Toxic Relationships | Signs, Red Flags and How to Let Go and Heal! - FT Muthoni Mukiri
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to the season THREE of Best Kept Secrets.
On this episode, our host Sharon K speaks to Muthoni Mukiri, an author and mindset coach on toxic relationships. How to identify if you're in one, how to spot red flags and how to let go, move on and heal. They also share their personal experiences with unhealthy love.
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Beautiful Sharon… Thank you for this platform and for hosting me. You have a lot of value to give. It takes alot to be vulnerable and to open up for the sake of helping other people. You are doing Gods work. Be blessed ❤️
We love you muthoni❤
You are an Amazing woman, been keen on your work for some time now, and its Top Notch. Keep up @muthoni
Hey gal...I really need help, someone to talk to
Thank so so Much@Sharon K wangi and @Muthoni Mukiri for this Relatable topic,you have touched me .
The topic has really helped me and thank God I'm a mom to a four year old I wouldn't want to mess up with her future I will treat her like a queen and make the right decisions for her I won't let my past define mine or my daughters future I'm currently In a Healthy relationship though the ups n downs are there had to start from episode 1 to catch up thank you
Beautiful women.
@@faithwangeci4972 hope you got someone to talk to
I am currently working on leaving a relationship I feel is quite toxic. I have left so many times but I am determined for this to be the last. Thank you so much ladies for this episode. It made me feel I am not alone. My greatest desire for my next relationship is to be loved softly and peacefully.
Hugs to you precious one. You are definitely not alone in this. Focus on healing before the next relationship to avoid repetitive cycles. God bless you through this tough journey ❤
I knew i was in the right relationship when being me was accepted.
If dating a narcissist is horrific, try coming from a narcissistic family 🙀
I wish I would have seen this last year,I was in the worst relationship but still convinced myself all will be well. I am glad I got the courage to leave. It was the best decision I ever made. This is very good. Ladies out there should watch this. You go girl❤
Tell me how you did it. Am stuck no job toxic relationship weuh
I went through the same thank God for the courage
Wow just finished watching . It was great . lesson," if you make your home in another person, you give them the power to make you homeless." Make yourself the home, know your values and write them , know what makes you happy. ❤❤❤
Thank you ladies for unlocking the hidden information that most people are afraid to bring on the table. I am one of the man whom was stuck in a toxic relationship, I suffered until she left herself,thats when I started to breathe, although I was still crying for her.Now I'm in a new relationship with a God fearing girl,and that matches me😂Thank you so much
I dated a narcissist some years back but today im grateful because i left without looking back. No one will ever mess with my life again
👏👏👏👏I love this for you. A resolute mind. ❤
I'm loving the guests Sharon plus the diverse conversations. This is my favorite season so far.
Thank you so much for sharing...I'd also like to bring to light another indicator of a toxic trait called Stonewalling: A communication behaviour characterized by a person's refusal to engage, discuss, or respond to their partner during a conflict or disagreement. It involves deliberately shutting down communication and emotionally withdrawing from a conversation. This behavior is highly detrimental to relationships, particularly in intimate or close settings such as marriage.
Aki am going through this😢
It's illegal for today’s podcast to be this short😂😂😂😂....
Thank you ladies for this episode after watching this now my minds are open and I have a believe that one day I will be out of this although it hurts 💔💔💔😢
Bring Muthoni back❤❤that was such a nice conversation.
About praying for the man you want , Muthoni is absolutely right God is faithful he never disappoints those who put trust in them
Thank you for this episode. I have learnt quite a a bit. However, I would like to just point out something that I personally disagree with on the matter of spirituality. It is so sad that this man made religion called 'Christianity' has made so many people believe that God enjoys seeing us suffer (what Sharon said about Christianity glorifying suffering). Do not forget that Jesus Christ came to bring the Kingdom of God on earth not Christianity. Please do not buy into the lie that the devil has made so many believe that if you are a believer of Jesus Christ then suffering and lack is the way you show 'humility'. Your suffering DOES NOT GLORY GOD IN ANY WAY! PS. Everything is spiritual not some things but everything.
I was married to a narcissist who came from a narcissistic family. When I I started pointing out what he was doing to me they took his side and made me feel soooooooo small. They blamed me and said men are like that and that it's my responsibility as a wife to make my marriage work
I reckon with Sharon about praying for the guy you want.
God hears and He will give you that ideal guy meant for you. ❤
We also did this in highschool..I still believe in it still
beautiful topic, i dated narcissist for 18 years, hoping he will growup one day maybe he was just being childish, but the minute i knew the narcissist word, i run and nver looked back
Love the point on soul ties, life is spiritual. Thanks for sharing that point Sharon. The conversation was generally very helpful.
I enjoyed this. People are getting in relationship just for the sake of it. Don't be a stereo dater. Be single for a long time , Get to know who you are first before jumping into a relationship. Be whole on your own and don't expect someone to make you whole .
Amazing conversation one day i will share my story .. i left 2years down the line am the happiest woman ever
I really loved the trust part , especially in kanairo and how things are
This was such an enriched conversation👌🏾Awesome guests, and thank you both for your openness👌🏾
We need more of this from the coach
Heeeey....you forgot the kids part. If you wanna move on but have kids together. How to do no contact but still coparenting.
Boundaries..set very clear Boundaries how u communicate with the narc....use emails instead of phonecalls..put agreements in black and white
..this will save you alot of manipulation and gaslighting
Am very glad sharon that you invited muthoni 😊.Am a huge fan of hers n have picked something
Am grateful i came across this ❤😊
I loved the episode so much, and I definitely agree with the idea of soul ties, I know that, it's usually a tricky topic to unpack but I also believe that life is spiritual and soul ties are real. So as much as we do the self work, it's important for us to pray and involve God in everything we do.
the fact you know and involve God ❤
"Ati dress more like kambua" 😂😂😂sharon yenyewe umekapitia..
Nothing we change until you face yourself until you hold a mirror up see that you are in a pattern you are enabling the pattern you won't get unstuck
Nothing will change until you face yourself. Until you hold a mirror up and see that you are in a pattern and you are enabling the pattern you won't get unstuck.
I stayed with a narcissist for 13 good years! My self-esteem went down and I became ill. I am glad I finally left but I have to deal with chronic illnesses for a life time!
❤sorry
She helped me move from a toxic relationship ❤🎉
Thank you for validating her calling. I’m happy for you.
@@silaton305 Thank you ❤
I learnt about this in 3rd year of campus... let me tell you, maina I was deep into a toxic relationship.. and yes, I never left. I stayed for like a month, and then I left. Then I started working on me, and I started attracting better friendships and guys.
Am happy for you gal😊 am also in 4yr n there is nothing good as working on yourself
Heey
Define working on yourself please 😅
@@wanguimbatia2456you missed the whole point of this podcast!
I Love this Sharon, there is no time you disappoint. Loving it to bits!🙂
Abuse in whatever form (Emotional, financial, physical) is enough for you to leave that relationship.
Sometimes this men he will say something that he knows is very sensitive to you and then tomorrow he will be sorry but he will never stop saying it
This is wonderful. You guys mentioned his name 😂. Peter.... so grateful I'm done🙌
I pray for more grace for you Sharon it's clear that you went through all that for us to be helped thankyou for being such an impact to us women and our generation God bless you ❤️
When Sharon said giving and expecting back...I really relate
definitely needed this!
Need a therapist
Any recommendations please
Take away, if you build your home in other people you give them the power to make you homeless
Always follow your heart. It speaks to you because it cares about you. Say 'No' from the get go no matter the investment if it doesn't sit right with you.
Yeey🎉🎉 am here to learn ❤❤ I really enjoy your podcasts ❤
I love Muthoni ❤️so much
Thank you for this episode❤I relate alot now that I am in a healthy relationship.
Thank you❤
Hello, I'm trying to know muthoni mukiri's full name, dyou know her English name?
Nice & educative conversation❤.Sharon & muthoni your brilliant beautiful girls❤
This was amazing from both of you ladies
Wonderful episode I love muthoni mukiri I believe in her. She's a real testimony that if you put in the work your life will change for sure..
😂😂i have to be honest...the conversation is sweet...lkn Sharon is talking more than the guest 😂😂..weee Sharon wee....
wow there's so much to learn.....ladies you just hit it we are dying silently in toxic relationships that looks perfect
I was Married to a narcissist for a decade ....it was pure pain!
pole sana
SO SORRY
My life and am unable to leave.
Weuh “baba?” My God!!! This was educative though.
Wooow you brought muthoni ma favorite I just love her advise
Our girl muthoni in the house....
Best episode ever! Sharon, were we with the same man?! I was told that even Beyonce was cheated on, sembuse Mimi?!
Discovered this podcast today 😊and I'm already loving it ❤
Me to
I have learnt a lot about toxic relationships
This so educative...❤
Damn just learnt I'm a people pleaser 💔🙌
Amazing conversation
Dear Jesus thank you for helping me to come to this video.
God bless you Sharon you have really changed my relationship life and am proud of whom I am today ❤
The whole podcast was screaming my name😂😂😂😂......this was such an educative podcast
+1 lol
Watching this and resonating with so much, the confusion, wanting better for yourself, praying about it, work on yourself, elevating yourself to attract a high value partner that you deserve and that love should be easy, calm, a home. Thank you so much Sharon and Muthoni. God bless 🙏
This! So informative!
When you know better, you do better❤
I loved this sooo much❤❤❤
woow the talk was really amazing and very impactful,i loved it .
Oh my goodness 😢 I am here wondering how many people have and are in relationships with narcissists. Tha statics are shocking me, but thank you to this platform bcz it's an eye opener for the people who are aware of what kind of people they are dating/involved in.
This is exactly what i needed to hear today because all along ive been betraying myself.
Am in love with the conversation and it is very clear enjoyable to listen ❤
It wasn't babe, it was baba 😢😂😂😂
My favorite episode so far. Such an enlightening episode ❤
This episode was so deep, I was in my emotions all through. Love it 😍👏🏾
Christianity does not glorify needless suffering. We all have a choice.
I love the conversation we have gone through a lot in the name of narcissist
I needed this today, thank you Sharon.
A part 2 and 3 and more please that was so 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
For me I have a trauma 😭😭... please help
we are here for wisdom n to learn
That dedication was meant for me!...i am truly moved by it
People pleasers almost always started out as parent pleasers👌👌If you build your home in other people, you're giving them the power to make you homeless!! ION: Life is spiritual, only when you understand this is when you will fully conquer the physical. And yes soul ties exist, it's not an excuse or scapegoat
A topic I never knew I needed and am currently relating to. Sharon's version is definitely similar to mine, only mine lasted a year before he called me a whore for always showing up late when am visiting him, and there and then I was done.
Thankyou for this conversation.
I love this kind of content.
Aaawww I love her already ❤
Beautiful episode Sharon, watching from 🇿🇦
Narcissist indeed will make you feel like nothing...its better to stay alone than be in a relationship which is serving you what you did order....BE SINGLE it will save you a lot of nonsense
Thanks for eye opener,me am deep inside even have kids with him but the sad part,since we have been together for over ten years he has never said anything positive about me or what i have done.narcissm is so real
This season has been so good
amazing.
that was too good and self disclosure, very assertive girls. keep up
thanks guys
Thank you so much for sharing this. I needed it.
Somebody please give me a job along Thika road please for me to move from this kind if relationship coz am losing it
Thank you guys for the empowering conversation
Such a mind blowing session .... made me learn alot
thank you for this podcast❤best conversations ever.
Wow.. thank you 💕