The older they get, the more desperate and miserable they become. They will accept anything that will accept them. They won’t be happy, because it’s not you. And they will realise what they had, but will have to settle, because they know their clocks are ticking. That desperation pick will suffer at the hands of the narc, but they will probably settle too from fear of being alone. What a miserable life they will have! I would rather be alone and at peace than settle for crumbs of fake love from an abuser. My mother never raised me to be nobody’s puppet. I have learnt the hard way, but I will be ok, by the grace of God. 🙏🏽
Yeah, Joe just has this certain nonchalance about him and it makes watching his videos very calming. It’s almost as if he’s practiced having indifference for his ex-narcissist so much and for so long that he’s mastered it and it’s now just become a part of who he is, haha
What a pointless life they lead, setting out to destroy and destabilise someone for their own twisted gratification. They never build anything worthwhile, so end up empty handed and on the shelf. What a pitiful existence they live.
It's funny how the tables turn for them... they put people on a shelf when they can do it and while they are younger...the tables turn someday and they are the ones sitting on a shelf desperately trying and waiting to come back to a good stable supply they once had
True. Yet it's not as simple as that sounds. Some people have been in marriages or relationships for years. Or it can be parents, grandparents, siblings, extended family, etc that are the toxic ones. For some that could be getting rid of everyone in their life and leaving them alone and possibly without resources. Also simply letting go may be harder for some people than others. Going no contract and living your best life away from them is nice but getting to that point is a different journey each of us.
He approached me with ‘I miss you’ ten months after my father died. My guess is that he wanted to drink whatever inheritance he thought I had gotten. Did gray rock and he hasn’t phoned again. They come back because they think they can get you to fund their addictions.
My narc broke up with me. He was really, really cruel and vindictive about it 😢...and now 2 weeks after the break up he's back being nice again, what a devil.
He has NO CHOICE but to go away, and to leave me alone. That's the only choice that he has now because I took my power back. At the discard, I welded the door shut because I was done with all of his BS. That's why I left him and never went back. I was done, done... His access to me has been denied FOR EVER. Now that I'm gone, I know that he's realizing that he will NEVER be able to find anyone to replace me. He was too stupid to understand that there is ONLY one me. There's nobody out there like me. He can search this world over, but he will never find another one like me. Narcissists are very dumb creatures when it comes to having any foresight. It took me leaving him for him to see that he messed up. In other words, He knows that he has shit in his own nest now. But, I don't care if he has to eat his own shit now because that's all that he is to me now 👉 A Piece of Shit 👈.
I can honestly say that my ex husband has never tried to come back. I think he realizes that he will NEVER EVER get another shot with me again. But he did attempt to screw with my life behind the scenes. Some of his ex wives had come forward with apologies to me for their role after they ended the relationship with him. Because I am such a private person it’s harder for him to get a foothold to screw with my life. But he did progressively scrape the bottom of the barrel with each marriage. The way I see it is he’s at the bottom and will never be able to dig his way back out. No one will ever take him seriously again.
My ex "downgraded" as well. A lot of narcs do this. Maybe it was because I ended the relationship with her, so she picked a person who is a little more plain-looking, who doesn't have a ton of money.. maybe he's a safer choice for her in that he will accept her crap, tolerate her manipulations- she's already cheated on him (with someone I once considered a friend.) But, I would never describe him as bottom of the barrel.. I have empathy for him because I know from first hand experience what she's going to do to him... what she already is doing to him. He's probably a really good guy who is going to fall head-over-heels in love, like I did.. and then she'll tear his heart out his chest.
@@pantsenfuego9986 Nah! He destroyed his own reputation and credibility. If I cared to do anything I wouldn’t hesitate to use his name and whatever other identifying info. about him. I don’t have to do anything but sit back and let him ruin his own life and reputation. I haven’t given any identifying info on him (name, state, physical identifiers, etc.). So I really don’t understand how you come to your conclusion that I am meddling in his life.
And this is truly what happens. Thanks Joe. Love 💕 the beautiful scenery in your videos. Reminds me there’s a lot of amazing things still out here for us to enjoy!
Great video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life as anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her...
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let her go, so I had to do all I could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment.
"You will search for me in another person. I promise. And you will never find me."
The older they get, the more desperate and miserable they become. They will accept anything that will accept them. They won’t be happy, because it’s not you. And they will realise what they had, but will have to settle, because they know their clocks are ticking.
That desperation pick will suffer at the hands of the narc, but they will probably settle too from fear of being alone. What a miserable life they will have!
I would rather be alone and at peace than settle for crumbs of fake love from an abuser.
My mother never raised me to be nobody’s puppet. I have learnt the hard way, but I will be ok, by the grace of God.
🙏🏽
Your voice is calming.
Yes so true!!! 💯💯💯💯
Yeah, Joe just has this certain nonchalance about him and it makes watching his videos very calming.
It’s almost as if he’s practiced having indifference for his ex-narcissist so much and for so long that he’s mastered it and it’s now just become a part of who he is, haha
This is a soothing channel. Heartfelt and not overwhelming.
Yeah, he has a voice smooth as velvet…
What a pointless life they lead, setting out to destroy and destabilise someone for their own twisted gratification. They never build anything worthwhile, so end up empty handed and on the shelf. What a pitiful existence they live.
It's funny how the tables turn for them... they put people on a shelf when they can do it and while they are younger...the tables turn someday and they are the ones sitting on a shelf desperately trying and waiting to come back to a good stable supply they once had
What a pathetic life that must be. Just leave them behind and go enjoy life.
True. Yet it's not as simple as that sounds. Some people have been in marriages or relationships for years. Or it can be parents, grandparents, siblings, extended family, etc that are the toxic ones. For some that could be getting rid of everyone in their life and leaving them alone and possibly without resources.
Also simply letting go may be harder for some people than others.
Going no contract and living your best life away from them is nice but getting to that point is a different journey each of us.
@@user56gghtf I hear you, it took me a decade to realize what I was dealing with.
@@safethamzagic7226 But now you know and you can see it faster than others that don't know.
Yep, they always come back when they see you doing good, just to see if they can bring you down again!
They return because they need to withdraw cash from your atm machine!
If they comeback they’re down and out!
After seeing the monster behind the mask,I'll never fall for the narcissists honey traps ever again
He knows he cant even try now. Not even years from now. It must suck to be him.
Thank you for sharing this perspective, it is what I needed to know.
He approached me with ‘I miss you’ ten months after my father died. My guess is that he wanted to drink whatever inheritance he thought I had gotten. Did gray rock and he hasn’t phoned again. They come back because they think they can get you to fund their addictions.
My narc broke up with me. He was really, really cruel and vindictive about it 😢...and now 2 weeks after the break up he's back being nice again, what a devil.
He has NO CHOICE but to go away, and to leave me alone. That's the only choice that he has now because I took my power back. At the discard, I welded the door shut because I was done with all of his BS. That's why I left him and never went back. I was done, done...
His access to me has been denied FOR EVER. Now that I'm gone, I know that he's realizing that he will NEVER be able to find anyone to replace me. He was too stupid to understand that there is ONLY one me. There's nobody out there like me. He can search this world over, but he will never find another one like me.
Narcissists are very dumb creatures when it comes to having any foresight. It took me leaving him for him to see that he messed up. In other words, He knows that he has shit in his own nest now. But, I don't care if he has to eat his own shit now because that's all that he is to me now 👉 A Piece of Shit 👈.
I can honestly say that my ex husband has never tried to come back. I think he realizes that he will NEVER EVER get another shot with me again. But he did attempt to screw with my life behind the scenes. Some of his ex wives had come forward with apologies to me for their role after they ended the relationship with him. Because I am such a private person it’s harder for him to get a foothold to screw with my life. But he did progressively scrape the bottom of the barrel with each marriage. The way I see it is he’s at the bottom and will never be able to dig his way back out. No one will ever take him seriously again.
Sounds much more like you’re meddling with his reputation.
@@pantsenfuego9986Sheesh! She doesn’t need to, sounds like he’s more than capable of screwing up his own pathetic life 😂
My ex "downgraded" as well. A lot of narcs do this. Maybe it was because I ended the relationship with her, so she picked a person who is a little more plain-looking, who doesn't have a ton of money.. maybe he's a safer choice for her in that he will accept her crap, tolerate her manipulations- she's already cheated on him (with someone I once considered a friend.) But, I would never describe him as bottom of the barrel.. I have empathy for him because I know from first hand experience what she's going to do to him... what she already is doing to him. He's probably a really good guy who is going to fall head-over-heels in love, like I did.. and then she'll tear his heart out his chest.
@@pantsenfuego9986 Nah! He destroyed his own reputation and credibility. If I cared to do anything I wouldn’t hesitate to use his name and whatever other identifying info. about him. I don’t have to do anything but sit back and let him ruin his own life and reputation. I haven’t given any identifying info on him (name, state, physical identifiers, etc.). So I really don’t understand how you come to your conclusion that I am meddling in his life.
@@Bleepbloopblarp Thank you…
And this is truly what happens. Thanks Joe. Love 💕 the beautiful scenery in your videos. Reminds me there’s a lot of amazing things still out here for us to enjoy!
Great video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life as anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her...
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let her go, so I had to do all I could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one?
Her name is " monica Erlene mora " and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...
Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive
9 times, not 5 or 10.. 🤕🥴🤣