They/Them (Non-binary Short Film)

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @beaublight
    @beaublight  3 роки тому +1923

    Love the poem? Give some love to the original, full length version by Kaitlyn Alexander ua-cam.com/video/79R4YsVeacQ/v-deo.html

    • @Narites
      @Narites 2 роки тому +9

      I loved ittttt! My sister its like ash :)

    • @kaleefisher2928
      @kaleefisher2928 2 роки тому +2

      Managerialisms
      Hello

    • @rat_teethhhh
      @rat_teethhhh 2 роки тому +2

      Great job❤❤❤!!!!!

    • @dylandunne6670
      @dylandunne6670 Рік тому +6

      hi my pronouns are they them

    • @mo-s-
      @mo-s- Рік тому +6

      Only thing you could have added was "I'm a girl, but I am not. Am I a man or am I not. Either way, dominique's a thot" /j

  • @coachoikawa4951
    @coachoikawa4951 4 роки тому +8002

    Charlie: "Hey Ash"
    Ash: " *unintelligible salty sounds* "
    Charlie: **confused screaming**

  • @dova3050
    @dova3050 3 роки тому +3902

    "Are you a boy or a girl?"
    Batman: "I'm Batman" *Vanishes into thin air*

  • @crazystupidbean
    @crazystupidbean 4 роки тому +2528

    The poem:
    I'm a girl, or maybe I'm not.
    The first time I breathed in that thought I was far too old to be redefining myself, so I coughed it out like a stale cigarette after a long night of bad decisions, looked at my reflection and told myself, "You're wrong."
    That night I put on the shortest skirt I had and went out dancing.
    'til I realised I was only skirting around my deepest fears.
    You see, every time someone calls me "she", my stomach turns and my skin feels thick, like someone raised a panic alarm in my brain.
    And with every "her" that gets hurled my way, I get turned around.
    I'm not lost, just never seemed to have the right map.
    But see, I'm not trapped in a body I hate.
    Just wrapped in words that don't relate to the way my skin feels on my bones.
    Or the way that I only feel like home, when no one knows what exactly it is I am, so...
    Maybe I'm a man.
    Except I don't think that's right.
    There's never been a fight like bar brawls through my veins telling myself that I need to change.
    "Him"...feels like synonymous with someone else.
    "He", a chorus unto itself.
    And "his" just fits too loosely.
    So, maybe I'm not.
    Either, I mean.
    I go online to see, "do you realise no one's buying this?"
    Do you realise, I'm not selling myself short anymore?
    'cause for the first time I opened up the door to possibility of being myself,
    I found a treasure map I left for myself back when I was a kid.
    When the only thing I was scared of losing was my sense of self.
    You see, I never thought we were speaking the same language until someone said "they" instead.
    So tell me I'm wrong, tell me I'm broken, tell me I must hate myself to be the way I am.
    And I will tell you I never knew what it was like to fly until I let myself breathe in.
    I finally found my map, you know, X marks the spot.

    • @kb7633
      @kb7633 4 роки тому +18

      Thanks :)

    • @prunebir
      @prunebir 4 роки тому +15

      This is underrated

    • @courtmilk7191
      @courtmilk7191 4 роки тому +15

      how long did that take you to type

    • @averyharrison189
      @averyharrison189 4 роки тому +7

      Oh my god thank you so much ❤️

    • @amelias2026
      @amelias2026 4 роки тому +12

      this is such a beautiful poem

  • @LundonLovett
    @LundonLovett Рік тому +1471

    I love how the bully was like "that's a boy's name" Bitch, your name's DOMINIQUE

    • @mudkip984
      @mudkip984 11 місяців тому +92

      And what kind of name is dominique too 💀

    • @LundonLovett
      @LundonLovett 11 місяців тому +48

      @@mudkip984 my cousin's stepbrother

    • @L3_cHat
      @L3_cHat 10 місяців тому +18

      REALLLLLL

    • @RedpurrFox
      @RedpurrFox 8 місяців тому +16

      ​@@mudkip984 It's a french name actually

    • @Lu_cidshere
      @Lu_cidshere 5 місяців тому +6

      💀

  • @CertifiedKittarov
    @CertifiedKittarov 3 роки тому +1867

    “Intersex people don’t exsist”
    My friend: “mr stark… I don’t feel so good….”

    • @pinkpinkmermayyy
      @pinkpinkmermayyy 3 роки тому +67

      me: my time has come

    • @rainbowkittyz9629
      @rainbowkittyz9629 3 роки тому +14

      HAHAHA I CANT LMAO

    • @queerdeer4134
      @queerdeer4134 3 роки тому +29

      When they said that I thought “Bro learn basic biology, idiots.”

    • @dragongirl3148
      @dragongirl3148 3 роки тому +54

      @@queerdeer4134 exactly even if people use “science says” blah blah blah as an excuse. It’s stupid because they’re saying that “intersex people” aren’t science when it actually is anyways :/

    • @lionel5790
      @lionel5790 3 роки тому +15

      I’m not supposed to laugh my parents are asleep 💀✋🏻

  • @catboymikey
    @catboymikey 4 роки тому +5222

    Charlie: *brings up non-binary*
    Me: *starts tearing up* "you go Charlie, educating the masses even if the masses are one person"

    • @innocentweeb9863
      @innocentweeb9863 4 роки тому +110

      Me a they/them watching this:🥺🥺🥺

    • @SchultzKA4
      @SchultzKA4 4 роки тому +20

      @@innocentweeb9863 Same 🥺

    • @mateusz4660
      @mateusz4660 4 роки тому +5

      ,,Educating” no talking about non binary ,,people” is not educating but implying agenda

    • @MYSTERIOUSORBS
      @MYSTERIOUSORBS 4 роки тому +5

      @@mateusz4660 fix the quotations

    • @mateusz4660
      @mateusz4660 4 роки тому +1

      @@MYSTERIOUSORBS I don’t think I will

  • @televisioncollectives1668
    @televisioncollectives1668 3 роки тому +6225

    “Do you use the boys or the girls restroom?”
    Neither, I in fact stand at the water fountain awkwardly waiting for my friends to be done

    • @miyahsthoughtz
      @miyahsthoughtz 3 роки тому +255

      imagine having friends

    • @televisioncollectives1668
      @televisioncollectives1668 3 роки тому +106

      @@miyahsthoughtz fair 😩😩

    • @Feronian
      @Feronian 3 роки тому +66

      @@e-brown ya same i'll usually just wait till i get home if there isnt a gender neutral one

    • @robinpohl2702
      @robinpohl2702 3 роки тому +96

      Have you never ran at the wall between both bathrooms to get to stall 9 3/4?

    • @anounimousartist9820
      @anounimousartist9820 3 роки тому +7

      @@miyahsthoughtz ouch

  • @cricket-notthesport
    @cricket-notthesport Рік тому +256

    “you’re like my hero…”
    “you’re still a nerd tho”
    this describes the relationship between siblings exactly. like, i’ll give you my kidney, but why tf would i ever let you borrow my charger?

  • @fireheartpeace5898
    @fireheartpeace5898 4 роки тому +4013

    The thing that hurts the most is knowing that people actually do this and act this way.

    • @BonnieSilva-je2yb
      @BonnieSilva-je2yb 4 роки тому +158

      Yeah- I’m currently getting bullied at my school for being non-binary by one of thos “popular gurls” that says she’s apparently bi

    • @ScorpihoeOfficial
      @ScorpihoeOfficial 4 роки тому +47

      @@BonnieSilva-je2yb no no no no no give me her Instagram, Twitter, WhatsApp, snapchat, pinterest, Facebook, number, tumblr, UA-cam, tinder, discord, tiktok, twitch whatever you can find imma cuss her out respectfully
      I have people who can cuss her out respectfully please respond
      I want to have a talk with this bully

    • @editsky1214
      @editsky1214 4 роки тому +7

      @@BonnieSilva-je2yb remember be yourself

    • @LunaStarlight35
      @LunaStarlight35 4 роки тому +5

      @@BonnieSilva-je2yb I feel that so much, but don't ever change who you are.

    • @BonnieSilva-je2yb
      @BonnieSilva-je2yb 4 роки тому +7

      @@ScorpihoeOfficial OKI her social on
      ig: yktv_johanna
      Snap: Johanna.8212
      And she blocked me on tiktok

  • @noinspirationformyusername6850
    @noinspirationformyusername6850 4 роки тому +11623

    Funny thing: Dominique, the bullie' s name, is actually gender neutral in french, and mostly assigned to men

    • @anoranth1360
      @anoranth1360 4 роки тому +480

      How the turntables bish

    • @blushii7487
      @blushii7487 4 роки тому +71

      @shrimp lmao

    • @farateq
      @farateq 4 роки тому +204

      congratulations, you played yourself

    • @darkacadpresenceinblood
      @darkacadpresenceinblood 4 роки тому +137

      Right that's what I thought. To me Dominique sounds more like a male name that Ash

    • @zozodioz
      @zozodioz 4 роки тому +35

      Yeah, but it's written Dominic for a boy

  • @Lavarose4003
    @Lavarose4003 4 роки тому +1010

    "It hurts me to see you hurt!"
    "Then accept me for who I am and not who you want me to be."

    • @vuhigins7890
      @vuhigins7890 4 роки тому +21

      I’m pretty sure the mom didn’t knew, or i miss understood.

    • @even___
      @even___ 4 роки тому +7

      @@vuhigins7890 That’s was what the OP was gonna reply to that statement.

    • @Frovael
      @Frovael 4 роки тому +8

      Lavarose, that's me and my mom's view on me being a lesbian in a nutshell
      It actually hurts

    • @fruitsmoothie4565
      @fruitsmoothie4565 4 роки тому +8

      When my mom saw that I thought I was ace and gender fluid she said I’m too young for labels :D
      What she said was a big f u to the face in my opinion so this comment is something that actually makes me wanna give you a hug

    • @ToriN-m4w
      @ToriN-m4w 2 місяці тому +1

      ​​@@fruitsmoothie4565like not being rude but kinda get how she's th8nking but really based on your age so cus if you're in like ages 8 to 10 I would think the same but no hate or anything😊

  • @calypso_bluingo
    @calypso_bluingo Рік тому +863

    "Are you a boy or a girl?"
    ✨I am an experience✨

    • @EggyEggPie
      @EggyEggPie 5 місяців тому +24

      that reminds me of garnet's quote to stevonnie (who's intersex and non-binary)... she says, 'You are an EXPERIENCE!!'

    • @Mr.happy689
      @Mr.happy689 5 місяців тому +17

      " what's in your pants? "
      {( ✨ °•* “'” *-a party your not invited to-* ”'” *•° ✨ )}

    • @NotNochos
      @NotNochos 5 місяців тому +5

      For the few months I referred to myself as NB I always answered “I’m American wbu” and it was always funny

    • @IambuddyhollyWeeooh
      @IambuddyhollyWeeooh 4 місяці тому +3

      Steven universe reference !?!?

    • @EggyEggPie
      @EggyEggPie 4 місяці тому +3

      @@NotNochos ah yes, my favourite gender… 😋 A M E R I C A N 😋

  • @lovaloz
    @lovaloz 4 роки тому +3001

    Can we talk about how this was filmed at a Catholic school because it implies that maybe this school isn't so against the idea of other genders and sexualities, makes me happy.

    • @Noahed_
      @Noahed_ 4 роки тому +69

      We don't agree with the lifestyle, but we don't treat people like jerks for having that lifestyle. Edit: yeah you don't have to mention it, i realized, error in my words.

    • @r.owennn
      @r.owennn 4 роки тому +126

      @@Noahed_ ?? being lgbtq+ isn’t a lifestyle lmao. we didn’t choose to be this way.

    • @Noahed_
      @Noahed_ 4 роки тому +33

      @Rowen Reid you get the point. We don't agree with it, but we aren't going to be jerks to someone because of it.

    • @lovaloz
      @lovaloz 4 роки тому +58

      @@Noahed_ Sadly as a Catholic myself there aren't many who are chill with these people, most are jerks when it comes to the topic of lgbtq+ but I'm glad you aren't one of them.

    • @mlikespizza
      @mlikespizza 4 роки тому +19

      @@Noahed_ it's not a lifestyle
      i do appreciate what you do tho

  • @R1v3r_1
    @R1v3r_1 4 роки тому +2046

    “What about intersex people?”
    “Didn’t you hear her? They don’t exist.”
    *what am I? A roach?*
    I mean, she’s one to talk. Her name is Dominique. I’m pretty sure that’s a gender neutral name

    • @zebaguette5008
      @zebaguette5008 4 роки тому +18

      its a female version of dominick i think lol

    • @telesticCavalry
      @telesticCavalry 4 роки тому +8

      @Logan Roof is this a reaction of joy or mockery? I'm confusion

    • @yuihirasawa5351
      @yuihirasawa5351 4 роки тому +1

      no such thing as non binary name

    • @luke3912
      @luke3912 4 роки тому +5

      Sorry , but I think you mean gender neutral. There's no such thing as a non-binary name unless you are referring to a non-binary person's name maybe. Anyways , I'm a girl on a family member's account and bye Felicia (lol).

    • @yuihirasawa5351
      @yuihirasawa5351 4 роки тому +1

      @@luke3912 I never said that

  • @madssss711
    @madssss711 3 роки тому +768

    The captions describing the actions. Mainly “Ash tips back a shot, not nearly drunk enough to deal with this” is perfection😂

  • @elaniadefatimabonfim5967
    @elaniadefatimabonfim5967 Рік тому +539

    The fact that my catholic church has female, male and an all gender restroom-

    • @sillynyxxie00
      @sillynyxxie00 Рік тому +62

      I'm jealous rn-

    • @Awesomefy11
      @Awesomefy11 Рік тому +37

      People don't know the difference between sex and gender 😂😂😂😂

    • @mis8866
      @mis8866 8 місяців тому

      @@Awesomefy11 incorrect, you new kids don't understand that GENDER is tied into SEX.
      Just because you feel like they/them doesn't actually mean its true, just like how if someone believes in God it doesn't actually make him true.
      What im trying to say is, just because you believe something, doesn't actually make it factually correct/right.
      All you havto do is look at every single mega great empire and you will see that the blending of genders has ALWAYS been the first of a downward spiral that ALWAYS leads to a nations failure.
      Literally every single one of em' that has ever done it, fell, VERY shortly after it was made the "standard" when you blurr the line between man and women, things get nasty real quick, don't worry you Americans will see in about 35 years i reckon.

    • @C0nfused0ne_
      @C0nfused0ne_ 7 місяців тому +4

      LUCKY

    • @Makao_makao
      @Makao_makao 6 місяців тому +5

      #polandcouldnever

  • @krystamoore4827
    @krystamoore4827 4 роки тому +1096

    Ashes poem:
    "I'm a girl, or maybe I'm not.
    The first time i breathed in that thought I was far too old to be redefining myself,
    so I coughed it out like a stale cigarette after a long night of bad decisions.
    I looked at my reflection and told myself,
    'You're wrong.'
    That night I put on the shortest skirt I had and went out dancing, until I realized I was only skirting around my deepest fears.
    You see, every time someone calls me 'she,' my stomach turs and my skin feels thick
    like someone raised a panic alarm in my brain,
    and with every 'her' that gets hurled my way, i get turned around.
    I'm not lost, just never seemed to have the right map.
    But see, I'm not trapped in a body i hate,
    just wrapped in words that don't relate to the way my skin feels on my bones,
    or the way that i only feel like home,
    when no one knows what exactly i am so...
    Maybe i am a man.
    except I don't think that's right.
    There has never been a fight like bar brawls through my veins telling me I need to change.
    'him' feels like synonymous with someone else,
    'he' a chorus unto itself,
    and 'he' just fits too loosely.
    so maybe I'm not... either, I mean
    I go online to see "do you realize no one is buying this?"
    Do you realize I'm not selling myself short anymore?
    Because for the first time I have opened up the door to the possibility of being myself.
    I found a treasure map that I made for myself when i was a kid, when the only thing I was scared of losing was my sense of self.
    You see, i never thought we were speaking the same language until someone said
    'they' instead.
    So tell me I'm wrong, tell me I'm broken, tell me i must hate myself so much to be the way i am.
    And i will tell you I never knew what it was to fly until i let myself breathe in.
    I finally found a map, you know?
    Like X-marks the spot."
    Every line in the poem has a meaning, and it wouldn't be complete without the line.
    edit: holy shit thx for the likes lol

  • @user-rq9nw7et3l
    @user-rq9nw7et3l 3 роки тому +4025

    "Do you use the woman's or man's restroom?"
    Ah, in fact, I use the Restroom 9 and 3/4, ignoring the restroom signs, and simply walk into the wall in the middle of it where I will do my business.

    • @cecilia4267
      @cecilia4267 3 роки тому +159

      ah yes, the common thing to do.

    • @Perduelindsey
      @Perduelindsey 3 роки тому +16

      Omg same

    • @Cozmareth
      @Cozmareth 3 роки тому +19

      BRO I WAS THINKING OF THAT LOL

    • @thegameowl11
      @thegameowl11 3 роки тому +31

      I use a restroom where I can close the door and then put an out of order sign so I can have it to myself and effectively make it single stall.

    • @aaksatthebeach
      @aaksatthebeach 3 роки тому +35

      @@Neels01 But the word f*ck doesn’t necessarily refer to someone’s race now does it? Whereas the “N” word does because you can’t be simply throwing that word around like it’s nothing. Unless you are actually a person of colour only then are you entitled to use that word. Otherwise you are just plain racist.

  • @spyman_rocks
    @spyman_rocks 3 роки тому +545

    PLS THE "ASH TAKES A SHOT NOT NEARLY DRUNK ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH THIS" CAPTOIN I CANT-

    • @im7510
      @im7510 3 роки тому +33

      same when i saw that i was like LMFAOOOO

    • @ILoveAnya11
      @ILoveAnya11 23 дні тому +2

      Like isn’t ash underage

    • @Asherlikesanime
      @Asherlikesanime 15 днів тому

      @@ILoveAnya11 Yes

  • @Trylobyte
    @Trylobyte 11 місяців тому +422

    I am 60 and just realising I am nonbinary -this moved me to tears

    • @AdrianoLopez-Brown
      @AdrianoLopez-Brown 9 місяців тому +2

      THERE ARE ONLY 2 GENDERS

    • @AdventureLifeWithIris
      @AdventureLifeWithIris 9 місяців тому +40

      I'm so happy for you!

    • @grace_d1or
      @grace_d1or 9 місяців тому +29

      Good for you!

    • @q0r3lo
      @q0r3lo 9 місяців тому +3

      @@AdrianoLopez-Brown2 sexes only sorry. Gender isn’t sex

    • @alohaXamanda
      @alohaXamanda 8 місяців тому +40

      Welcome to the secret special club of nonbinariness, we are so glad to have you!!!

  • @greysonwatkins9274
    @greysonwatkins9274 4 роки тому +16238

    when the teacher marked off “julianna” and replaced it with ash i cried like a baby

  • @sandglobe11
    @sandglobe11 4 роки тому +5178

    Me: *scrolling through all the comments seeing all the non-binary pfps*
    Also me: *That's my s**t right there*

  • @arsima_gg
    @arsima_gg 3 роки тому +3176

    “Are you a boy or a girl?”
    “No, I’m an American.”

  • @LonesomeHuman
    @LonesomeHuman Рік тому +92

    The ending hit so hard whenever the teacher crossed out Jillian and out ash. It brought me to tears!! Then I absolutely felt the "what's the point in being myself if it makes me want to f^cking die." It has proven so true whenever I didn't have a strong community to back me up and I felt like I was alone.

  • @casperthefriendlyhuman3800
    @casperthefriendlyhuman3800 3 роки тому +9601

    “You want to use They/Them? What are you, plural?”
    Yes Jessica, I am in fact 3 hamsters wrapped in a trench coat.

    • @honeybeat6958
      @honeybeat6958 3 роки тому +141

      LMFAOOO

    • @osmanthuswine4928
      @osmanthuswine4928 3 роки тому +318

      "They say that your gender is what's in your pants"
      O h w e l l

    • @ms0_u
      @ms0_u 3 роки тому +248

      The worst part is that it's completely wrong, singular they/them is an actual thing 😭
      Istg these transphobes are so dumb, i am not a native english speaker and even i know that singular they/them is a thing

    • @dirbthebird
      @dirbthebird 3 роки тому +81

      @@osmanthuswine4928 okay then I guess my gender is bombs

    • @amandareid2054
      @amandareid2054 3 роки тому +6

      Isn't this from tiktok-

  • @mizzyly5759
    @mizzyly5759 3 роки тому +3347

    "you wanna use they them? What are you, multiple people?"
    Yes Infact, I have stolen the souls of the children I keep in my attic and feed off of them, making me, plural.

    • @amyarobinson
      @amyarobinson 3 роки тому +81

      Lovely.

    • @b001-y9f
      @b001-y9f 3 роки тому +131

      lmao people are so stupid saying shit like “they/them is plural” and then going on to say “the mailman came, they gave us some mail.”

    • @just_a_random_panuwu8045
      @just_a_random_panuwu8045 3 роки тому +13

      @@b001-y9f exactly

    • @shooshoo5118
      @shooshoo5118 3 роки тому +14

      @@b001-y9f No, they/them is still made for plural use. No matter how you look at it. I do agree though, English speakers have used they/them outside of plural use. It's the hypocrisy in some people that is bafflingly funny.

    • @shooshoo5118
      @shooshoo5118 3 роки тому +4

      @Brain Burg AAVE dialect has soared in popularity and use, as well as texting language. One of which either you, or someone close to you uses.

  • @beanmiller5927
    @beanmiller5927 4 роки тому +2250

    The part where Charlotte to Charlie but then she wouldn't accept Julianna to Ash was such a common thing to happen. the only reason the second wasn't acceptable was because of the reasoning behind it.

    • @fadliahahmad4553
      @fadliahahmad4553 4 роки тому +63

      it’s probably because charlie and charlotte sound alike and ash and juliana is like very different

    • @samuelbealer608
      @samuelbealer608 4 роки тому +80

      @@fadliahahmad4553 Eh, I've had cis/cis-appearing classmates ask to be called by a vastly different nickname by the teacher/class, just because they thought it sounded cooler or it's what all their friends called them and it was a change in a heartbeat. Most of the time it really is just the reasoning of "oh but that doesn't fit what I perceive you as.... so no"

    • @kleinshui9082
      @kleinshui9082 4 роки тому +39

      In my school days teachers call us by our prefered names. Many students had nicknames, my best friend is trans and teachers just went along with his new name. I hope in the future this applies to everyones school and life in general. :)

    • @rattling.casket
      @rattling.casket 4 роки тому +12

      @@samuelbealer608 PERIIOODDDTTT. people wanna struggle with my preferred name regardless of how long they've known me bUT FOR A CISHET GIRL I DIDNT EVEN KNOW HER BIRTHNAME FOR 2 1/2 YEARS!!! staff and student all just called jordan --> raine w/o question

    • @bondageboots7796
      @bondageboots7796 4 роки тому +6

      @@samuelbealer608 There was a dude named Robert in my class and he made everybody call him Trey

  • @j3551c4L
    @j3551c4L Рік тому +175

    I dont understand how non binary feel, but i think everyone deserves to be themselves

  • @rafael_tomas
    @rafael_tomas 4 роки тому +404

    "Your name is so beautiful! Why would you change it?"
    I can relate hard to this. I've heard this so many times.

    • @KaydenDreams
      @KaydenDreams 4 роки тому +6

      s a m e

    • @aerwyna7324
      @aerwyna7324 4 роки тому +3

      I want my name to be something like Trinity but my name just had to be Anastazja

    • @nebwula
      @nebwula 4 роки тому +1

      I hate it when they do that

    • @lettenlina1708
      @lettenlina1708 4 роки тому +1

      Same-

    • @cocoaplayzgacha1577
      @cocoaplayzgacha1577 4 роки тому +6

      I'm not even trans or non-binary, or genderfluid. I know that I'm a girl and I'm ok with that. But I just really hate my name, especially when ppl say: Adoni is such a beautiful name!
      But like no, I hate it. Its just too unique for me. That's why when I'm older I'm probably just gonna be preferred as my nickname, cocoa, or my other nickname cece. I don't even understand why I hate it so much but I just do.

  • @apollosmuse_
    @apollosmuse_ 3 роки тому +2462

    “Are you a boy or a girl?”
    I’m a monarch and you will bow to me peasant

  • @jamsibee5008
    @jamsibee5008 4 роки тому +1042

    charlie calling ash they/them before ash even realised it themself i cant even

    • @kck4y
      @kck4y 3 роки тому +44

      @@michelleliu9858 no, its themself. just like saying themselves.

    • @hollyb6877
      @hollyb6877 3 роки тому +14

      @@michelleliu9858 that’d be like saying “hisself” instead of “himself”

    • @charliescove7598
      @charliescove7598 3 роки тому +1

      Did somebody say my name

  • @zDreAnimations
    @zDreAnimations Рік тому +65

    i remember going to an airport and they had a stall and the sign on the stall said “a stall for all genders and identities”. it was nice to see a stall like that

  • @alexalasalle
    @alexalasalle 4 роки тому +4858

    "i'm not lost, just never seemed to have the right map." woah- total goosebumps.

    • @gloomycrewmate2622
      @gloomycrewmate2622 4 роки тому +23

      you know what also crazy? that this comment has no replies

    • @alexalasalle
      @alexalasalle 4 роки тому +15

      @@gloomycrewmate2622 holy shit i didn't even realize how many likes i got 😭🖤

    • @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072
      @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 3 роки тому

      Why?

    • @andii-
      @andii- 3 роки тому +3

      *”anybody have a map” intensifies *

    • @jaguarcosmos1583
      @jaguarcosmos1583 3 роки тому +2

      Indeed, i learnt this in neurolingüística programming that life is the road and how we approach it is the map, sometimes all it takes is to navigate with a different map one that is updated in our needs, sometimes we are given this map by our parents it worked for them but we have other needs.

  • @felixthefool
    @felixthefool 4 роки тому +707

    When your deadname is in the film but also one of your preferred names

    • @alexriver1744
      @alexriver1744 4 роки тому +12

      That's super cool

    • @sage2226
      @sage2226 4 роки тому +9

      same here!! I was a little shook haha

    • @jujusiwa14
      @jujusiwa14 4 роки тому +13

      @@sage2226 ME TOOOO but i still identify as my deadname... i don't know what to do 😨😳😳😳

    • @clownifery6331
      @clownifery6331 4 роки тому +9

      @@jujusiwa14 maybe go by jul? idk if its still too feminine or masculine but i hope this helps 🥺

    • @ghost_4047
      @ghost_4047 4 роки тому +9

      Your name is Ash and whatever else you want to identify with!! Anyone who tells you different is wrong and doesn't deserve your time. You are so loved and valid!!!!!

  • @qwerty-wc4vl
    @qwerty-wc4vl 4 роки тому +479

    I was a cis guy on the train wearing a pink watch. Child their mom "Why does the man have a girl's watch?"
    Mom was like "It's his watch, he bought it."
    Child replies "So can I have a pink watch too?"

    • @xxthat1squidxx359
      @xxthat1squidxx359 4 роки тому +18

      Rock the pink watches! 😄👌

    • @lexii712
      @lexii712 4 роки тому +10

      AWWWW

    • @-valriver-261
      @-valriver-261 4 роки тому +10

      Aww that's wholesome! 🥺

    • @megalisa830bright6
      @megalisa830bright6 4 роки тому +11

      Guys can like the color pink, like girls can like the color blue! XD

    • @magictrees101
      @magictrees101 4 роки тому +7

      In Victorian times baby boys were dressed in pink. Whatever your gender wear whatever you want. :D

  • @rin5781
    @rin5781 Рік тому +108

    That describes the feeling so accurately I can't. I'm non binary and even though I've came to this realization long ago only now this word sits in my brain as something describing me and not just a word. It has a meaning. Thank you so much for creating this.

    • @TheAutisticFrog
      @TheAutisticFrog Рік тому +1

      @iamme25yagohave you heard of “Marjorie Taylor Green”?

    • @_Spider4
      @_Spider4 Рік тому

      Bruh what

  • @he1uvvsmel
    @he1uvvsmel 3 роки тому +6581

    “You want to use they/them? What are you, plural?”
    Yes Jessica. I’m 56 rabbits in a shape of human body.

    • @Jessica-wc1hj
      @Jessica-wc1hj 3 роки тому +85

      Lest we not hate on Jessica?

    • @quas3r__
      @quas3r__ 3 роки тому +167

      I'm 30 rats in a trenchcoat

    • @phoenixdragon2422
      @phoenixdragon2422 3 роки тому +191

      I’m 69 Cans of Soup that is Morphed into a Human

    • @he1uvvsmel
      @he1uvvsmel 3 роки тому +40

      @@phoenixdragon2422 this comment is now the readon i live lmaoo

    • @phoenixdragon2422
      @phoenixdragon2422 3 роки тому +12

      @@he1uvvsmel lmfao

  • @ash-lg6sp
    @ash-lg6sp 4 роки тому +8104

    Bathrooms: men and woman
    Me: walks through the middle of the wall to 9 & 3/4

  • @johnjay280
    @johnjay280 3 роки тому +5413

    "intersex people don't exist"
    Me: Baby I'm not even here, Imma hallucination

    • @DasHeiligsteHuhn
      @DasHeiligsteHuhn 3 роки тому +168

      Oh wow, I've never seen a person, who doesn't exist^^ cool

    • @t0adfa1ry
      @t0adfa1ry 3 роки тому +211

      @rudolfshitler no there really isn't and before you say "it's basic biology" yeah maybe you should learn some more advanced biology because the biology your probably basing this off you learned when you were 14/15 and your high school teacher only had 8 months to teach it too you so obviously they had to simplify it and they over simplified it to the point where it is incorrect

    • @akeshathebest
      @akeshathebest 3 роки тому +66

      @rudolfshitler no theres way more so shut

    • @furdasvaterland2853
      @furdasvaterland2853 3 роки тому +8

      my humanoid is a marge

    • @knotknot2040
      @knotknot2040 3 роки тому +5

      @@t0adfa1ry well tell us some

  • @godfrey_approves
    @godfrey_approves 5 місяців тому +14

    "Are you a boy or a girl?"
    I AM THE TERROR THAT FLAPS IN THE NIGHT-

  • @jjkkyukie
    @jjkkyukie 3 роки тому +3728

    "what's your gender?"
    I actually lost it a few months back, I'm still searching for it

  • @jackiesnackie.3690
    @jackiesnackie.3690 4 роки тому +3249

    THE WAY THEY SMILED WHEN CHARLIE CALLED THEM THEY THEM PRONOUNS

  • @purefandom3659
    @purefandom3659 4 роки тому +1125

    I ended up crying cuz the way hey described how "she/her" pronouns felt like a punch, while "he/him" felt like another person entirely is exactly how it feels for me.

    • @Brooke_Jewell
      @Brooke_Jewell 4 роки тому +45

      me too. i don’t know why i feel this way and the worst part is everyone just believes it’s some made up thing but there’s science behind it. my mom called me, “girly” today and it literally made me feel so sick. i don’t know why i feel this way and i really wish i didn’t

    • @herelizabethan
      @herelizabethan 4 роки тому +17

      pardon me but what flag is that 😅
      the:
      💛💛💛
      🤍🤍🤍
      💜💜💜
      🖤🖤🖤

    • @purefandom3659
      @purefandom3659 4 роки тому +25

      @@herelizabethan it's the non-binary flag

    • @purefandom3659
      @purefandom3659 4 роки тому +26

      @@Brooke_Jewell yeah, I remember having a conversation with my father before I was out and any time he would say "she" it felt like am emotional stab.

    • @herelizabethan
      @herelizabethan 4 роки тому +2

      @@purefandom3659 kay thought so

  • @ashleypisarts
    @ashleypisarts Рік тому +26

    God, I started tearing up when they screamed “Mom! Can I borrow your makeup?” after they had the most realistic and relatable mental breakdown I’ve ever seen.

  • @Bella-vw5ok
    @Bella-vw5ok 4 роки тому +257

    "Ash tips back a shot, not nearly drunk enough to deal with this." HIUEHGCWKHSEAMJB PLEASE-

    • @julianyu3584
      @julianyu3584 4 роки тому +3

      Underrated comment!

    • @jasella
      @jasella 4 роки тому

      @Florence Jowers i did, i always have captions on xD

  • @marlinmarlin9846
    @marlinmarlin9846 4 роки тому +2755

    Dude: “Hey good looking, wanna dance?”
    Ash: *takes shot and walks of*
    *MOOD*

    • @JaxieFlaxie
      @JaxieFlaxie 4 роки тому +49

      they drank like half the bottle lmao

    • @belphegor1662
      @belphegor1662 4 роки тому +43

      @@JaxieFlaxie uh they not a she-

    • @IdiaAndBoothillLover
      @IdiaAndBoothillLover 4 роки тому +48

      They just went: *fuck off*

    • @reighnrainnn
      @reighnrainnn 4 роки тому +58

      @@JaxieFlaxie dude the video is literally about non-binary ppl and you calling ash "she"?
      * *facepalm* *

    • @xrageas5868
      @xrageas5868 4 роки тому +26

      @@JaxieFlaxie bro u messed up

  • @nathan5112
    @nathan5112 3 роки тому +1928

    I hate so much how the teachers can CLEARLY hear what the mean girls say to them and even with that they don't do anything.

    • @antidepressionguy247
      @antidepressionguy247 3 роки тому +81

      School office doesn't care about the students' feelings, but if you defend them or yourself, they intervene. Just like when Charlie refuted Dominique at the poem scene.

    • @moonieri
      @moonieri 3 роки тому +35

      That pretty much happens in real life, it has happened to me and one of my friends, school is a bitch in general lmao

    • @char6081
      @char6081 3 роки тому +17

      School guidance sucks. They don’t care until you’re grades start slipping then they’re like “we noticed you haven’t been doing the best” like were all of the other signs not enough?

    • @potatos7078
      @potatos7078 3 роки тому +2

      I've had that happen to me, I'm glad i graduated that shit

    • @marley606
      @marley606 3 роки тому +3

      you guys deserve to get bullied

  • @jenniferfoshee9114
    @jenniferfoshee9114 9 місяців тому +18

    "Are you a boy are a girl"
    "I'm breathing."

  • @marciandmaia6058
    @marciandmaia6058 3 роки тому +763

    “Are you a girl or boy?” Me: I’m a pickle

  • @melonboxxie
    @melonboxxie 4 роки тому +1066

    Teacher: Ash is a boys name
    Ash: it's gender neutral.
    * later on *
    Dominic: * ridiculing ash and making fun of them for their 'boy' name *
    DOMINIC IS LITERALLY THE EXACT SAME, GENDER NEUTRAL-
    Edit: holy woah thanks for the likes!?
    Edit 2: woah thanks for 1k😳

    • @O102-s7y
      @O102-s7y 4 роки тому +16

      IKR PLSS

    • @whytho8856
      @whytho8856 4 роки тому +56

      i've never heard of a girl named dominic so when she said that i was like💀

    • @melonboxxie
      @melonboxxie 4 роки тому +21

      @@whytho8856 same- I know 3 girls called ash though, LIKE

    • @melonboxxie
      @melonboxxie 4 роки тому +22

      @@whytho8856 Ash is such a good name oml- I love gender neutral names

    • @krisacheva
      @krisacheva 4 роки тому +15

      Dominique is literally common man's name... That's the irony here

  • @alliellama233
    @alliellama233 4 роки тому +851

    Teacher: Okay so, today we're starting on genetics-
    Me, already reeling: Oh no

    • @stringcheese8936
      @stringcheese8936 4 роки тому +14

      In school were going over genetics and it's really awkward for me (I'm bigender)

    • @nickick8498
      @nickick8498 4 роки тому +9

      Really sucks when people talk science instead of fantasy 😔🤚

    • @madelynkellyy
      @madelynkellyy 4 роки тому +1

      @@emmylu4016 do some research kid

    • @slaymoment8900
      @slaymoment8900 4 роки тому +2

      in my school we have to do feminism, except its not feminism its the school reminding us we are all afabs who cant change ourselves (grammar school) and to kill all men.

    • @madelynkellyy
      @madelynkellyy 4 роки тому

      @@slaymoment8900 that’s messed up

  • @carolinecheney
    @carolinecheney Рік тому +49

    I treat everyone with respect that they deserve, whether they’re different or not, and if I met someone that goes by the pronouns they/them, I’ll respect that! It’s not fair that society criticizes someone for being different.

  • @asher_is_gae4249
    @asher_is_gae4249 4 роки тому +1684

    "it's just a phase"
    "get over yourself"
    "it's because of that damn phone" I get told that quite often, I put it aside I am a bisexual non-binary person. This film has helped myself find my true self thank you.

    • @asli3276
      @asli3276 4 роки тому +24

      Omg I’m acually bisexual and non-binary aswell! I support u all the way ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @chloecreatz3521
      @chloecreatz3521 4 роки тому +19

      Im pan and non binary😶😌

    • @tinytaleah
      @tinytaleah 4 роки тому +16

      I’m bi and non-binary too! 💖💜💙 💛🤍💜🖤

    • @tiffxiez
      @tiffxiez 4 роки тому +18

      straight ally, be you and never change! those who discriminate you are wrong.

    • @Cherrymilk333
      @Cherrymilk333 4 роки тому +7

      I'm bisexual and non-binary to

  • @dinosaur_pajamas
    @dinosaur_pajamas 3 роки тому +3380

    "I'm not lost, just never had the right map."
    This line alone is amazing.

  • @vanillaraptor5585
    @vanillaraptor5585 4 роки тому +844

    "Are you a boy or a girl?"
    Me: I'm a mess 🥲

    • @z3rqxii
      @z3rqxii 4 роки тому +14

      Ah same here, same here💀🤚🏻😔

    • @bread_m4n555
      @bread_m4n555 4 роки тому +6

      I’m pogger

    • @kxnz4049
      @kxnz4049 3 роки тому +1

      Same 😌🤌🏼

    • @loreimtb
      @loreimtb 3 роки тому +2

      A mess, yes, but a ✨Date Tech Mess✨

    • @leilyambraezia206
      @leilyambraezia206 3 роки тому +8

      🎵I'm a loser, I'm hater, I'm a user, I'm a mess for your love it ain't neewww🎶 (I'm sorry I couldn't help it😅😂)

  • @k___a__7998
    @k___a__7998 7 місяців тому +19

    I cried my eyes out as a non-binary person, so I can put myself in their shoes. I still remember my exit. It's been almost 3 years since I realized I'm non-binary, but the world is still cruel. Every day on the internet or in real life people bully me because of my non-binary nature but I'm not going to change and it's not just a phase, I can be whoever I want and no amount of death threats will change that. love yourself always and no matter how hard it is to be yourself. I love you always :3

    • @Derf1OO
      @Derf1OO 5 місяців тому

      Best of luck to you. I’d say it gets better, but I’m a year behind you, so fucked if I know.

  • @cheshirerat1662
    @cheshirerat1662 3 роки тому +167

    [Ash tips back a shot, not nearly drunk enough to deal with this]
    These subtitles get me in the best way

  • @b0ta._n09
    @b0ta._n09 4 роки тому +974

    Honestly, the part where the teacher let Charlotte change her name to Charlie but didn’t let Juliana change their name to Ash wasn’t fair. Ash literally had to go to write an entire script just to be accepted.
    edit: GUYS I AM SO SORRY I WROTE THIS ONE YEAR AGO AND I JUST NOW REALISED MY SHE/HER USAGE ON ASH. I'LL EDIT THAT RIGHT NOW

    • @Nish-ej3zn
      @Nish-ej3zn 3 роки тому +77

      change their name to Ash**

    • @fairykid9059
      @fairykid9059 3 роки тому +69

      *Ash
      *Their

    • @alllittlethingzz
      @alllittlethingzz 3 роки тому +40

      True though and it’s they/them or their

    • @geometrydashpro4209
      @geometrydashpro4209 3 роки тому +1

      Why she wasnt happy being a gurl whe needd to change to mann 🙄

    • @Nish-ej3zn
      @Nish-ej3zn 3 роки тому +44

      @@geometrydashpro4209 THEY didn't change to a man. They were always nonbinary. They once believed they were female. They were never a guy. But now they know that they're nonbinary.

  • @yellowfellow9909
    @yellowfellow9909 4 роки тому +4172

    "they?? what? are you plural?"
    yes. i am three children in a trench coat. and you will refer to me as such.

    • @tablesugar13
      @tablesugar13 4 роки тому +60

      Luv ur profile pic and name❤️

    • @yellowfellow9909
      @yellowfellow9909 4 роки тому +26

      @@tablesugar13 thank you 👹💕

    • @morijin1919
      @morijin1919 4 роки тому +82

      Children??? I'm a few cats

    • @phoebewilson6739
      @phoebewilson6739 3 роки тому +42

      I thought you were Numerous Bees??

    • @skyisherelol3492
      @skyisherelol3492 3 роки тому +45

      I'm thousands of tortured souls form the nineth circle of hell

  • @parkerbarker2099
    @parkerbarker2099 Рік тому +155

    I’m a trans man but Ash’s story is very relatable. Genuinely, trying to convince myself I was a girl was the worst point I was at. But tbh me coming out was kinda shitty because the bullying I face in person. And online I see people debating my rights and thinking I was “groomed” into feeling this way. Despite me having to go through multiple phases of discovery and rejection. My family when I first came out as non-binary didn’t believe me until I got more comfortable and came out as a trans man. My family all know me as a boy and Parker. I recently had my birthday and I was actually me. Parker. The birthday boy. If you’re struggling, please know there are people who love you.

  • @wingsofthv
    @wingsofthv 4 роки тому +571

    I came out to my mother as nonbinary yesterday and she seriously went “but you are a girl Amanda” :’)

    • @dangerousbeans
      @dangerousbeans 4 роки тому +63

      Soz bro, people suck

    • @daintydeer1626
      @daintydeer1626 4 роки тому +44

      Remember that people are here for you! ❤ We love you here!

    • @lunargoth9371
      @lunargoth9371 4 роки тому +48

      My mom told me that being nb is made up :,D my dad kinda supports me tho

    • @thejollydwarf2275
      @thejollydwarf2275 4 роки тому +34

      I’m still figuring out who I am. I think I’m bisexual and when I told my mom she wasn’t too.. well nice. My grandparents don’t know. I’m looking forward to trying on suits and such later on. (Not that it’s a bi thing but it’s just something I’ve been excited to do. As well as gotten my head shaved around the sides.)
      I see you, I support you, and I hope everything gets better! Just remember that you’re valid no matter what others think or say.

    • @justacommenter6960
      @justacommenter6960 4 роки тому +19

      Only reasonable thing to do is call her a Guy. If that doesn’t work there’s *murder*

  • @easybakeoven15
    @easybakeoven15 4 роки тому +2995

    i hate it so much when parents say “i don’t want you to get teased.” it’s just an excuse for not accepting their kids.

    • @rutherfardcareelium
      @rutherfardcareelium 4 роки тому +75

      Who would want their children to be teased, wtf-

    • @HumeriaV
      @HumeriaV 4 роки тому +87

      @@rutherfardcareelium
      Yeah but at the end of the day you just want to be accepted by your parents. It’s seen as more of an excuse to not accept your kids than a way of showing you “care” in the end, your kids will still want to be referred to as whatever and no matter what kids get teased (no matter gender, sexuality, appearance, name) so why not just accept your kids and help them through their troubles?

    • @rutherfardcareelium
      @rutherfardcareelium 4 роки тому +6

      @Otaku P basically her parents could allow her to do whatever she wanted, but guess what would probably happen next - bullying

    • @rutherfardcareelium
      @rutherfardcareelium 4 роки тому +4

      @@HumeriaV I would help my kids to find themselves in a safe way. Jesus, why do you all have to be drama queens, It's not such a big deal

    • @rubybeard6406
      @rubybeard6406 4 роки тому +15

      @@rutherfardcareelium well, you've never met my dad or my stepmom.

  • @mercymelai
    @mercymelai 4 роки тому +284

    Charlie: Please don't call me Charlotte.
    Teacher: Ofcourse sweetie🥰🥰😊, right away.
    Ash: please don't call me with such a feminine name, I'm Ash.
    Also teacher: 😦 *surprised Pikachu face*

    • @dysphoricfurry
      @dysphoricfurry 4 роки тому +1

      yea I can't wait to see what would happen if I asked teachers to call me my preferred name, probably this lmao

    • @nxahsvidz
      @nxahsvidz 4 роки тому +1

      @@dysphoricfurry lmao samee 😭❤️😭

    • @furiousmagician5912
      @furiousmagician5912 4 роки тому +1

      i have literally no idea what will happen if i ask my teachers to call me blocky

  • @docmcsuffin5353
    @docmcsuffin5353 4 роки тому +380

    Did you ever just wanna 👊😀 the bully in the face?

    • @irmaboguzinskaite8753
      @irmaboguzinskaite8753 3 роки тому +4

      Doesn't everyone?

    • @anaalina5964
      @anaalina5964 3 роки тому +4

      No. It's an actor. Grow up.

    • @coralline1984
      @coralline1984 3 роки тому +6

      @@anaalina5964 I think you just broke the 4th wall...

    • @trans_asexual
      @trans_asexual 3 роки тому +5

      @@anaalina5964 why do i have to grow up? i’m a teen i’m allowed to act however tf i want to

    • @anaalina5964
      @anaalina5964 3 роки тому +1

      @@trans_asexual I wasn't talking to you, teen. And no you aren't, there are laws you have to follow.

  • @quinn3214
    @quinn3214 4 роки тому +22595

    “are you a boy or a girl” bro i’m literally just swag

  • @bruhkenobi8747
    @bruhkenobi8747 4 роки тому +176

    "i'm not trapped in a body I hate, just wrapped in words that don't relate to how the skin feels on my bones."
    nothing more to say.

  • @OmorPlush825
    @OmorPlush825 Рік тому +17

    As a non binary person myself, I’m really proud of Ash reading the poem aloud, and not caring what other people thought, because, I would never have that courage !

  • @jesse_cosplays_1125
    @jesse_cosplays_1125 4 роки тому +25747

    When the teacher crossed off “Juliana” and wrote “Ash” my heart melted 🥺❣️

  • @pajamas_the_emo
    @pajamas_the_emo 4 роки тому +180

    "leave THEM alone, THEY don't need your bullshit." REAL TEARS IN MY EYES FOLKS

    • @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072
      @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 3 роки тому +1

      If that brings tears to your eyes honey then you're not ready for the world out there. I'm still not

  • @personofthepeople561
    @personofthepeople561 3 роки тому +251

    Teacher: But Ash is a boys name!
    Me who is a cis girl and Ash is my nickname:

    • @ranboosupermacy7055
      @ranboosupermacy7055 3 роки тому +4

      @ValentinaRoyaleSparkle aww i love that for you! One of my favorite twitch streamers goes by anything✨

    • @ranboosupermacy7055
      @ranboosupermacy7055 3 роки тому +1

      @ValentinaRoyaleSparkle nice! Theyre name is Eret im not sure if you have heard of her

    • @ranboosupermacy7055
      @ranboosupermacy7055 3 роки тому +1

      @ValentinaRoyaleSparkle he does Minecraft streams :D

    • @ranboosupermacy7055
      @ranboosupermacy7055 3 роки тому +1

      @ValentinaRoyaleSparkle :0

    • @mechamedeisa9622
      @mechamedeisa9622 3 роки тому

      Hey Ketchum what's up?

  • @pixie.ahimsa
    @pixie.ahimsa 9 місяців тому +12

    I am a trans woman and my heart goes out to all the non-binary people in our gorgeous community!
    I stand with all parts of the trans and gender diverse communities, and I strongly support you.
    You are valid! You matter!
    Free hugs for all the people in our beautiful community!🤗🥰🥰

    • @rawr816
      @rawr816 19 днів тому +1

      Same here! As a she/he I agree! All genders should be loved‼️❤️

  • @yourlocaldemon2195
    @yourlocaldemon2195 4 роки тому +562

    I ain’t non-binary, I’m a ciswoman, I’m just here to send Hufflepuff hugs :)

    • @Aki-ug2ky
      @Aki-ug2ky 4 роки тому +21

      I know you didnt mean this and i dont feel offended by your comment, it’s actually supportive and nice, i just think that saying a *true girl* might make someone feel bad

    • @yourlocaldemon2195
      @yourlocaldemon2195 4 роки тому +30

      @@Aki-ug2ky Huh? I didn’t mean it to be like that, I just meant that I was a ciswoman, I’m sorry if it would, I’ll fix it.

    • @Aki-ug2ky
      @Aki-ug2ky 4 роки тому +9

      @@yourlocaldemon2195 no problem, as i said i, knew you didnt mean that, i was just trying to help :D

    • @yourlocaldemon2195
      @yourlocaldemon2195 4 роки тому +8

      @@Aki-ug2ky :D

    • @23V33
      @23V33 4 роки тому +3

      Same girl, same

  • @cloud6322
    @cloud6322 3 роки тому +1533

    When she said "It hurts me to see you hurt" my instant thought of a reaction was
    "Then stop hurting me."
    Edit- I know she didn't know about it, relax with the replies I'm not stupid. That's just what I thought of when I heard it.

    • @AngelFangs666
      @AngelFangs666 3 роки тому +14

      SAME

    • @qkndc
      @qkndc 3 роки тому +8

      sammeee (also u have 69 likes)

    • @leahcostan843
      @leahcostan843 3 роки тому +7

      But she didn't know.... did she yet?

    • @qkndc
      @qkndc 3 роки тому +23

      @American Empire ... Oh great another uneducated bitch. Is it that hard for you to learn that gender is a social construct, and that there's more than just two? Shut up and go learn some stuff, then come back and apologize

    • @qkndc
      @qkndc 3 роки тому +19

      @American Empire uhm no. These labels help people who fit outside of societal norms and expectations, they were made and changed to help people find themselves and their community.

  • @katyapotterlovedraco1453
    @katyapotterlovedraco1453 3 роки тому +1789

    I'm non binary and when my parents asked if they have a daughter or son, I said, you had a child.

  • @awesome_sauce-666
    @awesome_sauce-666 Рік тому +24

    i can relate to their poem so much. it hurts when people call me by she/her pronouns. but my friends accepted me and call me by they/them. when my friends accidently call me by she/her, they immediately correct themselves and apologize.

  • @cake-ie7uh
    @cake-ie7uh 3 роки тому +1299

    "Are you a boy or a girl?"
    I am actually a box of tissues. Cry in my presence mortal.

    • @finneganmeyers584
      @finneganmeyers584 3 роки тому +17

      Y e s
      If anyone asks me that question, that’s what i’m gonna say
      or i’ll say “no, i’m a fucking god.”

    • @pajamas_the_emo
      @pajamas_the_emo 3 роки тому +4

      A BOX OF TISSUES FHALDBSKDBSND

    • @yukitenshi5678
      @yukitenshi5678 3 роки тому +1

      @@finneganmeyers584 wait I'm sorry but I don't know how to ask if someone is gender neutral I mean..do I ask "what's your gender?"

    • @lavender_stars9468
      @lavender_stars9468 3 роки тому

      -sobbing-

    • @ye-junixox1859
      @ye-junixox1859 3 роки тому

      “Yesn’t”

  • @ujustgotranboozled3948
    @ujustgotranboozled3948 3 роки тому +885

    “What’s the point of being myself if being myself makes me want to fucking die” I felt that.

    • @timmywhy6563
      @timmywhy6563 3 роки тому +9

      Ikr man it’s just so fucking sad 😢 man I hate everything about this world 🌎 fuck all homophobia’s lol they should be they one ☝️ getting beat up 🤕 🤬 in the streets man 😤

    • @Wagecuck9000
      @Wagecuck9000 3 роки тому +6

      @@timmywhy6563 wut

    • @andrea-xb5sg
      @andrea-xb5sg 3 роки тому +1

      same:/

    • @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072
      @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 3 роки тому

      Why

    • @dennisthemenace4209
      @dennisthemenace4209 3 роки тому +2

      @@timmywhy6563 fuck you and everyone

  • @hiimpico4322
    @hiimpico4322 4 роки тому +5591

    Y’all the red head with an iPhone 5 thinks she’s better than everyone
    I accidentally almost deleted my comment while trying to edit this oh my god

  • @galletitakawaii3780
    @galletitakawaii3780 4 дні тому +1

    _“It's like every time someone calls me "she" I get punched in the stomach.”_ Bro, I *really* feel that (I almost cried).

  • @rolo5193
    @rolo5193 4 роки тому +3429

    Nobody:
    The kid who has to read their
    poem after them: 👁👄👁

    • @izzyfries2067
      @izzyfries2067 4 роки тому +59

      Fr

    • @pasteldanielle
      @pasteldanielle 4 роки тому +65

      oh shiet that must’ve been difficult

    • @kanon_natsuki
      @kanon_natsuki 4 роки тому +12

      lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll haahhaha loolllll

    • @3pickatxoxo571
      @3pickatxoxo571 4 роки тому +27

      Lmaoo theyy can’tt compete 😂

    • @datboi1026
      @datboi1026 4 роки тому +7

      bro your pfp. ( o _ o ), that speaks volumes. I can totally relate, stay strong out there

  • @fivehundredlux
    @fivehundredlux 4 роки тому +293

    *’ash shoots down a shot. not nearly drunk enough to deal with this’* AKSHDJD THESE CAPTIONS ARE BEAUTIFUL

    • @nox5660
      @nox5660 4 роки тому +14

      I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE TO NOTICE LMAO

  • @mumatsi
    @mumatsi 4 роки тому +14687

    We don't have gender pronouns in Turkey, we just call everything and everyone "o" instead of "They, he, she, it"

  • @Foxy2490
    @Foxy2490 Місяць тому +12

    I’m a born woman, I’m still a woman, I don’t get why people are homophobic. And another thing I don’t understand is that from what I have seen online, some LGBTQ+ people are making one of the biggest deals about their pronouns and things like that, not to mention, if I say that I do not care about LGBTQ+ people I am going to get attacked, which has happened. Now I don’t mean that in a bad way, I mean it as in I do not care if you are LGBTQ+, I’m not going to treat you any differently, not better and not worse. However, do not expect me to wear anything about pride because I am not comfortable to do so, and do not expect me to get your pronouns right the first time I meet you, I will refer to you as what I think you are if you do not tell me straight away, do not get angry if I do so. My friend is trans, they’re one of my closest friends

  • @itsmxe9671
    @itsmxe9671 3 роки тому +4784

    “are you a boy or a girl” *im a threat.*

  • @ArcWaves-U29
    @ArcWaves-U29 3 роки тому +1912

    "No matter straight,gay or bi,lesbian, transgender life I'm on the right track baby I was born this way" -Lady Gaga

    • @beaublight
      @beaublight  3 роки тому +181

      I listened to that song on repeat when I was working on this. Along with This Is Me.

    • @elstagersaurus
      @elstagersaurus 3 роки тому +21

      Great song 💕

    • @ArcWaves-U29
      @ArcWaves-U29 3 роки тому +34

      @@elstagersaurus Ikr? my respect for lady gaga went sky high📈📈

    • @random_annoying_kid7371
      @random_annoying_kid7371 3 роки тому +20

      Lady Gaga is queen 😌💅✨

    • @PEAK__
      @PEAK__ 3 роки тому +8

      What's the name of the song ?

  • @cloudmilkshake
    @cloudmilkshake 4 роки тому +971

    The girl saying that intersex people don't exist when they're about 1.7%* of the population. She's a redhead which is 1 to 2 percent lmao
    *Not every font agrees but you can find it on the internet

    • @noomre9105
      @noomre9105 4 роки тому +35

      #gingersarefake

    • @hxneyanika
      @hxneyanika 4 роки тому +9

      @@noomre9105 not all ginger’s are...

    • @emalinu
      @emalinu 4 роки тому +46

      @@hxneyanika the hashtag was a joke because the girl said intersex people don't exist but they do. which is like saying redheads dont exist

    • @sleepiegirl
      @sleepiegirl 4 роки тому +3

      hey i have a quick question, what is intersex? i haven’t heard of it before

    • @noomre9105
      @noomre9105 4 роки тому +5

      @@sleepiegirl when someone is born with both types of genitalia

  • @BlakeDior-o5k
    @BlakeDior-o5k Рік тому +14

    This was so relatable I cried my eyes out watching it. I’m not non-binary, but I’m gender fluid, and it’s really hard to fit in with that identity. In my old school I was constantly bullied because of it. I had supportive friends thankfully, but very few. I moved this year and I’ve been hiding it for a while. Only two people I really trust know about it. I honestly don’t want it to get out as it could cause more problems, but at the same time it’s torture trying to keep it in. I love how Ash was so confident and was able to speak their mind in front of their class. I for one could never. I just wish transphobic and homophobic people didn’t exist, or at least just kept to themselves instead of feeling the need to tell us how they feel about us. This was really beautiful, and I loved every second of it. Thank you so much for this, it really made my day.

    • @n1kogrin
      @n1kogrin 21 день тому

      Gender fluid people are nonbinary!

  • @Mayflower-xo8ew
    @Mayflower-xo8ew 4 роки тому +4693

    Everytime they said “I’m a girl” it really did feel like a punch to the gut...

    • @alexmurray9843
      @alexmurray9843 4 роки тому +38

      fax no printer

    • @gormanthemadlad1489
      @gormanthemadlad1489 4 роки тому +7

      good

    • @ChaosCrystalArtist
      @ChaosCrystalArtist 4 роки тому +187

      I told my mum I was non binary and that I was getting harassed by more then half the guys and girls in my year.
      She immediately disregarded that I was being harassed and said "I'm a pretty girl and that guys are going to flirt with me"
      Yeah _parent of the year over here_

    • @oblivilion8342
      @oblivilion8342 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah

    • @oblivilion8342
      @oblivilion8342 4 роки тому +56

      @@ChaosCrystalArtist I’m so sorry, I hope your mom accepts that you are who you want to be and I hope she helps you feel more comfortable for being yourself, I’m proud of you

  • @beaublight
    @beaublight  4 роки тому +351

    So I finally added English subtitles! I'm so sorry it took so long, I had a mishap with the system and held a grudge for several months. If you would like to see this in any other language, please let me know, and I'll see what I can do.

    • @mackensiebissenas2028
      @mackensiebissenas2028 4 роки тому +3

      Oki thanks! I love this

    • @beaublight
      @beaublight  4 роки тому +15

      Btw, can we all appreciate the sheer talent of Rebecca Burgess? Dominique is so easy to hate, but Rebecca (her actress) is honestly one of the sweetest human beings on the planet.

    • @eluanlien6940
      @eluanlien6940 4 роки тому +1

      If I can help you in any way to translate the subtitles in French, just let me know, since the community subtitles have been removed by youtube I don't know how to do...

    • @eluanlien6940
      @eluanlien6940 4 роки тому

      @@beaublight sorry for the mention but really if there's a way

    • @beaublight
      @beaublight  4 роки тому

      @@eluanlien6940 Help with that would be awesome. Send me an email? bobeaufill@gmail.com

  • @pri-d5f
    @pri-d5f 4 роки тому +672

    Dominique: THe SuGar BowL iS EmPtY aNd sO iS yOuR hEaD
    Me : wow she wrote a poem explaining herself😀

  • @ottolandin
    @ottolandin Рік тому +40

    we should have unisex bathrooms in every building, so that everyone feels emotionally safe and comfortable.

  • @justaredhead154
    @justaredhead154 4 роки тому +335

    "I'm not traped in a body I hate. Just wrapped in words that don't relate to the way my skin feels on my bones" This is so accurate. I can't believe they found a way to express this feeling into words. Everytime I hear them say those words I get goosebumps.

    • @rubybeard6406
      @rubybeard6406 4 роки тому +7

      This is me. All the time. I'm genderfluid. My brother tells me to change my body so he feels more natural (btw, he keeps saying it's for me, I know otherwise), and I keep explaining that it isn't necessary, and if anything I'd be the same as I am now.

    • @juliagilewska8354
      @juliagilewska8354 4 роки тому +1

      @@rubybeard6406 hey, take care. hope ur brother stops being an asshole real soon:)

    • @justaredhead154
      @justaredhead154 4 роки тому +1

      @@rubybeard6406 You and your feeling are 100% valid. Don't let your brother pressure you into taking actions you are not comfortable with. Listen to your heart not to toxic people, even if it is hard. I'm with you. Stay strong and stay proud.

    • @rubybeard6406
      @rubybeard6406 4 роки тому

      @@juliagilewska8354 he's not an asshole, he's just a little box-minded. Don't worry, he's improving, however slowly that may be.

  • @Romo9752
    @Romo9752 4 роки тому +719

    Girl:pushes ash* “sorry ashh”
    Like really ow but like validation

    • @bincy008
      @bincy008 4 роки тому +17

      it was teasing i think.

    • @cheesenugget9845
      @cheesenugget9845 4 роки тому +4

      lmao

    • @beeblebuice
      @beeblebuice 4 роки тому +35

      me (also nonbinary): haha yeah but ...... at least they got to hear their chosen name 👉👈

    • @Typhio
      @Typhio 4 роки тому +2

      @@beeblebuice I know I’m some random person on the internet and it’s not quite the same as irl, but I can leave a comment for you with your chosen name if you’d like :)

    • @Typhio
      @Typhio 4 роки тому +6

      @@beeblebuice heya so I checked out your UA-cam and insta, hello Ronan!! I really like your art and animations, I know animating is hard and takes a lot of work, great job on those! I also love the floofy hair of your characters 💚

  • @Cupids_fiction
    @Cupids_fiction 4 роки тому +288

    “You hear her, they don’t exist”
    When I tell you I died at this sentence XD
    It’s a very clear thing and there’s literally scientific evidence of intersex people’s existences but people I know irl still deny it
    The representation and real world problems in this are so accurate, keep it up

    • @skyblanket4000
      @skyblanket4000 4 роки тому +10

      me, an intersex person: mr stark i don’t feel so good-

    • @shukimeo2927
      @shukimeo2927 4 роки тому +2

      @@skyblanket4000 uh oh

    • @sharee7100
      @sharee7100 4 роки тому +3

      Our 4th miscarriage would have been an intersex baby. Sadly stopped growing at 12 weeks but confirmed via blood tests and biopsy.

    • @skyblanket4000
      @skyblanket4000 4 роки тому +2

      @@sharee7100 i’m very sorry for your loss

    • @Cupids_fiction
      @Cupids_fiction 4 роки тому +2

      @@sharee7100 I am so sorry for your loss. I’m sure you would’ve been a great parent to them and if you have a kid now They love you very much :)

  • @Ya_Boi_Mojang
    @Ya_Boi_Mojang Рік тому +133

    As a Non Binary, I live with parents who dont really believe or support about this type of stuff. I'm so glad to know I'm not crazy into believing that this is what I idenify with. I almost cried happy tears. Thank you so much for creating this, I feel so alive. This comment might get buried, but if someone reads this, I hope you have a great life.

    • @_Spider4
      @_Spider4 Рік тому +7

      Nah u r crazy

    • @astralanarchist
      @astralanarchist Рік тому +8

      @@_Spider4 just bc you haven’t experienced it doesn’t mean others haven’t either. please educate yourself

    • @_Spider4
      @_Spider4 Рік тому

      @@astralanarchist nah y'all just mentally ill :⁠-

    • @Ya_Boi_Mojang
      @Ya_Boi_Mojang Рік тому +2

      @@_Spider4 real

    • @retsevlys
      @retsevlys Рік тому +5

      i understand your feeling. i hope that you and every genderqueer and non binary person are able to live freely and happily without judgement of people scared of (not-so) new ideas and changes in the way life goes on. i hope you have a great life too :)

  • @yarielvargas7011
    @yarielvargas7011 3 роки тому +268

    -But what about intersex people?
    -Cant you hear her? they dont exist
    That had me dying 🤚😭

  • @aidind
    @aidind 4 роки тому +124

    When Charlie said "leave them alone" I literally screamed and I was like YESSS idk am I the only one

  • @Kitty4u
    @Kitty4u 4 роки тому +6609

    I changed my name to "Alex" and someone litterally said "that's a boy's name"......

    • @maxedits4919
      @maxedits4919 4 роки тому +590

      F them!! Be who you are, you are beautiful

    • @Akyure
      @Akyure 4 роки тому +1266

      Isn’t Alex gender neutral anyways lol

    • @Kitty4u
      @Kitty4u 4 роки тому +371

      @@Akyure that's what i thought 🥴

    • @Akyure
      @Akyure 4 роки тому +272

      @@Kitty4u I think it is because the second protagonist of Minecraft is named alex

    • @jujublue4426
      @jujublue4426 4 роки тому +106

      @@Akyure And one of the Totally Spies is named Alex too

  • @SPOOKi-TheWeirdo
    @SPOOKi-TheWeirdo 4 місяці тому +5

    Someone once asked my non-binary friend: «Are you a girl or a boy?» They answered: «I’M A F-ING ICONNNN»
    *never been more right*