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  • Опубліковано 24 лис 2024

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  • @cainoahl
    @cainoahl 4 роки тому +5210

    When his brother hugged him that made me feel so nice, like he’s really lucky to have someone that protective

    • @awado
      @awado 4 роки тому +100

      bruh that's his dad

    • @TyrannosaurusTREW
      @TyrannosaurusTREW 4 роки тому +49

      ITS HER FATHER

    • @celestialudenberg2259
      @celestialudenberg2259 4 роки тому +21

      Why do i always see comments with a yoongi profil or a diffrent bts member on it when i see trans short movies💜💜💜

    • @skai1433
      @skai1433 4 роки тому +111

      @A ZILLA no it’s HIS dad or friend or brother. Idk. Just use the right pronouns

    • @thisismefrommumbai8447
      @thisismefrommumbai8447 4 роки тому +43

      And if you try to feel it, there is a warmth in that hug. I know its acting, but he was able to portray it well. Amazing.

  • @arlettediaz2111
    @arlettediaz2111 5 років тому +7761

    Where can I get a simon

  • @manasaid8184
    @manasaid8184 5 років тому +2448

    1% of the comments "I'm trans too"
    1% "I'm crying, this is so beautifull"
    98% " SIMON!!"
    Lmao, Simon we love you so much omg

    • @darialipovanu5636
      @darialipovanu5636 5 років тому +25

      0,001%
      -Mom I'm fine
      *-FEET*

    • @TheUnipug
      @TheUnipug 5 років тому +9

      Mana Saïd we all need a Simon tho💖😍

    • @Iris-ls6tu
      @Iris-ls6tu 5 років тому +1

      @@darialipovanu5636 stop cpying --______--

    • @ihopeyouchokeonaplastickst7381
      @ihopeyouchokeonaplastickst7381 5 років тому +1

      Mana Saïd lmao true tho

    • @akk4yan
      @akk4yan 5 років тому +4

      i'm trans too so i'm crying, and I want Simon lmao

  • @Kirby-qz2nh
    @Kirby-qz2nh Рік тому +823

    every trans kid needs a simon. he's so supportive and kind and everyone needs someone like that.

    • @Pullipe
      @Pullipe 11 місяців тому +17

      My elder sister is like my Simon :')

    • @Wheredidthehillsgo
      @Wheredidthehillsgo 6 місяців тому +4

      ​@@PullipeAWWW IM SO HAPPY FOR YOUUU 🥹

    • @Billiisnotcool
      @Billiisnotcool 4 місяці тому

      That's called an ally

    • @adriansecretlife2256
      @adriansecretlife2256 2 місяці тому +1

      A work colleague recently in front of another gay colleague who had just joined the organisation that I was 'Gay friendly'. It is in part thanks to a friend's dau, who is bi, who advised me to watch these videos a few years ago... I've learnt so much and tried to repel my old (parental prejudices). But I ve still got so much to if not learn to appreciate...

    • @CanonicallyAGuy
      @CanonicallyAGuy 2 місяці тому

      Frr, I grew up without that support. I had a step cousin I looked up to who was trans, but thats it. And we never talked

  • @avjinderdool2180
    @avjinderdool2180 5 років тому +860

    The way the brother was so comforting... makes me appreciate having an older brother

    • @ejirokirishima5016
      @ejirokirishima5016 5 років тому +6

      @Caroline Rowe it is her brother

    • @ca1lmekitty360
      @ca1lmekitty360 5 років тому +3

      Caroline Rowe yes he is

    • @stacey9377
      @stacey9377 5 років тому +8

      I have an older brother who’s 18 but he’s autistic too bad 😣😕

    • @toruoikawa1011
      @toruoikawa1011 5 років тому +7

      I have an older brother, 7 years older than me but ever since i was like 4, he was the worst brother ever. He hasen't changed for the better in 10 years. If you have a decent sibling, you are amazingly lucky. 😊😔

    • @jenniferandbrad3636
      @jenniferandbrad3636 5 років тому +12

      @@stacey9377 I'm autistic, so that's highly offensive putting the "too bad" at the end there. Just because your Autistic doesn't mean your not a human being and can't be treated like one. I'm in the higher end of the spectrum so I don't have the kind where I don't understand a lot, I have the kind were I over think a lot of things which makes me smarter and more clever.. I also have an extremely low annoyance span though. My point is that Autistic means different things so you should verify what you mean better, because it can be very offensive.

  • @cheyenneweaverling9257
    @cheyenneweaverling9257 5 років тому +4064

    It's 2019 and Simon still wants his tie back.

  • @laineystackhouse8089
    @laineystackhouse8089 4 роки тому +1498

    It's 2020 Simon still wants his tie back.....

  • @youraveragedino3146
    @youraveragedino3146 2 роки тому +459

    My heart DROPPED then she told Simon to take of the tie. I thought that was going in a vary different direction

    • @addison8426
      @addison8426 2 роки тому +12

      FR

    • @Ravenclaw_Kitty1031
      @Ravenclaw_Kitty1031 11 місяців тому

      @@addison8426same.

    • @azumi182
      @azumi182 7 місяців тому +14

      YES, i was traumatized but then i was like ?? is she bipolar or something? lol

    • @sn1ck3rdoodl
      @sn1ck3rdoodl 4 місяці тому

      why???

    • @Billiisnotcool
      @Billiisnotcool 4 місяці тому +13

      I thought she was going to strangle Emil 😭😭😭

  • @mallycox9431
    @mallycox9431 4 роки тому +372

    I cried at he end when Simon hugged Emil to comfort him. My heart just melted.

    • @beech9126
      @beech9126 4 роки тому

      Wait so who is the guy in the video..?

  • @iconiclad6817
    @iconiclad6817 4 роки тому +17821

    CAN WE JUST APPRECIATE SIMON FOR A MINUTE-

  • @odegolan933
    @odegolan933 3 роки тому +4404

    To anyone watching this, please remember that binding with bandages is unsafe and can cause permanent rib damage. You can buy safe chest binders for the purpose of hiding your chest online. Also, please don't wear chest compression for more than 8 hours, while you sleep, or while exercising. It can also be a good idea to stretch afterward.
    Be safe!

    • @azul1073
      @azul1073 3 роки тому +40

      ty for this also i made the likes 69 🤣😭

    • @someonecallsmenoodle....4236
      @someonecallsmenoodle....4236 3 роки тому +47

      but my mom don't want me to have a chest binder.

    • @Ælfgifu-1
      @Ælfgifu-1 3 роки тому +99

      @@someonecallsmenoodle....4236 That must be horrible, but, binding improperly can really hurt you.
      Could you get a binder and wear it when you're not around her?

    • @someonecallsmenoodle....4236
      @someonecallsmenoodle....4236 3 роки тому +62

      @@Ælfgifu-1 It is...
      i know that....
      She'll know it.. because i'm not old enough to buy a binder by myself...
      But it is my only wish for christmas, maybe she'll buy me one... if it is my only wish?

    • @Ælfgifu-1
      @Ælfgifu-1 3 роки тому +28

      @@someonecallsmenoodle....4236 I really hope so!

  • @CertifiedCrow19
    @CertifiedCrow19 Рік тому +246

    Genuinely made me cry. You can tell the mom cares, she just isn't educated about all of it, and it scares her to think that her baby might be going through something horrible mentally. She doesn't handle it the best way first, but at the end she grows. She hears the truth from Simon, realizes her mistake, and shows that she is going to try and accept her new son for who he is. She was right, he's not her Emilie anymore. But he's still her child.

  • @jayxfrost8987
    @jayxfrost8987 6 років тому +1811

    "That's a boy clothing."
    No, it's not! Fashion has no gender... I actually find "men's shirt" more comfortable than "women's shirt", and I've always hated wearing shirt/dresses. So what? Sue me.
    Btw. I'm not transgender, just saying.

    • @enevy3165
      @enevy3165 6 років тому +88

      Honestly though, men's jeans actually have POCKETS unlike female jeans 😂 😂

    • @gaymothman
      @gaymothman 6 років тому +22

      Simmie X
      Same. Shirts that are specifically made for males are just much more comfortable. I also have a lot of unisex clothes that I wear all the time and they are /much/ more comfortable then some shirts I have

    • @garbage_flowers8603
      @garbage_flowers8603 6 років тому +16

      Simmie X they just meant women's jeans have tiny pockets

    • @brook8402
      @brook8402 6 років тому +2

      -Fantasy is my Reality- lol

    • @feocaracol1057
      @feocaracol1057 6 років тому +22

      I find "men's clothing" more loose than "women's clothing" so it makes it a lot more comfy. I hate wearing shorts or dresses, but my mom makes me wear them ;-;

  • @s-9648
    @s-9648 7 років тому +21532

    admit it- we all fricking love Simon.

  • @spaceyart9699
    @spaceyart9699 4 роки тому +883

    I haven't seen people commenting about this, but it should be adressed: If you bind, please don't do it like it's done at 2:50 it's unsafe. Get yourself a binder, keep it dry when wearing it (I don't know that much about washing a binder, so I can't give advice on that), don't exercise wearing your binder and wear it for about 8-10 hours max. Stay safe and remember that you are loved

    • @Firelight3400
      @Firelight3400 4 роки тому +66

      Thank! You! I had a heart attack when I saw him grab the ace bandages

    • @sam-zs7ei
      @sam-zs7ei 4 роки тому +6

      @@Firelight3400 yeess same

    • @wopwopwallchonkyarm3217
      @wopwopwallchonkyarm3217 4 роки тому +6

      To wash most are hand wash

    • @finnb1478
      @finnb1478 4 роки тому +20

      @@Firelight3400 *him

    • @Firelight3400
      @Firelight3400 4 роки тому +12

      @@finnb1478 omg, I didn’t even realize that. Thank you!

  • @forkeater245
    @forkeater245 Рік тому +366

    As someone who thinks that they're trans and hasn't came out yet, THE FIRST SCENE IN THE SHOP IS SO RELATABLE
    Whenever I point out something that I find cool, mom says it's for boys and then proceeds to show me a barbie hoodie, like WHY DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT I WANT TO WEAR BOY STUFF, it's so much more comfortable, and I feel like myself in it

    • @stnczyk
      @stnczyk Рік тому +10

      SAME

    • @justahuman350
      @justahuman350 Рік тому +11

      I'm so sorry for you two guys, hope you can find the strength to come out to your important people and also to be and to show who you are.
      I never had those struggles of a trans* coming out, but as a person which is not straight.
      Whenever you are ready for this big step, wish you good luck, you'll make it 💚

    • @Ur_local_adhd_teen
      @Ur_local_adhd_teen Рік тому +3

      FR!

    • @PandrMC
      @PandrMC 9 місяців тому +9

      a barbie hoodie really makes it better huh? something obviously soooo gendered. I’m sorry, and I completely understand what you’re going through. It’s going to be okay. if you feel ready to, what I did was I came out to my closest friends and I suddenly got so much more comfortable. thinking of being fully out to my school maybe soon.
      it gets better from here.

    • @izzyveleaguez2079
      @izzyveleaguez2079 8 місяців тому +1

      Same

  • @honeycoats
    @honeycoats 3 роки тому +2946

    Simon comforting him right after the mom slapped him made my heart melt... I wish I had a supportive figure like him to help me through my struggles with gender identity too.

    • @twentyeight602
      @twentyeight602 3 роки тому +54

      Hey have a comforting virtual hug from me! Idk if it helps but you deserve it

    • @honeycoats
      @honeycoats 3 роки тому +19

      @@twentyeight602 Awe Thanks

    • @i_took_a_chonce
      @i_took_a_chonce 3 роки тому +7

      @@twentyeight602 love you

    • @i_took_a_chonce
      @i_took_a_chonce 3 роки тому +4

      And loads of love to you!!
      Know that I support you and I'm here if you need to speak to anyone(I can give you my contact info if you want, just say)
      Remember that you're feelings are totally valid

    • @twentyeight602
      @twentyeight602 3 роки тому +3

      @@i_took_a_chonce Awww you're so sweet!

  • @ImogenWatts
    @ImogenWatts 4 роки тому +8230

    When the mom said, "Take off your tie" I deadass thought she was gonna strangle him with it

  • @ivylili6002
    @ivylili6002 4 роки тому +2761

    Moral of the story: always lock your doors
    No seriously, just respect the others

    • @rinkamaki8984
      @rinkamaki8984 4 роки тому +13

      Ivy Lili My bathroom door don’t get locked lol

    • @wopwopwallchonkyarm3217
      @wopwopwallchonkyarm3217 4 роки тому +1

      Whos

    • @alex-cl5sp
      @alex-cl5sp 4 роки тому +23

      you may want to lock your *doors* and then unlock your *closet*

    • @fanboy_mlm9908
      @fanboy_mlm9908 4 роки тому +5

      I tried that my dad broke the lock and came in

    • @jessicaruiz4789
      @jessicaruiz4789 4 роки тому +4

      My step mom made a sticker for her house it say “knock befor opening” or something like that 😐 that what this mom needs

  • @traumatizedllama5370
    @traumatizedllama5370 Рік тому +842

    since this video is a trans film, here's some binding tips for my fellow trans babies out there wanting to bind!
    -make sure your binder is the right size. NOT TOO SMALL. if it is too small, it may compress too tight and can damage your ribs rlly bad.
    -dont wear it for more than 8-10 hours at the most. it can be very dangerous if worn for longer
    -DO NOT WEAR ONE WHILE SLEEPING. your breathing while sleeping is different from when you're awake, and it can possibly strangle you.
    -if you don't have a binder but are wanting to bind, DO NOT use bandages. it is EXTREMELY dangerous. instead, use two sports bras THAT FIT YOU and then put a big shirt on over top of them!
    stay safe!! ❤️❤️❤️

    • @goldennuggetofwisdom5068
      @goldennuggetofwisdom5068 Рік тому +8

      True peace with ones self only comes when u learn to except the entirety of your being. They need to stay safe alright...

    • @shadowscribbles9078
      @shadowscribbles9078 Рік тому +6

      I have a question, and I’m hoping it doesn’t sound really stupid. I’ve never had a binder before and may get one in the future, how do I know if it’s too small?

    • @skycat1350
      @skycat1350 Рік тому +4

      @@shadowscribbles9078 if it hurts I guess

    • @vriatak7966
      @vriatak7966 Рік тому +4

      This helps so much!!! Thank you

    • @ymaakjae
      @ymaakjae Рік тому +2

      what wearing bandages can cause? what’s the danger? i’m not questioning that fact i just don’t know why

  • @sophieshearer6249
    @sophieshearer6249 5 років тому +1813

    Where can I buy myself a Simon?

  • @hedge1199
    @hedge1199 5 років тому +4759

    the video: * is about a trans boy *
    the whole comment section: "haha i also think boy clothing is comfortable #relatable"
    :/

    • @StarsRequiem
      @StarsRequiem 5 років тому +46

      Ik right

    • @deadbeatangel
      @deadbeatangel 5 років тому +28

      Yeah ;-;

    • @thelorax3763
      @thelorax3763 5 років тому +64

      Yeah it's bugging me quite a bit lol

    • @Lover_..
      @Lover_.. 5 років тому +17

      -Don’t you mean trans girl? or am I getting something wrong here..- *Ok I get it-* *No more comments on my reply please-*

    • @hedge1199
      @hedge1199 5 років тому +68

      @@Lover_.. you would typically call FTM(female to male) trans boys/men, as to not call them girls when they are not. :)

  • @kittenshit
    @kittenshit 4 роки тому +740

    Legends say that Simon never got his tie back...

  • @idkxd8499
    @idkxd8499 2 роки тому +120

    Omg I just returned to this video after 3 years and deleted a comment from then that said “she is so pretty”
    Help. I really didn’t undestand the topic back then! Now I am happy to say it the right way: He is so pretty!

    • @SuperEpicCookies
      @SuperEpicCookies 5 місяців тому +8

      All good coming to understand things is important

  • @allyrhey3793
    @allyrhey3793 6 років тому +377

    The way that Simon hugs Emilie at 12:43 melts my heart, and I can only ever dream about being loved so deeply

    • @CoffinCataclysm
      @CoffinCataclysm 6 років тому +2

      ArtisticMystery T-V I'm pretty sure they're siblings in case you meant love in a different way

    • @paytonforan9988
      @paytonforan9988 6 років тому +9

      I just loved how he turned her head to his chest and let her cry while he glared at thier mom

    • @allyrhey3793
      @allyrhey3793 6 років тому +1

      I mean... I don't have any siblings, I just want someone that cares about me so much

    • @chelloking3338
      @chelloking3338 6 років тому +1

      ArtisticMystery T-V I CRY EVERYTIME

    • @ketyyxx
      @ketyyxx 6 років тому

      ArtisticMystery T-V Same

  • @elise4020
    @elise4020 4 роки тому +2848

    Mom: Am i a bad mother?
    Simon: Yes
    Me: LAY IT ON HER SIMON YOU FRICKING GENIUS

    • @user-po5oi4bh5u
      @user-po5oi4bh5u 4 роки тому +10

      Nice pfp ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • @mochilalauv
      @mochilalauv 4 роки тому +4

      Eyyy

    • @kaded_cat
      @kaded_cat 4 роки тому +8

      Honestly though? It takes some hella guts to say that

    • @godlyoddlydeath
      @godlyoddlydeath 4 роки тому +10

      me being Asexual and my mother bringing home guys as options for marriage.Bruh.

    • @kaded_cat
      @kaded_cat 4 роки тому +2

      Random Addict Welp-

  • @idontknowkhlo
    @idontknowkhlo 6 років тому +5468

    Bad mom: “Simon am i a bad mother?”
    Time: *long moment of silence*
    Simon: *yEs*

    • @loud_stars_
      @loud_stars_ 5 років тому +4

      Vy Nguyen lol

    • @d1clxver
      @d1clxver 5 років тому +40

      Give her a break she didn't understand

    • @gracev8762
      @gracev8762 5 років тому +51

      She’s not a bad mom because she tries to understand at the end and over time she will fulling embrace it. More than a lot of moms do

    • @user-hq8ts6uj6x
      @user-hq8ts6uj6x 5 років тому +5

      the best thing to ever happen
      yEs yEs you are

    • @hiimfromarea51._.40
      @hiimfromarea51._.40 5 років тому +4

      oOf

  • @mjr.2648
    @mjr.2648 Рік тому +177

    eight years ago i was a kid who had no words for what i wanted, and what felt wrong. i remember watching this over and over and over, not letting myself think about why i was so fascinated by it. i'm still alive today, and i'm not alone with it anymore and...i don't know. i'm just grateful.
    edit: from another year after writing this comment. i'm getting top surgery in less than a week. it gets better.

    • @SaraTheSaltShaker11037
      @SaraTheSaltShaker11037 Рік тому +8

      Wow this was very inspiring. In fact, this entire comment section is inspiring. I hope everything goes well in your life as a trans person, and that you are supported by people who care about you!

    • @cr0wpvnk
      @cr0wpvnk 9 місяців тому +2

      me too, such a bittersweet feeling

    • @tbdurant
      @tbdurant 4 місяці тому

      I just want to say Congrats...!!!

  • @LucasHelthPostma
    @LucasHelthPostma  10 років тому +3515

    Thank you all so much for all love and support! Even though some comments come out with an opinion I don't agree with, it's amazing that this has started a discussion about the topic. The whole crew behind is so honored by your kind words. We can make the world a better place together

  • @Alex-or8dg
    @Alex-or8dg 3 роки тому +7824

    "Take your tie off."
    The fact that all the comments immediately went to abuse (strangling, beating, etc.) says *a lot* about the shitty kind if parents we all had.

  • @jennysanimations4181
    @jennysanimations4181 6 років тому +1706

    12:42 That protective hug from Simon, gets me everytime, wish i had a bro like that....

    • @arimono
      @arimono 6 років тому +3

      sameeeee

    • @elliegreally5341
      @elliegreally5341 6 років тому +48

      I'll be your brother now. You need a hug? Your internet bro is sending you a ghostie hug.

    • @arimono
      @arimono 6 років тому +4

      @@elliegreally5341 awwww

    • @lvmln-pn5xi
      @lvmln-pn5xi 6 років тому +1

      Same girl same

    • @indynuijten9151
      @indynuijten9151 6 років тому +1

      vera wassenaar
      Dutch?

  • @Nick-zy2nc
    @Nick-zy2nc 2 роки тому +202

    Transmasc culture is watching this short over and over. I've seen it a lot of times and it always arrives to my heart.

    • @1337Shockwav3
      @1337Shockwav3 7 місяців тому +3

      Is it? Relationship person of mine is transmasc and I'm unsure if he could relate to this - since every transition is different and his family supportive (he's told me of a really sweet situation involving a tie tho). For myself I enjoyed it for a number of sequences I could relate to.

  • @sarahburns4403
    @sarahburns4403 5 років тому +821

    Love how it says Emil instead of Emilia in the credits ❤️❤️

  • @cupid3078
    @cupid3078 6 років тому +1465

    Everyone needs a brother like simon

    • @anaismathieu4349
      @anaismathieu4349 5 років тому +3

      Yesss

    • @brigitteramirez2373
      @brigitteramirez2373 5 років тому +1

      I wish

    • @kathiville
      @kathiville 5 років тому +1

      I can proudly say I have a brother like him

    • @rozabaczoni4399
      @rozabaczoni4399 5 років тому

      I have a brother, like Simon❤

    • @heroinero
      @heroinero 5 років тому

      Well I don't want a brother like Simon,I want a fucking husband like Simon because omg HE IS A PERFECT HUMAN BEING I EVER SEE IN MY LIFE

  • @Emmy-i2n
    @Emmy-i2n 4 роки тому +4029

    My mom: *”Pick whatever you want sweetheart”*
    Me: *”Can I have this hood-“*
    My mom: “no”

  • @parasdogra1376
    @parasdogra1376 6 місяців тому +19

    This movie was my awakening as a trans man in 2019. Now, I am away from my unsupportive family, have found my own family which loves me and supports me as who I am. Started HRT and getting top surgery in the next coming months. This movie gave me strength to stand up for myself and be myself. It's been 6 years since I came out 🏳️‍⚧️

  • @spookpatchy
    @spookpatchy 5 років тому +8998

    I hate when you find a cute shirt but it says something like
    “Girl running”
    “Cute girl”
    “Girls rule the world”
    And it’s so annoying

    • @instantmiso9921
      @instantmiso9921 5 років тому +174

      same smh

    • @melanieflannery5418
      @melanieflannery5418 5 років тому +399

      Omg those are so annoying. The only words that I’m okay with on my clothes would be a logo. 😂😂

    • @opossumprince4256
      @opossumprince4256 5 років тому +281

      • sᴛᴀʀᴄʜᴀsᴇʀ • IKR!! And don’t get me started on GIrL sQAUD

    • @missamerica112
      @missamerica112 5 років тому +167

      THE FEMINISTS ARE TAKING OVER!!!

    • @c3b5s
      @c3b5s 5 років тому +21

      same

  • @lea_jl
    @lea_jl 4 роки тому +2432

    When she said " take off your tie " I thought she was gonna strangle him.

    • @o5-7firefox
      @o5-7firefox 4 роки тому +70

      Saaame tho
      I'm so glad she didn't

    • @whytho8856
      @whytho8856 4 роки тому +31

      same😭

    • @lea_jl
      @lea_jl 4 роки тому +8

      @Esmé Adgnot Or That 😢

    • @flamesgames657
      @flamesgames657 4 роки тому +21

      so did i my heart was like "nOooOoo"

    • @sarahrienhold1245
      @sarahrienhold1245 3 роки тому +10

      I Think she would hit her sorry him

  • @bandtrash1571
    @bandtrash1571 5 років тому +2260

    Just a reminder. Please please please PLEASE never bind with ace bandages. It could harm you and damage your body. 💕💕
    Edit: awww thanks for the likes on this comment!!!! Glad to see others staying safe and not putting themselves in a harmful situation!!!

    • @Moonlight-ik9my
      @Moonlight-ik9my 5 років тому +27

      Wait what

    • @kateroberts2652
      @kateroberts2652 5 років тому +41

      What are ace bandages

    • @atemtheotaku4505
      @atemtheotaku4505 5 років тому +8

      _ally_ but...

    • @simona.4673
      @simona.4673 5 років тому +111

      yes, that's a fact
      try using an approppriate binder, there are some cheap binders out there
      safety first, trans boys!

    • @atemtheotaku4505
      @atemtheotaku4505 5 років тому +8

      Sarah A. thank you 👍

  • @ΧρύσαΓαβαλά
    @ΧρύσαΓαβαλά 2 роки тому +224

    this was amazing 🥺 i'm not trans but i'm trying to understand what trans ppl have to go through... when Emil's mother asked for Simon's tie I thought she was going to beat him

  • @OcarinaGreen
    @OcarinaGreen 6 років тому +4081

    "Simon, am I a bad mother?"
    "Yes."
    SAVAGE *air horn sounds*

  • @icednillatea
    @icednillatea 5 років тому +1351

    When the mother hit him, my knees went limp i swear
    I need to purchase a Simon off of Amazon please

    • @deviltown7060
      @deviltown7060 5 років тому +6

      yes.

    • @emilybrown5682
      @emilybrown5682 5 років тому +24

      @Madilyn Haupt "ITS" a girl? XDD

    • @Phoenixnn
      @Phoenixnn 5 років тому +14

      @Madilyn Haupt Madilyn, its a boy, this all happened after she cut his hair and turned into a boy.

    • @smallintestin3
      @smallintestin3 5 років тому +18

      @Madilyn Haupt no, they are a boy. The correct pronoun for that specific person is him/he

    • @blepp5808
      @blepp5808 5 років тому +32

      @Madilyn Haupt He's a fucking transsexual he's not a damn girl. Have you learned nothing from the video?

  • @iylarutherford7972
    @iylarutherford7972 8 років тому +5135

    if only we could all have a simon...

    • @happychannel8127
      @happychannel8127 8 років тому +37

      I'm the oldest one and that's why I'm kind of scared telling my mom.

    • @iylarutherford7972
      @iylarutherford7972 8 років тому +14

      yeah my parents seem supportive but they would probably think i'm just trying to find who i am

    • @honeyq9593
      @honeyq9593 8 років тому +22

      no one has every been as nice as simon was nice to her. my friends when I am upset they just either stand awkwardly and pat my back, or just be like there there and walk away. my family don't care

    • @iylarutherford7972
      @iylarutherford7972 8 років тому +6

      i feel you! my family is the kind that laughs it off so whenever i cry they just laugh at me...

    • @TommysgidetotheUniverse
      @TommysgidetotheUniverse 8 років тому +3

      +Iyla Chan I think I'm transgender but I don't know how to tell my family

  • @AudreyRose-o8g
    @AudreyRose-o8g 5 місяців тому +16

    I know this is meant to be inspiring and motivation, and it is, definitely. But can we all just appreciate how amazing he looks, especially with the short hair? And the eyes! And the freckles!

  • @peytonp2017
    @peytonp2017 6 років тому +1522

    Im not crying.
    But i am.

  • @darkanddustyy8556
    @darkanddustyy8556 6 років тому +5781

    Yes but hOW DID HE CUT HIS HAIR SO WELL

    • @maytiger7871
      @maytiger7871 6 років тому +145

      Well her hair sure did look good after the cut

    • @aliyisinsane
      @aliyisinsane 6 років тому +140

      The magic of film making~ 😂

    • @jesusismysavior4985
      @jesusismysavior4985 6 років тому +57

      The person is a girl.

    • @views-fl9qi
      @views-fl9qi 6 років тому +22

      I have her hairstyle

    • @deliahoban9620
      @deliahoban9620 6 років тому +224

      @@jesusismysavior4985 no, that person is a boy

  • @BreakingMoldSince81
    @BreakingMoldSince81 Рік тому +552

    My son is trans. Wathing this is heartbreaking, thinking of some of the pain these kids have to go through...

    • @cake-ie7uh
      @cake-ie7uh Рік тому +66

      I always feel so so happy when i see a parent supporting their trans kids, there should be more people like you in the world. As a trans kid thank you for supporting when alot of the world doesnt

    • @its_MYbirthday
      @its_MYbirthday Рік тому

      @@cake-ie7uhTy :)

    • @December277
      @December277 Рік тому +11

      for real, it is heartbreaking that these families will never have grandkids or a future family tree

    • @Elliotstars
      @Elliotstars Рік тому +31

      @@December277 Its heartbreaking that you seem to lack so much empathy.

    • @Alexander-hu4sj
      @Alexander-hu4sj Рік тому

      Your Son is a Transformer???

  • @ejmcquoid
    @ejmcquoid 3 роки тому +3798

    To anyone watching please PLEASE never bind with bandages. I know dysphoria really sucks but broken ribs are worse. WEARING TWO (but no more than two) SPORTS BRAS HELPS AND AN OVERSIZED SHIRT. Stay safe, please eat or drink something, have a great day/night and remember you are loved

    • @B12BENNETT
      @B12BENNETT 2 роки тому +91

      i can't believe that the real Leonardo di Caprio said this. amazing
      truly one of the strongest allies we have.

    • @charls601
      @charls601 2 роки тому +100

      Thank you so much! I am not transgender, in fact, a demi-girl, but I'm also not that happy with my breast. So, thanks for giving me tips on how to make them "vanish" or at least seem like they did.

    • @BlurryfaceOfc
      @BlurryfaceOfc 2 роки тому +22

      Thank you for saying this, I wanted to say this but I'm glad someone else did it

    • @noahjohnson8531
      @noahjohnson8531 2 роки тому +35

      I'm sorry I'm wearing 4 sports bras rn

    • @your_average_nerd6861
      @your_average_nerd6861 2 роки тому +4

      Noted.

  • @youngjaesthetic3145
    @youngjaesthetic3145 4 роки тому +767

    I remember watching this when i was like 10 and I didn't understand a DaMn thing, I just remembered that the girl turned into a boy and I got happy-
    Now I feel so happy watching this again after years

    • @ku470
      @ku470 4 роки тому +15

      Same but I was 12 back then

    • @hideakisorachi3953
      @hideakisorachi3953 4 роки тому +10

      exactly I got so giddy watching this while I still thought I was a girl. only about about a year ago I found out that I was trans and rewatching this really affected me.

    • @theparalleluniversethatili9910
      @theparalleluniversethatili9910 4 роки тому +2

      Khushi Kris Kay yoo sameee

    • @youngjaesthetic3145
      @youngjaesthetic3145 4 роки тому +12

      @Teran Poka tf is that supposed to mean

    • @youngjaesthetic3145
      @youngjaesthetic3145 4 роки тому +11

      @Teran Poka well I'm sorry to not be up to your standards but I don't really care, I wasn't "brainwashed" and if you're a transphobe please kindly fuck off

  • @gosiafuckme9299
    @gosiafuckme9299 4 роки тому +14382

    Mom: “am I a bad mother?”
    Simon: “yes”
    Me: “OOOOOOHHH”

  • @DOUNTAINDEW
    @DOUNTAINDEW Рік тому +58

    when she accepted him at the end, that makes my heart feel good. I'm so glad he stand up for himself

  • @humanbeing5546
    @humanbeing5546 5 років тому +1463

    Does the mom not know to knock

    • @GoddessNyx2024
      @GoddessNyx2024 5 років тому +4

      ikr

    • @A_Hungry_hippo
      @A_Hungry_hippo 5 років тому +38

      This is why I always lock the bathroom door

    • @emilyg977
      @emilyg977 5 років тому +11

      Galaxyzebragirl 36 same but she and my sister always unlock it with their fingernail. I hate it can't I get some privacy please!?
      But I still love them!

    • @theblackcat2792
      @theblackcat2792 5 років тому +2

      Ikr

    • @mazzy.a
      @mazzy.a 5 років тому +6

      I know right like, she was also like, *what is wrong with you? I always get scared when you start doing weird things like that* like what kind of a mom is she??!!

  • @meredithfoster6741
    @meredithfoster6741 8 років тому +1828

    If you're planning on being a parent, please be ready to be a parent of a trans child, a gay child, a child with a different religion, a child with mental health issues, a disabled child. If you aren't prepared for that, save yourself the grief of another life lost. It's okay if you aren't ready, but please be considerate of the child you are planning on having and know that they are a person too. Thank you.

    • @meredithfoster6741
      @meredithfoster6741 8 років тому +35

      +Sylvester Fernandez if you're gonna have a child just to disown it and mess them up for life, don't bother having the kid. Unless you're carrying for a couple that can't.

    • @meredithfoster6741
      @meredithfoster6741 8 років тому +10

      +Lacey Debock lmao I'm really not, it shouldn't be saint like for doing the least you can do as a parent. It's sad when people are so amazed by parents doing their job.

    • @meredithfoster6741
      @meredithfoster6741 8 років тому +18

      +Sylvester Fernandez but I'm glad that the child
      Isn't growing up with you anymore, considering you're so close minded.

    • @meredithfoster6741
      @meredithfoster6741 8 років тому +18

      +Sylvester Fernandez I don't know your whole story, but if you kicked out your child for being LGBTQ+, I stand by my word.

    • @meredithfoster6741
      @meredithfoster6741 8 років тому +11

      +Sylvester Fernandez when your opinion disrespects someone else's being/sexuality, I'm completely fine with disrespecting you. 100%.

  • @sharkboi2990
    @sharkboi2990 5 років тому +583

    DONT BIND WITH BANDAGES!!!!
    It can damage your ribs and stop you from breathing.
    Edit: I want Emil's hair style and I want Simon to be my brother

    • @michathegremlinhoard9907
      @michathegremlinhoard9907 5 років тому +8

      The Gazelle Entertainment understand most who use ace either are uneducated about the dangers or are unable to use binders due to an unaccepting family or friends. In this instance it is the more likely the latter.

    • @ihatedmyoldnamesoheresanew7204
      @ihatedmyoldnamesoheresanew7204 5 років тому

      @@michathegremlinhoard9907 I think he tried to kill himself

    • @chox7140
      @chox7140 5 років тому

      199th like

    • @_lonely__idiot_4250
      @_lonely__idiot_4250 5 років тому +4

      same
      I just wish I could tell my mum I'm trans

    • @sharkboi2990
      @sharkboi2990 5 років тому +2

      @@_lonely__idiot_4250 is she transphobic?

  • @SteveTholomule.
    @SteveTholomule. Рік тому +79

    The way Simon laughed at d*ck

  • @rebayamada-brennan2992
    @rebayamada-brennan2992 6 років тому +891

    Simon is an amazing brother

    • @lenn_33608
      @lenn_33608 6 років тому

      Yeah

    • @ariannakon3740
      @ariannakon3740 6 років тому +4

      That’s her dad

    • @UnicornGamerGirl
      @UnicornGamerGirl 6 років тому +2

      How do u know that it’s her brother or dad?

    • @ilaydaC.
      @ilaydaC. 6 років тому

      orrr stepdad?

    • @meivann
      @meivann 6 років тому +8

      Well, I don't speak English very well but, at 8:20, the mother calls Simon ''honey'' and if i'm not mistaken, this word is used for husband and wife in general, that's why I think Simon might be Emilie's father or stepfather.

  • @rosecarnation1758
    @rosecarnation1758 6 років тому +3497

    "Am I a bad mother?"
    "Am I a bad mother?"
    Simon: "Yes."
    OOOOOOOOOOOF

  • @Ollieblitzberg9841
    @Ollieblitzberg9841 4 роки тому +3232

    Mom: "We Nid To FiNd U a NaIcE dReSs"
    Emilie: "I found this nice shirt with a cool pattern on it, can I wear it?"
    Mom: _so you have chosen...death._

    • @Shadouma2
      @Shadouma2 4 роки тому +8

      LOL

    • @panloveruwu6601
      @panloveruwu6601 4 роки тому +6

      *wheezee* ×D

    • @l0Vergurl
      @l0Vergurl 4 роки тому +17

      Emilie: I found this nice shirt
      Mom: nAnI???

    • @ItzJaz
      @ItzJaz 4 роки тому +10

      😂😂 but my mom let's me wear stuff from boy and girl section so I'm all good 😆👌

    • @ysabellamavaega3724
      @ysabellamavaega3724 4 роки тому +4

      Ikrrrr...I’m literally a girl and my mom would let me wear shirts with different patterns any day.

  • @thatonegaykiwi9982
    @thatonegaykiwi9982 Рік тому +75

    I love the representation of the supportive older brother. I'm a trans man and If I didn't have my older brother's support against my mom's bs I wouldn't still be here. To all the accepting cis siblings: Thank you for seeing us for who we really are. And loving us even when it's hard for us to love ourselves

  • @alokitaraichaudhuri4076
    @alokitaraichaudhuri4076 7 років тому +3175

    12:42 that protective hug of Simon gets me!

    • @beccaviljoen
      @beccaviljoen 7 років тому +10

      Alokita Raichaudhuri I know

    • @alittlebitofeverything2729
      @alittlebitofeverything2729 7 років тому +1

      Alokita Raichaudhuri ikr

    • @duhitztabby7508
      @duhitztabby7508 7 років тому +2

      Alokita Raichaudhuri omg ikr

    • @inactive5918
      @inactive5918 7 років тому +47

      Alokita Raichaudhuri i want to get that kind off hug! D:

    • @バットバット-t3v
      @バットバット-t3v 7 років тому +4

      seksi videolar Sen ne tür bir gerizekalisin. Transseksüellikle ile ilgili anlamlı bir videoda türkçe bilmeyen insanlara abone olun yazmak nedir bide kanala bak.

  • @aramflx251
    @aramflx251 5 років тому +2887

    - would you join me in the kitchen now?
    - no.

    • @mothman5336
      @mothman5336 5 років тому +98

      Wish I had the balls to do that to my mom.

    • @jillthao1949
      @jillthao1949 5 років тому +8

      @@mothman5336 haha very funny

    • @Ali-uq7if
      @Ali-uq7if 5 років тому +5

      If only it were that easy

    • @wumb7864
      @wumb7864 4 роки тому +5

      Wish I was like him😂

    • @xy-xf4ej
      @xy-xf4ej 4 роки тому +2

      2000 like

  • @reapergirl88
    @reapergirl88 Рік тому +99

    DO NOT BIND WITH BANDAGES!!! Bind safely and NEVER EVER bind with bandages or a binder/bra or something too tight. You don’t want broken ribs or to hurt yourself. Seeing that part made me cry because it’s so sad that they couldn’t get what they needed! I hope the best for everyone reading this! I love you ❤️ Be safe!

    • @1337Shockwav3
      @1337Shockwav3 7 місяців тому +1

      I see this comment pretty much on every video/film which shows this ... keep in mind this is not a how to, but often shown in the context of people exploring gender affirmation and not having access to all possibilities. I've had the chance to do this with someone I was dating (almost 15 years ago) together with a transmasc friend and it was amazing to see them glow up - being fully aware that this is a temporary step (for ~6 hours) and an attempt. Said person has come out as transmasc since then and has had his top surgery.

    • @reapergirl88
      @reapergirl88 7 місяців тому +1

      @@1337Shockwav3 Awww, I'm so happy for him!

  • @cityofcerise5786
    @cityofcerise5786 5 років тому +703

    Simon holds him so protectively at the end and it's like where can I get an older brother???

  • @wingfighter4617
    @wingfighter4617 4 роки тому +404

    "She's not my Emilie anymore".
    He never was.

    • @even___
      @even___ 3 роки тому +9

      I WANTED TO SLAP THE MOM SO BAD Y’KNOW?

    • @even___
      @even___ 3 роки тому +2

      @Eaglelioncat because they were born female.

  • @elias6253
    @elias6253 9 років тому +4149

    As a parent I'd just bring my child to a clothing stores, open my arms and say: Go! Be Free! Choose whatever you want and I'll follow you

  • @Conner-kh8hn
    @Conner-kh8hn Рік тому +51

    "imagine you had a really big-" this is the moment that Simon started laughing his ass off.

  • @marivaughn
    @marivaughn 3 роки тому +4729

    “am i a bad mother?”
    “yes.”
    I LOVE SIMON OMG

    • @gamerzrcool9162
      @gamerzrcool9162 3 роки тому +28

      you accidently made a pun. i love simon is a book lololololololol

    • @noemisanchez5749
      @noemisanchez5749 3 роки тому +8

      @@gamerzrcool9162 Love, Simon is the movie. The book is Simon vs the homosapiens agenda.

    • @gamerzrcool9162
      @gamerzrcool9162 3 роки тому +3

      @@noemisanchez5749 i know but im too lazy to be that specific lol

    • @kellyrayburn4093
      @kellyrayburn4093 3 роки тому +2

      He was wrong. She wasn't a bad mother. She just forgot that her daughter's needs come first.

    • @noemisanchez5749
      @noemisanchez5749 3 роки тому +22

      @@kellyrayburn4093 Son. Not daughter. If you don't agree with trans people then why are you watching videos that are specifically about trans people.

  • @ShadowEdits284
    @ShadowEdits284 5 років тому +5605

    How do he look so cute as both genders???
    *I can’t look good in one.*

    • @sayedzakerasadi2568
      @sayedzakerasadi2568 5 років тому +14

      Hahahahahah

    • @avalinehan9337
      @avalinehan9337 5 років тому +88

      Danmmmm don't say that to yourself I bet your gorgeous what ever gender

    • @wokeupnew
      @wokeupnew 5 років тому +54

      Ikr! I get what you’re saying, but remember he isn’t both genders, just trans

    • @MarkyTheGamer
      @MarkyTheGamer 5 років тому +7

      looks ugly as a boy but its truly a girl so gonna be ugly the other gender lol

    • @wokeupnew
      @wokeupnew 5 років тому +31

      Ris3 Trippin how can you say that! One, he doesn’t looks ugly, two, it’s his choice who he wants to be.

  • @agrestetapes6348
    @agrestetapes6348 4 роки тому +5061

    Mom: am i a bad mother?
    Simon: yes
    Me: PERIODT I STAND SIMON HE'S A KING

  • @BETAnp
    @BETAnp Рік тому +25

    I have a friend that is currently transitioning and saving up for surgery and I can’t say in words how proud and happy I am to see that he isn’t struggling with his self image anymore. I love him dearly, and to have that change from crying and hurting himself because he hated his body parts and how looking at himself made him feel to embracing his style and being so much more outgoing and actually feelings comfortable going outside with his friends has been a joy to witness.
    This Mini Movie is a really well done representation of anger within oneself, frustration from being ignored or “covered” for, finding acceptance, and overall freedom due to the outcome.
    Comment section is also so sweet and supportive ❤️

  • @grace-yt7ko
    @grace-yt7ko 6 років тому +884

    NOTE: please dont bind with ace bandages. It's not healthy. If you are gonna bind please do it correctly and safely

    • @awoogaoogabooga3590
      @awoogaoogabooga3590 6 років тому +8

      gr ace thanks mate

    • @yasterday5377
      @yasterday5377 6 років тому +99

      During that scene I was just thinking " ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow"

    • @rekinoszczur
      @rekinoszczur 6 років тому +42

      That is *exactly* what I was thinking during that scene

    • @rileyh2244
      @rileyh2244 6 років тому +29

      Why is it unhealthy? I'm new to the whole binding thing. I'm questioning btw

    • @grace-yt7ko
      @grace-yt7ko 6 років тому +47

      @@rileyh2244 it can also injure your breasts, making top surgery more difficult. It can also fracture your ribs, which can puncture your lungs and kill you

  • @Wurm_
    @Wurm_ 6 років тому +5244

    He protec
    He attac
    But most importantly
    He probs wants his tie bac
    Edit: I’m just now coming back to this two years later and where the fuck did all the likes come from holy shit. Over 5k omg!! I have achieved comedy thank you.

    • @caffeinated-and-queer
      @caffeinated-and-queer 6 років тому +82

      Numbness Takes Over omg best com ever 😂😂😂

    • @dskthkthjjk1627
      @dskthkthjjk1627 6 років тому +21

      😂😂😂 HAHAHA HAHA I AM DEAD

    • @wemakevideos3111
      @wemakevideos3111 6 років тому +20

      I DIED AHA

    • @shey3235
      @shey3235 6 років тому +12

      Hahahah😂😂😂😂

    • @deemmzah
      @deemmzah 6 років тому +12

      Amazing 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @flobwad
    @flobwad 6 років тому +686

    Started cringing when he started binding with ace bandages. PLEASE, dudes. Don’t do that. One of my friends was binding with those for years and ended up in the ER with a fluid buildup in his lungs. Suppressing dysphoria ain’t worth your own health.

    • @ovrckdchkn8331
      @ovrckdchkn8331 6 років тому +5

      Jeremy, The Innovator isn’t she still a girl though?

    • @gifttohumanity6641
      @gifttohumanity6641 6 років тому +22

      @@ovrckdchkn8331 the actress in the video is a girl, but the character is a boy born in the wrong body

    • @patiencecox7318
      @patiencecox7318 6 років тому +8

      @@gifttohumanity6641 you can't be "born in the wrong body" it's literally science

    • @gifttohumanity6641
      @gifttohumanity6641 6 років тому +8

      @@patiencecox7318 but when you feel like a boy, act like a boy and just look like a boy then why don't be a boy?

    • @timeless7194
      @timeless7194 6 років тому +11

      bIg bOy nIcK cRoMpToN you’re being a dick head. Get out of here. You don’t know how other people feel.

  • @a_singular_spud
    @a_singular_spud Рік тому +21

    This is what the lgbt community was made to support, it was made as a sign that you’re not alone and that there will always be a shoulder for you to cry on but now- it’s just not the same

  • @Skelebroski
    @Skelebroski 5 років тому +5982

    I hate how they call them girl/boy clothes, why not just clothes? Anyone can wear whatever they want :)

    • @elviramorales13
      @elviramorales13 5 років тому +107

      Right?! Any clothing can be unisex as long as you aren't scared to wear it

    • @MidnightDawn
      @MidnightDawn 5 років тому +123

      there is a difference though and its not what you think......boys clothes have, drum-roll please, POCKETS!

    • @elviramorales13
      @elviramorales13 5 років тому +18

      Midnight Dawn true😑

    • @sleepycatartist9986
      @sleepycatartist9986 5 років тому +12

      True

    • @Amanduhp
      @Amanduhp 5 років тому +5

      Ew

  • @riceandroll9955
    @riceandroll9955 6 років тому +331

    I’m not trans but I support people who are. I really like this and I think this will inspire others as well.

    • @pumpkinhills7611
      @pumpkinhills7611 6 років тому +3

      Gia Din you are a literal gem

    • @simpfoster5559
      @simpfoster5559 6 років тому +1

      I am trans and I support your support:)

    • @psychoooocat
      @psychoooocat 6 років тому

      Gia Din I feel bad for the people that have to fight that kind of battle. People should just accept others for who they are

    • @clovek8337
      @clovek8337 6 років тому

      Absolutly Right!

  • @soph_333
    @soph_333 4 роки тому +4649

    Everybody else: *talking about him being trans*
    Me: “how the hell did he cut his hair so good on his first try”

    • @simplydeja4515
      @simplydeja4515 4 роки тому +20

      Cherii _ Icee lol

    • @greenleeaf111
      @greenleeaf111 4 роки тому +39

      I also did haha

    • @abbiem2018
      @abbiem2018 4 роки тому +11

      FR HAHAH

    • @goosewool8216
      @goosewool8216 4 роки тому +44

      I mean,,,,, I did really well on my first try,,,,, and I did it when I was exhausted and probably half asleep

    • @yuminasan453
      @yuminasan453 4 роки тому +19

      i cut my hair short pretty decently on the first try lol

  • @EelGood
    @EelGood Рік тому +103

    when this video first came out, i was a young trans boy strggling with heavy dysphoria. 8 years later and it's been a long journey. Not everyone I care about felt the same way about me, and I lost friends, family, and faced a lot of hatred from the world. I am so much happier now, having been on T for years, getting surgeries scheduled, carrying myself through college, working with mentors and looking to keep fighting for my dreams. It can happen. Things may not be perfect, and things might not even get easier, but you can be happy, and finding value in yourself is certainly worth it :)

  • @bilsxanny2074
    @bilsxanny2074 4 роки тому +2399

    When the mom told the Simon to take of his tie, who else thought she’d hit the son with it?

    • @urfavjay3635
      @urfavjay3635 4 роки тому +43

      me-

    • @bronwyncate3854
      @bronwyncate3854 4 роки тому +67

      me, i was scared for him for a sec :O

    • @jackiecoolkid5700
      @jackiecoolkid5700 3 роки тому +85

      I did, and I think Simon did too. I think that the only reason Simon gave it to her, was because he knew that if she started hitting him, he was strong enough to protect him.

    • @PEAK__
      @PEAK__ 3 роки тому +6

      Me-

    • @nazcolak8026
      @nazcolak8026 3 роки тому +60

      I feared she'd try to strangle him.

  • @cyclone-studio18
    @cyclone-studio18 4 роки тому +247

    2:34 STOP THAT! THAT’S ILLEGAL! You’re going to ruin your breathing and probably break a rib or two in the process! For anyone that’s binding and haven’t medically transitioned and are just altering their appearance; please, PLEASE, I beg of you, don’t use ace bandages or duct tape! They’re incredibly unhealthy for your skin and it isn’t worth getting a flatter chest if you can’t live long enough to properly experience it 😣 You can use sports compression shirts, a sports bra that’s a size smaller, binders, or layering, they’re much healthier as long as you don’t wear them for over 8 hours, sleep with them, and take as many breaks as possible! If you’re binding, please bind safely 🙏

    • @bvgs1388
      @bvgs1388 4 роки тому +7

      I don't even need to :")

    • @todorokishoto5682
      @todorokishoto5682 4 роки тому +16

      @@bvgs1388 You're lucky then. I hate my body. I am a boy but I have a big size breasts that girls in my class are envy of. Isn't that ironic? Like, couldn't I just be flatchested? That's my luck... It's a way harder to bind them succefuly and not accidentaly suffocate myself (':

    • @mstarmars
      @mstarmars 4 роки тому +6

      I wear small sports bras because my mum on’t buy me a binder. I just layer hoodies and shirts if I don’t like the way look

    • @calbudd1138
      @calbudd1138 4 роки тому +1

      Lucid_yeux wdym calm down

    • @calbudd1138
      @calbudd1138 4 роки тому +4

      Lucid_yeux Shes trying to spread awareness about the situation, obviously it’s a big deal I don’t understand why you would say that

  • @cute_cookie1354
    @cute_cookie1354 5 років тому +839

    She’s not my Emilie anymore...
    Me: your right he’s more like an Ethan or and Elijah or maybe even a Edison

    • @m4lfine
      @m4lfine 5 років тому +5

      Gacha_cookie 13 he not she

    • @cristalritz6620
      @cristalritz6620 5 років тому +15

      @@m4lfine please shut your fucking mouth nobody cares

    • @cristalritz6620
      @cristalritz6620 5 років тому +15

      @John Weflen this is not basic biology, this gender thing is all made up. Well ok then that means I identify as a toaster

    • @m4lfine
      @m4lfine 5 років тому +13

      Cristal Ritz wtf leave

    • @jesusismysavior4985
      @jesusismysavior4985 5 років тому

      She*

  • @zulbie
    @zulbie 8 місяців тому +26

    I used to watch this everyday when I first realized I was trans, it just comforted me so much. I've been out for 6 years and im starting testosterone this december :)

    • @bu11ets
      @bu11ets 5 місяців тому

      HOPE HOPE HOPE HOPE 🙏🙏

    • @localarsonist4484
      @localarsonist4484 4 місяці тому

      HELL YEAH wish you the best my dude!!

    • @auxiliaryxax
      @auxiliaryxax Місяць тому

      sure girl, tell that to ur organs

  • @jammydodger5558
    @jammydodger5558 4 роки тому +347

    Simon's just at the table like: oh shit I don't know whether to be proud or scared or everything at once

  • @link_rietveld
    @link_rietveld 3 роки тому +880

    Can we just talk about Simon, his and our savior ? *Simon is the best brother in the world my god 😭❤*

  • @kara8146
    @kara8146 5 років тому +633

    I was just worried about Emil hurting himself when he was binding like that.

    • @wokeupnew
      @wokeupnew 5 років тому +11

      Kara B yeah ikr

    • @bo1932
      @bo1932 5 років тому +7

      Yeah

    • @jona6792
      @jona6792 5 років тому +23

      omg i was thinkig the exact same thing, i mean, as a tranas person i totally get him but health is way more important

    • @Tomatry
      @Tomatry 5 років тому +18

      Bro sameeeee like I saw how big the roll of bandages was and thought “oh surely he’ll trim the excess” nOPE

    • @kjxnz
      @kjxnz 5 років тому +3

      Kara B ikr like can’t that get breast cancer or something

  • @agnesfonmarten
    @agnesfonmarten 2 роки тому +31

    Watched this 6 years ago. I’m 25 now and I know I’m not trans. Been thru this sort of turmoil and it was the shittiest time of my life, but in the end I figured out that I didn’t need anyone’s acceptance except my own. Tl;dr I came out as gay / tomboy. Good luck to everyone out there still questioning their identity. One day you’ll have your answer.

    • @1337Shockwav3
      @1337Shockwav3 7 місяців тому

      Sorry to hear you had a horrible time, but you've indeed figured it out - all the best.

  • @whalebuddies4372
    @whalebuddies4372 5 років тому +2594

    i thought the mom was gonna frickin kill someone w that tie lol

    • @kayleighrichard1140
      @kayleighrichard1140 5 років тому +88

      same when she put it on emile I thought she was just going choke her...I honestly got scared

    • @dietblood9996
      @dietblood9996 5 років тому +26

      kayleigh richard *him

    • @hawyee2769
      @hawyee2769 5 років тому +18

      Me too I thought she was going to choke her son right in front of Simon

    • @letiziaciancarini3804
      @letiziaciancarini3804 5 років тому +1

      ME TU MAN

    • @batoolhayat3393
      @batoolhayat3393 5 років тому +1

      Sameeeee

  • @humblevanillicious5220
    @humblevanillicious5220 5 років тому +1327

    I always hate that they force me to wear a skirt even if i feel uncomfortable...

    • @tiredmoonzzz8973
      @tiredmoonzzz8973 5 років тому +10

      Who forces you to wear a skirt?

    • @Dyrehart.
      @Dyrehart. 5 років тому +30

      If you're scared to come out, tell them that you are a tomboy. If that doesn't work, then be glad when you're 18.

    • @kayleee2412
      @kayleee2412 5 років тому +1

      I wear skirts because I'm apostolic but I chose to 😐

    • @b0ltwave783
      @b0ltwave783 5 років тому +7

      @@Dyrehart. girls can wear pants

    • @ihatedmyoldnamesoheresanew7204
      @ihatedmyoldnamesoheresanew7204 5 років тому +3

      The only dresses I would like would have to be stretchable and flowy. I have no choice but to wear a nightgown when I wanna wear that type of dress

  • @leo.6186
    @leo.6186 2 роки тому +6

    I watched this movie and tried not to cry. All because in this movie I recognized myself. Unfortunately, I am not an adult, but this video seems to have supported me.After reading the comments, I could not hold back my tears. How glad I am not the only one. Good luck to everyone, I hope everything will be fine with you!

  • @bonnie5076
    @bonnie5076 6 років тому +1067

    *DON'T BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES IT'S REALLY BAD FOR YOU*
    *THIS HAS BEEN A PSA*

    • @DylanTheDuck18
      @DylanTheDuck18 6 років тому +32

      Bonnie you have to remember she isn’t sure of how to do it, It’s what you go to normally when you don’t know

    • @bonnie5076
      @bonnie5076 6 років тому +100

      Somebody actually yes but trans youth could be watching this and with no other info could think that's a safe way to bind and really injure themselves.
      On an irrelevant note, when i got the notif for your reply it said "somebody actually replied" and i thought ok youtube no need to get sassy

    • @jennieh.5605
      @jennieh.5605 6 років тому +19

      Yeah I did that and I think it made my scoliosis worse

    • @bonnie5076
      @bonnie5076 6 років тому +19

      Jennie H. Oh shit i hope ur ok

    • @jennieh.5605
      @jennieh.5605 6 років тому +20

      Bonnie, I think I'll be alright, I go to physical therapy for my scoliosis and luckily it isn't as bad as it could be.

  • @elakeqq
    @elakeqq 5 років тому +304

    When she told Simon to take his tie off I low key thought she was going to try to strangle the boy

    • @Earth_Angel561
      @Earth_Angel561 4 роки тому +7

      I thought she was going to go in the bathroom and go to heaven

    • @zwilken0
      @zwilken0 4 роки тому +18

      I thought she was gonna beat the shit outta him, that’s what my mum would’ve done......

    • @lostthing2001
      @lostthing2001 4 роки тому +2

      i thought she was gonna strangle herself

    • @theskyisonfire
      @theskyisonfire 4 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @sharayu22
      @sharayu22 4 роки тому +1

      I thought she was gonna suicide

  • @user-sh8ej4ko4j
    @user-sh8ej4ko4j 6 років тому +1852

    I WANT TO HAVE A BROTHER LIKE SIMON

  • @synxxco
    @synxxco Рік тому +19

    I’m trans masc having a really hard time getting my family to accept that and this video has helped give me a bit of hope and courage. Thank you UA-cam recommended.

  • @suzettemckay2542
    @suzettemckay2542 5 років тому +273

    Can I please get a Simon? I need that support in my life.

    • @kayleighrichard1140
      @kayleighrichard1140 5 років тому +1

      ill be ur brother....even tho im a girl

    • @mothman5336
      @mothman5336 5 років тому +2

      That's honestly why I cried. Cuz she had someone to run to. I WANT THAT.

  • @mrsir3658
    @mrsir3658 4 роки тому +4661

    Lady: she's not my emile anymore
    Me: no, *_he's_* not

    • @heylol4841
      @heylol4841 4 роки тому +62

      thank you 😂😊

    • @g6yfr1es
      @g6yfr1es 4 роки тому +20

      Memelord The First sombody caught that.

    • @jakieboi0216
      @jakieboi0216 4 роки тому +53

      At that part I was like, *STOP SAYING SHE, IT'S HIM NOW!!!*

    • @agayst2467
      @agayst2467 4 роки тому +30

      Me, he never was

    • @shadowmoon2553
      @shadowmoon2553 4 роки тому +12

      THANK YOU!!

  • @ratskingdom9735
    @ratskingdom9735 4 роки тому +5542

    **not even a minute**
    Me: ** looks at the mum's hair**
    also me: WHY HELLO KAREN

  • @dnnleague
    @dnnleague Місяць тому +2

    Years later yet this short film still holds a very special impression on me

  • @nikulyne8807
    @nikulyne8807 6 років тому +665

    12:44 I just love the way Simon holds him so protectively it shows jut how much he cares for him

    • @angelwolf3123
      @angelwolf3123 6 років тому +16

      I love how Simon holds *HER* so protectively it shows how much he cares for *HER*

    • @hiwelcometochilis9092
      @hiwelcometochilis9092 6 років тому +34

      Angel Wolf *him

    • @angelwolf3123
      @angelwolf3123 6 років тому +2

      @@hiwelcometochilis9092 my friend calls me sister and says " hi sister"

    • @nikulyne8807
      @nikulyne8807 6 років тому +12

      He's a boy

    • @hiwelcometochilis9092
      @hiwelcometochilis9092 6 років тому +6

      Angel Wolf it’s a James Charles reference

  • @brandloyalty1078
    @brandloyalty1078 7 років тому +480

    This is amazing! But one thing,
    *Never* bind with ace bandages, they are designed to get tighter as they are stretched. You can suffer from defrormed or broken ribs, or worse.

    • @Joe-ou1iw
      @Joe-ou1iw 6 років тому +5

      I cannot stress this enough, especially to new\young transguys. DO NOT BIND WITH ACE BANDAGES!

    • @thamilini9436
      @thamilini9436 6 років тому +3

      I agree, but I think that they showed this to let us know how far trans people are willing to go to prove that they’re serious about this. Not only that, I got very triggered when the woman asked that what she (or he in this case) was is a desease.

    • @netsy.
      @netsy. 6 років тому

      The mom wasn’t aware of it, which would make it much harder for her to get herself a binder.

    • @maxmustdie2863
      @maxmustdie2863 6 років тому

      I wish I could buy a binder but I don’t have the money and all I had are bandages to use

    • @stinkyassclown4602
      @stinkyassclown4602 6 років тому

      Max Otto Bitch are you stupid? Imagine feeling like the skin your in isn’t your own, that you don’t belong in your body. Imagine looking in the mirror and not seeing yourself but someone you don’t want to be. Then Imagine someone saying what you said to you. You are just ignorant and close minded and we don’t need people like you in our society.

  • @strangebrainrot
    @strangebrainrot 3 роки тому +323

    I remember watching this in middle school and just sobbing every time because I was in almost the exact same situation. I wish i had had someone like Simon back then. Watching this again 6 years later, having gone by half a dozen names, and finally taken my first T shot today, I learned that this still makes me cry. I may have grown and changed, but my and Emil's mothers are still exactly the same.
    To anyone reading this who is wondering if they're trans or afraid they'll never get to transition, I've been there and you'll get here one day. Don't give up.
    To anyone who even knows someone who's starting their transition, don't be like this lady. Be like Simon. Support them through your actions because those speak louder than words.