Divorce Court: Virginia vs. Christopher - Adult Talk

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  • @rebeccatushabe
    @rebeccatushabe Рік тому +60

    From time @0:00 when Judge Toler said she was in a good mood until she met them I was scared 😭😭

  • @MsBizzyRae
    @MsBizzyRae Рік тому +101

    Sis is really insecure. The fact that she doesn’t feel good about herself so she takes the opportunity to put other women down or get mad at him for looking at another women is unhealthy. I pray she gets some therapy to feel better about herself. Judge Lynn is really the GOAT!!

    • @tiffakang4525
      @tiffakang4525 Рік тому +5

      So him sneaking around conversating with other women at the beginning of the relationship has nothing to do with it?

    • @OceanMetTheSky
      @OceanMetTheSky Рік тому +3

      Really, it's her that's insecure and not him who is wanting to strut her around like a diamond necklace? Maybe he is the reason she is self conscious?????

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 Рік тому

      He makes her feel that way..god knows why because hes certainly no looker and his personality is 💩

    • @MsBizzyRae
      @MsBizzyRae Рік тому +6

      @@tiffakang4525 “conversing with other women?” I don’t think it does. She mentioned that she had issues because she lost weight. She also mentioned when she saw his ex, she made the comment about how she looked. Her issues are deep seeded and probably been there before she ever met him. No, he didn’t help by doing the things he did…but, he isn’t the cause of her insecurities. We really have to stop blaming other people for us not being healthy. 😕

    • @MsBizzyRae
      @MsBizzyRae Рік тому +5

      @@OceanMetTheSky no, SHE is the r EA son she has issues. I’m not saying he is a good guy or perfect. But she has issues that he had no part in creating. Most of us (men and women) have issues prior to getting into a relationship. Yes, the person we are with may feed those insecurities but he did not create them.

  • @nayobegomez2619
    @nayobegomez2619 Рік тому +37

    Judge hit it on the nail as always. So true that's crazy how that couple was so superficial.

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 Рік тому +59

    The judge stays dropping 💎

  • @Dream-Me
    @Dream-Me Рік тому +48

    Arguing over shirts and butts...They act like they're 12 😢

  • @wheresierraat
    @wheresierraat Рік тому +54

    This marriage is based on appearances. It's so shallow and superficial, it's ridiculous. The wife is so insecure. She is worried about how she looks and comparing it to other women. She's even putting down other women in the process. What was the point of her saying that his ex was unattractive? Did that unnecessary disrespect make her feel better? The husband isn't any better. They are both feeding the other person's insecurities with this superficiality.

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE Рік тому +5

      Most relationships and marriages are superficial and shallow. And that’s why 51% of marriages fail. I don’t see many people date people based on compatibility, it’s all about looks.

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 Рік тому +1

      Petty, sooo petty 😮

  • @tuesdayrange4375
    @tuesdayrange4375 Рік тому +25

    I love Judge Toller❤ I miss her. Keeping her in my CONTINOUS PRAYERS

  • @tammied1858
    @tammied1858 Рік тому +26

    They are young and immature.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      I think that this woman is mature and I think that this guy is acting the age that he is now but she has a lot more things going on upstairs that she needs to get together

  • @ballthemblack
    @ballthemblack Рік тому +13

    0:01-0:09 Judge Lynn already had that pissed off tone. that's how you knew it went down that day

  • @ronnimartin7033
    @ronnimartin7033 Рік тому +12

    She's very silly! And just think... they're somebody's parents!!

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Рік тому +1

      With as immature as they are it’s a scarythought

  • @jadahobbsJada
    @jadahobbsJada Рік тому +21

    Why let a kid walk around the store with something you not plan on buying!! Just tell them no from the beginning!!

    • @Edward_Strong1982
      @Edward_Strong1982 Рік тому +4

      Exactly !! It’s a mess now. Everytime I go in a retail story their kids running around screaming with merchandise in their hands and the parents are nowhere to be found. As children’s we knew not to touch NOTHING

    • @jadahobbsJada
      @jadahobbsJada Рік тому +2

      @@Edward_Strong1982 Facts 💯💯💯Telling then no at the counter just making a bigger mess outta things 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Рік тому

      I agree, but of all their issues that’s the smallest one

    • @jadahobbsJada
      @jadahobbsJada Рік тому

      Facts 💯💯💯

  • @dannielleyelder
    @dannielleyelder Рік тому +21

    These two were as shallow as a splash pad

  • @rae2050
    @rae2050 Рік тому +11

    My dude in the audience was cheesin big time when she was talking about her shape 😂😂😂

  • @amymorale1379
    @amymorale1379 Рік тому +17

    both should be alone and find some self respect and validation.

  • @elleo1776
    @elleo1776 Рік тому +14

    im a moody chick🤣🤣same here

    • @CeCeMe1
      @CeCeMe1 Рік тому

      I know you're exhausting

  • @meshalovely100
    @meshalovely100 Рік тому +10

    They need Therapy!

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      She needs more therapy than he does though in this situation because if she was to be acting better and have more self-consciousness and more southworth She would most likely get the reactions 90% of the time that she wants out of her husband but since she doesn't even know which way she wants to go she can't begin to tell him what she likes in a relationship or a marriage.... And you can't lead somebody that will not follow... And that's something that she is not trying to do She is not trying to follow his leadership

    • @meshalovely100
      @meshalovely100 Рік тому +2

      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Well he married her so what does that say about him? I don't think it matters who needs it more. They both have things I'm sure a therapist could help them work through to be better people to themselves and one another.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      @@meshalovely100 Yes this is very true but my real point I'm trying to say is that she's not at the type of woman that's going to go to therapy.... She's going to try to deflect and make it more about him than anything he seems like the type of person that would go to therapy.
      He wants to help the situation but it seems like she's a little bit more headstrong

  • @royaldivadeja6341
    @royaldivadeja6341 Рік тому +22

    This lady is crazy first of all she invites other women into their bedroom but she's insecure at him looking at women? but shes the one who opened up pandoras box!!!! just stupid!!! :(

    • @carlisemotton1610
      @carlisemotton1610 9 місяців тому +1

      I was thinking that same thing

    • @MARIANSCATLIFFE
      @MARIANSCATLIFFE 8 місяців тому

      If you invite 3rd person into your marital bed your asking for trouble stop doing this because it always leads to trouble

  • @1234j
    @1234j Рік тому +5

    She 25??! Looks a hard 40. And obsessed with looks??? 😮 Downhill all the way, gurrrl

  • @Burlykim13
    @Burlykim13 Рік тому +3

    The amount of people in the comments complaining that these two aren’t married so should just split and don’t need to be on the show is pretty astonishing. They, like many have been a couple living together for years and have children (legally that’s a type of marriage). Maybe if the show was titled “All Types of Break Ups Court” these people wouldn’t have such a tough time reasoning things out. 😂😂😂

  • @keishasmith379
    @keishasmith379 Рік тому +6

    Ppl are getting older in numbers but not mentally. The world is full of ppl like these two and then they have children who become like them. The cycle continues unfortunately.

  • @ronniem3592
    @ronniem3592 Рік тому +30

    They base their whole relationship on how they look. So sad

    • @amymorale1379
      @amymorale1379 Рік тому +4

      pityful,,,,,,,both are not mature and need to learn so much.

  • @dshannasander-ip2qo
    @dshannasander-ip2qo Рік тому +5

    I understand him wanting her to look sexy not for others but for each other.

  • @shay-rae138
    @shay-rae138 Рік тому +8

    Side note ain’t no way she’s 25 years old 🤦🏿‍♀️

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому +2

      I was thinking the exact same thing... I know offense he does seem like he's a little immature for 29 but not off by much far as men... He's still young He's still going to be looking he doesn't really have too many responsibilities..

    • @insydi0us92
      @insydi0us92 Рік тому +4

      Yeah I think all the couples on this show lie about their age

  • @kiaellis7613
    @kiaellis7613 Рік тому +5

    Judge hit it! Straight 💎 dropping!

  • @Frozeninmymind
    @Frozeninmymind Рік тому +4

    Jeez, that into was the most heated I've ever heard the Judge xD

  • @aprilbouknightmarquez6340
    @aprilbouknightmarquez6340 9 місяців тому +2

    This girl is so immature 🙄

  • @bettywhite7795
    @bettywhite7795 Рік тому +6

    They both need to grow up

  • @kyleyoung9326
    @kyleyoung9326 11 місяців тому +1

    i feel like the overall problem in the world is that a lot of relationships are like this one, superficial and all about looks. Yes, you occasionally have good relationships, but a majority of relationships now a days only happen because of looks. You meet each other on social media/dating apps, of COURSE they are going to use the best looking pictures, of COURSE they are only going to swipe right on the people they find attractive. 99% of the people that go on dating apps are only looking at the descriptions of peoples profiles AFTER they match, but then they start talking and you get distracted by the attention they are giving you, the dates they are trying to take you on/ trying to go out on dates with them that you ignore the red flags thinking you'll be able "to see them in person" then you end up liking them and BOOM, now you are stuck in a relationship with someone that was never right for you, then you CONTINUE the relationship thinking that the person will change as they grow older and when they dont, you blame them and take them to divorce court only to get told "you aren't right for each other" which SHOULD have been what they saw FROM THE BEGINNNG! the overall problem in the world is that almost all relationships are like this one, superficial and all about looks

  • @kattiethomas4687
    @kattiethomas4687 Рік тому +4

    She doesn't know how to be in a relationship

  • @worldhealthrn
    @worldhealthrn 11 місяців тому +1

    Between the two of them she's the one that seemed most Petty and superficial and immature

  • @MrDer7
    @MrDer7 Місяць тому

    She feels insecure, but wants to bring another woman into their relationship. That doesn't make sense . You don't make a relationship stronger, by adding people to your relationship.

  • @blessedbygodirby4014
    @blessedbygodirby4014 Рік тому +2

    She’s very insecure why are you looking at another woman judging their looks like what

  • @kevinspriggs3593
    @kevinspriggs3593 Рік тому +1

    I wonder why Judge Lynn seemed to be irritated by his complaints but more empathetic to the her gripes? If he thinks she's controlling, that's valid. Nobody wants to be checked about what they wear all the time. And I agree with him on the going out and appearance thing. You want your partner to put at least a little effort in when you go out. She's really insecure and she's visiting that on him. He will never be able to win.

    • @chasitysanders2229
      @chasitysanders2229 10 місяців тому +1

      I definitely agree ! The judge said what needed to be said but I feel like should’ve at the end turned to the lady and let her know she is just as wrong !

  • @BlakeMoore-h5d
    @BlakeMoore-h5d 2 місяці тому

    I guess the judge missed the part. Where she helps him find women for him.

  • @pauledokpolo4512
    @pauledokpolo4512 Рік тому +1

    Big Butt Tang🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @reginaharrigan7454
    @reginaharrigan7454 3 місяці тому

    Sis if he doesn't want you move on

  • @prestonjackson7417
    @prestonjackson7417 5 місяців тому

    Talk yo shit judge 💯✊🏽🥰

  • @ellensinclair3994
    @ellensinclair3994 Рік тому +4

    They need to separate

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      Yeah I didn't like how the judge at the end didn't say anything to this woman when she has so so so so so many more problems than this man This man only issue is the fact that he gets fed up and frustrated and doesn't want to fight with his woman so he walks off...
      Being a marriage with a woman that is extremely depressed and self-conscious is not an easy marriage to be in... And put this all on this man because she has issues from past traumas of other relationships is not right.... I'm not sitting here trying to stay at the man is right in this situation but did not say anything to her is absolutely crazy 🤯

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      It's situations like this is why us as black people can't get ahead because we always lie to these women and tell them that they're absolutely perfect no matter what they do and that they poop marshmallows and things of that sort It's not right You have to tell people the truth....
      Sorry for all the long writing

    • @ellensinclair3994
      @ellensinclair3994 Рік тому +1

      @@A_Well_Traveled_Man facts

  • @twilderlm2559
    @twilderlm2559 Рік тому +2

    Maybe she was depressed...

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 Рік тому +1

    If these. people are not married. why go to divorce court. Just go in your own way.

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Рік тому

      Uh they’ve been together years and have kids. Would it make you feel better if the show was called “All types of break ups court”?
      This seriously shouldn’t really be a question.

  • @tifferdoodles4128
    @tifferdoodles4128 Рік тому

    She's insecure but he feeds it because he's so shallow. I hope they grew up ingot with different (and better) people

  • @lauratrujillo583
    @lauratrujillo583 5 місяців тому

    Can't believe there's ppl like that . fashion is all they care about... WOW childish

  • @janetholmes733
    @janetholmes733 5 місяців тому

    She has issues in the relationship, yet she invites other women into their bed.

  • @janae412
    @janae412 Рік тому +1

    25? Ionooo bro.

  • @garyyarbough6597
    @garyyarbough6597 Рік тому +2

    She was really really really really really trippin cuz he's really really really really really beautiful it sad she can't even see !

  • @SpadeHampton
    @SpadeHampton Рік тому +1

    She so insecure it’s sad

  • @kattiethomas4687
    @kattiethomas4687 Рік тому +4

    Totally out of touch with relationships.

  • @jeanp1323
    @jeanp1323 8 місяців тому

    This couple is emotionally and intellectually broke, that's a shame...they have nothing to talk about that's why they focus on shirts and jeans

  • @desiraejordan2872
    @desiraejordan2872 Рік тому

    I would not be able to allow my child to walk around with something they im going to buy. That's mind games. Poor baby... I would have to say put that back...you can't have it today.

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Рік тому

      Definitely a better way to handle that, but also the least of their concerns

  • @monie2514
    @monie2514 Рік тому +3

    They're very beautiful both the gentleman as well as the wife but they have some growing up to do this is a very old program by now they probably should be right at about 46 years old give take.🎉🤔👀🧐📺📽️👌🏼💯‼️ But just walking off on her is rude and disrespectful

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      Yeah but at the exact same time you have to look at her and how she's been broken down by dating these pookies and Ray Ray's because this is exactly this case she's dating this dude because she can't get the pookie Ray Ray type of guy that she really wanted So it's only but so much this man's going to take so instead of him yelling back at her and things of that story he just decides to remove himself some situation which is actually very mature!
      Because even like she said when he met that girlfriend at that concert which he probably did not know she was there she exploded on him.... You guys have to always look at it from the other point of view

  • @cedricliggins7528
    @cedricliggins7528 2 місяці тому

    The wife is really pretty

  • @Uptownboo84
    @Uptownboo84 Рік тому +1

    Wow. They were annoying...🫠

  • @duney424
    @duney424 Рік тому

    She looks a bit older than 25.

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Рік тому

    I love the show, but I never understood why the show would have Judge Toler give the beginning monologue to people that are not married “but you two no longer want to be together.”
    Why come on the show? If you don’t want to be together any longer, break up and go your separate ways…..

    • @Burlykim13
      @Burlykim13 Рік тому

      That’s literally the entire show 😂😂😂

  • @fatoub.3539
    @fatoub.3539 Рік тому +5

    Her body language speaks volumes.

  • @catherinewhitman8333
    @catherinewhitman8333 5 місяців тому

    Men dont like moody women! You're too much drama...who cares if he looks ..along as he goes home with you!🤷

  • @pierrotetienne7504
    @pierrotetienne7504 Рік тому +1

    He just a kid he's not ready yet for such a big step he's still playing she made a really bad decision to be with a kid as a woman you suppose to prepare yourself for good man coming from a good family background he would respect you and make you feel good saying nice things to you but not walking away leave you at restaurant that means he was not brought up well or may be didn't have a father in his life trust me I m from the island 🏝

  • @savtrill333
    @savtrill333 Рік тому +2

    This is a sad couple bcuz all they care about is looks, so maybe they should just be sad together!!!

  • @amymorale1379
    @amymorale1379 Рік тому +2

    that is male biology, lesson mane not capable of love

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

      Have to agree to 110%. It's male biology to look at women it doesn't seem like he's out there actually doing anything crazy but the fact to hear the way his wife is treating him I'm surprised this guy hasn't left a long time ago.... And then to criticize the way he parents their children because he wants to let them know that they can't get everything every time they go on the store....
      And then the judge cited with the woman on that You know how many times I was told I can't get something when I went to the store when I was a child This is normal everyday behavior....
      I feel bad for the daughter because she's going to grow up super wrong..

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man Рік тому

    Yeah this is definitely a case about a woman that was lied to by her parents... She's thinking that she's supposed to have the fairy tale marriage You can tell by how she's controlling and how she's very depressed because she didn't get that 6 ft 2 in guy that has a half a million dollars in his pockets and she feels as though she's settling for this man That's the reason why she lets her daughter run around the store and do whatever she wants....
    I blame her parents...

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 Рік тому +1

    She looks like SASHA OBAMA. but she is very INSECURE!!!
    Are these actors?

  • @McKenzie-j7r
    @McKenzie-j7r Рік тому +5

    She’s not 25 more like 35