one lesson i’ve learned is that the heart is the root of everything... if a man doesn’t give you his heart; everything he does give is nothing more than an illusion. even if it includes marriage...
For a man to truly be in love with a woman, he needs to have a deep & devoted relationship with his creator, God. Because only God can hold him accountable and faithful, when that man is alone by himself.
True it depends on part they are playing. Investing my time with my legs closed. It takes a while to conduct an authenticity check. Even pastors are doing the most.
@@ShiaGirl18 Luke 14:26 “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple." - Jesus Luke 12:51 "Do you suppose that I came to give peace on earth? I tell you, not at all, but rather division." - Jesus The Bible promotes hatred not love.
Men use what they do not respect. And they do not respect the ride-or die- and hold-me-down-chicks who tolerate all kinds of mess and cheating. They may not ever leave but they will drain you to the point that your soul is depleted.
Pastor RC Blakes also talks about women being queens and how women deserve to be treated by their kings. Look him up. RC and Tony complement each other well with great advice.
Men do not love they USE. They put themselves first always. Men place there needs above everything and everyone else. We as women should recognize this and DO THE SAME. put u first at all times. 🌹
Not every man. It is important what we speak over our lives. If we speak negatively of men as a whole, then that means there is no hope in God bringing you a good man and there IS hope!
@@sparccoaching your comment is confirmation for me to stop speaking negatively about men. I don't know what God has in store, so I should quit saying I'm giving up on dating. I want God's will.
Chan_RainOctober Hallelujah Chan_Rain! We have the choice to speak life or death over our lives. I have been single for a few years, but I speak and claim a Godly, faithful man is on his way to me :) You have the same coming to you!
WE fear being hurt, OVER and OVER again....but we still believe in love. But it’s getting pretty tough to keep wanting to try. Men need therapy from adolescence.
You might believe in love but you're incapable of loving a men( unconditional) the same way he loves you . Your hypergamy and briffaults law clearly stays this
You think they didn't play games ??? No social media so we don't know ......but a lot of them did ....trust .... People have brother and sisters all over the place ...up north and down south ...LOL!!!!
clark clarke I know some of them played games but they also had wives that walked away ‘set up’ when they croaked and died while out frolicking. They provided a home, food, and took care of the business of life for the wife and children. Big difference from these busters today.
It's definitely challenging for most men to be in love or to see themselves as falling. I think it becomes challenging when they are unaware of how to love and becoming vulnerable. Love is a sacrifice and it's powerful.
@Andy I do, it's goes back to how we love and treat ourselves ultimately. How can I love you and not love me first? Our past experiences can shape our present and future decisions.
@@vegigirl7440 aww no. Why does everything in life have to be a cat and mouse game? They say you cant be too nice or too mean or too emotional or too giving or they will run. Smh. Who has time for all that.
Yes!!! Preach about taking those rights captive to the obedience of Christ!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Not every thought is even our own. The spiritual realm is very busy and active around us. 💯
I am 53 years old and you are telling the truth. It's just that a lot of females my age can't accept that they are older and single. They want to believe the hype pushed on "Sex and the City." I know NO ONE my age who is dating a younger man that's not paying for everything and putting up with foolishness.
Thank you Tony Gaskins, I think some men don't know how to love, or don't want to love a woman, because he missed out on something when he was a young adult. I know a guy who were raised by 2 middle class working patents, and he still don't know how to treat a woman. Not that he's a cheater or no good man. He just don't know. Sad!!! God bless you Tony.
Men don’t have to do anything hard anymore. Some women make it too easy to get over on them. Men lie and say “I love you” then move on. Women then open up their hearts too fast because they don’t want to be alone. Men don’t seem to want to fight for our love anymore. The dream of the white knight in shining armor riding off into the sunset fairly tale has been awakened. Now women need to put on the full armor of God just to date today especially if you date so called “Christian” men. For me, discernment from God is the rule. We live in a relationship culture where women fear being alone and men fear being fully in love. A clash of the titans power struggle then ensues. It hurts us all. We then become too accepting of what men do in our own quest for love.
I love that..." I belong to you" to" the moon and back if that's what you need".. be blessed.. both of you... A good man will say those things and a good woman will never take advantage of that vulnerability.
By the time I got to that place, I no longer loved him like before. Yes, he changed completely, but I no longer care either way. I could leave and never look back. But I promised to try and I have always kept my word. I loved him with all my heart at one time. But that’s gone. I know he is trying really hard now . But I think he’s a little to late.
Changed My Life Tony! I pray God continue to pour out in you and your family lives so that you may continue to bless your viewers with your wisdom. God Bless You!!
Happy Monday blessed tribe👋🏽👋🏽 Make sure you keep your head up no matter what circumstance may come your way. Even if you fall, get up. You only fail when you give up. 🤎
Thank you so very much sir for this words. Seriously, we ladies/women needs to understand that men also hurt, fears, and have a kinda insecurities.. because we just want men to listen to us but do we listen to them at all💯💯 we want men to appreciate us, respect us, love us , care for us but do we do the same ...🙏🙏🙏🙏
I feel like I owe you my whole check, because I promise you my ex has told me everything you have told me!! Everything!! I'm about to break down in my office!
It saddens me how most men are sooooo deeply, low-key insecure. And they will self-sabotage a relationship bc of their inaccuracies. It's sad. Our men need healing
I dont want a manipulative man. I want a man who wants me for who I am. If I have to check him , I honestly dont want him. So I guess I'm be happy single and just date who I want. Because when I commit I put in my all threw good or bad. I dont need a man to test me. I need honesty.
Listen. I did this and some but WE as woman need to understand that it do not matter how much love, understanding and care we may give to a man. If he is not mature enough,emotionally stable enough or even have a good character it will go out the window and leave you with unrequited love!!! My advice, love yourself 100%, focus on creating your own happiness and accomplishing your dreams! The man God has for you will find YOU and have to elevate to your level or be left behind! We need to stop giving these “men” so much power!!! WE ARE THE PRIZE! Not them! We bare children and then some. They are NOT on our level what so ever. They need to step up and meet us where WE our not the other way around! I’m done ranting
His words don't match his actions. It'll be a 2 year relationship in January. I have yet to hear anything about any future for he and I. He told me to be patient, all I have been is patient through the thing.
@@ororom9840 Wow. If you have the courage to move on and not look back, if he Really has genuine intentions he Will do whatever it takes. T.G. has talked about this and I have witnessed it. 🤗🙏☮
My current struggle Thank you 🙏🏾 Mr. Gaskins for explaining in how to handle your emotions and being cautious to being submissive to the wrong Man when he’s not even the Man of God that was sent from God for you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🙌🏾 True word I recognize that
As women, we need to have discretion. Everything ain't for everybody. If you value it keep it private and continue evaluating the situation. Nothing more embarrassing than bragging about your partner online or irl and you are the only person unaware that he is sleeping with all your best friends...male and female. 🙄 "Coach Francesca"
I wish I had a father to tell me these things as a little girl.. I am still learning and it is a harsh reality but eye-opening.. I view relationships in a whole new way now...
Great insight, Tony. Thank you! I used to think something was wrong with me for having such a low tolerance for things that don't sit right with me; I've been called boujee, mannish, stuck up, entitled, delusional, etc then discarded .....for having standards🙃 But you explained why men ALWAYS pull away and ALWAYS come back, even after THEY discard YOU. This makes so much sense. I don't like it LOL, but it makes sense.
AMEN! AMEN! 40 years of every thing that you spoke! Thanks for teaching those young beautiful women who are not there yet, but, will eventually get there! 82!
I thought women was complicated..it seems like these men are way more complicated than us. they more needy than us I just don't understand. listening to you Tony talk about men and their needs and what we have to do to get them stroke their ego I'm just going to stay single for awhile its looking brighter over here..I'm exhausted just thinking about all the work that goes in it.. I'm good..
Interesting thought Tony, that "men know themselves". Why don't women take the signals? An ex-friends-with-benefits told me after he moved cross country "I'm just flying by the seat of my pants." Why on earth would I think he would have any real plan with me? He just wanted loose fun. Lesson learned.
No shade but I seen that they barely get with the guy and have to make it Facebook official and then in a couple of months they break up and now they feel stupid taking it down that’s why I said to myself until I am one year or more with the guy I will not be posting him
I’ll never understand women who would put a man on their social media that they barley know in the first year especially like I’m seriously confused 🤷🏾♀️
Julia Price yes lol this happened to my ex fiancé his now ex Gf and the women is of older age they are broken up and she feels stupid taking it down the minute they got in the relationship she put it up in the status it’s honesty hilarious 😆 and now they are broken up I should be petty and say are you guys still together lol 😆 side note no I won’t do that
Tony this is a great message, and I've heard a man say this before.... after he cheated on his soon to be wife numerous times, he still has thoughts that his wife cheats on him even though she says she doesn't.
This happened to me; my love cheated and I took him back, but we ultimately broke up because he would constantly accused me of cheating! (I never did, btw). Makes so much sense now!
Men don't love the same as women, their feelings are much more shallow and surface level. The only way we can love equally is if women date guys they're not into. Thats why the relationships that last the longest are the ones where the men are obsessed, and the women couldn't give a damn.
I used to share a house with another 50 plus woman and she ran after younger men. They used her money and car. They'd put inappropriate pics of her up on Facebook. It was so embarrassing and pathetic. She THOUGHT they cared about her. So sad.
Thank you for the breakdown. It is so important to see the difference in how we express love and recognize it! Thank you for teaching me so much during my single season!
I'm guilty of being in love with the idea of a man, by the time I blink, it's a grown boy in front of me that I gotta say deuces to ✌🏾🤦🏾♀️. They present themselves as a man but can't keep the charade up. Smh
This is all very true, now the example you gave with you and your wife, why do y’all play them damn games in the first place, all she really wanted was for you to just say ok and do what she asked. Why do y’all play them mind games with us. Also why are some men incapable of putting their pride and ego aside and hold themselves accountable when they are wrong and make the changes to make them a better man. Women when with a man genuinely, we only want to help them grow and progress. We don’t just do or say certain things with bad intentions or without love so why can’t men understand this concept and want to mature and become the better version of themselves?
Thank you Tony for all the information that you are giving regarding men, I am a woman that is always going to keep love in my heart, but listening to that about men, it sounds so much like a game, if a men love me and I love him I would not have to check him and he shouldn't have to check me, we should be grown and mature enough to respect each others boundaries, that is too draining for me, it sounds like I would be talking to a child about how to respect me, I enjoy listening to your topics, May God continue blessing you and your family.
Be Blessed 😊Thank you Mr. Gaskins for this powerful message much needed to hear this love and relationship advice keep doing God ‘s work bringing forth these motivational and inspirational and powerful encouragement message on love and relationship truly are helping woman’s across the world wide😊
one lesson i’ve learned is that the heart is the root of everything... if a man doesn’t give you his heart; everything he does give is nothing more than an illusion. even if it includes marriage...
Amen💯
What does giving his heart mean? I truly want to know
Yep
sowsow cool when he is in love with you and nothing else in the world matters but you
Sooo true
For a man to truly be in love with a woman, he needs to have a deep & devoted relationship with his creator, God. Because only God can hold him accountable and faithful, when that man is alone by himself.
True it depends on part they are playing. Investing my time with my legs closed. It takes a while to conduct an authenticity check. Even pastors are doing the most.
AMEN!
Most definitely 💯
Powerful!
@@ShiaGirl18 Luke 14:26 “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple." - Jesus
Luke 12:51 "Do you suppose that I came to give peace on earth? I tell you, not at all, but rather division." - Jesus
The Bible promotes hatred not love.
Men use what they do not respect. And they do not respect the ride-or die- and hold-me-down-chicks who tolerate all kinds of mess and cheating. They may not ever leave but they will drain you to the point that your soul is depleted.
@Natasha Freeman, you have to hold them accountable or they will not do better. Then when they don't step up, sometimes you have to step off.
Mz Yo TruthNLove agreed
Mz Yo TruthNLove yup it’s like training a dog
Yes I hear that gotta be on your qs out here both men and woman
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾 truth
When i hear Tony talk about the Queen, i get tears in my eyes. That's love right there and it gives me hope. To the moon and back...
Yes Girl find true love hard nowadays 😔😒
Me to that's black love!!!
Keep the faith sister your day will come and as well as mine🙌🙌
Thank you for the comment...
Pastor RC Blakes also talks about women being queens and how women deserve to be treated by their kings. Look him up. RC and Tony complement each other well with great advice.
Men do not love they USE. They put themselves first always. Men place there needs above everything and everyone else. We as women should recognize this and DO THE SAME. put u first at all times. 🌹
Amen
Not every man. It is important what we speak over our lives. If we speak negatively of men as a whole, then that means there is no hope in God bringing you a good man and there IS hope!
@@sparccoaching your comment is confirmation for me to stop speaking negatively about men. I don't know what God has in store, so I should quit saying I'm giving up on dating. I want God's will.
Chan_RainOctober Hallelujah Chan_Rain! We have the choice to speak life or death over our lives. I have been single for a few years, but I speak and claim a Godly, faithful man is on his way to me :) You have the same coming to you!
Exactly💯
WE fear being hurt, OVER and OVER again....but we still believe in love. But it’s getting pretty tough to keep wanting to try. Men need therapy from adolescence.
Yes they do
from the crib sis !
You might believe in love but you're incapable of loving a men( unconditional) the same way he loves you . Your hypergamy and briffaults law clearly stays this
Well said.
Too many games. I wish the men of my grandparents days were still around.
Ikr
Me too.
You think they didn't play games ??? No social media so we don't know ......but a lot of them did ....trust .... People have brother and sisters all over the place ...up north and down south ...LOL!!!!
clark clarke I know some of them played games but they also had wives that walked away ‘set up’ when they croaked and died while out frolicking. They provided a home, food, and took care of the business of life for the wife and children. Big difference from these busters today.
What!? Those men were Rolling Stones 🤨 ask some of these grandmas
"I'll leave at 11...go and get the moon and be back by noon". Chile...if my future husband can't do that...I don't want him. Lol
Right! That was so sweet! 😩😍
girl when he said that!! SMH amazing... lord willing one day
GemStarr is Blessed For sure!!!
Dana Yes!!! That’s all I’m saying. Lol
You can tell a man loves you if he makes the fullest effort to protect and defend you. No matter the circumstances he puts in his best effort.
Desperation is not attractive 🙌🏾 love this !!!!
Very true.
It's definitely challenging for most men to be in love or to see themselves as falling. I think it becomes challenging when they are unaware of how to love and becoming vulnerable. Love is a sacrifice and it's powerful.
@Andy I do, it's goes back to how we love and treat ourselves ultimately. How can I love you and not love me first? Our past experiences can shape our present and future decisions.
He can do it. Y'all got it. I'm proud of y'all God and our Archangels and angels got this.
Who still has 2-3 yrs to waste when you in your 40's? Why do people play so many games in dating/marriage?
try being in your 50's or 60's and doing that..ugh
@@vegigirl7440 aww no. Why does everything in life have to be a cat and mouse game? They say you cant be too nice or too mean or too emotional or too giving or they will run. Smh. Who has time for all that.
@@Abbydiva31 ... well said 💯
I give them 3-4 months to get to know them. If I don't like what I see. I say bye.
I have no idea why. Smh
“I’m yours. I’m your husband. You own me.“ TG
Love that! 😍
That part right there!!!
He said, "I will leave at 11 and go and get the moon!" My heart melted!! ‼️
I fear the same, that's why I hold back in relationships. The man has to show me he can be trusted before I show my true feelings.
Yes!!! Preach about taking those rights captive to the obedience of Christ!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Not every thought is even our own. The spiritual realm is very busy and active around us. 💯
Amen Ruby!👸💙🙏💪
Your wish is my command...I will leave at 11 to go get the moon and be back by noon(I might've misquoted)...THIS IS WHAT I WANT!!! 😔😔🙏🏾🙏🏾
Awwwww that is so sweet to hear a man say, "I'll leave at 11 and go get the moon and be back by noon."
I am 53 years old and you are telling the truth. It's just that a lot of females my age can't accept that they are older and single. They want to believe the hype pushed on "Sex and the City." I know NO ONE my age who is dating a younger man that's not paying for everything and putting up with foolishness.
Thank you Tony Gaskins, I think some men don't know how to love, or don't want to love a woman, because he missed out on something when he was a young adult. I know a guy who were raised by 2 middle class working patents, and he still don't know how to treat a woman. Not that he's a cheater or no good man. He just don't know. Sad!!! God bless you Tony.
Sounds like an excuse to cheat to me. When you really love someone you will NOT cheat on them.
I was thinking that
Men don’t have to do anything hard anymore. Some women make it too easy to get over on them. Men lie and say “I love you” then move on. Women then open up their hearts too fast because they don’t want to be alone. Men don’t seem to want to fight for our love anymore. The dream of the white knight in shining armor riding off into the sunset fairly tale has been awakened. Now women need to put on the full armor of God just to date today especially if you date so called “Christian” men. For me, discernment from God is the rule. We live in a relationship culture where women fear being alone and men fear being fully in love. A clash of the titans power struggle then ensues. It hurts us all. We then become too accepting of what men do in our own quest for love.
cindee D they don’t have to fight for our love anymore, not with all the pick-mes hanging around hot and ready. :-/
I love that..." I belong to you" to" the moon and back if that's what you need".. be blessed.. both of you... A good man will say those things and a good woman will never take advantage of that vulnerability.
By the time I got to that place, I no longer loved him like before. Yes, he changed completely, but I no longer care either way. I could leave and never look back. But I promised to try and I have always kept my word. I loved him with all my heart at one time. But that’s gone. I know he is trying really hard now . But I think he’s a little to late.
I been there and after trying for 3 years after not caring I moved on be careful time don't wait.
Same here girl.its not the same anymore
Changed My Life Tony! I pray God continue to pour out in you and your family lives so that you may continue to bless your viewers with your wisdom. God Bless You!!
Happy Monday blessed tribe👋🏽👋🏽 Make sure you keep your head up no matter what circumstance may come your way. Even if you fall, get up. You only fail when you give up. 🤎
Happy Monday Suh!😘👸🌹💐🐝
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@@coachnatishamommatish185 🤗🤗
@@mariadaskalakis9317 💯✊🏽
We women are some beautiful people..we are so open and trusting and we still have to not be ourselves to have a real relationship? So sad 😪
Pay attention and know your self worth! Thank you and be blessed. I’ll be sharing this one!
Thank you so very much sir for this words.
Seriously, we ladies/women needs to understand that men also hurt, fears, and have a kinda insecurities.. because we just want men to listen to us but do we listen to them at all💯💯 we want men to appreciate us, respect us, love us , care for us but do we do the same ...🙏🙏🙏🙏
I feel like I owe you my whole check, because I promise you my ex has told me everything you have told me!! Everything!! I'm about to break down in my office!
God wants you healed and will use who is available!
@Free 2Be 😂😂😂
It saddens me how most men are sooooo deeply, low-key insecure. And they will self-sabotage a relationship bc of their inaccuracies. It's sad. Our men need healing
My ex broke my heart.
I'm trying to move forward some days it's hard 😥😥😥
One Day At A Time 🌷
So sorry, keep yourself busy so your mind isn't idle. Love on yourself and stay occupied
If you need a life coach you can reach out to me. You are not alone.
Babe me for 7 months try to move on 🙏🏻 staying strong
Your soulmate is preparing themselves for you, stay connected to God and soon he will come
I dont want a manipulative man. I want a man who wants me for who I am. If I have to check him , I honestly dont want him. So I guess I'm be happy single and just date who I want. Because when I commit I put in my all threw good or bad. I dont need a man to test me. I need honesty.
Listen. I did this and some but WE as woman need to understand that it do not matter how much love, understanding and care we may give to a man. If he is not mature enough,emotionally stable enough or even have a good character it will go out the window and leave you with unrequited love!!! My advice, love yourself 100%, focus on creating your own happiness and accomplishing your dreams! The man God has for you will find YOU and have to elevate to your level or be left behind! We need to stop giving these “men” so much power!!! WE ARE THE PRIZE! Not them! We bare children and then some. They are NOT on our level what so ever. They need to step up and meet us where WE our not the other way around! I’m done ranting
Gotta hold a man accountable, okkkkay!
Men should hold women accountable
Smoove Selling This is true!!!
To risk being talked about, to risk being embarrassed, thats strength in there
Awww the moon in a hour 🥰🥰🥰 you guys are so blessed 😊
ready for class ‼️
Yes.. 🥰🥰🥰
This is exactly what has been going thru my mind the past few weeks.....this message was definitely meant for me amongst many others!!
I did those things with the last guy, but he wasn't there. I had to accept that I wasn't his "one". So I left.
I'm on day 2 out of 2 weeks...I have a feeling I'll be leaving too.
@@ororom9840 if he's bringing you down, sending u on a rollercoaster, interrupting ur ☮, it's time...
His words don't match his actions. It'll be a 2 year relationship in January. I have yet to hear anything about any future for he and I. He told me to be patient, all I have been is patient through the thing.
@@ororom9840 Wow. If you have the courage to move on and not look back, if he Really has genuine intentions he Will do whatever it takes. T.G. has talked about this and I have witnessed it. 🤗🙏☮
Yes, I've watching his videos. I think it was the "How to know if your relationship is over." We'll see, but thank you and TG for the advice 👌.
The truth hurts but thank you so much Tony 😩
Finding a good balance is so hard, but working on it day by day.
I enjoy watching a man in love. And this man (Tony Gaskins) is in LOVE
If you watch Tony’s videos every day. You will literally GROW every day!!
My current struggle Thank you 🙏🏾 Mr. Gaskins for explaining in how to handle your emotions and being cautious to being submissive to the wrong Man when he’s not even the Man of God that was sent from God for you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🙌🏾 True word I recognize that
As women, we need to have discretion. Everything ain't for everybody. If you value it keep it private and continue evaluating the situation. Nothing more embarrassing than bragging about your partner online or irl and you are the only person unaware that he is sleeping with all your best friends...male and female. 🙄 "Coach Francesca"
PERIODT 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Well Tony I checked him on only texting and lack of conversation. Guess what ?? He gone
Block him and keep it moving sis.
Omg!! Me too!! 🤷♀️
Tara Shollenberger lmao 😂
He just moved a side for someone better.
Energy!!! He said he would goto the moon at 11 and be back by 12 all for his WIFE! ❤️❤️🤞🏽 big energy
Go and get the moon and be back by noon, God bless you Tony and family
I wish I had a father to tell me these things as a little girl.. I am still learning and it is a harsh reality but eye-opening.. I view relationships in a whole new way now...
Tony Gaskins POPPIN IN...The pop up Coach!
This man just spoke my soul
Great insight, Tony. Thank you!
I used to think something was wrong with me for having such a low tolerance for things that don't sit right with me; I've been called boujee, mannish, stuck up, entitled, delusional, etc then discarded .....for having standards🙃 But you explained why men ALWAYS pull away and ALWAYS come back, even after THEY discard YOU. This makes so much sense. I don't like it LOL, but it makes sense.
Always right on time. Have a great day.
“Breadcrumbing, ya got a word for everything” 😂
Every relationship coach use that term.
AMEN! AMEN! 40 years of every thing that you spoke! Thanks for teaching those young beautiful women who are not there yet, but, will eventually get there! 82!
I am thankfull to have found this channel. It helps me a lot, lots of love from Belgium. 🌹
I thought women was complicated..it seems like these men are way more complicated than us. they more needy than us I just don't understand. listening to you Tony talk about men and their needs and what we have to do to get them stroke their ego I'm just going to stay single for awhile its looking brighter over here..I'm exhausted just thinking about all the work that goes in it.. I'm good..
At times I just wanna stop and close your video....then it got me understanding what really needs my attention, where the answer is hidden.. Thank you
Interesting thought Tony, that "men know themselves". Why don't women take the signals? An ex-friends-with-benefits told me after he moved cross country "I'm just flying by the seat of my pants." Why on earth would I think he would have any real plan with me? He just wanted loose fun. Lesson learned.
Peace&Blessing,☺ Blessed Tribe Family!🧕💙🙏💪
No shade but I seen that they barely get with the guy and have to make it Facebook official and then in a couple of months they break up and now they feel stupid taking it down that’s why I said to myself until I am one year or more with the guy I will not be posting him
Right bc one thing a man will do is embarrass you
@@heyyashleyyy2669 embarrass the crap out of you
I’ll never understand women who would put a man on their social media that they barley know in the first year especially like I’m seriously confused 🤷🏾♀️
Julia Price yes lol this happened to my ex fiancé his now ex Gf and the women is of older age they are broken up and she feels stupid taking it down the minute they got in the relationship she put it up in the status it’s honesty hilarious 😆 and now they are broken up I should be petty and say are you guys still together lol 😆 side note no I won’t do that
How about posting that y'all are married 😂 not before
Hey tony i rarely comment but thanks for everything ❤️
Beautiful! “ I will leave at 11 and go get the moon and be back by noon”. I’m so done accepting anyones bare minimal; man, mother or children. Done!
She still don't know cuz she still don't play boyish games.
We are wired to be mature because we carry life and nourish it.
I love it Tony “Leave by 11, go get the moon and be back by noon”. ❤️
Your wife is Jamaican, Jamaicans don’t like to beg no one to do nothing for them lol !!
and that's facts lol
Girl yes, I ask once! you grown you heard me WTH
Exactly 💯 U respect, check, honor him, but U aren't a pushover, agree 🙏
Tony this is a great message, and I've heard a man say this before.... after he cheated on his soon to be wife numerous times, he still has thoughts that his wife cheats on him even though she says she doesn't.
This happened to me; my love cheated and I took him back, but we ultimately broke up because he would constantly accused me of cheating! (I never did, btw). Makes so much sense now!
@@briana14333 conscious was eating him alive.
Men don't love the same as women, their feelings are much more shallow and surface level. The only way we can love equally is if women date guys they're not into. Thats why the relationships that last the longest are the ones where the men are obsessed, and the women couldn't give a damn.
Great word ,I’ve observed this what you speak of . I never called my bf anything or past relationship. I’m not a yell or scream type person either .
my grand parent are like 40 some tears togather and my grandma still takes my grandpas jokes seriouss like serious serious🤣🤣
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I used to share a house with another 50 plus woman and she ran after younger men. They used her money and car. They'd put inappropriate pics of her up on Facebook. It was so embarrassing and pathetic. She THOUGHT they cared about her. So sad.
Thank you for the breakdown. It is so important to see the difference in how we express love and recognize it!
Thank you for teaching me so much during my single season!
Love love love him with eyes wide open
Good job, 14 years! Congratulations
One of the best Tony Gaskins.God bless you.
I'm guilty of being in love with the idea of a man, by the time I blink, it's a grown boy in front of me that I gotta say deuces to ✌🏾🤦🏾♀️. They present themselves as a man but can't keep the charade up. Smh
Thank you Tony for helping me to feel and be more empowered for when I start back dating again!
Point blank . period that's the enemies mission to tear marriages apart.
Men are afraid of being hurt so are we but we still try
This is all very true, now the example you gave with you and your wife, why do y’all play them damn games in the first place, all she really wanted was for you to just say ok and do what she asked. Why do y’all play them mind games with us. Also why are some men incapable of putting their pride and ego aside and hold themselves accountable when they are wrong and make the changes to make them a better man. Women when with a man genuinely, we only want to help them grow and progress. We don’t just do or say certain things with bad intentions or without love so why can’t men understand this concept and want to mature and become the better version of themselves?
I just explained this to my babygirl's father.
I love the moon quote
I needed to hear this tonight. 🙌🏾
Even after 2,3 yrs you still won’t know him. Lol. It takes time.
Thank you Tony for all the information that you are giving regarding men, I am a woman that is always going to keep love in my heart, but listening to that about men, it sounds so much like a game, if a men love me and I love him I would not have to check him and he shouldn't have to check me, we should be grown and mature enough to respect each others boundaries, that is too draining for me, it sounds like I would be talking to a child about how to respect me, I enjoy listening to your topics, May God continue blessing you and your family.
How Men love part I... Excellent insight 2 a sometimes very confusing subject... Blessings 2 my bro Tony G. 💯✔🎯‼
BE BLESSED!!
I saw the title and was like “ oh I need to watch this now” lol
Im about to catch that amazing guy because I’ve been following every advices Tony gives!! Thank you!!
Thank you sweetie I really needed to hear this message. GOD BLESS YOU.
That was so 💯, I really do appreciate this , my God, had I known.....But I Know Now!! Praise God!!!
This one of my faves by my faves lawd
Be Blessed 😊Thank you Mr. Gaskins for this powerful message much needed to hear this love and relationship advice keep doing God ‘s work bringing forth these motivational and inspirational and powerful encouragement message on love and relationship truly are helping woman’s across the world wide😊
Am learning thank you
Blessings and Peace! 🙏🏾🕊💖 thank you for sharing.
Hey big brother ! I love this ! I was asking this last night 🙏🏾🙏🏾. Thank you !
We as women are trained to serve, be subservient, people please and put ourselves last. This is a training that doesn't serve us well.
Great video! 💯 Thank you for all you do for humanity!