Divorcing a Narcissist? What You Need to Know
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- Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
- As someone who endured a decade in the family court system (in pro se) and, successfully protected my children, I often feel frustrated that there is a disconnect between what survivors are taught in the Domestic Violence (DV) communities and the harsh realities of the family court system. Much of the advice given can have a devastating impact on family court cases.
DISCLAIMER: I am NOT an attorney nor am I qualified to give legal advice. Any new strategies implemented in your case (any case) should always be guided (or approved) by your attorney. I am a survivor of DV and of post-separation abuse. It is my goal to share my personal journey and experience.
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I have been married 17 years in September, I only found out what he is in 2019, I have never seen evil like this, never
Same here an affair and midlife crisis tipped him over to his evil
I can relate completely. Hoping you are staying strong.
I'm so happy you found her a new
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Love you, Tina! So much of your work has helped me so far. I hope my story is helpful to others someday soon. Filed for divorce over 3 years ago and not one issue is settled yet. He continues to manipulate the system to exact his revenge. But I got this!!!💪
Thanks Tina I am still in my Child Custody Case and I am trying to finish well...thanks for the encouragement 🙏
Yes. Yes. YES. YESSSSS!!! This is my story. Thank you Tina. 💜
When I escaped my abuser, I left the state with my child. We were not married. Recently the court ordered my son, who was recently diagnosed with Autism to return to his dad's state. It is so sad that the court doesn't pay attend to evidence. Abusers are really good at manipulating the court and projecting onto us the things they're doing. Your words give me hope that in the future, there will be some justice for my son and me.
This is AMAZING and such a blessing. May God continue to bless your organization.
Thank you. I have been trying to save my daughter for 6 years none stop. I started off with 3 fraudulent felonies. It took me a year without my daughter to get through just that part. I was looking at years in prison at hard labor. Eventually 11 months later the ADA dismissed all the charges. My new motion for domicile parent has just been filed. Listening to you is helping me keep going. Like you say often. “Hope”, Where there is hope there is a way. Again thank you.
My lawyer has put a proposal together but I am not ok with it, my estranged husband is a malignant narcissist and intelligent, I have a 16 year old son
Do not feel pressured to agree to anything you're not comfortable with. You deserve your attorney's time and attention to your every concern.
Yes! Even judges don’t get high conflict.
Hello Tina...Thank you for your videos and experiences you share with us... i literally do not know where did you get the strenght for all the nightmare that it is divorcing narcissist? I left a year and half ago and I question what is worse...being with him and suffer OR being away and also being away from my child. He is fighting me for 50% custody, manipulating our daughter, the court, the system... and it feels it will never end.he is seen as a victim while he is an abuser...i understand in court it is his word against mine, and court looks at us equally ..i only ask, i have soooo much evidence showing his abuse, admitting his abuse and nobody looks at it...i do not want anyone blindly believe my words, just spend few minutes to go over the evidence? Why decision makers just do bare minimum...are our children no.worthy of little bit of time?
I feel.exhausted, I feel like giving in
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Thank you for your experiences you share with us.... Peace and love 🙏🙏🙏
Hi Katarina, Hang in there. I am in this too. You are not alone and you will get through this with your daughter.I highly recommend looking at Tina's material on communication, documentation, these videos. Rebecca Zung's videos are also very helpful. Take care.
So true. Very relatable
There is still a huge disconnect
hello, mine is a lawyer . just lost my both parents to realize he had our home in his name and had married an american all along for papers and not divorced even though we are married in AFRICA. NOW USING MY negligence, he uses that opprtunity to send me out weeks aftyer i lost m,y parents. he had brainewashed me not to wrok , i brought him to d usa , i inevested 100s of thousands , i am in my car sleeping while he has my kids and my house and everyone is seeing him as a victim. i am tired. i am just trying, to cut this short. lawyers say i have a great case , but i am nervous , i feel i am dreaming. i miss my kids, i canr see tyhrm, swollen legs, i dont need money, dont assume this is a call for money, i only need a reaL PERSON WHO WONT HEAR HIM AND end up avoiding my calls assuming i am crZY
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Hello is ur ex an attorney?
I need help
How were you able to sit in a court room and actually look up other people's cases?
My situation is different as there are no kids, so no custody. My mind tells me the 10 years narcissitic/verbal/emotional abuse that has continued with post-separation abuse is my strategy as my health took a turn for the worse bc of it and my goal is for the best alimony and equitale distribution as health isnt great. Im sooo confused, how would you approach this leaving emotion out of it?
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