From Skid Row to Bachelor's Degree in Social Work | Charlotte

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  • Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
  • Charlotte (diagnosed w/ Borderline Personality Disorder) describes some of her experience working her way back up from living in a homeless shelter to getting her degree in social work.
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  • @cartwheelsinthezendo
    @cartwheelsinthezendo Рік тому +69

    So happy to see Charlotte again and to hear that she is having success in her life. Also happy to see that she was placed into a normal sized chair for this interview! Congratulations Charlotte on your degree and your hard win successes.

    • @monica737
      @monica737 Рік тому

      🤣

    • @CHAILIFE
      @CHAILIFE Рік тому +5

      The comment about the chair is on point

    • @Yetipfote
      @Yetipfote Рік тому +2

      I liked the other chair better but funny comment!

    • @Taikyaa
      @Taikyaa Рік тому

      😂 those chairs were very nice tho lol

  • @tommylandbeach8049
    @tommylandbeach8049 Рік тому +28

    What a beautiful smile , I love Charlotte's voice. I'm so happy she finished school. It is so horrible what she's been through, but fantastic she emerged. Charlotte is still beautiful ! Stay well. You are an inspiration! your friend Tom

  • @witchinnn
    @witchinnn 9 місяців тому +11

    Honestly going on disability changed my life. I have bpd, bipolar 2, anxiety, depression, cptsd and former eating disorder. If I didn’t have income I was going to end up doing something very dumb. Yeaaaars of therapy and meds helped but having consistent income even though it’s not a lot, makes me grateful to be here. Rock bottom saves lives or ruins them. Thank you for sharing charlotte.

  • @trueasianmensch
    @trueasianmensch 9 місяців тому +13

    Great interviews with Charlotte as usual!
    Her resilience forged in the hottest fires of adversity is absolutely remarkable.
    Her healing inside and out is obvious and amazing. There is so much to learn from her being self aware and mindful. Her spirit and smile are incredibly endearing.

  • @alexisr5199
    @alexisr5199 Рік тому +17

    Really good to hear from her again. Hope she finds peace of mind moving forward in her life. She is so deserving.

  • @kevinchallender1879
    @kevinchallender1879 Рік тому +22

    I was just sitting down for my lunch break and was pulling up youtube to see what I wanted to watch, and was like I wish there was a new Charlotte video... I saw *posted 30 min ago*... What an amazing feeling! This looks like a heavy one though. Looking forward to hearing more about Charloette's story!

    • @kevinchallender1879
      @kevinchallender1879 Рік тому +3

      Yay! I am so happy for Charlotte! She is not only such an important voice in the Borderline education community but also now in the social work/mental health community!! I would love to see more videos on her discussing cases now with the three psychiatrists/psychologists she saw years ago!!! That could be a way to get a cool look at both the being in the chair to the other chair! :) Thank you too for posting these videos! They are so powerful.

  • @i.a.m.270
    @i.a.m.270 4 місяці тому +3

    Wishing you the best. I’m rooting for you. You deserve to be happy. We all do.

  • @aWilltoknow
    @aWilltoknow Рік тому +5

    I can’t tell you how much that smile at the end meant. Lovely to witness Charlotte’s journey. Cheering you on!!

  • @sweet2sourr
    @sweet2sourr Рік тому +10

    Oh my goodness. I’ve spent a lot of time in skid row and I come from the streets so it’s familiar.
    Picturing you down there is scary to think about based off the people down there. I’ve been watching your story for some time and I feel protective of you.
    Damn.

  • @keelannaasz6711
    @keelannaasz6711 10 місяців тому +3

    The only reason I was finally able to get into a good DBT program and really into recovery is because I was able to stay with relatives, even though I had a good job. I work in the affordable housing industry now. Thank you for sharing your story, You’re an inspiration!

  • @theouterplanet
    @theouterplanet Рік тому +5

    I remember her....Great Job Charlotte!!!

  • @AngelasAnythingShow
    @AngelasAnythingShow Рік тому +6

    charlotte doin the damn thing. thanks for sharing!

  • @dkmagos
    @dkmagos Рік тому +4

    darnit Charlotte you rock, thanks BN team!

  • @tadams2tone
    @tadams2tone Рік тому +4

    I was on and off homeless from 15-29. The main thing that pushed me into REALLY finding a way to fund DBT is my fear of becoming homeless once more. It would not be so easy now that I'm old and tired.
    As always, thank you for sharing your story.
    Edit: Okay, finished teh video. As a person who has always had issues taking care of themselves, I am really inspired by this.

  • @carnigoth
    @carnigoth Рік тому +16

    When I grow up, I want to be Charlotte
    edit: If the half joke flew over your head: no it's not /s. It refers to us struggling, regardless of age. It's not meant as literally growing up. A kudos to Charlotte for what she went through and how much she achieved regardless. I want to achieve the same some day.
    Bonus points if you caught a hint of identity disturbance often found in BPD

  • @2012Beckster
    @2012Beckster Рік тому +12

    I am awed by Charlotte, how hard she has worked at her life and her insight.

  • @charlie-kn5pb
    @charlie-kn5pb Рік тому +6

    Love these interviews with Charlotte, Happy to see she's been getting better

  • @realBkay
    @realBkay 2 дні тому

    I love Charlotte.
    I hope she is well.

  • @onyllindoro1361
    @onyllindoro1361 Рік тому +4

    What a courageous inspiring woman 😊

  • @dE3Lov
    @dE3Lov Рік тому +17

    Charlotte is a wonderful human being. Happy to see she is doing well.❤

  • @enaduran6480
    @enaduran6480 5 місяців тому +1

    Well I’m so happy for this beautiful lady.

  • @2ootSuite
    @2ootSuite Рік тому +2

    Yay! It’s Charlotte! Sounds like your victories AND your stumbles will make you more effective and compassionate helper. Congratulations on your SW studies. You are almost at the finish line!

  • @Ark15964
    @Ark15964 Рік тому +4

    Yeaaaaah Charlotte!!! I didn’t even watch the video yet, just love the title.

  • @soloman4547
    @soloman4547 6 місяців тому +1

    Hope everything is going well with Charlotte these days. I refer back to her interviews from time to time for understanding etc. All the best 🙏

  • @lesleymapstone1367
    @lesleymapstone1367 2 місяці тому

    Fantastic news Charlotte. So good to see you again!You are a true inspiration. Your determination to overcome the hurdles in your life that have held you in such a negative space for so long, is inspiring! You are a true role model. Thank-you for sharing your journey. ❤
    To Borderline Notes … thank-you to you too! I have followed you for a few years now. I love what you do and the way that you have presented your content. It’s been so interesting especially when trying to understand myself and how I fit in, in this world. Also being given an insight into the lives of others and how they navigate their life journey has been impactful. Listening to therapy sessions, as open and vulnerable for the therapist and client as it was, was very special. Thank-you to both parties for doing that! I continue to wish the very best for Charlotte and have no doubt that she is going to impact so many people in an incredibly powerful and positive way. Thank-you for the supportive role that you have played ( Borderline Notes) in Charlotte’s life.❤️❤️❤️

  • @sweet2sourr
    @sweet2sourr Рік тому +4

    “Housing first” yes!

  • @JoOneOone
    @JoOneOone Рік тому +1

    WE LOVE CHARLOTTE!! 🎉

  • @meFatuations
    @meFatuations Рік тому +1

    I could see the joy in your expressions. Way to go, you've do something significant and should be proud.

  • @indigogirl5172
    @indigogirl5172 Рік тому

    Happy to see Charlotte is doing great. I know she is going to have a positive impact in those she helps.

  • @ongoingawakening4257
    @ongoingawakening4257 Рік тому

    So happy to follow this story and see her doing well. We’re rooting for her! Sending love

  • @keithington
    @keithington 5 місяців тому

    This makes me so happy for your accomplishments Charlotte!!! ❤❤❤ Seriously wtg!!! 🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 #teamcharlotte

  • @knotellenorachelle
    @knotellenorachelle 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable part of your journey 🪷

  • @HomieVlogs
    @HomieVlogs 4 місяці тому

    God bless you Charlotte

  • @don156
    @don156 Рік тому +1

    Way to go Charlotte!!

  • @jamespaints6620
    @jamespaints6620 Рік тому +1

    Thanks both ❤️

  • @erich1394
    @erich1394 Рік тому +6

    Charlotte - it's amazing how your story arc almost takes the form of a hero quest. It's really cool how you went full circle, but on "returning" you found yourself to be different than when you left.
    It's impressive how you were able to claw your way back to stability and then continue to grow into a stronger version of yourself. I think the fact that you tolerated the abuse from your ex for that one last night and then immediately went back to the shelter shows that you had learned what it was like to live with less of that toxicity - even though you had to look out for yourself, even though people made fun of you, it was an improvement. There must have been some feeling of internal locus of control..
    I guess my question is - what about the shelter allowed you to do that? Is it literally just having somewhere to live that isn't about to be pulled out from under you?
    Thanks again for sharing your story. Also, great interview questions! Solid conversation all around. Very well cut, great interview flow and storytelling.

  • @MrWaldynyc
    @MrWaldynyc Рік тому +5

    Charlotte you deserve the best, you are inspiring, your strength comes from accepting your vulnerabilities. What a pleasure it is to see your journey

  • @herbieshine1312
    @herbieshine1312 Рік тому +4

    This is a lovely video.
    Its so nice to see Charlotte smiling and laughing.
    Its lovely to know her life seems to be going well.
    🎊🎉🎈💐🏆🫶🏻

  • @carguy3864
    @carguy3864 Рік тому +2

    Very interesting. i worked in the Weingart building all of 2023, 9th floor. I know how skid row can be, brutal.

  • @NadinSoliman
    @NadinSoliman 9 місяців тому

    Bravo charlotte🎉 onwards and upwards ❤

  • @diegomunoz7597
    @diegomunoz7597 Рік тому +2

    She is❤

  • @carolmccabe4359
    @carolmccabe4359 9 місяців тому

    Wish you only the best

  • @meredithfrauzel5204
    @meredithfrauzel5204 9 місяців тому +1

    So happy to see you are doing well Charlie. I was on UA-cam looking for painting videos and suddenly there you were looking the same as when we worked together in Texas. Sending lots of good vibes and healing as you continue to do the work. ❤️

  • @herbalina
    @herbalina Рік тому +2

    That's a lot to go through but she's thriving which is great to see. Congratulations on your graduation, Charlotte!

  • @Authentistic-ism
    @Authentistic-ism Рік тому +1

    i had a v similar experience unsheltered for 2 years in missouri

  • @LeahDyson-kq4bd
    @LeahDyson-kq4bd 2 місяці тому

    This is interesting for me because as a borderline I am always afraid I'll be homeless

  • @cwynn1547
    @cwynn1547 Рік тому +2

    Welcome to the field of Social Work! BPD does offer some amazing skills to the field, that straight talk, calm in a crisis (yes!) no matter what it is, being the right squeaky wheel on behalf of others , unafraid of literally anyone on behalf of right. 😊

  • @Old_Shoe
    @Old_Shoe 10 місяців тому +1

    Go Charlotte, looks like you’re staying on the path. One step at a time, look how far you’ve come :)

  • @tiffany_jones_art
    @tiffany_jones_art Рік тому +2

    Sending so much love

  • @Wade-wq7zd
    @Wade-wq7zd Рік тому +1

    You're appreciated Charlotte :) Clearly sounds like you're helping so many people, and whilst struggle brings pain it also brings wisdom and understanding - I'm sure your clients treasure your insight and, who knows, maybe sometimes we're tested because we're needed to help others.

  • @gihanelhage
    @gihanelhage Рік тому +3

    If there were resources in place where I live and healthcare, I’d not have felt so desperate that I attempted suicide twice to escape my abusive marriage. I’d not have felt like a burden to my family… she’s so right that housing and healthcare give you the space to heal and figure yourself out so you can take those next steps.

  • @analozada9475
    @analozada9475 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations, Charlotte! I’m super proud of you! You’re a warrior! 🖤🤘🔥🙌🎉🙏

  • @appleofhiseye104
    @appleofhiseye104 9 місяців тому

    Incredible strength, am inspired by her.

  • @kuhniberti
    @kuhniberti 4 місяці тому

    Ich finde es sehr beeindruckend, dass sie bewusst entschieden hat, in die Hölle hinabzusteigen, um nicht unfreiwillig dort zu enden. Die menschliche Mythologie ist voll solcher Fahrten in die Unterwelt, in welcher die Reisenden dann sehend werden. Ein Beispiel ist Odysseus, der in das Totenreich herabsteigt, weil er nicht weiter weiß, und all die Schatten trifft, zuletzt den Seher Theiresias, der ihm den Weg weist.

  • @cluelessbeekeeping1322
    @cluelessbeekeeping1322 4 місяці тому

    I don't get it... A friend let her stay at a place, then she kicked her out because she called who???
    Why was she kicked out?

  • @SaniaAzhar-lz8vh
    @SaniaAzhar-lz8vh Рік тому

    Charlotte should focus on bettering her own health. Focus on getting stronger with positive habits built to maintain her body and mind in positive state : exercise, diet, refrain from substance use, and then focus on loving herself and then she may try to better friendships and then try a relationship. But do it in stages.

  • @philmecup
    @philmecup Рік тому

    That being said, I’m happy for Charlotte!! 😊

  • @yogidevendrabiriyani1777
    @yogidevendrabiriyani1777 Рік тому +1

    Bingo!!! SOOO OFTEN I got "pretty privilege" but meanwhile I'm living in the ghetto with a target on my back lol. Ppl are abusive to women

  • @e.d.3729
    @e.d.3729 Рік тому +2

    everything she says is true about housing first and universal health care, but basically we (meaning Americans) just don't care. if people suffer, we don't care. a minority do, but we (the minority) have no weight in the decisions about these things. how do you get people to care? you can't. it has to come from within them. and the rest of us just have to wait.

    • @LeahDyson-kq4bd
      @LeahDyson-kq4bd 2 місяці тому

      I started to notice that in high school that people just seem to not care they are indifferent or straight up cruel but before high school I thought people did care

  • @blue-ch7ik
    @blue-ch7ik Рік тому +3

    Please bring Dr. Karen Jacob back, 😊

  • @eddie2dean
    @eddie2dean 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @tommylandbeach8049
    @tommylandbeach8049 Рік тому +1

    Dammit, I forgot to thank you.

  • @valerieannegagnon8803
    @valerieannegagnon8803 9 місяців тому

    n9o the manipulator....noooo

  • @yogidevendrabiriyani1777
    @yogidevendrabiriyani1777 Рік тому +1

    As an autistic person with old and adhd, I legit STILL don't know how you pay for an expensive apartment of your own while paying school and going to school f/t simultaneously? Like, logistically. Like how do you keep your mind trained on finishing school while you work loads of hours? Wtf is that even possible, where is like $5K a month coming from every month from a part time job? Are you fluffing billionaires balls or mining for gold??? Otherwise how can u work so many hours and not have them conflict with grad school ffs?
    And isn't this incredible stress an awful idea for those with unstable mental health?????? After all these years i hear these "success stories if wome" and dont buy them at all.

  • @backbay2242
    @backbay2242 4 місяці тому

    Quit alcohol and quit men.

  • @fayetollefson6899
    @fayetollefson6899 Рік тому +1

    This title is munipulative....😅 like Charlotte

  • @turnovertheleaf5505
    @turnovertheleaf5505 5 місяців тому

    It's hard to take you seriously with that hat!

  • @janethomas78
    @janethomas78 10 місяців тому

    If you have a BPD diagnosis, you should not be counseling ANYBODY. SORRY. This is distorted thinking.

  • @philmecup
    @philmecup Рік тому

    Skid Row? Please…..Click Bait

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr Рік тому +4

      Don’t you ever come over here minimizing her experience or making assumptions about this content creator.

    • @sweet2sourr
      @sweet2sourr Рік тому +3

      I just seen, your channel didn’t work out. It’s all making sense now.

    • @herbieshine1312
      @herbieshine1312 Рік тому +2

      Not necessary dude!

    • @erich1394
      @erich1394 Рік тому +3

      What do you mean? Why does the mention of skid row immediately render this video clickbait? I'm rather confused by how self-explanatory you seem to think your conclusion is...