The Traumatic Core of Love

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  • Опубліковано 6 чер 2024
  • "At its core, love is marked by an absence of itself. Love is inherently empty. The promise of love from others carries with it the hope of curing our anxiety and inner void. When this hope is taken away, we are essentially deprived of our own selves. In the disillusionment of another's promise of love, we come to realize its true nature - love is revealed as an illusion, a facade concealing its inherent absence. Love has always been empty at its heart; it's just that before our disillusionment, we could believe in the illusion of a fully present love, while denying its inherent void." - Dr Julie Reshe, SCREAM PAIN LOVE
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 12

  • @JulieReshe
    @JulieReshe 2 місяці тому +1

    who are those people standing next to me?

  • @user-xq9ki7sz3f
    @user-xq9ki7sz3f 2 місяці тому +3

    "Hey [rahul]! Just wanted to drop by and say how much I admire your work. Your videos never fail to spark my curiosity and enrich my understanding of diverse topics. Would love to see a video on schizoanalysis from your perspective in the future! Keep up the fantastic content!"

    • @RahulSam
      @RahulSam  2 місяці тому +3

      You're too kind. Thank you, my friend.

  • @laurenreddful
    @laurenreddful 2 місяці тому +1

    These ideas vindicate my core experiences of love and help me to release the sterilized versions of love imposed by castrated self-help gurus. Love and pain are thoroughly amalgamated.

    • @RahulSam
      @RahulSam  2 місяці тому

      Beautifully put and lovely to hear.

  • @EduardVodovytskyi
    @EduardVodovytskyi 2 місяці тому

    Horror or not, it is an important part of life, especially in love. When you experience something like this, you understand more what you feel. Especially over time, when you understand the importance of the loss. If you have never felt this way, then what is the point of living? Pain is like hope, otherwise life is sad. I like my pain, it gives me hope for the future, which I hope will happen someday.

    • @RahulSam
      @RahulSam  2 місяці тому

      I believe Julie would mostly agree with your sentiments. Her description of love in no way implied that love had no value or importance to life; in fact, quite the contrary.

    • @EduardVodovytskyi
      @EduardVodovytskyi 2 місяці тому

      agree :)

  • @brolol3136
    @brolol3136 2 місяці тому

    No way 😊 That's radical 😅