14 Interesting Psychological Facts About Attraction
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- These interesting psychological facts about attraction will absolutely blow your mind! To learn about the science of attraction, you don't have to look any further.
Sources:
Human Preferences for Facial Symmetry
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Opposites Attract: How Genetics Influence Humans to Choose Their Mates
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How Long Does It Take To Decide Whether Someone Is Attractive
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Happy Guys Finish Last: the impact of emotional expressions on sexual attraction
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It’s not about looks it’s how someone makes you feel 🤷🏼♂️🙏🏼
Okay but atleast decent looking😅
I fell for a guy without knowing what he looks like. I still don't know what he looks like but we communicate every day and there's a strong attraction on both sides. Which to me is a lot better than those guys who leave you on read and who are good looking.
cope, I'm pretty sure the 5'2 balding indian janitor will make you feel real good right? 😂😂
@@iiCounted-op5jxwhy wouldn’t he?
No it’s not lol
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
Or the "beer holder"
Exactly what I say
That's what my mamma said! Lol
I still don't understand this quote
@@MiriamUgwu-xj1hi I personally find personality and character very appealing. You might find beauty and confidence appealing.
We will look at the same person and admire different physical traits. I rate him/her a 6 but you rate him/her an 8. Get it?
2:41 the biological power of symmetry
3:16 opposites really do attract
3:52 follow the eyes
4:33 beauty is misleading
5:17 the subtle sound of attraction
5:56 women should make the first move
6:37 the 5-second rule
7:13 evolutionary competition
7:49 the most attractive emotions
8:22 Oedipus syndrome
8:57 the familiarity effect
9:28 musical infatuation
9:54 not all beards are attractive
10:36 perception changes over time
Men should make the first move. Or there are no real men anymore?
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@@olenaadams4797 can i have a definition of "real men" pls?
Thank u !!! I always HATE the long introduction .. such a waste of time ! This channel has been doing videos for so long. Should understand they need to get straight to the point !!! Why does “shorts” are becoming more popular?!
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I think women can fall in love with a man she, at first, isn't attracted to; however, with men, I think the attraction has to be there first.
I tried. I couldn't do it. Love is family feeling and not at all sexual.
That's just a silly view.
to me it's important that attraction is there first, and it can only change negatively (stop finding attractive someone if they behave bad e.g.), but if I wasn't attracted at the beginning, it never appeared all of a sudden.. sure you can start liking someone but that has not much to do with sexual attraction..
@@daydreamerbreezewhat about people that fall in love with friends they never thought about that way?
@@alinanymus6830 that exists but in that case, I found the person attractive, just maybe never thought of him that way because of the relation etc.
Video starts at 2:42
My guy
@@johnyfivesalive4438 fr
Love you
Actually, it's at 11:20
[I really need to remind myself angels such as yourself exist because I could've saved 2 minutes and 42 seconds of my life.]
Technically women do make the first move with subtle body language gestures and sub-communication, which we men pick up on subconsciously (or consciously if you know what to find)
A caveat is that the IOI (indications of Interest) a woman can give, is very similar to when she is being kind or friendly. It does make reading these signals somewhat murky.
Is she showing interest, being friendly because that's her nature or is she possibly intimidated so is showing these signals in hopes she doesn't get hurt?
It's a hard one too fully tell in many cases.
My ex friend who knew his stuff swore by these two signals; if a woman fiddles and plays with her hair, or rests her chin on her hand while gazing at you she is very into you.
@@LeahWilts-rt5hx Hair playing one I wouldn't always call that an indication of interest per say. I believe it comes down to HOW she plays with her hair (one can play with their hair when their bored, focusing on something etc)
The second one I've only experienced once (to my recollection), the female in question was intently focused while I was talking - maybe it is, maybe it isn't.
A woman being friendly doesn't necessarily mean she's into a guy.
Like any IOI it's tricky as nearly all of them can mean 1 of 4"things:
She's interested
She's being friendly because that's who she is
She feels scared so she acts freindly in the hopes the guy won't do anything (this ends up backfiring on the woman as most men have been told that if a woman is friendly she's into him)
She's looking to get something from/out of you
Yeah I should have clarified the hair playing while she's gazing at you - gazing being relaxed, friendly, smiling - especially seductively. Vital point you're so correct about though - what you say is spot on - she could also be a full on playa, manipulating you!! There so little defense for men or women for playas....
@@LeahWilts-rt5hx
Being relaxed, smiling friendly isn't something I thought about when thinking of a woman playing with her hair, I'll have to keep an eye on that (what if she's smiling etc without the hair playing?)
I say there is a way to defend yourself as a guy. Be non reactive to their advances or flip the script if a guy wants too.
You could always play into their game then if she is a female player just fuck her and drop her (record it all so she can't claim false rape) at that point it's better to stay non reactive and move on in life 😂
how do you know this 😂
My crushes voice gives me butterflies
Hey friends! Just wanted to comment on how the last point is a little dodgy - it's true that maybe someone you fancy now isn't into you but might fancy you in the future... But you're worth more than that now! Yes, keep growing and getting better, but for yourself and for whoever is worthy of you and fancies you exactly as you are at that stage. Do it for yourself not for someone who isn't into you now.
now I'm in doubt, because I was initially gathering the courage to confess to my crush before it's too late, and to see if there's a chance he might like me back, but if I work on myself more I have a higher chance of avoiding rejection, but maybe by the time I seem more attractive he might've found a partner already
Are you a psychologist?????? This video matches my all thoughts.....especially the age gap one 🤧 thanks for help or it's not just a help...... You gave me a motivation to not give up...... 💪🏻 THANK YOU VERY MUCH ☺️❤️
people in general who have good hygine, isnt super lazy, and good personality is attractive too me. i also find appearance attractive obv but average is good enlugh
Not sure why I keep watching these videos, it's the same in all of them. By now, experience has taught me it doesn't matter what makes somebody attractive. I learned to accept that I'm the exact opposite of it.
This vidéo is so cute and instructive! I’ve heard some of these facts in my psychology classes in College!
Beauty is in the beer holder
If a woman loves you she loves you whatever yo do,
If a woman does not love you she will never like you whatever you do
When a very beautiful woman loves you do not miss her because that does not mean all beautiful women will like you.
my ex gf is the most beautiful woman i know. she loved me. so your 1. point doesnt make any sense. infact women tend to unlove dependend on medication. for example medication that effects hormones like the anti baby pill. if you change the pill or stop it women can stop loving the man they have. experienced on my own. and even worse: since then she completly chaned to the negative. the woman i know and loved is gone. but a realy negativ woman is left, beautiful but ugly from inside. this mean whatever i would do, she never would love me again. this proves your 2. point. and since its the only beautiful woman ever once loved me, that means it proves your 3. point.
2/3 is not bad ;)
The first point is blind love. Healthy-mind women/men don't do love like that.
Thanks for sharing
I don't understand something about the Oedipus syndrome. Are we attracted only to people who look like our parents physically or based on their personality too ?
I think it's both.
@@yanapyuro6002 thank you
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I hated my father - he was abusive, mentally-ill, and frightening. He repulsed me. I certainly don't look for him when I date but certainly a warm protective man.
@LV-bk4it I feel so sorry for you . I want a warm protective man too
Excellent video.❤
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This helps me a lot
I’m wondering about following the eyes. Lately, I went out with a guy who invited me first so I can assume he was interested in me. But, during our meeting he didn’t look at me at all. Eye contact is important for me, so it felt weird. Do you know what could be the reason
I had this several time with new people (friends and dates). Most of the times it was because they were insecure/shy/attracted so much. The better we got to know each other and the more comfortable we got with each other, growing trust, the more stable the eye contact got. 😊 I sometimes have this myself as well. If I find someone very attractive I find it hard to keep eye contact 😅
Attraction, how sweet it sounds...
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love lost its true meaning long ago, so whatever~
Ma_guy has already gave up on love😂
@@bonginkosiphumlane4250he got a point tho every girl i’ve dated has cheated on me or has been abusive
Look in the mirror if you don't love yourself or respect yourself how can you expect someone to love or respect you.😮
Very very trivial....
which tool do you us for creating such animation
Why smiling with closed lips is attractive 🤔?????
It depends on the social situation and context, so just saying "smiling with closed lips is attractive" is probably too generalized in this video. From my own experience: I believe it is because more intelligent people tend to smirk, or smile with closed lips, more frequently. A smirk too big might convey arrogance, but a slight smirk just displays confidence without trying too hard, or being exaggerated. I believe that a brief smile with teeth flashing is still important, but perhaps if you ONLY smile this way (with a huge smile), then it comes across as more child-like. Although that might show sincerity, looking like a happy child isn't necessarily attractive.
If a guy looks like MY DAD 🚩 .. im running from him 😭.. now my mother oh im running from her too because that’s repeated history 😂.. I love when opposites attract though there’s more to talk about 🫂..
I feel like Kanye west when I catch that gaze from others 👁️🫦👁️
This video is really helpfull, but I think it encourages to do things that we normally don't do (like being happy and enthusiasitich for women even when they natutally they aren't). I think we should'nt change ourselfs to be more likeable for our partner, initially can be easier but as the time passes faking some traits of our persinality can hurt the relationship.
9:28 explains what happens at clubs/cafés
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotionally intelligent, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind-hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women regulate emotion better.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Also, girls that are friends touch each other in ways that guys just don’t.
damn
To say that men cannot bond with each other is extremely ignorant. Us men can create extremely strong bonds with each other where we would die for one another. Read some stories about World War 2 platoons and how the men in these companies bonded so strongly. Some women are unintelligent as far as emotions, and some men are extremely affectionate. Almost everything you said is a broad generalization and paints you in a poor light. You should delete this lol.
Base on my experience the last one is actually true
Okay something with my „oedipus Syndrom“ is definitely wrong. I mean yeah my parents are older than average but that doesn’t mean I have to be liking men who are 15-30 years older than me 💀
I’ve never felt so ace in my life 😅
Thinking about my Crush and my ex crush who’s still kinda my crush
its true that women should make the first move. i hate being the one causing all the 'first move' shenanigan.
Oedipus syndrome does not apply to me at all
Same. I'm into white boys and sometimes black guys. I'm brown Asian, and I can't recall a single time I've been attracted to someone of my own race, genuinely. Like, I just haven't felt butterflies for them, but I can acknowledge that they're attractive. Maybe this is because of the whole opposites attract thing, but that would contradict Oedipus theory entirely.
@@other7128 I'm black and Married to an Asian. Before her, my 3 previous ex's were asian.
Right. I'm a biracial woman who is solely attracted to Asian men.@@rixd8226
That's what I was screaming.
and by the time thy finally notice you, u wonder what made them attractive to u at the first place😂
So interesting 🤔
da guitar is da most over-marketed, underappreciated and least understood instrument ever created, 🎻
What happened in our relatio ship did i make first move
This is why I have a girlfriend instead of a boyfriend... I mean, she's enthusiastic and happy all the poppin time although I have a taller stature for a female and am depressed as heck making me seem more "dominate" or "attractive" to her. Lol.
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umm.. when you just wanted to know the facts but somehow it to turned to someone giving me dating advice.
I have a Beard and mustache and I have for the last thirty five years, best way to Look for a Man
Those who most admire i find shallow... 😂😂
Umm, no one's face is perfectly symmetrical. Sorry to break it to ya! Take a selfie flip it, you'll see. Don't worry, most people just can't notice.
The video starts at like 2:40... Lord
There is one fact not listed. Humans can turn off the allowance to become attracted to anybody and not find anybody attractive at all. Knowing my own attractiveness is severely lacking, I chose to turn off the allowance to find anybody attractive. I travel through life as if I were the only person on the planet. I seek no friends, romantic relationships, assistance from others, nor approval from anybody. They show no attraction towards me. I show complete indifference to everyone. Being attracted to someone servce no useful purpose in life.
You miss the point of being attracted to each other leads to procreation, in many cases, in order to repopulate the world.
@@LV-bk4it With 7.775.666.314 humans on the planet, there is no danger of extinction for humans. Only one out of 100 couples could reproduce and the planet would still have a huge human population for decades to come. Also, it really is not an obligation to reproduce. That is just something the powers-that-be programme into us from an extremely early age so they can have their tax slaves, work slaves, and spare parts for transplants. It hurts nobody if humans stop reproducing. The people that choose not to reproduce will live on just fine, probably better, than if they reproduced. They will die exactly the same way, also. As the population continues to reduce steadily, the ones alive will have a normal life, maybe even a better life with the thinner population. Eventually, the last few people will live out their lives in an incredible world empty of humans and die like normal. This type of extinction will hurt nobody. Nobody should be obligated to reproduce. Besides, as ugly as I am, and as suspecious as I am of everyone, no female, self respecting or otherwise, is going to want to reproduce with me. I lose nothing for it.
@@LV-bk4itbut we got enough people so he’s still right. There is no point for it
Hi 7th Comment, but still happy
I'm an attractive man.
Cap
Cope
Hi! First comment
Hi
Not 1st
I don't like masculine men. I like thin men with feminine features.
CRAZY 🤣🤣🤣 shhhhhit
First heyy
Would leave rash on women's face
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Facial hair 🤣😍🤩😍
Tall strong men with beards
😂nice
First to comment yaayy
Lmao😂 14 is just nice guys ending up with damaged good at the end to settle down with
It goes both ways. Do you think those women want to end up with the "nice guys", that we all know are not that nice anyway? Good women get damaged by bad guys and end up with the unattractive, not smart, not interesting and not that kind men. If you think those women are thrilled to be with the "nice" guys you are living on a different planet. The only difference between "nice guys" and "bad guys" is attractiveness and charisma. It's the bad guys who have to be held accountable but never are, because not one of them is showing his real colors until very late.
@@diana.290 triggerd diana poppin off in the comments
Funny how its both ways but only the guys are the not interesting not smart not attractive and not kind
Also its women that get damaged by bad men? (bad men being attractive and with charisma 🤣 no other thing seprrating them but those 2 🤣)
Women allow themselves to get played because of delusional fairly tales where evryone is a beautiful Princess and should be treated like celebrities.. Barely any accountability for past mistakes
Damaged because they show true character at the end.. Sure bad people around but you finding them back to back to back 7 times.. Becky.. Please stfu 😭
*Getting plowed by the basketball team*
*"It wasnt my fault i got an only fans account"*
Countless bs
Girls getting played by the same guy ratiod 5 to 1 while those nice guys get barely any contact or attention
Id argue its waay worse for the ugly nice guys who cant get anything hut those damaged women who did get attention at some point before the fell off the wagon adn are racing against their biological clock
1st
The last one is the worst advice ever.........
First
Whose on 2nd
@@davidfonseca5199 I dunno I was kidding 😸
Lol
@flowerss.7222 same. It's an abott and Costello bit called whose on first. Hysterical.
I did the first move twice and got rejected 🥲
If you are not enough in the Eyes of someone please know it's their lost❤
leave with your dignity and like someone told me go no contact
I have always found beards highly unattractive. Looking forward to this beard trend ends soon
ITA long beards on a guy are just nauseating to me 🤮
@@whitneyangelie3682fr they are so itchy and filled with sweat and bacteria🤢. But I don't mind a little facial hair though but not a lebron james beard🤢
doesnt prove the point is on any wrong here. just proves that you are the exceptionals in a normal distribution.
and btw: its not "a trend" since there were some kind of beards everytime ;) also the more men get forced to be feminine, the more likely they will try to appear more masculine. therefor more beards and even more guys running to the gym, ignoring all women since they treat them like shit and getting pumped up. at the end women and men will divide them more and more until we are all alone and society will slowly die ;) damn i cant wait to see all the women complain about having a carrier but are alone at the age of 50 with no familiy at all while men be like "yeah go fuck yourself, you get what you deserve". men are already fucked up. being a man is the most toxic thing. it will never change #equality
I don't care for facial hair either, I tolerate some scruff, or very well kept short facial hair - but I prefer clean shaven.
You are possessed.
I am a sucker for Red headed ladies. But they must be funny and kind. Humor and kindness are at the top of my attractiveness scale.
Beards are a def turn off. Most men look horrible and old with them
Welp my gf has a lot similarities to my mum hhahaha
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Number 14 is called "Hitting the wall". A specific gender's options decrease as they get older, so they scramble to find people who found them attractive in the past. Lol
interesting concept. iv'e grown older and although not looking for any relationship..since social media is at our fingertips found myself wanting to reach back, to both males and platonic females who i've shunned when they liked me more than i did them.
my conscious is just more fragile now
Oh strange, I thought it was based on increasing maturity relating to relationship experiences and emotional and mental growth; how silly of me.
Main thing,Psychology is not a Fixed thing.
ok i get it. Im not attractive
I've only been attracted to about 12 Ken. In 8 years. Most of them I never spoke to. Lol anyways. I don't ask anyone cause it's not their business. Amen.
Thanks a lot. I will definitely use some of these!
02:39 Why does he say it like that?😂😂
I love men with well groomed facial hair and beard oil has a nice scent 😊
Interesting
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10th!!