As an alt black girl, people have never accepted me. People can be very mean, selfish, superficial and liars. I realized I have become cynical and have given up on socializing altogether. I would like to change that, but it will probably be a working progress
Ever insightful. Thank you, Umi. This feels especially pertinent to those of us who have grown all too comfortable as hermits in our self-isolation and are perhaps dreading the post-COVID reintegration.
I'm a pisces female and I'm pretty much happier being alone in my room. Been used, ppl hmu when they need money or sex. Coworkers get on my nerves which is why I work at a job where I'm alone. People: just leave me alone.
Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo rising. Most people lack substance, I call them mundanes. They all run on the collective programs controlled by media and various institutions, I've tried having these types in my life but they deplete my life force and the dynamic is vampiric. In saying that, I always manage to attract people that are on my vibe. It's like we spot each other in the crowd and so the relationships I have are always of quality and we connect on a soul level where there's a mutual exchange of energy.
Very powerful! And well said i may add. :-) There's been times i found people to be extremely draining. Its like they have this vampirical aspect about themselves. And they don't need to speak. Its a succubus energy. This comes from a person that daydreams about all the things in life that are wrong. Living in a state of constant fear and anguish is a choice that some are dam proud of. And quite honestly, some people are quite comfortable with that choice. Because once they step out of it, they want back in. Because the sadness is almost the equivalent of a glass of wine. It releases endorphins. And they feel imbalanced without the drama. This is the result of "victim" mentality. And until they can learn to enjoy themselves first, and change the imagery inside the mind...they will always find themselves rejecting beautiful relationships and amazing opportunities. Ultimately, surrendering their lives over to living the norms of social distancing and bitter disappointment.
I really appreciate the solutions at the end. I decided to take a risk and move in with a roommate last year, and I’ve learned so much from interacting with her. Initially I was afraid she’d reject me/find me too odd, but she has been very kind and it turns out we have a fair amount in common. So for all the other loners watching, it IS worth taking the risk to open up (with discernment & boundaries) and give people a chance. It helps us grow 🌱
I'm a Picses sun/ Scorpio moon/ Taurus rising...I relate to this like crazy...and I'm a waitress....I HATE people...but i love them. Everything you've said in this video i understand deeply
Lol all 5 reasons was me for a long ass time. I feel like you grow out of this when you get older. Be you and you'll attract the right folks to you. Great video, thank you Umi 🙏
When you say you grow out of it as you get older...how much older are you talking cause I’m 43 and find that I’m wanting to be alone more and more as I age and figure people out.
Gemini with Capricorn rising, life path 7. I relate to every one of those things. I have always told family and friends I feel like an alien on this planet and find it very hard to relate to people on a superficial level. Thankyou for all your great videos!
9:14 "being overly aggressive in their attitudes and opinions" I think I'm this person. I find that when I'm passionate about a topic, I tend to steamroll discussions and I've found that people would get quiet and some would even roll their eyes. I have Aspergers and have trouble with social conventions. I knew the "temperature" in the room had changed, but didn't know why or if I was the cause of it. I've talked to my therapist and she felt that I hadn't done anything wrong, but explained that some people prefer to surround themselves with people who validate the way they see the world. She said that most people don't like it when people challenge issues they care about deeply and that me being an opinionated woman amplifies this. It's nice to hear someone admit that they shut down when someone is aggressive with their opinions. I also really like that you advise others to be open about when someone is doing a behavior that bothers them. Sometimes I feel like people have an issue with me, but don't tell me because they would rather stay upset than to clear the air.
Pointless conversations!! Like the whole thing of running into people and going through the motions of swapping numbers when we know we are not about to stay in touch.
This is definitely me I say I don’t like people all the time and it’s because of those exact reasons I have a Scorpio moon, Scorpio rising and I found out my past life sign is Taurus I want genuine people in my life
# 3 resonates with me! I’m a Scorpio sun and I’m finding that some of my friends are draining my energy because I no longer relate to them. I need deeper connections. Love you Umi. ❤️
Im the opposite of #3 (I prefer not to have deep, soul-to-soul interactions) having kind superficial, lightly flavored interaction helps keep my energy boundaries and prevents that heavy feeling. A nice light conversation, a genuine exchange of compliments (if I actually like something) and Im out lol I do have a lot of Air in my chart, so it's natural that I'm a social butterfly.
Thank you :) This was a really good one and resonated a lot with the points you made ^^ (also its not nice to look into mirrors permanently so breaks from that are nice) 555 jumping out here :P
Read the book of Jasher. You could possibly locate a pdf online at a freemium price. Book of Enoch. Study the grim Book of Revelations. Enochian Magick with John Dee and Kelly.
I felt triggered for other pisces when toy said boundaries. I'm very strongly boundaried, probably too much, but I'm fine with it. It's intimidating to others, but I'm glad, so they won't come at me with pretentious BS.
@@umi_speaks I don't belive in star fan fiction . Not based on any facts. Just movements that have zero effect on me personally. Zodiac signs are trash and any advice based on them pure entertainment only
As an alt black girl, people have never accepted me. People can be very mean, selfish, superficial and liars. I realized I have become cynical and have given up on socializing altogether. I would like to change that, but it will probably be a working progress
I'm currently living the same situation and i'm black too
Same!
Ever insightful. Thank you, Umi. This feels especially pertinent to those of us who have grown all too comfortable as hermits in our self-isolation and are perhaps dreading the post-COVID reintegration.
I'm a pisces female and I'm pretty much happier being alone in my room.
Been used, ppl hmu when they need money or sex.
Coworkers get on my nerves which is why I work at a job where I'm alone.
People: just leave me alone.
I’m a Pisces rising and I agree w you 💯 but like she said accept the challenge 💕
Exactly!!!
I love how you broke this down I resonate with each one! Also I like how you didn’t make it negative
Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo rising. Most people lack substance, I call them mundanes. They all run on the collective programs controlled by media and various institutions, I've tried having these types in my life but they deplete my life force and the dynamic is vampiric. In saying that, I always manage to attract people that are on my vibe. It's like we spot each other in the crowd and so the relationships I have are always of quality and we connect on a soul level where there's a mutual exchange of energy.
Very powerful! And well said i may add. :-) There's been times i found people to be extremely draining. Its like they have this vampirical aspect about themselves. And they don't need to speak. Its a succubus energy. This comes from a person that daydreams about all the things in life that are wrong. Living in a state of constant fear and anguish is a choice that some are dam proud of. And quite honestly, some people are quite comfortable with that choice. Because once they step out of it, they want back in. Because the sadness is almost the equivalent of a glass of wine. It releases endorphins. And they feel imbalanced without the drama. This is the result of "victim" mentality. And until they can learn to enjoy themselves first, and change the imagery inside the mind...they will always find themselves rejecting beautiful relationships and amazing opportunities. Ultimately, surrendering their lives over to living the norms of social distancing and bitter disappointment.
I really appreciate the solutions at the end. I decided to take a risk and move in with a roommate last year, and I’ve learned so much from interacting with her. Initially I was afraid she’d reject me/find me too odd, but she has been very kind and it turns out we have a fair amount in common.
So for all the other loners watching, it IS worth taking the risk to open up (with discernment & boundaries) and give people a chance. It helps us grow 🌱
I'm a Picses sun/ Scorpio moon/ Taurus rising...I relate to this like crazy...and I'm a waitress....I HATE people...but i love them.
Everything you've said in this video i understand deeply
Pisces sun, Scorpio moon and Aries rising. I agree with your comment and this video!
@@awakenedpisces680 right!!! People are the worst but when I'm drunk who am I gonna talk to😄
Cancer ☀️ Pisces 🌙 Cap rising. Reciprocal friendships have been tough for me…
Lol all 5 reasons was me for a long ass time. I feel like you grow out of this when you get older. Be you and you'll attract the right folks to you. Great video, thank you Umi 🙏
When you say you grow out of it as you get older...how much older are you talking cause I’m 43 and find that I’m wanting to be alone more and more as I age and figure people out.
Gemini with Capricorn rising, life path 7. I relate to every one of those things. I have always told family and friends I feel like an alien on this planet and find it very hard to relate to people on a superficial level. Thankyou for all your great videos!
Taurus here 👋🏽
This is so true for me!
I relate to all 5 reasons 👀
9:14 "being overly aggressive in their attitudes and opinions"
I think I'm this person. I find that when I'm passionate about a topic, I tend to steamroll discussions and I've found that people would get quiet and some would even roll their eyes. I have Aspergers and have trouble with social conventions. I knew the "temperature" in the room had changed, but didn't know why or if I was the cause of it.
I've talked to my therapist and she felt that I hadn't done anything wrong, but explained that some people prefer to surround themselves with people who validate the way they see the world. She said that most people don't like it when people challenge issues they care about deeply and that me being an opinionated woman amplifies this.
It's nice to hear someone admit that they shut down when someone is aggressive with their opinions. I also really like that you advise others to be open about when someone is doing a behavior that bothers them. Sometimes I feel like people have an issue with me, but don't tell me because they would rather stay upset than to clear the air.
Pointless conversations!! Like the whole thing of running into people and going through the motions of swapping numbers when we know we are not about to stay in touch.
😄😆... true
This is definitely me I say I don’t like people all the time and it’s because of those exact reasons I have a Scorpio moon, Scorpio rising and I found out my past life sign is Taurus I want genuine people in my life
# 3 resonates with me! I’m a Scorpio sun and I’m finding that some of my friends are draining my energy because I no longer relate to them. I need deeper connections. Love you Umi. ❤️
So grateful for you!
Thank you! You are on target!
FIVE OUT OF FIVE! 👏👏👏
Everythin resonates me....It felt like you were talking to me for straight 13 minutes. Thank you for being so grateful. Love you
Wise woman
Thank you 😊
That was delightful. Thank you Beloved!
Im the opposite of #3 (I prefer not to have deep, soul-to-soul interactions) having kind superficial, lightly flavored interaction helps keep my energy boundaries and prevents that heavy feeling. A nice light conversation, a genuine exchange of compliments (if I actually like something) and Im out lol
I do have a lot of Air in my chart, so it's natural that I'm a social butterfly.
Wow this is so true. Capricorn ☀️ cancer 🌙 Scorpio rising
You said the grey man 🤯😅
That's me 😅
So true Umi. Today actually felt really upset over family drama. Now after watch your videoI feel so much better . Thank you
For me definitely No. 2 and 3. I got that 11 thing going on.
you can add 6. because you can't find anyone who understands you
Thumbnail is cute. ♥️ I clicked. Good thing people will be like Angels and no longer marry. 😇 Don’t tell too many people I’m more than a man. 🤫
People are starting to grow on me 🙃
You are a cool lady
Finally! Someone I can relate to ♥️
Thank you Miss Umi
Thanks
Great vid
Thank you :) This was a really good one and resonated a lot with the points you made ^^ (also its not nice to look into mirrors permanently so breaks from that are nice) 555 jumping out here :P
I like you Umi...
8:06 Don't remember the last time someone winked at me haha 😊 Pisces /Scorpio Moon/Leo Rising
Sooo relatable!
Any books you’ve read that you recommend?( doesn’t have to strictly be about this topic just sumn to expand my knowledge)
🤔 The kybalion
Read the book of Jasher. You could possibly locate a pdf online at a freemium price. Book of Enoch. Study the grim Book of Revelations. Enochian Magick with John Dee and Kelly.
I felt triggered for other pisces when toy said boundaries. I'm very strongly boundaried, probably too much, but I'm fine with it. It's intimidating to others, but I'm glad, so they won't come at me with pretentious BS.
I love you umi ❤️❤️
sun opposition pluto and i can relate very much so. hmm.
💯💯💯.
Is anyone else rh- ? I always thought maybe it was bc if that too. Also a Scorpio moon.
Virgo is also in No. 3 i Think
All 5 for me
What does it mean if I read “why don’t people like you” lmao
I love you
Stopped at Pisces
why? if you don't mind my asking
@@umi_speaks I don't belive in star fan fiction . Not based on any facts. Just movements that have zero effect on me personally. Zodiac signs are trash and any advice based on them pure entertainment only
@@unaffectedlife8909 👍🏽
😂😂 omg
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