Discernment can let you know what a person’s intentions are. Listen to what they’re saying and what they’re NOT saying! And the words in between the words that are not spoken. Pay attention to his actions and consistency
Pay attention to words and actions. One can also learn a lot by what is also not said. I hear the words but do their actions match them? Are they consistent?
Show up as your authentic self. Don’t be timid with love. Just wacth to see if his words match his actions. His energy say a lot. Be confident. Find out what his values are. Ask the right questions to find out how he thinks.
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 🙏 is BOLDING ASKING THE LORD, faith is trusting HE got u, , the Bible says a man trusts his wife with all his heart and he shall lack for nothing, .... ABBA is love...... So I'm just curious why folks think they can earn love, Love is unconditional , marriage is conditional, like it says till death us do part, then if my guy cheats on or abuses me, that's death..... I can leave.... Spiritually not physically, but that's the point love is unconditional, marriage is terms and conditions, that both agree to before ABBA, so like I would t want to break my promise to ABBA, but there is NOTHING I can do to make HIM not love me, oh but the discipline i can get, and still HE will love me, so I am really bothered by this post, tho I understand what was said and appreciate it for the value, I just have a hard time agreeing with A man has to earn ur love, that's just, golly I'm sorry I just can't get that to be ok in my soul, get a notification come check it and I see it and I'm like yeah just say something, ..... Cuz I feel I didn't explain it before Sorry
In the sence that we live in a time where individuals choose who they wish to engage with yes i believe you are correct but not necessarily by their choice but by rejection. The only way around it would be to make those choices a parents choice rather then the individual, the competition is high today for both men and women, i hope everyone is enjoying the equality.
@@Sunlightsam24wrong, receiving is the wrong word to use, reciprocating is the correct one, if she isnt reciprocating move on, she has to risk something aswell otherwise a man cant tell the difference between a woman who is using him vs a woman who has genuine interest.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with counseling….you can help yourself and get to the root of why you make the decisions that you do and the type of people that you attract & CORRECT what needs correcting before pursuing a relationship
In any relationship, I don’t give all of me nor reveal what I’m capable of doing immediately…..even if the vibe between us is right, I’ve learned to slow it down & at the “appointed time”, then I’d let some things out…..withholding on some things will allow him to see that you’re not “thirsty & desperate.”
I do the same thing but withhold my wallet, i rarely give out husband treatment until we like each other and move to the next level, i think the sad part about it is women have dropped their standards so low i dont have to buy them anything to sleep with them.
So the next level only consists on sleeping with a woman? Couldn’t you say the same vise versa? “Oh is standards are so low I don’t have to do much of anything to sleep with him.” It’s low standard to engage in the exact behavior you’re judging and condemning. The fact that you’re talking about it as low standards shows you don’t really respect these ladies so I highly doubt you’re going to remain attracted and committed. If you were truly someone who valued high standards you wouldn’t be behaving the way you are. You have a false perception of who and how you exist in the world.
well the first thing i do i understand and accept that men and women are different, we are not the same or equal, all men value s3x at a higher level then women, if i end up having s3x with women without doing much its my way of vetting the quality of a woman. A woman worth their salt for long term commited partnership is not a 304, if she falls into easy access she cannot be trusted for a long term relationship, from my perspective however the outcome is a win win for me. Womdn control access to s3x men control access to relationships, it has always been mens goal to get s3x, since the s3zual liberation movement and the pill women have been liberated and allowed to sleep with whoever they want without shame, this is a decrease in female standards. Because women are now freel allowed to engage in s3x without commitment from men the movement has accidentally liberated men from responsibilities, all of this degeneracy rests on the shoulders of women not raising their standards so men will take what is available until the standards return, or as alot of men are doing now getting their passports and trying other places.
Mr. Fine, thank you for affirming in this video a lot of things I had to go through to be aware of in the relationship/ dating/situationship scene. I learned that having no guidance dealing with guys when they start popping up in your life can definitely throw you for a loop, especially when your focus was never on them. Thank you for your insights and wisdom, most importantly. 🙏🏽 ❤💯
Thats how we strted hokup culture in the first place, and no not all women want to freely love, 1/3 dates are foodie calls from women you think this is freely loving the man they are with?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
@@Sunlightsam24wrong, i met my girlfriend by chance we both emjoyed playing pool and we met at my local pub played a few matches then moved on to a different pub, we were equal in every way i would buy the round of drinks she would buy the round, it was completely reciprocal.
We’re in a new age 💯 Healthy relationship with your yourself 💯 Relationship guys 💯 Awareness 💯 Excellent points!👍🏼👏🏼 Great information!💯💯 I really love your discussion on these topics!👏🏼💯❤️ I love the quote!💯💯💯❤️ You’re absolutely right! You don’t have to chase what God sent!❤️💯💯💯
Personally, I don’t want the hunter….with hunters, once they achieve what they hunted for, they’re ready for the next hunt! I’m too old & mature for that….i want the man that knows what he wants & able to let me know…..ijs
Bit late for that...your value doesnt increase with age and use, now is the time to be offering yourself more then you did in your younger years and hope to catch a decent guy.
Omg Stephan where have you been all my life? I am learning so much from your wisdom. Everything I always struggled with you have an answer for - You are my wizard of relationships!
17:31 I hate how people asked about my relationship and asked about my partner’s information. And then they have to have the doubt and asked “is he really for you?” Like bruh what kind of answer do you expect me to give? “No he’s not for me” ??? Do they think I’m gonna answer this about my partner??? So I never told someone especially people who are older because they acted like they care about me but always put the doubt in me and view my partners in the negative since in my past relationship and you know it created insecurities in me. I told them “this is why I don’t like to let anyone know about my relationship”. Then I walked away
Thank you so much Stephan for your always so helpful and healthy content. Especially enjoy how you always mention and highlight how the love and efforts have to be balanced and how women also need to meet the man's needs and pour into him🙏
Thank you so much Stephan. Your words always reassure me and it's like, every video/message you give us, it's like, God sent, it's just what I need to hear. Thank you for your love truths and being real with us.
I don't like attention from people who I don't feel like I have the connection with. So I don't invite chasing. I just want my person to show his real self, but his status is making him full of himself and makes him feel that I should be the one doing the job to get him... sighs.🙏✨
Pass…a man that wants a woman to pursue him isn’t going to be a man to count on when it matters, and it he doesn’t have to win her, she vulnerable to him wandering
Sounds like a man who has options, if you dont shoot your shot you wont get him, if your ok with that then move on, high value men is stiff competition for you ladies.
Great content as always! Ladies, if we are transparent with what we are looking for, that will weed the playing men out. We also need to get better at accepting their answer when we ask the tough questions. S/N: I’m so digging that T-shirt! Stephan! I love how y’all support each other!
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Your so right, i refuse to play hard to get and not be my authentic enthusiastic self about a potential true love connection and I win in the end ❤️ like you said the true feelings of the guy will show up faster if it's genuine when he feels im really into him and the users will out themselves. That's exactly how I'm at the moment with my potential Soulmate and things are going really well ❤️
Good Morning Mr. Stephan, I sincerely admire your 'High Value' Emotional and Social Intelligence (balance enough to be most psychologically healthy) You Tube Channel Advisory Forum. I have been quietly watching (and admiring) many of your videos for sometime now. Your higher value - Emo-Sexual/Marital Advice (coming from the handsome blackman that you are) has served to keep me encouraged that YES there is at least THAT ONE 'Wholistically Healthy Brother' out there, somewhere, that My most High, Our Great GOD-YAHUAH is preparing both our paths to timely converge and meet. Listening to this recent video of yours this morning, was truly encouraged me. It was just what I needed to hear at this specific (adcance emo-spiritual, self coaching) juncture of my life.....Praise GOD! You have richly blessed me this morning!!!!! ....and I was inspired to 'say something'! May I pray with you please (My Brother in CHRIST): May the LORD sooooooo richly bless you (if that has not happen already) with your divinely appointed/anointed 'High Value Marital Soul Mate'. Likewise, may your channel continue to be a most rich blessing to many across the world! May HE continue to endown you with HIS most blessed strength to keep on, progressively keeping on. .......AND....... If it is HIS will, may you and I someday (soon) meet in person. In the matchless Name of JESUS CHRIST I pray for you (and I). Praise Our Great GOD-YAHUAH for HIS timely answered prayers! ....and so it now is!!!!!!! Ahmein and Amen!!!!!! Yours Loyally, Lady Jules
He doesn't know what his intentions are (walling up makes it harder) Believing that he has to hunt (men are natural hunter) Men don't appreciate what they don't have to work for If you do too much, you're gonna be played You never have to chase the man god sent
Hello Stephan, I always found your advice beneficial, I am married for 6 years plus, my husband & I are learning to communicate even though we think differently sometimes. 😊
I don't agree that when a woman gives or shares with a man, it's born out of insecurity. When some women give in the beginning, it's out of a genuine spirit of kindness and generosity. If that man does not reciprocate, then she should be wise enough not to continue to give her time or resources.
Can a man with wandering eyes ever recover from this bad habit? I let a good man go recently bcus of this issue. Everything else was fine. Mr Stephan please tell me, is it really that hard to be a man? Thanks for your content n advice
This is terrible 🤷♂️ men do have wandering eyes wats the problem with that? You are speaking on a biological level that you want to change in men, get a grip. Was he coming home to you? Did he cheat? You dont need stephan you need a biology / evolution course.
A man is either ready for marriage or a relationship or he's not. Not all men are from good families that groomed him to be head of household or role model. Tune into his actions, not his words.
Very true, its fair to say the same thing about women too, not all women are qualified to be a wife due to not being brought up with this understanding of what it even means to be one.
They are average dudes not to tier men, think of it in terms of options, who has them? 63% of men between the ages 18-29 are single, so there are plenty of guys out there you just have to pick men that all the women dont want. The reversal question for men is where are good quality women hanging out at? So far men believe they are over seas (passport bros) or dont exist (mgtow)
I have a question, me and my ex have been dating for a while now we have broken up so many times and have gotten back together. I have asked him to change and he still won’t. He says he will and will go to therapy to fix us a take classes but the last time we broke up he said the same thing. He called me and told me this yesterday and that I need to change so we can be together. He flips things on to me when I bring up something I don’t like, he picked up some girl at a party and has texted others and lied to me so many times, and completely disregards how I feel. He also got me pregnant and told me I would have to be a single mother and treated me badly when I was pregnant and says he did because he thought I would abort and did not comfort me when I miscarried. He now says he would care for me now if I was but in pretty sure at this point he’s all just talk? Do you think it is okay to text him to tell him it’s really over or is that something to do in person? I do still care for him and love him and want to be with him. I don’t know why after he has hurt me so much but I know I can’t listen to my heart anymore and I’m having trouble excepting it. This is my first relationship so I don’t know what is right or wrong, I’ve been trying to figure it out by watching your videos and praying.
*has truly encouraged me....not was.....sorry for the typos.....nonetheless I am confident that you can see pass those typos to gain full and mutual 'validatingly' understanding of my creative writing.
Sir can you discuss about dating half of your age. Can you tell me what you think? My mother 30 the time and dad 60 and were successful. Just worried I’n in the same situation just like my parents, help🙏🏼
Why would ypu be worried about an age gap like that? Its quite common and normal for women to date older men. You said your mother and father were successful but you also come across like this is a bad thing by asking for help, why would you perceive your mother and father as a success but not want it for yourself?
@ he said age is just a number and really caring, he does asked about my kids who are not far from his age 👀😅 There loads of people judge my parents that they not gonna last, but they did 35 years , I’m not sure if I’m confused
@@Liliflower04 😂 well look, im 38 my girlfriend is 54 her oldest is 33 she has a 28 and a 25 year old and we are all great mates, they dont look at me as a step dad or anything, i wont lie at first it was awkward because her eldest objected to the idea but after a few times he met me we have got on great. I think he was just worried i was after her money or just using her for s3x as she is a wealthy woman but that isnt what it is, we found each other playing the same sport we love to play (pool) and we just hit it off. If you are fine with it and he is fine done worry what anyone else thinks, you two will work it out with your kids it will be fine just go at it with an understanding attiude
Unfortunately not, we used to have communities that would pair people up but now its all individualism and idealism which means there cannot be someone for everyone because women wont engage with below average men while they have the power to choose their own partners.
@ right and also.. Nowadays women wont easily settele with a man who hasnt done his shadow-work. i would say there are more and more conscious women out there. Men do your homework..
@@paiviviitala8234 but there are not more concious women out there thats the problem, women exited their gender role back in the 1960s where we are today is a result of that, women are not dating with proper dating standards, the rise of 304 phases and only 3% of women who marry are actual virgins, women are on mental health medication more then ever they attempt unalive by choice at a much higher rate then men and they are simply more miserable then they ever have been. The world is full of hedonistic individualism, trump is finally putting out executive orders to turn the table around and put to bed alot of left wing clap trap nonsence that doesnt help the world flourish. The idea women are doing better then men is the toxic unrealistic mindset that will simply doom us all to extinction if we do not try to turn this around.
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You can't force someone to love you ,sometimes you need to block that bullshit to let someone right in your life....the best this is to love yourself.
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Simply and wonderfully stated
Everyone that gets in relationship with you are not the same. Don’t make the next one pay for the last ones mistakes!
That part, you don't have to chase what God has for you, facts, love it❤
🙌❤️
Very true and much agreed✨♥️
Discernment can let you know what a person’s intentions are. Listen to what they’re saying and what they’re NOT saying! And the words in between the words that are not spoken. Pay attention to his actions and consistency
Actions over words-always
Excellently put, donnatownsendp! 🌠
Pay attention to words and actions. One can also learn a lot by what is also not said. I hear the words but do their actions match them? Are they consistent?
This is the one right here 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Show up as your authentic self. Don’t be timid with love. Just wacth to see if his words match his actions. His energy say a lot. Be confident. Find out what his values are. Ask the right questions to find out how he thinks.
U can't earn love!! But u can earn trust
Yes indeed 🙏
@@MeetStephanSpeaks 🙏 is BOLDING ASKING THE LORD, faith is trusting HE got u, , the Bible says a man trusts his wife with all his heart and he shall lack for nothing, .... ABBA is love......
So I'm just curious why folks think they can earn love,
Love is unconditional , marriage is conditional, like it says till death us do part, then if my guy cheats on or abuses me, that's death..... I can leave.... Spiritually not physically, but that's the point love is unconditional, marriage is terms and conditions, that both agree to before ABBA, so like I would t want to break my promise to ABBA, but there is NOTHING I can do to make HIM not love me, oh but the discipline i can get, and still HE will love me, so I am really bothered by this post, tho I understand what was said and appreciate it for the value, I just have a hard time agreeing with A man has to earn ur love, that's just, golly I'm sorry I just can't get that to be ok in my soul, get a notification come check it and I see it and I'm like yeah just say something, ..... Cuz I feel I didn't explain it before Sorry
Many will disagree but its true,some people are just ment to be alone
plain and simple !!!!!
In the sence that we live in a time where individuals choose who they wish to engage with yes i believe you are correct but not necessarily by their choice but by rejection.
The only way around it would be to make those choices a parents choice rather then the individual, the competition is high today for both men and women, i hope everyone is enjoying the equality.
Conclusion: interest and investment must be in both ways.
Absolutely!
Yes! He pursues, she agrees to the pursuit. Same advice for a man, if he’s pursuing and she’s not receiving, move on
@@Sunlightsam24wrong, receiving is the wrong word to use, reciprocating is the correct one, if she isnt reciprocating move on, she has to risk something aswell otherwise a man cant tell the difference between a woman who is using him vs a woman who has genuine interest.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with counseling….you can help yourself and get to the root of why you make the decisions that you do and the type of people that you attract & CORRECT what needs correcting before pursuing a relationship
Holding back is not going to make a man earn your love. Like Stephan said, it will run a good person away.
In any relationship, I don’t give all of me nor reveal what I’m capable of doing immediately…..even if the vibe between us is right, I’ve learned to slow it down & at the “appointed time”, then I’d let some things out…..withholding on some things will allow him to see that you’re not “thirsty & desperate.”
Smart!
I do the same thing but withhold my wallet, i rarely give out husband treatment until we like each other and move to the next level, i think the sad part about it is women have dropped their standards so low i dont have to buy them anything to sleep with them.
@h8h215sad truth 😢
So the next level only consists on sleeping with a woman? Couldn’t you say the same vise versa? “Oh is standards are so low I don’t have to do much of anything to sleep with him.” It’s low standard to engage in the exact behavior you’re judging and condemning. The fact that you’re talking about it as low standards shows you don’t really respect these ladies so I highly doubt you’re going to remain attracted and committed. If you were truly someone who valued high standards you wouldn’t be behaving the way you are. You have a false perception of who and how you exist in the world.
well the first thing i do i understand and accept that men and women are different, we are not the same or equal, all men value s3x at a higher level then women, if i end up having s3x with women without doing much its my way of vetting the quality of a woman.
A woman worth their salt for long term commited partnership is not a 304, if she falls into easy access she cannot be trusted for a long term relationship, from my perspective however the outcome is a win win for me.
Womdn control access to s3x men control access to relationships, it has always been mens goal to get s3x, since the s3zual liberation movement and the pill women have been liberated and allowed to sleep with whoever they want without shame, this is a decrease in female standards.
Because women are now freel allowed to engage in s3x without commitment from men the movement has accidentally liberated men from responsibilities, all of this degeneracy rests on the shoulders of women not raising their standards so men will take what is available until the standards return, or as alot of men are doing now getting their passports and trying other places.
Mr. Fine, thank you for affirming in this video a lot of things I had to go through to be aware of in the relationship/ dating/situationship scene. I learned that having no guidance dealing with guys when they start popping up in your life can definitely throw you for a loop, especially when your focus was never on them. Thank you for your insights and wisdom, most importantly. 🙏🏽 ❤💯
I agree with everything, but honestly, many women find it challenging to ask a man to earn their love when all they really want to do is freely love💕.
Thats how we strted hokup culture in the first place, and no not all women want to freely love, 1/3 dates are foodie calls from women you think this is freely loving the man they are with?
In essence ,relationships has to be a two way thing ,which involves
meeting each other half way ,hopefully everyone understands
I love the clarification that the "hunter" does not apply to true feelings. Thank you for this.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Now THIS is what I call keeping it real, from beginning to end! Thank you Stephan.
He who finds not he who chases
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You’re right, it’s pursue, not chase
@@Sunlightsam24wrong, i met my girlfriend by chance we both emjoyed playing pool and we met at my local pub played a few matches then moved on to a different pub, we were equal in every way i would buy the round of drinks she would buy the round, it was completely reciprocal.
We’re in a new age 💯
Healthy relationship with your yourself 💯
Relationship guys 💯
Awareness 💯
Excellent points!👍🏼👏🏼
Great information!💯💯
I really love your discussion on these topics!👏🏼💯❤️
I love the quote!💯💯💯❤️
You’re absolutely right!
You don’t have to chase what God sent!❤️💯💯💯
I appreciate your kind words! 🙏
@ you’re welcome 😉👍🏼🙂
Personally, I don’t want the hunter….with hunters, once they achieve what they hunted for, they’re ready for the next hunt! I’m too old & mature for that….i want the man that knows what he wants & able to let me know…..ijs
Hmmm, be the woman he never wants to lose.
Bit late for that...your value doesnt increase with age and use, now is the time to be offering yourself more then you did in your younger years and hope to catch a decent guy.
@h8h215 I am agreeing with you 💯. Unfortunately we have some women that’s above 30-35 that hasn’t quite grasped that concept of thinking
I found you a few months ago. And I thank God for you. I look at relationships so differently now ❤
I am so glad to hear that 🙏
Love & relationship are totally different. I agree 💯 with you on that Stephan
Omg Stephan where have you been all my life? I am learning so much from your wisdom. Everything I always struggled with you have an answer for - You are my wizard of relationships!
17:31 I hate how people asked about my relationship and asked about my partner’s information. And then they have to have the doubt and asked “is he really for you?” Like bruh what kind of answer do you expect me to give? “No he’s not for me” ??? Do they think I’m gonna answer this about my partner??? So I never told someone especially people who are older because they acted like they care about me but always put the doubt in me and view my partners in the negative since in my past relationship and you know it created insecurities in me. I told them “this is why I don’t like to let anyone know about my relationship”. Then I walked away
Thank you so much for this piece sir Stephen you're indeed a blessing 🎉
It's not confusing at all. It's open and realistic ... Truth and time tells all..
This was really some great explanations.
Very good points about the walls, blocking people from you, I am finally learning how to handle this properly. Thank you for all your support.❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much Stephan for your always so helpful and healthy content. Especially enjoy how you always mention and highlight how the love and efforts have to be balanced and how women also need to meet the man's needs and pour into him🙏
Some great points. There is so much I want to say, but will just say thank you❤
Thank you so much Stephan. Your words always reassure me and it's like, every video/message you give us, it's like, God sent, it's just what I need to hear. Thank you for your love truths and being real with us.
I don't like attention from people who I don't feel like I have the connection with. So I don't invite chasing. I just want my person to show his real self, but his status is making him full of himself and makes him feel that I should be the one doing the job to get him... sighs.🙏✨
Pass…a man that wants a woman to pursue him isn’t going to be a man to count on when it matters, and it he doesn’t have to win her, she vulnerable to him wandering
Sounds like a man who has options, if you dont shoot your shot you wont get him, if your ok with that then move on, high value men is stiff competition for you ladies.
@h8h215I think if he feels like he has options, I was wrong to feel that he was my person and I was his. 🙏✨
Great content as always! Ladies, if we are transparent with what we are looking for, that will weed the playing men out. We also need to get better at accepting their answer when we ask the tough questions.
S/N: I’m so digging that T-shirt! Stephan! I love how y’all support each other!
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Akunna, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father akunna, he has great powers, he can help you.
I appreciate you providing this important information; I've just checked Father Akunna online, and wow, he's really genuine. Thank you so much again ❤
I love this. Thank you ❤
Listening ❤🎉❤
Thanks 🙏
Your so right, i refuse to play hard to get and not be my authentic enthusiastic self about a potential true love connection and I win in the end ❤️ like you said the true feelings of the guy will show up faster if it's genuine when he feels im really into him and the users will out themselves. That's exactly how I'm at the moment with my potential Soulmate and things are going really well ❤️
I hope everything works out for you, bravo 👏👏👏
@h8h215 thank you 🙏
Good Morning Mr. Stephan,
I sincerely admire your 'High Value' Emotional and Social Intelligence (balance enough to be most psychologically healthy) You Tube Channel Advisory Forum.
I have been quietly watching (and admiring) many of your videos for sometime now. Your higher value - Emo-Sexual/Marital Advice (coming from the handsome blackman that you are) has served to keep me encouraged that YES there is at least THAT ONE 'Wholistically Healthy Brother' out there, somewhere, that My most High, Our Great GOD-YAHUAH is preparing both our paths to timely converge and meet.
Listening to this recent video of yours this morning, was truly encouraged me. It was just what I needed to hear at this specific (adcance emo-spiritual, self coaching) juncture of my life.....Praise GOD! You have richly blessed me this morning!!!!! ....and I was inspired to 'say something'!
May I pray with you please (My Brother in CHRIST):
May the LORD sooooooo richly bless you (if that has not happen already) with your divinely appointed/anointed 'High Value Marital Soul Mate'.
Likewise, may your channel continue to be a most rich blessing to many across the world! May HE continue to endown you with HIS most blessed strength to keep on, progressively keeping on.
.......AND.......
If it is HIS will, may you and I someday (soon) meet in person.
In the matchless Name of JESUS CHRIST I pray for you (and I).
Praise Our Great GOD-YAHUAH for HIS timely answered prayers!
....and so it now is!!!!!!!
Ahmein and Amen!!!!!!
Yours Loyally,
Lady Jules
I really needed to hear this video!
He doesn't know what his intentions are (walling up makes it harder)
Believing that he has to hunt (men are natural hunter)
Men don't appreciate what they don't have to work for
If you do too much, you're gonna be played
You never have to chase the man god sent
Best couch ever tfs❤
L💚VE the t-shirt.
Beautiful plant behind you! ❤
Thank you! This is helpful. I think I may have met someone!
Hello Stephan, I always found your advice beneficial, I am married for 6 years plus, my husband & I are learning to communicate even though we think differently sometimes. 😊
I don't agree that when a woman gives or shares with a man, it's born out of insecurity. When some women give in the beginning, it's out of a genuine spirit of kindness and generosity. If that man does not reciprocate, then she should be wise enough not to continue to give her time or resources.
Thank you ❤
Win is a better description than ‘earn’, my two cents
Can a man with wandering eyes ever recover from this bad habit? I let a good man go recently bcus of this issue. Everything else was fine. Mr Stephan please tell me, is it really that hard to be a man? Thanks for your content n advice
Wow that was the only issue 😕
This is terrible 🤷♂️ men do have wandering eyes wats the problem with that?
You are speaking on a biological level that you want to change in men, get a grip.
Was he coming home to you? Did he cheat?
You dont need stephan you need a biology / evolution course.
If it was disrespectful you did the right thing.
Yes it was...@@jhnsn1
@tinawalker5335 yes he would stare and If i pointed it out he said that he didn't do it. I dont think he was aware..
Love is blind 💔 that's the problem
A man is either ready for marriage or a relationship or he's not. Not all men are from good families that groomed him to be head of household or role model. Tune into his actions, not his words.
Very true, its fair to say the same thing about women too, not all women are qualified to be a wife due to not being brought up with this understanding of what it even means to be one.
Where are these men who just want 1 woman?? Where do they hangout? LoL 😂
They are average dudes not to tier men, think of it in terms of options, who has them?
63% of men between the ages 18-29 are single, so there are plenty of guys out there you just have to pick men that all the women dont want.
The reversal question for men is where are good quality women hanging out at? So far men believe they are over seas (passport bros) or dont exist (mgtow)
I have a question, me and my ex have been dating for a while now we have broken up so many times and have gotten back together. I have asked him to change and he still won’t. He says he will and will go to therapy to fix us a take classes but the last time we broke up he said the same thing. He called me and told me this yesterday and that I need to change so we can be together. He flips things on to me when I bring up something I don’t like, he picked up some girl at a party and has texted others and lied to me so many times, and completely disregards how I feel. He also got me pregnant and told me I would have to be a single mother and treated me badly when I was pregnant and says he did because he thought I would abort and did not comfort me when I miscarried. He now says he would care for me now if I was but in pretty sure at this point he’s all just talk? Do you think it is okay to text him to tell him it’s really over or is that something to do in person? I do still care for him and love him and want to be with him. I don’t know why after he has hurt me so much but I know I can’t listen to my heart anymore and I’m having trouble excepting it. This is my first relationship so I don’t know what is right or wrong, I’ve been trying to figure it out by watching your videos and praying.
Move on already, ghese stories teach men to be jerks because you women become so magnetized to jerk men, stop it and do better ladies.
There’s no need to chase what God has meant for you. 🙏❤️
You can only fake it till you make it for so long
*has truly encouraged me....not was.....sorry for the typos.....nonetheless I am confident that you can see pass those typos to gain full and mutual 'validatingly' understanding of my creative writing.
Sir can you discuss about dating half of your age. Can you tell me what you think? My mother 30 the time and dad 60 and were successful. Just worried I’n in the same situation just like my parents, help🙏🏼
Why would ypu be worried about an age gap like that? Its quite common and normal for women to date older men.
You said your mother and father were successful but you also come across like this is a bad thing by asking for help, why would you perceive your mother and father as a success but not want it for yourself?
@h8h215 I do, but it's the other way. I'm the older and scared to fall for him as he's not far away same my son age
@@Liliflower04 how does he feel?
@ he said age is just a number and really caring, he does asked about my kids who are not far from his age 👀😅
There loads of people judge my parents that they not gonna last, but they did 35 years , I’m not sure if I’m confused
@@Liliflower04 😂 well look, im 38 my girlfriend is 54 her oldest is 33 she has a 28 and a 25 year old and we are all great mates, they dont look at me as a step dad or anything, i wont lie at first it was awkward because her eldest objected to the idea but after a few times he met me we have got on great.
I think he was just worried i was after her money or just using her for s3x as she is a wealthy woman but that isnt what it is, we found each other playing the same sport we love to play (pool) and we just hit it off.
If you are fine with it and he is fine done worry what anyone else thinks, you two will work it out with your kids it will be fine just go at it with an understanding attiude
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Thank you for watching
Stephan, ilysm please speak faster I watch you on 2.0 and it’s still slower than regular conversation
*advance emo-spiritual and not adcance.....
Does God has someone for everybody?
Unfortunately not, we used to have communities that would pair people up but now its all individualism and idealism which means there cannot be someone for everyone because women wont engage with below average men while they have the power to choose their own partners.
@ right and also.. Nowadays women wont easily settele with a man who hasnt done his shadow-work. i would say there are more and more conscious women out there. Men do your homework..
@@paiviviitala8234 but there are not more concious women out there thats the problem, women exited their gender role back in the 1960s where we are today is a result of that, women are not dating with proper dating standards, the rise of 304 phases and only 3% of women who marry are actual virgins, women are on mental health medication more then ever they attempt unalive by choice at a much higher rate then men and they are simply more miserable then they ever have been.
The world is full of hedonistic individualism, trump is finally putting out executive orders to turn the table around and put to bed alot of left wing clap trap nonsence that doesnt help the world flourish.
The idea women are doing better then men is the toxic unrealistic mindset that will simply doom us all to extinction if we do not try to turn this around.
The soil is weak.
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Stephan listen…us ladies are tirrrrrrreeeed! We don’t have the energy anymore
You are tired perhap but women are not, speak for yourself.
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