Women have been given a raw deal in the past and it cannot be denied , but loving a woman who you are not getting along with , a woman you fear, or don't trust , for me turns me off like like a light switch.
Basically, women treating men like they treat female competitors. In some underlying way, I suppose it's genetic and women can't help themselves without male modeling from birth. Still, by the time of full adulthood, men expect women to "figure it out" by then without a male constantly having to impose boundaries on her asocial tendencies. In the main though, the turn off always has some root in emotional terrorism: Humiliation. Insult. Blame. Guilt. Threat. Self-righteousness. All the different schemes and modes of emotional manipulation. In the past, I denied some women their sexual overtures for the simple reason I did not want to get entangled with their cravings or expectations down the road. I also did not want to deal with the consequences of wrecking other people's lives.
My misfortune was to believe the young adult female would figure it out and buckle down with the onset of maturity and desire, unfortunately that belief cost me a few million, give or take. Go ahead boys, learn better at my expense.
How about after two decades she has never once initiated sex, and he has a "rejection rate of about 85-90%", and he just isn't going to take rejection 9 times to have mediocre sex once every couple months? But "he's the axehole, right"? If he just outsources that department to his right hand and never asks again? Should she be upset?
hate to break it to you but....if you made it good for her she would've initiated more because she enjoyed it with you. Maybe she's overworked in the house and sees you as another child she has to take care of. It's a turn off for women.
I’ve had women tell me that they weren’t really interested or attracted to their ex boyfriend but dated them because it was “something to do.” If a man does this he’s considered a dog or user!!!!
If she do that to you talk with her and if she don't want to change anything then leave her. Sex is very important to man. When man have sex very offten theh have better results on work because his mood is much better. Many woman can't understand that
Woman does not cherish and respect her man, time to show her the front door and say, 'it is your choice, change your behaviour or leave'. Us men have to be strong and determined on this. Life is too short to waste time with a woman who does not respect and cherish her man.
maybe you don't pick up after yourself and you don't help around the house so she sees you as a child she has to take care of. it's a turn off. if the woman was eager at first than she changed take a good look at what you've done to make her feel this way.
Women have been given a raw deal in the past and it cannot be denied , but loving a woman who you are not getting along with , a woman you fear, or don't trust , for me turns me off like like a light switch.
I saw the title and first thought it was giving women advice on HOW TO turn them off! LOL
Lol, that's a great idea for a video
@@schahrzadmorgan Theres no need, everyone knows the gambit exactly.
Basically, women treating men like they treat female competitors. In some underlying way, I suppose it's genetic and women can't help themselves without male modeling from birth. Still, by the time of full adulthood, men expect women to "figure it out" by then without a male constantly having to impose boundaries on her asocial tendencies.
In the main though, the turn off always has some root in emotional terrorism: Humiliation. Insult. Blame. Guilt. Threat. Self-righteousness. All the different schemes and modes of emotional manipulation.
In the past, I denied some women their sexual overtures for the simple reason I did not want to get entangled with their cravings or expectations down the road. I also did not want to deal with the consequences of wrecking other people's lives.
My misfortune was to believe the young adult female would figure it out and buckle down with the onset of maturity and desire, unfortunately that belief cost me a few million, give or take. Go ahead boys, learn better at my expense.
How about after two decades she has never once initiated sex, and he has a "rejection rate of about 85-90%", and he just isn't going to take rejection 9 times to have mediocre sex once every couple months? But "he's the axehole, right"? If he just outsources that department to his right hand and never asks again? Should she be upset?
hate to break it to you but....if you made it good for her she would've initiated more because she enjoyed it with you. Maybe she's overworked in the house and sees you as another child she has to take care of. It's a turn off for women.
@@nanomia maybe the juice ain't worth the squeeze?
I’ve had women tell me that they weren’t really interested or attracted to their ex boyfriend but dated them because it was “something to do.” If a man does this he’s considered a dog or user!!!!
Nope. Happens all the time. Man in a relationship knowing he will never marry her. Very common
@@schahrzadmorgan the difference is men are judged by society if they do that, women dont, thats his point
If she do that to you talk with her and if she don't want to change anything then leave her. Sex is very important to man. When man have sex very offten theh have better results on work because his mood is much better. Many woman can't understand that
Woman does not cherish and respect her man, time to show her the front door and say, 'it is your choice, change your behaviour or leave'. Us men have to be strong and determined on this. Life is too short to waste time with a woman who does not respect and cherish her man.
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Ya, My woman tell me she two old for release. I am 69, she is 61 old. Tim
Why do some women want to turn off their boyfriends on purpose? Are they sad that they didn't get the man they truly wanted?
They’re miserable people, deep down(and probably not so deep down), and full of fear. That’s really the answer to why anyone treats anyone badly.
@@katieandnick4113 Yes! Insecurity, which is fear, or maybe guilt (real or perceived) which is also fear.
Maybe that's another reson why marriage is good. Nobody is left wondering if this is just "settling for less", or "just for now."
maybe you don't pick up after yourself and you don't help around the house so she sees you as a child she has to take care of. it's a turn off. if the woman was eager at first than she changed take a good look at what you've done to make her feel this way.
I’d be hard-pressed to think of anyone who enjoys being on the receiving end of meaningless, incessant “annoyance”.
Simple:
1.Sex.
2.Sandwich.
3.Smile
( and a fit body) 😊
I'd want more!! I'd want the person to have a mind and can hold a conversation!
Jon inspired me to make a video. And it's not complimentary.
Great video
You nailed it, again in my life.
some men and some women, will hold out sex to control the other, or punish them.