I have been coming to Thailand since 1990. Have had every type of relationship. Had my heart broken 💔 a couple of times and broken a few aswell. Would do it all again in a heartbeat 💓
Good advice and something to think about. I suggest to visitors, especially first-timers to Pattaya - Do not BF, ST or LT. Do NOT do the 3-day thing. Just have fun right there at the establishment. Visit the second floor of certain bars. No Drama. No contact. No info exchanges. Just make sure to party with the same girl in the bar the next time. If not there are thousands of other places in Pattaya.
You are so right about using bolt. The amount of times taxi riders have refused the negotiated price has pissed me right off in the past. Bolt was heaven sent.
"[insert name here] .... we need to talk. My money ran out. I'm in a bad financial crisis right now. I don't know how I'm going to make it till the next month." She'll break up with you. Problem solved.
Yea found a girl, brought her to Australia to check it out was going through marriage visa process when she announced she was marrying a German. 😮 Told her BIG mistake won't like that but she saw $$ Two years later got a call was back in Thailand and wanted to pick up where left off. Told her married an Aussie girl and just hung up the phone.
The girls truly do just want a better life. If you tell the girl straight-up from the get-go then nothing is hidden. Thai girls are some of the loveliest I've ever met, and I've never experienced anything bad.
I've "ended it" with a few Thai women and they have had only a classy, peaceful acceptance of this. Why? Because they were not young, uneducated alcohol-fueled, bar girls. Big difference between dating a lady in BKK vs. a "girl" in Pattaya. It's all about WHO you decide to get into it with in the first place. Just be smart...that simple.
Wow, I really assumed the opposite! That the girls saw us as temporary and the guys were those that had their hearts broken! Thank you for all of your excellent advice.
I too Trev went through a similar situation with a girl I was really involved in. Lots of my money spent. Lots. Then got involved in a crazy situation with her that caused me to suffer for years. It was insane. Then she left me with having to care for that crazy situation. I was furious. So this is why I don’t get really involved any more. It’s been a nice “vacation” for me! A relief. It’s simply too much work! To be involved. In a real relationship. Way too much work. Headaches. Plus so much money going out the window. For her and her whole family. I think the best thing to do is just have it remain casual. So you’re freedom too is not at stake.
@@Buzzinpattaya I am. Thanks. But it took six more years to get into a better situation. Just shows how a bad relationship can really hurt you. Destroy you. Men suffer too.
I learned a lot the few times I've been to Thailand. I feel so blessed being able to go to South East Asia and because of that I try to be a respectful person to the people I meet. This has saved me from the worst things regarding "losing face". Even when you know you're right it can be a good thing to just swallow your pride and not take the fight. If you raise your voice, you've already lost.....
Never had a regular girlfriend there. Just girls I go back to each time I visit. Always a business relationship and tell them so. I treat them very well with good gratuities. Silver lining never had to listen do the "sick buffalo" story not once. Newbies pay attention to this vlog. Thanks enjoyed.
I have a friend that I told her from the beginning, I only date. No marriage. She has texted me every morning and evening for the past 13 months without fail. She says, "I know you don't love me, but I still love you." She never asks for money, but when I'm in Thailand, I'm generous. I told her that if you find someone who wants to marry you and take you to Australia or wherever, go. I've done my part. She knows the score.
@scambodia147 it's no different than today's dating. The young girls wanna have fun and go through as many guys that make them happy. The late 30's and early 40's single moms want that one guy who will take care of her and her family.
Just remember it’s their job! How would you react if you were sacked at work with no notice, when you thought you were working hard and doing good! Add to that if someone doesn’t do it nicely and you are basically told they just fancy getting someone else in! Like Trev said, be upfront, honest and kind.
Best way to breakup is tell em you just lost all your money on the share market. (Do some research first). Then tell her she needs to help you with.the rent for 6 months while you sort out a new income. She will be gone up the road with sparks coming off her heals, not even looking back. Then be smart enough to change the locks if she had a key and relocate for 2months elsewhere. End of issue.
The key as you highlighted is honesty. Because of all the bad press the ladies get, visitors seem to think they have to lie through their teeth too. If you’re on holiday and there to have fun only, tell them. Don’t lead them on because you’re on an ego trip or it will come back and bite you hard. These ladies can be brutal is they lose face.
The only way I would consider hooking up with a Thai lady full time would be if I lived there. Until then, its a one and done situation. There are too many beautiful ladies there to get tied down to just one and I don't do long distance relationships.
My problem is that I attract many women, because I am a very handsome man, I know because every time I walk down Soi 6 all the ladies remind me of my handsomeness. And when I have a beautiful woman next to me in a bar telling me that I am handsome, I fall in love instantly
Most girls have tough lives and who can honestly blame them, that’s a great vlog. Do be aware that the level of Jealousy is way beyond anything you’ve ever known, and will catch you out. You are her bloke and that’s it…!
Aside from a small number of super pretty, young bargirls on allowance with several foreign sponsors (very rare), most Thai women are poor. In a rural factory, they might make $300 USD a month. In an office job in BKK they might double that, but likely not much more. And she is probably supporting her rural parents raising her child, whom she might see once or twice per year, if that. She has a hard life. So, when you show up and give her a taste of something better, she will latch onto you pretty fast. It is not a game for her. There are lots of stories about heartless scammers, but most Thai women aren't like that. So be gracious, generous and honest. If you want to play, please don't play games with her heart. She deserves better.
yes you can! alot of thai women are lazy and just want that quick free money i know women personally who don’t engage in that lifestyle they rather struggle making an honest living and live life with dignity than sell their body for some quick money i can assure you most of those bar girls that you guys tend to fall in love with they are not all together mentality no woman is who gives her body away to different men
Haven't had any problems with this topic so far. Honesty and communication are absolutely important, so for me she MUST be able to speak good English. (or German LOL). Don't tell her fairy tales, lies, and babble about love if all you want is fun and company. Treat her fairly and with respect. Pattaya is otherwise one of the most inappropriate places in the world when looking for true love. For fun, it's the best place on the planet.
I met a few girls on my trip to Bangkok. 90% of them showed immediate signs of only being interested in my blue passport and money. I had to leave the city to find the only girl that showed no interest in money or anything else than just spending time with me.
So true. Once they see that blue passport and your cash then they light up like a firecracker. It’s ALL about that. Wise to get away from those types. Run!
Interesting vlog Trev. Been over a few times and, personally, have a Short Time rule. Enough bars to see a new girl every day or two, leading to all the fun and none of the pain. If you do different bars you can always go back for seconds if you wish with no dramas.
In 15 years coming to Pattaya I never once told a Girl my Hotel, Once a Friend came over with me and we found a nice Couple of Girls and spent a few days with them, I said to them that we would not see them one Night as we were Invited to the Opening of the Pattaya Hard Rock Cafe and you guessed it 3.00 in the Morning there was an almighty Row woke up everyone in the Hotel, When I confronted my Friend had told them the Hotel we were Staying in and they were trying to find out our Room Numbers, Being very Drunk they were Arguing with the Security and was not a Very Pleasant Experience, We Moved out next Morning and changed Hotel and Location. Be Honest with the Girls never give them your Hotel Details and be Frank in what you are looking for
Been there and done it and worn the t-shirt. I made the newbi mistake and took a lady from the bar opposite my hotel on my first day on my first time in Pattaya. Yes just like you said she was banging on my door at 4 in the morning while I was in bed with another lady! Had a girl from Laos for a while fresh of the farm and everything was going well and I was looking after her but then her thai friends tought her how things work and I found out she was up to no good. Came back to Pattaya and went to see her at her room a few times and told her I would sort her out before I went home. She messaged me to come round for some fun and I informed her unfortunately I can't as I'm back home already. She said where is my money. I explained to her that as she had been playing around while I had been looking after her she had her money already! Oh boy was she angry. She even went to my local bar to complain about me to the mamasan who was also from Laos and she just laughed and said Darren isn't stupid you know.!!! Spent the next few years playing them at there own game and got myself a reputation as a butterfly until I met my current girlfriend. All my so called thai lady friends couldn't wait to tell her how bad I was and that I couldn't be trusted. I think she saw this as some sort of a challenge to take control of me. Anyway been with her for over 4 years now and everything is going well. In short it took me about 14 years of trying different ones before I found a good one. But it was a lot of fun.
I’ve fallen for a cashier girl that works in a bar. I have known her 3 weeks. Last night she told me she had a customer. She tells me it’s very rare that she gets a customer because she has to work until 2am every day. I have been home for 1 week and I knew if she got asked she would go because she needs to send money for her 3 year old child. I’ve been with about 10 bar girls over the years but this one is different. She is 25. All I’m trying to say is that last night it hurt like hell..! I could easily have done something stupid!
If a girl is fighting hard for you because you want to finish it lets be honest she's fighting for her pay check not for your love. You've obviously been way too generous with your cash and now you're turning off the cash tap....its that which she's fighting for...or pissed off over. I know guys who were in plenty of relationships with Asian women and never went overboard with throwing cash at the relationship and when it was over both parties went their separate ways peacefully (in the majority).
Its the other way around more often though ....its the men who get attached and hurt the most thinking its something more . ALL women EVERY woman you pay . Anywhere in the world . You just pay with different things . Your Freedom ...your Finances ... Your emotions . You ALL pay ! .
I had a friend who had a great relationship with a Thai girl. They eventually married and had a kiddy. He had a great well paid job in the far east. They had cars and motorbikes and two homes. When they split after a few years, she took him to the cleaners under Thai Law and he lost everything.
Isaan girls have a no refunds policy what you bring here you must be able to financially lose. if really smart rent a home or buy a condo in your name or create a company and the land and cars are an asset of that company. Although if you suggest this the girl will definitely go into a wild rage and you are likely dumped as she wants financial security for her and family at your expense. If you run out of money become unemployed or no more savings you are history if you cannot pay your THB 50k a month Many members in the I have lost everything club all you can do is lick your wounds and try to learn from the experience.
I love watching the videos, informative but also fun to see the scenery, reminds me of the town and gives me ideas where to visit next time. Keep up the great work
I’ve never been in a serious relationship with a thai woman so I’ve never had to go through the breakup drama. but I can see how they would go mental I went to Pattaya for two weeks back in March and I saw a girl nearly every night for two weeks in her Bar one night I left the bar a bit more earlier than normal and she was grabbing hold of me saying please don’t go And she also messaged me every night before she went to bed and every morning when she woke up for the entire duration of my two week holiday !!!! Honestly they can be absolutely mental
ive never broken up with a thai girl, but i had several break up with me, some times they block me without explaning, sometimes we split as friends and still have contact and sometimes meet up
broke my own heart. i was dating and virtual dating one girl. last year. i couldnt afford to move to thailand yet and she didnt want to move to canada. so i borke it off told her i was sorry for being tingtong for her. she was sad and angry.
My best 2 year relationship was with a Cambodian girl in Thailand. In 2 years i sent a total of 600$ mostly for birthday gifts and a little towards her beauty school tuition. Covid fatigue finally did us in.. now im moving to Thailand in September and she is making a list of nice, cheap rental units. We have remained great friends. Thai women can be a handful.. but 99% better to deal with than western pig women.
Good luck keep your wits about you and recognise he children her parents and other family come first and you are 100 plus in the pecking order. Very different relationship to the west
I tell any girl from the get go that I am married and I am only here for fun, I have spent a week out of a 2 week trip with the same girl and when I want to move on there is not much of a issue. I still look after them but it's easier to just be straight up from the start.
Yes been in Playa Bistro & Lounge, took the gf there for Valentine’s Day the food was amazing and great setting to watch the sunset. We were just talking about it the other day, after living with her now for 7 months in Pattaya and now in Jomtien and eating out everyday we both agreed that Playa Bistro if not our favourite definitely in the top 3
I've been with a good 200 girls in Pattaya. My top 5 shagged girls I have been with 106, 46, 34, 32 and 30 times. A good 15 others over 10 times and not once have I had one of them want to go any further than pay for play. So either I'm choosing smart girls who know the deal and don't lose reality or I'm just that unattractive they just simply don't consider me as a proper boyfriend. If I'm that ugly I couldn't imagine these girls would shag me over 30 times so I must have that pay for play energy about me
I spent 2 weeks in pattaya last September. Saw 6 different girls 8 times. You 2 repeats. The best part of a short time is the by by at the end! I will be back in August! And I a 78 years old!
Hi Trev and that's why Im just going to Thailand to have fun no strings at going out with any girls I just want to have fun great video today and have a great day today and night trev
Dusit Thani is only hotel I have stayed which was not guest friendly. Was a few years ago but standard rooms are quite small. On relationships, have 2 exs here in Jomtien right now. Makes it awkward going out as the current love of my life works 200 metres away from them. And it is so quiet here, you drop one, and everyone in the bars knows about it
Trev great video as always 👍. Just say you took out a Thai lady you really liked and wanted to treat her to some nice clothes to wear, how much would you recommend?
If you do mate never more than you are happy to give away. If it's just a few token gestures and it's money you can easily afford them go for it if that's what you really want to do. Personally if your with a girl I would steer well clear of spending any money and just see how it pans out
Started coming out in 1997 30 days trips as for girls gone from 1 day at a time, some 1 time per week each, to 1 girl for 30 days never wanted a permanent relationship, holiday girlfriend only. Now after covid and reflection will just do ST only when i feel like it hoping to retire there soon i just cant handle hassles and the expectations they put on me also monetary Budget would not allow.
G'day Trev 100% true my friend you're a really gr8 source of knowledge 4 any newcomers / definitely a believer in respect/discuss expectations with the lady 1st : cheers mate luv your channel 😊👌
There are two types of farangs and mongers who visit Pattaya, Those that have been burned by a bargirl and those who are going to get burned by a bargirl. Anyone who refused to heed to your warning will eventually get burned. Don't ever underestimate the power of "P SY!" It is the most powerful thing in the world. Thanks Trev, stay safe and healthy M8!
Love the walk around a mate, keep them coming trev 💯👌 and as you said in the video, it’s best to be upfront and tell them it’s a 2 or 3 day fling and then, on ur way. 💯
It’s all a “business” deal. It is. Truly. They want something and the guy wants something. So they agree on an exchange. Like in a business deal. As long as this exchange keeps going then all parties are happy. Satisfied. When one or both decide to change that then you have problems. Just like in a business deal. Same thing. Women are attracted to money and power. Period. Men are attracted to……….well……THEM! We are the more visual species. Their main concern is about security and a future. The way it is. Personally I am really really happy right now being single. Free and single! It’s nice to not have to deal with these games any more. I did. Many times. Now I’m worn out! And I like the quiet. No fights. No arguments. No ball and chain around my ankle! Freedom. The sweet taste of freedom!
Some great balanced fair arguments here from the perspective of both genders. I think years ago guys did not realise that in places like pattaya you do not need to pretend to be a girls soul mate to get some action unlike the west. Here all you have to be is honest and the ladies are fine with that. Thanks to channels like this men should know better now. It amazes me how the uk or the States will critisize a man that goes to pattaya has his fun and hurts nobody. Yet they will aplaud guys who go on dating apps in the uk promise a woman the earth bed her then leave before midnight. Twisted logic. The idea of video on the soi's is a great one. Thanks for the content buddy.
I had visited Thailand many times and always made sure not to hang out with the local girls for more than one night. Then after many trips, i ran in to my wife. I had to work pretty hard to get the relationship up and running with my Thai wife. I subsequently asked her why? "I'm a nice looking guy" :-D She said: It was to take care of herself, and not lose her heart to the first best white European who entered the massage shop, and said sweet words. It probably took me the better part of a year to convince her that I meant business. :-) We have been together for 5 years now, and live together in Denmark. It has been all worth it, including the trouble of getting her to Denmark. Good luck out there.
That’s a good story pal. I’m in a similar situation. Met a Thai girl and would like to bring her to England to live with me in my house. Only problem is she has a 3 year old living with her ma ma. Also I have been wondering if she would miss Thailand & her exciting life living in Jom Tiem beach. A Thai girl has lived with me in my house before for 3 years but I met her over here. So avoided air fair, sponsorship, visa application etc etc. Any response from you would be appreciated. Kind regards.
I have my little collection of hotels that I stay at when in Pattaya Or Bangkok... Staff is tested and true, and I have no issues when they call me because she left and I didn't see you or your lady is on the second floor walking around, even lady is in the lobby. I love that your taking your security seriously. As I am in the final leg of my preparation , I will move on the outside of said red light areas and appear and do what I want and you will not even know I was there.. Granted Everyone is different and that's the way it is... I'm 61 never married from the school of( U.S. DOLLARS>>>IN GOD WE TRUST) and I'm sorry we are all different . But NO Woman will be separating me from my Money, and don't care if that box is filled with soft silk and gold lace.
Good rates! BTW, I was patiently waiting in line, and one person ahead of at the counter, when a certain person jumped the queue in front of me at BKK airport, and it was effortless on their part. All I could do was laugh.
Back in the day....( boring story to follow )...Talking early 80's...The Thai girls on the scene seemed quite content with partying with you for a weekend and then sending you off! Happy all around, especially when you respect them with a big fat envelope at the airport. The girls didn't ask for money...some did. The go-go girls were not the same but those Isan country girls at the beer bars were ready to please and always had a smile on their faces. It's important to let them know you are not interested in a serious relationship so play the game well and enjoy.
It's generous of you, and blokes that are your equal, to share these experiences so that we may learn from them. Stories are neutral - neither bragging or bitter. The oast is the past. It is what it is. 👍
Agreed about being honest & upfront is best policy.. I just tell the ladies im not much of a family guy very early on.etc. etc. The downside is sometimes the women backs off but most of the time they accept it & r cool. I butterfly too is often the response. Cant recall having any real problems in 15years of visiting Thailand & Pattaya. I don't kiss n tell either. Respect is very improtant. As long as u dont cause her to lose face.
Buzzin Pattaya !!!!! AKA Trevor!!! Great video Trevor, puts me in the mood to visit Pattaya soon!. Trevor if i get my ass down to Pattaya would there be any chance of meeting up for a chat & a beer? We can chat BKK Vs PATTS!
You gotta understand it has little to nothing to do with you its all about them. They want a better life and you are there key to possibly getting that and you cant blame them. Real love is verry hard to find in Pattaya
I was Pattaya and I met a girl in time bar on Soi LK Metro I took her out the bar for a few days, my friend who I came on holiday was a younger guy and he was getting a girl a night and he wasn’t happy with me having my girl for a while I was in love with her but I could see she was starting to cling on so after the 3rd or 4th I said I was now going to spend time with my friend and it was best she went back to her bar, she started crying in the street what was embarrassing but I said bye and went off feeling bad but it was best for me, anyway 2-3 nights later me and my friend went back into Soi LK Metro and went into the billabong bar obviously a couple of girls came and sat with us all I will say that was a bad idea 😮
Bar owner who heard my story: and you’re still very polite to me and my girls. She expected me to be full of hate towards all thai girls. Nope. I just became more careful and don’t believe everything people tell me 🙏
There are some bad coyotes with multiple boyfriends if you can pay THB 50k a month or the girl has a coffee shop or a market stall and away from the bar scene you experience so much less drama. However, if you go to pattaya you are never going to meet a female Thai doctor or thai female sales director in a gogo bar. No good thai girl would get their knickers off in six months and then you would to live and work in thailand and date her longtime to get to that point meet her rich thai family etc . If you mess around with uneducated girls who are working for money you dance with the fire and you get burnt
Looking for love in all the wrong places🤣🤣🤣 Imo it's not a sensible idea to look for love from a bargirl. Who wants a gf that's been shagging countless other guys day in day out, high mileage, well used and the mental baggage that goes with them? Look elsewhere for love and keep it business. A lot of bipolar here imho.
Yeah had bust up about 18+ years ago . Came out of it with a bite on my hand and severe scratches on my neck . Staying at Green Hotel Soi 9 , opposite end from Police station . 2am hotel security didn't want to know asked him to get police, no joy . Enough of that , stayed in the Dustit Thani about 14 years ago for 2 weeks got a fantastic deal online . Fabulous hotel . John Himpleman Buriram .
Very quiet and I think it will be like it for a while until the air fares come down still way to high, but saying that see you Thursday in the Buzzin lounge
I have had the opposite. The girl has said to me, if you have a problem with me doing what I want, they fxxk off. Some girls have way better options snd do not need the hassle......at least when they are young.
Great video. I agree with pretty much everything you said. With respect to the financial stability aspect, why are they all so terrible with money? It doesn’t matter how much they have, it will go on gambling, drink, loans to friends that they never seen again etc. And sure, there are many farangs/westerners who have these traits as well, but it seems to be particularly pronounced amongst Thai women.
Trev... after countless good relationships, and to be honest, painful breakups at the same time it is absolutely my duty to inform any new lady friend that I am a butterfly and have no intention of forming an ongoing bonding relationship except for a good short time period of no longer than a day or two... let’s face it; given the number of available ladies it would be crazy for a guy not to realise that he can have a new girl without any strings attached practically every day....At the end of the holiday, when it is time to return home, the relationship simply comes to an abrupt halt and believe you me ....long distance love is out of the question because most guys I know do not want to be faced with the everyday questions of “what am you doing...,have I eaten .....where are you” etc... I’m over Thai girlfriends and for that reason treat every relationship as a business based arrangement... yes it works! Cheers GG
Just to add to my experience, I view Thai girlfriends are a bit like a boarding pass...After each flight the pass is ditched making way for a new trip and experience....😂
It sounds interesting. Of course not in all cases but it sounds like both parties are there for their own motives (girl - wanting a committed partner, and guy usually wanting a bit of sex/fun only), which feels like it kinda starts off on shaky ground, which in turn can lead to hurt/mistrust etc.
I have been coming to Thailand since 1990.
Have had every type of relationship.
Had my heart broken 💔 a couple of times and broken a few aswell.
Would do it all again in a heartbeat 💓
thanks for sharing mate
Sounds like you had better change it to a 2 day rule😂
You sound too blasé to me.
Good advice and something to think about.
I suggest to visitors, especially first-timers to Pattaya - Do not BF, ST or LT. Do NOT do the 3-day thing.
Just have fun right there at the establishment. Visit the second floor of certain bars.
No Drama. No contact. No info exchanges. Just make sure to party with the same girl in the bar the next time.
If not there are thousands of other places in Pattaya.
cheers mate and thanks for the advice
You are so right about using bolt. The amount of times taxi riders have refused the negotiated price has pissed me right off in the past. Bolt was heaven sent.
Bolt is great
"[insert name here] .... we need to talk. My money ran out. I'm in a bad financial crisis right now. I don't know how I'm going to make it till the next month." She'll break up with you. Problem solved.
Lol
Jesus why didn't I think of that one?? I'll use that next time 😂😂
What, so your telling me she didn’t send you money! 😂
Genius😂
Yea found a girl, brought her to Australia to check it out was going through marriage visa process when she announced she was marrying a German. 😮
Told her BIG mistake won't like that but she saw $$
Two years later got a call was back in Thailand and wanted to pick up where left off.
Told her married an Aussie girl and just hung up the phone.
She probably cleaned out the German guy for sure 🤑🤑🤑 the German actually probably saved you?😮
@@stevek343 no she came back with not much, wasn't treated well.
@@SteveHoffmann you sure about that? How do you know?
Wow
@@stevek343 was still talking to her when she was in Germany.
The girls truly do just want a better life. If you tell the girl straight-up from the get-go then nothing is hidden.
Thai girls are some of the loveliest I've ever met, and I've never experienced anything bad.
Gotcha mate thank you
You need to get around a bit more bud
I've "ended it" with a few Thai women and they have had only a classy, peaceful acceptance of this. Why? Because they were not young, uneducated alcohol-fueled, bar girls. Big difference between dating a lady in BKK vs. a "girl" in Pattaya. It's all about WHO you decide to get into it with in the first place. Just be smart...that simple.
Fair one
this is really great information i appreciate
Glad you enjoyed it!
Wow, I really assumed the opposite! That the girls saw us as temporary and the guys were those that had their hearts broken! Thank you for all of your excellent advice.
Welcome mate
I too Trev went through a similar situation with a girl I was really involved in. Lots of my money spent. Lots. Then got involved in a crazy situation with her that caused me to suffer for years. It was insane. Then she left me with having to care for that crazy situation. I was furious. So this is why I don’t get really involved any more. It’s been a nice “vacation” for me! A relief. It’s simply too much work! To be involved. In a real relationship. Way too much work. Headaches. Plus so much money going out the window. For her and her whole family. I think the best thing to do is just have it remain casual. So you’re freedom too is not at stake.
Sorry it turned into a bad situation mate, hope you're in a much better place now
@@Buzzinpattaya
I am. Thanks. But it took six more years to get into a better situation. Just shows how a bad relationship can really hurt you. Destroy you. Men suffer too.
Losing face is very important - hence try to avoid direct rejection as this often triggers loss of Face - leading to potential chaos
indeed chaos awaits you
I learned a lot the few times I've been to Thailand. I feel so blessed being able to go to South East Asia and because of that I try to be a respectful person to the people I meet. This has saved me from the worst things regarding "losing face". Even when you know you're right it can be a good thing to just swallow your pride and not take the fight. If you raise your voice, you've already lost.....
Well worth listening to your advice Trevor, been in those situations myself,hasn't stopped me lovin Pattaya
Cheers mate
Never had a regular girlfriend there. Just girls I go back to each time I visit. Always a business relationship and tell them so. I treat them very well with good gratuities. Silver lining never had to listen do the "sick buffalo" story not once. Newbies pay attention to this vlog. Thanks enjoyed.
Thanks for sharing
I think the best thing to do is what you said. Be upfront. It’s the best thing to do. I have gone through this a few times. So it’s loud and clear.
Cheers mate
Hi Trev, another informative and well-done video. Thank you.
Cheers mate much appreciated
I have a friend that I told her from the beginning, I only date. No marriage. She has texted me every morning and evening for the past 13 months without fail. She says, "I know you don't love me, but I still love you." She never asks for money, but when I'm in Thailand, I'm generous. I told her that if you find someone who wants to marry you and take you to Australia or wherever, go. I've done my part. She knows the score.
wow mate what a situation
Full on. Hounding you twice daily for over a year.
@scambodia147 it's no different than today's dating. The young girls wanna have fun and go through as many guys that make them happy. The late 30's and early 40's single moms want that one guy who will take care of her and her family.
Cut the cash flow, relationship over naturally. You can have a happy ending ;-)
Lol
I ended it once when she was messaging another guy. TOTALLY freaked out even though in wrong.
Thai girl logic
Just remember it’s their job! How would you react if you were sacked at work with no notice, when you thought you were working hard and doing good! Add to that if someone doesn’t do it nicely and you are basically told they just fancy getting someone else in! Like Trev said, be upfront, honest and kind.
Gotcha mate
Best way to breakup is tell em you just lost all your money on the share market. (Do some research first). Then tell her she needs to help you with.the rent for 6 months while you sort out a new income. She will be gone up the road with sparks coming off her heals, not even looking back. Then be smart enough to change the locks if she had a key and relocate for 2months elsewhere. End of issue.
That's the exact same way to get rid of an American woman! LoL!
Lol that would work
The key as you highlighted is honesty. Because of all the bad press the ladies get, visitors seem to think they have to lie through their teeth too.
If you’re on holiday and there to have fun only, tell them. Don’t lead them on because you’re on an ego trip or it will come back and bite you hard. These ladies can be brutal is they lose face.
well said mate
YES! Honesty and commucation is the key to avoid these kind of problems.
The only way I would consider hooking up with a Thai lady full time would be if I lived there. Until then, its a one and done situation. There are too many beautiful ladies there to get tied down to just one and I don't do long distance relationships.
gotcha mate
My problem is that I attract many women, because I am a very handsome man, I know because every time I walk down Soi 6 all the ladies remind me of my handsomeness. And when I have a beautiful woman next to me in a bar telling me that I am handsome, I fall in love instantly
Hahahahaha good man
You must attract the ladyboys, like flies to a fresh dropping.
And the ladies worldwide like a large wallet over looks.
Thanks for the heads up and making sure of our intentions with them it’s better to in control and safe. 😊
All good mate
Most girls have tough lives and who can honestly blame them, that’s a great vlog.
Do be aware that the level of Jealousy is way beyond anything you’ve ever known, and will catch you out. You are her bloke and that’s it…!
Well said about jealousy as yeah it can and often is brutal
Aside from a small number of super pretty, young bargirls on allowance with several foreign sponsors (very rare), most Thai women are poor. In a rural factory, they might make $300 USD a month. In an office job in BKK they might double that, but likely not much more. And she is probably supporting her rural parents raising her child, whom she might see once or twice per year, if that. She has a hard life. So, when you show up and give her a taste of something better, she will latch onto you pretty fast. It is not a game for her. There are lots of stories about heartless scammers, but most Thai women aren't like that. So be gracious, generous and honest. If you want to play, please don't play games with her heart. She deserves better.
Yeah wages are low upcountry
They must be making a killing in Pattaya 🤑
The girls just want a better life. You can’t blame them
agreed
Exactly
yes you can! alot of thai women are lazy and just want that quick free money i know women personally who don’t engage in that lifestyle they rather struggle making an honest living and live life with dignity than sell their body for some quick money i can assure you most of those bar girls that you guys tend to fall in love with they are not all together mentality no woman is who gives her body away to different men
Yes they do want a better life..But some them get very Greedy & forget were they came from & what you did for them to better themselves 🤔
There's reality and there's fantasy. Um. Sometimes I'm not sure.
Haven't had any problems with this topic so far. Honesty and communication are absolutely important, so for me she MUST be able to speak good English. (or German LOL). Don't tell her fairy tales, lies, and babble about love if all you want is fun and company. Treat her fairly and with respect.
Pattaya is otherwise one of the most inappropriate places in the world when looking for true love. For fun, it's the best place on the planet.
Nice one mate
I met a few girls on my trip to Bangkok. 90% of them showed immediate signs of only being interested in my blue passport and money. I had to leave the city to find the only girl that showed no interest in money or anything else than just spending time with me.
So true. Once they see that blue passport and your cash then they light up like a firecracker. It’s ALL about that. Wise to get away from those types. Run!
Well said mate
Interesting vlog Trev. Been over a few times and, personally, have a Short Time rule. Enough bars to see a new girl every day or two, leading to all the fun and none of the pain. If you do different bars you can always go back for seconds if you wish with no dramas.
Gotcha mate
In 15 years coming to Pattaya I never once told a Girl my Hotel, Once a Friend came over with me and we found a nice Couple of Girls and spent a few days with them, I said to them that we would not see them one Night as we were Invited to the Opening of the Pattaya Hard Rock Cafe and you guessed it 3.00 in the Morning there was an almighty Row woke up everyone in the Hotel, When I confronted my Friend had told them the Hotel we were Staying in and they were trying to find out our Room Numbers, Being very Drunk they were Arguing with the Security and was not a Very Pleasant Experience, We Moved out next Morning and changed Hotel and Location. Be Honest with the Girls never give them your Hotel Details and be Frank in what you are looking for
Gotcha mate
Been there and done it and worn the t-shirt. I made the newbi mistake and took a lady from the bar opposite my hotel on my first day on my first time in Pattaya. Yes just like you said she was banging on my door at 4 in the morning while I was in bed with another lady! Had a girl from Laos for a while fresh of the farm and everything was going well and I was looking after her but then her thai friends tought her how things work and I found out she was up to no good. Came back to Pattaya and went to see her at her room a few times and told her I would sort her out before I went home. She messaged me to come round for some fun and I informed her unfortunately I can't as I'm back home already. She said where is my money. I explained to her that as she had been playing around while I had been looking after her she had her money already! Oh boy was she angry. She even went to my local bar to complain about me to the mamasan who was also from Laos and she just laughed and said Darren isn't stupid you know.!!! Spent the next few years playing them at there own game and got myself a reputation as a butterfly until I met my current girlfriend. All my so called thai lady friends couldn't wait to tell her how bad I was and that I couldn't be trusted. I think she saw this as some sort of a challenge to take control of me. Anyway been with her for over 4 years now and everything is going well. In short it took me about 14 years of trying different ones before I found a good one. But it was a lot of fun.
Ouch but to be fair I did the same so all good mate, we both survived hahaha
Planning a solo trip, been watching your videos to prep myself for what's to come and love it 👍
Awesome! Thank you!
When are you going?
Great vids keep them coming
Cheers mate
Awesome thanks for your efforts and sharing your experience with us 💕
My pleasure 😊
I’ve fallen for a cashier girl that works in a bar. I have known her 3 weeks. Last night she told me she had a customer. She tells me it’s very rare that she gets a customer because she has to work until 2am every day. I have been home for 1 week and I knew if she got asked she would go because she needs to send money for her 3 year old child. I’ve been with about 10 bar girls over the years but this one is different. She is 25. All I’m trying to say is that last night it hurt like hell..! I could easily have done something stupid!
It's tough mate when emotionally involved with someone matr
If a girl is fighting hard for you because you want to finish it lets be honest she's fighting for her pay check not for your love.
You've obviously been way too generous with your cash and now you're turning off the cash tap....its that which she's fighting for...or pissed off over.
I know guys who were in plenty of relationships with Asian women and never went overboard with throwing cash at the relationship and when it was over both parties went their separate ways peacefully (in the majority).
Yep
Yep, that's why it's best just to send out just enough money so they have food to eat and help out with the rent that's it nothing more.
Its the other way around more often though ....its the men who get attached and hurt the most thinking its something more .
ALL women EVERY woman you pay . Anywhere in the world .
You just pay with different things .
Your Freedom ...your Finances ... Your emotions . You ALL pay ! .
In Pattaya, you're paying them to leave, if you're doing it right.
Sadly very true
I had a friend who had a great relationship with a Thai girl. They eventually married and had a kiddy. He had a great well paid job in the far east. They had cars and motorbikes and two homes. When they split after a few years, she took him to the cleaners under Thai Law and he lost everything.
Isaan girls have a no refunds policy what you bring here you must be able to financially lose. if really smart rent a home or buy a condo in your name or create a company and the land and cars are an asset of that company. Although if you suggest this the girl will definitely go into a wild rage and you are likely dumped as she wants financial security for her and family at your expense. If you run out of money become unemployed or no more savings you are history if you cannot pay your THB 50k a month Many members in the I have lost everything club all you can do is lick your wounds and try to learn from the experience.
Sadly it happens
I love watching the videos, informative but also fun to see the scenery, reminds me of the town and gives me ideas where to visit next time. Keep up the great work
Cool, thanks
Great info Trev for the new arrivals and a great reminder for long time residents that are still on the prowl!!!
Cheers mate
I’ve never been in a serious relationship with a thai woman so I’ve never had to go through the breakup drama. but I can see how they would go mental I went to Pattaya for two weeks back in March and I saw a girl nearly every night for two weeks in her Bar one night I left the bar a bit more earlier than normal and she was grabbing hold of me saying please don’t go And she also messaged me every night before she went to bed and every morning when she woke up for the entire duration of my two week holiday !!!! Honestly they can be absolutely mental
My scariest experience in Thailand was breaking up with a Thai girl (the Pattaya kind). Learned my lesson.
Can be scary at times
Hey Trev a nice lil sunset place to try is Cafe la Plage on beach road. Great fun and wonderful food!
Cheers mate
ive never broken up with a thai girl, but i had several break up with me, some times they block me without explaning, sometimes we split as friends and still have contact and sometimes meet up
Wow mate
broke my own heart. i was dating and virtual dating one girl. last year. i couldnt afford to move to thailand yet and she didnt want to move to canada. so i borke it off told her i was sorry for being tingtong for her. she was sad and angry.
Sorry mate and thanks for sharing your experience with us
My best 2 year relationship was with a Cambodian girl in Thailand. In 2 years i sent a total of 600$ mostly for birthday gifts and a little towards her beauty school tuition. Covid fatigue finally did us in.. now im moving to Thailand in September and she is making a list of nice, cheap rental units. We have remained great friends. Thai women can be a handful.. but 99% better to deal with than western pig women.
Nice one mate
Good luck keep your wits about you and recognise he children her parents and other family come first and you are 100 plus in the pecking order. Very different relationship to the west
western girls are horrors and only cost more in the end especially break ups and divorce
Sir.. Trevor..your..video..was..super..clear..taking..notes..asap 😊😊😊
Cheers mate
A good walk about again Trev, looking forward to having a beer in the Lounge mid September . Keep up the good work, all the best 🍺
Cheers mate much appreciated
Hearing your experiences might help me keep my head on straight when I go to Thailand.
Yeah try to keep it real
Good info. Thanks!!
Cheers mate
I tell any girl from the get go that I am married and I am only here for fun, I have spent a week out of a 2 week trip with the same girl and when I want to move on there is not much of a issue. I still look after them but it's easier to just be straight up from the start.
Nice one Big A
The old Dusit Thani brings back some good memories can't wait to get back to patts.Might check out your bar next trip Trev
Nice one mate
Yes been in Playa Bistro & Lounge, took the gf there for Valentine’s Day the food was amazing and great setting to watch the sunset. We were just talking about it the other day, after living with her now for 7 months in Pattaya and now in Jomtien and eating out everyday we both agreed that Playa Bistro if not our favourite definitely in the top 3
Nice one mate
I've been with a good 200 girls in Pattaya. My top 5 shagged girls I have been with 106, 46, 34, 32 and 30 times. A good 15 others over 10 times and not once have I had one of them want to go any further than pay for play.
So either I'm choosing smart girls who know the deal and don't lose reality or I'm just that unattractive they just simply don't consider me as a proper boyfriend.
If I'm that ugly I couldn't imagine these girls would shag me over 30 times so I must have that pay for play energy about me
Cheers mate
I spent 2 weeks in pattaya last September. Saw 6 different girls 8 times. You 2 repeats. The best part of a short time is the by by at the end! I will be back in August! And I a 78 years old!
Fair play mate
Always great talking points
Cheers mate thank you
Hi Trev and that's why Im just going to Thailand to have fun no strings at going out with any girls I just want to have fun great video today and have a great day today and night trev
Cheers mate
Dusit Thani is only hotel I have stayed which was not guest friendly. Was a few years ago but standard rooms are quite small. On relationships, have 2 exs here in Jomtien right now. Makes it awkward going out as the current love of my life works 200 metres away from them. And it is so quiet here, you drop one, and everyone in the bars knows about it
Thank you for sharing your experience with us mate much appreciated
Nice video. It also came convenient..... It's never easy to break up relationships. That's why I usually don't start them.
Fair play
Trev great video as always 👍. Just say you took out a Thai lady you really liked and wanted to treat her to some nice clothes to wear, how much would you recommend?
If you do mate never more than you are happy to give away. If it's just a few token gestures and it's money you can easily afford them go for it if that's what you really want to do. Personally if your with a girl I would steer well clear of spending any money and just see how it pans out
I believe in the 1 day rule.gr8 video Trev
cheers mate
Started coming out in 1997 30 days trips as for girls gone from 1 day at a time, some 1 time per week each, to 1 girl for 30 days never wanted a permanent relationship, holiday girlfriend only. Now after covid and reflection will just do ST only when i feel like it hoping to retire there soon i just cant handle hassles and the expectations they put on me also monetary Budget would not allow.
Thanks for sharing your experience with us mate much appreciated
G'day Trev 100% true my friend you're a really gr8 source of knowledge 4 any newcomers / definitely a believer in respect/discuss expectations with the lady 1st : cheers mate luv your channel 😊👌
Cheers mate much appreciated
There are two types of farangs and mongers who visit Pattaya, Those that have been burned by a bargirl and those who are going to get burned by a bargirl. Anyone who refused to heed to your warning will eventually get burned. Don't ever underestimate the power of "P SY!" It is the most powerful thing in the world. Thanks Trev, stay safe and healthy M8!
Burned how?
Lol.love that
Love the walk around a mate, keep them coming trev 💯👌 and as you said in the video, it’s best to be upfront and tell them it’s a 2 or 3 day fling and then, on ur way. 💯
Thanks 👍
hi trev since me and nisa spilt affter 6 years ..i will never get involded whit a girl like that again ..have a good day mate
Understand mate, you too buddy
If you meet a girl at a bar. What do you expect? You're not in a relationship. You're a paying customers
Indeed
It’s all a “business” deal. It is. Truly. They want something and the guy wants something. So they agree on an exchange. Like in a business deal. As long as this exchange keeps going then all parties are happy. Satisfied. When one or both decide to change that then you have problems. Just like in a business deal. Same thing. Women are attracted to money and power. Period. Men are attracted to……….well……THEM! We are the more visual species. Their main concern is about security and a future. The way it is. Personally I am really really happy right now being single. Free and single! It’s nice to not have to deal with these games any more. I did. Many times. Now I’m worn out! And I like the quiet. No fights. No arguments. No ball and chain around my ankle! Freedom. The sweet taste of freedom!
gotcha mate thanks for sharing your thoughts
Would you know when the Pattaya film festival is on. I'm interested in it and there is nothing on Google.
Some great balanced fair arguments here from the perspective of both genders. I think years ago guys did not realise that in places like pattaya you do not need to pretend to be a girls soul mate to get some action unlike the west. Here all you have to be is honest and the ladies are fine with that. Thanks to channels like this men should know better now. It amazes me how the uk or the States will critisize a man that goes to pattaya has his fun and hurts nobody. Yet they will aplaud guys who go on dating apps in the uk promise a woman the earth bed her then leave before midnight. Twisted logic. The idea of video on the soi's is a great one. Thanks for the content buddy.
Cheers mate thanks for sharing your thoughts
I had visited Thailand many times and always made sure not to hang out with the local girls for more than one night.
Then after many trips, i ran in to my wife.
I had to work pretty hard to get the relationship up and running with my Thai wife.
I subsequently asked her why? "I'm a nice looking guy" :-D
She said: It was to take care of herself, and not lose her heart to the first best white European who entered the massage shop, and said sweet words.
It probably took me the better part of a year to convince her that I meant business. :-)
We have been together for 5 years now, and live together in Denmark.
It has been all worth it, including the trouble of getting her to Denmark.
Good luck out there.
Cheers mate
That’s a good story pal.
I’m in a similar situation.
Met a Thai girl and would like to bring her to England to live with me in my house. Only problem is she has a 3 year old living with her ma ma.
Also I have been wondering if she would miss Thailand & her exciting life living in Jom Tiem beach.
A Thai girl has lived with me in my house before for 3 years but I met her over here. So avoided air fair, sponsorship, visa application etc etc.
Any response from you would be appreciated.
Kind regards.
@@gscranage4594 how will you handle the kids? I’m in a similar situation
@@Nicholasvitali2000Leave the kids!
Great video.
Thanks!
They kick off because their investment just went to zero.
Lol true
I always stay at high end hotels so the ladies can't get access to my room floor without a room / lift key.
Good idea mate
I have my little collection of hotels that I stay at when in Pattaya Or Bangkok... Staff is tested and true, and I have no issues when they call me because she left and I didn't see you or your lady is on the second floor walking around, even lady is in the lobby. I love that your taking your security seriously. As I am in the final leg of my preparation , I will move on the outside of said red light areas and appear and do what I want and you will not even know I was there.. Granted Everyone is different and that's the way it is... I'm 61 never married from the school of( U.S. DOLLARS>>>IN GOD WE TRUST) and I'm sorry we are all different . But NO Woman will be separating me from my Money, and don't care if that box is filled with soft silk and gold lace.
My first time in Pattaya was 2006. My mate picked me up at the airport, dropped me off at the soapy massage, then left me
Lol
Good rates! BTW, I was patiently waiting in line, and one person ahead of at the counter, when a certain person jumped the queue in front of me at BKK airport, and it was effortless on their part.
All I could do was laugh.
Lol yeah manners are lacking
Back in the day....( boring story to follow )...Talking early 80's...The Thai girls on the scene seemed quite content with partying with you for a weekend and then sending you off! Happy all around, especially when you respect them with a big fat envelope at the airport. The girls didn't ask for money...some did. The go-go girls were not the same but those Isan country girls at the beer bars were ready to please and always had a smile on their faces. It's important to let them know you are not interested in a serious relationship so play the game well and enjoy.
Wow mate thanks for sharing your experience with us
It's generous of you, and blokes that are your equal, to share these experiences so that we may learn from them. Stories are neutral - neither bragging or bitter. The oast is the past. It is what it is. 👍
All good mate
Agreed about being honest & upfront is best policy.. I just tell the ladies im not much of a family guy very early on.etc. etc. The downside is sometimes the women backs off but most of the time they accept it & r cool. I butterfly too is often the response.
Cant recall having any real problems in 15years of visiting Thailand & Pattaya. I don't kiss n tell either. Respect is very improtant. As long as u dont cause her to lose face.
Yeah may lose the odd one but saves the headache later lol
Good to see you on a walk about instead of on the scooter. A good walk every day will do wonders for ya.
gotcha mate
Trev, just don't let them move in!! I'll tell everybody I'm a butterfly...😉😉😉😉
Lol
Buzzin Pattaya !!!!! AKA Trevor!!! Great video Trevor, puts me in the mood to visit Pattaya soon!. Trevor if i get my ass down to Pattaya would there be any chance of meeting up for a chat & a beer? We can chat BKK Vs PATTS!
Please do mate
At this present time I think Bkk beats Pattaya
I’m not slagging of Pattaya I still love it
You gotta understand it has little to nothing to do with you its all about them. They want a better life and you are there key to possibly getting that and you cant blame them. Real love is verry hard to find in Pattaya
Money can buy you love😊😊
@@NomadicByNature I guess your screwed both ways? 😧
Gotcha mate
I was Pattaya and I met a girl in time bar on Soi LK Metro I took her out the bar for a few days, my friend who I came on holiday was a younger guy and he was getting a girl a night and he wasn’t happy with me having my girl for a while I was in love with her but I could see she was starting to cling on so after the 3rd or 4th I said I was now going to spend time with my friend and it was best she went back to her bar, she started crying in the street what was embarrassing but I said bye and went off feeling bad but it was best for me, anyway 2-3 nights later me and my friend went back into Soi LK Metro and went into the billabong bar obviously a couple of girls came and sat with us all I will say that was a bad idea 😮
Ouch mate I can imagine
Breaking up with any girl is a drama, better off staying single and renting by the hour
Gotcha
Bar owner who heard my story: and you’re still very polite to me and my girls. She expected me to be full of hate towards all thai girls. Nope. I just became more careful and don’t believe everything people tell me 🙏
Thanks for sharing your experience with us
There are some bad coyotes with multiple boyfriends if you can pay THB 50k a month or the girl has a coffee shop or a market stall and away from the bar scene you experience so much less drama. However, if you go to pattaya you are never going to meet a female Thai doctor or thai female sales director in a gogo bar. No good thai girl would get their knickers off in six months and then you would to live and work in thailand and date her longtime to get to that point meet her rich thai family etc . If you mess around with uneducated girls who are working for money you dance with the fire and you get burnt
Looking for love in all the wrong places🤣🤣🤣 Imo it's not a sensible idea to look for love from a bargirl. Who wants a gf that's been shagging countless other guys day in day out, high mileage, well used and the mental baggage that goes with them? Look elsewhere for love and keep it business. A lot of bipolar here imho.
yeah good shout mate
Yeah had bust up about 18+ years ago . Came out of it with a bite on my hand and severe scratches on my neck . Staying at Green Hotel Soi 9 , opposite end from Police station . 2am hotel security didn't want to know asked him to get police, no joy .
Enough of that , stayed in the Dustit Thani about 14 years ago for 2 weeks got a fantastic deal online . Fabulous hotel .
John Himpleman Buriram .
jesus mate, what a situation that was
💮Thanks for sharing your personal Surprises . 💮
all god mate
Trev, can I use the Bolt app to get a taxi when arriving at suvarnibhumi instead of getting fleeced by the airport cartel?
Or take the bus 180 Baht to Pattaya
Use bolt taxi. I used it myself. Really good.
Yes mate
Whats the cost of a bolt to Pattaya ?
Nice one Trev ! a bit scary too LoL
Lol
Very quiet and I think it will be like it for a while until the air fares come down still way to high, but saying that see you Thursday in the Buzzin lounge
Do you really think the airfares are coming down any time soon?????
@JohnMitch no I don't think they will, a mate was looking to fly in two weeks time and was quoted over £1000 far to much for low season
Yeah I guess so
I just booked in to the Dusit Thani for New Year's. Thanks for the recommendation, and I'll pop in to your bar to say hello.
Nice one mate
Good advice; some people will require the school of hard knocks to truly believe it though!
Indeed
I have had the opposite. The girl has said to me, if you have a problem with me doing what I want, they fxxk off. Some girls have way better options snd do not need the hassle......at least when they are young.
Fair one that mate
Great video. I agree with pretty much everything you said. With respect to the financial stability aspect, why are they all so terrible with money? It doesn’t matter how much they have, it will go on gambling, drink, loans to friends that they never seen again etc. And sure, there are many farangs/westerners who have these traits as well, but it seems to be particularly pronounced amongst Thai women.
I think it's down to the attitude of love today. You are right, so many never save money they just spend
Trev... after countless good relationships, and to be honest, painful breakups at the same time it is absolutely my duty to inform any new lady friend that I am a butterfly and have no intention of forming an ongoing bonding relationship except for a good short time period of no longer than a day or two... let’s face it; given the number of available ladies it would be crazy for a guy not to realise that he can have a new girl without any strings attached practically every day....At the end of the holiday, when it is time to return home, the relationship simply comes to an abrupt halt and believe you me ....long distance love is out of the question because most guys I know do not want to be faced with the everyday questions of “what am you doing...,have I eaten .....where are you” etc... I’m over Thai girlfriends and for that reason treat every relationship as a business based arrangement... yes it works! Cheers GG
Just to add to my experience, I view Thai girlfriends are a bit like a boarding pass...After each flight the pass is ditched making way for a new trip and experience....😂
Yeah look after yourself mate
I was surprised when you walked right past Gulivers😮, that's a place definitely worth mentioning.
Sorry mate, I have shouted it out a few times in the past and yeah great place
It sounds interesting. Of course not in all cases but it sounds like both parties are there for their own motives (girl - wanting a committed partner, and guy usually wanting a bit of sex/fun only), which feels like it kinda starts off on shaky ground, which in turn can lead to hurt/mistrust etc.
Transaction mate
The best meals i ever had in Thailand is restaurants in the countryside not into restaurants in tourist areas
Yep
Hi Trev, what is the name of the app to download for cabs ?
BOLT
BOLT mate
@@Buzzinpattaya cheers