Closure comes after finding safety. How to find safety/closure in situations in which there's still abuse one cannot escape? (e.g. divorce with the narcissist)
Closure for me developed from time… & exhaustion from unnecessary suffering inflicted upon myself… finally realising & accepting that things were actually as they were meant to be & for my highest good … learning that I am the most important person in my life & that I am worth better & more & I don’t actually need anyone else to give me closure. I can grant it to myself. I admit it has taken a lot of time & heartache… & therapy… but I am worthy & I am enough! Love the video clip… love seeing the ‘unpolished’/‘real’ you! Xx
I didn't realize how much i needed closure until i was dumped out of nowhere by a dismissive avoidant. A break-up i didn't see coming, that shattered my trust in my ability to read people. Knowing i couldn't rely on her back then, led to the realization that she must not be the source of closure for me. So i keep searching ... bearing the pain, and i focus on building up my capability to endure suffering and heal.
@geemail369 sometimes you have to find ways to release whatever it is you would want to say in order to move on and stop giving your energy to that thing. It can help writing it out, texting it out to yourself , doing voice recordings like a diary but things you would send that person, exercise to help with your mental health whilst also eating well to take care of your body, cry as much as you need to in ordee to release the pain &trying to understand the lesson can help too along with meditation and hypnotherapy audio every day/night massively helps too and give it enough time and you will start to feel better. You start to love yourself enough and care about your energy and time that you soon realise that thing/person doesn't deserve your time or energy because you won't get anything from it. You sometimes have to give yourself closure and actively find ways to do that no matter how painful a situation is/can be. There are also some people who attempt to gain closure by reaching out to that person but end up in a big cycle ruminating and internally obsessing to where they claim they got closure but go back to that cycle which is extremely unhealthy and toxic and not REAL closure. If someone is willing to let you talk or read what you have to say then great buy if they are resistant or basically a ghost and completing blocking you off, after a first attempt there's no point in continually trying and that's where you give yourself the "closure". Just talking on my extensive experiences in life Hope you will feel a sense of peace and contentment soon 🫂🤍🙏🏼
Thank you so much for every video. . Really helped so many .. May God cheer up your heart with His endless love to you.. & May God give the same blessing to everyone. . As one of the comments mentioned this truth. . The source of love is God.. The endless unconditional love to us which is the only kind of love that is able to satisfy our infinite need to be loved. .Once we filled with it ..or even touched with a single drop of it can heal all our heartbreaks ..because the healer hand closes this nonsense
If the other person is completely wrong then it is good to close. Otherwise, it means we are impatient. Love originates from within. (Spiritually saying, from God) It gets multiplied when we receive. I m in the middle of nowhere. Got dumped by a Fearful Avoidant! 😅 😜 😄
Wow you really are plugged into this emotional work it’s like you’re speaking directly to me
Difficult if thinking one missed the momentum and there is a lot of "if I just had..." involved. First in the morning, recover from dreaming...
What's your opinion on closure? How would you define it? Let me know! 👇
Closure comes after finding safety. How to find safety/closure in situations in which there's still abuse one cannot escape? (e.g. divorce with the narcissist)
Closure for me developed from time… & exhaustion from unnecessary suffering inflicted upon myself… finally realising & accepting that things were actually as they were meant to be & for my highest good … learning that I am the most important person in my life & that I am worth better & more & I don’t actually need anyone else to give me closure. I can grant it to myself. I admit it has taken a lot of time & heartache… & therapy… but I am worthy & I am enough!
Love the video clip… love seeing the ‘unpolished’/‘real’ you! Xx
I didn't realize how much i needed closure until i was dumped out of nowhere by a dismissive avoidant.
A break-up i didn't see coming, that shattered my trust in my ability to read people.
Knowing i couldn't rely on her back then, led to the realization that she must not be the source of closure for me. So i keep searching ... bearing the pain, and i focus on building up my capability to endure suffering and heal.
@geemail369 sometimes you have to find ways to release whatever it is you would want to say in order to move on and stop giving your energy to that thing. It can help writing it out, texting it out to yourself , doing voice recordings like a diary but things you would send that person, exercise to help with your mental health whilst also eating well to take care of your body, cry as much as you need to in ordee to release the pain &trying to understand the lesson can help too along with meditation and hypnotherapy audio every day/night massively helps too and give it enough time and you will start to feel better. You start to love yourself enough and care about your energy and time that you soon realise that thing/person doesn't deserve your time or energy because you won't get anything from it. You sometimes have to give yourself closure and actively find ways to do that no matter how painful a situation is/can be.
There are also some people who attempt to gain closure by reaching out to that person but end up in a big cycle ruminating and internally obsessing to where they claim they got closure but go back to that cycle which is extremely unhealthy and toxic and not REAL closure.
If someone is willing to let you talk or read what you have to say then great buy if they are resistant or basically a ghost and completing blocking you off, after a first attempt there's no point in continually trying and that's where you give yourself the "closure".
Just talking on my extensive experiences in life
Hope you will feel a sense of peace and contentment soon 🫂🤍🙏🏼
Thank you so much for every video. .
Really helped so many ..
May God cheer up your heart with His endless love to you.. & May God give the same blessing to everyone. . As one of the comments mentioned this truth. . The source of love is God.. The endless unconditional love to us which is the only kind of love that is able to satisfy our infinite need to be loved. .Once we filled with it ..or even touched with a single drop of it can heal all our heartbreaks
..because the healer hand closes this nonsense
Wht the heck it started out so benign and almost cheesy and then around halfway I started crying bring out the BARS huh
True peace starts with selflessness!
what is the brand of hair rollers you use?!
❤️✌️
If the other person is completely wrong then it is good to close.
Otherwise, it means we are impatient.
Love originates from within.
(Spiritually saying, from God)
It gets multiplied when we receive.
I m in the middle of nowhere.
Got dumped by a Fearful Avoidant!
😅 😜 😄