That's so sweet & thoughtful of Jared to think about about birth control options have affected Ellie. Also, that he's gonna get a vasectomy so Ellie won't have so much to deal with. She's lucky to have a great husband like Jared.
Not me worrying that you were stopping filming! You're my happy family, I watch you guys all the time and I'm so thankful for everything you share. You're amazing and your beautiful, complete family are incredible 💗
I'm proud of you Jared. My husband got his Vasectomy in January after 3 kids. Our chapter closed as well. New ones beginning. I'm so thankful for this option
Jared, I don’t think you receive enough credit for how talented you are with editing. Truly makes the videos that much better. Love you guys and so happy you finally got your miracle baby girl❤️
Something I really appreciate out of this video is that it shows how grateful you can be to be where you are while also acknowledging how hard it is too. When the struggles and hardships of different chapters of our lives are mentioned, many people interpret that as we are not appreciative and grateful for what we have. I love that you guys convey the gratitude while also acknowledging the difficulties so well
What a journey! I'll admit - I love when these videos can make me laugh and cry. We've certainly had our fair share of those moments over the last 10 years and we're so grateful to all of you who have joined us in those wonderful and difficult moments. Thank you. We love you.
Mr. and Mrs. Mecham I am so excited for your daughter Jennifer and the Daily Bumps daughter Brielle to officially meet. They’ll be best friends forever when they do. I just know it.
Be careful what you wish for, Ellie and Jared! The best birth control is not having or just having less sex! You're a beautiful family, and I wish you nothing but health and love..but just be careful with this decision (especially since there are some health risks involved with this procedure; not like birth control but still there nonethelsss)
I've been here since the beginning. To see your ups and downs and see what you have produced is a blessing. Now plan the next chapter and I'll be here every step of the way
The gratefulness for Ellie’s sacrifice that Jared has is truly amazing. So many men see all of those things as “the woman’s duty” so they don’t take responsibility. I pray y’all continue to have peace with this decision, and continue to thrive with this next chapter. ❤️
Agree, and those were the exact words my husband told me after we had our third baby, but he added “I don’t want to see you in pain anymore, I don’t wanna see you suffer again, we have three already, we are complete, you have done your part, now it’s mine turn” and I cried, I cried because how greatful I am to have him, but also I cried bacause I really wanted a fourth but I went through 4 miscarriages and I couldn’t take it no more.
My husband did this for me. Due to medical reasons I ended up having to have a hysterectomy a year later but he did this for me and it was so special to me. I'm so thankful for him ❤️
I cried like 8 times during this video. I feel so lucky to have the privilege of watching your family grow. And all of the hard parts in between. I started watching when you first moved into your first build, and Calvin could barely see over the windowsill to watch the big trucks landscape the backyard. Such a beautiful family!!! 🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️
There is a grief process when closing this chapter. Even knowing you're done, and being at peace with it, it's still hard to process. We closed this chapter a year and a half ago, and I have cried a time or 2 over it. You get one life to live and this is a huge part of it. It's a hard pill to swallow knowing that part is over. ❤️
I’m crying too. All I’ve known is you guys creating your little family. Such a beautiful life story to have documented, wish you many years of happiness and family adventures. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ellie and Jared I am so grateful to have been a viewer to watch your family grow into the lovely family it is today. And you are such an inspirational couple to many people in never giving up to have their own family one day. Thank you so much for been so open and honest about the ups and downs you have been through, you have the most wonderful family and should be very proud of this chapter of your life ❤
You are just so… pure. And I don’t mean perfect but just so beautifully human and good. I have my rainbow baby through infertility treatments because of PCOS and your channel has been such a comfort. What a beautiful journey.
Gosh Jared im crying... You are an amazing husband to Ellie!! The way you speak to her and look at her... God has blessed you all so much!! Makes me love you guys even more now! Been watching since before jackson was conceived.... God bless you both!!!!! :)
It’s crazy how this chapter is ending but your doing what’s best for you and your family. You’ve got 4 beautiful children to watch grow and have adventures with. Here’s to the next chapter of your journey ❤❤
I love your family so much, they are an example of love, courage, faith and empathy. Thank you for being so open and honest with us, for sharing your lives and decisions. Your videos are joy and hope for our hearts. God bless you Mechan family 
This really brought me back to when I first started watching you guys in 2015 when I experienced my first loss and was navigating my own infertility journey. I watched you guys, Bryan, Missy, Cullen and Katie everyday, never missed a video for at least 2 years and you all carried me through the darkest times of my life. I loved watching your guys journey and I always hoped that one day I would get my family. This past August after 6 years of infertility my husband and I welcomed our beautiful daughter & she’s now 6 months old. Watching this video just brought me back to where I started with you guys and I’m so happy to see that you have the family that you all have prayed for and it truly is an end of an era. ❤
I can’t believe it’s been 10 years!! I’ve been following you and watching you grow your beautiful family. Can’t wait to see what the future hold for all of you.
You guys are truly amazing. Just watching you guys interact is so heartwarming. Watching your story is a blessing. I'm proud of both of you! God bless and excited to see where your next chapter leads you.
Jared, I admire and adore you! You are sensitive and caring! ❤️ “snipped but still equipped” 😊 I’m glad you are able to laugh about this! It just confirms more then ever the love you two share with one another! Your bond is unbreakable! ❤️❤️
Fabulous video, your sense of humor is so life enhancing. You had a good run, four beautiful babies. Thanks for stepping up to the plate Jared, and giving Elle a home run.
i’ve been watching your videos and watching you guys create your family since I was 14. It’s so bittersweet now as a 21 year old woman watching you guys close this chapter in your lives. Your story has always made me so excited for that chapter in my own life and i’m so grateful that you’ve shared your lives with the world! Love from Maine❤
I almost cried. I thought you guys were going to stop vlogging. I watched you guys in elementary and middle school. I saw Jackson become a big brother to 3 more kids. I watched a lot of the videos of you guys building your house. Knowing I practically watched Jackson and Calvin grow up and knowing these two get to protect 2 more kids is just..You guys are the best. 🥲
OMG I’m here since the beginning of the channel even that I didn’t know that much English to understand !! I learn a lot watching ur family vlogs (with English) I just love this family so much ❤
I’m smitten with you two. The love you have for each other is incredible. You have a beautiful family and I’ve been here since before you got pregnant with Jackson. I loved watching you grow. And Jared, you’re such a fantastic husband and father. If my husband isn’t like you than I don’t want him. Ellie is so strong and a wonderful wonderful mom. ♥️♥️
Thank you for sharing! I’ve been here from the beginning and have watched your journey. I love that you got 3 handsome boys and 1 beautiful girl. I love that YOU are getting to make this decision. Not your body struggling to get pregnant, not finances, not a doctors opinion. YOU! You have brought so much awareness to infertility and the reality of it. You taught so many that they’re not alone. You have help so many others with the scholarships you provided. You have been a blessing to so many people!❤
I wish every man would have this same sentiment. It doesn’t take anything from your masculinity to have this procedure. If anything it only solidifies it because it shows how empathetic you are to all that Ellie has been through physically. Thank you for being so intentional about the children you bring into the world, and an even bigger thank you for not asking Ellie to continue to take birth control or even worse go through a surgery. It infuriates me when women are forced to that because their partners won’t man up.
Maybe if more couples had these conversations before committing to each other, women wouldn't feel like they are being forced into anything. It should be a mutual decision. A conversation to be had prior to marriage. Possibly with an unbiased mediator.
I’m proud of Jared. Every man should be doing this after their wives went through multiple pregnancies. It is their turn. Just shows how much of a man Jared is.
Literally crying at the beginning of this video. Just the mindset you have Jared and how you both came to this decision together, it’s honestly beautiful. The relationship you two have is inspiring and I wish my past marriage was like this 😢 been here since the beginning of your videos and I am always so amazed by how incredibly human and true to character you two remain. Thank you x
My husband did this for me too. My last pregnancy I couldn’t walk from pelvic separation and I still managed to take care of our 2 year old in that time.
Jared, I have been watching you and Ellie since you were trying to have Jackson. I remember Ellie waiting for you to come home so you both could here the results of the pregnancy test for Jackson. So exciting! I even had my grandkids watching your videos. You have been blessed with a beautiful family and we wish you the best!
I worked as a nurse in urology for many years. The best advice I can give is be sure you get both of your negative samples. Can’t tell you how many times we had people end up pregnant because they failed to get their 2 negative sample.
Been here from the beginning and you guys have remained the same. You’ve laughed and loved one another and cheered each other own know matter what it was you both have been each other’s Cheerleader and it’s been so sweet too see... That’s the way it should be... I pray your all’s next 10yrs is just as Amazing these last ten have been. There has been so much joy and laughter, and even some sad moments, however your subscribers have been her for the long haul and we will continue as long as you guys are.. I wish you guys nothing but Beautiful Blessings, it’s well deserved my friend ...
Thank you for sharing this huge change in your life, but I was SO afraid of clicking this video because I was SO scared you were saying good bye to UA-cam!!!
Deciding hubby and I were done was hard but deep down we know that we are done. I know that in the celestial kingdom I will have more children which makes it a little easier. I am blessed to have 6 kids that heavenly father trusts me with. I am so happy for you guys in what you have overcome with getting your family. Now it's time to enjoy it.
Wow!! Thanks for sharing. Jarred you are so thoughtful towards Ellie in all she has done to birth four babies. You are both two beautiful people. Looking forward to journey ahead with your beautiful children xx
I remember when I first started watching your videos a little after you started them! I always thought that you were amazing for going through such hard times. A couple of years ago me and my husband and I started trying to have a family, and now I'm dealing with my own fertility trials. I can't help but think that years ago, I was meant to find your videos to prepare me and help me through these hard times. Thank you for sharing your lives and for all the good you do!
Sorry to ask are you still going through fertility I wannna pray for you and your family that you have you have healthy baby healthy pregnancy and healthy mom my prayers go out all families struggling to have children may god bless you healthy babies
I feel this was so emotional, the closing of a chapter. To finally arrive at that point of 'we are done' and knowing it's final. We are in the same boat (infertility journey and all) but I just cant seem to close the chapter even though I know my body mind and our finances cant have one more. The dream is still in there.
I’m usually able to play it cool and wait an hour or two after you guys upload but today I couldn’t resist I clicked as soon as I saw the notification.
I have watched you both since the beginning, I was 14 years old when i started watching and in this chapter i too got diagnosed with PCOS and endometriosis. Watching you close this chapter has made me feel so hopeful for my own next chapter. I’m so proud of you guys and feel so grateful to have watched your journey❤
I started watching you all from the beginning. Not really sure why. But I feel like God pulled me. This platform you have built and the who you are just fills my heart. I am grateful for you. Thank you for allowing us to grow with you.
Jared, you are truly so amazing to Ellie and your kids! ♥ Warms my heart. What a wonderful journey and I'm so thankful that I've been able to follow along! :)
I love Jared's sense of humour you have done the right thing. Its hard when you so want kids so much and then you get surprised. Your boys are lovely and I am sure baby Jennifer June will be spoilt.
Congratulations guys! How exciting! I love that you're both being intentional with the time and stage of life you're at...and that you got your baby girl too. I am not overly emotional with films or videos but I definitely had a few tears of happiness with this one, that you both got the dream even if it took awhile. Very inspiring! It's definitely the beginning of something new and constant emotionally for you both, I'm very happy for you guys. Looking forward to seeing the evolving future videos too.
It's so hard to believe after all of these years. But I'm so excited for this next chapter and journey for you all and we will all be here with you guys through it all ❤.
Thank you guys so much for sharing ❤. It’s a vulnerable conversation but so good for others to hear. My husband did the same just before our 4th turned one. We’ve been together since we were 17 and almost 36 when he had it done. We couldn’t wait to get married and have babies…how could this chapter be over already?! It was so bittersweet but we both had peace and felt so blessed with the babies we have. There are some concerns with vasectomies which I was worried about but prayed hard and it went well. We also knew that if we truly felt called to have more that it can be reversed with a higher success rate than other options.
I've watched your family's vlog since the beginning..and from day one, I've been in awe, over the way Jared steps up and puts his entire heart and self, caring for Ellie and the boys (and now sweet Jennifer June!) post birth and during all the IVF/meds etc... This world would be a far better place, if more men had Jared's heart, compassion, and drive...loving, empathy, protective, drive, work ethic. Heal well, fast, and without complications, Jared!!
What an incredible journey you two have had. I've been blessed with your content for 10 years now. It's been an honor to watch you two go through so much to bring 4 BEAUTIFUL children into the world. You both did your part. Now go enjoy your children. I'm so happy you're putting this chapter behind you guys. I know how hard some of those times were. Thank you for sharing everything with us and being a huge inspiration. ❤❤
I found your channel 5 years ago when I had a miscarriage, you guys helped me in a dark time. Thank you for being so vulnerable sharing your story. Good luck for the next chapter xx
Thank you for sharing this chapter of your life. I've been watching for years, even before I was married. Now as we are going through infertility treatments, watching your journey brings me comfort. Best wishes for a new chapter!
E + J thank you for sharing your hearts with us. I've been watching since 2015 and I just love your sweet family. I have tears in my eyes as I listen to the end of this chapter for you all. My husband had a vasectomy shortly after our third was born in 2020. It's a bittersweet feeling for sure. Here's to being in a new phase, a new chapter of parenthood and life!
I can’t wait to see the vlog one day of Ellie saying she’s been a year with zero migraines or zero eye pain etc…. This new phase is about healing and living in the moment. It’s an adjustment but it’s an exciting and fun stage of life.
Jared this is amazing so many more men need to think like this. All the things women’s body go through we need to rest. Thanks for taking one for the team! ❤ love your beautiful family! Ellie you heal and rest now mama you did so much work!❤️❤️
Your videos made me want to get married, become a mother and walk more with Christ. Your joy was contagious and inspiring. Your loss also helped me when I lost my 2nd pregnancy. Today I am married to a wonderful man and mother to a little boy and girl. We go to mass as a family every Sunday and I so thankful for all I have, thank you for giving me hope for all of the things I now have that god has given me. I feel truly blessed.
I’ve watched y’all since the beginning. I’ll never get over the sight of you holding that sweet little baby girl. What a precious family. NOW, enjoy every minute watching them grow! 🙏🏻❤️
I am so glad you are going to heal and rest! You have amazing lives ahead! Keep traveling and smiling! We all wish we had an amazing husband like Jared!
Jared God Bless You for Doing What Your Doing. Ellie & You Make A Great Husband & Wife with making Decisions together ❤️. Your Children will Grow Up Being Like You Both because You Brought Them Up That Way. Love Jennifer June ❤️
I’m happy you two made the decision, you know 4 kids are just perfect amount for your family. You are stating your next chapter with your 4 children growing up
I follow you since your first videos almost 10 years ago, and when you said half of Jackson's moments living with you are already gone I BAWLED 😭😭 ITS TOO FAST 😭
Your family is so precious! And another JJ🥰 I'm Jennifer Joy and that's what they called me when I was little. She is so precious! All your kids are. Enjoy making precious memories with your kids.
That's so sweet & thoughtful of Jared to think about about birth control options have affected Ellie. Also, that he's gonna get a vasectomy so Ellie won't have so much to deal with. She's lucky to have a great husband like Jared.
Not me worrying that you were stopping filming! You're my happy family, I watch you guys all the time and I'm so thankful for everything you share.
You're amazing and your beautiful, complete family are incredible 💗
Thank you so much!
Saame! I was so worried😫
And now freaking out that you guys replied. Fan girlling from the UK 💜
Same! 😂
Same!!!
I'm proud of you Jared. My husband got his Vasectomy in January after 3 kids. Our chapter closed as well. New ones beginning. I'm so thankful for this option
Jared, I don’t think you receive enough credit for how talented you are with editing. Truly makes the videos that much better. Love you guys and so happy you finally got your miracle baby girl❤️
What a vulnerable topic, shared so deeply. I’ve always respected you both, now more so. Blessings for your family in all the new chapters ahead!
I swear I see Ellie becoming her true self lately. It’s beautiful to watch
The world needs more men like you Jared. To see a man have such empathy and understanding of how hard it all is.
Something I really appreciate out of this video is that it shows how grateful you can be to be where you are while also acknowledging how hard it is too. When the struggles and hardships of different chapters of our lives are mentioned, many people interpret that as we are not appreciative and grateful for what we have. I love that you guys convey the gratitude while also acknowledging the difficulties so well
What a journey! I'll admit - I love when these videos can make me laugh and cry. We've certainly had our fair share of those moments over the last 10 years and we're so grateful to all of you who have joined us in those wonderful and difficult moments. Thank you. We love you.
Oh my goodness I had a mini heart attack!! I totally though it was the end of UA-cam for you guys! 😮💨❤
Mr. and Mrs. Mecham I am so excited for your daughter Jennifer and the Daily Bumps daughter Brielle to officially meet. They’ll be best friends forever when they do. I just know it.
May I ask why you would get a vasectomy, knowing she can’t get pregnant without in vitro
Be careful what you wish for, Ellie and Jared! The best birth control is not having or just having less sex! You're a beautiful family, and I wish you nothing but health and love..but just be careful with this decision (especially since there are some health risks involved with this procedure; not like birth control but still there nonethelsss)
@@meganleelove7043 we’ve actually never done IVF. But have gotten pregnant a couple times without fertility medication. It’s just safer this way.
You are such a dream team! Thanks for taking us along! I watch your videos from day 1 and all I can say is you did everything right.
I've been here since the beginning. To see your ups and downs and see what you have produced is a blessing. Now plan the next chapter and I'll be here every step of the way
The gratefulness for Ellie’s sacrifice that Jared has is truly amazing. So many men see all of those things as “the woman’s duty” so they don’t take responsibility. I pray y’all continue to have peace with this decision, and continue to thrive with this next chapter. ❤️
Agree, and those were the exact words my husband told me after we had our third baby, but he added “I don’t want to see you in pain anymore, I don’t wanna see you suffer again, we have three already, we are complete, you have done your part, now it’s mine turn” and I cried, I cried because how greatful I am to have him, but also I cried bacause I really wanted a fourth but I went through 4 miscarriages and I couldn’t take it no more.
My husband did this for me. Due to medical reasons I ended up having to have a hysterectomy a year later but he did this for me and it was so special to me. I'm so thankful for him ❤️
I cried like 8 times during this video. I feel so lucky to have the privilege of watching your family grow. And all of the hard parts in between. I started watching when you first moved into your first build, and Calvin could barely see over the windowsill to watch the big trucks landscape the backyard. Such a beautiful family!!! 🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations! I am so happy for you both! Happy you are both at peace with everything! Way to go, Jared!
There is a grief process when closing this chapter. Even knowing you're done, and being at peace with it, it's still hard to process. We closed this chapter a year and a half ago, and I have cried a time or 2 over it. You get one life to live and this is a huge part of it. It's a hard pill to swallow knowing that part is over. ❤️
I’m crying too. All I’ve known is you guys creating your little family.
Such a beautiful life story to have documented, wish you many years of happiness and family adventures. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ellie and Jared I am so grateful to have been a viewer to watch your family grow into the lovely family it is today. And you are such an inspirational couple to many people in never giving up to have their own family one day. Thank you so much for been so open and honest about the ups and downs you have been through, you have the most wonderful family and should be very proud of this chapter of your life ❤
You are just so… pure. And I don’t mean perfect but just so beautifully human and good. I have my rainbow baby through infertility treatments because of PCOS and your channel has been such a comfort. What a beautiful journey.
Gosh Jared im crying... You are an amazing husband to Ellie!! The way you speak to her and look at her... God has blessed you all so much!! Makes me love you guys even more now! Been watching since before jackson was conceived.... God bless you both!!!!! :)
I mean this in the nicest way possible, I love that Jared is embracing his grey hair! It really suits him!
It’s crazy how this chapter is ending but your doing what’s best for you and your family. You’ve got 4 beautiful children to watch grow and have adventures with. Here’s to the next chapter of your journey ❤❤
The IVF grants is still one of the most incredible things I’ve ever seen come out of UA-cam.❤
Oohh my God! You are the greatest couple! So loving, so respectful. God bless you. I admire you so much!🥰
God Bless You Dear Ellie and Jared. Love You
I love your family so much, they are an example of love, courage, faith and empathy. Thank you for being so open and honest with us, for sharing your lives and decisions. Your videos are joy and hope for our hearts. God bless you Mechan family

Did anyone else think E&J were leaving UA-cam for good. So glad that not the case. Feel better Jarred
Yes, me.. didn’t think it was this lol
Same I thought that also and yeah I’m so glad that’s not the case
This is exactly how we felt and we had a similar journey as you. It’s so great being able to enjoy raising them now!
Praying you will heal quickly, Jared. Love the story of your beautiful family.
This really brought me back to when I first started watching you guys in 2015 when I experienced my first loss and was navigating my own infertility journey. I watched you guys, Bryan, Missy, Cullen and Katie everyday, never missed a video for at least 2 years and you all carried me through the darkest times of my life. I loved watching your guys journey and I always hoped that one day I would get my family. This past August after 6 years of infertility my husband and I welcomed our beautiful daughter & she’s now 6 months old. Watching this video just brought me back to where I started with you guys and I’m so happy to see that you have the family that you all have prayed for and it truly is an end of an era. ❤
I can’t believe it’s been 10 years!! I’ve been following you and watching you grow your beautiful family. Can’t wait to see what the future hold for all of you.
I am so glad God has blessed you with 4 beautiful kids. You are an amazing family and I am so thankful you choose to share your life with us.
You guys are truly amazing. Just watching you guys interact is so heartwarming. Watching your story is a blessing. I'm proud of both of you! God bless and excited to see where your next chapter leads you.
My husband got a vasectomy after 4 kids as well. We were blessed with two boys, two girls. And we knew thats all we wanted.
Jared, I admire and adore you! You are sensitive and caring! ❤️
“snipped but still equipped” 😊
I’m glad you are able to laugh about this!
It just confirms more then ever the love you two share with one another! Your bond is unbreakable! ❤️❤️
I hope you feel better soon Jarred
Fabulous video, your sense of humor is so life enhancing. You had a good run, four beautiful babies. Thanks for stepping up to the plate Jared, and giving Elle a home run.
i’ve been watching your videos and watching you guys create your family since I was 14. It’s so bittersweet now as a 21 year old woman watching you guys close this chapter in your lives. Your story has always made me so excited for that chapter in my own life and i’m so grateful that you’ve shared your lives with the world! Love from Maine❤
Thank you guys for everything. Truly.
Wow, a man stepping up! I like this couple...
I almost cried. I thought you guys were going to stop vlogging. I watched you guys in elementary and middle school. I saw Jackson become a big brother to 3 more kids. I watched a lot of the videos of you guys building your house. Knowing I practically watched Jackson and Calvin grow up and knowing these two get to protect 2 more kids is just..You guys are the best. 🥲
OMG I’m here since the beginning of the channel even that I didn’t know that much English to understand !! I learn a lot watching ur family vlogs (with English) I just love this family so much ❤
Such a great husband and partner you are to Ellie! Wish we all could have a Jared!
I’m smitten with you two. The love you have for each other is incredible. You have a beautiful family and I’ve been here since before you got pregnant with Jackson. I loved watching you grow. And Jared, you’re such a fantastic husband and father. If my husband isn’t like you than I don’t want him. Ellie is so strong and a wonderful wonderful mom. ♥️♥️
Four healthy children is a tremendous Blessing!
We’re beyond grateful. 😊❤
Yeah but this is not the end but she said she just want to recovery
Thank you for sharing! I’ve been here from the beginning and have watched your journey. I love that you got 3 handsome boys and 1 beautiful girl. I love that YOU are getting to make this decision. Not your body struggling to get pregnant, not finances, not a doctors opinion. YOU!
You have brought so much awareness to infertility and the reality of it. You taught so many that they’re not alone. You have help so many others with the scholarships you provided. You have been a blessing to so many people!❤
I wish every man would have this same sentiment. It doesn’t take anything from your masculinity to have this procedure. If anything it only solidifies it because it shows how empathetic you are to all that Ellie has been through physically. Thank you for being so intentional about the children you bring into the world, and an even bigger thank you for not asking Ellie to continue to take birth control or even worse go through a surgery. It infuriates me when women are forced to that because their partners won’t man up.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Maybe if more couples had these conversations before committing to each other, women wouldn't feel like they are being forced into anything. It should be a mutual decision. A conversation to be had prior to marriage. Possibly with an unbiased mediator.
I’m proud of Jared. Every man should be doing this after their wives went through multiple pregnancies. It is their turn. Just shows how much of a man Jared is.
I agree
Vasectomy can alter a man's libido subconsciously. Sometimes they don't want sex as frequently.
Literally crying at the beginning of this video. Just the mindset you have Jared and how you both came to this decision together, it’s honestly beautiful. The relationship you two have is inspiring and I wish my past marriage was like this 😢 been here since the beginning of your videos and I am always so amazed by how incredibly human and true to character you two remain. Thank you x
My husband did this for me too. My last pregnancy I couldn’t walk from pelvic separation and I still managed to take care of our 2 year old in that time.
Jared, I have been watching you and Ellie since you were trying to have Jackson. I remember Ellie waiting for you to come home so you both could here the results of the pregnancy test for Jackson. So exciting! I even had my grandkids watching your videos. You have been blessed with a beautiful family and we wish you the best!
I worked as a nurse in urology for many years. The best advice I can give is be sure you get both of your negative samples. Can’t tell you how many times we had people end up pregnant because they failed to get their 2 negative sample.
THIS
I’ve got my sample box ready! 😂
You took the words right out of my mouth!! Lol ❤🇨🇦❤🇨🇦❤
2? My husband only had to do 1…… maybe he should go in
Wow!! I was not expecting this. 😮 I’m glad you have peace about it. ❤
What a team you guys are! So wonderful to see. I love your example. Way to go Jared! 😁 Blessings you guys!
Thank you for sharing such an intimate journey. The ups, the downs, and all in between. I just love your family!🫶🏼
Been here from the beginning and you guys have remained the same. You’ve laughed and loved one another and cheered each other own know matter what it was you both have been each other’s Cheerleader and it’s been so sweet too see... That’s the way it should be... I pray your all’s next 10yrs is just as Amazing these last ten have been. There has been so much joy and laughter, and even some sad moments, however your subscribers have been her for the long haul and we will continue as long as you guys are.. I wish you guys nothing but Beautiful Blessings, it’s well deserved my friend ...
Thank you for sharing this huge change in your life, but I was SO afraid of clicking this video because I was SO scared you were saying good bye to UA-cam!!!
Deciding hubby and I were done was hard but deep down we know that we are done. I know that in the celestial kingdom I will have more children which makes it a little easier. I am blessed to have 6 kids that heavenly father trusts me with. I am so happy for you guys in what you have overcome with getting your family. Now it's time to enjoy it.
Wow!! Thanks for sharing. Jarred you are so thoughtful towards Ellie in all she has done to birth four babies. You are both two beautiful people.
Looking forward to journey ahead with your beautiful children xx
I remember when I first started watching your videos a little after you started them! I always thought that you were amazing for going through such hard times. A couple of years ago me and my husband and I started trying to have a family, and now I'm dealing with my own fertility trials. I can't help but think that years ago, I was meant to find your videos to prepare me and help me through these hard times. Thank you for sharing your lives and for all the good you do!
Sorry to ask are you still going through fertility I wannna pray for you and your family that you have you have healthy baby healthy pregnancy and healthy mom my prayers go out all families struggling to have children may god bless you healthy babies
@@amallul2521 yes we are still struggling. Thank you so much it is very much appreciated!
I feel this was so emotional, the closing of a chapter. To finally arrive at that point of 'we are done' and knowing it's final. We are in the same boat (infertility journey and all) but I just cant seem to close the chapter even though I know my body mind and our finances cant have one more. The dream is still in there.
I cant believe I've been here watching since before all the babies!
I’m usually able to play it cool and wait an hour or two after you guys upload but today I couldn’t resist I clicked as soon as I saw the notification.
Me too
❤❤❤❤ Y’all are both so amazing!!!
Ellie, I haven't seen you smile and laugh this much. It's amazing. God bless you.
I cry this is soo emotional I have seen you since I was in college
I have watched you both since the beginning, I was 14 years old when i started watching and in this chapter i too got diagnosed with PCOS and endometriosis. Watching you close this chapter has made me feel so hopeful for my own next chapter. I’m so proud of you guys and feel so grateful to have watched your journey❤
I started watching you all from the beginning. Not really sure why. But I feel like God pulled me. This platform you have built and the who you are just fills my heart. I am grateful for you. Thank you for allowing us to grow with you.
Jared, you are truly so amazing to Ellie and your kids! ♥ Warms my heart. What a wonderful journey and I'm so thankful that I've been able to follow along! :)
One of the best things hubby did 18 years ago. We had a boy and a girl and we were done ❤
I love Jared's sense of humour you have done the right thing. Its hard when you so want kids so much and then you get surprised. Your boys are lovely and I am sure baby Jennifer June will be spoilt.
Congratulations guys! How exciting! I love that you're both being intentional with the time and stage of life you're at...and that you got your baby girl too. I am not overly emotional with films or videos but I definitely had a few tears of happiness with this one, that you both got the dream even if it took awhile. Very inspiring! It's definitely the beginning of something new and constant emotionally for you both, I'm very happy for you guys. Looking forward to seeing the evolving future videos too.
I just love y’all! Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us.
It's so hard to believe after all of these years. But I'm so excited for this next chapter and journey for you all and we will all be here with you guys through it all ❤.
Thank you guys so much for sharing ❤. It’s a vulnerable conversation but so good for others to hear. My husband did the same just before our 4th turned one. We’ve been together since we were 17 and almost 36 when he had it done. We couldn’t wait to get married and have babies…how could this chapter be over already?! It was so bittersweet but we both had peace and felt so blessed with the babies we have. There are some concerns with vasectomies which I was worried about but prayed hard and it went well. We also knew that if we truly felt called to have more that it can be reversed with a higher success rate than other options.
I've watched your family's vlog since the beginning..and from day one, I've been in awe, over the way Jared steps up and puts his entire heart and self, caring for Ellie and the boys (and now sweet Jennifer June!) post birth and during all the IVF/meds etc... This world would be a far better place, if more men had Jared's heart, compassion, and drive...loving, empathy, protective, drive, work ethic. Heal well, fast, and without complications, Jared!!
What an incredible journey you two have had. I've been blessed with your content for 10 years now. It's been an honor to watch you two go through so much to bring 4 BEAUTIFUL children into the world.
You both did your part. Now go enjoy your children. I'm so happy you're putting this chapter behind you guys. I know how hard some of those times were. Thank you for sharing everything with us and being a huge inspiration. ❤❤
I found your channel 5 years ago when I had a miscarriage, you guys helped me in a dark time. Thank you for being so vulnerable sharing your story. Good luck for the next chapter xx
@Danny m sure go ahead
@Danny m I’m from the UK
Thank you for sharing this chapter of your life. I've been watching for years, even before I was married. Now as we are going through infertility treatments, watching your journey brings me comfort. Best wishes for a new chapter!
E + J thank you for sharing your hearts with us. I've been watching since 2015 and I just love your sweet family. I have tears in my eyes as I listen to the end of this chapter for you all. My husband had a vasectomy shortly after our third was born in 2020. It's a bittersweet feeling for sure. Here's to being in a new phase, a new chapter of parenthood and life!
I couldn't be happier for you that you've achieved the family that you really want, and are now ready to close that chapter
Another amazing "chapter" in your lives. My husband and I are in the retirement chapter and it's just as amazing as the past. Such blessings.
I can’t wait to see the vlog one day of Ellie saying she’s been a year with zero migraines or zero eye pain etc…. This new phase is about healing and living in the moment. It’s an adjustment but it’s an exciting and fun stage of life.
Jared this is amazing so many more men need to think like this. All the things women’s body go through we need to rest. Thanks for taking one for the team! ❤ love your beautiful family! Ellie you heal and rest now mama you did so much work!❤️❤️
Your videos made me want to get married, become a mother and walk more with Christ. Your joy was contagious and inspiring. Your loss also helped me when I lost my 2nd pregnancy. Today I am married to a wonderful man and mother to a little boy and girl. We go to mass as a family every Sunday and I so thankful for all I have, thank you for giving me hope for all of the things I now have that god has given me. I feel truly blessed.
So awesome! What a great supportive family. Can’t wait to see your new adventures.
Jared!!! Your editing skills are excellent !! Just 1:06 minutes in, and I'm like, woah!!!
I’ve watched y’all since the beginning. I’ll never get over the sight of you holding that sweet little baby girl. What a precious family. NOW, enjoy every minute watching them grow! 🙏🏻❤️
I am so glad you are going to heal and rest! You have amazing lives ahead! Keep traveling and smiling! We all wish we had an amazing husband like Jared!
You are an amazing couple with such a wonderful connection! I am following you for maybe 7 years now and it has been such a long time!
We’ll done Jared!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
What an amazing journey! ❤️ Follow you almost 10 years. My daughter is almost 10.. Stop time right now! It's going to fast
Jared God Bless You for Doing What Your Doing. Ellie & You Make A Great Husband & Wife with making Decisions together ❤️. Your Children will Grow Up Being Like You Both because You Brought Them Up That Way. Love Jennifer June ❤️
I was so nervous it was the end of videos! 😂 but congratulations you beautiful family of 6!
Not gonna lie, my heart sank! That was my thought too!
i was thinking it was a d-i-v-o-r-c-e lol
I'm sure most thought the same.
ME TOO!!! I was like I NEED TO SEE BABY JUNE GROW!! 😢
Happy Monday, Ellie and Jared!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖🎇👍.
I have been watching u guys since before Jackson was born. You guys have really come far along! Hope u get enough rest
We only have 2 kids. We know we are done but it is so hard to commit that way. Babies are such a blessing. It is hard to take that away.
I’m happy you two made the decision, you know 4 kids are just perfect amount for your family. You are stating your next chapter with your 4 children growing up
I follow you since your first videos almost 10 years ago, and when you said half of Jackson's moments living with you are already gone I BAWLED 😭😭 ITS TOO FAST 😭
Jared, you do JUST as much but in different ways. Bless your beautiful family 🥰
Your family is so precious! And another JJ🥰 I'm Jennifer Joy and that's what they called me when I was little. She is so precious! All your kids are. Enjoy making precious memories with your kids.