Coping|Single and Childless Not By Choice

Identifying ways to cope when you are single and childless not by choice can feel difficult because you feel like you are the only one. Watch to learn ideas to help you cope with being single and childless not by choice.
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[@sheenvisionssheexcels8188]

Really don’t think I can talk to anyone about this. Hurts to much.

[@sondersisterhood]

I hope you can find some validation and comfort listening to others talking about it. It can be a lonely place and it takes a long time to be able to talk about it. I didn't for years, for a variety of different reasons. Thanks for stopping by the channel.

[@annb7393]

Thank you for this!! so many people do not understand ... It is taking it day by day ❤

[@sondersisterhood]

Hi, really glad you found it helpful. :)

[@happygolucky9004]

I definitely hit my grief that lasted for about 2 years. Going to a therapists and also practicing daily gratitude really helped me. I also am around more people who don't have children and that helps too.

[@sondersisterhood]

That helped me as well. All of it. Once I felt less lonely about it. Thanks for stopping by the channel.

[@happygolucky9004]

@@sondersisterhood Thank you for making a space to support us ❤️

[@lavonnekumbier947]

Thank you

[@sondersisterhood]

Thanks for stopping by! :)

[@ElizabethCox-ko7xf]

Ty I need this I am single disabled and childless not by choice

[@sondersisterhood]

Hi, I'm glad you found the channel and I'm glad you said hi.

[@hg4311]

I am grateful for your content. There aren't many venues to discuss this situation. It seems that the channel is 90% on childlessness and 10% on singleness. It is absolutely your choice to focus in this way, but it would help to have more content on singleness. Single women have children all the time (not everyone, not always--I know), often enough to make "single not by choice" and "childless not by choice" two different issues. There is a special kind of grief about the inability to find anyone, bad relationships, constant rejections that destroy what is left of self-esteem, outside world's gaslighting...Can we discuss coping mechanisms for this problem?

[@sondersisterhood]

Hi, this is a really good call out. I agree and think this is a good idea. One of the groups I'm in also mentioned this too. Stay tuned. I will try to work on a video like this this weekend. :). Thanks for stopping by the channel.

[@sidecar7714]

There is no replacement for having a family. Buddhists believe that life is suffering. They do not believe, however, that life is without happiness. Meditation, work and good behavior will give your life meaningful purpose. I guess what I’m trying to say is that while we may suffer it is not all that we are, but it is part of who we are.

[@sondersisterhood]

yes, and every life likely has some level of suffering to cope through, it doesn't mean life cannot be meaningful. Thanks for stopping by the channel.

[@garrettp6942]

I'd love to have infertile girlfriend as never wanted kids.
I would love and value her even more than a fertile woman because I'd feel safer with her as she won't get magically pregnant out of sudden and ruin my life