Picking Up Girls with their Moms

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  • Опубліковано 19 вер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 55

  • @nobitaadidas
    @nobitaadidas 8 місяців тому +106

    Pick their mom instead if the girl reject you pls

  • @MrBarnardoo98
    @MrBarnardoo98 8 місяців тому +56

    Cold approaching a girl with her mom is one of my top fears. I've only done it twice and thank God both of them went well. Benjamin you rock man!

  • @sparkle4211
    @sparkle4211 8 місяців тому +42

    I did my first ever approach today. Wanted to do it for so long, but it happened today finally. Didnt work out coz she had a bf, but it was a really good interaction and I am so glad I did it. Thanks for the inspiration Benjamin!

  • @poejavelski148
    @poejavelski148 8 місяців тому +88

    Next step: picking up girls while they’re with their dad 😈

    • @jjjjjjj760
      @jjjjjjj760 7 місяців тому +1

      2nd that!

    • @fredjones2748
      @fredjones2748 7 місяців тому +11

      Aftermath: picking up girls from the hospital 😂

  • @davidmendoza4463
    @davidmendoza4463 8 місяців тому +7

    The videos are getting better and better each time 🤝🫡

  • @richos07
    @richos07 8 місяців тому +6

    “If you are too direct early on, you risk stirring up a resistance that will never be lowered. At first there must be nothing of the seducer in your manner. The seduction should begin at an angle, indirectly so that the target only gradually becomes aware of you” - Robert Greene, The Art of Seduction

  • @PlaybookEmpire
    @PlaybookEmpire 7 місяців тому +3

    Keep the game going!

  • @WillPM-hs3wm
    @WillPM-hs3wm 8 місяців тому +7

    Approach a girl with her dad

    • @alyohin1235
      @alyohin1235 Місяць тому

      That’s what i was thinking, that would be tough!😂

  • @user-lw6gg2oh2s
    @user-lw6gg2oh2s 8 місяців тому +4

    Low key I try to avoid these because I prefer to meet the parents later on

  • @EatYourVegs
    @EatYourVegs 24 дні тому

    Based on the thumbnail, this girl is gorgeous!

  • @Alphamale_Formen
    @Alphamale_Formen 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for accepting my challenge of picking up a girl with her mum. Youre gifted G

  • @amadeuszjankowski9212
    @amadeuszjankowski9212 7 місяців тому

    Quality content friend, I like your style.

  • @toasteeze
    @toasteeze 8 місяців тому +2

    Can you approach non foreign women? I live in an area where it's mostly Caucasian americans

  • @sarthakmehetre5710
    @sarthakmehetre5710 8 місяців тому +2

    Try this in india

  • @mayankgautam5799
    @mayankgautam5799 7 місяців тому +2

    here in india the things will change bro😂😂

  • @jmcui3
    @jmcui3 7 місяців тому

    Good job!!!!!!!!!!

  • @theultimateartist4153
    @theultimateartist4153 7 місяців тому +1

    Im glad your stressing the natural thing, too many men think you can just read a book and have good chemistry but that is not how it works. You can read a million books but if it doesnt feel natural but scripted you already lost

  • @pixel5193
    @pixel5193 Місяць тому

    Nah do one when u pick them up in front of they’re dads -->

  • @anbuthamizh3537
    @anbuthamizh3537 8 місяців тому +1

    From India...❤

  • @rudyamezquita2440
    @rudyamezquita2440 7 місяців тому

    this has to b the hardest way to pick up a chick when they r with their parent I wouldn't even approach but if it's possible I will try

  • @heavnbound
    @heavnbound 3 місяці тому

    Always rizz up the mom by saying "are you guys friends?" if the mom likes you she will say I'm her mother or she's my daughter. then act surprised and tell her you thought her daughter was cute, she must get her good looks from her. if the mom likes you, your chances go up 10 fold.

  • @Housestationlive
    @Housestationlive 5 місяців тому

    awkward. sorry i can't do that 😂

  • @miguelmolina6856
    @miguelmolina6856 7 місяців тому

    Pickings up girls that are with their moms is actually easier 😅

  • @2006cr85r
    @2006cr85r 7 місяців тому +1

    Dump truck at 6:40

    • @mishimaboy2949
      @mishimaboy2949 3 місяці тому

      Hhahaahah i swear i was searching for this

  • @imadityaanand
    @imadityaanand 7 місяців тому

    Alright Day 8: I failed again. Tomorrow is my day.

  • @blueeyedwhitedragon7445
    @blueeyedwhitedragon7445 8 місяців тому +3

    Pick up hooters waitress pls

  • @aelfredrex8354
    @aelfredrex8354 7 місяців тому

    Yeah, intrude into their shared space to beg for attention with a camera on you. Not creepy at all.

  • @user-zb8cp3qw6m
    @user-zb8cp3qw6m 2 місяці тому

    Whats the point fo your channel? You're better looking than 99,9% of the people out there, so dont pretend your success is due to your "skills".

  • @Thefearlesswolf
    @Thefearlesswolf 8 місяців тому

    First ❤

  • @BR0KK85
    @BR0KK85 8 місяців тому +1

    U pixel of the girl in the vid but not in the thumbnail? That's whack

    • @realbenjaminseda
      @realbenjaminseda  8 місяців тому +10

      I use AI to change the face so it’s not recognizable- privacy reasons. Don’t want simps or weirdos chasing girls down

    • @leotorres9012
      @leotorres9012 8 місяців тому

      He’s doing it for safety reasons and purposes and I don’t blame him I think it’s smart

    • @BR0KK85
      @BR0KK85 8 місяців тому

      ​@@realbenjaminsedaok then ist good ...
      Also do they know that your recording them. Do u tell them after?

  • @amaysuryavanshi981
    @amaysuryavanshi981 7 місяців тому

    Do this in India 😅

  • @Almost_a_hero
    @Almost_a_hero 7 місяців тому

    Where did 1.3 million subs come from? Most your videos get 50,000 views at most.

    • @realbenjaminseda
      @realbenjaminseda  7 місяців тому +2

      Sort my videos by oldest. I used to make videos with animation - did a rebrand recently

  • @onehandednedned6673
    @onehandednedned6673 8 місяців тому

    You don't have a girlfriend

  • @SanoopAI
    @SanoopAI 7 місяців тому

    Always blaming newyork for excuses and showoff 😂

  • @moaz6395
    @moaz6395 8 місяців тому

    Bro that was nowhere near Juan, Denmo or Steven. Those guys are legendary pickup artists. Plus side to that is your body language and confidence is similar to most of us our there, so. Good video.

    • @sparkle4211
      @sparkle4211 8 місяців тому +1

      Love Juan and Steven’s content. But I could never relate to that or felt that I can practically apply it in cold approaches. In case of Benjamin, it seems pretty reachable to apply in real life!

    • @realbenjaminseda
      @realbenjaminseda  8 місяців тому +4

      No disrespect to them but what they do is prank infield. 99% of it isn’t applicable for a normal guy doing an approach. Their style of Corny open + direct ask for phone number on a college campus won’t get you much results in the real world.

    • @machoinstinct
      @machoinstinct 8 місяців тому

      ​@@realbenjaminseda facts.

    • @rudyamezquita2440
      @rudyamezquita2440 7 місяців тому

      it's a lil bit easier to approach at a college campus than out n the open & tbh the hottest girls r on college campuses