I can tell I've watched too many of his 16 personalities comedy videos- my thought was, "He's wearing his ESTP hoodie, so he's acting more like an ESTP."
@@pranalisarpotdar8203 Or maybe you’re not as unique as you think you are... Leave them alone, they’re just expressing their opinion. You should be happy that someone agrees with you
Basically the same for me too (INTP, probably). Its weird. I walk a fine line of knowing how fallible I am, while still needing to piece together information for myself. I think its because people rarely explain their reasoning well. They'll say "Just do X!", I'll think about it, but if I can't figure out why X would be useful or relevant I'll ask them "Why?" to which they pull a handwavy "Just because.". At which point means to me that they either don't know what they're talking about or haven't thought the problem through. In either case, it means that their opinion is near equal to a random guess. All of that is probably part of why I don't bring up my problems or thoughts to others. They make empty suggestions/remarks which feels kind of disrespectful and insulting. I'd rather someone just tell me that they don't care or don't know then give a half assed response.
It just feels like people didn't think it through enough before giving a suggestion. I mean, it may look like it makes sense to "meet new people", but when I think of all the things that could go wrong in the long term (and that happened in my life at some point) and how it's just better to stay in my mental-solitude-cave, it doesn't look like a better option.
@@Natalia-cm8ez I feel called out but I have to admit you're right xP I mean, where else can I go to get such powerful introspection validated by others?
As an INFP I very much admire your ability as an INFJ to share your knowledge, and yourself, in such a public forum as you do on youtube. I enjoy sharing my own life here in Germany with a very small group, but I think I would be completely overwhelmed to do what you do. I think you have made a very positive influence on many peoples lives. My highest compliments to you.
The following is based on a true story: ENTP - Let's really get this thing done soon. INTJ friend - Ok, Let's do it between 2 and four this Saturday. ENTP - STOP TRYING TO CONTROL ME ALL THE TIME!!
As a sister to an ENTP and an INTJ, this is very familiar. Also, ENTP: I don't know how to this the way you do. INTJ: That's because you're doing it wrong. ENTP: You don't have the right to boss me around like that. INTJ: ...
I saw this INTJ x ENTP joke one time. INTJ: Tell me one time I forgot something. ENTP: You left me in the parking lot. INTJ: That was on purpose; try again.
Frank: IXXPs don't listen to others, they don't agree with others Me, an INTP: What? No that's not true! I don't agree with you. Wait a min- Frank, probably: You have fallen right into my trap MUHAHAHHAHAH
Yep! The laptop malfunctioning and the world is malfunctioning, go ahead and push the destruct button no one will know the difference. The world is past the point of repair. ISTP spares everyone the heartache. If it's beyond fixing, crush it. It's a hard decision but someone has to do push the destruct button.
INTJs be like: I have this plan, and ten other plans if the first won't work, oh and I have a plan for ultimate chaos mod where I become depressed and sleep all day. That's fine, what's comes next? I'm readyyyy
Even though there's only 4 groups for the temperaments, I thought this would be helpful. 1:40 ExxJ types 4:30 Exxp types 7:15 IxxP types 10:12 IxxJ types
As an INFP, I think the reason why I don’t listen to people’s advice is because I have a belief that everyone has to find their own way. I take their advice into consideration, but I have to decide if it’s the right thing for me. Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn’t. It’s the same reason why I don’t give advice either. I feel like I have no right to tell someone what to do because I am not that person. I do not have their experiences and I’m not in their position. This being said, I know I should be more open to others’ advice or opinions. They can give me a different perspective that I could learn from.
You HAVE to put your own oxygen mask on first. Otherwise you may become incapacitated, and not be able to help out everyone in the cabin, access the cockpit, contact the tower, and land the plane successfully via instructions given to you over the radio. -INTP
Putting the oxygen masks on yourself first. ExxJ: "What? No." ExxP: "I guess..." IxxP: "Duh." IxxJ: "If I do that then this will happen because of this reason and then because that happened this will happen then this. So I will definitely decide to take ____ approach."
ENFP travel "plan": Day 1 - Arrive, visit this site, and the rest is free time Day 2 - Eat at this restaurant, and the rest is free time Day 3 - Free day~! Day 4 - Do this activity, and the rest is free time. And then we head to the airport. Me: My plan looks good! 😊 My family and friends: 🤔😅😬
some crazy ideas for my FJ, which will100% blow up! 16 personalities as Hogwarts house 16 personalities as zodiac signs ( lol ) 16 personalities as anime characters 16 personalities as Disney princesses
Love these suggestions! I'm an INFP and a Virgo! I wanna be a Ravenclaw but I got a hufflepuff. Not mad tho, just a bit disappointed that I didn't get Ravenclaw
Needed to bounce my options off of somebody. See if there's any loop holes I didn't consider. See what possible reprecutions there might be with my relationships. Then after weighing everything, make the decision that is true to myself. Which was probably the decision I was leaning toward in the first place, but now I'm more prepared for the consequences. 😅
I would do that just to discover other (wrong) options. Jokes aside I would do that to perfect my plan in a discussion or get new idea for the future performing activity. -I'm hard xNxP and 50/50 IxTx
Honestly, sometimes i ask opinions about my choices to my online peeps, and although i say their opinion is good or "noted", i still end up choosing what i already liked beforehand 😂 makes me feel guilty sometimes
Exactly! It’s my decision, my ideas, my life, my consequences. Why would I have to listen to someone else? As long as I don’t cause trouble for others I don’t see why I have to disregard my own beliefs. Even if I should be wrong, this would add to my experience and evolve my future decisions
As an INFJ, I have on multiple occasions driven out of my way simply to stick to a route that I know. My wife has been really good about helping me to try new things.
Your wife sounds pretty cool! My wife and I help each other with our own inefficiencies. We revert back sometimes, but we try to help each other grow as much as possible. It's pretty nice to have a good partner like that. Happy to hear you've got someone to grow with!! :-)
I wrote and directed a few school plays. My principal asked (demanded) that my co-teacher and I make a story board. I'd already written the play. The cast was mostly ready. We didn't need a story board. So, I just said to my co-teacher, "We don't need it; let's just ignore her."
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 JaJaJa I was the master of IGNORING or makin X inexistent hahaha 😅Until, I couldn't 😁 because I got married Lol 🤔 This does not work in this instance 😅Now I must fix it Lol
ENTP here - my favorite thing to do when I feel overwhelmed is make a list of productive things to do. Once it's written I completely ignore everything on it but I always feel better!
Are any IXXJ's unaware of them generally avoiding new things? I'm always aware I have a dislike of the unfamiliar and that I fall into routines pretty quickly. But I also don't ignore things and instead try to ease myself to get familiar with the new, by overly preparing and taking it step by step.
I don’t know! I’m the same way and I’m an INFJ. I know I don’t like chaos or unplanned things, even if they sound fun and I think I’ll enjoy them! I need structure and a routine, unless I fall apart. There are some things that I subconsciously do to avoid new things, but I’m mostly aware of my anxiety surrounding this.
In my experience as an INTJ, I loathe trying new things only when they don't serve any immediate purpose, especially if an old system still works just fine without needing new replacements. 🤔 Sometimes, unnecessarily dealing with new things just invites complications and overstimulation where we should have used our time and energy in things we know are already running efficiently, even if it's not really new but from an entirely new spin of things from the stuff we already knew. 😅
When I try out new stuff(mostly food related) its mostly similar to the stuff I have tried before. It tastes different, but its still the same like type of food. I think instead of trying out completly new things, they always tend to have something in common. For example I like lemon flavoured stuff, so im more likely to try out food/drinks with that flavour.
I'm an ISFJ and I definitely like to plan ahead and don't like it when I can't see ahead and have to "ride the wave" and "go with the flow" of life. I'm not adventurous but I'm not opposed to trying new things but I also can't think of any examples lol Though if the brand of shoes I buy went suddenly bankrupt I would cry. But I also have issues with my feet so they need a good shoe for support. So is that a legitimate reason or my IxxJ coming out? Lol
I’ve realized that no matter how hard I try or say that I’m letting loose for once or going w the flow, I never do😂I have to know everything about EVERYTHING
ExxPs be like: ''I'm starting my own business! I figured out everything and starting next week!" *one week later* IxxJ: ''So how's the business going?'' ExxP: ''The what?? Dude! That was last week, today is today, get over yourself.''
I literally wanted to start an international project I got halfway through getting it done then ended up dropping it looking back on it plan was a strong word for it😂
@@NoOne-wt6om He's wrong. I can make plans. I backpacked across Europe and Asia minor. I found the money for the flight and paid for the flight with money I saved up. I didn't get lost once. I found a job every time I ran out of money. I got to try all the things I went there to try. I got to see countries I'd never heard of before. It was a fan-fucking-tastic plan! 100% wouldn't change a damn thing. Now that's how you plan a trip!
I am in ISFP and my therapist does the same thing. It’s a point of contention between us. I told her it was never going to happen so she might as well give up on it 😂 she seems very annoyed.
As an INFP I was always extremely hyper-sensitive to criticism, and this seems to be related to not wanting to be told what to do. Just absolutely makes me bristle. It's like being told what to do violates my personal boundaries somehow.
YES! damn thank you for putting it into words. *"Its like being told what to do violates my personal boundaries somehow"* you've taken the words out of my mouth. every single word resonates with me! Im taking this with me haha XD
Yeah my girlfriend (enfp) always looks for improvement. Even in our relationship she thinks she kinda isn’t “good enough” to the point of her saying “sorry, I should really have done something better” etc Happily she has an enfj that makes sure that she knows that everything she does is perfect as it is
My mum and her sisters are all ENFPs, I hate when we all get together, its so stressful not having a plan, and so stressful when they dont follow schedules... like when the train is coming, and they all decide spontaneously to go grab a coffee from the cafe... then oh they need the toilet,...and oh... get some money out... ooh lets chat to this random stranger... oh we missed the train... thats ok we will catch the next one... oh its in 3 hours... ok lets grab lunch... would miss the train again if it werent for the rest of us... then they get all frustrated with us because we arent letting them do the things they want to do... but we know full well they will be upset if they miss that train again.
@@SantanaBanana47 yes ESFPs like experiences, more than ENFPs. My mum also goes through many idea changes... like on this particular day she would plan to start making her own coffee, then escalate to owning a cafe, if we dont stop her she might enrol in a course and start going for it... or learn to drive a train... she has started so many things with the idea to make money and it gets to a point where she just drops the idea... usually when she has involved herself to the point of saying she did it. My mum doesn't go out much but when she does 😖 not fun for me, and INFP
I’m an ENFP and this still sounds scary to me- I don’t like experiences like this unless I’M the one controlling them, or else it feels less like free time and more like irritating reflections of myself controlling my time 😅
Heyyy where are my fellow INFPs? (Or any type, I'm not too particular 😁) Hope everyone is feeling ok & taking care of themselves! Can't wait to find out the TRUTH about my TYPE 🙃
INFP here. I'm struggling to understand why introverts don't want to admit they are sad and they say it's just how their face looks like....I was looking through the comments section and seen a lot of sad introverts. I'm struggling because I'm more of an ambivert 😅
@@Alexandra-sd4yy Hmmm... interesting. Maybe some introverts are sad because of the struggles of being an introvert in a society that for the most part values extroversion and appearance, it can feel very alienating and lonely sometimes, but not all of them are sad because they've found good people they can connect with that value their introversion... I'm more of an ambivert as well but I still struggle with making friends and maybe it's made me a little bitter, so maybe I look sad even when I'm not feeling sad in the moment?? idk.
@@charliebeans3202 Thank you! It makes sense. It's just that I get annoyed sometimes because I put a big smile and excitement on my face when I meet the introvert but she doesn't return the gesture and I'm confused bc usually, it's natural to return the smile but she doesn't. If you aren't sad then why aren't you smiling to me?😂😂😂 I'm being egocentric by wanting others to do what I want them to🙈 it's like wanting tocontrol them somehow...😔
No, it makes sense... if I put effort into smiling and being friendly than it’d be nice for others to do the same :)) sometimes ppl don’t feel like doing that and they could just say so...
ooh that's a good technique - like for interviews or meeting important people, you could choose the best mbti type to portray and then wear something or an outfit to help you get into that mindset, and then use that personality :0
The part about the IxxJs was too accurate 😂 I am definitely traumatised by stuff that has broken down, new random stuff flying at me 😅 …I dedicate a lot of time to finding ways to avoid dealing with them in the future 😆
@@StephanieJeanne 😄 lol, Yes! I saw you say hi back 😊 I hope I didn't miss any others! Sorry I didn't say anything else after that, I find it hard to keep up with the chat when the premiere is happening 😅 struggle to listen and read and type all at the same time 😆 I was glad to see you there 😊💜
@@StephanieJeanne 😊 I understand completely lol, I'm bad enough with one task if I get stuck in my thoughts lol …Yesterday I was hoovering the stairs and started overthinking something, I stopped concentrating on how many steps I'd gone down ...it fell on me 😥😂 I have a rather large bruise to remind me to pay attention next time lol ✌💜
Honestly us EXXJs could take a page out of the INTJ book: If you don't want your dreams to be stomped on, just don't tell anyone your dreams. That way you won't have to go ape&*#$ about it.
The other day, I was already thinking it, but my Spanish teacher told us to get a pen of a different color to correct our paper and I was immediately offended that I wasn’t given the chance to prove that I was already thinking to do that and I hesitated to get the pen because I didn’t want anyone to believe that I wasn’t smart enough to think of that on my own... - INFP
I’m an infp, in 6th grade I got a question right that nobody else in the class got. I then became aware it was perfectly fine for everyone else to be wrong and me to be right. I realize now that may have been dangerous.
As an INFP, I hear you but I don't want to change because I feel like I find strength in my ability to live life on my own terms. If it bothers people, I do apologize, but I don't want to change.
I am Enfp, and I agree with you. This Ixxp really fits me. My sis is infp, she is less spontenious and more pessimmistic and reserved, but I still love infps.
It sounds very rewarding. As long as you're not hurting yourself or others with your beliefs, then I fully support it. However, everyone is susceptible to cognitive distortions and unhealthy thought patterns, no matter their personality types. Some people will double down on those unhealthy patterns and refuse to change, no matter what. It's really sad to watch someone hurt themselves or others simply because they're unwilling to change.
Here's the weird thing, though: I'm an INFP, but my problem isn't not listening to others' opinions enough, it's listening to them too much. I can be entirely convinced of something, but as soon as someone brings up a new point I hadn't considered yet, suddenly I'm doubting everything I believe. Even now, I'm just thinking, "But do I actually do that? I mean, there's this thing and this other thing that I do..." It's true that I do usually go back to my original belief, though, if only because of the underlying strength of my stubbornness and mildly autistic resistance to change.
I'm an infp and I feel you, I am very influenced by others opinions. I could hate something and someone says "I love this" and they give logical reasons why and the most probable thing is that i start liking it too, and more if it is someone that i respect
Yep, this is me. There are things that I'm definitely dead set on and absolutely nothing can make me change my mind about them. However, I'm still open minded and I'm aware I don't have the absolute truth on everything and I can easily change my mind on so many things hearing other arguments. Sometimes I hate this because it makes me feel gullible and wishy washy.
@@whateverfloats9 Yanderes are not psychpaths, they have other illnesses. It's a fake rumor. They are either sociopaths or some other mental disorders, but not psychopathy.
ENTP here This describes my everyday struggles SO MUCH An example of this is finding the best exercise to fit my goals I'm always changing the schedule and revising everything because I'm not satisfied with the information I already have Even though it's pretty good and it's more productive to actually DO the thing It's just the general dissatisfaction of not knowing enough of this, and the trouble commiting to said thing because it feels repetitive!
Thanku!!! But he is saying the truth , I hate having a structured plan I need space to move and that's fine as long as it doesn't hurt anyone!!! Don't be harsh on yourself too !!!
As an ENFJ, I definitely think that we can easily come across as introverts. For me, it's because of the Fe, and how I'm constantly thinking before starting a conversation, like, are they in the right mood for this? Do they want to talk to me? Will they be receptive or weirded out? So I basically never actively initiate anything myself, which is annoying because I actually enjoy talking to people.
That's me also. ENFJ-T here. I know I'm extroverted. But I know I'm in connection with being introverted to depending on the situations at the time and ppl I'm around. The things is people don't realize, really we are adaptable to being either side.
I thought for minute you were totally wrong about me ~INTJ~ and then realized I do ignore anything I can’t control. Also, I just got my first iPhone this year and I hate it with the fire of 1000 suns.
In my youth I definitely struggled with "caving", doing what someone else told me to do. When I did, I regretted it most of the time. Now as a mature ISTP, I have learned to find that middle ground when necessary. Simply because it's a practical thing to do. Being emotionally invested in caving or not caving, rather than in getting something done, was a waste of my time and energy.
@@noemita494 I have anxiety, so 16personalities interpreted that as introversion. Which it absolutely is not. I also have a pretty strong fi (though not as strong as my Fe), coupled with a healthy dose of not being stereotypically neat and schedule-obsessed.
You're right about us INFPs. I'm still going to follow my gut in what's right for me. Always. I may ask your opinion but you'll never tell me what to do in my life.
Infj here... I can totally relate to that... Best things in my life have happened when I let the unplanned, unexpected, the "new" pattern- I didn't dare to embrace before- in... 💖 so you all infjs out there even if it hurts, sometimes go for the new and magic will happen!
as an ISTP I don't think I struggle with listening to what other people are saying. If I analyse something and find it wanting then it's only logical to disregard as actionable. but if enough people tell me something, or it comes from someone I respect, then even if my initial reaction was that it's something to dismiss I will reananlyse in more depth, and if I still decide to disregard it I will have a precise reason for why things are different for me. There is value in recognising we are all experiencing life in a similar human way, we are roughly all the same. I might often think the mob is full of emotional idiots but at the end of the day I'm a flawed emotional idiot too. such is life.
Giving people advice is generally a bad idea. Unless they're asking for it. In the end, you do need to do what works best for you, as long as you're not hurting other people. If other people are that against what you're doing, maybe they just don't belong in your life or they should get a hobby.
OMG, as an IJ(INTJ) type your explanation about what we are thinking that all the world is conspiring against me, I have said that to myself a lot of times, the exact phrase that u used, its just amazing. Im gonna fix that way of thinking, right f now
IxxP: Might as well train your cat. It's a similar experience. Reminds me of the study where scientists concluded, "Cats can see red, they just don't care."
Yes! As an INTP, though I am a very gullible person, I am very stubborn. I believe what I believe, and I tend to stick with it no matter what anyone else says. If what they say is logical, though, I may start to believe it, but if I just.... don't want to believe it, I tend to just toss it out the window.
I’m an ESTJ and this really hit home! My husband is an EXXP and I feel like I totally understand him now as he NEVER puts he’s clothes in the laundry basket or drawers😂
My cousin is an INFP. I'm an INTJ. Everytime he ask me for some advice or something I'll always say "This is the correct way to do this, but you'll do this way because you already settled that on your mind. So, when you realise that your'e wrong and not tell me because I told you how to proceed and you are deadly embarrassed, know that I already know, and I'm laughing at you." And then, he does exactly how I said he would do. Sometimes I even talk to him about it just to see him dodge the question as much as he can. Makes me laugh so much lol
Thank you very much for sharing this Gabriel.. I'm INFJ & have had a lot of trouble with Fi all my life, at least over Te for the most part because most of my friends have been xxFPs
Because we want to do things our own way, even if it fails. If you say it in a way that is patronizing or sounds like an order it'll even be worse off with how it'll be disregarded.
@@WPFreeinternet this brings back Memories of my youth and childhood with my ESTJ mother. As an INFP I didn't do the tasks she wanted me to do only because she wanted me to do them on her way. If I was to slow to do the dishes for example she would make me stop and do it on her own 🤣.
I never wore makeup for years because when I started everyone went out of their way to be super "shocked" and say "Wow your look so good!" My pre-teen INFJ self immediately felt upset that they didn't think I was pretty before and didn't want to wear it as a "cheap" way to get compliments. It's only been recently that I've been more open to the idea that I can wear makeup without the compliments I receive being fake. IDK if that makes sense, but the bit about not wanting to open up and look through a new lens resonated with me.
I'm not an INFJ but I felt the same when people complimented me on my appearance (with clear surpise) after I had makeup put on because I was in a musical. However people do look better with makeup (not that looks matter) and I definitely did in that case because I was overly skinny and pale and had acne in high school.
INFP and I started laughing out loud when you said zombie hordes and talked about the whole "going to give yourself away to the mob" 🤣 Reminds me of a movie where someone screamed: "You're never going to take my soul!" and he shot himself before the aliens could clone him. That seems about right 😂
Me, an INFP: "I wonder what he has to say" Frank: "IXXPs never listen to anyone." Me: "... Is that a bad thing? Why should I?" Me couple of seconds later: *starts overthinking about the reaction and realizes was never truly interested in finding out what he thinks and just clicked for the fun.*
I feel called out. My plan after all the coronarestrictions are lifted is to fly to New York (I live in Europe), jump on a random train to somewhere that looks nice, find a hotel. Then go from there. So bored right now! ENFP, if it wasn't obvious 😄
This sounds great😂 I'm going to Europe with my ESFP friend and we are buying a continuous interrail ticket so we have maximum flexibility. No 'oh well be in Austria this day and Italy this', it's 'where do we feel like going today'! It's more fun, because it adapts to your surroundings and current feelings - from an ENTP
OMG! I’m an ISFJ and he totally nailed the IJ’s...this pandemic has sent me into a tailspin of depression because of how many changes I’ve had to make...I can’t do that...😟😟
I can agree 100%. My mom is an ESFJ and she always asks for my opinon like "what dress should I wear?" and I say the blue she be like "nah, I like the red one better". My ex-boyfriend is an INTJ and he would get really angry if his PC didn't work, like hit the table or the keyboard and kick things. For me, I'm an INTP, and yes 100% I am listening to what others say, but if it makes no sense to me why should I follow?
I, an INFP, have listened to Frank James talking about the IxxP types and after thinking about it and considering it I have come to the conclusion that it's bullshit...
5:19 "...and see if YT would like to show a commercial..." [the knowing stare, paired with the sarcastic smile, overall look of "YT didn't show a commercial, or you have adblock installed, and now I look funny, don't I?" written all over] "...Thanks for sitting through that"
Don't take the tests, learn about the 8 cognitive functions :) I would suggest checking out Heidi Priebe's Instagram, she has a course that helps you figure out your type in an authentic way! Otherwise, just learn about the 8 cognitive functions! Hope that helps!
Listen, I'm an INFP, and I need to say that... It's absolutely true everything you said. The problem is not that I don't listen, is that if there's no good explanation other than "it worked for someone else" or "it's what I heard", then I'm not going to listen. And in that play, my pride and my fear of losing my individuality get in the middle and suddenly *I know best*. Lotsa advice is quite universal (that's why it's "advice" and not "counseling") and I'm usually looking for something specific that will probably apply only to me. In another words, I should just stop being stubborn and go to therapy to get the specific answers (or, at least, the specific ways to get those answers) that I need. 😂
I watched some of introvert videos and let me just say, THEY ARE THE MOST RELATABLE YET TRUE AND YET ENJOYABLE AT THE SAME TIME. I mean, they are not just some stereotypical videos. They are actually true and I watched only some of the videos and I am subbing.
ESTJ confession: the whole thing was so true,and "y'all dead dead dead to me"i used this very often on my life and the point is i'mma stick to this for the rest of my life...💚💚
I, an INFJ, love new experiences and new things as long as I've planned for them and have already envisioned myself doing them. So yeah, when random elements want to dive into my equation, I'm like "mmmm yeah, no thanks"
LOL. Yes. We know that we trust ourselves above others. I need to understand the why for myself, and process it for myself if I am going to do a thing. If someone tells me "Do it because..." I won't until I've worked through the reasoning on my own. -INTP
Yes!! as an ENFJ I feel that I need to validate everything I am doing to everyone. They never ask for it but I always feel that I need to explain myself and Yes, I freak out!
As an ENFP.. This is so true T.T I was struggling for example to get to college, because I just couldn't be sure and restrict my options into few, because I'm always, what if this is isn't the right thing and there's something better that I should go for? In terms of vacations though, I do try to plan ahead but yeah, that also happens... sometimes... maybe several.. haha..
Yeah, as an ISTJ, I am not a fan of change and am devastated when something stops working like it should. But I did step out of my comfort zone and take a knitting class this past weekend. Baby steps, dude. Love the Nationals hoodie!
Well, I'm an INTJ who loves changes. I find them exciting and ways to improve myself because as far as the combination I can get with the things I already know can be countless...they won't lead me to some conclusions that other stuff I don't already know will. I apply this to experiences too, but more to knowledge. I'm really hungry for knowledge so I try to always learn something new. Besides...INTJs like to have this big system of everything in their minds, ya know? So if I want to understand the world and its stuff as a system(and I want to) I gotta try to know the most and best I can to have the most truthful vision of the world(and sometimes even the universe) I subjectively can have. (Sorry if this isn't in a clear english, I'm italian) -INTJ
The IxxP types you've mentioned was spot on! As an ISTP, I have previously tested as an ISFP as well, I can relate to both. The not listening to people and feeling like I'm being criticized or even dismissing things from people is because I don't find it relatable to me or relevant to me is spot on. I know me and people telling me that they know me more than I know myself is ridiculous. Yes, I hate mob mentality. Hate herd mentality. Yeah, giving myself up to the mob feels like I'm betraying myself and my inner guide. I need to be me and feel good being me. I need to be on my own path and do what feels right for me. And yes, that has led to accusations from some people that I'm selfish or self-centered, which is far from the truth! In my opinion, too many people follow other people's advice to their own detriment! You gotta learn to trust yourself and know yourself first. Others can't live your life, only you can.
100% described an ISFJ I know, holy crap, even his facial expressions change - he looks petrified whenever there's a topic about getting out of comfort zones lmao hahaha bless them
I like to just poke them by throwing unexpected ideas, questions and solutions at them just to get that cherished reaction which I must find comedic or I else I'll want to shake them.
Lol. Frank James was on the commercial advertisement right before the video, so I thought that the advertisement was the video. Once It got to the video I realized it was just the advertisement.
"Their car explodes... And then they die"... Omg. That part right there.. That last sentence is so proving your point. You guys make those huge fatalistic leaps with such ease. Especially the INFJs. That was funny
As an ESTJ, I seek out people to understand myself because I JUST CAN'T DO IT BY MYSELF, when I need to take logical decisions it's just amazing, I just do it, I do a little research just to get what other people say and find the facts, but when It's a decision that is based on "What do you prefere" I SUCK A LOT. So I try to seek out on what they think I should pick, it's funny to ask this to IxxP people, like my best friend that is an ISTP because they are like "Dude, this is your choice, not mine, you need to find what do you want, I'll be not making you take any decision, what do you feel you should do?" and I'm like I DON'T KNOW PLEASE STOP
The difficulty with being an EJ is that you feel a constant sense of responsibility for the group. But that's a drive toward a reciprocal arrangement. So if the group doesn't reciprocate, you feel lost and dysfunctional. Reciprocation here would be the complementary attitudes: cooperation, appreciation, loyalty, and at least some basic attempt to see the vision being communicated. The hard truth is that groups without leadership work well for the few strong individuals who make chaos their playground. But the weak have something to contribute as well. Only with protective and organized leadership can a system be generated where everyone has a place and contributes. People can be jerks to EJ's. They can be selfish and refuse to listen until someone gets mad. That would train the leader to be mad and ferocious all the time.
I am an ISTP and this is true. After watching videos of objective personality I began to question my type and whether I can see my own flaws. Such a relief.
As an ENFP. You nailed it. I hate being closed in and not having options. Drives my husband nuts when I ask him what he wants for dinner and I have to give him 15 options even after he's chosen burgers. I can't help it, what if he hasn't thought about ALL the options! He could miss out 🤣🤣🙈
OMG you just summarized E**P type so accurately I can’t believe it! As an ENFP, I am delighted to see that the outcome is a perfection! I remember doing MBTI test and got ENFP, but I wasn’t sure If I am not ESFP so I did like 10 more tests hah
To be fair to the IxxP: 90% of the time people ARE wrong. To use intuitive language, asking us to consider other's advice is like taking pictures of every person, car and place you see each time you go out in case that a crime happens and you'll need to provide evidence for your innocence. I know it sounds excessive but it's honestly exhausting to check each opinion and compare it with what we have just in case we might be wrong. IxxPs WILL listen to specific people though, expecially other Ti users lol.
2 things I absolutely love about this video! 1) I love how much fun you had making it. When you can laugh through the whole thing and present the truth as a joke, its much easier to take. 2) It gives me something to work on. As an ENFJ, I often wondered if I was an introverted extrovert because I need down time, alone time quite a bit. But you are so spot on about us needing validation from others before we take the step of doing what we want. We have good intuition! We should just do what we want! I don't kmow why we feel its so important to get validation from anyone! Now that I know...I will work on it! Thanks!
Perpetually Procrastinating ENTP here, I need limits or my brain will explode because the options are limitless. My brain won't stop thinking of different ways to do things which is why I'm indecisive a̶n̶d̶ ̶n̶e̶v̶e̶r̶ ̶g̶e̶t̶ ̶w̶o̶r̶k̶ ̶d̶o̶n̶e̶, so I *welcome* others suggestions.😭
I'm an INFP and yes, you are right (and it really hurts to say that). My sister always complains that I think I am always right and I do. On the rare occasions someone can prove me wrong, I admit it and change my mind, but then feel like I have failed at life for days after. I am supposed to have all the answers. After all, I have spent my entire life assembling those answers when everybody else was living a life in the real world. If I'm not now the expert, what have I done with my life? My very identity is at stake if I am not right over 90% of the time. Have to say, though, I am nearly always right. :D
I like how your body and hands are basically in a rap battle the whole time.
Well in my mind him and LiJo are always in a rap battle/dance off.
He really should have put the hood up to complete the whole Eminem vibe he got going
I can tell I've watched too many of his 16 personalities comedy videos- my thought was, "He's wearing his ESTP hoodie, so he's acting more like an ESTP."
oh god now i can't unsee
man's playing FNF irl without knowing it
Ideas:
16 personalities in stone age
16 personalities as children
16 personalities as elders
16 personalities development
How about dispelling the worst memes. As an INTJ, I am particularly upset by Satan.
@@glueball214 what?
Can't wait to see 16 personalities in stone age lol
You copied my comment from an earlier vid, think of something original!.
@@pranalisarpotdar8203 Or maybe you’re not as unique as you think you are... Leave them alone, they’re just expressing their opinion. You should be happy that someone agrees with you
I'm an INTP and when you said "Don't do that", I immediately thought "You don't get to tell me what to do, I know what is right!". So yeah.
also thought "well it works for me so i'll keep doing it", but it doesn't work for me lmao
Basically the same for me too (INTP, probably). Its weird. I walk a fine line of knowing how fallible I am, while still needing to piece together information for myself. I think its because people rarely explain their reasoning well. They'll say "Just do X!", I'll think about it, but if I can't figure out why X would be useful or relevant I'll ask them "Why?" to which they pull a handwavy "Just because.".
At which point means to me that they either don't know what they're talking about or haven't thought the problem through. In either case, it means that their opinion is near equal to a random guess.
All of that is probably part of why I don't bring up my problems or thoughts to others. They make empty suggestions/remarks which feels kind of disrespectful and insulting. I'd rather someone just tell me that they don't care or don't know then give a half assed response.
It just feels like people didn't think it through enough before giving a suggestion.
I mean, it may look like it makes sense to "meet new people", but when I think of all the things that could go wrong in the long term (and that happened in my life at some point) and how it's just better to stay in my mental-solitude-cave, it doesn't look like a better option.
You know what is logical. I know what is ethical! ...To me! (INFP)
I'm an INFP and felt the same way lmao XD
This is the most, "Listen here, you little shit," video I've watched.
Love, an INFP
Hello fellow INFP :)
Hello.. I am an INFP too..😁
Dude... everybody is INFP here?😅🙋seems like we waste our time too much haha
@@Natalia-cm8ez I feel called out but I have to admit you're right xP I mean, where else can I go to get such powerful introspection validated by others?
As an INFP I very much admire your ability as an INFJ to share your knowledge, and yourself, in such a public forum as you do on youtube. I enjoy sharing my own life here in Germany with a very small group, but I think I would be completely overwhelmed to do what you do. I think you have made a very positive influence on many peoples lives. My highest compliments to you.
He does it with all the personality types...
🤝INFPs UNITE! 💪😤
(Well technically I'm an ambivert, so ENFP too... But very slight introverted bias...)
@@MattKaaihue oh jeez
💛
@@MattKaaihue same here..😅
The following is based on a true story:
ENTP - Let's really get this thing done soon.
INTJ friend - Ok, Let's do it between 2 and four this Saturday.
ENTP - STOP TRYING TO CONTROL ME ALL THE TIME!!
As a sister to an ENTP and an INTJ, this is very familiar. Also,
ENTP: I don't know how to this the way you do.
INTJ: That's because you're doing it wrong.
ENTP: You don't have the right to boss me around like that.
INTJ: ...
I saw this INTJ x ENTP joke one time.
INTJ: Tell me one time I forgot something.
ENTP: You left me in the parking lot.
INTJ: That was on purpose; try again.
As an ENFP I would have said the same as your ENTP bro
Frank: IXXPs don't listen to others, they don't agree with others
Me, an INTP: What? No that's not true! I don't agree with you. Wait a min-
Frank, probably: You have fallen right into my trap MUHAHAHHAHAH
dudeee that's exactly what i thought of
INFPs will pretend to agree sometimes to keep the peace but yeah lol
@@katielarsen2630 that's better. Though we end up being bootlickers sometimes
LMAO I gave the same reaction.
@@katielarsen2630 Being INFP 9.
I still remember when my laptop was malfunctioning I felt like this world should be destroyed
I'm currently sitting at a malfunctioning laptop, this world is an awful place :)
Yep! The laptop malfunctioning and the world is malfunctioning, go ahead and push the destruct button no one will know the difference. The world is past the point of repair. ISTP spares everyone the heartache. If it's beyond fixing, crush it. It's a hard decision but someone has to do push the destruct button.
Just this March windows 10 update broke my laptop, and I was like "I'll cut off microsoft completely out of my life" 😑
I punch my laptop keyboard when it was having issues, but I felt bad for doing that afterwards (coming from an INFP)
I cried like a bitch the day my laptop crashed :D
INTJs be like: I have this plan, and ten other plans if the first won't work, oh and I have a plan for ultimate chaos mod where I become depressed and sleep all day. That's fine, what's comes next? I'm readyyyy
As an INFJ same.Planning is life.
Ya but then I forget to factor in the most likely possibility...
Always have plan B C D E F G. never too much security
-INFJ
anyone else loves to buy near the new year a new daily planner, and fill it the first days of the year?
He is gonna say we are perfect
-IXXP
Me after him sharing his “truth” about the INFP’s: ...I don’t think I do that.
you mean ixxj
hehe
hasn't he just said that
he did, right? I didn't hear anything actually
INFP here: heard what he said, didn't like it, discarded it. His point has been validated :D
IP Masterrace
Even though there's only 4 groups for the temperaments, I thought this would be helpful.
1:40 ExxJ types
4:30 Exxp types
7:15 IxxP types
10:12 IxxJ types
Dude, cool.
Thx
Thank you!
As an INFP, I think the reason why I don’t listen to people’s advice is because I have a belief that everyone has to find their own way. I take their advice into consideration, but I have to decide if it’s the right thing for me. Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn’t. It’s the same reason why I don’t give advice either. I feel like I have no right to tell someone what to do because I am not that person. I do not have their experiences and I’m not in their position.
This being said, I know I should be more open to others’ advice or opinions. They can give me a different perspective that I could learn from.
Yes-
Agreed
That really explains what I think
You HAVE to put your own oxygen mask on first. Otherwise you may become incapacitated, and not be able to help out everyone in the cabin, access the cockpit, contact the tower, and land the plane successfully via instructions given to you over the radio.
-INTP
SOMEONE FINALLY SAID THE TRUTH. Thank you.
Say it louder for the people in the back.
THANK YOU!
This what I always thinking when I board the plane
SO OBVIOUS!
Putting the oxygen masks on yourself first.
ExxJ: "What? No."
ExxP: "I guess..."
IxxP: "Duh."
IxxJ: "If I do that then this will happen because of this reason and then because that happened this will happen then this. So I will definitely decide to take ____ approach."
I think IxxPs get called selfish a lot because we're fine knowing we're right even if everyone else disagrees
yeS, YESSSSS - ISTP
ENFP travel "plan":
Day 1 - Arrive, visit this site, and the rest is free time
Day 2 - Eat at this restaurant, and the rest is free time
Day 3 - Free day~!
Day 4 - Do this activity, and the rest is free time. And then we head to the airport.
Me: My plan looks good! 😊
My family and friends: 🤔😅😬
This is the perfect travel plan.
-fellow ENFP
Sound‘s good to me!
~Infp
That actually sounds rlly fun. I love ENFP’s
~an INFP
This sounds awesome like bro I hate itineraries! -Enfp😎😎😎
INFP here. This is exactly the trip planner I would need with me to experience it to the full. Sounds awesome to me.
some crazy ideas for my FJ, which will100% blow up!
16 personalities as Hogwarts house
16 personalities as zodiac signs ( lol )
16 personalities as anime characters
16 personalities as Disney princesses
INTJ princess will probably be a mix of Tiana and Elsa, maybe with a sprinkle of Mulan? Either way constitutions will be re-written.
Love these suggestions! I'm an INFP and a Virgo! I wanna be a Ravenclaw but I got a hufflepuff. Not mad tho, just a bit disappointed that I didn't get Ravenclaw
These sound awesome!
@@sameerakhan7455 haha im an entp leo rising and ima slytherin lol, ;)
@@sarahkobi9772 haha check your rising, i am Pisces but i dont act like one, well u can check your rising with your date of birth and time....
my mom suffers a lot since I always ask her what i should do, but in the end she always asks "so why did you ask me?"
-IXXP
Needed to bounce my options off of somebody. See if there's any loop holes I didn't consider. See what possible reprecutions there might be with my relationships. Then after weighing everything, make the decision that is true to myself. Which was probably the decision I was leaning toward in the first place, but now I'm more prepared for the consequences. 😅
@@marshmallow3866 exactly this is the mindset i have when i ask people for their opinions, feel like that should just be the default for everyone
Exactly what my sisters ask me at the end of such convos.
I would do that just to discover other (wrong) options.
Jokes aside I would do that to perfect my plan in a discussion or get new idea for the future performing activity.
-I'm hard xNxP and 50/50 IxTx
Honestly, sometimes i ask opinions about my choices to my online peeps, and although i say their opinion is good or "noted", i still end up choosing what i already liked beforehand 😂 makes me feel guilty sometimes
Me as an INTP:
I absolutely agree that I do this and I'm not interested about changing it.
SO TRUE
-INTP
Literally
-ISTP
Exactly! It’s my decision, my ideas, my life, my consequences. Why would I have to listen to someone else? As long as I don’t cause trouble for others I don’t see why I have to disregard my own beliefs. Even if I should be wrong, this would add to my experience and evolve my future decisions
As an INFJ, I have on multiple occasions driven out of my way simply to stick to a route that I know. My wife has been really good about helping me to try new things.
Your wife sounds pretty cool! My wife and I help each other with our own inefficiencies. We revert back sometimes, but we try to help each other grow as much as possible. It's pretty nice to have a good partner like that. Happy to hear you've got someone to grow with!! :-)
Totally have done that too. I'm an INTJ.
As an INTJ I have literally thought, “If I can’t control it, then just ignore it.” Ignoring things in reality is like my super power. 😁
I wrote and directed a few school plays. My principal asked (demanded) that my co-teacher and I make a story board.
I'd already written the play.
The cast was mostly ready.
We didn't need a story board.
So, I just said to my co-teacher, "We don't need it; let's just ignore her."
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 JaJaJa I was the master of IGNORING or makin X inexistent hahaha 😅Until, I couldn't 😁 because I got married Lol 🤔 This does not work in this instance 😅Now I must fix it Lol
ENTP here - my favorite thing to do when I feel overwhelmed is make a list of productive things to do. Once it's written I completely ignore everything on it but I always feel better!
I’m also an ENTP and I do the exact same thing but somehow makes me feel more productive
Are any IXXJ's unaware of them generally avoiding new things? I'm always aware I have a dislike of the unfamiliar and that I fall into routines pretty quickly. But I also don't ignore things and instead try to ease myself to get familiar with the new, by overly preparing and taking it step by step.
I don’t know! I’m the same way and I’m an INFJ. I know I don’t like chaos or unplanned things, even if they sound fun and I think I’ll enjoy them! I need structure and a routine, unless I fall apart. There are some things that I subconsciously do to avoid new things, but I’m mostly aware of my anxiety surrounding this.
In my experience as an INTJ, I loathe trying new things only when they don't serve any immediate purpose, especially if an old system still works just fine without needing new replacements. 🤔
Sometimes, unnecessarily dealing with new things just invites complications and overstimulation where we should have used our time and energy in things we know are already running efficiently, even if it's not really new but from an entirely new spin of things from the stuff we already knew. 😅
When I try out new stuff(mostly food related) its mostly similar to the stuff I have tried before. It tastes different, but its still the same like type of food. I think instead of trying out completly new things, they always tend to have something in common. For example I like lemon flavoured stuff, so im more likely to try out food/drinks with that flavour.
I'm an ISFJ and I definitely like to plan ahead and don't like it when I can't see ahead and have to "ride the wave" and "go with the flow" of life. I'm not adventurous but I'm not opposed to trying new things but I also can't think of any examples lol
Though if the brand of shoes I buy went suddenly bankrupt I would cry. But I also have issues with my feet so they need a good shoe for support. So is that a legitimate reason or my IxxJ coming out? Lol
I’ve realized that no matter how hard I try or say that I’m letting loose for once or going w the flow, I never do😂I have to know everything about EVERYTHING
ExxPs be like: ''I'm starting my own business! I figured out everything and starting next week!"
*one week later*
IxxJ: ''So how's the business going?''
ExxP: ''The what?? Dude! That was last week, today is today, get over yourself.''
Oh okay just call me out after Frank already called me out... 😅
Me coming up with ideas but can not stick them to take action.
I literally wanted to start an international project I got halfway through getting it done then ended up dropping it looking back on it plan was a strong word for it😂
@@NoOne-wt6om He's wrong. I can make plans. I backpacked across Europe and Asia minor. I found the money for the flight and paid for the flight with money I saved up. I didn't get lost once. I found a job every time I ran out of money. I got to try all the things I went there to try. I got to see countries I'd never heard of before. It was a fan-fucking-tastic plan! 100% wouldn't change a damn thing. Now that's how you plan a trip!
Same 😂😂
im an entp and my therapist tries to make me stick to a schedule... yea thats not happening anytime soon
I am in ISFP and my therapist does the same thing. It’s a point of contention between us. I told her it was never going to happen so she might as well give up on it 😂 she seems very annoyed.
@@attheranch873 lol literally i said the same thing
This red hoodie made your inner ESTP come out
As an INFP I was always extremely hyper-sensitive to criticism, and this seems to be related to not wanting to be told what to do. Just absolutely makes me bristle. It's like being told what to do violates my personal boundaries somehow.
YES! damn thank you for putting it into words. *"Its like being told what to do violates my personal boundaries somehow"* you've taken the words out of my mouth. every single word resonates with me! Im taking this with me haha XD
Yeah my girlfriend (enfp) always looks for improvement. Even in our relationship she thinks she kinda isn’t “good enough” to the point of her saying “sorry, I should really have done something better” etc
Happily she has an enfj that makes sure that she knows that everything she does is perfect as it is
Awww that's sweet
@@noemita494 thanks😊
My mum and her sisters are all ENFPs, I hate when we all get together, its so stressful not having a plan, and so stressful when they dont follow schedules... like when the train is coming, and they all decide spontaneously to go grab a coffee from the cafe... then oh they need the toilet,...and oh... get some money out... ooh lets chat to this random stranger... oh we missed the train... thats ok we will catch the next one... oh its in 3 hours... ok lets grab lunch... would miss the train again if it werent for the rest of us... then they get all frustrated with us because we arent letting them do the things they want to do... but we know full well they will be upset if they miss that train again.
This sounds like a day with my esfp dad
@@SantanaBanana47 yes ESFPs like experiences, more than ENFPs. My mum also goes through many idea changes... like on this particular day she would plan to start making her own coffee, then escalate to owning a cafe, if we dont stop her she might enrol in a course and start going for it... or learn to drive a train... she has started so many things with the idea to make money and it gets to a point where she just drops the idea... usually when she has involved herself to the point of saying she did it. My mum doesn't go out much but when she does 😖 not fun for me, and INFP
My boyfriend is an ENTP 😑 he just doesn't know what it means to be at a place in time XD it's so much Stress sometimes, I'm also an INFP
I’m an ENFP and this still sounds scary to me- I don’t like experiences like this unless I’M the one controlling them, or else it feels less like free time and more like irritating reflections of myself controlling my time 😅
My boss and my boyfriend are both enfp. They are slowly killing me. I’m istp 😂
Heyyy where are my fellow INFPs? (Or any type, I'm not too particular 😁) Hope everyone is feeling ok & taking care of themselves! Can't wait to find out the TRUTH about my TYPE 🙃
INFP here. I'm struggling to understand why introverts don't want to admit they are sad and they say it's just how their face looks like....I was looking through the comments section and seen a lot of sad introverts. I'm struggling because I'm more of an ambivert 😅
@@Alexandra-sd4yy Hmmm... interesting. Maybe some introverts are sad because of the struggles of being an introvert in a society that for the most part values extroversion and appearance, it can feel very alienating and lonely sometimes, but not all of them are sad because they've found good people they can connect with that value their introversion... I'm more of an ambivert as well but I still struggle with making friends and maybe it's made me a little bitter, so maybe I look sad even when I'm not feeling sad in the moment?? idk.
@@charliebeans3202 Thank you! It makes sense. It's just that I get annoyed sometimes because I put a big smile and excitement on my face when I meet the introvert but she doesn't return the gesture and I'm confused bc usually, it's natural to return the smile but she doesn't. If you aren't sad then why aren't you smiling to me?😂😂😂 I'm being egocentric by wanting others to do what I want them to🙈 it's like wanting tocontrol them somehow...😔
No, it makes sense... if I put effort into smiling and being friendly than it’d be nice for others to do the same :)) sometimes ppl don’t feel like doing that and they could just say so...
ISTP
Frank is wearing the ESTP jacket and got into character for that intro 😂
I'll have what he's having
I thought that too!
ooh that's a good technique - like for interviews or meeting important people, you could choose the best mbti type to portray and then wear something or an outfit to help you get into that mindset, and then use that personality :0
The part about the IxxJs was too accurate 😂 I am definitely traumatised by stuff that has broken down, new random stuff flying at me 😅 …I dedicate a lot of time to finding ways to avoid dealing with them in the future 😆
Same 😂
Haha, isn't that the truth?!! Hey, idk if you saw my reply in live chat. I'm still trying to figure it out.🤭😹 Nice that you said hello.
@@StephanieJeanne 😄 lol, Yes! I saw you say hi back 😊 I hope I didn't miss any others! Sorry I didn't say anything else after that, I find it hard to keep up with the chat when the premiere is happening 😅 struggle to listen and read and type all at the same time 😆 I was glad to see you there 😊💜
@@ArtistIntuiting Oh good! And I'm so glad you said that. Makes feel less dorky.🤪😹 Plus I am not so hot at multitasking! 😊 Nice seeing you too!✌️💜
@@StephanieJeanne 😊 I understand completely lol, I'm bad enough with one task if I get stuck in my thoughts lol …Yesterday I was hoovering the stairs and started overthinking something, I stopped concentrating on how many steps I'd gone down ...it fell on me 😥😂 I have a rather large bruise to remind me to pay attention next time lol ✌💜
Honestly us EXXJs could take a page out of the INTJ book: If you don't want your dreams to be stomped on, just don't tell anyone your dreams. That way you won't have to go ape&*#$ about it.
The other day, I was already thinking it, but my Spanish teacher told us to get a pen of a different color to correct our paper and I was immediately offended that I wasn’t given the chance to prove that I was already thinking to do that and I hesitated to get the pen because I didn’t want anyone to believe that I wasn’t smart enough to think of that on my own...
- INFP
Every time FJ said “ don’t do that” 🤣😂🤣
I’m an infp, in 6th grade I got a question right that nobody else in the class got. I then became aware it was perfectly fine for everyone else to be wrong and me to be right. I realize now that may have been dangerous.
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@@clauday6467 agomus
👍👏👍👏👍👏👍👏👍
As an INFP, I hear you but I don't want to change because I feel like I find strength in my ability to live life on my own terms. If it bothers people, I do apologize, but I don't want to change.
I am Enfp, and I agree with you. This Ixxp really fits me. My sis is infp, she is less spontenious and more pessimmistic and reserved, but I still love infps.
It sounds very rewarding. As long as you're not hurting yourself or others with your beliefs, then I fully support it. However, everyone is susceptible to cognitive distortions and unhealthy thought patterns, no matter their personality types. Some people will double down on those unhealthy patterns and refuse to change, no matter what. It's really sad to watch someone hurt themselves or others simply because they're unwilling to change.
Here's the weird thing, though: I'm an INFP, but my problem isn't not listening to others' opinions enough, it's listening to them too much. I can be entirely convinced of something, but as soon as someone brings up a new point I hadn't considered yet, suddenly I'm doubting everything I believe. Even now, I'm just thinking, "But do I actually do that? I mean, there's this thing and this other thing that I do..." It's true that I do usually go back to my original belief, though, if only because of the underlying strength of my stubbornness and mildly autistic resistance to change.
That's probably because of auxiliar Ne that wants to gather new information and compare stuff
I'm an infp and I feel you, I am very influenced by others opinions. I could hate something and someone says "I love this" and they give logical reasons why and the most probable thing is that i start liking it too, and more if it is someone that i respect
Yep, this is me. There are things that I'm definitely dead set on and absolutely nothing can make me change my mind about them. However, I'm still open minded and I'm aware I don't have the absolute truth on everything and I can easily change my mind on so many things hearing other arguments. Sometimes I hate this because it makes me feel gullible and wishy washy.
I relate a lot to that actually :)
Aaaa, too much viewpoint. The source of all insanity
He looks like he is about to stab someone...with words 😂 or is it just the INFJ stare?
Bold of you to assume the INFJ stare is a stare at all. We are likely looking inward rather than outward.
Nice Love who discord server reference
@@bio.Luminescence Yes, "looking inward", stabbing with stare.
No, he's losing his shit
It's his hoodie, it gives him vibes of "ready to stub someone" ESTP
As an INFP I can definitely relate to feeling stuck between doing what others expect from me and what I want to do.
Everyone: INFP is so sweet!
INFP: *𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗿𝗲𝘁𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝘆𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝗲*
Just like Juvia from Fairy Tail 🤣
Infp loves doing selfharm esp childhood
I am an infp and I don’t think it true ,well at least not for me cause people can be psychopaths regardless of there personality types.
@@whateverfloats9 Yanderes are not psychpaths, they have other illnesses. It's a fake rumor. They are either sociopaths or some other mental disorders, but not psychopathy.
@@serein_11 I think they're just overpossesive?
ENTP here
This describes my everyday struggles SO MUCH
An example of this is finding the best exercise to fit my goals
I'm always changing the schedule and revising everything because I'm not satisfied with the information I already have
Even though it's pretty good and it's more productive to actually DO the thing
It's just the general dissatisfaction of not knowing enough of this, and the trouble commiting to said thing because it feels repetitive!
5:54 Frank : You think you have your life together..
Me, an ENFP : *laughs hysterically in chaotic mess*
Don’t judge yourself too harshly, accept your innate qualities, and you can always improve something you set your mind on. Note to self really.
Thanku!!! But he is saying the truth , I hate having a structured plan I need space to move and that's fine as long as it doesn't hurt anyone!!! Don't be harsh on yourself too !!!
As an ENFJ, I definitely think that we can easily come across as introverts. For me, it's because of the Fe, and how I'm constantly thinking before starting a conversation, like, are they in the right mood for this? Do they want to talk to me? Will they be receptive or weirded out? So I basically never actively initiate anything myself, which is annoying because I actually enjoy talking to people.
That's me also. ENFJ-T here. I know I'm extroverted. But I know I'm in connection with being introverted to depending on the situations at the time and ppl I'm around. The things is people don't realize, really we are adaptable to being either side.
As an INT/FJ all I have to say is, "if it's not broke, don't fix it." lol
I appreciate you calling me out like that. We all need it sometimes.
As ENFP, I feel like I adopted Frank James. Another introvert to the list. They are so cuteee
"Stop asking for permission!"
Me: slides down chair slowly, hides behind tea "shhhhhhhhhhh"
I FEEL SEEEEEEEN
(ENFJ)
😂😂😂
SAMEEE EVERYTHING ABOUT THE ENFJ WAS WAY TOO ACCURATE
NO LITERALLY IT WAS SCARY
I felt totally called out.
Good luck not feeling seen because Frank James is probably gonna make new videos in the future that will call out different personality types. 😬
I thought for minute you were totally wrong about me ~INTJ~ and then realized I do ignore anything I can’t control.
Also, I just got my first iPhone this year and I hate it with the fire of 1000 suns.
In my youth I definitely struggled with "caving", doing what someone else told me to do. When I did, I regretted it most of the time. Now as a mature ISTP, I have learned to find that middle ground when necessary. Simply because it's a practical thing to do. Being emotionally invested in caving or not caving, rather than in getting something done, was a waste of my time and energy.
Look I’m an enfj who was mistyped infp and is constantly seeking external validation. What I’m saying is, ARE YOU SPYING ON ME-
No he wasn't.
@@AyushSharma-jp9wd but how do you knOw-
Wow now I'm curious. How can an ENFJ be mistyped as an INFP?
@@noemita494 I have anxiety, so 16personalities interpreted that as introversion. Which it absolutely is not. I also have a pretty strong fi (though not as strong as my Fe), coupled with a healthy dose of not being stereotypically neat and schedule-obsessed.
@@cactuspeach2517 Those two don't even share one cognitive function wtf😂
You're right about us INFPs. I'm still going to follow my gut in what's right for me. Always. I may ask your opinion but you'll never tell me what to do in my life.
Infj here... I can totally relate to that... Best things in my life have happened when I let the unplanned, unexpected, the "new" pattern- I didn't dare to embrace before- in... 💖 so you all infjs out there even if it hurts, sometimes go for the new and magic will happen!
as an ISTP I don't think I struggle with listening to what other people are saying. If I analyse something and find it wanting then it's only logical to disregard as actionable. but if enough people tell me something, or it comes from someone I respect, then even if my initial reaction was that it's something to dismiss I will reananlyse in more depth, and if I still decide to disregard it I will have a precise reason for why things are different for me. There is value in recognising we are all experiencing life in a similar human way, we are roughly all the same. I might often think the mob is full of emotional idiots but at the end of the day I'm a flawed emotional idiot too. such is life.
same
I disagree lol 😅
- INTP
well said
Giving people advice is generally a bad idea. Unless they're asking for it. In the end, you do need to do what works best for you, as long as you're not hurting other people. If other people are that against what you're doing, maybe they just don't belong in your life or they should get a hobby.
Sounds like an IXXP, lol
@@sarahkobi9772 or insulting
OMG, as an IJ(INTJ) type your explanation about what we are thinking that all the world is conspiring against me, I have said that to myself a lot of times, the exact phrase that u used, its just amazing. Im gonna fix that way of thinking, right f now
Your 16 Personalities Videos are A Classic.
IxxP: Might as well train your cat. It's a similar experience.
Reminds me of the study where scientists concluded, "Cats can see red, they just don't care."
INTP here.
Sounds about right. I've always related myself as cat vs a dog. I see most other personalities as a bunch of Odies.
..And I'm Garfield.
Yes! As an INTP, though I am a very gullible person, I am very stubborn. I believe what I believe, and I tend to stick with it no matter what anyone else says. If what they say is logical, though, I may start to believe it, but if I just.... don't want to believe it, I tend to just toss it out the window.
I’m an ESTJ and this really hit home! My husband is an EXXP and I feel like I totally understand him now as he NEVER puts he’s clothes in the laundry basket or drawers😂
My cousin is an INFP.
I'm an INTJ.
Everytime he ask me for some advice or something I'll always say "This is the correct way to do this, but you'll do this way because you already settled that on your mind. So, when you realise that your'e wrong and not tell me because I told you how to proceed and you are deadly embarrassed, know that I already know, and I'm laughing at you."
And then, he does exactly how I said he would do. Sometimes I even talk to him about it just to see him dodge the question as much as he can. Makes me laugh so much lol
Thank you very much for sharing this Gabriel.. I'm INFJ & have had a lot of trouble with Fi all my life, at least over Te for the most part because most of my friends have been xxFPs
😂😂😂👍
Because we want to do things our own way, even if it fails. If you say it in a way that is patronizing or sounds like an order it'll even be worse off with how it'll be disregarded.
@@WPFreeinternet this brings back Memories of my youth and childhood with my ESTJ mother. As an INFP I didn't do the tasks she wanted me to do only because she wanted me to do them on her way. If I was to slow to do the dishes for example she would make me stop and do it on her own 🤣.
I love how FJ leaves the green screen in the background. It adds character.
And some of the background identifying where he lives
i am so early that last time i saw infj (charater) didnt have his white beard . lol
Jiminssi
@@anaswaraskumar1353 🐣
@@marshmallow3866 yesss💃✨
😂😂😂😂
@@marshmallow3866 what is this army stuff everyones talking bout
I never wore makeup for years because when I started everyone went out of their way to be super "shocked" and say "Wow your look so good!" My pre-teen INFJ self immediately felt upset that they didn't think I was pretty before and didn't want to wear it as a "cheap" way to get compliments. It's only been recently that I've been more open to the idea that I can wear makeup without the compliments I receive being fake. IDK if that makes sense, but the bit about not wanting to open up and look through a new lens resonated with me.
I'm not an INFJ but I felt the same when people complimented me on my appearance (with clear surpise) after I had makeup put on because I was in a musical. However people do look better with makeup (not that looks matter) and I definitely did in that case because I was overly skinny and pale and had acne in high school.
INFP and I started laughing out loud when you said zombie hordes and talked about the whole "going to give yourself away to the mob" 🤣 Reminds me of a movie where someone screamed: "You're never going to take my soul!" and he shot himself before the aliens could clone him. That seems about right 😂
what movie?
What movie! hello 👋 omg please you can’t do this to me. I need to know the movie name
Me, an INFP: "I wonder what he has to say"
Frank: "IXXPs never listen to anyone."
Me: "... Is that a bad thing? Why should I?"
Me couple of seconds later: *starts overthinking about the reaction and realizes was never truly interested in finding out what he thinks and just clicked for the fun.*
I feel called out. My plan after all the coronarestrictions are lifted is to fly to New York (I live in Europe), jump on a random train to somewhere that looks nice, find a hotel. Then go from there. So bored right now!
ENFP, if it wasn't obvious 😄
This sounds great😂 I'm going to Europe with my ESFP friend and we are buying a continuous interrail ticket so we have maximum flexibility. No 'oh well be in Austria this day and Italy this', it's 'where do we feel like going today'! It's more fun, because it adapts to your surroundings and current feelings - from an ENTP
The restrictions where planned long before Rona showed up
@@carolinemasson7172 Sounds awesome! ExxPs plans are the best 😄
I mean, if I was a millionaire, I would so too.
OMG! I’m an ISFJ and he totally nailed the IJ’s...this pandemic has sent me into a tailspin of depression because of how many changes I’ve had to make...I can’t do that...😟😟
Same
You didn't have to call me out like that... but I agree.
-IxxP
As an ENTJ I'm not sure I have inner guidance, other than the dictator in my head who runs the show - and she intimidates the hell out of me!!
Finally found a fellow ENTJ!
I can agree 100%.
My mom is an ESFJ and she always asks for my opinon like "what dress should I wear?" and I say the blue she be like "nah, I like the red one better".
My ex-boyfriend is an INTJ and he would get really angry if his PC didn't work, like hit the table or the keyboard and kick things.
For me, I'm an INTP, and yes 100% I am listening to what others say, but if it makes no sense to me why should I follow?
intp with esfj mom?
are you like... okay?
is she okay?
I, an INFP, have listened to Frank James talking about the IxxP types and after thinking about it and considering it I have come to the conclusion that it's bullshit...
BAHAHAHAAHAHAHA
-ENFP
exactly. -infp
LMAO- ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ
True -INTP
5:19 "...and see if YT would like to show a commercial..."
[the knowing stare, paired with the sarcastic smile, overall look of "YT didn't show a commercial, or you have adblock installed, and now I look funny, don't I?" written all over]
"...Thanks for sitting through that"
I remember the times I listened to people over myself and I totally regret it. Maybe we don't listen because we just know better.
INTP
I'll never know what type I am, I feel like a mixture of many. I'll just keep studying and enjoying these videos.
You can take online personality test if you want.
Don't take the tests, learn about the 8 cognitive functions :) I would suggest checking out Heidi Priebe's Instagram, she has a course that helps you figure out your type in an authentic way! Otherwise, just learn about the 8 cognitive functions! Hope that helps!
@@missdannabanana I don't use instagram. Could you give some website link?
Listen, I'm an INFP, and I need to say that... It's absolutely true everything you said. The problem is not that I don't listen, is that if there's no good explanation other than "it worked for someone else" or "it's what I heard", then I'm not going to listen. And in that play, my pride and my fear of losing my individuality get in the middle and suddenly *I know best*. Lotsa advice is quite universal (that's why it's "advice" and not "counseling") and I'm usually looking for something specific that will probably apply only to me.
In another words, I should just stop being stubborn and go to therapy to get the specific answers (or, at least, the specific ways to get those answers) that I need. 😂
I watched some of introvert videos and let me just say, THEY ARE THE MOST RELATABLE YET TRUE AND YET ENJOYABLE AT THE SAME TIME. I mean, they are not just some stereotypical videos. They are actually true and I watched only some of the videos and I am subbing.
1:41 ExxJ (Me!)
4:28 ExxP
7:14 IxxP
10:12 IxxJ
Feeling called out 😅 even if I think my style of planning is great. -ENFP
It IS great, nothing worse than itinerary on a vacation - ISFP
Tbh same
ESTJ confession:
the whole thing was so true,and "y'all dead dead dead to me"i used this very often on my life and the point is i'mma stick to this for the rest of my life...💚💚
I, an INFJ, love new experiences and new things as long as I've planned for them and have already envisioned myself doing them. So yeah, when random elements want to dive into my equation, I'm like "mmmm yeah, no thanks"
Hey Frank, any chance of getting a lovely set of "Please don't do that" coffee mugs in the merch store? 🙂
I like that idea!👍😊
@@StephanieJeanne Thanks, I would wear them out lol, hence needing a set of them. 🤣
@@BeckyPhelps Me too, or break one. Never fails.😜 😂
@@StephanieJeanne I didn't want to admit to the clumsiness, but since you brought it up.....yeahhhhh. 🤣😞
@@BeckyPhelps 😂🤣 It's part of my character. I cannot deny it! Embrace it Becky!😭🤣✌️💜
LOL. Yes. We know that we trust ourselves above others.
I need to understand the why for myself, and process it for myself if I am going to do a thing. If someone tells me "Do it because..." I won't until I've worked through the reasoning on my own.
-INTP
100% true
-INTP
Yes!! as an ENFJ I feel that I need to validate everything I am doing to everyone. They never ask for it but I always feel that I need to explain myself and Yes, I freak out!
As an ENFP.. This is so true T.T
I was struggling for example to get to college, because I just couldn't be sure and restrict my options into few, because I'm always, what if this is isn't the right thing and there's something better that I should go for?
In terms of vacations though, I do try to plan ahead but yeah, that also happens... sometimes... maybe several.. haha..
Yeah, as an ISTJ, I am not a fan of change and am devastated when something stops working like it should. But I did step out of my comfort zone and take a knitting class this past weekend. Baby steps, dude. Love the Nationals hoodie!
Well, I'm an INTJ who loves changes. I find them exciting and ways to improve myself because as far as the combination I can get with the things I already know can be countless...they won't lead me to some conclusions that other stuff I don't already know will. I apply this to experiences too, but more to knowledge. I'm really hungry for knowledge so I try to always learn something new. Besides...INTJs like to have this big system of everything in their minds, ya know? So if I want to understand the world and its stuff as a system(and I want to) I gotta try to know the most and best I can to have the most truthful vision of the world(and sometimes even the universe) I subjectively can have.
(Sorry if this isn't in a clear english, I'm italian)
-INTJ
The IxxP types you've mentioned was spot on! As an ISTP, I have previously tested as an ISFP as well, I can relate to both. The not listening to people and feeling like I'm being criticized or even dismissing things from people is because I don't find it relatable to me or relevant to me is spot on. I know me and people telling me that they know me more than I know myself is ridiculous. Yes, I hate mob mentality. Hate herd mentality. Yeah, giving myself up to the mob feels like I'm betraying myself and my inner guide. I need to be me and feel good being me. I need to be on my own path and do what feels right for me. And yes, that has led to accusations from some people that I'm selfish or self-centered, which is far from the truth! In my opinion, too many people follow other people's advice to their own detriment! You gotta learn to trust yourself and know yourself first. Others can't live your life, only you can.
100% described an ISFJ I know, holy crap, even his facial expressions change - he looks petrified whenever there's a topic about getting out of comfort zones lmao hahaha bless them
I like to just poke them by throwing unexpected ideas, questions and solutions at them just to get that cherished reaction which I must find comedic or I else I'll want to shake them.
I am an isfj and whenever these topics come , my first instinct is to get out of there lol
Lol. Frank James was on the commercial advertisement right before the video, so I thought that the advertisement was the video. Once It got to the video I realized it was just the advertisement.
"Their car explodes... And then they die"... Omg. That part right there.. That last sentence is so proving your point. You guys make those huge fatalistic leaps with such ease. Especially the INFJs. That was funny
As an ESTJ, I seek out people to understand myself because I JUST CAN'T DO IT BY MYSELF, when I need to take logical decisions it's just amazing, I just do it, I do a little research just to get what other people say and find the facts, but when It's a decision that is based on "What do you prefere" I SUCK A LOT. So I try to seek out on what they think I should pick, it's funny to ask this to IxxP people, like my best friend that is an ISTP because they are like "Dude, this is your choice, not mine, you need to find what do you want, I'll be not making you take any decision, what do you feel you should do?" and I'm like I DON'T KNOW PLEASE STOP
The difficulty with being an EJ is that you feel a constant sense of responsibility for the group. But that's a drive toward a reciprocal arrangement. So if the group doesn't reciprocate, you feel lost and dysfunctional. Reciprocation here would be the complementary attitudes: cooperation, appreciation, loyalty, and at least some basic attempt to see the vision being communicated.
The hard truth is that groups without leadership work well for the few strong individuals who make chaos their playground. But the weak have something to contribute as well. Only with protective and organized leadership can a system be generated where everyone has a place and contributes.
People can be jerks to EJ's. They can be selfish and refuse to listen until someone gets mad. That would train the leader to be mad and ferocious all the time.
I am an ISTP and this is true.
After watching videos of objective personality I began to question my type and whether I can see my own flaws. Such a relief.
As an ENFP. You nailed it. I hate being closed in and not having options. Drives my husband nuts when I ask him what he wants for dinner and I have to give him 15 options even after he's chosen burgers. I can't help it, what if he hasn't thought about ALL the options! He could miss out 🤣🤣🙈
OMG you just summarized E**P type so accurately I can’t believe it! As an ENFP, I am delighted to see that the outcome is a perfection! I remember doing MBTI test and got ENFP, but I wasn’t sure If I am not ESFP so I did like 10 more tests hah
To be fair to the IxxP: 90% of the time people ARE wrong. To use intuitive language, asking us to consider other's advice is like taking pictures of every person, car and place you see each time you go out in case that a crime happens and you'll need to provide evidence for your innocence.
I know it sounds excessive but it's honestly exhausting to check each opinion and compare it with what we have just in case we might be wrong. IxxPs WILL listen to specific people though, expecially other Ti users lol.
2 things I absolutely love about this video!
1) I love how much fun you had making it. When you can laugh through the whole thing and present the truth as a joke, its much easier to take.
2) It gives me something to work on. As an ENFJ, I often wondered if I was an introverted extrovert because I need down time, alone time quite a bit. But you are so spot on about us needing validation from others before we take the step of doing what we want.
We have good intuition! We should just do what we want! I don't kmow why we feel its so important to get validation from anyone! Now that I know...I will work on it! Thanks!
Perpetually Procrastinating ENTP here, I need limits or my brain will explode because the options are limitless. My brain won't stop thinking of different ways to do things which is why I'm indecisive a̶n̶d̶ ̶n̶e̶v̶e̶r̶ ̶g̶e̶t̶ ̶w̶o̶r̶k̶ ̶d̶o̶n̶e̶, so I *welcome* others suggestions.😭
You must be healthy. I am not. I will just let the options explode my brain here - ENTP
I just figure specifics *mean more* to my friends so I *let* them choose because I care 😉
I can understand. It's okay .be calm and just realize you can make plans and stick with it.💛☺
-infj
@@anjithaa4521 I don’t think that’s physically possible for me or any other Entp unless they’re in catastrophe mode and their shadow si shows up
I'm an INFP and yes, you are right (and it really hurts to say that). My sister always complains that I think I am always right and I do. On the rare occasions someone can prove me wrong, I admit it and change my mind, but then feel like I have failed at life for days after. I am supposed to have all the answers. After all, I have spent my entire life assembling those answers when everybody else was living a life in the real world. If I'm not now the expert, what have I done with my life? My very identity is at stake if I am not right over 90% of the time.
Have to say, though, I am nearly always right. :D