Yeh if they have burning desire they don't go days to test the waters with chad or Steve. They always respond promptly with burning desire. If they go and come back after a few days, you know your in the break glass in case of an emergency guy category
Listen to me and listen to me good! Whenever a woman pulls away from you, do nothing at all and begin seeing new women IMMEDIATELY! If she is your girlfriend and you notice it and it becomes worse, just tell her the next time she reaches out that it seems you two need some space and tell her to get back to you when she's ready and start seeing new women IMMEDIATELY!! Do not EVER get too emotionally attached to a woman. She can sense it and will view it as weakness and start to pull away. Always stay focused on yourself and your goals and put her DEAD last on your list and she will wonder about you and begin to seek you back out. But here's the thing. If you've shown too much weakness and broke masculine frame, than depending on how much of a bitch you were, you might be toast!! So just fall back and leave her alone and start seeing new women and start focusing on yourself!! It's a win win situation. She'll either come back or you'll find someone better!!
Agree: do not get reactive or even worse ask for explanations. Live your life, have fun. The moment she sees that you don’t chase, she will likely be intrigued again. She will want to know what you are up to
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 thanks bruh , it´s facts, females love sex just as much as men do if not more , I could deep dive into it for those interested since it´s a long ass paragraph...
it litirally is a question of who is she going to find more interesting. If it‘s not you it is likely someone else even if she was your girlfriend back then
NInon De lenclos: A woman once said: Love/attraction never dies of starvation but often of indigestion: Law 16: Use absence to increase respect=attraction.
You should never be reaching out first to a woman that isn’t your girlfriend for any reason. Women with true burning desire will always contact you first 100% of the time.
If a woman isn't texting you, she's texting some other dude whom she finds more attractive than you. Coaches will never tell you this but it's the harsh truth. Women can't live without male attention. There's nothing you can do about it, other than accept it and move on with your life. If you attempt to pull away in the hopes of regaining her attraction, all you're doing is putting her on a pedestal. Pulling away should happen naturally due to you realizing she's not worth your time, and instead choosing to focus your attention on other things in your life.
Did this happen to you? I mean never really happened to me. If a women wants other males attention and she's your girlfriend then might as well move on. Unless you're barely dating then that's different. What's the situation?
@@Jvega001 it did yes. She left me cause I wasn’t going anywhere in life, living a routine and when she left I was needy and desperate as fk. When she left, after 3 months I started working on myself. Got fit as fk, boosted my business from the ground up, started dressing better, acting better, more confident. I was dating girls. She came back running 1 year and a half later when she found out, especially when she knew I was seeing other girls. When she came back she told me that she went out on dates with other guys but she just couldn’t downgrade( this tells you a lot about how women think) If your gf or ex is looking at others males, it’s simply cause your SMV is low.
@@ryuhayabusa5 I mean who wants to date someone who's desperate and doesn't really have anything going for themselves! I totally understand that once you start working on yourself you start attracting certain people in your life. It's always good to stay busy whether it's with work, doing hobbies or just doing things you enjoy!
@@ryuhayabusa5 women want someone who is confident in themselves fersure, and not someone who is going to be needing assurance. That what women want most of the time a reaction to how they feel. So complicated but it's works everytime.
men have emotions too, not all days are sunny, life breaks us at some point or the other, if during those times, your partner cannot be with you, then whats the point ? In fact test the person, before you give your heart, see if they are really worth it, put them in tough situations, see their response and Always protect your heart. Take care guys.
The biggest problem all of these guys have is that they are focusing on one woman. The solution is to date two to four women at a time, tell all of the women that you sometimes date more than one woman at a time, and do not take any of the women out every Saturday night, so that all of the women presume that you are currently dating more than one woman. This lets the women know that they are literally dating a man with options. So, when one woman starts to pull away, you literally will not care. You will look deep into your heart of hearts and discover that you just don't care. The downside of not caring is that it takes the edge off of relationships. If you have only one tenuous relationship it is like holding onto the edge of a cliff by your fingernails. It's very dramatic. If you have four relationships, each one is like standing on a rug with a cushion behind you. Occasionally, one woman will pull the rug out from under you, but you will fall on the cushion of one to three other women. Focus less on keeping one woman happy and more on attracting up to four women. (The ideal number is three. More than four gets very cumbersome.) The key is to tell all of the women that you sometimes date more than one woman and then do not take any woman out every Saturday night. At one point in time, I started dating a woman whom I found more interesting than any woman who I had dated in quite some time. She had not texted me for about a week. (I usually don't text women. I wait for them to text me.) I wanted to see how I really felt about the possibility of losing a woman who was one of the most interesting women I had ever dated. So, I looked deep into my heart, and I discovered that I just did not care. This was a rather startling discovery, but it is the result of truly having the options of other women. She eventually did text me, and she is one of the women I am currently dating. But, and here is the key, if she had not texted me, I would not have cared.
If a girl sees you as desperate and eager if you respond quickly to her BUT you know youre not eager and desperate youre just being a considerate person because you truly care for her… LEAVE her and dont waste any more time. The fcuk…responding quickly is not a sign of desperation its a sign of respecting someone you truly care about.
Cheers for such a great book, I read it last week and it has been an eye opening read, I've never had problems attracting women but maintaining attraction has been a big issue for me. Keep the good work up
If she stops messaging then good riddance! Guys need to learn this. Maybe when guys stop caring what she does she'll grow up. Stop giving unearned validation. Who gives a crap if she's bored.
Beta men will get panicated and start to text her, call her makeing her to drop off all. Men who know how to control their emotions will make indirectly a woman to wonder about him
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 true females really don't like men they have to lead on, they want to be leaded on especially if you want to take her on date you must know what places and best places where to eat and not her it irrates them if you are acting like a woman around them.
@@giannagiovanahavehugelongd8330 I didn't realise I was making these exact mistakes only after becoming comfortable myself and I knew she liked me, that soon changed and she broke things off with me. Looking back I think I fell into being too needy once again, I would look for reassurance of where to eat, is this place ok? Are you sure?... Things like that. I've not begged or pleaded or reached out to her so we shall see if anything can be rekindled with no contact, but I am well aware no contact is a time for me to focus on myself and move on which I am trying hard to do. It's just frustrating having a woman admit her feelings to you only for her to pull away.
@@Soarific I'm dealing with this problem too, like how can she show so much interest from the beginning and then act like you don't exist? I didn't do anything wrong so idk why she pulled...women are insecurely weird 🤦🏽♂️
Men are not slaves to run around all the time, keep your dignity intact, be good be yourself don't over do things. if she is bored let her lose. because there is no man in this world who can keep your GF entertained full time. soon she would realize that she had stepped on a wrong ladder. Criteria for Man for Woman : Tall, handsome, lean, and made enough money. if anything is missed out in this criteria they get easily bored. they would say " oh we don't need all perfect " but !!! if she finds one man with the one criteria she is looking for she would shift...as she is always on the look out even she had accepted you of what you are. Just like men looking always for perfect body.
That’s why it’s risky to put children into these women! Maybe if you really need to a two year period of dating without her telling you it’s all over or needing breaks or annoying you to the point where you have to walk away or spend your life in prison regretting your fuse being blown out of the sheer disrespect!
I have been watching alot of your videos recently great stuff! Thanks. My question is relationships are soley based on attraction tho? Besides attraction what other factors come into play?
yes but how does the logistics of meeting again work, when you keep distance in order to create attraction by making yourself rare? Basically wait for her, if she is not reaching out then write a sad song?
Not all the time works. I thought i left a good print on a woman that lives far (a bit long distance relationship/friendship)..We used to talk for hours and she began to pull away, I too and she never got back and the last time of our conversation she said she was in a Relationship. So, i guess she's probably still in that relationship of hers.
Hello coach! Again an awesome point you've made.. I humbly wanted to ask you about my situation here. I know this girl for an year now, never been in commited relationship as I never initiated the love you story but she did but not in a direct way more like an imaginary situation that if we end up together it will be like someone she knows in her family I didn't reacted much but told her to set me free and if its meant to be we will be together or else it wasnt meant to so no remorse. So coach My point is I have feelings for this lady but she didn't wished me on my birthday and its not the first time. And I believe that if I really mattered to her she wouldn't have simply forget it yet again.. How should I come about this? What should be my optimal approach to this situation. Any help/guidance is appreciated. Thank you very much!!
Women have stuff to do. They don't stop in the middle of the day to say hello. They want us there at the end of the day or when they have time to devote to us. The first guy should let it go. They just met maybe she changed her mind about him.
Need advise there is a guy friend who has caused insecurities in my relationship so many times so when we break up he always texts her and he knows we are broke up is he a trying to win her over and home wreck are relationship we broke up 2 times and the 2 times he knew we where on bad terms as he was involved and new are situation what is he doing and is he disrespecting me i think he should back off but he is definitely doing it out of badness or could it be her is interested please give me advise on this he definitely knows I'm not comfortable with it so why does he do it all of a sudden
Me and My Gf in LDR My GF doesn't Text much N Call When She with her parents i asked multiple times She replied i have fear of Parents Fact is that she cames online But she doesn't see or Reply my messages
I wish I had this advice and knowledge in the 80's when I needed it, but that said I use your advice in my marriage and when the wife gets shirty or moody I apply your principles and she soon comes around. Mate you should be knighted....many thanks 👍😉
So i met this girl we been seeing each other for a month and a half. Everything was great, it was all lovey dovey until her ex(who she broke up with 5 months ago) contacted her... now she said she wants to put us on hold but not 2 days later we end up making out n shit. One week shes hot, the other shes cold. It sucks, i feel like we had a real connection... ill be honest when she started talking to her ex it did make me insecure and i got a little too needy and pushy. I was messaging daily and i know thats not what im supposed to do now... Im going to try going no contact and focusing on myself since shes been pulling away recently. Hopefully things turn out for the better.
It’s very simple - if she comes back asking you to hang out, make it clear you aren’t interested in sharing her with other men and if she wants to spend time with you, the ex needs to be out of the picture for good. Right now she is getting what all women want - attention - from both you and this other guy. If she chooses you, great. If she chooses the other guy, even better - you don’t have to keep spending time with a chick who isn’t that into you.
Why be bothered with her after she went back to her ex? 🤔 If she's willing to do that, she doesn't care about you. Be direct, know what you want, and if she comes back to you, tell her that you're no longer interested and that you deserve better. If someone truly cares about you, they'll show it without you having to mention it. 👍
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a year and I feel like the messaging and phone calls have definitely tapered off. Sometimes it feels like she only messages me after she’s spent time with her girlfriends. She also seems to make plans with her girlfriends first before talking to me. It definitely makes me feel like an option. I don’t let her know this bothers me and I try to love her as if she’s free. Maybe I’m just being needy.
@@zombiedeutsch Just like the guy in the video says pull away bit by bit, don't go full no contact but take away attention you give her and stop treating her
Mirror but also do less. Be natural with it… focus on a passion. Read. Go to the gym. Go out with friends. Take a course. Stop focussing on the woman… no one likes being someone’s everything.
My ex got deployed and our relationship went from short distance to long distance, while on deployment she pulled away and broke up with me, I gave her the breakup without any begging or pleading, a month later she reached out saying that she was coming back to town in a few days, the next day she said that her flight was canceled , I was calmed to her reaching out and brought up the idea to go on a date upon coming back, She agreed. Long story short she never came back and affter a week of little to no communication (text) she pulled away again, I reamined indifferent and didnt reached out. What does this mean?
Hi Coach , i have been in a LDR with my Chinese gf, we were separated because of the COVID-19 restrictions for one year and half, and even since i have been trying to maintain the attraction so did she, but lately i did some mistakes that turned her off, by telling her some problems about me going back and this only makes her depressed, so she told me directly that I'm the man and I'm the one who must gives the support more, i agree on that and i know i screwed up But for the past week she has been cold and she says she's been busy and the only message she sends is" good night bb", I didn't panic and i mirrored her behavior but i kinda getting enough of this and wanna leave here messages unread till she figures out what she's been doing and bring it up on the table. And for our relationship, I'll be able to back to her cause i just received the vaccine and she was happy when i told her. So what's your suggestion coach in this situation? Thanks a lot
@@nikhilabraham5000 why would i stay away from her, is it because of the vaccine side effects? There's no proof yet about the side effects and I'm not taking it to back to her but I'm doing it for myself Thanks for your contribution anyway ;)
@Thanos well you are right about not being in a relationship in 2021 hhh but i met her in 2019 and i have been doing everything right and she was good to me, we went through a lot together and. She waited for me for one year and half, if she needs space I'll give it to her but if she wants a break up I'll move on
@@samikami9039 Yes, you wait for your proof till it effects you. Stop watching mainstream media news which will never show you the side effects reports and start watching right social media platforms. 24th July witnessed protest against mandatory vaccination and lockdowns in 45 countries across 128 city's worldwide. I am sure your mainstream media might have never showed you this.
@@nikhilabraham5000 you may be right bro about it, but the restrictions push us to take it, by not taking there vaccine our lives will het harder, i was unemployed for one year and half and it All depends on the vaccine, i also don't believe in this virus and I don't take precautions but those people control the world, we can't change it
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 oh, that. So my girlfriend of two months has switched up. Recently, she's being talking about 'she's overworked', 'she doesn't care about anything anymore'. Our convos are drier, she doesn't reach out first. Told her I was sick Recently, and after the first reach out, nothing more from her end. Like she literally stopped caring. But often, I see her post on her status, even wish people birthdays and all. Sent her a message about it and she read but didn't reply. Today's her birthday, sent her wishes on other platforms asides the one she didn't reply and she responded. I think I'll just give her space and stop reaching out in total. And I lock up pretty fast, once I do, it's hard to get me to begin to care again.
@@hakdown07 you gotta prioritise your life first - we live in a selfish world where we all think about ourselves. Do well for yourself and ask yourself whether you're happy with where you are now with life and focus on that, if shes the right girl for you - believe me mate she will come to you and the attraction will be natural
When they start making arguments and holding grudges believe me she won't do that fir a guy she likes🤷♂️ she'll make 9t easy for that guy, they tell you you need to adjust and fit to their rules and regulations, funny the new guy doesn't have to prove anything? Apart from texting lmfao why cant us guys see this! That's why you women get used.
You cannot negotiate burning desire. If a woman is attracted to you she will make it easy and move mountains to be with you.
Amen brother and you remind me of Richard Cooper from entrepreneurs in cars
Facts!!!
Yeh if they have burning desire they don't go days to test the waters with chad or Steve. They always respond promptly with burning desire. If they go and come back after a few days, you know your in the break glass in case of an emergency guy category
You on track bro
Well said 🎯💯🏆
If the woman is not putting in 80%+ of the effort-you’re losing…
Amen brother and you remind me of Richard Cooper
Yes
Listen to me and listen to me good! Whenever a woman pulls away from you, do nothing at all and begin seeing new women IMMEDIATELY! If she is your girlfriend and you notice it and it becomes worse, just tell her the next time she reaches out that it seems you two need some space and tell her to get back to you when she's ready and start seeing new women IMMEDIATELY!! Do not EVER get too emotionally attached to a woman. She can sense it and will view it as weakness and start to pull away. Always stay focused on yourself and your goals and put her DEAD last on your list and she will wonder about you and begin to seek you back out. But here's the thing. If you've shown too much weakness and broke masculine frame, than depending on how much of a bitch you were, you might be toast!! So just fall back and leave her alone and start seeing new women and start focusing on yourself!! It's a win win situation. She'll either come back or you'll find someone better!!
the truth hurts
@@Dan-ub1je it does but sometimes its better to hear that than lies or answers that are circling around
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Stay clear from them bar flies
Pure facts here
I learned from this man not to chase girls and it worked every single time.
That's why it's very important that you have a "Hobby" that you spend your time on so you don't focus solely on a girl.
True.
When she pulls away, just talk to other women. NEVER focus on just 1woman when dating or you will likely suffer.
The use of proper psychology makes this dude stand out from the rest.
I agree he's great
Fr this guy is the best in UA-cam…his voice alone makes me feel good
Agree: do not get reactive or even worse ask for explanations. Live your life, have fun.
The moment she sees that you don’t chase, she will likely be intrigued again.
She will want to know what you are up to
Or she'll just move on to the next post to scratch.
That's just how f'd up it is.
@@bashmagik8613 truee, but chasing doesn't help either
While he´s scratching the surface, you really shouldn´t care about it, either she´s not interested in you or she´s interested in someone else...
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 thanks bruh , it´s facts, females love sex just as much as men do if not more , I could deep dive into it for those interested since it´s a long ass paragraph...
it litirally is a question of who is she going to find more interesting. If it‘s not you it is likely someone else even if she was your girlfriend back then
@@acheberg2245 Right, thanks for reciting what I already said ...
This coach is a beast
The best coach on UA-cam. 💯
@@throwednoe on Earth *
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@@joealkanovski513 I already know about Darius. He's 💯
Spot on advice! embrace the space and she will come back.
Always explains everything in the simplest way possible. Man you're the real one. Keep up the good work ❤️
NInon De lenclos: A woman once said: Love/attraction never dies of starvation but often of indigestion:
Law 16: Use absence to increase respect=attraction.
You should never be reaching out first to a woman that isn’t your girlfriend for any reason. Women with true burning desire will always contact you first 100% of the time.
yup...correct!
If a woman isn't texting you, she's texting some other dude whom she finds more attractive than you. Coaches will never tell you this but it's the harsh truth. Women can't live without male attention. There's nothing you can do about it, other than accept it and move on with your life. If you attempt to pull away in the hopes of regaining her attraction, all you're doing is putting her on a pedestal. Pulling away should happen naturally due to you realizing she's not worth your time, and instead choosing to focus your attention on other things in your life.
Actually there is something you can do. Raise your SMV( sexual market value)
Did this happen to you? I mean never really happened to me. If a women wants other males attention and she's your girlfriend then might as well move on. Unless you're barely dating then that's different. What's the situation?
@@Jvega001 it did yes. She left me cause I wasn’t going anywhere in life, living a routine and when she left I was needy and desperate as fk. When she left, after 3 months I started working on myself. Got fit as fk, boosted my business from the ground up, started dressing better, acting better, more confident. I was dating girls. She came back running 1 year and a half later when she found out, especially when she knew I was seeing other girls. When she came back she told me that she went out on dates with other guys but she just couldn’t downgrade( this tells you a lot about how women think)
If your gf or ex is looking at others males, it’s simply cause your SMV is low.
@@ryuhayabusa5 I mean who wants to date someone who's desperate and doesn't really have anything going for themselves! I totally understand that once you start working on yourself you start attracting certain people in your life. It's always good to stay busy whether it's with work, doing hobbies or just doing things you enjoy!
@@ryuhayabusa5 women want someone who is confident in themselves fersure, and not someone who is going to be needing assurance. That what women want most of the time a reaction to how they feel. So complicated but it's works everytime.
men have emotions too, not all days are sunny, life breaks us at some point or the other, if during those times, your partner cannot be with you, then whats the point ?
In fact test the person, before you give your heart, see if they are really worth it, put them in tough situations, see their response and Always protect your heart.
Take care guys.
Small, crisp, precise and upto the point! Chris always hits the Bulls eye! Keep the good work and educating men with your wisdom. Love from India!
The biggest problem all of these guys have is that they are focusing on one woman. The solution is to date two to four women at a time, tell all of the women that you sometimes date more than one woman at a time, and do not take any of the women out every Saturday night, so that all of the women presume that you are currently dating more than one woman. This lets the women know that they are literally dating a man with options. So, when one woman starts to pull away, you literally will not care. You will look deep into your heart of hearts and discover that you just don't care. The downside of not caring is that it takes the edge off of relationships. If you have only one tenuous relationship it is like holding onto the edge of a cliff by your fingernails. It's very dramatic. If you have four relationships, each one is like standing on a rug with a cushion behind you. Occasionally, one woman will pull the rug out from under you, but you will fall on the cushion of one to three other women. Focus less on keeping one woman happy and more on attracting up to four women. (The ideal number is three. More than four gets very cumbersome.) The key is to tell all of the women that you sometimes date more than one woman and then do not take any woman out every Saturday night. At one point in time, I started dating a woman whom I found more interesting than any woman who I had dated in quite some time. She had not texted me for about a week. (I usually don't text women. I wait for them to text me.) I wanted to see how I really felt about the possibility of losing a woman who was one of the most interesting women I had ever dated. So, I looked deep into my heart, and I discovered that I just did not care. This was a rather startling discovery, but it is the result of truly having the options of other women. She eventually did text me, and she is one of the women I am currently dating. But, and here is the key, if she had not texted me, I would not have cared.
And after a thresome is the cherry 🍒 on top of the cake 😅
If a girl sees you as desperate and eager if you respond quickly to her BUT you know youre not eager and desperate youre just being a considerate person because you truly care for her…
LEAVE her and dont waste any more time. The fcuk…responding quickly is not a sign of desperation its a sign of respecting someone you truly care about.
Perfect Timing 👍 Similar situation with me
Same just happened to me
Lol😄 You guys need to find your purpose and stop chasing/ beta orbiting these girls!
A women should be a compliment to your life and not the focus!!!
Women expect you to chase when they pull away and when you don't, it sparks anxiety within them which drives them to do something.
I needed this 5 months back....but she is with another guy now ..!
Cheers for such a great book, I read it last week and it has been an eye opening read, I've never had problems attracting women but maintaining attraction has been a big issue for me. Keep the good work up
If she stops messaging then good riddance! Guys need to learn this. Maybe when guys stop caring what she does she'll grow up. Stop giving unearned validation. Who gives a crap if she's bored.
I gat it bro self growth is the only key
Beta men will get panicated and start to text her, call her makeing her to drop off all. Men who know how to control their emotions will make indirectly a woman to wonder about him
Um what
@@c-jayjames7316 Tehe
Exactly, just stop messaging her if she doesn’t reply. Get in with your life, this will more often than not bring the best results anyways
This is true if she has emotional investment in you. I've had several women reach out to me later.
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 can you tell how to make that emotional?
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 thanks for you time dude . I got it
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 true females really don't like men they have to lead on, they want to be leaded on especially if you want to take her on date you must know what places and best places where to eat and not her it irrates them if you are acting like a woman around them.
@@giannagiovanahavehugelongd8330 I didn't realise I was making these exact mistakes only after becoming comfortable myself and I knew she liked me, that soon changed and she broke things off with me. Looking back I think I fell into being too needy once again, I would look for reassurance of where to eat, is this place ok? Are you sure?... Things like that. I've not begged or pleaded or reached out to her so we shall see if anything can be rekindled with no contact, but I am well aware no contact is a time for me to focus on myself and move on which I am trying hard to do. It's just frustrating having a woman admit her feelings to you only for her to pull away.
@@Soarific I'm dealing with this problem too, like how can she show so much interest from the beginning and then act like you don't exist? I didn't do anything wrong so idk why she pulled...women are insecurely weird 🤦🏽♂️
Everything that he is saying also applies to twin flame relationships as well.
Well said Chris!
Hi, Chris.. Thanks for the great advices ...
Men are not slaves to run around all the time, keep your dignity intact, be good be yourself don't over do things. if she is bored let her lose.
because there is no man in this world who can keep your GF entertained full time. soon she would realize that she had stepped on a wrong ladder.
Criteria for Man for Woman : Tall, handsome, lean, and made enough money. if anything is missed out in this criteria they get easily bored. they would say " oh we don't need all perfect "
but !!! if she finds one man with the one criteria she is looking for she would shift...as she is always on the look out even she had accepted you of what you are.
Just like men looking always for perfect body.
This is gold ✨
Just what I needed to hear! Thanks
That’s why it’s risky to put children into these women! Maybe if you really need to a two year period of dating without her telling you it’s all over or needing breaks or annoying you to the point where you have to walk away or spend your life in prison regretting your fuse being blown out of the sheer disrespect!
Ultimately it's always a woman's choice in the end. However sometimes it is over when she stops interacting
I have been watching alot of your videos recently great stuff! Thanks. My question is relationships are soley based on attraction tho? Besides attraction what other factors come into play?
I know you're asking him and not me, but i'm a MA Counseling Psychology student, and i'd like to add in that compatibility and rest are key too.
yes but how does the logistics of meeting again work, when you keep distance in order to create attraction by making yourself rare? Basically wait for her, if she is not reaching out then write a sad song?
Not all the time works.
I thought i left a good print on a woman that lives far (a bit long distance relationship/friendship)..We used to talk for hours and she began to pull away, I too and she never got back and the last time of our conversation she said she was in a Relationship. So, i guess she's probably still in that relationship of hers.
Thanks alot.. I really needed this
Thank you ❤️
Women are like the moon. Phases, phases & phases
I couldn’t agree more homie!
Underrated Comment homie
Spot on!!
Told her that I feel lile I mean nothing to her, and that I'm not going to text or call her any longer.
Use your actions not weak words.
This is lit 🔥🔥🔥
Allow her to have a normal life. Text once wait for her to respond. Even if that response comes days later
First one to see your video. 😍
Hello coach! Again an awesome point you've made..
I humbly wanted to ask you about my situation here. I know this girl for an year now, never been in commited relationship as I never initiated the love you story but she did but not in a direct way more like an imaginary situation that if we end up together it will be like someone she knows in her family I didn't reacted much but told her to set me free and if its meant to be we will be together or else it wasnt meant to so no remorse. So coach My point is I have feelings for this lady but she didn't wished me on my birthday and its not the first time. And I believe that if I really mattered to her she wouldn't have simply forget it yet again.. How should I come about this? What should be my optimal approach to this situation. Any help/guidance is appreciated. Thank you very much!!
I just think that she is testing you.
Women have stuff to do. They don't stop in the middle of the day to say hello. They want us there at the end of the day or when they have time to devote to us. The first guy should let it go. They just met maybe she changed her mind about him.
Always focus on yourself, goals and passions tribe!! get better each day.. Ibehavior
I say 99% of the time, she's found another guy.....
Move on bro. Focus on your purpose and life goals. She has another boyfriend.
Need advise there is a guy friend who has caused insecurities in my relationship so many times so when we break up he always texts her and he knows we are broke up is he a trying to win her over and home wreck are relationship we broke up 2 times and the 2 times he knew we where on bad terms as he was involved and new are situation what is he doing and is he disrespecting me i think he should back off but he is definitely doing it out of badness or could it be her is interested please give me advise on this he definitely knows I'm not comfortable with it so why does he do it all of a sudden
well said
she blocked me
my mind keep thinking blocking , come from attraction
what is your opinion
I too have same problm.when i msg she responds always but never initiates text first. I feel shame to msg always
Me and My Gf in LDR
My GF doesn't Text much N Call
When She with her parents i asked multiple times
She replied i have fear of Parents
Fact is that she cames online But she doesn't see or Reply my messages
Same dude
@@adityamaurya8457 Its all in their hands bro
We value Our Relationships more
I wish I had this advice and knowledge in the 80's when I needed it, but that said I use your advice in my marriage and when the wife gets shirty or moody I apply your principles and she soon comes around. Mate you should be knighted....many thanks 👍😉
So i met this girl we been seeing each other for a month and a half. Everything was great, it was all lovey dovey until her ex(who she broke up with 5 months ago) contacted her... now she said she wants to put us on hold but not 2 days later we end up making out n shit. One week shes hot, the other shes cold. It sucks, i feel like we had a real connection... ill be honest when she started talking to her ex it did make me insecure and i got a little too needy and pushy. I was messaging daily and i know thats not what im supposed to do now... Im going to try going no contact and focusing on myself since shes been pulling away recently. Hopefully things turn out for the better.
It will, brother. Just go no contact and keep improving(Physique and all)
It’s very simple - if she comes back asking you to hang out, make it clear you aren’t interested in sharing her with other men and if she wants to spend time with you, the ex needs to be out of the picture for good.
Right now she is getting what all women want - attention - from both you and this other guy.
If she chooses you, great. If she chooses the other guy, even better - you don’t have to keep spending time with a chick who isn’t that into you.
Why be bothered with her after she went back to her ex? 🤔 If she's willing to do that, she doesn't care about you. Be direct, know what you want, and if she comes back to you, tell her that you're no longer interested and that you deserve better. If someone truly cares about you, they'll show it without you having to mention it. 👍
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I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a year and I feel like the messaging and phone calls have definitely tapered off. Sometimes it feels like she only messages me after she’s spent time with her girlfriends. She also seems to make plans with her girlfriends first before talking to me. It definitely makes me feel like an option. I don’t let her know this bothers me and I try to love her as if she’s free. Maybe I’m just being needy.
How's it going now? I am going through the same problems.
@@zombiedeutsch Just like the guy in the video says pull away bit by bit, don't go full no contact but take away attention you give her and stop treating her
@@Yum_Yum_Delicious_Cum I accidentally went full no contact with my girlfriend me and her haven’t talked In 4 day..did I take this too far😬😬
Mirror her behaviour. She pulls back you pull back.
Mirror but also do less. Be natural with it… focus on a passion. Read. Go to the gym. Go out with friends. Take a course. Stop focussing on the woman… no one likes being someone’s everything.
My ex got deployed and our relationship went from short distance to long distance, while on deployment she pulled away and broke up with me, I gave her the breakup without any begging or pleading, a month later she reached out saying that she was coming back to town in a few days, the next day she said that her flight was canceled , I was calmed to her reaching out and brought up the idea to go on a date upon coming back, She agreed. Long story short she never came back and affter a week of little to no communication (text) she pulled away again, I reamined indifferent and didnt reached out. What does this mean?
She in army?
Hi Coach , i have been in a LDR with my Chinese gf, we were separated because of the COVID-19 restrictions for one year and half, and even since i have been trying to maintain the attraction so did she, but lately i did some mistakes that turned her off, by telling her some problems about me going back and this only makes her depressed, so she told me directly that I'm the man and I'm the one who must gives the support more, i agree on that and i know i screwed up
But for the past week she has been cold and she says she's been busy and the only message she sends is" good night bb", I didn't panic and i mirrored her behavior but i kinda getting enough of this and wanna leave here messages unread till she figures out what she's been doing and bring it up on the table.
And for our relationship, I'll be able to back to her cause i just received the vaccine and she was happy when i told her.
So what's your suggestion coach in this situation?
Thanks a lot
Since you got your vaccine, get ready for its side effects as well... Stay away from that girl forever now.
@@nikhilabraham5000 why would i stay away from her, is it because of the vaccine side effects? There's no proof yet about the side effects and I'm not taking it to back to her but I'm doing it for myself
Thanks for your contribution anyway ;)
@Thanos well you are right about not being in a relationship in 2021 hhh but i met her in 2019 and i have been doing everything right and she was good to me, we went through a lot together and. She waited for me for one year and half, if she needs space I'll give it to her but if she wants a break up I'll move on
@@samikami9039 Yes, you wait for your proof till it effects you. Stop watching mainstream media news which will never show you the side effects reports and start watching right social media platforms. 24th July witnessed protest against mandatory vaccination and lockdowns in 45 countries across 128 city's worldwide. I am sure your mainstream media might have never showed you this.
@@nikhilabraham5000 you may be right bro about it, but the restrictions push us to take it, by not taking there vaccine our lives will het harder, i was unemployed for one year and half and it All depends on the vaccine, i also don't believe in this virus and I don't take precautions but those people control the world, we can't change it
U are the best man
They only met once and he’s emailing coach about this girl? Lol cmon man
Thats a man with no options
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Awesome video
Best video
Why my girlfriend whenever i texted her she shows no interest but she used to call me my every day but the talk also were so fucking boring
What does "give her space mean"?
No contact?
@@wfgqgqqqgq1486 oh, that. So my girlfriend of two months has switched up. Recently, she's being talking about 'she's overworked', 'she doesn't care about anything anymore'. Our convos are drier, she doesn't reach out first. Told her I was sick Recently, and after the first reach out, nothing more from her end. Like she literally stopped caring. But often, I see her post on her status, even wish people birthdays and all.
Sent her a message about it and she read but didn't reply. Today's her birthday, sent her wishes on other platforms asides the one she didn't reply and she responded.
I think I'll just give her space and stop reaching out in total. And I lock up pretty fast, once I do, it's hard to get me to begin to care again.
@@hakdown07 you gotta prioritise your life first - we live in a selfish world where we all think about ourselves. Do well for yourself and ask yourself whether you're happy with where you are now with life and focus on that, if shes the right girl for you - believe me mate she will come to you and the attraction will be natural
Glad I broke up with her....
Who cares if she slows down her messages move on stop wasting time on these women obviously she's not interested bye bye
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When they start making arguments and holding grudges believe me she won't do that fir a guy she likes🤷♂️ she'll make 9t easy for that guy, they tell you you need to adjust and fit to their rules and regulations, funny the new guy doesn't have to prove anything? Apart from texting lmfao why cant us guys see this! That's why you women get used.
If she does find someone else ,that's even better. The so called woman of the new normal. Just remember... she did you a massive favor!!!
Thank you for the Atomic Attraction i leveled up from a Simp to a Masuline Men with yours and Andrew tates help.
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I always do the opposite
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I don't really like this kind of doing videos now. I prefer the former frame.
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Do the unnatural!
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