💍🎩WE GOT ENGAGED AFTER 1☝🏽 WEEK TOGETHER!💃🏿💛🕺🏼HOW ITS GOING 12 YRS LATER! | Fumi Desalu-Vold

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  • @jacksprat429
    @jacksprat429 Рік тому +562

    Despite my pseudonym, I am a woman. My husband proposed to me 5 days after we met. We married 17 days after meeting each other. It was a second marriage for both of us. We have been married for 39 years, have five children between us, and 5 grandchildren. Many people were horrified that we got married so soon, but here we are 39 years later, two old farts together. 🤭😁

    • @kayt2693
      @kayt2693 Рік тому +10

      Wow that’s amazing x

    • @tab5470
      @tab5470 Рік тому +18

      When you know, you know🙂

    • @joanmoses1259
      @joanmoses1259 Рік тому +7

      Awww this is soooo beautiful I'm crying ...but is all joy.

    • @AndromedonThanks
      @AndromedonThanks Рік тому +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @khloecalala7606
      @khloecalala7606 Рік тому +2

      Your story is everything! I hope God’s plan on my life is similar

  • @carolynngockel3670
    @carolynngockel3670 2 роки тому +962

    When men decide, they DECIDE fast. It took my husband two weeks to tell me he was interested in marriage and nothing less. We've been together almost 20 years now.

    • @purplepantha11
      @purplepantha11 2 роки тому +27

      I find people that get married quick have longer marriages ?

    • @Jowd163
      @Jowd163 2 роки тому +35

      @@purplepantha11 .
      It's true my husband proposed for first day meet.
      And now it's 12yrs together married. ❤

    • @nadinesmall687
      @nadinesmall687 Рік тому +33

      True, my husband decided after 3 months. We have been married for 26 wonderful years.

    • @monat9248
      @monat9248 Рік тому +42

      Yes, I read somewhere by third date, most men already know if they want a future with a woman or not but even if they don’t see a future, they keep some woman hanging for access to Honey pot .. so, I would advise to keep the honey pot locked until marriage so that the wrong men would not mess with a woman

    • @brendadickson9583
      @brendadickson9583 Рік тому +15

      Wow you are blessed I pray for such man daily

  • @janetmiller2980
    @janetmiller2980 Рік тому +240

    You knew you were right for each other and took a chance on marriage-not dating, not cohabiting-marriage. Congratulations 🎊🎉!

  • @missnycforever7532
    @missnycforever7532 Рік тому +32

    We live in NYC (attached houses). I saw my husband in his yard sitting on his balcony. It was magnetic. He did not see me. He took my breath away. Him and I did not meet until months later (it is NYC you can go years not knowing your neighbor). We finally met when he saw me and ran out of his house to talk to me. A man who wants you will move heavens and earth and there will be no ambiguity! We just bought a house in Italy. We plan to split our time between USA and Italy. We are both from another country. We love traveling and don't think twice about moving somewhere.

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 9 місяців тому +2

      I love it!!

    • @user-kv2jf1es9u
      @user-kv2jf1es9u 3 місяці тому +1

      ❤❤❤❤YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESA,WE R MANY OVER HERE!!!!! I MUST SAY THIS IS NOT 4 EVERY1. ENJOY

  • @fridaygemefya9157
    @fridaygemefya9157 2 роки тому +1260

    When a man really loves you, it doesn't take 5 years to decide. You are my inspiration. I tap into your blessing

    • @SuperTikes
      @SuperTikes 2 роки тому +39

      I believe this as well. It doesn't take a lifetime to know who's the "one" you want to spend your life with.

    • @valenfanai8317
      @valenfanai8317 2 роки тому +9

      Very true.

    • @ushindiraha
      @ushindiraha 2 роки тому +30

      That's my portion in Jesus name

    • @noreenperez8666
      @noreenperez8666 2 роки тому +4

      🤔

    • @ked_thechosen4068
      @ked_thechosen4068 2 роки тому +6

      Absolutely 💯

  • @xxxxMissTashaxxxx
    @xxxxMissTashaxxxx 2 роки тому +982

    My husband and I got engaged after a coffee date, 4 hours after meeting. We will be celebrating our 8 year anniversary this Wednesday ❤

  • @odenusiaduke8367
    @odenusiaduke8367 Рік тому +59

    Look at this amazing woman ....old enough not to need permission but wisdom tells her to appreciate their blessing

  • @brookechang6805
    @brookechang6805 Рік тому +120

    What a beautiful, poised and positive woman. I love hearing her speak and her laugh is contagious ❤❤❤!

  • @jonellemarquette5635
    @jonellemarquette5635 2 роки тому +70

    I cried. I will be 50 in May and still waiting on my husband ❤

  • @carolines6195
    @carolines6195 2 роки тому +788

    My husband said he would marry me after speaking to me on the phone for a few minutes. I told him he didn’t even know me. We are coming up to our 20 year wedding anniversary, and 3 children later. Oh we were also in different countries at the time ❤️

    • @angelitacochran8161
      @angelitacochran8161 2 роки тому +9

      Awesome

    • @estherkyeswa3842
      @estherkyeswa3842 2 роки тому +36

      Lets hear your story please. Seems interesting

    • @ushindiraha
      @ushindiraha 2 роки тому +11

      Am tapping into that grace in Jesus name

    • @rachellebrown9606
      @rachellebrown9606 2 роки тому +26

      Just by hearing and talking to you over the phone, WOW! Now there's a confident man who knew exactly what he wanted without hesitation and still married growing strong.
      God Bless

    • @sharoncameron9931
      @sharoncameron9931 2 роки тому +5

      This is such a sweet, beautiful story. God in His providence created a soul mate for you. Such a beautiful story. May God continue to bless you both and enlarge your territory.

  • @emzywillrich7243
    @emzywillrich7243 Рік тому +70

    He's a lucky guy! I tell people all the time to keep their options open. You might miss out on someone very special. Fumi, you would be a great catch anywhere in the Universe. You can't buy class and beauty. You either have it or you don't.

  • @KaKaKozyKitchen
    @KaKaKozyKitchen 8 місяців тому +24

    I cried for a solid 30 minutes. Thank you for sharing this with us. Some of us Black American women are afraid to even think about a non American man. I’m inspired to change some major perspectives in my life.

    • @eisenhower9069
      @eisenhower9069 3 місяці тому

      Please do. I'm African and you’ll surprised how your own white American men want you but are also scared cos they think you don't like them. They always ask if i like white men. They want to know

  • @landoncamden685
    @landoncamden685 2 роки тому +630

    My Husband proposed to me on our 2nd date. We were married a week after that. We are celebrating 11 yrs this year. Love has no limits when it's real. Congratulations to you and yours😇😇💖💖

  • @OwolabiEsther
    @OwolabiEsther 2 роки тому +1745

    I can't never get tired of watching fumi, who else feels like that?!

  • @deniceporchia5979
    @deniceporchia5979 7 місяців тому +16

    Wonderful! Same almost! We were engaged 3 weeks after we met and married three months later! We stayed married for 32 years until my live passed away of Lukiemia! It was amazing!!!!

  • @VoluptuousLynn
    @VoluptuousLynn Рік тому +196

    This episode made me cry, laugh, and cheer. I am so glad you are putting out what life can be like if we just open up our minds.

    • @cassandraclarke9734
      @cassandraclarke9734 Рік тому +1

      I really enjoyed this episode.😊

    • @kyomugashoflorence7966
      @kyomugashoflorence7966 Рік тому

      Thank you fumi for the encouraging words dear, this Florence from Uganda I have been encouraged by your testimone.

    • @M3OverSeas
      @M3OverSeas Рік тому +3

      Such a beautiful love story ❤❤❤

    • @godsend2546
      @godsend2546 2 місяці тому

      😂honestly you said it all!! What a truly beautiful love story. I couldn't thank you enough dearest Funmi(I've just turned 54 this March 2024😅,....and Nigerian(Yoruba too!!)), and I can relate to you in many ways. Though widowed young, losing the utter love of my life, your story has lifted me, and put a big smile on my face😊. Keep soaring sis❤. Mwah.
      Xxx

  • @doreathaannhighsmith2808
    @doreathaannhighsmith2808 2 роки тому +327

    I love the respect he had for you. He rented a hotel room for you. This is respect unheard of today

    • @sweetspice9120
      @sweetspice9120 2 роки тому +41

      It still happens. Depends on d kind of man and also how the lady carries herself.I have experienced this with two different men. Some men lack manners and some women act very cold or claim super independent dont need a man to pay. If the man picks on that, then he would be worried about offering to pay for anything. The whole feminist movement is very confusing for both men and women today. And if a generous man picks on that hyper-independence, he may not approach d lady at all

    • @gaginajulie
      @gaginajulie 2 роки тому +22

      This is what you call a truly high value man!! Treats his lady with Respect honor and kindness ❤️

    • @louisawambui4475
      @louisawambui4475 2 роки тому +7

      @@sweetspice9120 A good man will still do it. Its about his values and not your behavior.

    • @kiconcoscoviemucyo7790
      @kiconcoscoviemucyo7790 2 роки тому +2

      @@sweetspice9120 , you have put it right...we need to learn to strike a balance

  • @Tunenine
    @Tunenine 2 роки тому +908

    Awwww I had my husband listen to your story and he said with a wide smile "their story is similar to ours" and yes I agreed. I went to Ireland instead where he met me at the airport and softly grabbed my hand, 4th day introduced me to his family and here we are 10yrs later and he still treats me as if we met our first day. I love your story and I'm so happy for you and your family.

  • @developmentor2
    @developmentor2 Рік тому +41

    Fumi, you're a natural storyteller. How do you look more beautiful in your fifty's than when you were 39? (Don't tell me it's the makeup.)

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 Рік тому +31

      She is in a happy home; happy marriage. Her husband does not stress her. Happiness enhances beauty

    • @LadyEsther001
      @LadyEsther001 11 місяців тому +6

      @@aeiou0123 exactly

  • @ZhanaZee
    @ZhanaZee Рік тому +100

    OMG!!!!! This story has me crying with joy! OMG Woman! Two beautiful enlightened ppl found each other. Your story is the story I want more women to experience. I am truly happy for you. You are truly deserving of this bounty. Love you sis❤❤❤❤❤

    • @alewis4941
      @alewis4941 Рік тому +1

      @ZhanaZee
      You're so right! two beautiful enlightened people/souls came together, because they were willing and open and not fixed on society standards. I love Fumi is sharing this beautiful, amazing, extraordinary experience. Speaking of it so eloquently and in details with beautiful pictures. Thanks Fumi.❤

  • @DW5918
    @DW5918 2 роки тому +88

    My husband and I just celebrated 18 years together last month. We got engaged in three months. We got married in less than a year.

    • @dwandavis3736
      @dwandavis3736 2 роки тому

      I was enthralled by this presentation. Your love story and your travel advice was so informative. I wish I was 30 years younger to actually experience the travel. May God bless you, your husband and your son for many years to come❤️

  • @tammyreise
    @tammyreise Рік тому +448

    Idk how I stumbled upon this video but this woman exudes elegance, poise, and beauty! New subbie

  • @atstafford10
    @atstafford10 Рік тому +107

    I have tears in my eyes! I must say Fumi you are a beautiful storyteller. Love it! Blessings to you and your family!

  • @belindaholland848
    @belindaholland848 3 місяці тому +15

    This story really touched me and brought tears to my eyes. I met a wonderful man, A Pastor, and college professor who proposed early in our relationship, he was diagnosed w a lung disease and in the midst of our wedding planning he died. 1 year ago. He showed me more love and peace, and experienced more joy and respect than I have ever had in my entire 62 years here on earth. My entire family fell in love w him and wherever I went people would say, I've never heard a man speak of a woman with such a light in his eyes and happiness. I thank God for Him loaning him to me, if just for a while.❤🙏🏾

  • @DEEVAJM
    @DEEVAJM 2 роки тому +183

    Fumi this is a lovely love story. Drama free. Wholesome. No nonsense. Generous. When you said your husband brought food and drinks to the airport when he met you for the first time because he thought you might be hungry and thirsty and wanted to have you replenished.... I knew he was a good man. 😊👍🏾All the best to you, your marriage and family. 😘

    • @mealsbymilan1049
      @mealsbymilan1049 2 роки тому +4

      Yesssss my exact thoughts 🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @melanyeejames1593
      @melanyeejames1593 2 роки тому +3

      I agree. The food and drinks was one of the first green flags and then when she said he got her a hotel, I was like yes this is it. I love to see it.

  • @Grace69B
    @Grace69B 2 роки тому +724

    I don’t know why, but this made me emotional and the story of Ole sending Orchid to your mum made me cry. I am praying I meet someone as loving and kind. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @sweetspice9120
      @sweetspice9120 2 роки тому +31

      Me too. She waited patiently for the right man

    • @nwanambaek-alad4052
      @nwanambaek-alad4052 2 роки тому +20

      You will sis. The key virtue to look out for in addition to being hard working is kindness.

    • @tierraharris8310
      @tierraharris8310 2 роки тому +16

      I was emotional hearing about the orchids and message as well. Talk about an amazing human being. Fumi is such a sensational woman.

    • @bblight8523
      @bblight8523 2 роки тому +4

      same here

    • @nicolejane1762
      @nicolejane1762 2 роки тому +4

      Awwwww love 💕 this

  • @gemmabriggs8139
    @gemmabriggs8139 Рік тому +9

    Ole is a fantasy to others and he’s your reality . I want to cry . He’s s blessing to you

  • @Tahiha
    @Tahiha Рік тому +10

    I bet jaws drop whenever someone asks you your nationality and you say Russian :). Your story is beyond amazing.

  • @thecreativefamjoy
    @thecreativefamjoy 2 роки тому +120

    And the fact that he didn't tell you about his great achievements was a big sign!

    • @Mira_Moves
      @Mira_Moves 2 роки тому +7

      Facts

    • @mbrown7788
      @mbrown7788 2 роки тому +7

      Humble, he wanted her to see him and love him.

    • @a.jordan7235
      @a.jordan7235 2 роки тому

      Its a 💯from me, for giving the 100th thumbs up....

  • @dinkamika
    @dinkamika 2 роки тому +36

    let the congregation say AMEN!!

  • @nancytoledo8039
    @nancytoledo8039 Рік тому +75

    Fumi, what a true love story!!! I am so happy I stumbled onto your channel and heard your story. It's getting harder and harder to find men of that caliber. By the way, I love your laugh-- it's contagious.

  • @trishbrowncfggg9661
    @trishbrowncfggg9661 6 місяців тому +11

    Fumi I never get tired of listening to you. You are one of the most authentic and honest UA-camr I’ve ever seen. So beautiful from inside out 💗💜💚💕

  • @rubyannburrows463
    @rubyannburrows463 2 роки тому +169

    This was like reading a romance novel. "Fumi would you be my wife". I got teary eyed. I lost my husband 3 years ago. I hope God blessed me with someone just as beautiful as ur husband. Blessings to you both!

    • @sunboalabi5890
      @sunboalabi5890 2 роки тому +3

      So much for your loss

    • @17thUnicorn
      @17thUnicorn 2 роки тому +3

      Warm hugs 🤗 and blessings 🙏.

    • @DivaDerin
      @DivaDerin Рік тому +1

      Amen. Sending you hugs🤗

  • @sayitloud6158
    @sayitloud6158 2 роки тому +192

    Loved it! I'm American from African descent (primarily Nigerian). My spouse is American from European descent. We will have been married for 25 years this November. One of the ways I knew he was the one is that everything he did while he pursued me spoke of his recognizing my value and of his wanting to build something lasting. He observed me living a life of purpose and that's what he wanted. He said it was love at first INsight! He treated me like he had found gold then and he still does 25 years later. Your story brought back memories. Thanks!

    • @zweenanyimbo734
      @zweenanyimbo734 2 роки тому +6

      How beautiful!

    • @lvncsr6166
      @lvncsr6166 2 роки тому +7

      can you share what you were doing in 'living a life of purpose?' i'm 67, divorced for 6 years and celibate for the last 7 years. Is there hope for those of us who still believe in love finding them?

    • @JT-th8dh
      @JT-th8dh 2 роки тому +12

      @@lvncsr6166 as long as you have life you have a real chance to find love

    • @olivenwosu
      @olivenwosu 2 роки тому +4

      @@lvncsr6166 Yes, there is hope.

    • @donaenoble7835
      @donaenoble7835 2 роки тому +4

      Wow. @ say it loud, Equally stunning testimony. Where are these men? Why are they not mentoring men In their thousands?
      The values you said your husband was looking out for and that you recognised he was pursuing value while dating you! You cannot buy that insight in the store. That kind of insight and deep calling to deep search is from on high!
      A man who has the insight to know and do that is a King!

  • @lauriebenn3562
    @lauriebenn3562 Рік тому +37

    I am sitting at my desk at work and I’m just crying tears of joy for your story of amazing love here! Wow! I even got goosebumps Fumi! Thank you for sharing this wonderful journey to real love with us! I’m sharing this with my sons and daughters - to inspire them to want better for themselves in love. 😊

    • @jackiechebet1661
      @jackiechebet1661 8 місяців тому +1

      Same here sis I just couldnt hold it !

  • @zabeth11173
    @zabeth11173 Рік тому +6

    I was married within 3 months and going on year 2 of marriage. God is good. 💖

  • @Tishalocs
    @Tishalocs 2 роки тому +121

    Beautiful story! My husband did this and proposed 4 days after our first date. Never been happier. 8 months together today!

  • @ingridphillip5367
    @ingridphillip5367 2 роки тому +166

    I have been seeing this title for almost 3 weeks until today I watched it. What a beautiful blessing. I’m 51 and single waiting and trusting God’s timing 💕🙏 thanks for sharing your life story 💕🌻

  • @roshnikureel7978
    @roshnikureel7978 Рік тому +42

    Thank u so much for showing how a girl should know he’s the one . How I’ve lowered my status for people just for the fact that they like me but not doing anything to keep me in their life . Thank u for showing me men like Ulla exist . Thank you fumi for showing me my worth . I was crying when u said if a man wants u in their future they will respect ur family n everything about u . Your love has really touched my heart n inspired me. Lots of blessings to u n ur family. Thank u thank u thank u ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @inemesitumofia6830
    @inemesitumofia6830 Рік тому +20

    Love doesn't know color or distance. It bridges every gap. I wish you and your family many many many more years of joy like this. Your message resonates with me. Thank you for giving us 40 year olds a lot of hope for love. God bless you, Auntie Fumi. Much love from Nigeria.

  • @carmensantiago7720
    @carmensantiago7720 2 роки тому +298

    Wow, I can listen to this lady speak forever. Her voice is so soothing and her stories so interesting. Love her!

    • @chelsiadavis4911
      @chelsiadavis4911 2 роки тому +12

      For real. I just found her and am ready to play all of her videos. She has so much personality and exudes joy and confidence. I love it.

    • @mealsbymilan1049
      @mealsbymilan1049 2 роки тому +3

      Right lol I stumbled here … she became my instant auntie in my head … voice so soothing & her story telling so intriguing..dreamy

    • @marlynmorgan3658
      @marlynmorgan3658 Рік тому

      NAILED!!!

  • @GladysGrace001
    @GladysGrace001 2 роки тому +359

    This was like reading chapter 1 in a novel and I can't put the book down. Such a beautiful story.💗💗💗💗

    • @mildredchalmers
      @mildredchalmers 2 роки тому +11

      Yes, that's what it was like for me too. Don't know why UA-cam recommended the video, but I'm sure glad I finally watched it. She tells her story beautifully. After a stressful day, she had me smiling from ear to ear.

    • @rosemarydiengwe7445
      @rosemarydiengwe7445 2 роки тому +3

      Yea

    • @platinumbranch2056
      @platinumbranch2056 2 роки тому +6

      Exactly!! And this is my first video of hers. Yes, I just subscribed!!

    • @stardustgirl2904
      @stardustgirl2904 2 роки тому +1

      Love 💗💗 is unstoppable! 🙏🏻👍

    • @nkechinyeluezieke9330
      @nkechinyeluezieke9330 2 роки тому +1

      Honestly so to me too! Funmi's just an amazing storyteller!

  • @DoraSometimes
    @DoraSometimes Рік тому +36

    I'm crying...from happiness for you and because this touched me so deeply. You two are the most decent people I've ever seen.🥰

  • @paulamahone8201
    @paulamahone8201 Рік тому +14

    Wonderful love story! Elegant, insightful woman. Accomplished, daring man. Together raising a young man who may do great things in the world. Fumi and Ole had supportive, loving parents. The character of the people of each generations is important to this love story.

  • @dovetales3
    @dovetales3 2 роки тому +173

    When you know you deserve the best, the best will show up in your life. 😍

  • @nomvulavmoloko6255
    @nomvulavmoloko6255 2 роки тому +255

    If you tell this story every week, I will never get tired of it. Thank you, Desalu-Vold family, for bringing back honour, respect, truly love and family back to social media. 🌺🌺🌺

  • @petrawilliams5801
    @petrawilliams5801 Рік тому +15

    Auntie Fumi, you made me shed a tear. I love when you talked about Ula and his, father and his family! I love that pic with Ula with his arms around you! Priceless! You can see the love!

  • @boops1192
    @boops1192 Рік тому +5

    When a Prince meets a Princess, he recognizes it’s time to glow up to King and Queen they were born to be ❤

    • @Tay144-fb5qp
      @Tay144-fb5qp 4 місяці тому

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @semilorebolanle4154
    @semilorebolanle4154 2 роки тому +37

    The most emotional words for me was that you would want Adrian to treat his wife like his father had treated you. Beautiful ❣️ a lot of wives sadly can't say so because they are not treated well

  • @giawest8033
    @giawest8033 2 роки тому +82

    I can definitely see how he fell in love with you in one week because I am so drawn to you in just a few minutes. You have such a magnetic personality. I'm happy for you. Enjoy life🙏🙏

  • @wildflowersun5840
    @wildflowersun5840 Рік тому +35

    Being an African-American and hearing your story about your parents wanting to give you diamonds or a trip to your birthplace, I live!!! It has nothing to do with the money it really has to do with the love and the cultural expression of life! It's amazing and I'm so jealous and a positive way if that makes sense to anyone out there! But those of us that know from our experience of feeling so disconnected from our culture language etc people do not understand this. I think the people that understand this the most is maybe people that adopted?

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 11 місяців тому

      As Black Americans, our culture and roots are in the United States. Should embrace that.

    • @Lucy-gf6dj
      @Lucy-gf6dj 10 місяців тому

      @@Heyu7her3
      Kjv 16:11

    • @Lucy-gf6dj
      @Lucy-gf6dj 10 місяців тому

      KJV 16:11
      GALATIONS 4:26
      DEUTORONOMY 28:15-68

  • @sweeterpalms8434
    @sweeterpalms8434 2 місяці тому +1

    I am with him 14 years, no ring,3 kids, anxiety, depression, l pray for love🎉❤

  • @nurselora681
    @nurselora681 2 роки тому +139

    Fumi your love story with Ole brought me to tears. My late husband was Nigerian and I from Ohio. Our love story began long distance writing old fashioned letters back and forth. Love truly is color blind and in the heart.

  • @Ireshandle
    @Ireshandle 2 роки тому +62

    OMG! I randomly stumbled on your channel and I'm hooked! Boy can I relate to not wanting to stay in a place for too long. It's so boring!!! I finally moved out of Nigeria and I'm loving life in England. I always used to say my husband is not Nigerian and now I'm dating a man from Botswana! I've loved learning about his culture and look forward to learning so much more!

  • @pusongpinaysaamerica6485
    @pusongpinaysaamerica6485 Рік тому +8

    You are such a joy to watch!Beautiful love story! I’m in interracial marriage as well. My husband flew to where I used to work and that was the very first time we met eye to eye; face to face 😂
    The next day, we flew to my country of origin to meet with my family. We got their blessings and we got married. That’s almost 20 years ago. We are now living in the 🇺🇸 with our 15 y/o daughter. ❤Destiny❤

  • @carmenrojas4469
    @carmenrojas4469 14 днів тому

    This is exactly what my mom says. This is exactly what my stepfather did for her. They got married within three months and they were together for over 40 years. He recently passed away, but always loved my mom and took care of her no matter what
    I said to myself After my two divorces because I was rebellious
    I said I’ll never get married again unless someone treats me like my stepfather treated my mom and you Fumi, your story is such a blessing. And yes what a lucky woman that gets your son to have such a beautiful family.

  • @darlenehoward2340
    @darlenehoward2340 Рік тому +201

    What a beautiful love story you & your husband have. And your son is absolutely adorable! I shed several tears watching this. My husband of nearly 30 years passed away in November of 2020 at 58 years old. We had a special love story too. He always made me feel like a queen, & would do anything to make me happy. Hearing about your Ula made me think of my Donnie, & how much I miss him. I wish you both many more happy years of love. God bless.💖

    • @leagil
      @leagil Рік тому +12

      I am 57 and lost my husband of 36 years in 2020 also. Bless you.

    • @toastEDmrshmello09
      @toastEDmrshmello09 Рік тому +6

      I am sorry y’all. I pray Gods peace and comfort over you. Be blessed and take care 💜✨✨

    • @websnuzy6240
      @websnuzy6240 Рік тому +5

      My husband and I had a beautiful story too. Sadly, I lost him (2015 aged 54). He was my Don (lol) miss him every day too. Take care - I wish you all the best 💖

    • @websnuzy6240
      @websnuzy6240 Рік тому +3

      We'd been together 30+ years too 💖

    • @kmm9721
      @kmm9721 Рік тому +7

      My husband of 23 years also named Donnie,died at 42. I was his “ only love” he said and he was the love of my life. Still miss him 25 years later. Real love is beautiful

  • @DoctorK279
    @DoctorK279 2 роки тому +57

    As an African, married to a true blonde, blue-eyed Danish person, Scandinavia is amazing. Your Norwegian is amazing. Fumi, congratulations to you and your hubby.

  • @barbarajuarez3155
    @barbarajuarez3155 Рік тому +3

    Fumi you had me truly crying. I am 80 years old ,& never thought that such a wonderful man existed.Your son is ,so blessed to have you both😊.

  • @Redefine7
    @Redefine7 Рік тому +4

    What a beautiful story fumi, my husband told me I would be his wife the first night we met, and 3yrs later we are now married ❤️❤️❤️

  • @caramelandchocolate5195
    @caramelandchocolate5195 2 роки тому +83

    Your story is very similar to mine. My father also travelled a lot as we were kids. My was born in Congo, studied in Russia as a diplomat. We moved to Cuba, than Germany and now in London. Traveling is amazing.

  • @juliajowers
    @juliajowers 2 роки тому +178

    True love is a gift from God. Look after each other and respect is the most important element in a marriage. You're blessed Fumi!

    • @mealsbymilan1049
      @mealsbymilan1049 2 роки тому +4

      Amen 🙏🏾 I agree … my hearts desires for someone to love me like this … it was the little things … the dad receiving her … all the signs ..the respect of all those he knew … speaking of her to others before her arrival . I love ❤️ it all

    • @vandiyaginzanza6362
      @vandiyaginzanza6362 2 роки тому +3

      Amen

  • @Happynlucky
    @Happynlucky Рік тому +3

    Beautiful story. You beam happiness. My husband wanted to marry quickly. He never pressured me yet he did very similar things to Ole to ensure that I got the message that I was the one for him. 20 later we still together. One day I asked him why me, why haven't you ever strayed he said when a man decides for a wife it's for life. He respects our vows. I was so happy, humble. Your story made me happy. I love yr channel. So positive. Good vibes, and love to you.

  • @nikkinikki7034
    @nikkinikki7034 Рік тому +9

    The tears are running down my face. What a love story.

  • @patb7020
    @patb7020 2 роки тому +148

    You are a phenomenal role model. From a sister in her 50's, you represent very well. Looking forward to your fashion line.

  • @tonyoreilly9425
    @tonyoreilly9425 2 роки тому +89

    This made me realise my partner is my future husband. He treats me like he treats my family and he’s hinting so

    • @maureenfrancis1890
      @maureenfrancis1890 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you❤🌹❤ so much for this talk it's so beautiful❤✨❤ it makes me cry😭 but it's a happy cry😭 love❤ you❤🌹❤

    • @joyceadrah9061
      @joyceadrah9061 2 роки тому

      What a beautiful story. I love so much Fumi. Your husband is a very lovely man. I pray that the good Lord will continue to bless your union .

  • @alitiasenikau2093
    @alitiasenikau2093 Місяць тому

    Chivalry is still alive and humanity intact. Your husband is a needle in a haystack. Good lady, always a joy to gaze into your life. With admiration and blessed good wishes from Fiji.

  • @revam612
    @revam612 2 роки тому +90

    You are married to a real man, something I fear I will never get to experience. You are so blessed, and I rejoice in your happiness.

    • @harrietwilliams9902
      @harrietwilliams9902 2 роки тому +20

      Don't keep saying or thinking you will never experience a real man in your life. Trust me, GOD will send him your way. You just need to keep your heart open and have the utmost FAITH.

    • @NorahsKhanDesign
      @NorahsKhanDesign 2 роки тому +9

      Sending you the most positive energy for joining your soul mate on this planet and experiencing true love and respect… I am looking for this ultimate experience for myself as well.

    • @susannarolle4068
      @susannarolle4068 2 роки тому +19

      Why are you giving up on yourself. I was 37 when I got married. I changed my prayer and ask God to send me someone just like him. And he did.
      Don't go looking for anyone they will find you. Just start preparing yourself so when they show up you will be ready.

    • @aeiou0123
      @aeiou0123 2 роки тому +2

      @@susannarolle4068 thank you for sharing this. Lots of us need to be hopeful

    • @sophiaalexander-dickerson8048
      @sophiaalexander-dickerson8048 2 роки тому +1

      @@susannarolle4068 this is the truth. I am preparing myself right now. I pray everyday and night.

  • @QueenShanine
    @QueenShanine 2 роки тому +149

    I love this!!! Yea it doesn’t take long at all for a man to know. I got with my husband 2 months before he went to Iraq and when he returned 7 months later we got engaged. True love knows when it knows. ❤️ thanks for sharing Fumi!

    • @esthlinobiri-yeboah9664
      @esthlinobiri-yeboah9664 2 роки тому +15

      I feel so good knowing other share in my story too,I met my husband during his 2 weeks visit to Ghana n his next visit 2 years later was for our wedding ,6 years ,3 kids and I feel so blessed
      He is so perfect 👌👌

    • @QueenShanine
      @QueenShanine 2 роки тому +12

      @@esthlinobiri-yeboah9664 yes sis! It’s been 13 years of marriage for us now and it’s been worth every moment

  • @ese4741
    @ese4741 Місяць тому

    This is 2024, I just stumbled on your page this year. I'm 42, and just learning so oooooooo much from. You are such a breath of FRESH AIR.

  • @chrissyannsway
    @chrissyannsway Рік тому +10

    Congratulations!!! This is such a beautiful video and a testament to not settling for just anyone when you can have a man that loves you like this.

  • @kait6018
    @kait6018 2 роки тому +42

    “ Open up your mind and the world 🌎 will open up to you.” Golden words💕

  • @sharersale6480
    @sharersale6480 2 роки тому +183

    My gosh, do you do audiobooks? Because your voice is so enthralling and you're such an amazing storyteller! I could listen to you all day!

  • @spicesmiles
    @spicesmiles 2 місяці тому

    Wow
    Ole: “Mama before the orchids die, I will see you” 💞Fumi, bless the joy your partner brings to your life and you to Ole’s 💞
    Fumi: “ open up your mind and the world will open up to you”
    I love, I live this now and always, thank you Fumi, I thank Source
    Amen

  • @tinaburnette4170
    @tinaburnette4170 Рік тому +4

    Thank Fumi for sharing! This gives me hope I'll be 38 in January. My heart desires to be married 🥰

  • @jmkalinzuki4849
    @jmkalinzuki4849 2 роки тому +74

    Oh Aunty Fumi. It's such a heavenly, Godly love story! I love it! This October I will be 39 single never married. Please, pray for those of us in Fumi-nation, trusting God to get married. Oh my goodness! I glorify God. I am deeply encouraged. Deeply blessed. Thank you Fumi. Thank you very much.

    • @pwilk4811
      @pwilk4811 2 роки тому +10

      Please know that God will send you who He wants you to have. In the end, race, culture and educational level should not matter, not at this urgent point in life....listen to Fumi....she loved ....not in a box of what should be, but instead she fell in love out of the box....this will yield the might be....🙏🤟❤💗give yourself and body time to know the soul of a person.....patience is the answer...and smile at someone you would never consider, be yourself and talk to the quietest person in the room....i found my love that way....Really, he turned out to be the smartest, most interesting and interested person i met in the room, yes we are together 9 years now and growing, and yes, he did ask my mother for my hand in marriage and yes I was 47 at the time....🤟🙏💗❤🧡💛💙💜🎶

    • @lydia8322
      @lydia8322 2 роки тому +8

      I am also 39 never married but thank God my wedding is next year. Wishing you good luck too sister

    • @naomiecavitt
      @naomiecavitt 2 роки тому +1

      @@pwilk4811 If having a spouse is your heart desire may God answer your prayers.

    • @jacklinemurangira6327
      @jacklinemurangira6327 2 роки тому

      Gods blessings be upon you dear

    • @jacklinemurangira6327
      @jacklinemurangira6327 2 роки тому

      @@lydia8322 Congs darling

  • @ceceberry6051
    @ceceberry6051 2 роки тому +24

    Loved “ if a man loves you he will respect your family….” Preach!

  • @janetmiller2980
    @janetmiller2980 Рік тому +1

    We are a Muslim couple. In Islam, two people are, or aren’t going to marry. We decided to marry after just a month acquaintance. I’d be a complete and total liar if I said there were no challenges as we are very opposite personalities as very opposite thinkers. However we have a shared history, shared family, shared friendship, and celebrated 20 years marriage recently. Ali is the most dependable, the most generous man there is. BTW, Fumi, you are bold and outgoing like he is, larger than life like he is, truly a stunning woman. Thank you for this UA-cam channel.

  • @trezaopudo8724
    @trezaopudo8724 Рік тому +7

    You’re a great story teller, elegant and composed. I love you darling ❤

  • @cynthiaedwards3716
    @cynthiaedwards3716 2 роки тому +56

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I literally cried listening to you. I am 63 and single I'm praying for a man to come into my life that will love and respect me the same way. May God bless you Fumi, Ole, and your beautiful son! 🙏😊

    • @cynthiaedwards3716
      @cynthiaedwards3716 2 роки тому +4

      No you're wrong. I'm NOT stuck on black men. I said I'm praying for a MAN no where in my comment did I say I wanted a black man only. People stop making assumptions when you really don't know the truth!!!!!!

    • @cynthiaedwards3716
      @cynthiaedwards3716 2 роки тому

      @@Trailblazers323 Thank you graduate school. You're right I did not state anywhere in my comment about limiting myself to black men only. People stop making assumptions when you don't know the real TRUTH!!!!

    • @cynthiaedwards3716
      @cynthiaedwards3716 2 роки тому

      @@ThePhoenix3712 Read the comments correctly please.😂

    • @lvncsr6166
      @lvncsr6166 2 роки тому +6

      67 here and still praying and believing that I will be found by the one that God has for me. Stay strong and never stop believing!

  • @boomyfash1025
    @boomyfash1025 2 роки тому +239

    Listening to you my eyes were filled with tears, tears of joy.I remembered seeing your wedding pictures on Social Media. Nice to hear the story. My husband and I got married 6months after we started dating. It will be our 26th year anniversary next month❤❤❤

  • @happinessmartins7406
    @happinessmartins7406 Рік тому +3

    I've just been staring at the comment section smiling. A lot on my mind right now. But I can only say thanks to you again Fumi

  • @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299
    @lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299 Рік тому +1

    I also got engaged after only one week...Married with in a month and 2years later we are as happy!!

  • @kenishacalder1809
    @kenishacalder1809 2 роки тому +422

    You’re such a gifted and captivating story teller. And you just ooze elegance and grace! Thanks for blessing us with your videos. Peace & Love 💕

    • @naaamorkoramartey5811
      @naaamorkoramartey5811 2 роки тому +2

      ❤️

    • @HoneyBrown831
      @HoneyBrown831 2 роки тому +1

      Kenisha, my sentiments exactly. Well said.

    • @sharonemordi
      @sharonemordi 2 роки тому +6

      Fumi, A great story teller. 👏👏👏👏. We can listen to Fumi all day! We love you.

  • @nwanambaek-alad4052
    @nwanambaek-alad4052 2 роки тому +35

    It's true. U know a "keeper" when u meet one.

  • @Majadape61
    @Majadape61 Рік тому +6

    Mrs. Fumi, You are truly special and wonderful. I love your testimony of how you and your husband met, WOW! I love how you love to travel, learn new languages, and all your modeling and make-up videos, and most of all, your laughter and JOY! Magnífica!

  • @CP-ty4kf
    @CP-ty4kf Місяць тому

    I love to to watch this over and over after 32 years of marriage i find myself divorced but i still have hope for this kind of LOVE! and I wont settle til I find it!

  • @Amy_omer
    @Amy_omer 2 роки тому +23

    I will never be surprised if he asked you for marriage after one day of meeting you 😂😂 you have incredible and beautiful personality that shows from your videos and I'm sure your personality is more beautiful in real life ❤️❤️💜💜

  • @aeiou0123
    @aeiou0123 2 роки тому +94

    what a wonderful story. As Yorubas would say "omo e'tor" meaning Ole is cultured/has manners/class. Meaning he knows what to do at the right time. For example - showing absolute regard to your family. Sending your mom orchids, sending little gifts to your mom and sis for the new born. Now that is a man with class! it is not really about the gifts - it is the intention that says - I acknowledge those who matter to you!

    • @LivnNLearnin
      @LivnNLearnin 2 роки тому +2

      @Oyade precisely. Stated eloquently.

    • @tope.s1036
      @tope.s1036 2 роки тому +1

      Oh my God you have a way with words .

    • @donaenoble7835
      @donaenoble7835 2 роки тому

      Thank you. You are wise too,.hence.you recognise wisdom

  • @raquelbryan5318
    @raquelbryan5318 Місяць тому

    It's just absolutely beautiful. I'm a divorcee, and I'm praying I'll find a love like this someday. God's continued blessings on your family

  • @janerobinson9697
    @janerobinson9697 11 місяців тому +3

    I can listen to you the whole day Fumi. So elegant and well spoken. Great love story.

  • @emilyhollis4231
    @emilyhollis4231 2 роки тому +68

    Hearing how Ole prepared for your arrival does it for me! No doubt you said yes, he's a keeper. You're a great couple.

  • @lelaprincess
    @lelaprincess 2 роки тому +39

    Thank you. "if a man loves you, he is going to respect your familiy as he respects you!
    This is so good to hear as i am coming from a failed relationship

  • @darlinecarasco7978
    @darlinecarasco7978 Рік тому +16

    Thank you for sharing your story with us.
    We also live in Norway and it's good to have a platform for people like us here in the Scandinavian country 🥰.
    Keep up the good work 🤗👏🏽

    • @agnesparke-james4279
      @agnesparke-james4279 Рік тому

      Thank you for sharing your story. It's a new beginning for me. It has boosted my self esteem. Yes ,God ! I will listen to your voice and obey!

  • @FAQsofLife
    @FAQsofLife Рік тому +1

    This story made me ugly cry at 06:00 while preping for the day!! ☺️😍 These are the stories we want to hear instead of the American Divide! 👏

  • @TegaOveros
    @TegaOveros 2 роки тому +131

    Aww… this is a beautiful story. More reason I got to stick to my guts when it comes to dating. Never compromising anymore. I needed this video. A man that knows what he wants and act accordingly. Does he have a nephew . Lol
    I love stories like this.

  • @SuggyChi
    @SuggyChi 2 роки тому +151

    Ok I'm 19 minutes into this and hearing the admiration in Fumi's voice at speaking about Ole and his father, my heart 💕

  • @giftyadu7569
    @giftyadu7569 2 місяці тому

    Hello Aunty Fumi. I am so grateful for finding you! Your testimony is simply amazing. How i connected to you a day after praying for my husband intensely and looking at Scottish grooms in kilts 😂 is just divine. You see, am 43 , turning 44 in April from Ghana, living in USA for 26 years. Single with an 11 yr old son. Like you tried to fit the mold of marrying an "African" man. Disaster, trauma etc...then i realized truly within my soul i actually had such an affinity for British men !!! I guess my childhood crush on Roger Moore and Sean Connery had evolved. But honestly Aunty i really had to be honest about the box i had kimited myself to. I broke free, cried, prayed and looked for English countryside weddings to inspire me. Next thing i know im searching youtube and your channel.pops up. I have watched your recent posts and am gleaning from your wisdom. Thank you so much. I really pray for a divine connection with my future spouse and like you a dual citizenship US-UK. I love The UK. Just in love. Now applying for a position. Fingers crossed.🤞💞💞💞

  • @avionnecooper
    @avionnecooper 2 місяці тому

    Wow this is the sweetest love story I've ever heard. Now that's a love match straight from heaven!!!

  • @Tfolife528
    @Tfolife528 Рік тому +89

    Omg, your husband showed you off! I absolutely love it! Thank you Fumi for being here for us!

    • @Seren_ity22
      @Seren_ity22 10 місяців тому

      Yes, he did!!! 😊