What he’s doing is called financial abuse. She needs to either go back to school or get some type of income coming in because he is controlling her and knows she can’t really go anywhere since she doesn’t make any money. Even if she’s not working outside the home, she still deserves to have access to the bank accounts. His income is her income too.
"Love is an action verb." Judge Lynn Toler is a bright, incisive, intelligent, well-informed, and beautiful woman. I love ❤️ her so much. She gives so many couples hope, and to those who need to split ways, she delivers the hard blow with a sense of compassion so that they can move on with dignity. God bless her always. 🙏🏽 ❤
@@kirstyjackson3195 it should be, but as women we need to understand that a man can up and walk away any second and you’ll be stuck with the kids. “Mommy’s baby daddy’s maybe” isn’t a saying for no reason. I don’t want children so I would never fully trust a man to be responsible for my own fertility.
It's anyone's right to stay home or work as long as u remain independent. But I couldn't stay at home unless I was injured and depend on another person to give me money. In this economy it doesn't even make sense to keep having children and only one person works. Sometimes it will mean all u ever did was work. U need fun in ur life also and the more children u have the more u must attend to their needs first and yrs second. At some point u need to be number 1 in ur life and it's hard to get there when u keep having children. I hope they make it through life happy and not just bring too many kids along.
She needs a job and put her kids in daycare... she is asking for permission and she is having him for money is he your daddy... she is calling her mom... her mom gave her money for her birthday birthday... she is pregnant close your legs... ma'am you need to earn your own money... girl changed your attitude.
That's easier said than done. Maybe if she works from home. Daycare is the same as a car payment per child. Having more children is definitely not beneficial though.
She needs to get a job and she shouldn't be asking him for money and when she gives him money for bills I don't think he's actually paying the bills cause he's spending money cause he might be doing other stuff when she gives him the money and he should be showing her attention and effection and talking about there's no communication and I feel like yall not doing that it's because of you and you leave the house and he talking about she be screaming and yelling she wouldn't be doing all that if you help her with certain things
No affection, no money, controlled, .....sounds miserable to be with
Take the control back get your job Put them kids in daycare and his whole attitude will change
That stay at home mom stuff is a thing of the past, she need to work
What he’s doing is called financial abuse. She needs to either go back to school or get some type of income coming in because he is controlling her and knows she can’t really go anywhere since she doesn’t make any money. Even if she’s not working outside the home, she still deserves to have access to the bank accounts. His income is her income too.
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Judge : “Say something you love about her. “
Husband:” She can cook and take care of my kids “ AkA - I love her labor
He has a nerve when the judge take birth control he is pointing at her. Brother it takes two
After 4 kids we are questioning whether they should get married
My favorite time of day "Toler Time" 🤘🤘🤘🤘😊❤️ her!!!!!
why thank you!
"Love is an action verb." Judge Lynn Toler is a bright, incisive, intelligent, well-informed, and beautiful woman. I love ❤️ her so much. She gives so many couples hope, and to those who need to split ways, she delivers the hard blow with a sense of compassion so that they can move on with dignity. God bless her always. 🙏🏽 ❤
Beautiful couple. May God bless your family abundantly. Stay committed to each other. You got this ❤🎉
Stay dedicated. If you're busy working on your goals and dreams, you're not missing out on anything.
She's had enough adult affection 3 kids under 5 & One on the way....😱!!!! That's enough kids...USE birth control... damnit 😡
Birth control is a joint responsibility
@kirstyjackson3195 EXACTLY...BUT IF HE ISNT GONNA DO IT...SHE NEEDS TO!
@@kirstyjackson3195 it should be, but as women we need to understand that a man can up and walk away any second and you’ll be stuck with the kids. “Mommy’s baby daddy’s maybe” isn’t a saying for no reason. I don’t want children so I would never fully trust a man to be responsible for my own fertility.
She needs to stop having kids put your kids in day care get a job and on the way there lose the attitude and earn your own money 💰
They should've discussed that 3 children ago. What's wrong with these people?
She stuck thats it
Do it the other way around 😆
It's anyone's right to stay home or work as long as u remain independent. But I couldn't stay at home unless I was injured and depend on another person to give me money. In this economy it doesn't even make sense to keep having children and only one person works. Sometimes it will mean all u ever did was work. U need fun in ur life also and the more children u have the more u must attend to their needs first and yrs second. At some point u need to be number 1 in ur life and it's hard to get there when u keep having children. I hope they make it through life happy and not just bring too many kids along.
Time to split
She needs a job and put her kids in daycare... she is asking for permission and she is having him for money is he your daddy... she is calling her mom... her mom gave her money for her birthday birthday... she is pregnant close your legs... ma'am you need to earn your own money... girl changed your attitude.
Birth control is a joint responsibility
That's easier said than done. Maybe if she works from home. Daycare is the same as a car payment per child. Having more children is definitely not beneficial though.
She needs to get a job and she shouldn't be asking him for money and when she gives him money for bills I don't think he's actually paying the bills cause he's spending money cause he might be doing other stuff when she gives him the money and he should be showing her attention and effection and talking about there's no communication and I feel like yall not doing that it's because of you and you leave the house and he talking about she be screaming and yelling she wouldn't be doing all that if you help her with certain things