Narcissist are good actor's,b4 marriage,during dating,they r soo romantic,they really remember Valentine,when u say i do,they stop no celebrating,Anniversary,birthday.True Benjamin,they rush into marriage wasijulikane may God give as,discernment.
The harsh but true TRUTH is that these people CANNOT change; the hope we have in them we should refocus on our own lives, and the improvement that peace and happiness away from such people can bring into our lives. When you attract and TOLERATE a narcissist in your life, it's an indication that you need to look within yourself and re-evaluate your own self-worth & self-love. RUN AS FAR AND AS FAST AS YOU CAN in the opposite direction when you realize you're dealing with a NARC!
Great conversation. Please keep backdrop simple. That wall may have just worked perfectly with a wall art or floor pot plant next a side table with vase. 👌 simple with visual focus on the panel. Thanks for great content always.
I know a lady who dated a narcissist,one minute they are out having fun next minute the guy is annoyed by a very very small issue,he will accuse her of wierd things just so that she gets upset and leaves then now he would invite his newest girl, needless to say she use to maintain him and he is the high standard types,we watched the lady lose herself everyday,she became so confused even to hold her prestigious job anymore,then she was dropped left penniless with a newborn in martenity,more than ten years later she is still trying to recover from the spell
This is wisdom. Take your time and don't be rushed into anything. If you realize you are with a narc RUNNN! Only God can help such people - if they are willing to be helped.
❤️❤️❤️One thing that I've learned about Narcissist is that their conversation is usually VERY surface/shallow. They don't get deep with their emotions, pain or personal struggles in conversation. Never share personal business with people until you discern the fruit of that person's heart. That could take many months, or several years, but let a person prove to you that they are worthy of entering into your personal life. Also... Do NOT date or marry someone until you have dealt with your OWN childhood wounds, insecurities, trauma and personal struggles. You must learn to love YOU before trying to get someone else to.❤️
I always Like this conversations thank you benja. The background is beautiful but uweeeh I couldn't look at it with straight eyes I was seeing it move 😂
When u talked about widows and widowers I remembered the crime show I watch called "deadly women,the women killed their husbands and married more than thrice and still killed them yet people always thought it's just sickness, accidental , nobody suspected foul play
Thank you so much Benjamin for this...in my case is not a romantic relationship But that narcissistic/personality disorder u explained just described my boss... if he is not the center of anything he won't give attention and always torment and oppresses us with his words especially those of us that are well put together and vision driven for our personal growth and development...he hates it when people smile at u or say nice things about you....my question is what do we do? Can't quit now cos i need the money please reply 🙏 🙂
Wow that's a really tough one!!!...I would say you just hang in there. Know that you're not the problem, he is. You might need to play along to boost his ego now that you understand the kind of response that will make him feel powerful. If you're a spiritual person just pray for a better situation but don't put yourself down before that manifests. Stay positive and eventually either he'll move away or you'll find a more condusive work situation. Keep the faith 😊
First of all if u know that you're dealing with a narcissistic person just keep it to urself and avoid him. At school I've already spotted a narcissistic person and he is my classmate🙆🙆😂😂so I just kept quiet coz I know that narcissists are like sorcerers coz sorcerers don't like pple who have a potential of being a great person. They'll do anything to demolish you just like a sorcerer a sorcerer's main work is to demolish you completely. Hve a good night
You are not your body. Wonderful. My father is approaching 80 and I think he looks excellent. If I can get there be or look like him, I will have won the lottery.
Benjamin always talks about narcissists but never gives the solution to solving such people. What should they do. You actually just make the narcissists laugh because you describe them well
Narcissist are good actor's,b4 marriage,during dating,they r soo romantic,they really remember Valentine,when u say i do,they stop no celebrating,Anniversary,birthday.True Benjamin,they rush into marriage wasijulikane may God give as,discernment.
One thing about narcissistic partners they are so envious, they compete 24/7 they never stop they are such evil creatures…
The harsh but true TRUTH is that these people CANNOT change; the hope we have in them we should refocus on our own lives, and the improvement that peace and happiness away from such people can bring into our lives. When you attract and TOLERATE a narcissist in your life, it's an indication that you need to look within yourself and re-evaluate your own self-worth & self-love. RUN AS FAR AND AS FAST AS YOU CAN in the opposite direction when you realize you're dealing with a NARC!
💯😥😢
Not believing that level of evil exists.... True
Great insights here. I dealt with one and I saved myself early
Did you set free ?
Great conversation. Please keep backdrop simple. That wall may have just worked perfectly with a wall art or floor pot plant next a side table with vase. 👌 simple with visual focus on the panel. Thanks for great content always.
I know a lady who dated a narcissist,one minute they are out having fun next minute the guy is annoyed by a very very small issue,he will accuse her of wierd things just so that she gets upset and leaves then now he would invite his newest girl, needless to say she use to maintain him and he is the high standard types,we watched the lady lose herself everyday,she became so confused even to hold her prestigious job anymore,then she was dropped left penniless with a newborn in martenity,more than ten years later she is still trying to recover from the spell
You always nail it. The truth total truth.
Great conversation!Great background,
You can decide to be a decent human being, because it all depends on you--thank you for this.
This is wisdom. Take your time and don't be rushed into anything. If you realize you are with a narc RUNNN! Only God can help such people - if they are willing to be helped.
I thank God i found you Benjamin. You’ve been an eye opener to my life . Be blessed 💯
❤️❤️❤️One thing that I've learned about Narcissist is that their conversation is usually VERY surface/shallow. They don't get deep with their emotions, pain or personal struggles in conversation. Never share personal business with people until you discern the fruit of that person's heart. That could take many months, or several years, but let a person prove to you that they are worthy of entering into your personal life. Also... Do NOT date or marry someone until you have dealt with your OWN childhood wounds, insecurities, trauma and personal struggles. You must learn to love YOU before trying to get someone else to.❤️
Congratulations for background. And thank you for this podcast.
This is quite educative but scary at the same time. Lord help me.
I always Like this conversations thank you benja. The background is beautiful but uweeeh I couldn't look at it with straight eyes I was seeing it move 😂
😂😂😂😂the wind was shaking it
When u talked about widows and widowers I remembered the crime show I watch called "deadly women,the women killed their husbands and married more than thrice and still killed them yet people always thought it's just sickness, accidental , nobody suspected foul play
Wow, this is so true. Thank you for enlightened us more.
Well thought out conversation Benjamin.Very educative 👍
Today I feel like I’m in psychology class (tertiary level) 🙏🏾
This is Absolutely true.
Wow! very very true
God bless you abundantly
Never give in to desperation peninah
Maintain your faith,I love that
Weeee for the first time nimeona zulu akiwa serious kwa talk ya leo.
Narcissist is a very big problem,the major leading cause in family break up,divorce,this narcs r used by the devil.
@@bethtoox9435 you are very right
please create another show like this of a narcissists..so helpful
Awesome! Eye opener..
What do you do when the narcissist is your adult daughter?
Great conversation over there.I love the background
Do narcissism have a cure since panadol can't help them?
Thanks Benjamin for this Information.
Wow 😁i love the change 👍
Thank you so much Benjamin for this...in my case is not a romantic relationship But that narcissistic/personality disorder u explained just described my boss... if he is not the center of anything he won't give attention and always torment and oppresses us with his words especially those of us that are well put together and vision driven for our personal growth and development...he hates it when people smile at u or say nice things about you....my question is what do we do? Can't quit now cos i need the money please reply 🙏 🙂
Wow that's a really tough one!!!...I would say you just hang in there. Know that you're not the problem, he is. You might need to play along to boost his ego now that you understand the kind of response that will make him feel powerful. If you're a spiritual person just pray for a better situation but don't put yourself down before that manifests. Stay positive and eventually either he'll move away or you'll find a more condusive work situation. Keep the faith 😊
@@sheexful thank you so much for this comment ❤
First of all if u know that you're dealing with a narcissistic person just keep it to urself and avoid him. At school I've already spotted a narcissistic person and he is my classmate🙆🙆😂😂so I just kept quiet coz I know that narcissists are like sorcerers coz sorcerers don't like pple who have a potential of being a great person. They'll do anything to demolish you just like a sorcerer a sorcerer's main work is to demolish you completely. Hve a good night
@@yaaqubmasoud6580 thank you
You are not your body. Wonderful.
My father is approaching 80 and I think he looks excellent. If I can get there be or look like him, I will have won the lottery.
Kindly discuss about fearful avoidant attachment style.
This is very true....because I experienced this
I think these people don't deserve to be with humans.
This is true dealt with such a person didn't know the difference of social path and narcissistic
Thankyou so much for this
why do we spiritualise everything in Africa? ??? a very good question
That bakground is so hideous aki
Oooouuuuuuuch you are very right
Wow this is so true
Mr wisdom 👌❤️
Is someone like Pablo Escobar today I have heard this name twice from two different platforms.
The comment about widows is very mean...
BZ you look sharp,,,
Benjamin always talks about narcissists but never gives the solution to solving such people. What should they do. You actually just make the narcissists laugh because you describe them well
Its sad,they can never see their narcs,they see themselves perfect,thus a narc can't change,they become worse,even when they age.
@@bethtoox9435 no they do but what is the solution
They can change if they drop the pride and ego...its difficult to advise a proud person ...so its all on them
This is big problem in married ,these two categories:narcissists,thanks so much Sir.
Please I really need your contact to discuss something very important with you, in short I need your advice, please 🙏
Since GOD created all of us even narcist n psychopaths how can they be diagnosid when still babies and their treatment...
Narcissism is aquired in childhood,some children change due to being abused or given to much love,never corrected.
Iyo curtain yenyu inamove
Are you here to learn or to fix curtains 🤔 .