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Question....will my avoidant ex gf still miss and think about me if she's in a rebound relationship for the past six months? I've been in total no contact, radio silence for the past 5 months. We had a very good relationship until she pulled the plug without warning. Thank you! I really love your video as it inspires me to stay in no contact!!!
@@daisyhernandez879 then do nothing and live your life. If you were good to them; they will think of you and they will come back at some point in your life. In the meantime live your life and put yourself first. Fall off the map and reinvent yourself; not for them but for you. Make yourself a priority and rebuild yourself. They will become curious of you; I know this because I’ve been there with all my ex’s. By the time they come back you probably don’t want them anymore. Get your power back by getting yourself back.
@@daisyhernandez879 More than likely it's a rebound relationship which rarely work so they usually come back once that new rebound relationship doesn't work out. People, especially women like familiarity.
@@NorrisCFuhReal thank you. Been in a relationship for13 years. Was dumped before Christmas. She reached out me on Valentine’s Day Just to tell me she was seeing somebody else 3 days later. Please any advice. And oh yes I was very good to her
Unfortunately, the nice guys who get dumped for the bad boys, eventually learn to never get fully emotionally invested. As a result, on the bright side, breakups become easier the more you have them
Dont put all your points in the 'nice basket'. One of the major downsides to only being nice is that it becomes a safe zone with no tension, aka boring. You can be nice and still make her heart skip a beat
@@erhanmustafov1513 just believe that youre already that, assume youre that "man" then your assumptions will become true. Actually youre already that 'man' your assumptions are just waiting. Btw its called LOA
In that case, no contact is effective because it prevents you from spending time attempting to reconcile with them/figure out what they’re up to/try to be their friend and it puts you in a position of control.
The best thing you can do for a woman that leaves you for another man is let them completely drown in their decision - dont chase or contact them, and at the first sign of trouble they'll come chasing back from it.
That’s not true bigs Treat a woman good Not the nice guy I mean don’t take none of her emotional controlling manipulative horse $&@& and calmly put her in her place, she will be thinking about you. But if you treated her like $&@&, then yea she won’t be thinking of you
Doing “No contact” with an intent to “To get her back” then you might as well cry to mommy and ask for a hug cause you definitely gonna play yourself. The whole intention of “No contact” is that you finally decided you’ve had enough, you walked away from a situation because you’re done. And if you’re a man with a back bone then you understand that the consequence of your action is most likely to never get to talk to her again. If she contacts you again that’s cool. If not that’s cool. Invest your time and effort in someone who will invest in you back.👌
I’m in the in between stage just now. I walked away because my head knew it was the right thing to do but my heart wanted to keep it going. So even though I’ve done the right thing by walking away because it’s for my own self respect. Another bit of me hopes they will come back too
@@WYJAFAK2 You did the right thing by walking away. The truth is it was never about what you’re willing to invest it’s about the return. If you invest your savings and your account is going negative because of that investment , I can almost guarantee your pulling out of that investment. If you treat your money that way, you should treat your heart the same.
Yeah, that definitely should be the way to go. But, A girl broke up with me after 2 years, and for about 2-3 months I tried to reestablish things. Then, that’s it, I’m done. At the time I didn’t have a job, and usually 2-3 times a week for a few months ( early cellphone days, also can’t trace calls) I’d answer the phone, 3 or 4 seconds and probably her, would hang up. Go figure.
This works 100% just as you said. In this video it's actually work I did it before. I had to get away and take time off and just be focus on your self is a great 👍thing
I'm doing no contact because it's the best solution to my heartache, this way I wouldn't care if he texted or not. It wouldn't ruin my day, I can move on with my life peacefully. I'm doing it for me for myself only
I know exactly how you feel. She just used me for attention + emotional support and she had bf's the entire time. I realised all I was doing was filling in the gaps her "friends only" weren't. So I just stopped replying and she reached out allot and even said "hey just let me know your ok and ill leave you alone" . I didn't reply to anything. She knows what she did. I truly hope Karma teaches her a lesson one day 🙏
Funny how the shoes on the other foot now, he' s feeling and experiencing what I felt and i' m in a very good place, continuing to focus on myself , happy and loving life.
To put it simply No Contact becomes a filtering mechanism but when & if they do respond back or reach out don’t jump on it immediately because then it implies you were waiting on them. I hate to say it but it’s a necessary game you have to play in this day & age of primarily texting vs face to face communication
Just past 2months in NC. Miss him but I am busy with my life goals and spending time I used to have with him in loving and bettering myself. I got to point when I want time for me and not for relationship with him or anyone else. Not sure I can ever trust him
A "real Man" goes NC for two primary reasons: 1. Self-respect. Don't be a soi boi. 2. Don't give her the satisfaction of "closure" (or knowing she's impacted you). If you've gone NC with her, then she's done something that doesn't deserve having her nEEEEEEEEEds met. She no longer deserves ANY of your resources (time, attention, etc.). The opposite of love isn't hate- it's indifference. Womyn HATE indifference from someone they used to have a relationship with.
I am going no contact with someone that walked away from via text. She thinks that she do it the easy way. Eventhough we agreed that we would always talk it out in person before ending it. She never let me break up with her in a text but now the tables have turned she's doing it to me. I'm going no contact with her go remove her drama from my life. I have no doubt that she will be back like a bouncy ball. Because of no contact.
well did she come back? NOPE. and if she did, you just ended up wasting another year before break up again. NO CONTACT IS BULL SHIT!!! you only dont contact a person if you have feelings for her or him but it can't work. just to save both of your time and life
Man i confessed my love to my ex co worker last summer from fb(she was flirty,touch all the time etc),and rejected(she is married).On October 2020 i deleted fb and social media and guess who found my viber(phone number)and sent me msg 1 month ago(after one year!!!)Haha its so funny but guess,im not interested anymore and ofc dont wanna spend time to play games!!!It will take time mate,stay strong!!!
@@erhanmustafov1513 haha so true,why she came back if dont want to be with us??She wants to be liked,wants validation and ofc someone on earth except her man like her!!Glad it happened on me and now im red pilled and so PERFECT alone!!!!Hope u also ok!!!
Of course "no contacts" always works, simply because for me personally, i always assumed that all people who went no contacts or ghosted me don't need me or "we are done" and i don't care even if they died. And i always no contacts with all of my exes, because ex is just an ex. I don't need any of them to be around me anymore. It is what it is and we always moving forward.
Yeah unless you figure it out that they are a pure psychopath and enjoy playing games more than a real relationship. Then you enjoy their silent treatment and hope they don't contact you again.
@@spikethewolf4730 any update lol because I can tell you gaming can only go so far they always come back after they’re put through those stages. & not only that I think the other person was talking about mind games not video games
I've gone NC since December 2021. This is not to punish him or make him miss me - it is because it's over - I don't want to play the game anymore, I've had enough and am sick of him. I found out about his double and then triple life. My gut was screaming at me for years - and I ignored it to my detriment. He tried to reach out to me 2 weeks ago with a most pathetic meaningless message,(exactly as you say in the video). I did not respond. I know he will try again. He is in a "relationship" with someone else and has been for years and years. He needs to focus his attention and energy there. I'm done with this. He has killed any positive feeling I ever had for him and I don't want to ever go back there.
Your advice is great. I'm in a pseudo situation like this now. I let a friend know I really liked her an oh mother of pullbacks... So watching your vids I gave her space, time, and distracted myself with a bunch of dance classes. The perspective was needed, probably for both. I'm being less helpful. I'm not reaching out with dinner suggestions... suddenly I'm getting multiple dinner invites from her. Instead of being the supportive one, I'm flirting. I'm not playing games. When she sends an text that has a reason for a quicker reply, I do reply. However, I take a minimum of 15 minutes to think about a really concise reply, with always a flirt. It does mean days between contact. The healing process requires distraction. This is a relationship I hope to kickoff (err... cannot say restart...).
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My husband broke up with me a month after we started dating. I didn’t really delve into it and didn’t force the point of sticking thru it. I was like alright I’ll give you space and after about 3 weeks of not giving a fuck and not reaching out he came back. Guess he had buyers remorse with whoever or whatever he wanted to give his undivided attention. He is handsome so he is probably use to being chased but I just showed him that not all women is going to be emotionally stuck/dependent on a man and now we’ve been married going on 2 years. I also did it without expecting him to come back so maybe that’s why it was so easy for me to just move forward.
Thank you for explaining the "no contact rule." Another relationship guide (Melanie) explained why it does not work, however, she never explained what it was!
@@paulcolin9071 not sure to what end but my ex is currently ignoring me Not like I care but I think it is because of something I did that I should not have done She will not explain so I do not know nor care
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My boyfriend loved me a lot but he had to break up because of his parents and he went for military training for 5 years. It’s been 1 month I haven’t heard from him from any source, is there any hope left for me that he will come back?
what if they went back to their ex? after 2 month of dating he told me be is talking again with his ex and that he doesnt want anything with me anymore . ..im totally devastated as i had a crush even 2 years ago on him
You wouldn’t invest your money in a company that’s dead for a simple fact that you’ll just end up losing that money. Instead you invest in something that will potentially make your money grow. Now if you’re not willing to lose your money like that. Why would you do that with your time? Money you can get back, but time you cannot. Start investing in someone who is willing to invest in you back.
@Joyanima it didn't work for me. Tried it for two months. My ex fiance broke up April 1. I just stay in contact. I don't think he moved on entirely either. We both stay alone
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@@ashleynunez462 it's hard to understand why we meet someone so dear to our hearts to have it broken later. But it should strengthen our appreciation when we do discover that special new love and how we can cherish every moment by their side. Thank you I'm sure that you will discover something so special in the most unconventional way. So much joy is heading your way. For i too wait for that day when i cross paths with another
@Kat Holland kat it's so hard to move on. So i won't bandage your feelings. But i will gladly give you hope that you will find love once again. Embrace what beauty you have within and you'll will be bless to find something beautiful looking for you as well. Ligth a new candle thats your heart so the ligth can be seen in the darkest of nights.
@@ayeshazulfikar6698 don't we all seek attention, as we are social creatures and the one that gives that attention could very well be in a better place than the one that keeps a distance. If your not seen then you could be easy forgotten.
I reached back with my first ex-wife after 30 year… I was waiting for the apology for her cheating and having a baby with another man…I waited too long she died four months ago…
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I cane across a girl over dating app, we were going good but all of sudden she was like I cannot continue like this... I was ok we had good off but she haven't showed up yet.... Will she show up again???
This is a great option when you're dating someone who's not on the same page romantically as you are I'm the type of person who always stay focused on self I live the fitness lifestyle so women are around me all the time within that atmosphere so finding another woman is not a problem but I don't let women complicate my life I like the fact that I hold the cards as a man because women seldom approach you as a man they wait and see if you will approach them so we as men hold the power to the initial interaction
Does this work if he broke up with me last year same time and cheated on me and he came back after two months I forgave him and he done it again now so will it work again ???? This time if it been a year apart and what if he says I lied and I etc I didn’t
The truth is that this is an emotionally immature tactic. For any reason. If you have a problem in a relationship, you bring it up and address it. If it can't be resolved, and it's a "relationship breaker", then you go your seperate ways in agreement. You don't just ghost and go no contact on someone in a long term relationship with someone that Loves you. That's some cowardly narcissistic behavior that NOBODY deserves.
Yeah! but you need to give them and yourself time to think and heal. That can also be seen as no contact too. Giving time/space and no contact are very similar it’s just when you give then time... you maybe check in on them once every week or two weeks. If you just keep texting them they’re gonna feel pressured and choked by your presence. Hence the quote “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. Of course if you want them back and you ghost them to make them feel desperate, that is a very immature move! BUT! It really depends on the circumstances because to be honest... some people don’t deserve a response or any answers if they weren’t understanding or rude in anyway.
No contact is not ghosting it’s after a relationship ends when someone says they don’t want to be with you and you go your separate ways. You don’t contact them after a breakup. Nothing emotional immature about respecting someone’s decision.
No, you should never make her feel she has you locked down 100%. Females don't want a caring person, they look for masculinity. Fear of losing someone, is a big motivation to put in the work
@@ricardo8268 I'm 42 years old young buck. I don't play games like that. My last 2 relationships were a 15 year marriage and a 7 year engagement...to a narcissistic borderline with psychopathic traits as well.
@@face2799 agreed. It's not having some kind of psychotic break and while your ride or die is sleeping in the hospital parking lot because he doesn't know if you've completely lost your mind or you've had an aneurysm or a stroke, then suddenly signing yourself out AMA and disappearing crazy AF out in the world somewhere. That's a narcissistic discard when the last conversation you had was, "I live you sweetie, and see you when you get back in a little while after you and your sister visit your mother's grave site".
Now I understand those random texts. Anyways, I have moved on to someone much better. Hope she does too. Thanks for the video. I have learned so much from this breakup. Feel grateful for it actually.
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Question....will my avoidant ex gf still miss and think about me if she's in a rebound relationship for the past six months? I've been in total no contact, radio silence for the past 5 months. We had a very good relationship until she pulled the plug without warning. Thank you! I really love your video as it inspires me to stay in no contact!!!
It works, all my ex’s have come back at some point no matter how stubborn or how bad the break up was.
What about if they are already in a new relationship?
@@daisyhernandez879 then do nothing and live your life. If you were good to them; they will think of you and they will come back at some point in your life. In the meantime live your life and put yourself first. Fall off the map and reinvent yourself; not for them but for you. Make yourself a priority and rebuild yourself. They will become curious of you; I know this because I’ve been there with all my ex’s. By the time they come back you probably don’t want them anymore. Get your power back by getting yourself back.
@@daisyhernandez879 More than likely it's a rebound relationship which rarely work so they usually come back once that new rebound relationship doesn't work out. People, especially women like familiarity.
Yes but guess what after breakup there will never be an honest comeback, they want only prove that you are still atracted to them
@@NorrisCFuhReal thank you. Been in a relationship for13 years. Was dumped before Christmas. She reached out me on Valentine’s Day Just to tell me she was seeing somebody else 3 days later. Please any advice. And oh yes I was very good to her
Unfortunately, the nice guys who get dumped for the bad boys, eventually learn to never get fully emotionally invested. As a result, on the bright side, breakups become easier the more you have them
Dont put all your points in the 'nice basket'.
One of the major downsides to only being nice is that it becomes a safe zone with no tension, aka boring. You can be nice and still make her heart skip a beat
So no contact doesn’t work for nice guys?
I was dumped for being to bad! Don’t try to work woman out you won’t! 🤦🏻
@@astrix1014 EXACTLY
Hey, you are right!
If they really care about you and you were a good person to them, this will work. If it doesn’t, oh well move on. Life goes on
Checking their social media's 21 times a day? Those are rookie numbers
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How to checking my last seen person bro
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There's an unspoken assumption here. That the other person actually likes you.
Lol
@David Michaels how to become like you any videos ?
@@erhanmustafov1513 just believe that youre already that, assume youre that "man" then your assumptions will become true. Actually youre already that 'man' your assumptions are just waiting. Btw its called LOA
@David Cave even if they felt and feel nothing they would get curious
Ha ha ha ha 🙂😉🙂😉🙂😉🙂....that's so funny.
Or she finds another man long before she even dumps you and she don’t care about no contact or you at all
In that case, no contact is effective because it prevents you from spending time attempting to reconcile with them/figure out what they’re up to/try to be their friend and it puts you in a position of control.
@@jklacker1 yesss
Yes definitely
The best thing you can do for a woman that leaves you for another man is let them completely drown in their decision - dont chase or contact them, and at the first sign of trouble they'll come chasing back from it.
@Nkiru Chinkere pp
If she's met someone new she won't even be thinking of you
VERY TRUE. This is like break-ups based on NOONE ELSE on the planet.
That’s not always true.
@@OffGridInvestor at least during the honeymoon period
@@josh_through_everyday I agree Josh…
My ex is with someone new but still reached out….
That’s not true bigs
Treat a woman good
Not the nice guy
I mean don’t take none of her emotional controlling manipulative horse $&@& and calmly put her in her place, she will be thinking about you. But if you treated her like $&@&, then yea she won’t be thinking of you
Doing “No contact” with an intent to “To get her back” then you might as well cry to mommy and ask for a hug cause you definitely gonna play yourself.
The whole intention of “No contact” is that you finally decided you’ve had enough, you walked away from a situation because you’re done. And if you’re a man with a back bone then you understand that the consequence of your action is most likely to never get to talk to her again.
If she contacts you again that’s cool. If not that’s cool. Invest your time and effort in someone who will invest in you back.👌
The most honest and wise advice
I’m in the in between stage just now. I walked away because my head knew it was the right thing to do but my heart wanted to keep it going. So even though I’ve done the right thing by walking away because it’s for my own self respect. Another bit of me hopes they will come back too
@@WYJAFAK2
You did the right thing by walking away. The truth is it was never about what you’re willing to invest it’s about the return.
If you invest your savings and your account is going negative because of that investment , I can almost guarantee your pulling out of that investment.
If you treat your money that way, you should treat your heart the same.
If they are your x you should not contact them for the fact that they are your x. You should move on and not care how they are doing
Yeah, that definitely should be the way to go. But, A girl broke up with me after 2 years, and for about 2-3 months I tried to reestablish things. Then, that’s it, I’m done. At the time I didn’t have a job, and usually 2-3 times a week for a few months ( early cellphone days, also can’t trace calls) I’d answer the phone, 3 or 4 seconds and probably her, would hang up. Go figure.
She texted me angry several times. 😅 6 days in. I stayed strong.
She never comes back.
Unless the other partner loved you but if they were not into you, they can never come back no matter what
I didn't want a boomerang and got sick of the manipulation. Permanently, thanks.
This works 100% just as you said. In this video it's actually work I did it before. I had to get away and take time off and just be focus on your self is a great 👍thing
I'm doing no contact because it's the best solution to my heartache, this way I wouldn't care if he texted or not.
It wouldn't ruin my day, I can move on with my life peacefully. I'm doing it for me for myself only
I know exactly how you feel. She just used me for attention + emotional support and she had bf's the entire time. I realised all I was doing was filling in the gaps her "friends only" weren't. So I just stopped replying and she reached out allot and even said "hey just let me know your ok and ill leave you alone" . I didn't reply to anything. She knows what she did. I truly hope Karma teaches her a lesson one day 🙏
@@KH-xz4ph I hope so stay strong💛
Likewise, I hope you’re doing well and wishing you the best 💯
Funny how the shoes on the other foot now, he' s feeling and experiencing what I felt and i' m in a very good place, continuing to focus on myself , happy and loving life.
To put it simply No Contact becomes a filtering mechanism but when & if they do respond back or reach out don’t jump on it immediately because then it implies you were waiting on them. I hate to say it but it’s a necessary game you have to play in this day & age of primarily texting vs face to face communication
Be careful with narcissistic behavior and not contact. Learn to recognize both
Ha! Got told space was needed so space was given now she won’t talk to me because I gave her space.
Space, the final frontier
Just past 2months in NC. Miss him but I am busy with my life goals and spending time I used to have with him in loving and bettering myself. I got to point when I want time for me and not for relationship with him or anyone else. Not sure I can ever trust him
I did to a girl who dumped me after just 3 months of dating and she still came back.
What she dump you for? How long you stayed in no contact
This works only if d partner is madly in love wit you.. Otherwise most of d time they move on...
A "real Man" goes NC for two primary reasons:
1. Self-respect. Don't be a soi boi.
2. Don't give her the satisfaction of "closure" (or knowing she's impacted you). If you've gone NC with her, then she's done something that doesn't deserve having her nEEEEEEEEEds met. She no longer deserves ANY of your resources (time, attention, etc.).
The opposite of love isn't hate- it's indifference. Womyn HATE indifference from someone they used to have a relationship with.
You've never heard the saying "Out of sight, out of mind"?
And "absence makes the heart grow fonder"...
NC 4 days and this video has just saved me from reaching out. Thank you 😇
Day 3. It's so hard
@@nativechique7589 it gets easier, I am blessed after 2 weeks you feel so empowered x
Any update?
I am 7 days in and it is tough. The last few days have me wanting to reach out but I know I can’t.
@@kimberleyg1334 it took me 2 months to get over it but it was very toxic for me and him .
This is advice for the desperate. No contact works only for you, if you won’t to remove the ex from your life once and for all.
I am going no contact with someone that walked away from via text. She thinks that she do it the easy way. Eventhough we agreed that we would always talk it out in person before ending it. She never let me break up with her in a text but now the tables have turned she's doing it to me. I'm going no contact with her go remove her drama from my life. I have no doubt that she will be back like a bouncy ball. Because of no contact.
well did she come back? NOPE. and if she did, you just ended up wasting another year before break up again. NO CONTACT IS BULL SHIT!!! you only dont contact a person if you have feelings for her or him but it can't work. just to save both of your time and life
No contact is brutal 😔 Day 6. I'm already going crazy.
YOU can do it, I did :), day by day! stay strong
Man i confessed my love to my ex co worker last summer from fb(she was flirty,touch all the time etc),and rejected(she is married).On October 2020 i deleted fb and social media and guess who found my viber(phone number)and sent me msg 1 month ago(after one year!!!)Haha its so funny but guess,im not interested anymore and ofc dont wanna spend time to play games!!!It will take time mate,stay strong!!!
@@alexakosspartiaths9461 you are probably like me who comunicate whit covered narcisist .... Atention seeckers....
@@erhanmustafov1513 haha so true,why she came back if dont want to be with us??She wants to be liked,wants validation and ofc someone on earth except her man like her!!Glad it happened on me and now im red pilled and so PERFECT alone!!!!Hope u also ok!!!
I know what you mean ....after day 5 im like ughhhhh i want to contact lol
I did this for a year and a half and it finally started working
Glad to hear you're having some luck with it
@@JoyanimaThank you!! Yes, your nice guy video sure helped! Along with Dan Bacon, but your videos are better. Hopefully you start selling books.
I love your enthusiasm and the way you explain !
One of the best videos I’ve ever watched great job,
Of course "no contacts" always works, simply because for me personally, i always assumed that all people who went no contacts or ghosted me don't need me or "we are done" and i don't care even if they died. And i always no contacts with all of my exes, because ex is just an ex. I don't need any of them to be around me anymore. It is what it is and we always moving forward.
Sure you do!
You sound like a dismissive avoidant or a narcissist. No offence but you may need some therapy,
Youu need a psychological help lady..
I feel ya
She's hurt lol
Its all good in theory... but when you have a child together it makes it even harder
Keep contact to a minimum and about the child only.
7 methods to embrace dysfunctional IDK, enhance misery and pretend it's all good
Now she unfollowed me after no contact for 3 month, I don’t know if it is working but I guess she was feeling a little anxious.
No contact? After she’s explored other options and come back after being on her back for a month?
No thanks..she can get lost
Yeah unless you figure it out that they are a pure psychopath and enjoy playing games more than a real relationship. Then you enjoy their silent treatment and hope they don't contact you again.
That was like mine he cared about himself and his gameing life then me he ghosted me he left me on Christmas
@@spikethewolf4730 any update lol because I can tell you gaming can only go so far they always come back after they’re put through those stages. & not only that I think the other person was talking about mind games not video games
i just want him to want me, the way i want him.
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When that happens, you’ll lose interest
When i broke up with my ex's i delete there number so i know i can't call them that goes with friends 2
I've gone NC since December 2021. This is not to punish him or make him miss me - it is because it's over - I don't want to play the game anymore, I've had enough and am sick of him. I found out about his double and then triple life. My gut was screaming at me for years - and I ignored it to my detriment. He tried to reach out to me 2 weeks ago with a most pathetic meaningless message,(exactly as you say in the video). I did not respond. I know he will try again. He is in a "relationship" with someone else and has been for years and years. He needs to focus his attention and energy there. I'm done with this. He has killed any positive feeling I ever had for him and I don't want to ever go back there.
Your advice is great. I'm in a pseudo situation like this now. I let a friend know I really liked her an oh mother of pullbacks... So watching your vids I gave her space, time, and distracted myself with a bunch of dance classes. The perspective was needed, probably for both.
I'm being less helpful. I'm not reaching out with dinner suggestions... suddenly I'm getting multiple dinner invites from her. Instead of being the supportive one, I'm flirting. I'm not playing games. When she sends an text that has a reason for a quicker reply, I do reply. However, I take a minimum of 15 minutes to think about a really concise reply, with always a flirt.
It does mean days between contact. The healing process requires distraction.
This is a relationship I hope to kickoff (err... cannot say restart...).
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I just want my ex to stop stalking my online presence. Shudder.
Lock your profile down. IG can be made private. Etc.
Unfollow, unfriend, disconnect.
My husband broke up with me a month after we started dating. I didn’t really delve into it and didn’t force the point of sticking thru it. I was like alright I’ll give you space and after about 3 weeks of not giving a fuck and not reaching out he came back. Guess he had buyers remorse with whoever or whatever he wanted to give his undivided attention. He is handsome so he is probably use to being chased but I just showed him that not all women is going to be emotionally stuck/dependent on a man and now we’ve been married going on 2 years. I also did it without expecting him to come back so maybe that’s why it was so easy for me to just move forward.
I definitely enjoyed this video. I was hoping I could ask a specific question and see what your opinion is
I tired it for 3 years it didn't work
Actually I have turned off all love for the person. It’s just not worth it anymore. Besides they are unable to communicate with me.
Out of sight out of mind. Works for me. Don't waste time on mind games. Life's too short for that.
What if everyone goes no contact 🤷♂️
Thank you for explaining the "no contact rule." Another relationship guide (Melanie) explained why it does not work, however, she never explained what it was!
Melanie should keep quiet ...the rule works like a charm
@Daniel lol it usually does
@@paulcolin9071 not sure to what end but my ex is currently ignoring me
Not like I care but I think it is because of something I did that I should not have done
She will not explain so I do not know nor care
@@damanybrown5036 you did nothing. she is just hormonal and insecure LOL and wants Drama
They're an ex for a reason. Don't ever try to redo the relationship. There are so many people in the world. Don't cry over one lost connection.
If someone goes back to her ex again leaving the present...then what should a person who was his present once...do?
I don't think it's good to get back to a ex 😕 , manly the trust is not their anymore so just leave them be .
It depends of the relationship, all are different, if you don't want to get your ex back its understandable but the majority here wants they ex back.
Yes ,once trust is broken what's the point?😢
Yes no contact work. But if it goes long it slowly becomes a habit and it doesn't work all the time.
She text me back after a week. And it turns out she only broken her phone lol 😂 there’s me worried looking at videos 😢
That hussy never so much as asked me about my cat.
Lol
She text to clear some things up. Then messed me about about meeting up. So went no contact. Should I have told her I was doing it?
Even if they are dating, they will still reach out to you after no contact
I feel as though this is like taking out the trash and then hoping it will regret it's trashy behavior and want back in for another chance...
Mine moved in with another dude during no contact
I just want to scream to him all the things he did wrong ! I dont want him back !! He just must suffer the truth!!!!!
what happens if your not in a position to move out, so your both stuck at home w kids?
Fellas just focus on yourself!
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The silent treatment is torture
My boyfriend loved me a lot but he had to break up because of his parents and he went for military training for 5 years. It’s been 1 month I haven’t heard from him from any source, is there any hope left for me that he will come back?
This is sad.. things shouldn’t be like that
what if they went back to their ex? after 2 month of dating he told me be is talking again with his ex and that he doesnt want anything with me anymore
. ..im totally devastated as i had a crush even 2 years ago on him
You wouldn’t invest your money in a company that’s dead for a simple fact that you’ll just end up losing that money. Instead you invest in something that will potentially make your money grow.
Now if you’re not willing to lose your money like that. Why would you do that with your time? Money you can get back, but time you cannot. Start investing in someone who is willing to invest in you back.
How’s it going for you now…?? X
How to Do it with kids?
@Joyanima it didn't work for me. Tried it for two months. My ex fiance broke up April 1. I just stay in contact. I don't think he moved on entirely either. We both stay alone
Best advice for you, if someone was meant to truly be in your life nothing will stop it from happening, just carry on doing you
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Super. but no contact for a long time, won't they just drift off to another's arm's?
Yes, most of the time they have already moved on while being in the relationship with you... like it happened to me
@@ashleynunez462 it's hard to understand why we meet someone so dear to our hearts to have it broken later. But it should strengthen our appreciation when we do discover that special new love and how we can cherish every moment by their side.
Thank you I'm sure that you will discover something so special in the most unconventional way. So much joy is heading your way. For i too wait for that day when i cross paths with another
@Kat Holland kat it's so hard to move on. So i won't bandage your feelings. But i will gladly give you hope that you will find love once again.
Embrace what beauty you have within and you'll will be bless to find something beautiful looking for you as well.
Ligth a new candle thats your heart so the ligth can be seen in the darkest of nights.
@@lazcaveli to teach us what equal give and take is in LOVE.
@@ayeshazulfikar6698 don't we all seek attention, as we are social creatures and the one that gives that attention could very well be in a better place than the one that keeps a distance.
If your not seen then you could be easy forgotten.
I've never gotten back with an ex after a breakup. Is it common?
I haven't either but we have certainly have had sex with no commitment and the feelings mainly gone. Just another sex partner.
Or they just get into a rebound relationship..
I reached back with my first ex-wife after 30 year… I was waiting for the apology for her cheating and having a baby with another man…I waited too long she died four months ago…
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well shes in hell right now most likely so u can forget about her
no deed goes through unpunished or rewarded
It works because women are so emotional no matter have hard they try to beat it, sooner or later they give in to it.
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he replace me within 16 days and he is with another girl i m trying no contact trick ....but after that what to do...
move on?
Your going to help me. I trust you! I know your right. Thanks for the confidence amor
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I’m afraid I’ve tried this a the beginning of 2020 waited for a long time it didn’t work for me
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Goddamn you waited that long can I ask how long you too were together
Yes true no. Contact really work. Great
Does this work with plutonic friendship where one person is not giving as much into the friendship as the other?
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It’s works on everything…definitely for me….good luck
I cane across a girl over dating app, we were going good but all of sudden she was like I cannot continue like this... I was ok we had good off but she haven't showed up yet.... Will she show up again???
This is a great option when you're dating someone who's not on the same page romantically as you are I'm the type of person who always stay focused on self I live the fitness lifestyle so women are around me all the time within that atmosphere so finding another woman is not a problem but I don't let women complicate my life I like the fact that I hold the cards as a man because women seldom approach you as a man they wait and see if you will approach them so we as men hold the power to the initial interaction
Men only hold initial power over insecure women. This assumption doesn’t apply to a confident woman who knows her worth and what she wants in a man.
Women hate it when they feel that you don’t need them
normal women move on. this is a toxic woman that comes back
fuck, has anyone had relationship experience in this comment section?
Does this work if he broke up with me last year same time and cheated on me and he came back after two months I forgave him and he done it again now so will it work again ???? This time if it been a year apart and what if he says I lied and I etc I didn’t
The truth is that this is an emotionally immature tactic. For any reason. If you have a problem in a relationship, you bring it up and address it. If it can't be resolved, and it's a "relationship breaker", then you go your seperate ways in agreement. You don't just ghost and go no contact on someone in a long term relationship with someone that Loves you. That's some cowardly narcissistic behavior that NOBODY deserves.
Yeah! but you need to give them and yourself time to think and heal. That can also be seen as no contact too. Giving time/space and no contact are very similar it’s just when you give then time... you maybe check in on them once every week or two weeks. If you just keep texting them they’re gonna feel pressured and choked by your presence. Hence the quote “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. Of course if you want them back and you ghost them to make them feel desperate, that is a very immature move! BUT! It really depends on the circumstances because to be honest... some people don’t deserve a response or any answers if they weren’t understanding or rude in anyway.
No contact is not ghosting it’s after a relationship ends when someone says they don’t want to be with you and you go your separate ways. You don’t contact them after a breakup. Nothing emotional immature about respecting someone’s decision.
No, you should never make her feel she has you locked down 100%. Females don't want a caring person, they look for masculinity. Fear of losing someone, is a big motivation to put in the work
@@ricardo8268 I'm 42 years old young buck. I don't play games like that. My last 2 relationships were a 15 year marriage and a 7 year engagement...to a narcissistic borderline with psychopathic traits as well.
@@face2799 agreed. It's not having some kind of psychotic break and while your ride or die is sleeping in the hospital parking lot because he doesn't know if you've completely lost your mind or you've had an aneurysm or a stroke, then suddenly signing yourself out AMA and disappearing crazy AF out in the world somewhere. That's a narcissistic discard when the last conversation you had was, "I live you sweetie, and see you when you get back in a little while after you and your sister visit your mother's grave site".
If they're so insecure that they can't stand being alone... Yeah. Good luck.
It becomes too toxic after a while but,like when it happens once or twice a year..for 2-3 months the breakup and the no contact lasts.
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Now I understand those random texts.
Anyways, I have moved on to someone much better. Hope she does too.
Thanks for the video. I have learned so much from this breakup. Feel grateful for it actually.
Glad to hear things are improving for you :) All the best!
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What about if you have met someone else or had an affair?
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Great video. Nice to see no nonsense advice on youtube. A lot of bad information out there.
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Form 4:08 to 4:10 ..... Your eyes blinks more rapidly and your voice brakes... While speaking about "craving for love" & "hurt".
Something tells me you that you have gone through a tough time.
It never worked for me.
This is my damn first times but it made feel like I was missing some thing and finally found it from your incredible insight of things. Thank you
What if the ex is on block?
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It's just not a good thing if the ex was a bad person. They should not come back.
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if it works it it means ur wife has too low amount of things to do in her day
employ her and she actually cba to run after you and your relationship becomes even better than with these manipulative technique