to burn all that negativity from your path and keep winning 🏆
Thankyou I will❤️❤️❤️
Living abroad sometimes is not a cup of cake.
It's giving Nigerian accent!!
You are strong girl.❤
Keep up gal!
You are a star.
I love your confidence you really trust yourself in the next five years you will make it believe 💯
hugs girl you will surely make it nothing feels better as going back home and getting your mental sanity back
I don't know you but I love you. Thank you for your vulnerability. Wishing you all the best
Awww Thankyou soo much🥰❤️❤️
Am here from my gals platform Lynn Ngugi..
Hey, Everything happens for a reason and this may be what you needed all along. Karibu Nyumbani!! 🇰🇪
Much love from us❤️
Thankyou soo much for the support 🙏🏽♥️♥️♥️🌹🌹
Hey I'm sending you love from Kenya. Single mom too. Sending you so much love
Happy to see you smiling, u wil definitely make it ❤
You have a life ahead of u coz u are young, keep pushing until it happens
Stemy yelsha Grand Risin'...lovely lady!¡! Dry your Pretty Brown Eyes, NEVER GIVE UP darlin'...!¡! You gotta keep your head up.👑💋🖤💛💋👑 Nakupenda.
I live in Düsseldorf if the guy doesn't have German passport then your daughter can't get Aufenthalt and hawa watu ni wakora wabaya that's is the way they do to foreigners kama unge olewa ama upate mtoto wa mzungu unge kaa but tuna pitia pia sisi Sasa wanafikiria hatu pendi kwetu
True it seems huyo mnijo hana papers
Whao what an incredible story life must go on you are really strong at you age well-done watching you from Nigeria love you and your daughter❤
Waaaah really sorry for what happened to you and with all that, I'm very happy with Kenya
I came across a saying once when i was at my lowest. "Sometimes when you're in a dark place, you think you've been buried but you've actually been planted". At the time, i thought it was just another cliche and didn't believe it because NOTHING in my life was going right. All i could do was breath and pray. Now i look back and realise it was my old way of life breaking down to make way for new things. I'm not there yet, but now i can definitely see a light and my confidence is growing.
So eloquently and beautifully said!! I became a widow and finally graduated from nursing school 4 years ago. All the plans I thought I’d had for my life crumbled in weeks but The Most High God has restored everything I thought I was losing 10fold and more importantly He’s given me peace that surpasses understanding which can only come from Him.
Thank you for sharing beloved and I wish you nothing but continued peace, gratitude and abundant blessings!!! 🤍🙏🏽✨
@@NurseSnow2U 🙏 thank you. May all the good that you wish others, be granted back to you as well.
The problem you did is to move to different States without good papers, like if you had already started Ausbuilding und may be wanted to change to a different city ,they could have verlanger your Visa . This time is hard in Germany because Kenyans pple are bin targeted, when someone is here nd not doing anything, they are bin deported.
Somethings are not adding up here 😢 , cz as a family reunion and your mum was around you were under her care , and living here legally getting your stay is not hard ! I’m sorry though for that bad experience
When you turn 18, you are considered as an adult and deal with you individually,it has nothing to do with your mother's status here in Germany
I have not followed her story apart from this video, but I agree, something is not adding up with her story. There is also no law that says once you turn 18 you should live on your own and leave your parents house. She is only telling what she want us to hear, which is ok. I am Namibian, living in Germany too. 🤔 I guess she just wanted to live on her own and missed some procedures along the way.
@@lindageraldine5980no when u come here under age ur under ur mum,when u finish the shule ur getting uberfriested atomatically,i come with kids now thy have that,she come here when she is already 18,and that is the truth
I dont understand if you went through family reunion,it's the easiest way to get uberfreistat.
There is something not adding up here.
Is there something you did ?
This young lady mentioned that from the start, she never liked Germany 🇩🇪.
So let me say her manifestation came to pass.So let her keep entertaining viewers with stories that don't add up.
Some of us here in these European or Africa who have been to these countries know there may be other sides of this story.
Humblest take my dear; Make peace with your mum, no matter what.
I just watched you on LNN podcast and i decided to subscribe. Be strong wish you success ❤
Hey, i listened to this today. You will make it. Watch this in a years time..🎉🎉🎉
Your story is soo inspiring
Hard to stomach that,Mungu akupee nguvu tu na whatever will happen i believe its for good,i believe in moments like this is when God reveals his power time tumefika mwisho,but honestly ni painful
You are strong girl you will make it.karibu Kenya
All shall be well! Thanks for sharing.
I love your courage, may God give you strength 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Why Not try the new law , the Chanceaufenthallt Gesetz that was passed in November.
I also came to Austria with mum and I hated it . .. 23 years later, I’m still here, got my baby, she’s just turned 18, an adult !!! I went through all this school issues and language barriers ! My mum did all the paper work coz I was still underage, and less than a year later, I got the citizenship!! That was my luck ! My mum and I are not friends at all.. issues issues, endless issues since I joined her here those 23 years back. Anyway, enjoy Kenya !!!
@geranienbaumlol.. did I state that I hate it ?? 😂😂😂 Haki watu !
Kenyans love there country sorry for what happened to u ❤️💯 never too late still can continue with ur journey and succeed in life
Germany is the most stressful country for migrants...everyone story is different and takes different journey thank God and accept 🙏
U go where u r loved!! U will succeed
Hi beautiful.. just subscribed. I saw you from Lynn Ngugi show
From Lynn ngugi, much love sis
This is so heartbreaking. Always go where you feel loved. There’s hate everywhere but some places are more bearable to live. Might be best to go back home to Kenya or another part of Germany that might be more tolerable.
If you choose to go back home It might be hard to adjust financially at first but you’ll be fine. You’ll meet Family & friends & it will be like an adventure. But heads up it’s not easy always living with people so the faster you get on your own will be better.
And if you’re still not happy, explore options it’s a wide world you bound to fit in somewhere. Thanks for being so transparent💕
All the best beautiful. Love from Southa❤
Sorry I visited Germany in 1998 they kept me for 6 hours at there immigration I know what you are going through iam a Kenyan ,
Keep doing youtube and grow your channel. You will be successful.
Sending love❤️ Mental health first. Good luck to you and your baby
Thankyou soo much dear🙏🏽♥️♥️
The 80 percent who follow you are Kenyans we love you,our people who are in broad because you show us things we have never seen we are supportive as Kenyans shine our country plz🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
If you come to Europe you must stay at one place for 5 years to get a stettlement Status then you are free to move to another place but not out of the Country bcuz every Country has his own rules.
Mimi pia nilipitia the same Problem when i came to Swiss the nikaanza kumove around bila kujua in some places i was refused kuji register nikandelea hivyo mpaka nikapata mzungu wa Liechtenstein akanioa but nikachelewa ku apply Passport after divorce nikakua tena treathen to be deported but then i got sick hawakuweza kuni deport wakanipa resident ID ina expire every year but after 3 years i can apply for stettlement Status. Huku ulaya kuna sheria tricky sana kama hujui unaeza kuwa deported very fast. Pole dear trust in God and be honest kwa wazungu watakuelewa and everything will work in your favour.
@happyme8505 If you have a job there's no problem you can move anywhere you want but I was moving around jobless at that time
Ata with a job its not good to move move from Kanton to Kanton, every kanton move =0 years, you have to start from year 0.
@marthaauma7503 exactly what I mean dear
I am dating a Nigerian too,his a good man very good man but to be honest once you are involved with them be ready for anything coming ur way,yes ppl tend to view them being of bad character,i live in Dubai have dated this man for 3years but am not 💯 sure i can agree to get married to him.Takr care i was going thru ur videos ur search an amazing person and beautiful.Take care of yourself ❤❤❤you will go far
I have a baby wit one and I never included his name in her birthcert coz I knew getting a passport for her will be problematic for me
@@nyongesassafespacenss3518Why didn't you include his name?
I felt like I was watching Netflix 😂wueh aki I'm just proud of you ✨✨
Ati nextflix😂.thankyou dear🌹❤️❤️
Go to IOM Germany offices near you...
They will give you Pesa YA kuanza bizna Kenya and Buy your ticket back home..
Don't be scared of starting up.utakua TU Sawa.
I cried watching this...I can understand your pain
Awwww it’s okay,everything happens for a reason ❤️
any black man or black woman in Western we are not free we're going through alots of discrimination all that things you said it is all facts 💯 Africans people in Western it is only God knows and he protect us,not only in Germany no it is all European countries USA more madness we're here just to complete our missions back home but in Western there is no life full of racism openly,so i wish you all the best back home my sister your already seen how the wazungu are they
God will see you through ❤
I wish you all the best Stemy
come back to Kenya and trust the process gal.
take a piece of paper and manifest whatever you want beggining , prioritize as you manifest and trust
everything will unfold
Being deported isn’t the worst thing that could happen to someone. It can be a blessing in disguise. God is in control.
Dada, my heart aches for you, I truly empathize with immigration challenges and I’m so sorry. It’s crazy to me how these government employees treat black foreigners. God give her favor and a miracle.
Here in Spain if you are foreigner and no document.. you have a baby.. after 1 year the baby gets a citizenship.. and you can get a 5 year document because of your child
Yes I know someone who is staying there because of her child,she went there illegally
I love you just keep fighting with your daughter it's well dear ok❤
Come back to Kenya you can get a very good job as a German speaker
Greetings young mother go back home with your daughter ❤️ where she will be around your people I live in the west Saint Croix vi be strong peace and blessings
When you travel to Europe run away from Naigerians..😮😮 themselves they never have proper documentation
Wow great video! Thanks for sharing!
Next time DO NOT and I repeat DO NOT date or have sex with any NIGERIAN. Most of these Nigerians are good at rituals and sex is a good avenue to snatch your destiny. All this rejection you experiencing is because of that. My close friend once told me she used to make six figure salary and had good life until the day she decided to date those Nigerians thats how her life turned into South. She lost her job and went into depressions. She was able to comeback after doing deliverance prayers..Anway now that this has happened go back to your drawing board and look for a serious pastor and get deliverance. You experiencing a spirit of rejection and if you beat it your life will be very smooth. Wishing you all the best
True
This is why i said no to sex not only Nigerian even in kenya we have this kind of men
Wasn’t she already having this issues before meeting a Nigerian? Was any of your relatives used for ritual by a Nigerian?
Bold of you to judge 230+ million people.
I see you Kenyans are perfect!
Oh the bullsh@t y’all believe.. sigh! 😅
This is a very stressful situation, your foster family should have made sure you had a Niederlassung permit after 4 years in Germany. This country has immigration burocracy you should strictly follow. And if you do, you can became German in less than 7 years. I am sorry to mention this, but being involved with a Nigerian in Germany is the worst thing you can ever do, they are never authentic. The week your baby was born, you could have processed a "Vaterschaftserkennung' super important!!! This all went wrong because your boyfriend had no genuine documents.
When you are in possession of a temporary stay permit, you can not move from county to county in Germany, you have to appy before moving, i have 2 language Schools and i help students relocate. Most of what you did was against the immigration laws. Applying in Frankfurt and then move to East Germany to your Nigerian boyfriend, do the Anmeldung and then Düsseldorf foreign office? Very illegal. So much trouble could have been avoided.
But trust me, God has helped you return to Kenya for a good reason, its my 28th year in Germany and i am also returning in Zambia 🇿🇲, but not deported coz i am German 😂, Africa is the best❤
Are able to help me relocate to Germany? How can I reach u?
@@VdjPBoy did you voluntarily exit Germany upon recieving a deportation oder, without a ten year ban? if so, then relocating is possible, either through an educational program, blue card, or marriage.I will sells my schools and I plan to exit Germany by 2027.. completely..
@@we_croods sorry, I hve never been to Germany
@@VdjPBoy aah okay...
You explained very well
Wakae na Germany yao. Welcome back home our dota. Your roots are Kenyan. Kaa nyumbani
Everything will be okay dear
You kinda have a Nigerian accent. Anyways, sending all my love ❤️
I noticed that too 😅😅😅😅 she's being hanging around with the Naija man for long to get his accent
Sis it’s sad but home is best
The most stressful office in germany is foreign office
Yes for real🤦🏽♀️
East west home is the best. We just have to imagine what would happen today if you are told to go home. We go abroad to get greener pastures. Don't mix up or hook up with bad people
You are such a vibe❤
OMG....So SAD to hear what u and ur baby gal went thru.......
Stemy iam in Kenya and think what you are saying is true..push hard to service and you will be proud
Praktikum is attachement
That thing is Ausweis /ID
I'm really sorry to hear of all the useless stress they put you through. If you have time to travel at some point look at the Ruhrgebiet. It's the most densely populated part of Germany. It's full of long time foreigners that came to work a few generations ago and new foreigners that are still coming. In the city's there I feel way more welcome as a foreigner than in other parts of Germany (I'm white so my experience is different, but here I feel okay. I can pick up my phone and talk in another language without thinking)
Could you explain again what the problem with your visa was? Why didn't they prolong it? Only because you moved? Would that happen if you move from one city to the other or only from state to state?
(i'm helping out foreigners here and first hand experience is always appreciated)
I actually live in NRW ,I moved from Schleswig to Frankfurt.Frankfurt are the ones that gave me a deportation without any reason,lawyer said MAYBE because I moved from one state to the other,but Schleswig said I am allowed.even my lawyer doesn’t understand why they gave me the deportation. My current city they are just continuing with what Frankfurt started
It’s so good to know that you are helping foreigners out. Still good people in the world. I try to keep that in mind when I watch heartbreaking experiences like this
Ohhhh, I got emotional by listening to her story
Iam so sorry my dear 💖
Ooh my that was alot to handle sis, hugs
Where’s your mum now and at what age did you move to Germany?
Am so sorry about everything you went through, there has been lots of instability In your personal life. Is your mom still in Germany? Moving from state to state was one problem, you should have gone to German offices dealing with immigration stuff not Kenyan one they can mess you up. You had a chance to make a foundation but you also threw it away I understand care giving etc were not your dream jobs, they were small but I know so many people who started from small and eventually got residence permits. You had big dreams but just a little patience would have made a big difference. These jobs are small but they hold so much value when you trying to stay in a country like Germany because they always need people to do it. Germany is very strict when it comes to paper work, just something small and they send you packing 🧳...Anyhow, milk is spilt and that is that. Come back home and start a fresh. It's not easy but you will be just fine. I hope you can make peace with your mom I don't think whatever happened between you two is unforgivable. Find healing and keep going for you and for that kid.
By the way I love Germany a lot. Part of my family members and some friends are there and I visit often. I find Germans ok. It depends where you are and what you do
My friend deportation is the best come back ul love it
Sorry that you had to go through all that but l think you experienced alot of Racism because you lived in East Germany.there is too much Racism that side,l live in Frankfurt 10years now and l have not experienced any Racism yet may be because Frankfurt is international,but l am sure there some racists in Frankfurt.So proud of you for telling your story and your so intelligent l am sure you will come out successful in Kenya
Woi iam soo sorry for this I wish I mate you before deportation iam here and working in Dusseldorf pole haki hawa wajeru wacha tu 😢
Team Lynn .
God loves girl
Toa hizo vitu mbovu kwa mapua. You're very beautiful without
How are they affecting you? Or anyone else for that matter? Ni swali tu.siulizi kwa ubaya.
Aaahh!! Nigerian? You can travel to Lagos, it will be easier to live and work there..
I'm German, I've been living on my sailing boat for 25 years and I've been sailing around the world. I visited more than 70 countries. I've never seen a country that didn't have immigration laws. Skin color never mattered. Africans always believe that if they are not allowed to stay there, it has to do with racism because they are black. This view is wrong. Almost every country i visited allowed me to stay for a certain period of time and then i had to leave the country. The idea that i wouldn't be allowed to stay longer because i have white skin never crossed my mind
And that right there is white privilege. Do you have any black friends living in predominantly white countries? Ask them what they go through and you'll be surprised. Yes we have to follow rules and laws ofcourse but they're stricter on black people. We just have to accept the injustice in the world even if we don't partake.
Just because you've never exprienced an immigration laws problems, It doesn't mean others don't. It's her story not yours.
Whites are not treated the same as Africans .White privilege
You got a point. Where I live there quite a number of Europeans who struggle to get business permit,some are married and they still have to renew their alien IDs after 3 years. It's not easy anywhere
Staying In Germany isn’t easy, it’s the raciest country than any country 🥹🥹, it’s so damaging to stay here but because of job we keep on staying here 🙏🏿🙏🏿
I am going through the same problem
I love her spirit.
Stop calling a document a "THING" ..I guess Denmark has nearly the same rules as GERMANY? When you were sent away from yiur apartment by yhe landlord, immediately you should have reported at yhe commune to atleast cancel the previous address, to either a new one or woreva... Thats very important to avoid any of your letters from being sent there.. the authorities might have sent you a letters that would rang an alarm and enabled you to work on things before they got worse... I guess they sent (to the wrong address) coz you were no longer there to receive them, and looks likes you had no current address registered at them during that time.. its very wrong not to cancel previous addresses,, brings alot of doubt.. if they find out for isntance, that a couple that was separated got back together (and even living togther )but secretly wothout coming out clear,and still getting the amount like for ones that were still separated, its a crime.. anyways, take it easy and stop talking much about the mattter... Authority officals atimes visit these kinda plattforms and listen to what you have to say.. be careful what yiu say..take easy and slow.. things might actually work for the best of yiur interests...pray to God , pray ...pray...it is well 🙏... Its gone be fine... I wish you well. Much care and hugs from me though we dont know each other in person
I totally agree. You have to follow the right procedure to avoid unnecessary problems. This is mostly a problem you could have avoided if you took the time to be well informed and follow the law. Hope you find a solution and as advised stop talking about an issue that's in court. You should be quiet and humble because the reality is you were in the wrong the least you should do is hope things work out and do everything they ask you instead of trying to use your situation to make yourself famous on UA-cam. First get out of the situation before you go public with such a sensitive issue.
Am happy you aired..this .people think abroad its easy like eating pap.😂
Pole..i noticed your accent is almost Nigerian. Dont worry things will be better. One door closes and 2 more opens
I heard your story at Lynn's
U just gained a new subscriber gal...can we be friends?...i like the flow of your story❤❤🎉 hugs mama you are strong #🇷🇴🇰🇪
All i can say for this vedio cause i have been your great fun is everything happens for a reason and every down fall comes with a rise you are a strong stem and mother to your chilld be positive and all will be well 💞💜
Thankyou sooo much for the support🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
Its true if you move to another city ,you will have to renew it there,problem will be the appointment mybe atter two month
I wish you could have waited to renew your papers before moving anyway there’s a reason for everything sending you love ❤️ and light 💡
This is what people did not tell u , renew all document first and then move to anywhere you want , the German government will not chase paper trails for anyone..
I cried your the most strongest person i have ever seen 💯♥️♥️bless you
Aww 🥺🌹,Thankyou sooo much🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
Wow watching this now , girl you will make it 💯%💪
Hugs ❤️❤️
You are a gem, you will go places.❤❤