Breaking Up.
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- Опубліковано 23 лис 2022
- Breaking up and not being ready for it.
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I would even argue that breakups potentially feel worse than that person's death. At least with death, you get a final closure and that person left without their will. A breakup feels worse than death because they CHOSE to leave you, they continue to EXIST, they will move on to someone else, and they will grow and experience life without you. All while you're left forcing yourself to fall out of love with them and killing any ounce of hope that they will ever reconsider you.
this is definately worse
We need to be stoic about it, my friends. "We don't lose people. We return them."
Those powerful words 😮
Any body can give advice
Need true fti😢
I was ready. I even saw it has been ending. She distanced and so on. Though what existed as great relationship got to be depression of hers and it got into my souls as an anxiety. It was a lining through the whole relationship. When I felt anxiety it was like a superpower. We all are not ready. We all show our inner fears in argues, not seeing mistakes. It almost got a month since a breakup. Two day ago I just realized that it is enough to get stress and let go. It doesn't mean I don't want her to come back. But why should I suffer? Yesterday rzzia shot lots of missiles and we all have been in total darkness and without phones. I read a book, slept. People, all of us once have been dumpers. We must realize we can hurt the other ones! If we love someone at the beginning why don't we love them after 2 years? If that person is really bad, OK! But in most cases we even don't want to mess with our 'poor' souls. I guess, I did something that was considered as bad. Who knows? Be kind to you beloved! I thank you, Mr.Rory! And I pray all who suffers breakups!
Oh my God! I came back here after many years and suddenly I see your face ❤
Your videos helped me A LOT for 3-4 years ago. I wished I had listened to you better at that time When my ex dumped me! But never mind. I'm in bed next to my baby who is 2 months old 😊 Thanks for all your wise words that helped me in a dark time in my life
Congratulations on the baby!!
5 months post break up and I find my self thinking if her again. She broke up with me because she said it wasn’t going anywhere. I was working a lot and trying to achieve my goals. Thing that confuses me is why still be single then and why didn’t she try to talk to me about the issues so it could be fixed
Man you passed one of the cruel test , as men we can't stop working
Same problem with my ex, but he's the one working on his goals. I am too. I wanted to communicate that I feel lonely in the relationship and that it felt like we're not meeting halfway, so I did. What happened? He said that I criticized him and he said I always want to start the argument and I destroy things and us. Not exactly what I was expecting him to react. Ended up breaking up with him instead
Grieving a friendship breakup and this is what I needed to hear. Thanks :)
i saw it coming but i didn’t think it was permanent this time. We had a break up in jan got back together a month later. a lot of the problems still existed.
I lost my father about a month ago. My girlfriend was so good and was there for me. I guess she postponed breaking up with me, because yesterday she broke up with me. She said she feels we have to work to hard make this work. I do not agree, yes compromises were needed, but we love each other to death. She still says shes never loved someone like she loves me, but because shes very family oriented and doesnt see me in the ideal picture as the father of her children she put a stop to it. I'm ashamed to say this hurts more than the passing of my father..
She said
It’s fine you don’t have to apologize you didn’t do anything wrong it’s me that needs help but i appreciate the apology and the sentiments behind everything. And yes this is just a huge obstacle for me that I have to get through. Thank you for not thinking less of me. Mental health is a bitch I feel like it’s just a lot.
It’s fine your feelings are valid and there’s nothing wrong for you to have felt the way you did. You just did kind of push me away being too needy or I felt like you asking a lot from me when I feel like I am not ready for someone to be controlling me.
Also had just got out of a relationship, job loss, and other things..
I didn’t reply and we never went further.. I chose not to reply but am trying to reflect
What happened my brother at the end?
How’s it going
I’m in England so no hiking for me
We need to be stoic about it, my friends. "We don't lose people. We return them."
my ex broke up with me and I basically didn't beg I only said "I genuinely never want to see you again" and she replied with "I understand". does that mean if she does want to get back together she will remember me saying I never want to see her and she won't reach out? did I mess up?
Yup. Big time. For sure in her mind, she'd rather walk away and leave than stay with someone who doesn't appreciate her and tell her things like that
Hi, can you do a video about if value is real or just a fantasy? It's no fun thinking of yourself as weird or stupid just because others think that about you
Am broken hearted badly 😂
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