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*Mentioning something related to the environment or context when approaching them makes the conversation feel organic. It’s a smart way to start without coming off as overly aggressive. Respecting the friend’s presence while still expressing interest is key!*
I cringed so hard when the first group rejected you😂 The italian girls were nice, you should definitely do something later, they look like they love to party Also, i just got a date for next week with this girl ive been talking to using your texting tips man It took me about 6 messages in total😂
I think another think when talking to a girl or any person in general is to be mindful on the location to talk like don't strike up a conversation in the middle of the side walk or road as others are getting by and my interrupt your flow and ruin it. And sometime others maybe join in uninvited. What I'm saying is be careful and mindful on the location to when talking to a person. I had that one in school where I talked to someone and another person try to get by and I didn't want to feel awkward or interrupt the flow of the brief conversation
Did you say you don’t like Italian food just because they were from Italy to make them seek for you validation and you would have said the equivalent for every nationality?
CHALLENGE: Go beyond talking and getting an Instagram. The Italian girl was basically telling you take me to this “Amazing” bar. I want to see you pick them up and go on a date right there and then. Party, then go back to your place and “close the deal”. That is the ultimate goal right?
That level of intimacy and voluminous content would only behind a pay wall 🤫 💡 Now that I think about it, that'd ALSO be a whole notha level of passive income revenue stream for the homie Ben
So, after small talk, should you always take numbers from both girls or just one? What if you only like one girl in the group? Can you ask only her for her number and ignore her friend? Would that be okay?
you were talking to 2 people who don't speak English you spoke very quickly and with a lot of difficult words and when they spoke simple words you didn't understand like wtf dude next time try to be slower and try to understand them, other than that good video
ya ive approached a group of gurls & got some numbers.this reminds me of a guy who was approaching groups of hotties n vegas as a prank or dare deez 4 girls who he approached said they would do him at the same time if he bought them a drink but he couldnt bc the vid was for fun
You're the goat bro, if I ever have a son, i'll make him watch your videos if he ever feels less confident towards women or if ever feels that "approaching fobia or anxiety"
@4:35 she said "give me your number" and it appear that she gave its one to you, what happened during that blank to reverse that situation and is it THAT important you taking her number and not the opposite?
I don’t know your account. But it’s for me hard to understand in my stage of life, to give Any women to much attention. To less you care, to more you enjoy the best version of yourself. They are like bees around good honey
I just need to come to the fact that you and I run game differently, I H-Ate the food and the People were ru-de lol wut? Atleast you got what you wanted, your not cringe like some other PUAs on here but I dont think you prefer smoothness you seem to like a more explosive approach
I had this issue where I successfully approached a group of 3 hot girls, took them to a club. I ordered a round of drinks and then they just started interacting with each other leaving me out of the picture. Any advice on what to do in this situation?
i'm no expert, but you just need to interject into one of their inside jokes. Like if they were talking about a story about something, i'd say like "omg I remember when X happened that was so crazy" and be animated in my facial expressions and hand movements. It always gets a laugh, unless they're not into you at all. And once you get the laugh you start some sort of other conversation through a comment or something. And if you don't do the second part, literally repeat the first part lol. It's one of those jokes that really doesn't get old and you can just copy/paste into any group interaction where people are talking about stuff you don't know. This is what I do :/
@@Esaminatore this is the wrong approach. In some cases, ordering drinks is perfectly viable and expected. It is true, some girls will just use you for that. But if you don't have enough attraction built up, it is an easy way to build more. So it just depends.
idk I've heard from a pua in a magazine interview dat u gotta hit on them at the same time to try n get a 3sum. a guy n a fb group I was n met three girls n a club & slept with all of them dat night at his apt.
If you've been liking the challenge TRUST ME when i say you haven't seen ANYTHING yet... ;)
👫 My 3 step formula to approach & attract women (full course): benseda.com/gentleman-approach?el=yt-vid-italian
Rarely see women on their own, knowing how to approach a group is very useful.
you are right. Woman are rarely on their own.
in my city, they are always with a guy which makes this even more difficult.
*Mentioning something related to the environment or context when approaching them makes the conversation feel organic. It’s a smart way to start without coming off as overly aggressive. Respecting the friend’s presence while still expressing interest is key!*
I give massive props for this with groups . Groups are the toughest and take enormous social skills and self esteem . This challenge is impressive
The larger the group, the more difficult.
People will watch these videos in the future just to see how to cold approach. Amazing
Dissing Italian on their food is a bold move
THE LINE AT 1:06 IS GOLDEN BRO
I lost a very beautiful girl just out of fear that she was with her friend, what she might think. This was an eye opening video.
Bro do more videos like this of approaching a girl in a group. Most guys struggle with this.
Great as always
Thank you! Cheers!
I cringed so hard when the first group rejected you😂
The italian girls were nice, you should definitely do something later, they look like they love to party
Also, i just got a date for next week with this girl ive been talking to using your texting tips man
It took me about 6 messages in total😂
LFGG
I think another think when talking to a girl or any person in general is to be mindful on the location to talk like don't strike up a conversation in the middle of the side walk or road as others are getting by and my interrupt your flow and ruin it. And sometime others maybe join in uninvited. What I'm saying is be careful and mindful on the location to when talking to a person. I had that one in school where I talked to someone and another person try to get by and I didn't want to feel awkward or interrupt the flow of the brief conversation
Let’s go even role playing the friend that tries to get you down
I watched this video know I have 10 Italian girls 😎
😂
I have 4 fr 😭😭
I'm on a whole new level
We need to see you in a Fresh and FIt podcast with the women
Yeah
All these things would work if I looked like you Benjamin 😌
Maya-make approaching great again 😂
Did you say you don’t like Italian food just because they were from Italy to make them seek for you validation and you would have said the equivalent for every nationality?
Italian girls are very friendly, feminine and traditional.
Do they often do same-day lays?
I dont think so. I think they are often fashionjunkies, slightly bitchy but can be nice as well.
I think 2 is easier than 1
CHALLENGE: Go beyond talking and getting an Instagram. The Italian girl was basically telling you take me to this “Amazing” bar. I want to see you pick them up and go on a date right there and then. Party, then go back to your place and “close the deal”. That is the ultimate goal right?
I will. Not be posting me bringing a girl home bro this is not OF lol
That level of intimacy and voluminous content would only behind a pay wall 🤫 💡 Now that I think about it, that'd ALSO be a whole notha level of passive income revenue stream for the homie Ben
@@TreAloisio He'd make a fortune doing that.
@@realbenjaminsedaI’ll subscribe to your OF
Nice job approaching those big groups. You need a completely different level of "0 fucks given" to actually do that.Absolutely mad lad Benji 👌
So, after small talk, should you always take numbers from both girls or just one? What if you only like one girl in the group? Can you ask only her for her number and ignore her friend? Would that be okay?
i just got back from italy and i agree the food there isnt great,, 90% of the restaurants are pasta and pizza
1:24 MOG THE GENERAL PUBLIC
Foreign women are way more easy going than American women. No hate I’m just saying.
What do you do when you get dates with so many women, have you got a girlfriend and do you just stop seeing them after a first date
Works everytime. When it works. 😂 And when you're Benjamin Seda.
Some of those girls did want to stop (and why didn’t they?). Some of them rarely stop and would want to talk though.
you were talking to 2 people who don't speak English you spoke very quickly and with a lot of difficult words and when they spoke simple words you didn't understand like wtf dude next time try to be slower and try to understand them, other than that good video
I suck with women but I don’t think I would insult someone’s culture like that without anything nice to say
That was lame of him.
If there is a group of more than 3 can't you just approach one directly and as long as she stops it's good?
ya ive approached a group of gurls & got some numbers.this reminds me of a guy who was approaching groups of hotties n vegas as a prank or dare deez 4 girls who he approached said they would do him at the same time if he bought them a drink but he couldnt bc the vid was for fun
Make a video about how you made so much money
Do live to prove it..... Proper live streaming.... Not recorded live streaming.....
He's not doing anything exceptional and he's very, very polite, maybe they give him the number but are not thst sexually interested
You're the goat bro, if I ever have a son, i'll make him watch your videos if he ever feels less confident towards women or if ever feels that "approaching fobia or anxiety"
@4:35 she said "give me your number" and it appear that she gave its one to you, what happened during that blank to reverse that situation and is it THAT important you taking her number and not the opposite?
It is important that you get the number, yes
I thought you'd approached the girls in the thumbnail
@@seanhflynn Good job with the approaches!
Bro is filling the the gap after RSD Tyler left
Not sure if I want to work on a Italian chicken farm.
What's the best why to ask woman fir her insta
The first group of girls you tried to approach, were very hot I could tell and they were dressed very sexy, like clubbing.
W rizz I guess 😅❤
PRACTICE
I don’t know your account. But it’s for me hard to understand in my stage of life, to give Any women to much attention. To less you care, to more you enjoy the best version of yourself. They are like bees around good honey
MAGA 💪
so picks up butterfaces and then blurs the faces?
I just need to come to the fact that you and I run game differently, I H-Ate the food and the People were ru-de lol wut? Atleast you got what you wanted, your not cringe like some other PUAs on here but I dont think you prefer smoothness you seem to like a more explosive approach
W’s in chat
REHERSING
Blurring faces ruins quality of video
bro u are below average in italia
How so?
I had this issue where I successfully approached a group of 3 hot girls, took them to a club. I ordered a round of drinks and then they just started interacting with each other leaving me out of the picture. Any advice on what to do in this situation?
i'm no expert, but you just need to interject into one of their inside jokes. Like if they were talking about a story about something, i'd say like "omg I remember when X happened that was so crazy" and be animated in my facial expressions and hand movements. It always gets a laugh, unless they're not into you at all. And once you get the laugh you start some sort of other conversation through a comment or something. And if you don't do the second part, literally repeat the first part lol. It's one of those jokes that really doesn't get old and you can just copy/paste into any group interaction where people are talking about stuff you don't know.
This is what I do :/
You ordered a round of drinks 😢 those girls exploited you man, you're too nice, that was not a successful approach
@@Esaminatore They expect that.
@@Esaminatore this is the wrong approach. In some cases, ordering drinks is perfectly viable and expected. It is true, some girls will just use you for that. But if you don't have enough attraction built up, it is an easy way to build more. So it just depends.
idk I've heard from a pua in a magazine interview dat u gotta hit on them at the same time to try n get a 3sum. a guy n a fb group I was n met three girls n a club & slept with all of them dat night at his apt.
Bro your like Aoi Todo from Jujitsu Kaisen