Huh. I also don't think I've ever heard my mom speak to me like that... I have a good relationship with and am very grateful for her, but it's just not her style. ...I'm just gonna go chew on that revelation until I'm a bit less teary, I think,
Yeah! It was super relatable. But my question is, why does no one get a valet stand/clothing rack/clothes hanger for the bedroom?? That has always been the rule in my house! Same as a chair, but looks tidier and can take up less space. My partner hasn't got one and he leaves his clothes all over the bed, which annoys me so so much. Just get a wall-mounted hanger for used clothes, they're not expensive!
It's also classic ADHD. I operate exactly like Jessica for exactly the same reason. And my girlfriend is always the one who has to sniff my clothes to make sure they're not smelly before I might wear them after they spent a week crumpled up on a chair. Or on the floor. More often than not I just go: nah, somehow it's too crinkly now. Can't wear that again. Into the wash it goes. A proper rack might actually help...
If I'm not putting it in the wash yet I probably just keep wearing it, unless I'm uncomfortable with it for some reason (ex: too hot) and then I'll take it off and either put it in the wash or put it on my bed or chair for later.
I have a clothes pile hanging over my bed end, and thankfully I have a support worker once a week, so we sometimes use that time to sort through it all. And yeah, sometimes the things that you thought were clean enough do not pass the sniff test when you come back to them 😅 I'll rehang things I've worn that weren't against my skin if they smell fine (like shirts worn as jackets, skirts worn with a t-shirt tucked in at the waist)
@@helenm1085 if it doesn't bother you that's okay! And I too use things I haven't worn against my skin for longer. My advice is to let the not-clean-not-dirty clothes in a place where they can be aired a bit, it helps them a lot, just like bed sheets really. Anyhow, do what works best for you! I couldn't deal with clothes on my bed, I wake up every morning with my sheets and blankets all to sides, even after cold winter nights
My mom is dying and, emotional stuff aside, it's physically taxing and thankless. Hearing a complete stranger who is younger than me say she's proud shouldn't have hit as hard as it did. Thanks, Mum.
"Hello darling, its me mama :)" I have a great mom and we have a wonderful relationship but that still brought TEARS to my eyes, my mom lives a 20 hour drive away from me 😭
When you both were saying that Roo didn't want you to cuddle or hold hands, I chuckled. Apparently when I was 8 months of age, I hadn't quite figured out crawling and definitely couldn't walk. But one day my parents hugged and kissed (on the other side of the room) while I was playing on the floor and apparently I got so jealous I jumped up and ran over to separate them, because only I was allowed hugs and kisses. (🤷toddler logic I guess) So I went from scooting on my butt to running to stop my mum and dad giving each other a hug and kiss. 🤣
More direct Mom talks please. As a first time momma myself with a very complicated relationship with my own mom... I needed that. I'm almost ashamed at how much I needed that. You two are so wonderful 💕 💖
so i haven't been doing well mentally and i'm sleep deprived as shit, and jessie's little mum speech caught me so off guard i immediately began sobbing😭😭
I'm from Brazil, and the word for mother here is Mãe, but I'm also from the northwest region of Brazil, and is very common to little kids to call their moms "mainha", because it is used as the diminutive of "mãe" in the region. So this is how I have called my mom my entire life, I think is quite cute, specially said with our accent
i think it makes perfect sense that if there's a high rate of celiac, there would also be a greater awareness and amount of options for other dietary restrictions. mostly because celiac is so prone to cross-contamination. when i worked in a kitchen doing all of the dietary needs options, it was a lot easier and more intuitive to make options for multiple allergens when you already have a sterile environment that's designed to be completely reset
holyfuuuck the "im proud of you" segment... i didn't know i needed that but it brought tears to my eyes and goosbumps and made me feel appreciated af . thank you
Same, I'm just getting from one day/week to the next, hoping things will improve 2nd trimester. Here trying to rest after a tough morning being told I'm proud of you & all your hard work.. 😅
Jessica, thank you so much. Although the request wasn't from me, the part where you were speaking from the point of view of a loving and supportive mom saying how proud you are of your child was beautiful. Thank you so much again.
I had to stop at 6:20 to contain myself. Jessica, you don't know how much your sincere mom praise & love means to me today, 6 months to the day after my mom died. Thank you for making me feel so loved❤
I love Jessica’s “I’m on it!” and then the cutting to her to say how proud she is! Brilliant! Couldn’t stop smiling! 😃😃 Also, I love how interested you both got in the “quick fire” ice cream question! So cute! 🍦🍦
You know, I have a wonderful relationship with my Mom, and she’s told me she’s proud of me countless times, but your segment was so powerful and so touching, I still teared up. I can’t imagine what it meant to someone who does not have (and may never have had) someone to say that to them. Your kindness and compassion are part of what makes me always come back to this channel (that, and your relationship with your wife!).
Jessica, your “I’m proud of you “ speech was beautiful! ❤ Thank you and Claudia for the laughs about the clothing rambles and about Rupert. 🤣 Both of you are amazing! 🙂
I am absoluetly with Jessica on clothes being worn and not belonging to the closet until its washed. Untill then that clothes are gonna be either on my chair or end of my bed. And my mum really hates this habit or rule(?) of mine.
I have a really support mum who is always telling me how proud of me she is and everything, but weirdly enough, hearing Jessica tell me how proud of me she is was so comforting and soothing, especially since today is the 8 year anniversary of my dad’s passing.
"Hello, Darling, it's Mama" Jessica, i am forever grateful that i found your youtube channel. I am a 34 yr old bisexual, hypermobile, late diagnosed adhd/autistic woman with medical trauma who doesnt get out much. I love you and I'm so proud of YOU for the effort and love you put into everything you do. *hugs*
That “proud mum” segment absolutely needs to be made into a video of its own so that we can play it when needed. Pretty please make it into a video! 🙏🏻🥺
Honestly -- I love all the different types of videos you do... but this one was just really fun -- seeing the two of you laughing together made me smile so much my face hurts a bit 😂 (I have long covid -- even my facial muscles ache and are tired, but this video was totally worth it)... and that proud mama moment Jessica -- it needs a warning! I didn't have tissue close by! 🥹 Thank you for taking the time to make this one... ❤
Today I learned that theaters in England serve gourmet ginger ice cream while over here in the midwest United States, we drink artificially flavored slush through a straw 😂
I was NOT ready to be validated and told you were proud of me! I tell friends and family that all the time, but damn do I need to hear that too! 😩😭 Thank you, truly! ❤️❤
Okay, I've been a fan for a while, but I never expected to feel such validation and boost in esteem from a segment from Jessica as I'm a 50yr old man!!!!!
Thank you for making me cry happy tears 😢 Please post a clip of just you saying how proud you are, need to save that and listen to it daily and send it to all of my friends 🥰
The part where you say you are proud was lovely. I don't have my mum because I'm estranged, won't go into it here. But that was just what I needed to hear. Thank you❤
Wow, when Jessica faced the camera directly to tell us how proud she is of us I actually teared up and was overwhelmed!!! I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear that right now. I appreciate the energy sent out into the world to fill the holes left behind by people who couldn’t love us ❤
I am really lucky to have incredibly supportive parents. But I still cried like a baby at Jessica proud of you talk. It something I have never heard from my parents even though I know they are. Rupert is blessed to have you as parents
I think you guys are such wonderful mothers to your son. Community that is safe, in that they listen and take the time to understand you, is hard to find and I think it’s important the parents do the work to know that the other adults they let into their community are safe and will treat the child with respect and compassion.
I can't believe I just cried when she said she was "proud of me"...thank you, Jessica. I mean, my mom is great and she tries her best, but she would never say that to me, so that hit really hard
I'm old enough to be grandmother, but that 'Im so proud of you clip's hit me hard. I immediately started crying. That might be a clip a lot of people need to have saved and be able to listen to over and over again. And btw, not only are your lesbian mom's proud of you, but since I'm a mom and aunt at a grandparent age, I'll add that this mom/ aunt/ grandmother/ friend/ sister/cousin etc is proud of you too.
Jess, just designate a place for your half worn cloths you can hang then in a separate cubberd or fold them into a drawer/ basket etc then they have a neat place to live, as an ADHDer this works for me about half the time which is incredible improvement 😅😊
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4:58 I teared up! 😭 I think everyone deserves a caring, soft-spoken British 'mum' to tell you how proud she is for doing your best.
I was surprised that it moved me so much.
I'm just trying to watch wholesome lesbian moms being dorky. Suddenly, I'm being attacked by feeling validation.
*crying* ❤
I know right?! Now I’m sobbing 😭 that was so touching.❤
Oh god that hit hard
what the hell I wasn't prepared for the emotional validation-attack
I’m not crying. I’m not. I’m 😭
I'm absolutely crying
It was way too intense for me lol but I think that was intentional haha
The tone shift is everything! 😆 I was damn near about to cry and then we're back to Claudia's randomness 🥰
So beautiful.
I was today years old when I realized I’ve never heard my mother speak to me the way Mama Jess just did. Thank you so much for this!
Huh. I also don't think I've ever heard my mom speak to me like that... I have a good relationship with and am very grateful for her, but it's just not her style. ...I'm just gonna go chew on that revelation until I'm a bit less teary, I think,
@@hopesetlock right there with you! Sending hugs.
The used clothes meltdown was pretty hilarious.
Yeah! It was super relatable. But my question is, why does no one get a valet stand/clothing rack/clothes hanger for the bedroom?? That has always been the rule in my house! Same as a chair, but looks tidier and can take up less space. My partner hasn't got one and he leaves his clothes all over the bed, which annoys me so so much. Just get a wall-mounted hanger for used clothes, they're not expensive!
It's also classic ADHD. I operate exactly like Jessica for exactly the same reason. And my girlfriend is always the one who has to sniff my clothes to make sure they're not smelly before I might wear them after they spent a week crumpled up on a chair. Or on the floor. More often than not I just go: nah, somehow it's too crinkly now. Can't wear that again. Into the wash it goes. A proper rack might actually help...
If I'm not putting it in the wash yet I probably just keep wearing it, unless I'm uncomfortable with it for some reason (ex: too hot) and then I'll take it off and either put it in the wash or put it on my bed or chair for later.
I have a clothes pile hanging over my bed end, and thankfully I have a support worker once a week, so we sometimes use that time to sort through it all. And yeah, sometimes the things that you thought were clean enough do not pass the sniff test when you come back to them 😅
I'll rehang things I've worn that weren't against my skin if they smell fine (like shirts worn as jackets, skirts worn with a t-shirt tucked in at the waist)
@@helenm1085 if it doesn't bother you that's okay! And I too use things I haven't worn against my skin for longer. My advice is to let the not-clean-not-dirty clothes in a place where they can be aired a bit, it helps them a lot, just like bed sheets really. Anyhow, do what works best for you! I couldn't deal with clothes on my bed, I wake up every morning with my sheets and blankets all to sides, even after cold winter nights
My mom is dying and, emotional stuff aside, it's physically taxing and thankless. Hearing a complete stranger who is younger than me say she's proud shouldn't have hit as hard as it did. Thanks, Mum.
My heart and support goes out to you. ❤ My mom was in at home hospice for 9 months. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever experienced.
My dad is dying of lung cancer and it's been very rough. I understand what you are going through and sending best wishes and support to you.
@@varalys_the_dark ❤️ It’s so hard. Sending you support.
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"Hello darling, its me mama :)" I have a great mom and we have a wonderful relationship but that still brought TEARS to my eyes, my mom lives a 20 hour drive away from me 😭
When you both were saying that Roo didn't want you to cuddle or hold hands, I chuckled. Apparently when I was 8 months of age, I hadn't quite figured out crawling and definitely couldn't walk. But one day my parents hugged and kissed (on the other side of the room) while I was playing on the floor and apparently I got so jealous I jumped up and ran over to separate them, because only I was allowed hugs and kisses. (🤷toddler logic I guess)
So I went from scooting on my butt to running to stop my mum and dad giving each other a hug and kiss. 🤣
More direct Mom talks please. As a first time momma myself with a very complicated relationship with my own mom... I needed that. I'm almost ashamed at how much I needed that. You two are so wonderful 💕 💖
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i'm already crying, more of these r gonna break me😂
so i haven't been doing well mentally and i'm sleep deprived as shit, and jessie's little mum speech caught me so off guard i immediately began sobbing😭😭
thank u jessie
I'm from Brazil, and the word for mother here is Mãe, but I'm also from the northwest region of Brazil, and is very common to little kids to call their moms "mainha", because it is used as the diminutive of "mãe" in the region. So this is how I have called my mom my entire life, I think is quite cute, specially said with our accent
Not me getting teary eyed at jessies "i'm proud of you" monologue😢 that was so sweet❤
i think it makes perfect sense that if there's a high rate of celiac, there would also be a greater awareness and amount of options for other dietary restrictions. mostly because celiac is so prone to cross-contamination. when i worked in a kitchen doing all of the dietary needs options, it was a lot easier and more intuitive to make options for multiple allergens when you already have a sterile environment that's designed to be completely reset
holyfuuuck the "im proud of you" segment... i didn't know i needed that but it brought tears to my eyes and goosbumps and made me feel appreciated af . thank you
I literally teared up listening to Jessica’s answer about how proud of the person she is. I tried very hard to take it to heart.
I’m pregnant and it’s been really hard in the first trimester so Jessica telling me she’s proud of me genuinely made me cry 😭
I'm not pregnant, but me too 😭❤️
Same, I'm just getting from one day/week to the next, hoping things will improve 2nd trimester. Here trying to rest after a tough morning being told I'm proud of you & all your hard work.. 😅
Jessica, thank you so much. Although the request wasn't from me, the part where you were speaking from the point of view of a loving and supportive mom saying how proud you are of your child was beautiful. Thank you so much again.
Omg Jessica, you are going to make people cry with that "I'm proud of you speech."
I had to stop at 6:20 to contain myself. Jessica, you don't know how much your sincere mom praise & love means to me today, 6 months to the day after my mom died. Thank you for making me feel so loved❤
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oh wow... sometimes you dont know how much you need to hear something till you hear it.
watching on my lunch break and started crying at my desk.
wow
I love Jessica’s “I’m on it!” and then the cutting to her to say how proud she is! Brilliant! Couldn’t stop smiling! 😃😃 Also, I love how interested you both got in the “quick fire” ice cream question! So cute! 🍦🍦
I did not expect to sob during this video. Thanks for saying the words I needed to hear.
I cannot stop crying after watching your direct motherly affirmation talk. Thank you for recording this segment, it's very soothing to hear.
You know, I have a wonderful relationship with my Mom, and she’s told me she’s proud of me countless times, but your segment was so powerful and so touching, I still teared up. I can’t imagine what it meant to someone who does not have (and may never have had) someone to say that to them. Your kindness and compassion are part of what makes me always come back to this channel (that, and your relationship with your wife!).
100% agree!
@Jessica, i am with you 100% on the clothes needing an inbetween spot! 😂💪💃✌️ darlings 🤗💗
I adore Claudia, her presence is always so positive and I love her little rants
Dammit Jessica, now I'm crying, I didn't realise I needed that.
I absolutely broke into tears when you said how proud you were “of me”.
great now you made me cry with the proud response
💯 😭 ❤
The how proud of you moment from Jessica was just so beautiful, made me tear up and it was like a warm emotional hug
I just cried, but thank you I needed that
5:17 I needed that 😢 thank you😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I cried at the “I’m proud of you” part - really needed to hear that, thank you ❤
Jessica with that proud mum speech 🥺😭 as someone who has gone non contact with their mother I really needed that ❤️❤️❤️
5:04 suddenly crying, wasn't prepared for that
Not me crying about a person I don't know on the internet telling me they know I'm trying my hardest...
You two are absolutely amazing!! You are wonderful Mothers and role models!! 😊🙏❤️🇨🇦🏳️🌈
Jessica, your “I’m proud of you “ speech was beautiful! ❤ Thank you and Claudia for the laughs about the clothing rambles and about Rupert. 🤣 Both of you are amazing! 🙂
Jessica, you made me cry when you told me how proud you are of me. Thank you!
I am absoluetly with Jessica on clothes being worn and not belonging to the closet until its washed. Untill then that clothes are gonna be either on my chair or end of my bed. And my mum really hates this habit or rule(?) of mine.
Don't know who requested the pep talk, but thank you. Made me cry. I needed that
Italy was amazing for food allergies. I was served my own pizza dairy free. It was delicious!
I really needed that encouraging message today. Thank you so much! 😊
I have a really support mum who is always telling me how proud of me she is and everything, but weirdly enough, hearing Jessica tell me how proud of me she is was so comforting and soothing, especially since today is the 8 year anniversary of my dad’s passing.
"Hello, Darling, it's Mama"
Jessica, i am forever grateful that i found your youtube channel. I am a 34 yr old bisexual, hypermobile, late diagnosed adhd/autistic woman with medical trauma who doesnt get out much. I love you and I'm so proud of YOU for the effort and love you put into everything you do. *hugs*
4:58 omg .... I felt that in my heart ❤ thank you, I needed that
Everyone's talking about the proud speech, meanwhile I'm howling at the IMMEDIATE "✋ I got this one babes"
I love the intro tangents! Never change.
A video of “POV: I’m your mom telling you how proud I am of you and how loved you are” I think would do so well and touch the hearts of so many people
Oh my good, I'm crying ❤ your words were really beautiful
That “proud mum” segment absolutely needs to be made into a video of its own so that we can play it when needed.
Pretty please make it into a video! 🙏🏻🥺
5:04 ;_; i almost cry.... thanks mom...
Omg I didn’t know I needed it but you made me tear up with that very nice validation speech, I think I need to sleep
Didn’t think i was gonna cry today but here I am ugly crying at mama Jessie telling me she’s proud of me
I got one sentance into Jessica saying she's proud and I'm sobbing
Honestly -- I love all the different types of videos you do... but this one was just really fun -- seeing the two of you laughing together made me smile so much my face hurts a bit 😂 (I have long covid -- even my facial muscles ache and are tired, but this video was totally worth it)... and that proud mama moment Jessica -- it needs a warning! I didn't have tissue close by! 🥹 Thank you for taking the time to make this one... ❤
I'm not talking with my mother for years and hearing this literally heal something in me ❤
Honestly, I feel like a lot of us (including me) needed the words of encouragement in these times, so thank you so much
Today I learned that theaters in England serve gourmet ginger ice cream while over here in the midwest United States, we drink artificially flavored slush through a straw 😂
I was NOT ready to be validated and told you were proud of me! I tell friends and family that all the time, but damn do I need to hear that too! 😩😭 Thank you, truly! ❤️❤
😭 joining crying club, thanks for the kind words Jessica ❤
Okay, I've been a fan for a while, but I never expected to feel such validation and boost in esteem from a segment from Jessica as I'm a 50yr old man!!!!!
I teared up listening to you being proud of me, didn't know I needed it, thank you so much!
Can we please petition for a reel/short of Jessica’s proud mumma speech? We all need to be able to watch that bit on demand
Thank you for making me cry happy tears 😢
Please post a clip of just you saying how proud you are, need to save that and listen to it daily and send it to all of my friends 🥰
The part where you say you are proud was lovely. I don't have my mum because I'm estranged, won't go into it here. But that was just what I needed to hear. Thank you❤
Not me sitting alone in my bedroom bursting into tears as you said you’re proud of us 😅 that was beautiful
Was not expecting to tear up but thank you
Sidebar Jessie is making me tear up 🥹🥹🥹
Made me cry with that second (third?) question
Aww, Jessica! My own mother and grandmother have both recently told me they're proud of me, but that still made me cry!
Love the free flowing, generalized q&a. It’s nice to see your individual input and the chemistry between you two 💜
Wow, when Jessica faced the camera directly to tell us how proud she is of us I actually teared up and was overwhelmed!!! I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear that right now. I appreciate the energy sent out into the world to fill the holes left behind by people who couldn’t love us ❤
I'm literally tearing up, I've been going through a lot lately, and have been a bit isolated, and really needed to hear that.
Jessica and Claudia thank you so much for the encouragement and thoughtful words of emotional support. *Happy tears*
I was not prepared for that level of validation and support and now my face is wet.
I don't remember a parent ever telling me they were proud of me and that caught me off guard a little. But very, very appreciated ❤😭
Didn't expect to start crying when you told us you were proud of us. Wow, that was a surprise. ❤
The "i'm proud of you" message made me tear up. Didn't realise how much I needed to hear it
I absolutely LOVE watching you two 'discuss' Jessica's clothing and the evil clothes horse .. I think because I am exactly the same as Jessica.
5:28 For real crying. 💜
I was not prepared to burst into tears. This was a lovely video thank you.
I am really lucky to have incredibly supportive parents. But I still cried like a baby at Jessica proud of you talk.
It something I have never heard from my parents even though I know they are. Rupert is blessed to have you as parents
Oh my goodness I had to pause the video and say that your "I'm so proud of you" part made me tear up!! Thank you
I think you guys are such wonderful mothers to your son. Community that is safe, in that they listen and take the time to understand you, is hard to find and I think it’s important the parents do the work to know that the other adults they let into their community are safe and will treat the child with respect and compassion.
I need that "I'm proud of you" segment as its own video and saved on my phone. *wipes tear away*
😂😂 Jessica has a flooredrobe like ADHD Love😂
I can't believe I just cried when she said she was "proud of me"...thank you, Jessica. I mean, my mom is great and she tries her best, but she would never say that to me, so that hit really hard
Dear Jessica, you make a loving mum [mumma] to everyone watching on the socials.
Oh my gosh you telling me you are proud made me cry real tears. Thank you 💕
Breyers zero sugar vanilla, choc and Neapolitan is great! I love you and your family...happy to see your video posted today!❤
The caring mother roleplay goes so hard omg, how sweet 😭
I’m 100% with Jessica re the briefly-worn clothes thing, found that very relatable 😆
I'm old enough to be grandmother, but that 'Im so proud of you clip's hit me hard. I immediately started crying. That might be a clip a lot of people need to have saved and be able to listen to over and over again. And btw, not only are your lesbian mom's proud of you, but since I'm a mom and aunt at a grandparent age, I'll add that this mom/ aunt/ grandmother/ friend/ sister/cousin etc is proud of you too.
5:25 Yes, I'm crying. I SO needed to hear this! Thank you, Jessica!
I agree with your Clean-to-dirty clothes scale.
Jessica's affirmations directly into the camera were genuinely heartwarming and helpful. THANK YOU!!! 🙂
I lost my mam in 2008, so super took your message to heart, much needed, thank you ❤ (same back to you too 😊)
Jess, just designate a place for your half worn cloths you can hang then in a separate cubberd or fold them into a drawer/ basket etc then they have a neat place to live, as an ADHDer this works for me about half the time which is incredible improvement 😅😊
In the southern US, I say "Mama". Bought travel insurance for my niece's 2020 destination wedding. Got every dime back.
5:10 damnit Jessica, I didn't click on this video to have my heart shredded into a million pieces and then lovingly put back together again. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜