I've always been the " friend," the " buddy," the shoulder to cry on, the " fill in guy," and I got sick of it. I got tired of being a woman's second choice. If I can't be a woman's first choice, then I'd rather be no choice at all. Never settle.
@@alwaysabiggafish3305 I’m curious, how would you do that? Or if you have any pointers (female here) how would your female friend/buddy get you to see her differently and seduce you?
The old saying is, "Do not let people step on you or push you around." That basically means to have boundaries. Women were given too much trust for a long time. Starting with my late teens into my 20s, married women approached me. Morals are a very important quality.
I'm convinced that a "nice guy" is an OVER negotiator. He's willing to negotiate his autonomy, his boundaries, his standards, and just about anything that forms his masculinity. Everything is on the chopping block. In turn, women will find him needy, emasculated, creepy, and predatory. As well as a burden. He'll come off as desperate because he'll do anything for approval. However, if you're willing to let go of all of your expectations, then you'll have nothing to lose. Nothing to lose equals nothing to fear. No fear means high confidence. Women will notice it and before you know it, you'll start getting that positive feed back for free.
And that’s why PRETENDING to overnegotiate is a good tactic to attract women. They realize you’re making fun of that group of men, and they respond favorably
Yeah, nah. This cuts both ways. Do you notice how pathologically narcissistic people react when they're ignored? Rejected? Nay, SHUNNED? Codependency is the shared factor between both sets of people. It doesn't matter of women find this guy "needy or creepy" because that's what they do too! They constantly on social media fishing for likes using what? That's right - themselves. And it's also really creepy.
@@marcusmcgraw3519 You're oh so close. A female narcissist absolutely hates being left behind. They hate losing their "catch" especially if they thought they had you waiting around for them. So the trick for your idea is to PRETEND to be on that 'hook', then when they come back around later, to ignore them completely. And I must stress, you must not answer anything. Block them if you must. Move away if you must. But never talk to them again.
@marcusmcgraw3519 I've noticed that, too. The ladies definitely get a big kick out of men mocking the nice guy. Plus, I think it makes them feel like you "get it."
A ‘true’ nice guy (the problem version) is someone who doesn’t know himself, and has zero experience of what boundaries even are, because, mostly, his mother mollycoddled him.
This is the best interview she’s ever done because these two guys are asking relevant questions and they allow her to talk without interrupting for the most part. Excellent video. Bravo to all three !!
I cannot care less about hot women or how to approach them. I am only after that woman who is physically, mentally and emotionally present with me and me only. I’m speaking from experience
It's actually pretty simple. If it has to be forced too much, let it go. But don't be afraid to talk to women. What's the worst they could say....no? Carry yourself with class. Be as cool as a cucumber. Because there's so many fishes in the sea.
@prashanthb6521 what??? For approaching a woman? You don't live in the middle east. You can talk to women. We aren't a different species. Think about it as a learning experience. Were you great at riding a bike the first time? Absolutely not. But with practice and time, you became better. You fell less. You gained confidence. Most of life is like that. But you have to be willing to skin your knees and get hurt. But aren't you so glad you did?
@@RachelKagiorgis1111Exactly my experience. I feel like every interaction is so amazing it’s an opportunity to learn and grow and understand women better even though at times they can get irrationally unreasonable, but i kinda feel alive when there is banter with a beautiful energy and there is no outcome dependency those are really fun moments to live by.
When I was young, I was poor, and women did not need me. When I got older, they come up to me and say, "you drive a nice car." No thanks, I don't need soccer moms. Stay single!
Why would you do that to yourself ? Because I don't find it easy to live without them. I would rather fight and have differences than not be with them at all,it kind of drives me crazy to be alone.
Personally, I don’t speak to a woman in that way, meaning acting as if I am pursuing her. In my opinion, it’s her job to make the assessment as to what she is seeing otherwise she won’t be able to see anything beyond that anyway . I’m speaking about the larger games being played within society so if I have to reduce myself in order to attract her, then she doesn’t really understand what attraction is ,in context to the world around her.
Money, luxury and comfort does not triumph over human physiology of desire,needs and wants...its a void that can not be fill by any 1 human to another so therefore dont try to be anyone soulmate or sole provider but rather have an experience with no fear of loosing or keeping!!!
Remove any expectations of a particular desired outcome. I did this a while ago after being a reforming Simp, and after the date the woman was super complimentary, saying I was very confident.
I don't agree at all as a woman. I don't say that women don't cheat, but I think that people are what they are and don't shift from authentically decent nice person to a liars and cheaters. I dated toxic narc man and of course he had taken all my energy, but I also dated nice men and I didn't cheat at all, nor I thought to do it, even if I had many opportunities actually. If u are a decent consistent person u simply don't act that ways. Maybe some men look too much for "charming externally image oriented" women. Or someone who is good to act as a victim to protect. We all should learn to search authenticity, consistency, honesty, maturity
I disagree. I think the main reason women cheat is because they're too lazy to break up before doing what they'd do anyway. I've heard so many stories about women throwing away really good relationships because they got some attention.
@nightmareTomek if U read carefully what I wrote, it it's written that women that cheat are already liars and superficial, they don't change from a kind and consistent person, and maybe many many men look for these kind of women because they are charming, or play victim roles. I don't say that these kind of women don't cheat, for whatever superficial reason.
I'm well over 40 years old and I still need to learn how to even land dates in the first place. 100% of ladies I've asked out in my lifetime always said no, eww, not if you're the last man on earth etc.
@@nightmareTomek It’s not fear of rejection, it’s a matter of knowing I’m wasting my time. It’s a 100% chance of rejection after a lady asks what I do for a living or asks education level. 100% ladies do this 100% of the time. I live in Washington DC. As a man I learned the only men that get dates hold a masters degree, earn over $250k per year and have some fancy job title.
@@animestarlord9021 Yeah, I know, I've noticed the same thing. Tell it to the world famous psychologist, she's the one who doesn't know, and she's the one spreading her opinion on a wide scale. Kinda was thinking about JPeterson for a moment instead of Sadia...
She’s not crazy, she’s just strategically scaring off the faint-hearted to weed out the weak ones. It’s a filtering process, really. The ones who love crazy? Well, they’re her kryptonite, because they’re ready to dive in headfirst without hesitation. But she knows the real prize is the man who steps up, fully aware of the chaos, and says, “Challenge accepted.” That’s the kind of confidence she’s looking for the kind that can handle her storm and still keep his footing.
man i like to hear her, but she just said "im telling the true, im crazy" then even talks about ADHD like its an advantage, really lets think about this.
If you are ADD/ADHD, Then 💯 you are on the Autistic Spectrum. Oftentimes that CAN be a HUGE advantage because it's common for Neurodivergent People often take individual pieces and can build them into an entire mental picture from those pieces. Neurotypical People only tend to think linearly in a single direction.
@stephensegal5187 Well i don't agree with that "Neurotypical" A smart "neurohealthy" have the best access to any memory, calculates and find patterns in the pieces of the puzzle. Not to mention a better mental state, to behave in any adversity.
@@stephensegal5187 a neorotypical can achieve the same mental picture from taking individual pieces, if not better. He just doesn't make a fuss about it. ADHD has become a label for a desirable trait now, Sadia isn't the only one using it this way.
I'm not even surprised that she did. She's wrong 40% of the time. Actually watching her videos made me consider whether people get a PhD in psychology not for the purpose of gaining knowledge, but for their opinion to gain credibility.
If you want to be happy living a king's life Never make a pretty woman your wife If you want to be happy living a king's life Never make a pretty woman your wife Now all you have to do is just what I say And then you may be jolly, merry and gay Therefore, from a logical point of view Better marry a woman uglier than you From a logical point of view Always marry a woman uglier than you A pretty woman make a husband look small And very often causes downfall Soon as she marries then and there she starts To do the things that will break your heart And when you think that shе is belonging to you She is calling somebody еlse to do Man, from a logical point of view Better marry a woman uglier than you From a logical point of view Always marry a woman uglier than you But if you make an ugly woman your wife You can be sure you will be happy in all your life She will never do things in a funny way To allow the neighbor have things to say She wouldn't disregard the husband at all By exhibiting herself too bitter and cold Man, from a logical point of view Better marry a woman uglier than you From a logical point of view Always marry a woman uglier than you An ugly woman give you your meals on time And try to make you comfortable in mind At times when you lie sick in your cozy bed She will both caress you and scratch your head And not a minute in the night will she leave you alone It seems you want to melt the cold from your bone Man, from a logical point of view Better marry a woman uglier than you From a logical point of view Always marry a woman uglier than you If a man that's not your friend say that you have no taste Marry an ugly woman above disgrace One who is cute, looking barbarous and rough The skin like alligator, bumpy and tough Pigeon-hole, bull-leg, across in her eye She got two lips that look like a big bow tie Boy, from a logical point of view Better marry a woman uglier than you From a logical point of view Always marry a woman uglier than you That's right, man From a logical point of view Always marry a woman uglier than you Aye!
The problem is that most men dont have anough options and times where women are actually interested, so you have to go up and speak to women you are interested in, and do it so often that you dont place too much importance on 1 interaction.
An episode I would love to see - Sadia reviewing the main points from Rollo Tomasi's book "The Rational Male: the Player's Handbook" and saying yay or nay to the points.
"When you talk to women with no intent in trying to get with her, ... there's no fear of rejection." Well, there often is in my experience, and with good reason. Imagine a nerdy high school guy trying to make any kind of conversation with a cheerleader in his class; she is quite likely to react with disgust, no? Even if she does not say so out loud, you can often read "Eww, why are you talking to me? GO AWAY!" on her face. Adult women are generally better about this, but any average-looking or below guy who went to a co-ed high school is likely to have internalized the risk of not giving attractive women a wide berth.
The problem is women view men as nothing more than se× objects. I keep meeting women who want to sIeep with me but it's impossible to find a woman who will talk to me and treat me like a human being. As a result I reject these women because I am not a se× object and don't appreciate being treated like one. Also I wish I could find a woman who would let me provide for her. But that's impossible to find as well.
How is this a problem? That’s what women complain about in reverse, that means you’re getting the attention you want. I sure hope you’re not tryna overplay your hand here
I keep getting objectified as well. It’s disconcerting as I’d like a real connection based on genuine care and friendship as a foundation. Because, I’d really like a companion that I genuinely like and appreciate first before anyone tries their hand at romancing me. I think people need to reflect on their values.
Same here brother. I consider myself attractive, tall, go to the gym and like taking care of myself. I'm pretty easy going, have a good sense of humor and quite social. I've had women want to simply hook up with me and when I tell them no or don't try to, they lose interest. It's like this instant gratification of validation of having sex with an attractive guy I guess.
Imagine 2 dates: Mr nice and Mr Badboy Mr Nice creates some sort of elaborate diner or whatever. Something to create a grandiose moment in his mind. The truth is he feels that without the pomp and circumstance he is not enough for her. In her mind she knows she has done nothing to earn this and is ONLY there because of her beauty. Date one he has begun to put her on a pedestal and by the end of the date she will begin to look down on him. She feels out of his league because that is precisely what he showed her. The entire date is fluff. He never makes her feel desirable, silly, sad/happy, emotionally engaged, jerked around a little, played with, and never has a single moment of uncertainty about where this is going, he takes her seriously and he never fucks with her. Winning this guy is like winning a participation trophy. Nobody likes that crap. She will not waste one moment thinking about this dude. Mr Badboy takes her out for a walk in the park, then with a big smile makes her buy coffee because...equal rights! The moment he meets her he will look her up and down then give a "Holy Shit!" or something, then when she asks "What?!!" He gives her... "Oh Nothing!" GAME ON! From the second he meets her he plays with her like a little boy plays with plays with a little girl on a school playground. Push/pull, high/low, up /down, left/right...She has no idea what is next. Fun, unpredictable, exciting, will physically engage with her (constant little touches and kisses), will physically play with her (tickle, throw her on his shoulder etc), will engage her emotions and take her on a fun emotional trip. Maybe buy an ice-cream then dab her in the face with it has he hands it to her. If she is not ready to take things further after an hour or so (he will make her turn him down) he will not react but will eventually suggest he has to go, "we should do this again".....Then bounce...Radio silence for days! GAME OFF! She goes home and thinks about him non stop, wonders if he called one of his FWBs, thinks about how strong he was, how he made her feel, how he looked down at her and how it felt, how she currently feels. A few days later he will eventually reach out. If she doesn't all but crawl though the phone lines to get to him he will ghost her and she knows it. The entire date is a roller coaster, she feels thrilled, desired, engaged emotionally, felt his physical power, felt his desire for her, felt desirable with him, had so much fun, felt uncertainty, had no idea what his feeling were yet loved what he showed her. She knows he doesn't give a shit about whether or not they meet again, and she knows other women are lining up to do so. He didn't take anything about her seriously and she had a great time!! Bottom line she wants MORE! Winning this guy would be like winning the lottery! The difference is in how they make her feel. Stupid men cast some sort of judgement on women for liking this stuff??!! lol I liked Sadia, but she definitely likes bad boys. Look at her huge smile, body language, and how she touches her hair at 10:10 when they ask her about liking bad boys. If either one of the dudes interviewing her were bad bays they would call he out on her bullshit and played with her a bit. The spiel on historical bad boys is a distraction from the truth and an intentional shift......They should have listened to her crap then called her out on that too! Opportunity missed lads. Stop being so .....Nice...... Remove Nice and inset FORGETTABLE! Hope that helps
This woman is literally hyperbolising and generalising for clicks. If she is a therapist, I’m very worried for her clients. This woman really should focus on healing herself before trying to advise anybody else.
My problem is the opposite of the title. Women want me as a lover but refuse to treat me like a friend of even a human being. I refuse to sIeep with these women because I don't tolerate disrespect.
This makes no sense. If they want to sleep with you it’s because they respect you. Same with men who try to talk down on whores. They’re respecting these women more than they want to admit
The reason why divorce is so high is because women get bored easily, and can have access to so many guys she thinks is better than her current man, so she can leave at anytime, and there are no consequences. Most of the time the women even benefits from divorce. So it's a win win situation for women to leave.
8:41 is such a goofy question because women don't have the experience of approaching women for casual sex or relationships unless she's a lesbian. A straight women have no clue how goofy and all over the place women act .
Age is important to mention😊 age. 2 Groups 20s and 30s and 40s and 50s. Then the last part of the early 60s. It won't be the same in those groups to approach women.
I think what nice guys mostly lack is the ability to be confrontational. Telling men and women their actions are wrong is a masculine trait coz it shows you're not afraid and you can handle yourself when you're challenged. Most nice guys lack these traits which makes them look less masculine. How I know? Coz I'm like that and I realize now.
I wouldn’t either if I was portraying myself as that undesirable. Why not try to force them to qualify for yourself instead? That’s how you flip the power dynamic back in your favor and regain some of your sanity. Even if it doesn’t end in bed, it will end with you keeping your self respect
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
A beautiful, inteligent and charismatic woman, but every title is 99% clickbait... so i'm sorry, but I'll have to say goodbye and look for another beautiful, charismatic and inteligent woman that gives me the YT content that is promised. If one day you'd like to meet a handsome, intelligent, funny and GOOD brazilian man, I'll be here for you 😂😂😂
Boundaries with your boss? Oof. Bite not the habd that feeds you I understand there is a balance but that is one situation that is harder and scarier than most Same with family If you are dependent. Swallowing your pride uf done for the right reasons, might be the clever option instead of speaking out and defending yourself
@ approximately 8 minutes... talking about how hot women have a skewed view of how men will do anything to get with them... the same "bat shit crazy" can happen to the hot man.... he starts to believe that all women want sex from every man.
Regarding your course,I believe you are using inductive or abductive reasoning .(likely both) A man with good intentions and may still be a flawed individual,that keeps running into disrespectfl people,in a disrespectful world,isn’t really the problem. So,in reality,your course should be to solve the real issue,which in this case, would be disrespectful women…
Adhd is not hyper intelligence, come on now…. Have you actually spoken not several, .Like 40-50 people with adhd? The experience ranges, and like autism is not by default hyper intelligent,
Rephrased: An idle mind is always up to no good. Some like it as idle hands are the devils workshop. But that is religious in nature. It is not fact based. Sadia is fact based. Hmmm. Good has boundaries. I say it this way. A worthy husband is a "spiritual leader" to those close to him. For example a wife if he has one. Spiritual leader refers to the spirit within mankind and not religious spiritual. Rephrased: A man who leads from the heart and by the heart of his followers is not only a worthy man, He is a man to be reconned with. He does not accept violations of his spirit or those dear to him.
Love that Sadia points out how hot girls crazy scale is for a good reason. I believe this is a obsession of Sadias for a reason and yes I have seen that at a big level myself being a barmaid at a strip club and that was super eye opening. Psychologically learnt more there from real life than any books ever which is why I am so confident to say this. One thing I think Sadia continues to put out there is her own insecurities due to the toxic men she herself attracts. She attracts then as she hasn't yet learnt her own preach. High value women. She is clearly obsessed with her hair and looks and the way others see her that she isn't doing the real work on herself or evolving. What I've seen is women like her in a club who are very strong in what they will and won't accept without controlling it and being masculine as a woman only attracts that toxicity, as she has said in this podcast then there's a ad to be masculine? I've seen several videos she has been a guest on where this has been made apparent. Matt especially. I hope it being so obvious to Sadias followers gives her inspiration to work on herself so she doesn't project her traumas onto others and can mature and level up even more than she already has. Own experience is great to reflect in but shouldn't be the entire focus all the time. Compromise and personal growth would make her even better. I know it's been said to her I other podcasts a few months that ago but let's hope she is working in that not just shut down personal growth cause I do like her content for the most part but yes does get tiring watching her not deal with her trauma from previous toxic relationships not allowing ppl to get close whilst preaching to others to do different to her. She needs to heal from her past so all her co tent isn't focused on so called toxic men all the time.Toxic Men (men who rejected her) or the low value of attractive women (she feels inferior to). Something new please Sadia?
You kept on saying that you talk about dating because people are not interested in learning about childhood trauma. I think you’re mistaken. Your videos have become redundant and uninteresting to watch. If you were to discuss how childhood trauma impacts our adult lives it would be much more interesting.
Im in my prime, I know my worth. I was raised to be polite and educated, and that never worked for me. Fast forward 2 decades and I have women try to get my attention, every, sngle day. Pain, God and my self determination have chisseled me into a stronger and tougher man. Thing is, I saw and experienced female BS from a young age and realised that AWALT. I will never marry.
I love Sadia and I agree with her on MOST things. I don't agree that women are cheating on men far more than men are cheating on women, except for where she lives in Dubai and/or these circles where women marry for money. While I don't condone cheating, in those cases it makes sense. Pay attention to the type of women she's describing. That is a small percentage of women. So, again, i don't agree that women are cheating on men more than men cheat on women.
she wasn't being honest when the hosts asked how to approach hot girls. these guys shouldn't approach hot girls because they will get rejected unless their podcasting status is utilized because they're average looking.
@robertcoleman2101 has that worked for you? the best method is having beautiful girls chase you. but you need to be the best version of yourself in terms of status, money and appearance
@@maxhung69 nah women want what they can't have and besides if you don't try to impress them or go gaga eyed at them it puts you into a different category as others
@@robertcoleman2101 you're not on their radar if they're not already attracted to you. playing hard to get is like a tree falling in the forest - no one will hear the sound.
I've always been the " friend," the " buddy," the shoulder to cry on, the " fill in guy," and I got sick of it. I got tired of being a woman's second choice. If I can't be a woman's first choice, then I'd rather be no choice at all. Never settle.
And when you are not there any more, you are the worst person in her world 😅
Same! But the woman version 😅
the key is turning friendship into seduction.
This is foundational for sure.
@@alwaysabiggafish3305 I’m curious, how would you do that? Or if you have any pointers (female here) how would your female friend/buddy get you to see her differently and seduce you?
The old saying is, "Do not let people step on you or push you around." That basically means to have boundaries. Women were given too much trust for a long time. Starting with my late teens into my 20s, married women approached me. Morals are a very important quality.
I'm convinced that a "nice guy" is an OVER negotiator. He's willing to negotiate his autonomy, his boundaries, his standards, and just about anything that forms his masculinity. Everything is on the chopping block. In turn, women will find him needy, emasculated, creepy, and predatory. As well as a burden. He'll come off as desperate because he'll do anything for approval.
However, if you're willing to let go of all of your expectations, then you'll have nothing to lose. Nothing to lose equals nothing to fear. No fear means high confidence. Women will notice it and before you know it, you'll start getting that positive feed back for free.
And that’s why PRETENDING to overnegotiate is a good tactic to attract women. They realize you’re making fun of that group of men, and they respond favorably
Yeah, nah. This cuts both ways. Do you notice how pathologically narcissistic people react when they're ignored? Rejected? Nay, SHUNNED?
Codependency is the shared factor between both sets of people. It doesn't matter of women find this guy "needy or creepy" because that's what they do too! They constantly on social media fishing for likes using what? That's right - themselves.
And it's also really creepy.
@@marcusmcgraw3519 You're oh so close. A female narcissist absolutely hates being left behind. They hate losing their "catch" especially if they thought they had you waiting around for them. So the trick for your idea is to PRETEND to be on that 'hook', then when they come back around later, to ignore them completely. And I must stress, you must not answer anything. Block them if you must. Move away if you must. But never talk to them again.
@marcusmcgraw3519 I've noticed that, too. The ladies definitely get a big kick out of men mocking the nice guy. Plus, I think it makes them feel like you "get it."
A ‘true’ nice guy (the problem version) is someone who doesn’t know himself, and has zero experience of what boundaries even are, because, mostly, his mother mollycoddled him.
This is the best interview she’s ever done because these two guys are asking relevant questions and they allow her to talk without interrupting for the most part. Excellent video. Bravo to all three !!
good video yet again, I would only add for people to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Borlest helped me a tonnn
I cannot care less about hot women or how to approach them. I am only after that woman who is physically, mentally and emotionally present with me and me only. I’m speaking from experience
It's actually pretty simple. If it has to be forced too much, let it go. But don't be afraid to talk to women. What's the worst they could say....no? Carry yourself with class. Be as cool as a cucumber. Because there's so many fishes in the sea.
What's the worst that could happen ? ..... end up in jail or mob lynched.
@prashanthb6521 what??? For approaching a woman? You don't live in the middle east. You can talk to women. We aren't a different species. Think about it as a learning experience. Were you great at riding a bike the first time? Absolutely not. But with practice and time, you became better. You fell less. You gained confidence. Most of life is like that. But you have to be willing to skin your knees and get hurt. But aren't you so glad you did?
Avoiding women is a wise thing to do. Men gain nothing from it.
@@RachelKagiorgis1111Exactly my experience. I feel like every interaction is so amazing it’s an opportunity to learn and grow and understand women better even though at times they can get irrationally unreasonable, but i kinda feel alive when there is banter with a beautiful energy and there is no outcome dependency those are really fun moments to live by.
Whats funny is becoming more misogynistic made me better with women
When I was young, I was poor, and women did not need me. When I got older, they come up to me and say, "you drive a nice car."
No thanks, I don't need soccer moms.
Stay single!
I was once a nice guy…. Now I’m just a guy who keeps away from women. ✌🏼
lmao okay
Why would you do that to yourself ? Because I don't find it easy to live without them. I would rather fight and have differences than not be with them at all,it kind of drives me crazy to be alone.
@Morpheus_neo_trinity well good for you but a lot of us don't want anything to do with them for a number of well documented reasons.
@@cfpzona and yet you complain about them so much 🙄
@@cfpzona Don't you have physical needs ? How do you deal with them, if you have any ?
Personally, I don’t speak to a woman in that way, meaning acting as if I am pursuing her.
In my opinion, it’s her job to make the assessment as to what she is seeing otherwise she won’t be able to see anything beyond that anyway .
I’m speaking about the larger games being played within society so if I have to reduce myself in order to attract her, then she doesn’t really understand what attraction is ,in context to the world around her.
Have boundaries fellas.
💯💯💯💯
Money, luxury and comfort does not triumph over human physiology of desire,needs and wants...its a void that can not be fill by any 1 human to another so therefore dont try to be anyone soulmate or sole provider but rather have an experience with no fear of loosing or keeping!!!
I love you Sadia
She is so intelligent gosh
@@AkhunLayee girl or boy?
@@AkhunLayee are you a girl or a boy?
@@AkhunLayee sigh…..whatever don’t waste my time
You are sooo cool and refreshing - please keep it up!
Stop simping...
Good job on the clickbait title. Clearly written by one of the greatest intellectual of our time.
Remove any expectations of a particular desired outcome. I did this a while ago after being a reforming Simp, and after the date the woman was super complimentary, saying I was very confident.
Reforming simp? That's hilarious as he'll. But oh boy. I know what you mean.
Thanks for sharing this, Sadia. It has been very informative. God bless you!
This is true, my forefathers are committed to the marriage. These days nobody is committed to marriage. And that's why divorce is high
Ive stopped talking to women in public in general cause in the past most would just ignore me anyway so im better off doing things on my own
Same.
Ironically you’re more attractive to them now. Keep it up.
@@KingdomofKinship cheers
@@colinreidcr Literally bro, treat them like a little bit more like dirt beneath your shoes. Realise you're the prize.
@@KingdomofKinship Ill keep that in mind
Sadia, saying NICE guys is not that good it's wrong... WEAK men is the one we should all avoid. Jordan Peterson say it very clear !
I don't agree at all as a woman. I don't say that women don't cheat, but I think that people are what they are and don't shift from authentically decent nice person to a liars and cheaters. I dated toxic narc man and of course he had taken all my energy, but I also dated nice men and I didn't cheat at all, nor I thought to do it, even if I had many opportunities actually. If u are a decent consistent person u simply don't act that ways. Maybe some men look too much for "charming externally image oriented" women. Or someone who is good to act as a victim to protect. We all should learn to search authenticity, consistency, honesty, maturity
I agree. The main reason that women cheat is because of their childhood. Not because their are together with a nice man.
I disagree. I think the main reason women cheat is because they're too lazy to break up before doing what they'd do anyway. I've heard so many stories about women throwing away really good relationships because they got some attention.
@nightmareTomek if U read carefully what I wrote, it it's written that women that cheat are already liars and superficial, they don't change from a kind and consistent person, and maybe many many men look for these kind of women because they are charming, or play victim roles. I don't say that these kind of women don't cheat, for whatever superficial reason.
7.09 en dan de ‘gekheid’ van Sadia laten lopen, dat is nou juist interessant, misschien heel beleefd maar voor mij een gemiste kans 🙏
I'm well over 40 years old and I still need to learn how to even land dates in the first place. 100% of ladies I've asked out in my lifetime always said no, eww, not if you're the last man on earth etc.
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Well you heard the psychologists advice. Get over your fear of rejection... Such an... intelligent advice.
@@nightmareTomek It’s not fear of rejection, it’s a matter of knowing I’m wasting my time. It’s a 100% chance of rejection after a lady asks what I do for a living or asks education level. 100% ladies do this 100% of the time. I live in Washington DC. As a man I learned the only men that get dates hold a masters degree, earn over $250k per year and have some fancy job title.
@@animestarlord9021 Yeah, I know, I've noticed the same thing. Tell it to the world famous psychologist, she's the one who doesn't know, and she's the one spreading her opinion on a wide scale.
Kinda was thinking about JPeterson for a moment instead of Sadia...
She’s not crazy, she’s just strategically scaring off the faint-hearted to weed out the weak ones. It’s a filtering process, really. The ones who love crazy? Well, they’re her kryptonite, because they’re ready to dive in headfirst without hesitation. But she knows the real prize is the man who steps up, fully aware of the chaos, and says, “Challenge accepted.” That’s the kind of confidence she’s looking for the kind that can handle her storm and still keep his footing.
man i like to hear her, but she just said "im telling the true, im crazy" then even talks about ADHD like its an advantage, really lets think about this.
If you are ADD/ADHD, Then 💯 you are on the Autistic Spectrum. Oftentimes that CAN be a HUGE advantage because it's common for Neurodivergent People often take individual pieces and can build them into an entire mental picture from those pieces. Neurotypical People only tend to think linearly in a single direction.
@stephensegal5187 Well i don't agree with that "Neurotypical" A smart "neurohealthy" have the best access to any memory, calculates and find patterns in the pieces of the puzzle. Not to mention a better mental state, to behave in any adversity.
@@stephensegal5187 a neorotypical can achieve the same mental picture from taking individual pieces, if not better. He just doesn't make a fuss about it. ADHD has become a label for a desirable trait now, Sadia isn't the only one using it this way.
I'm not even surprised that she did. She's wrong 40% of the time. Actually watching her videos made me consider whether people get a PhD in psychology not for the purpose of gaining knowledge, but for their opinion to gain credibility.
If you want to be happy living a king's life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
If you want to be happy living a king's life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
Now all you have to do is just what I say
And then you may be jolly, merry and gay
Therefore, from a logical point of view
Better marry a woman uglier than you
From a logical point of view
Always marry a woman uglier than you
A pretty woman make a husband look small
And very often causes downfall
Soon as she marries then and there she starts
To do the things that will break your heart
And when you think that shе is belonging to you
She is calling somebody еlse to do
Man, from a logical point of view
Better marry a woman uglier than you
From a logical point of view
Always marry a woman uglier than you
But if you make an ugly woman your wife
You can be sure you will be happy in all your life
She will never do things in a funny way
To allow the neighbor have things to say
She wouldn't disregard the husband at all
By exhibiting herself too bitter and cold
Man, from a logical point of view
Better marry a woman uglier than you
From a logical point of view
Always marry a woman uglier than you
An ugly woman give you your meals on time
And try to make you comfortable in mind
At times when you lie sick in your cozy bed
She will both caress you and scratch your head
And not a minute in the night will she leave you alone
It seems you want to melt the cold from your bone
Man, from a logical point of view
Better marry a woman uglier than you
From a logical point of view
Always marry a woman uglier than you
If a man that's not your friend say that you have no taste
Marry an ugly woman above disgrace
One who is cute, looking barbarous and rough
The skin like alligator, bumpy and tough
Pigeon-hole, bull-leg, across in her eye
She got two lips that look like a big bow tie
Boy, from a logical point of view
Better marry a woman uglier than you
From a logical point of view
Always marry a woman uglier than you
That's right, man
From a logical point of view
Always marry a woman uglier than you
Aye!
Sad but true, thats the only way to win.
Soldier Boy? Is that you?
The problem is that most men dont have anough options and times where women are actually interested, so you have to go up and speak to women you are interested in, and do it so often that you dont place too much importance on 1 interaction.
Men lack options and thus are desperate for any 1 woman.
Never ask a fish how to catch a fish. Ask a fisherman
Biggest Grifter online. Waiting for the unraveling of this one!!
@@barryknight247 Is she really married now?
I’ve heard nothing but good things from her
@@keys8885 then you have much to learn!!!
But who knows the sea and how a fish moves and think other than a fish
Women definitely need Goodfellas, best regards from Italy
An episode I would love to see - Sadia reviewing the main points from Rollo Tomasi's book "The Rational Male: the Player's Handbook" and saying yay or nay to the points.
"When you talk to women with no intent in trying to get with her, ... there's no fear of rejection." Well, there often is in my experience, and with good reason. Imagine a nerdy high school guy trying to make any kind of conversation with a cheerleader in his class; she is quite likely to react with disgust, no? Even if she does not say so out loud, you can often read "Eww, why are you talking to me? GO AWAY!" on her face. Adult women are generally better about this, but any average-looking or below guy who went to a co-ed high school is likely to have internalized the risk of not giving attractive women a wide berth.
The problem is women view men as nothing more than se× objects. I keep meeting women who want to sIeep with me but it's impossible to find a woman who will talk to me and treat me like a human being.
As a result I reject these women because I am not a se× object and don't appreciate being treated like one.
Also I wish I could find a woman who would let me provide for her. But that's impossible to find as well.
I have the exact same problem
How is this a problem? That’s what women complain about in reverse, that means you’re getting the attention you want. I sure hope you’re not tryna overplay your hand here
I keep getting objectified as well. It’s disconcerting as I’d like a real connection based on genuine care and friendship as a foundation.
Because, I’d really like a companion that I genuinely like and appreciate first before anyone tries their hand at romancing me.
I think people need to reflect on their values.
Okay um yeah like we men don’t do the same lol 😂
Same here brother. I consider myself attractive, tall, go to the gym and like taking care of myself. I'm pretty easy going, have a good sense of humor and quite social. I've had women want to simply hook up with me and when I tell them no or don't try to, they lose interest. It's like this instant gratification of validation of having sex with an attractive guy I guess.
Instant validation.. it’s one heck of a drug!
Even without faith, a life long partner can have benefits.
Her explanation of ADHD is very accurate.
No, it's a dream of victim society.
Her not using her coaster is stressing me out!!
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Sadia calls herself crazy? Nuts.
No, she didn't really. She used ADHD as a label to call herself smart.
SHE is a RED FLAG!
women cheating on husbands with their money, they trickin? rofl
Yeah... back in the 1990s, woman was stalking me. I said, you have a husband. She said, "he is a good provider, that's all."
really liked this video
Imagine 2 dates: Mr nice and Mr Badboy
Mr Nice creates some sort of elaborate diner or whatever. Something to create a grandiose moment in his mind. The truth is he feels that without the pomp and circumstance he is not enough for her. In her mind she knows she has done nothing to earn this and is ONLY there because of her beauty. Date one he has begun to put her on a pedestal and by the end of the date she will begin to look down on him. She feels out of his league because that is precisely what he showed her. The entire date is fluff. He never makes her feel desirable, silly, sad/happy, emotionally engaged, jerked around a little, played with, and never has a single moment of uncertainty about where this is going, he takes her seriously and he never fucks with her. Winning this guy is like winning a participation trophy. Nobody likes that crap. She will not waste one moment thinking about this dude.
Mr Badboy takes her out for a walk in the park, then with a big smile makes her buy coffee because...equal rights! The moment he meets her he will look her up and down then give a "Holy Shit!" or something, then when she asks "What?!!" He gives her... "Oh Nothing!"
GAME ON!
From the second he meets her he plays with her like a little boy plays with plays with a little girl on a school playground. Push/pull, high/low, up /down, left/right...She has no idea what is next. Fun, unpredictable, exciting, will physically engage with her (constant little touches and kisses), will physically play with her (tickle, throw her on his shoulder etc), will engage her emotions and take her on a fun emotional trip. Maybe buy an ice-cream then dab her in the face with it has he hands it to her. If she is not ready to take things further after an hour or so (he will make her turn him down) he will not react but will eventually suggest he has to go, "we should do this again".....Then bounce...Radio silence for days!
GAME OFF!
She goes home and thinks about him non stop, wonders if he called one of his FWBs, thinks about how strong he was, how he made her feel, how he looked down at her and how it felt, how she currently feels. A few days later he will eventually reach out. If she doesn't all but crawl though the phone lines to get to him he will ghost her and she knows it.
The entire date is a roller coaster, she feels thrilled, desired, engaged emotionally, felt his physical power, felt his desire for her, felt desirable with him, had so much fun, felt uncertainty, had no idea what his feeling were yet loved what he showed her. She knows he doesn't give a shit about whether or not they meet again, and she knows other women are lining up to do so. He didn't take anything about her seriously and she had a great time!! Bottom line she wants MORE! Winning this guy would be like winning the lottery!
The difference is in how they make her feel.
Stupid men cast some sort of judgement on women for liking this stuff??!! lol
I liked Sadia, but she definitely likes bad boys. Look at her huge smile, body language, and how she touches her hair at 10:10 when they ask her about liking bad boys. If either one of the dudes interviewing her were bad bays they would call he out on her bullshit and played with her a bit. The spiel on historical bad boys is a distraction from the truth and an intentional shift......They should have listened to her crap then called her out on that too! Opportunity missed lads. Stop being so .....Nice......
Remove Nice and inset FORGETTABLE!
Hope that helps
This woman is literally hyperbolising and generalising for clicks. If she is a therapist, I’m very worried for her clients.
This woman really should focus on healing herself before trying to advise anybody else.
My problem is the opposite of the title. Women want me as a lover but refuse to treat me like a friend of even a human being.
I refuse to sIeep with these women because I don't tolerate disrespect.
wth u must look good lol
You must be meeting the wrong women who are just after money. Something's off here....
probably gay
This makes no sense. If they want to sleep with you it’s because they respect you. Same with men who try to talk down on whores. They’re respecting these women more than they want to admit
Just have enough money in your pocket simple golden rule guys 😂
How to get “hot women”…be 6’2-6’4, in shape and attractive…there ya go, class dismissed.
The reason why divorce is so high is because women get bored easily, and can have access to so many guys she thinks is better than her current man, so she can leave at anytime, and there are no consequences. Most of the time the women even benefits from divorce. So it's a win win situation for women to leave.
I don't think they just get bored. I think they're designed to fall out of love.
@@nightmareTomek It's true and they want to be sleeping with other guys.
8:41 is such a goofy question because women don't have the experience of approaching women for casual sex or relationships unless she's a lesbian.
A straight women have no clue how goofy and all over the place women act .
Age is important to mention😊 age. 2 Groups 20s and 30s and 40s and 50s. Then the last part of the early 60s. It won't be the same in those groups to approach women.
Simply women like for perfection meanwhile they are imperfect
Irresistible Lady Sadia ❤❤❤
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Crazy people always go into the field of psychology.
Wearing fake eye lashes which is a red flag.
@@AnthonyManzio The smallest of all the red flags though.
@Sadia if you have to tell them that, its...already to late..I give you daps tho for helping these young men...I wonder why they just dont just do it?
I think what nice guys mostly lack is the ability to be confrontational. Telling men and women their actions are wrong is a masculine trait coz it shows you're not afraid and you can handle yourself when you're challenged. Most nice guys lack these traits which makes them look less masculine. How I know? Coz I'm like that and I realize now.
Unnecessary for him to interrupt her at 2:14. Let her talk.
best!!!
Please, I’ve never been relationship material to begin with 😂
I have a 100% rejection rate so I dont bother.
I wouldn’t either if I was portraying myself as that undesirable. Why not try to force them to qualify for yourself instead? That’s how you flip the power dynamic back in your favor and regain some of your sanity. Even if it doesn’t end in bed, it will end with you keeping your self respect
@@marcusmcgraw3519 You're using female shaming language. Maybe he has enough self respect.
Hot tip… be as physically attractive as you can be. And go fucking approach her and say hi. Do that 100xs. Times
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
Even Sady can't have a healthy relationship. She agrees she is crazy like any other woman
That's how I'm describing my own ADHD from now on
The video could have started and ended with "You have to remove your fear of rejection". Tell us something we don't know.
Is it actually fear though.
Is this an old video because you said you were not married?
Will she ever get married?
A beautiful, inteligent and charismatic woman, but every title is 99% clickbait... so i'm sorry, but I'll have to say goodbye and look for another beautiful, charismatic and inteligent woman that gives me the YT content that is promised. If one day you'd like to meet a handsome, intelligent, funny and GOOD brazilian man, I'll be here for you 😂😂😂
Sadia
that's interesting.
How about you make one for girls too need one ❤
I was done with the idea of marriage… then 6:50 happend 🤦🏽♂️
Please add subtitles in videos
Boundaries with your boss? Oof.
Bite not the habd that feeds you
I understand there is a balance but that is one situation that is harder and scarier than most
Same with family
If you are dependent. Swallowing your pride uf done for the right reasons, might be the clever option instead of speaking out and defending yourself
Voy a ver si entiendo, ¿si quiero salir contigo no voy a poder porque conoces todos los trucos? Saludos desde ecuador.
Men cheat when stressed
Women cheat when bored
Im so nice guy that my mom dont talk to me😂
Do women project, sometimes? Why is it you could hardly even notice a woman is there until she seems to be trying to dramatically avoid you.
isaiah marquez coach born february 28,1996 to november 5,2024 on planet earth
@ approximately 8 minutes... talking about how hot women have a skewed view of how men will do anything to get with them... the same "bat shit crazy" can happen to the hot man.... he starts to believe that all women want sex from every man.
How are you?
Regarding your course,I believe you are using inductive or abductive reasoning .(likely both)
A man with good intentions and may still be a flawed individual,that keeps running into disrespectfl people,in a disrespectful world,isn’t really the problem.
So,in reality,your course should be to solve the real issue,which in this case, would be disrespectful women…
You are a wonderful woman, very beautiful and intelligent 🤗
You described ADHD in such way that I want to have it.
I'm always the lover, never the friend. I'm so tired of women just wanting me for their pleasure. I wish I was friendzoned just once
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Sadia I am your father THANOS now ebony maw bring my daughter to the sanctuary 2 inorder for me to stretch her out as I did her sister nebula 😂
“Always treat her hot and cold, always keep her emotions juggling, a secure woman is of no use”~ AMS
Marriage end because was founded in pleasure, looks and money, also because they get bored of the same thing.
I thought you were married Sadia...So you're saying i have a chance?
It's an older video taken before she got married.
@@johnrossford7927 is she actually married now?
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Adhd is not hyper intelligence, come on now…. Have you actually spoken not several, .Like 40-50 people with adhd? The experience ranges, and like autism is not by default hyper intelligent,
Sadia if you so smart and attractive why aren't you married?
sadia you want to be married
I’d simp for her
Rephrased: An idle mind is always up to no good. Some like it as idle hands are the devils workshop. But that is religious in nature. It is not fact based. Sadia is fact based. Hmmm. Good has boundaries. I say it this way. A worthy husband is a "spiritual leader" to those close to him. For example a wife if he has one. Spiritual leader refers to the spirit within mankind and not religious spiritual. Rephrased: A man who leads from the heart and by the heart of his followers is not only a worthy man, He is a man to be reconned with. He does not accept violations of his spirit or those dear to him.
Love that Sadia points out how hot girls crazy scale is for a good reason. I believe this is a obsession of Sadias for a reason and yes I have seen that at a big level myself being a barmaid at a strip club and that was super eye opening. Psychologically learnt more there from real life than any books ever which is why I am so confident to say this. One thing I think Sadia continues to put out there is her own insecurities due to the toxic men she herself attracts. She attracts then as she hasn't yet learnt her own preach. High value women. She is clearly obsessed with her hair and looks and the way others see her that she isn't doing the real work on herself or evolving. What I've seen is women like her in a club who are very strong in what they will and won't accept without controlling it and being masculine as a woman only attracts that toxicity, as she has said in this podcast then there's a ad to be masculine? I've seen several videos she has been a guest on where this has been made apparent. Matt especially. I hope it being so obvious to Sadias followers gives her inspiration to work on herself so she doesn't project her traumas onto others and can mature and level up even more than she already has. Own experience is great to reflect in but shouldn't be the entire focus all the time. Compromise and personal growth would make her even better. I know it's been said to her I other podcasts a few months that ago but let's hope she is working in that not just shut down personal growth cause I do like her content for the most part but yes does get tiring watching her not deal with her trauma from previous toxic relationships not allowing ppl to get close whilst preaching to others to do different to her. She needs to heal from her past so all her co tent isn't focused on so called toxic men all the time.Toxic Men (men who rejected her) or the low value of attractive women (she feels inferior to). Something new please Sadia?
Sadia is not married? lol
How are you a pshycologist if u have ADHD, arent you supposed to listen? Lmaoooo im lmao
You kept on saying that you talk about dating because people are not interested in learning about childhood trauma. I think you’re mistaken. Your videos have become redundant and uninteresting to watch. If you were to discuss how childhood trauma impacts our adult lives it would be much more interesting.
Im in my prime, I know my worth. I was raised to be polite and educated, and that never worked for me. Fast forward 2 decades and I have women try to get my attention, every, sngle day. Pain, God and my self determination have chisseled me into a stronger and tougher man. Thing is, I saw and experienced female BS from a young age and realised that AWALT. I will never marry.
I love Sadia and I agree with her on MOST things. I don't agree that women are cheating on men far more than men are cheating on women, except for where she lives in Dubai and/or these circles where women marry for money. While I don't condone cheating, in those cases it makes sense. Pay attention to the type of women she's describing. That is a small percentage of women. So, again, i don't agree that women are cheating on men more than men cheat on women.
she wasn't being honest when the hosts asked how to approach hot girls. these guys shouldn't approach hot girls because they will get rejected unless their podcasting status is utilized because they're average looking.
nah just go in with no expectations and treat her like an average female
@robertcoleman2101 has that worked for you? the best method is having beautiful girls chase you. but you need to be the best version of yourself in terms of status, money and appearance
@@maxhung69 nah women want what they can't have and besides if you don't try to impress them or go gaga eyed at them it puts you into a different category as others
@@robertcoleman2101 you're not on their radar if they're not already attracted to you. playing hard to get is like a tree falling in the forest - no one will hear the sound.
@@maxhung69 you're not on their radar being a simp either.. You want to stand out then be different from every other dude that gagas over her..
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