I love you. This video is seriously blowing my mind. From a fellow transwoman, thank you. For your you, for your videos, and your the inspiration and courage you helped me cultivate which has allowed me to begin my own transition journey.
you are amazing your energy is great I love your sense of humor and the way that you tell Society there are no boundaries that is what I struggle with all the time I really enjoy your videos this one made me laugh because people are ridiculous I am so glad that you got to a place that you can be happy and I am glad that you have your girlfriend to be there for you im your struggles and your days that you are extremely happy...you rock girl!!!
Your very inspiring! I changed everything on my Facebook profile just by updating without any explanation from male to female. Yet I still felt self conscious about posting a picture from the Pride parade I marched in. It is just a start compared to all you post, but I want to give back and help the trans community by being open about being trans. Most people have a problem with us just because they don't know anyone or understand anything about being transgender. I don't post videos, I just hope I can be helpful in other ways. Thank you for posting this video!
I'm trying to get there, just been lost in bad thoughts lately, thanks for posting up a new video i look forward to them, and I changed my hair a little, by shaving the side of my head and I like it , they are posted on google+
But yeah your friend was not very kind or even any nice thing to say we are who we are and what we do is our business, I don't feel girly every day but talking to some of my friends in our leather group we are along the same lines so that helps too, PS y our hair, tatoos and pierices are awesome and in no way make you any kind of masculine
I 100% agree with you and 100% support you. I think your gorgeous. This Emma person is just projecting her own insecurities onto you. Her opinions dont matter. Your an awesome WOMEN. I love your tattoos. I love that you color your hair fun colors. I can honestly say with genuineness that you have never looked masculine to me.❤
Hi Darling, I'm glad that you are calling out those who try to control and oppress you! I'm a trans female as well and I have been annoyed in the past by people thinking that they can critique my clothing/makeup/voice/even body because I am trans. I too called them out and let them know that their "advice" was unsolicited and unwanted. WE DON'T NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO BE AUTHENTIC...IF THESE SILLY PEOPLE HAVEN'T NOTICED WE HAVE SACRIFICED EVERYTHING TO HAVE THE FREEDOM TO BE OUR TRUE SELVES! Power, love and respect! Jessica p.s. - I love your funky hair, tattoos, and piercings 😎
Who the hell does this person think they are by telling YOU how to live YOUR life and how YOU should look/act, etc?!?! Eff this person and their stupid effin comments!! Live YOUR life how YOU choose to sweetie! You're beautiful and this red hair looks gorgeous on you!!
ya know, i gat called a man when i know i am transgender. i grow a beard but i shave everyday. i don't want the hormones, but i can't get surgery cause that's too much to pay. and i'm also happy with my body. the body hair though needs to be off me lol. other than that i think you are FABULOUS!!
I hate when people think that trans women have to be perfect and really girly😡 I'm a woman and I don't w wear make-up everyday, I don't have a really girly voice and I suffer from PCOS which makes me have hormones changes and that for I have more facial hair. That doesn't makes me less of a woman. You're beautiful woman, brave and strong. You're unique, and that's ok. Keep up the good work and inspiring people. I'm not trans but every time I see your videos I learn so much and help me with my self esteem. And for those who said you're different... Better be different than average!!! LOVE YOU💖 and stay strong. P.S Miss a pancake!!! 😺
how could someone be so horrible :/ I think everyone should be able to be whoever the fuck they want to be. without being judged. there is no proper way to be female honestly. I'm glad that you can read ugly messages like that and kind of shrug it off. you do you! :D
Oh my god why can't people wrap their minds around the very simple concept: if someone says they're a woman, they're a woman. No matter how she looks or presents or acts. If she's trans and doesn't change the way she used to look at all, SHE'S STILL A WOMAN. Literally the only thing that makes a woman a woman is if she says she's a woman. There's no right or wrong way to be a woman.
Because that's not how that works at all. You can say you are something all you want, but unless you have what it takes to back up that claim, it's just that - a claim. I am a woman/female because biologically, I am.
HI. i think your were beautiful as a man and now more so as the woman you knew you always were. As for other peoples opinions..they are like assholes everyone has one. Be who you are and who you were always meant to be. To comment on another one of your other vids...like you asked, how many people have ever done anything that made them struggle? Not many people at all. Much love and never look back. xo
Hunny, two things...1 People are misery loves company. Really shitty people like making others miserable too. I know its difficult love, but ignore the ignorance. 2 I have heard you say time and time again that you "have a masculine nose because it is big." Your nose is in no way masculine. It is not boxy. It is not manly. It is soft and curved with and without makeup. I have a big nose too. I know how it is to not like it. But I am sure your fiance loves your nose, you should learn to love it too xo
+Nicole Louw Can you post a link to the profile? Honestly from what you said, it sounds like your dealing with a straight dude. Other women know not every girl is a priss.
+Nicole Louw Or its a damn Queen, they can't stand trans girls. I love a queen, but they can be catty as fuck. Sorry lol. I'm just curious to see how " perfect" they are.
I love you. This video is seriously blowing my mind. From a fellow transwoman, thank you. For your you, for your videos, and your the inspiration and courage you helped me cultivate which has allowed me to begin my own transition journey.
You're such a beautiful person. The more videos of you I watch, the more I like you. You're truly an inspiration.
you are amazing your energy is great I love your sense of humor and the way that you tell Society there are no boundaries that is what I struggle with all the time I really enjoy your videos this one made me laugh because people are ridiculous I am so glad that you got to a place that you can be happy and I am glad that you have your girlfriend to be there for you im your struggles and your days that you are extremely happy...you rock girl!!!
Your very inspiring! I changed everything on my Facebook profile just by updating without any explanation from male to female. Yet I still felt self conscious about posting a picture from the Pride parade I marched in. It is just a start compared to all you post, but I want to give back and help the trans community by being open about being trans. Most people have a problem with us just because they don't know anyone or understand anything about being transgender. I don't post videos, I just hope I can be helpful in other ways. Thank you for posting this video!
Beautifully said!
Loving the butterfly , by the way!
I'm trying to get there, just been lost in bad thoughts lately, thanks for posting up a new video i look forward to them, and I changed my hair a little, by shaving the side of my head and I like it , they are posted on google+
hehe ill go look now :-) and iknow what you mean by being in a dark space.. but just get through them,,, i know you can
But yeah your friend was not very kind or even any nice thing to say we are who we are and what we do is our business, I don't feel girly every day but talking to some of my friends in our leather group we are along the same lines so that helps too, PS y our hair, tatoos and pierices are awesome and in no way make you any kind of masculine
I 100% agree with you and 100% support you. I think your gorgeous. This Emma person is just projecting her own insecurities onto you. Her opinions dont matter. Your an awesome WOMEN. I love your tattoos. I love that you color your hair fun colors. I can honestly say with genuineness that you have never looked masculine to me.❤
thank you love.. i appreciate that :-) and i like my uniqueness :-) hehe
Hi Darling, I'm glad that you are calling out those who try to control and oppress you! I'm a trans female as well and I have been annoyed in the past by people thinking that they can critique my clothing/makeup/voice/even body because I am trans. I too called them out and let them know that their "advice" was unsolicited and unwanted. WE DON'T NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO BE AUTHENTIC...IF THESE SILLY PEOPLE HAVEN'T NOTICED WE HAVE SACRIFICED EVERYTHING TO HAVE THE FREEDOM TO BE OUR TRUE SELVES! Power, love and respect! Jessica p.s. - I love your funky hair, tattoos, and piercings 😎
Well said! Good for you! You look amazing the way you are and you can post whatever you want on your fb page.
thank you so much!!! some people can just be so hurtful...but thank you for being supportive
+Nicole Louw that's because they are hurting inside:(. But don't let that get you down!
You are not masculine. You actually have quite soft features. You are gorgeous and such an inspiration for me. Ly ❤❤
thank you so much love!!!
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Who the hell does this person think they are by telling YOU how to live YOUR life and how YOU should look/act, etc?!?! Eff this person and their stupid effin comments!! Live YOUR life how YOU choose to sweetie! You're beautiful and this red hair looks gorgeous on you!!
ya know, i gat called a man when i know i am transgender. i grow a beard but i shave everyday. i don't want the hormones, but i can't get surgery cause that's too much to pay. and i'm also happy with my body. the body hair though needs to be off me lol. other than that i think you are FABULOUS!!
I hate when people think that trans women have to be perfect and really girly😡
I'm a woman and I don't w wear make-up everyday, I don't have a really girly voice and I suffer from PCOS which makes me have hormones changes and that for I have more facial hair. That doesn't makes me less of a woman. You're beautiful woman, brave and strong. You're unique, and that's ok. Keep up the good work and inspiring people. I'm not trans but every time I see your videos I learn so much and help me with my self esteem. And for those who said you're different... Better be different than average!!! LOVE YOU💖 and stay strong.
P.S Miss a pancake!!! 😺
I LOVE YOUR HAIR SOO MUUUCH!!!❤❤❤😫😫😫😫
hehe thanks :-) im changing the colours soon :-)
People are terrible and you're doing all the right things. Try not to worry!
thank you love!!!
You look sooooo freakin cute !! So girly and feminine !!! Love you nik!
How do piercings make a woman look masculine? That makes no sense
hehe exactly!!!!
Ok maybe I should finish the video before asking a question. lol
Nice video.
thanks love
how could someone be so horrible :/ I think everyone should be able to be whoever the fuck they want to be. without being judged. there is no proper way to be female honestly. I'm glad that you can read ugly messages like that and kind of shrug it off. you do you! :D
you're beautiful nikki!
aaah hehe thank you :-)
Oh my god why can't people wrap their minds around the very simple concept: if someone says they're a woman, they're a woman. No matter how she looks or presents or acts. If she's trans and doesn't change the way she used to look at all, SHE'S STILL A WOMAN. Literally the only thing that makes a woman a woman is if she says she's a woman. There's no right or wrong way to be a woman.
exactly!!!
Because that's not how that works at all. You can say you are something all you want, but unless you have what it takes to back up that claim, it's just that - a claim. I am a woman/female because biologically, I am.
+Eternal Rayven so because you have a vagina? If your talking biology
HI. i think your were beautiful as a man and now more so as the woman you knew you always were. As for other peoples opinions..they are like assholes everyone has one. Be who you are and who you were always meant to be. To comment on another one of your other vids...like you asked, how many people have ever done anything that made them struggle? Not many people at all. Much love and never look back. xo
Gah, you're gorgeous!
hehe you make me blush :-)
That tattoo on your chest, is that new :0 ?
Hunny, two things...1 People are misery loves company. Really shitty people like making others miserable too. I know its difficult love, but ignore the ignorance. 2 I have heard you say time and time again that you "have a masculine nose because it is big." Your nose is in no way masculine. It is not boxy. It is not manly. It is soft and curved with and without makeup. I have a big nose too. I know how it is to not like it. But I am sure your fiance loves your nose, you should learn to love it too xo
it's been a while, how are you.
someone knows what her Fb name?
So this person made an fb account just to comment on your page?
or send you a message rather.
i think she uses it to troll trans girls.. she attacked a friend of mine too
+Nicole Louw Can you post a link to the profile? Honestly from what you said, it sounds like your dealing with a straight dude. Other women know not every girl is a priss.
+Nicole Louw Or its a damn Queen, they can't stand trans girls. I love a queen, but they can be catty as fuck. Sorry lol. I'm just curious to see how " perfect" they are.
Your dimple piercings are very feminine
also don't think you have any manly features.