LET’S TALK ABOUT THE WORST YEAR OF MY LIFE ✨ 2023 ✨ ( Oz***ic, Trial, Nightmare ) Mila Le Blanc 2024
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- Hello everyone! thank you so much for watching my video: LET’S TALK ABOUT THE WORST YEAR OF MY LIFE ✨ 2023 ✨ (Oz***ic, Trial, Anxiety) Mila Le Blanc 2024
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Dear subscribers,
I wanted to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude for your incredible support throughout the past year. Your understanding and presence have been a source of comfort for me. You have helped me overcome challenges and keep moving forward. Thank you for being there for me.
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With gratitude,
MILA ❤
(Hope I made your last year seem brighter 😂)
I agree about alcohol 🍺 I had to leave my husband las year due to him being an alcoholic his problem is so bad that he can’t drink without being in hospital 😔 so I agree.
And Mila, you’re shaking 😢 I’m so sorry you had such a bad year…it feels like; me, YOU, and like everyone I know…has had a shit 5 years!? 😢 I hope you get better and life gets better!! No one should be in your life upsetting you so much!! You deserve peace and happiness! 💕
I had a similar couple of years and had to give up alcohol as I found it brought such negative and low vibrational energy and (people ) into my life so I’m hoping the new year will bring new opportunities and happiness into both our lives your beauty both inside and out is inspiring and gives me hope sending you a big hug from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤❤
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The question regarding a father in a girls life is something I think about often as well. In my opinion, it definitely affects how a girl choose a male partner in the future. This is for sure. A good relationship with a father will make a girl look for good, loving qualities in a man and usually settle for nothing less.
Good point !
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Everything is manifestation so when I say oh I have daddy issues I literally don’t even have daddy issues they’re not bad at all but when I say me and my dad have a really good relationship and literally shows up and my daughter with calling me last time I saw him we were like dancing in the kitchen it was really cute he’s like a really good dad compared to a lot of dads
@Alicia-vq8jg there are just 'some issues' and there are people that have really bad dads. Some people went to super traumatic stuff and no manifistation will change what kind of person their father is.
@@ayysenn well, sometimes when I think about things that my dad is done to me, I get really mad and I’m like oh I’m so fucked up because of that for me personally when I talk about it or put any significance on it, it’s like putting gasoline on the fire. I don’t think it’s that bad. It was like one little thing when I was little and then he ignored me a lot and was creepy to my friends and put all of his stepchildren. I had of my sister and I but that’s the old story. I just say my dad is always been a super amazing dad.
can't wait to hear actual details about that person in power. Hope all goes well
Dear Mila, I grew up in poverty, in Romania, not having father at all after the age of 10. I had only my mother who grew up me alone.
The personality of the father is very very important. If a father is a good man and loving, is wonderful to have a father but if the opposite traits come, it is better not to have him at all.
I can not imagine how to have a good father is 😢
From the first time I saw you on UA-cam I knew you were special. Authentic. This video brought tears to my eyes. Your transparency, honesty and vulnerability is to be admired. I’m so sorry you went through this pain but I believe you will come out of it shining like the star you are ❤
I am so sorry about 2023. I can completely relate. Let’s hope for better and a more positive 2024 ❤
Loved this open honest conversation. I think because you are beautiful, confident and honest, some insecure women are so jealous they will come for you. Stay true to yourself and continue being you 😊❤
Thank you oh… I will survive would not be the first time is ok 👌 ❤️
Hi Mila. The best revenge is to stay strong, powerful and successful. Your honestly is much appreciated. Sending you my warmest wishes for a happier year. ❤
I had the same childhood experience. I only grew up with a dad up until 13 years old and after that there was nothing. And I think during the important years of your life like teenage years, especially you need a father figure to feel supported and loved. If you don’t feel supported all or loved during your teenage years, it will be a hole in your heart. You will always feel unsupported and unloved completely because of that and it’s just the way it is and I have learned to accept it. I’m trying to fill that void by supporting and loving myself and trying to choose a partner who can help me fill that void as well. I hope that helps Mila!❤
Thank you for sharing 🌞
I love your honesty so much!!! ❤ It’s YOUR channel and we want to hear YOUR opinion, that’s why we are here 🤗.
I loved what you said at the end " I am a good person until people disappoint me" I totally agree with you, I am the same. And for our own sanity and peace, we have to be this way and to focus only on what is really important..🥰 Most people will always let us down, at some point.
I grew up up with a mom and dad and to be honest my mom was my rock….my father never wanted to be bothered his job was to give us financial stability….I loved him but it was my mom that was always making sure that I was OK….from my end, my dad gave us a good life and we could have anything we wanted …… my mom gave me the emotional support I needed .❤️❤️❤️
Hey Mila 1. Some alcohol is called spirits for a reason.
2. The Government is not interested in your wellbeing.
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Why are they called spirits?
@@premedbeauty25 they “possess” you they’re poison to your body xx
No surprise it’s a WOMAN, jealousy is a DISEASE 🦠
I wish you the very best, stay strong and keep your humour, don’t let anybody bring you down to THEIR level .
Keep a smile on your face, just be happy with your man and your child ❤
2023 was the worst year of my life too. I had emergency surgery and almost died. Took 4 months to get back to a somewhat healthy place. ❤ Sending you love and prayers, Mila.
Mila you are something :) I love your honesty and I love how open and raw you are. You can talk about anything and I think that you have something interesting to say about everything. I thinj a father figure is so important I love my dad and I used to be so close to him when i was a kid. He unfortunately passed away 7 years ago but I have my memories and the things he taught and instilled in me. I have 3 girls and they love their dad, God bless them. He cares for them so much, provides everything from food to education, love and good advice and they hug him all the time and value his opinions always. I think, and I may be in a minority here, that a child really benefits from good parents (mother and father figure) and this gives a lot of stability, safety and encourages growth in life.
I understand sorry for your loss 💕🙏🏻
First of all pharmaceutical companies live to make money. If there was a shortage they would make more 😅
They are doing more ! There are working 24/7. Also there are so many other drugs on the market that do the job.
If you talk about Palestine I swear you would be the realest girl on UA-cam
Dear Mila, it's ok not to be ok, please remember that. I learned the hard way that faking your well being in front of people eats away your soul and has horrible effect on your body too. I went through horrible time, faked for years, pleased people left and right, had tons of friends, and when my brain and body gave out from burn out, nobody but my family understood, every "friend" i had just ghosted me. Took me 2 hard years to re-invent myself, now i'm thriving, i learned to live a diffetent way where i'm no.1. and i thank myself and only myself for that. You will get through this, if needed don't shy away to ask professional help. I'm 100% sure you will get through this.
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Agree with everything you said. About health, the jabs, Ozempic, working out, feeling and looking good. Amen!
It seems like you are going through a “detox season” in your life-
Where you’re purging all of the dead weight and negative influence around you.
This process is always VERY painful and isolating because it’s like you’re seeing the world through new eyes
and realizing things you didn’t know before.
Just remember that this is just a season and will NOT last forever.
As long as you push through, surround yourself & your environment with positivity, go in nature and continue to improve your mind and your body- things will get SOO SOO SOOO much better.
I can’t wait for this new start in your life!❤️
Totally 💕
15:57 you are a Legend 😭🤣🤣 You are looking incredible girl so karma is a bitch working in your favour 😉 here’s to you having a fab 2024! 🎉❤❤
My father is alcoholic, my mom was everthing to me and my brother. After her death I don't have any contact with my dad, my brother has. I am a single for almost my whole life, I don't trust people, love myself the most, I enjoy peace that my lonliness brings me. Best to You
Aww I’m having same issue after leaving my alcoholic husband and had alcoholic dad 😢 I feel you! I can’t let people in and trust no one!
Mila, the same situation here, abuse and court. The only way to stay on your feet is not giving you power away. So, I know exactly how you feel, because I went thru that. People who are abusive and want to harm other people are weak and want to set inside you fear and make you weak. If you let them put fear in your hart, they won, it doesn't matter the resoult in the court. If you want to take revange, just live your life and be happy. Have faith in you, have faith in your worth and your judgement, because these toxic people will try to make you doubt your judgement. Be carrefull with that. Have a nice day and remember that you are not the only one in this kind of situation and all depends on how you see the matters. Have a good 2024, power is in your hands!
Hi Mila, thank you for asking for opinions on the father topic. I think, that if a girl has a good and supportive father figure, she will be more inclined to be self confident as an adult and not be out looking for validation from men. She may be more picky about her choices in men, because she knows her worth. She probably won't be an asshole magnet. She will be attracted to men of substance. and she won't settle for anyone who treats her poorly.
this is just my observation as a woman who has been around for 55 years.
I agree with you I think the same. I also am very particular about making sure that she feels comfortable & complimented. I think it worked a bit too good because when I ask her “who is the most beautiful” she says “me” 🤷🏻♀️🤣
I agree with you about weight. When I have more weight on, I feel like crap! I lost 100lb on my own ( it was before Ozempic darn it 😂) I wish I had, had the Oz! But I feel sooo much better ,being my college weight! Giving up most sugar and cutting carbs after a year when you go to have sugar again? It often tastes gross! Which is a feeling health wise I love! 💕
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I was hoping it would be longer. Just an idea, I would love it if you uploaded health related videos. I am on a health journey as well and my diet isn't as clean as it should be but I look and feel better now that I am cooking more at home due to inflation. As for the dad not being in your life or the importance of having one, I can relate to you. I was a daddy's girl until 19. He abandoned me, my soblings, and my mother to take care of everything because he couldn't adjust to living here in Canada. He went back to live in the Philippines and did not even send money to help. I felt like as the oldest sister, I had to step up and help more at home (cleaning, buying supplies, mowing lawn, raking leaves, shoveling snow, driving my mom to places, making all dog appointments, etc) I felt like I had all this male energy and forgot about what is like to appreciate and enjoy being a woman because my family needs me. It also affected how I get myself into romantic relationships. I take shit from men and I do not put boundaries and voice my needs. I take whatever is bare minimum and make excuses for them and act like everything is normal. Now I learned my lesson to forgive my old self and love myself and to not get involved with anyone who doesn't value me the way I deserve to be.
In your inner self, do not give permission to another human to hurt you. It is not an easy exercise, but is an exercise to true freedom. I do believe in the power of praying, and I will pray for strength tranquility and resolution for you.
I agree but this is an other level.
@Milaleblanc I understand completely. I am a lawyer, and I seat at the side of the oppressed by power and many times without financial resources. Frustration is always on the prowl and has caught me many, many times. I find solace in my faith and in keeping my gratitude "status" which is another difficult decision and / or exercise to sustain at times🙄, but worthy❤️🔥. You will be in my prayers, courageous and beautiful lady.
There is a lot of literature about the importance of the father in a household. In psychoanalysis, from Freud to Lacan, all describe how, especially for a girl, her relationship with her father affects everything else in her life, particularly relationships. He basically defines her view and interactions with the opposite sex, not to mention her ability to receive love, and other self worth related concepts...
Ah you married last year it was supposed to be a great year for you I hope things will be better for everyone from now on.
Yes it was the only amazing 2 weeks, unfortunately a year is not 2 weeks.
ask the woman lives w a bag to piss in for rest of her life if redbulls are harmless. y lie to urself?
Ask yourself why do you are about my life so much.
ask yourself why you talk about your life so much and expect people not to care?@@Milaleblanc
If someone isn’t overweight, I don’t know why a doctor would prescribe ozempic for weight loss. Diet and exercise actually works. Takes time, sure but like you said Keto works.
Why struggle if it can be easy.
I am very sorry your going through this, my god give you strength to be strong and everything gets better for you and your family.
Good luck with the court case! It's visible how it has shaken you but it has not broken you, so I commend you!
The question about a father figure - I think girls need it because they are more protected in that case and do not have to grow up suddenly and take on the masculine role themselves. Also, sometimes the lack of a father figure can affect the choice of a life partner. Of course, not everytime and not for everyone, but it has shown to be so in many cases.
The alcohol thing is real, that's how Amy Winehouse died:(((
Yes I saw! And it is not that rare even remotely heavy drinks can die from stopping ! It is terrible…
@@Milaleblanc I also totally agree on the banalized habitual drinking. It's crazy how normalized alcohol has become. It's being downplayed and a serious drug. Also, if you use it to take the edge off after work or as a social lubricant, that's already an issue. You're totally right. It's the true epidemic.
Also I don’t see the pleasure in 1-2 drinks… then can’t sleep 🤷🏻♀️ what’s the point…
On the same note you talked on the video, our governments dont always have our best interest...if you research what food they push, what they put in them, what pills they push, the agenda they push and everything..you ll start to realize that our reality is rather a big lie...but heh dont mean to get so ''conspiracistic'' here 🤣🤣 anyway I and everybody here get inspired when we see your strength and honesty, at all costs, so some of us really appreciate you and wish you to be strong and loved cause everything hard and bad will pass in the end, big huggies 🤗😍
You are right about the weight. I'm also overweight and I'm not happy, I'm trying to lose weight but it's hard because I'm insulin resistant..I will keep trying
My worst year was 2022 i was super sick after the va.... which i took against my will ...otherwise i could not even go to work. Cheer up girl.....and yes the father figure is MEGA important, without a father we get abused .
all of this is so russian and dramatic. im sorry you went thru it tho.
Lol I am massively under reacting 😂
@@Milaleblanc well im really glad you shared! it was actually very helpful to hear. Wishing you an amazing year ahead.
between 40 percent and 50 percent of homicides involve the use of alcohol by either the victim or perpetrator. It’s the only drug that makes you physically more aggressive and violent. And it’s legal! Not pot though. No no. God forbid if we legalize a weed that makes you hug and love one another.
I am not surprised…
You're definitely a much better person than you think. You're very intelligent and you look amazing, I agree. It's good to see you appreciate your appearance (too few women do) and not bullshitting about obesity when it's clearly unhealthy and damaging.
My dad definitely ruined my life, however my mum wasn't the best mother either. I have a father complex so I'd think my dad actually did worse.
I hope this year will be better for you because you deserve it.
Wishing you all the best from UK
Hello thank you for sharing & compliment 💕✨
Your honestly and outspokenness is SO refreshing!! Love your videos so much! xx
The father's role in a girls life is of high importance. How your father treats you can affect your confidence, stress, self esteem, choices in partners on and on.
Both of my parents were living la vida loca!! Dad was an abusive alcoholic, mom was a submissive depressed alcoholic. Married 25 years, 7 children 3 together and 4 from affairs they were having while married to each other. I am a proud Sancho baby because I never wanted to be my father's child by blood, he was one of the meanest and angriest person's I've ever known, I knew I couldn't be his child, but I still had to live with him until I left when I was 17. I am 42 now and am seeing a counselor who is so amazing and a pivotal person in my childhood trauma recovery.
I thought I could just "grow up" and get over it on my own, but you can't run from your nightmares! Getting help has helped my marriage, and how I see the world around me.
Mila I believe in you, your power is present in your healthy appearance, your strength is heard in the emotion when you speak. I resonate with you on so many levels. Thank you for continuing on, you look amazing and I'm getting back to being a healthy girl again, nothing does feel better other than knowing your children are happy, feel loved and are safe. You are perfect.
I think a good father mainly helps you to choose better partners in life. And they give you confidence because they stand behind you. A lot of people* don't have that, I don't know if I could ever trust a man to stay.
*Women. Idk how it affects men.
Praying for your (and your family's) health and safety! I hope 2024 will be much much better.
For sure!
Always remember that there are hundreds of people that worry about you as about their close friend, a family member although you never saw them. I value you as a person and I’m glad that people like you exist on the Earth. And it totally breaks my hurt to understand that some dirty has been torturing you. Unfairness is most painful thing. I hope you get through this situation soon. Держись.
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Even in the face of such difficulties, you are amazingly expository. Hopefully, things work out the way they should.
I agree with everything you say. But most of the people prefer lying to themselves (I’m talking about alcohol and being fat) than to wake up and do something.
You’re so real about the weight loss stuff 😂😅 Hope everything with your court case works out in your favor 🙏🏼
Yes it will and I will share everything with you here ☀️
I was raised by a single father. Compared to my friends growing up with single mothers I think having a father was really good for my self esteem and how I related to men later on. He wasn’t a great dad but I wasn’t desperate for male attention and approval. My husband is a great partner and father and I think he’s going to have a positive impact on how our daughter chooses relationships, I hope! We can never really tell how our kids will be when they become adults.
I’m so sorry you are suffering. I hope it gets better. At least you look amazing! 🌸
Regarding Dad… You are right, figure of father is VERY important in every childs life, BUT especially in the life of his daughter. Why? Because this is the first man in our life, he shows us how it feels like when man loves in healthy way. He shows how the REAL MAN should behave, how he protects his family etc. And when we are already adults we know how we want to be loved. Lots of women dont know HOW men should love them. In healthy way. But its better to have no father than having disfunctional parent, cause it can also ruin your life. Thats sad truth.
We were not rich, but we had everything we needed. My father was the first best man we ever knew(we were 3 girls). My parents were a great team. Mom was the strong one Dad was affectionate and loving. We never wanted to disappoint him. When I was older and had children I said Dad you’re the best and he said I haven’t even started” to us and our children- he walked on water and never let us down in any way. Never judgemental and set a very good example- very faithful but never preachy. I could go on but you get the point. I’m sure your just as special to your daughter❤️
Mila I understand….my 2023 was 💩and I have made up my mind that this is my f*ck it year…..whalever happens f*ck it….Love you ❤️❤️❤️
You go girl. Low carb and intermittent fasting that’s the right life style ❤
I agree after keto (to secure the weight I lost) this is how I usually feel the best. 100g max per day of carbs is good I think
Really loved this video Mila and seing the more vulnerable side of you 😊 and I agree 💯with you about family life! Yes I love my husband but my priority is also me and my son !
Wishing you the best. This world is backwards and crazy. I agree with everything you said.
Omg tell me about it, I am definitely not woke, but now it is dying down a bit, usually this kind of stuff is invented to cover something worst… here we go again 😏
Your honesty shines through Mila 👍...I have watched your videos for a long time I don't always comment but love your content and your honesty & you don't bullshit ...best wishes keep being you 😊
I love you, Mila.
I don’t know you in real life but I think deep down you’re kind-hearted and you don’t need to be nice & friendly to everyone you meet because some people take advantage of that and it’s totally okay to be protective of your soul.
I love the humor you bring to your content and your honesty is much appreciated. I hope this year fills you with love, happiness & blessings! 🎉
The best revenge is to be happy, by doing bad revenge you become a monster, not joy, just anger and hatred, this is not good for a person at all (I'm not talking about rape or murder done to your loved ones).
Step forward and enjoy life with your loved ones.Life is very short of happines dont waste it you can’t turn back time what was once given to you to enjoy but you choose to hate and revenge….
Well, who is telling you that it is not similar to the worst case you mentioned 😏.
A father is important in a child’s life if he’s good to the child ( not an abusive one of course ).
I'm with you Mila❤, and I'm praying that you soon get yourself out of this as the badass Queen that you've always been!
As for that person, the karma awaits!!!
I’ve been reading a lot about what alcohol really does to the body. You are right, it’s bad. No amount is harmless. Does this mean I will never have another glass of wine? I don’t know, but after a month no alcohol I feel great and no interest in drinking for the foreseeable future.
Sorry your 2023 was so crappy Mila, I hope this year goes better for you. x
Same for alcohol ! my life is better when I don’t drink even casually. It literally removes your potential! Thank you 💕
Could you please make a video on how you do Keto diet? 🙏
It was planned, I will be on it for the next 2 months and I will make sure to have notes dedicated to it. ❤️
I bet it’s her husband’s mom
🤣🤣🤣 no she is actually too sweet
Why would this person do this to you? Do you know them personally? I get curious sorry 😅😮 after this case is done will you go into more detail?
When it is done I can talk about it. But I have no clue when it will be.
Can you spill the tea after you win the trial?
That is an energetic attack, try a different approach 😉
I have a question : is the person attacking you a woman?
Of course…
Are you an Ox mila? Bcz I am an Ox and 2023 was the worst year of my life. Sending u lots of love, hope ur situation is better now love x
I am an Ox and 2023 was tied with the other worst year of my life .. horrible ..will spare the novel
It’s very important to have a father in a child’s life my cousin had to go through that it’s not a good thing it’s sad 😞 till this day she is hurt
I haven't watched your channel in a while. This was so REFRESHING!!! Mila, i have no doubt everything will be okay because you are determined. Wishing you all the best this year
Stay strong!
Thank you Mila.
Haven’t commented in a while but I’m glad to hear all the ways you’ve been successfully changing your life for the better in spite of challenging life events that happened last year. I know the opps must be living a miserable sad and pathetic life if she’s trying that hard to ruin yours. baby you BEEN that girl!! A Diamond will always shine the brightest in a land full of dull rocks 💎💎✨💖✨
Oh my god .
The Algorithmus brought me back to your chanel after maybe ...1 year.
Some days ago i was thinking:"
How maybe Mila doing.
I didnt watch sime good parfumvideos for a long time"!
Today UA-cam recomended this Video to me.
And i am shocked!
I also experienced how someone tryed to break me....
I feel your shaking...😢
I tell you: NEVER FORGIVE THAT BITCH WHO TRIED TO DESTROY YOU!!!!!
I will never forget or forgive her. Even if its now 3 years back that she disapointed and hurt me.....
I am like you, i never forget if someone did something wrong to me. NEVER!
If i cant revenge, i just wait and enjoy the karmashow!
And yes, Karma exists!
( from now on i will watch every day one or two of you Videos to support you)
I noticed how relaxed you become after talking. I had bouth my parents very present and my father is untill this day very present. What I notices in comparison with girls who didnt have a father is that they sometimes want the male attention and aproval at any
costs and it's not for money or bussines I mean they seek out male aproval and they get played a lot. But if you dont have that complex you will in life still have problems especially when you are an atractive women like you and in the public space.. the snakes 🐍 watching . 💋
I agree with everything you are saying 100%. Alcohol IS a drug. Listening to this today, is the kick in the ass I needed to start working out again. I’ve been in a big slump. Thank you for your amazing experience & advice. Appreciate you!! 💓☮️🕊️
"I'm a revengeful person. It's nota good trait at all but I live with it just fine" HAHAH LOVE THAT. Subscribing just for that.
Where is your top from?
My darling take piece in knowing KARMA will get her. We are being attacked by a neighbour for building a new house (he’s a jealous cursed hater) he’s been at us for 18 mths day & night. We just found out he has CANCER. If you are poison you will get poisoned 🤮 so don’t worry lovely SHE WILL GET HERS 💯🥂💪👍🏻❤
Lol, I've never heard put butter on your spinach expression before. I wonder what that really mean, I can imagine but I could be wrong.
Mila, I wish you nothing but the best. I hope whatever happens is in your favor. Sending my love
Hey, Mila! I had a terrible father who wasn’t around ( probably for the best) and a nice stepfather, but we weren’t very close. I do think it had a bad effect on me for sure. I’ve always been needy for male attention and I married my husband at age 17. I actually call him daddy. So yeah, I’d say it definitely causes issues. I’m definitely way more insecure and angry than I probably would be had my dad been a good father and stuck around. I will always have anger issues and I know him leaving and not giving a shit is a lot of the reason why. I hope this helped! Love you! Btw, you look amazing and you should be proud and don’t let anyone bring you down! ❤
so proud of you mila for your achievement. can you do a what I eat in a day on keto? ❤
Oh Mila I’m so so sorry to hear of your misfortune and suffering. It sounds like God is putting you through the wilderness to rebuild you. Sometimes, He will allow us to be so broken until we realize He is our only way out. I can see God is already opening your eyes and revealing some things to you about the evil in this world. God will avenge you and fix these situations for you if you call out to Him. I won’t go into detail but I as well went through some horrific events in 2020 and a person was also trying to ruin my life, and I also believe possibly plotting to kill me. The legal system is awful and because he is an army veteran he got all the sympathy and no one cared about the abuse I was enduring. I called out to Jesus in a desperate moment and He showed up! He took care of my tormentor and fixed my situations. I am going to pray for you Mila that 2024 will bring you total and complete healing and restoration to your body and your life! May the Lord rebuke these attacks from you and silence your enemies! They scheme in the dark but God sees all things and He will defend you and end this evil against you! Just keep holding on tight!! Jesus loves you and He WILL turn everything around if you ask Him to🩷🩷🩷
Good luck with everything ! I like your honesty as always very well needed
I will always be amazed at how strong you are. With what happens to you, with your beliefs and how you stay strong for your family. You will come out of this stronger (if that is even possible) and fu*k that girl!. Hugs from Perú
I like these kind of topics. It’s for people who like to think deeper.
Now, regarding the father issue, i don’t believe a father, or even mother, or anybody, will define who you become. I’ve heard many success stories from people with the most rough starts.
Also, many unsuccessful/bad people who had much better circumstances. It’s really not the end of the world.
Yes, having great parents sure helps, but once you’re an adult, you have to take responsibility for the choices you make.
Everybody goes different traumas or challenges, but it’s up to us how we let that shape us.
I could go on from here, but I’ll conclude with this: My rock is not any human being, but is something more powerful than all that: God. (May sound cheesy to some, but if you dig deep, might reach to the same conclusion, and no, is not the distorted version of God/religion we’ve been lied about).
A father that stops being there is like a grief a child has to endure with someone thats alive… is a loss… and Impact the sence of security, stability of a child. As an adult the person usually needs to have more predictibility, have more controle of other aspects of theire life, as a compensation machanism. But of course everyone is diferent. This is just my opinion based on my experience of work.
Sorry about my english 😅 love your vídeos !
I love how transparent you’re. Love and light to you ❤
Hi Mila! So: I think that it's ideal for girls to have a healthy, secure relationship with a father figure. He's our first understanding of how to be treated by men. But, it's not as necessary as people think. For example, I think it's better to be raised by a well-adjusted, single mother than with a father in an unhappy household. Staying married "for the children" is BS and children know it. What many girls learn is that they shouldn't have enough self-worth to leave a bad situation. Those girls are as vulnerable, if not more.
Also, mothers do most of the parenting anyway, so how much the father contributes is very important. He's not valuable just because he's a man and he's there in the house. Just my thoughts.
Daddy's are the steal beam for children if the man takes his position. Very important just like Mommies are very important too.
sending you so much love!
Hello Mila! You remind me of my Best friend she was Beautiful like yourself and she was a bit of a bitch but only when pushed. She was one of the strongest Person i knew! She lost her battle with a tumor in her brain but she fought all the way till the end. Reason I'm sharing is cause at the end of the Day those people don't pay your bills and there probably don't even think about you or your feelings so why should you. That's what my Friend would of said!!
Love your channel, wish you all the best and a better new year❤️
Hi. Mila. This is actually the first time I have ever commented on anyone’s video. You are an embodiment of truth and courage. Your authenticity and strength to face life should be studied. I am proud of you. A father is very important in a girl’s life because fathers and mothers both bring values to a child’s life regardless of gender, and that is why to create a child, both genders are needed. If one wasn’t important, then humans will reproduce via parthogenesis. However, for some people (myself included), we get the short end of the stick by having one parent absent, especially during our growing stages and that affects us in one way or another (whether we choose to admit it or not). All we can do is to improve as adults, and do our best so subsequent generations do not go through what we experienced. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. You are loved Mila. Keep being you ❤
Mila, as far as a father in a girls life … The way the father/step father, boyfriend treats her mother sets the example for how she will expect to be treated by her boyfriends and later husband. I suppose a mother can teach that but most people learn by the examples set before them that are most important in their lives or people they are most closest to. If mother stays in a bad situation it will not only damage her but her children also -boys or girls. I wish you much love and prosperity this year and going forward! I would also hope for your sake, that you consider letting go of resentments and grudges because it damages you and does nothing to even the score. These entrapments will lodge in your body and cause serious health problems. ❤
A good dad/male figure sets the foundation of a girl's future relationships with men. He teaches you how you should be treated so you have a good example to take reference from. It also makes you more secure in who you are and you don't sell yourself short to men or rely on sex appeal to fill whatever void. Ofc both parents matter but i'm focusing on the dad in particular since you asked.
A father is important in both lifes of a boy or a girl. But in different ways. For ex. if your father doesn t give u attention, u will always act in your life searching for the attention of a man. It will be in the way you get dressed, the colours, the make up, the exageration of many such aspects. In fact, by doing this, u just want to obtain the attention of your father. Another ex. if your father not only that loves u but he is showing u that, u will always search for a man who loves u and shows that to u. By father I dont mean the biological one. I mean the father figure. It could be your grandparent. It s that man that has been near u in your childhood. Has nothing to to with the money. He can be rich and cold, or he can be poor and dedicated.
I admire you for your honesty. ❤❤❤
Dear Mila, thank you for this video, it’s not easy to come out with worries and problems where the society expects a “picture-perfect” girl irrespective of our feelings and experiences in life. Now to your question: the fatherly figure in one’s life hardly can make the amount of problems we encounter less, rather it makes the coping mechanism with these problems different. The father is my “parliament” and I turn to him for my most important life-changing decisions (not for money), for that balanced impartial and practical advice. And that advice is not your mother’s subjective and emotions-loaded support, but a well reasoned opinion (doesn’t matter how harsh it is) - a father would take out all unreasonable and emotional from the chat and come up with the most feasible option for his child (we talking loving fathers of course). that’s IMHO. So I would know that I have a person to fall back onto if I need not just a gossip and compassion girls night out but a balanced strategic decision to make - I’d turn to my father.
Two more things you said that made me want to clap were:
I drink when I have to be nice to people I don't like. Omg can relate. I didn't drink in those situations. But I know exactly what you mean. For me, those situations are work functions. And then I stick with the people I know and like. And don't talk to anyone else.
And you said you make an effort to be nice to people at your daughter's school so that she doesn't have problems. That is absolutely the kindest thing you can do for her. I can imagine that there are other parents at any school that make school-based interactions a nightmare. And to get through things like school drop-off and pick-up and parent-teacher meetings can be a rough time. And it takes such strength to go through that, and not lose face and tell people to gtfo.
So that is a huge personal victory.
Well done, Mila ✨✨