Keep your children busy in activities so they are not 12 actively contemplating on how to tank their lives with another person. This is sad. And 4 kids being raised in this
He’s has checked out of LIFE He acts strange and weird, she shouldn’t have shed one tear for that creep! Definition of a horrible husband and that’s why she looks older than she is because she’s dealing with a demon!
yup. he could not even fake it. Sad. The judge read this one right! I'm sad for the kids but happy for the soon-to-be ex wife. The husband doesn't deserve a woman like her.
@@hiramabiff5236He hasn’t worked in 2 years, so he is using her for a roof over his head and he cheats. She has to officially cut the ties and make the children her priority.
Precisely.... I'm believing at 13 yrs Her parents \ home life is what she was trying to get away from. She thought he was her way out and he was just looking for someone vulnerable to take advantage of .... They should have BOTH waited until after college to start a family.
You cannot change the past but all I kept saying was...is where was her parents? Where was her father? How did this happen to a young girl and then why didn't someone educate them on family matters (birth control)? 4 kids with no real income to afford a family is just sad. Again, where are the adults. Where is that Auntie that gives unsolicited advices and wisdom. I wish them well and those children.
Sad married too young got children too young didnt experience things teenagers should be doing dating making friends learning about they selves before getting married parents should have stopped her from getting married i think they were and not ready for marriage
The falloff from being a great high school athlete is hard for some. He spent his whole life focused on a 0.03% chance to make it to the NBA he never focused on what happens when you don’t make it. I see a lot of grown adults still reliving their high school glory. He needs a job.
I really wish she would not have let him keep the house. She deserves more leaving this marriage including alimony, and child support. I really hope the best for her and the children.
you can tell the wife was sad about this. I don' think there was anything redeeming about him at this point. Maybe later on down the line, but definitely not now. Sad. She seems like was/is a nice young lady. The kids will now suffer.
Lady It doesn't matter how long you guys have been together if he does not to change then he will not, you can do WAY better for you and your children 💪😊!!!!
She's too insecure if the man had an opportunity to get a job driving a truck or a bus leave him alone. I think they both need to separate and get better to provide for themselves. 💯‼️🥰👎🏼🤪😳
She Gorgeous and Pretty and take Judge Toler advice and I don't think she should take him back after everything he did to this Gorgeous woman just co parent that's all
This couple was way too young and had kids way too early. Four children is a lot and they deserve to have a good life which is hard to provide with so many. Love them and concentrate on a better future.
He's never gonna be consistent they married young. She grew up and he didnt want to. Its easy to say im a man but actions. Yes she did her dirt but you can only push a woman so far. Wishing her the best and he has boys ohh lord 😢😢😢
At the beginning of the video , when judge Toler ‘announced’ the number of years the litigants were together and the number of years they were married, the audience started clapping like idiots. Those two are now in front the judge on ‘Divorce Court’ and it’s not because their lives are harmonious so there was no reasons what so ever to applaud like fools. Man I hate the over reaction of the audience in that show!
She was to damn young to get married. A child making adult decisions. Neither one had any idea what a marriage was. Her parents should have never gave their consent
🍿400. All that off & on throughout this relationship. Even though she was 12 years old, my grandma would have said a #fasttail I think every time they break up, they need to start the clock over
This is just my opinion. He showed himself to be a quitter when he dropped out of college. He was using the birth of his child as an excuse rather than a reason to compete college. He probably was already flunking out. Then has the nerve to project his quiet anger towards himself onto her (even though his mouth said it was his fault). Why would you continue to make three more babies and could not as a “couple” financially afford one.
I just can’t feel sorry, or sad, or whatever towards Erika, she’s the instigator of her situation. She chose to be blind to Shaun’s ‘mishaps’. Right at the very beginning, SHE’S the one who decided he was going to be her husband and SHE’S the one who decided to work him to be it. Personally I would have kicked that idiot to the curb right after the first affair and live my life with my children in co-parenting with him.
@@kalimbaayinde25 You are right! The parents missed a good opportunity to show their daughter that, fixating on someone to be her husband someday so early on in her life, shouldn’t be her primary goal. Especially at twelve years old!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
She was a piece of tail for his older behind teen, full of hormones and no self control of them. I wish these young ladies would learn to stop making babies before they are #1. married and #2. secure in the marriage. He got stuck because of children, but that's the worst place to be; like being forced, therefore, they'll never be happy together that way. He had a lot of street experience; he's out grown her clearly.
Nobody gonna talk about how she was 13 and he was 17 when they got together?
EXACTLY!!
OR how her parents gave consent for them to continue to be together THEN GET MARRIED when she was 17?😳
Exactly , that's statutory rape ! I bet the girls he cheated with were also underage
i paused it immediately to do that math 😂😂😂 glad im not the only one
Literally came here to say this. I also had to pause it and do the math... because wtf
Keep your children busy in activities so they are not 12 actively contemplating on how to tank their lives with another person. This is sad. And 4 kids being raised in this
Together 15yrs, then I saw her age as 28yrs.. instantly my math calculated that this was not a good thing.
He’s has checked out of LIFE
He acts strange and weird, she shouldn’t have shed one tear for that creep!
Definition of a horrible husband and that’s why she looks older than she is because she’s dealing with a demon!
EMOTIONALLY THAT MAN IS CHECKED OUT.
Yes, It looks that way.
yup. he could not even fake it. Sad. The judge read this one right! I'm sad for the kids but happy for the soon-to-be ex wife. The husband doesn't deserve a woman like her.
@@hiramabiff5236He hasn’t worked in 2 years, so he is using her for a roof over his head and he cheats. She has to officially cut the ties and make the children her priority.
@@jearl3054 I agree. She definitely needs to make it detachment official. He’s definitely not worth the time or the effort. The kids are the priority!
@@hiramabiff5236 👍
The feelings weren't mutual from the beginning, that's where it went wrong
They were teenagers. She was a child! That's where it went wrong.
Precisely.... I'm believing at 13 yrs Her parents \ home life is what she was trying to get away from. She thought he was her way out and he was just looking for someone vulnerable to take advantage of .... They should have BOTH waited until after college to start a family.
You cannot change the past but all I kept saying was...is where was her parents? Where was her father? How did this happen to a young girl and then why didn't someone educate them on family matters (birth control)? 4 kids with no real income to afford a family is just sad. Again, where are the adults. Where is that Auntie that gives unsolicited advices and wisdom. I wish them well and those children.
Of course he dont wanna divorce, he will have to work to pay for child support.😂😂😂
He gives me that I don't give a damn any more about her & the marriage vibes.
It's over with it
4 kids and no job in 2 years and he is cheating....no way
She's pretty. But she looks much older than her age. A bad marriage will do that. People need to choose their partner wisely.
All facts. Sadly, there are slim pickings to choose from these days. And the few good once like Papoose are treated badly and called SIMPS.
I relate. Once I divorced, blood pressure went down, and I gained a healthy weight 💪. I look 10 years younger ❤
Extra 100 pounds will do it too
0:53 Mr. Jefferson sounded in disbelief about her age. He said “28?”
She also cheated But he is worst that her..
Sad married too young got children too young didnt experience things teenagers should be doing dating making friends learning about they selves before getting married parents should have stopped her from getting married i think they were and not ready for marriage
Once a man shows you who he is believe him the first time
His true colors were revealed when he said the house was his and that he’ll keep the kids. He doesn’t seem to love her.
I 100% blame her parents for this train wreck smh
The falloff from being a great high school athlete is hard for some. He spent his whole life focused on a 0.03% chance to make it to the NBA he never focused on what happens when you don’t make it. I see a lot of grown adults still reliving their high school glory. He needs a job.
Divorce Court, This made me laugh so much! Thanks for sharing!
She needs to put herself first, she needs self love. Leave that man
He needs good counsel too.
Damn out the gate he looks pissed...let me continue😊
Take your life back sis if it hasn’t changed it won’t ever change . Believe them when they show you who they are🙏😍💯💰 God bless you and the babies
😮😮😮😮he checked out that marriage along time ago
WHY IS HE BEING BLAME FOR EVERYTHING INCLUDING HER PROBLEMS, BLAME THE PARENTS FOR ALLOWING THIS HOOK UP
I really wish she would not have let him keep the house. She deserves more leaving this marriage including alimony, and child support. I really hope the best for her and the children.
The house is his father's house not even his.
I really hope she is in a better place now
you can tell the wife was sad about this. I don' think there was anything redeeming about him at this point. Maybe later on down the line, but definitely not now. Sad. She seems like was/is a nice young lady. The kids will now suffer.
I think that wig makes her look older. She should’ve chose a different one
Lady It doesn't matter how long you guys have been together if he does not to change then he will not, you can do WAY better for you and your children 💪😊!!!!
Gym membership has added benefit of potentially keeping him out of depression and other trouble after leaving school...not opposed to that
Oh yeah, but why he cant work?
He's only lazy.
She's too insecure if the man had an opportunity to get a job driving a truck or a bus leave him alone. I think they both need to separate and get better to provide for themselves. 💯‼️🥰👎🏼🤪😳
She Gorgeous and Pretty and take Judge Toler advice and I don't think she should take him back after everything he did to this Gorgeous woman just co parent that's all
Married too young. !! Unfortunate
This couple was way too young and had kids way too early. Four children is a lot and they deserve to have a good life which is hard to provide with so many. Love them and concentrate on a better future.
He looks monotone. He has no emotion. He doesn't care about her or the kids at all.
That's just how it is sometimes, can't be mad at that
@@d820msince when has a BM ever cared about his wife and kids? 😂😂😂
@@kalimbaayinde25 since my own father was alive....don't be mad at me if yours didn't care for you🤣🤣
@@d820mumm sir my father is and has always been in my life. I guarantee you, that you ninja are a horrible man and father.
@@d820ml bet you aren’t even married, and if you are/were l feel sorry for her.
He's never gonna be consistent they married young. She grew up and he didnt want to. Its easy to say im a man but actions. Yes she did her dirt but you can only push a woman so far. Wishing her the best and he has boys ohh lord 😢😢😢
Who was paying for the gym? Why he can’t get a job there
Kudos all those yrs but they were so young...maybe grew apart...ok 🤐let me watch.
She definitely not 28… you can hear him say “28?!” At the beginning 😂
0:50 28? 😂
At the beginning of the video , when judge Toler ‘announced’ the number of years the litigants were together and the number of years they were married, the audience started clapping like idiots. Those two are now in front the judge on ‘Divorce Court’ and it’s not because their lives are harmonious so there was no reasons what so ever to applaud like fools. Man I hate the over reaction of the audience in that show!
Right!!!! ❤
How are you going to take care of your kids in a free house and you have no means or desire to provide
She was 13? When she was 14, he was 18 and that is some pedo action! 😮😮😮😮😮
Thank you. No one is grossed by this.
She was to damn young to get married. A child making adult decisions. Neither one had any idea what a marriage was. Her parents should have never gave their consent
🍿400. All that off & on throughout this relationship. Even though she was 12 years old, my grandma would have said a #fasttail I think every time they break up, they need to start the clock over
Wait so is she 28 woo Chile also did they get the divorce
There are so many holes in her story that it didn't make any sense.
Don't lie about your health just to get sympathy.
This is just my opinion. He showed himself to be a quitter when he dropped out of college. He was using the birth of his child as an excuse rather than a reason to compete college. He probably was already flunking out. Then has the nerve to project his quiet anger towards himself onto her (even though his mouth said it was his fault). Why would you continue to make three more babies and could not as a “couple” financially afford one.
I just can’t feel sorry, or sad, or whatever towards Erika, she’s the instigator of her situation. She chose to be blind to Shaun’s ‘mishaps’. Right at the very beginning, SHE’S the one who decided he was going to be her husband and SHE’S the one who decided to work him to be it. Personally I would have kicked that idiot to the curb right after the first affair and live my life with my children in co-parenting with him.
A child though. I blame her parents!!! She clearly was looking for someone to love her. Her parents should’ve showed her what LOVE was and is.
@@kalimbaayinde25 You are right! The parents missed a good opportunity to show their daughter that, fixating on someone to be her husband someday so early on in her life, shouldn’t be her primary goal. Especially at twelve years old!
28?!? 😮
I dont know....i think they married young and he acted young...he does need a job though
18:28 pray she finds a great man
strongly doubt it, no one's checking to take care of another man's carpet rats🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@d820m as long as they don't come across anyone who describes others as carpet rats, they're safe.
I like your video
Ain’t No Way I Would Stay With Him. He A Jackass. Girl Leave & Get Your Life On Track.
Girl your beautiful n deserve better with your kids.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
This a a Hot Mess!!!!! Stay together.. both of you please get a job.. take care of your family...
She was a piece of tail for his older behind teen, full of hormones and no self control of them. I wish these young ladies would learn to stop making babies before they are #1. married and #2. secure in the marriage. He got stuck because of children, but that's the worst place to be; like being forced, therefore, they'll never be happy together that way. He had a lot of street experience; he's out grown her clearly.
GOD is faithful
I get so mad at us women... when they say... but I Love him..ugh..then u deserve how they treat u... sorry
8:30 11:02 16:44
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He sorry
GOD is a miracle worker Amen 😅
Her parents gave their consent for marriage wtf?!