I'm 31 and single - am I leaving having kids too late?

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  • @faffer1073
    @faffer1073 2 місяці тому +1026

    Difficult to make babies when a lot of young British adults can only afford to live with their Mum and Dad.

    • @rohj4825
      @rohj4825 2 місяці тому +19

      It is good when grandparents can take care about grandkids in any time of the day.

    • @swagathshetty
      @swagathshetty 2 місяці тому +82

      ​​@@rohj4825 grandparents are not free labour
      They did not retire to help with babies. They have their own life too

    • @manpreetbrar838
      @manpreetbrar838 2 місяці тому +36

      Inter generational households forthcoming, In a good Asian tradition.

    • @bawseeeee602
      @bawseeeee602 2 місяці тому +6

      excuses...

    • @paddydoyle4234
      @paddydoyle4234 2 місяці тому +10

      ​@@swagathshetty family should come before anything else.

  • @jorda_n_
    @jorda_n_ 2 місяці тому +756

    Why on earth would I want to put someone else in a situation I barely want to be in myself?

    • @kz9620
      @kz9620 2 місяці тому +39

      So true

    • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
      @marriagecausesdivorce7540 2 місяці тому +1

      Well, for exactly the same reason why India has a population of 1.5 billion, China has a population of 1.4 billion, and countries like Indonesia, Pakistan and Nigeria will probably get to 1 - 2 billion in total over the next 75 years. Humans seem to have a strong desire to mate and reproduce.

    • @Coastpsych_fi99
      @Coastpsych_fi99 2 місяці тому +14

      Lol agreed!

    • @mbotentoto5162
      @mbotentoto5162 2 місяці тому +6

      U kno wut to do

    • @JeDxDeVu
      @JeDxDeVu 2 місяці тому +24

      Glad our ancestors didn’t have the kind of attitude

  • @craptacular8282
    @craptacular8282 2 місяці тому +638

    Government policy has made housing so expensive. People don't want families if they don't have a stable home. Blame the government.

    • @xaiano794
      @xaiano794 2 місяці тому

      The government is a reflection of the people. We are literally the only country where people think it's normal or reasonable to block others from building their own home on their own land.

    • @hussain-x
      @hussain-x 2 місяці тому +13

      I also blame the Bank Of England for keeping interest rates so low for so long as well as printing so much money through QE. It just pushed up house prices and other asset prices.

    • @James_Doyle83
      @James_Doyle83 2 місяці тому +7

      Tories were in power for 14 years

    • @xsmash5328
      @xsmash5328 2 місяці тому +6

      Yeah, sure, housing. Never heard of an appartment? Stay a victim, don't take control of your own life ...

    • @bawseeeee602
      @bawseeeee602 2 місяці тому

      @Muhammad-c9u2z for poor people lol

  • @AdamBrowne-eg1eb
    @AdamBrowne-eg1eb 2 місяці тому +236

    Interesting this pitched the drop as a biological issue. I see it far more as a cultural and financial problem.

    • @ReadyF0RHeady
      @ReadyF0RHeady 2 місяці тому +2

      Of course it is ...thats also premise for the movie idiocracy

    • @gazthejaz8910
      @gazthejaz8910 24 дні тому

      It’s all

  • @derek4412
    @derek4412 2 місяці тому +332

    “If this country wants more babies, it needs to start giving people like me more money“

    • @NeygarzruinedAmerica
      @NeygarzruinedAmerica 2 місяці тому

      Too busy giving to Ukraine

    • @persephone3309
      @persephone3309 2 місяці тому +38

      Actually people who work still can't afford things. It's more about making things affordable than giving out handouts.

    • @blue_wolfproductions12
      @blue_wolfproductions12 2 місяці тому

      @@persephone3309Agreed price controls and rent controls are needed

    • @fartunyep4501
      @fartunyep4501 Місяць тому

      How is a larger wage a handout?​@@persephone3309

    • @marissa._
      @marissa._ Місяць тому

      ​@@persephone3309
      Actually it IS about giving out handouts instead of having to work for everything! There's nothing "wrong" with handouts! No one should have to pay for what God put here free! Like water and food, etc!
      Its not about making things affordable because even if that were the case, there's people that STILL wouldn't be able to afford whatever "affordability" looks like.

  • @PaulDickson-yi2vw
    @PaulDickson-yi2vw 2 місяці тому +314

    When it went from one man working to pay for a family to both working thes not much time for a family and definitely not for a big family.

    • @christopher.96
      @christopher.96 2 місяці тому +21

      They have realized the robots aren’t as developed as they through they would have been by now. The realized they need another generation of wage slaves.

    • @helenarichard
      @helenarichard Місяць тому +3

      I got crippling depression when I started working full time and could feel myself ovulating but being stuck at my desk so I could never meet someone or make love if I had a partner. I gave up. Met my man thanks to being unemployed and having the time and energy to sort thing out and work on myself, and find out what it is I really want and have time to date. I hope it is not too late. Currently trying but am almost 36.

    • @steveseclecticadventures7183
      @steveseclecticadventures7183 11 днів тому

      ​@@helenarichardmy (Filipina) mother-in-law had seven daughters. The first (my wife) was born when she was 18 yo. The last was born when she was 42 yo.

  • @joe9125
    @joe9125 2 місяці тому +366

    Media has always told us the world is overpopulated then what’s the problem with infertility?

    • @Mel87y
      @Mel87y 2 місяці тому +23

      Exactly

    • @ProductivityControl7
      @ProductivityControl7 2 місяці тому +68

      Because the way society and the workforce operate, it can't function with there being more old people than Young.

    • @e.m.doherty723
      @e.m.doherty723 2 місяці тому

      It was a lie to replace people here with outsiders. So to disrupt the social and cultural cohesion, so people would be easily divided and controlled.

    • @Victor-y9g1w
      @Victor-y9g1w 2 місяці тому +26

      @@ProductivityControl7 so it is about economy?

    • @Zoetherat
      @Zoetherat 2 місяці тому

      The media was wrong.

  • @mtgrabbitwizard1679
    @mtgrabbitwizard1679 2 місяці тому +101

    Every 10% houses go up birth rates fall 1%

  • @R2VVH21
    @R2VVH21 2 місяці тому +186

    My bloodline ends with me. Amen to that.

    • @apebass2215
      @apebass2215 2 місяці тому +37

      Probably for the best.

    • @R2VVH21
      @R2VVH21 2 місяці тому +27

      @@apebass2215 indeed. Would be best for all.

    • @hopolang99
      @hopolang99 2 місяці тому +6

      Lets go!!

    • @angelaschone2847
      @angelaschone2847 2 місяці тому +13

      Yey , mine too sister or brother in the distance

    • @RhondaNam
      @RhondaNam 2 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @simonebell928
    @simonebell928 2 місяці тому +141

    Funny enough when I try to have a baby at an earlier age it didn’t work but when I got to 35, when they say fertility goes rapidly downhill, I got pregnant very easily as soon as I tuned 35, it’s not always age, it’s about genetics and lifestyle too

    • @SKIE-skie
      @SKIE-skie 2 місяці тому +2

      A lot of men think they all can have babies until old age when they actually start declining at 35 same as women.

    • @whitneyanders5945
      @whitneyanders5945 2 місяці тому +2

      Most women do get pregnant easily after 35. A woman can get pregnant as long as she is ovulating.. which doesn’t stop until menopause. It’s like everyone has no idea about female reproduction or chooses to be ignorant.

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 2 місяці тому +12

      When some couples try to have a baby too hard it may not happen because they are under the stress of that but under no stress is will happen after a few tries.
      Fertility decreases but the chances are still pretty great at 35, I'm only speaking as a primary care physician. People seem to try once or twice & then think that they should be automatically pregnant and while that is possible sometimes it can take a few tries so stop stressing & just have fun.

    • @monkaf
      @monkaf Місяць тому +7

      Im almost 40 and i get pregnant very quick. And everything is ok. I have guilt because my younger coworker strugles to concieve.

    • @ChrisBergernson-oe9zy
      @ChrisBergernson-oe9zy Місяць тому +1

      ​@@monkafso much sugar and alcool maybe ....

  • @awsinger1
    @awsinger1 Місяць тому +37

    By the grace of God I am 31 weeks pregnant and just turned 26 years old last week. Honestly I need to pinch myself every day. I feel so grateful.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 Місяць тому +8

      Congratulations! I had my first at 41!

    • @stephaniemiddleton3740
      @stephaniemiddleton3740 Місяць тому +2

      Good luck, had my first 6 months ago. Best thing I’ve ever done! Already thinking about trying for no.2 😂

  • @katerua4675
    @katerua4675 Місяць тому +13

    The birth rate is going to plummet considering how impossible it is for normal people to afford a home without help form their parents

  • @joenelson4235
    @joenelson4235 Місяць тому +25

    Times have changed, Mum and Dad need to downsize to enable their grandchildren to be born. We need to help this generation asap

  • @MsSimpleMovies
    @MsSimpleMovies 2 місяці тому +47

    My heart really goes out to those struggling with social infertility and physical infertility. I know the drive to have babies.

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas 2 місяці тому +80

    I'm 33 single Congolese born and raised in France and to my mind issues are also : finding a partner, affording babies, talking to men about infertility and testing them. Informative video💯

    • @MsSimpleMovies
      @MsSimpleMovies 2 місяці тому +6

      Yes, "social infertility," as it's been called, is often overlooked.

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan Місяць тому +3

      The partner should be found at 22 waiting until 30s is a bad idea.

    • @soniakostova
      @soniakostova Місяць тому

      @@Roccofansorry some of us were attending school and trying to educate ourselves at that time

  • @helenarichard
    @helenarichard Місяць тому +10

    That woman in the end has nothing to do with feminism. She is simply too overweight to get pregnant. The obesity impacts ovulation.

  • @ArranVid
    @ArranVid 2 місяці тому +94

    I’m 31, single, and male

    • @kni9ght
      @kni9ght 2 місяці тому +12

      Same

    • @Geechee-Man
      @Geechee-Man Місяць тому +40

      I am 28 male and single I suggest we all get our passport and go overseas where price of living is cheaper and women are more aware of their time clock..... #passportbro

    • @ArranVid
      @ArranVid Місяць тому +7

      @@Geechee-Man Good idea 🙂

    • @kni9ght
      @kni9ght Місяць тому +4

      @@Geechee-Man got mine already brother and trying to shore some investments here, than leave.

    • @tadeob_
      @tadeob_ Місяць тому +6

      ​@@kni9ght I'm 21... Should I do the same?

  • @chad9971
    @chad9971 2 місяці тому +29

    We're moving towards real life "Idiocracy".

  • @l.k1992
    @l.k1992 2 місяці тому +216

    Choosing to be a single mum is crazy

    • @bawseeeee602
      @bawseeeee602 2 місяці тому +77

      modern females bro

    • @mbotentoto5162
      @mbotentoto5162 2 місяці тому +17

      Just sit back and let it all self destruct gents. Youll get your laugh in the end.

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 2 місяці тому +12

      It comes across as selfish... Like some sort of personal achievement they want rather than co- building a family

    • @SKIE-skie
      @SKIE-skie 2 місяці тому +71

      ​@@bawseeeee602modern males have left many women as single mothers.

    • @SKIE-skie
      @SKIE-skie 2 місяці тому +29

      ​@@mbotentoto5162laugh at not being chosen to reproduce?

  • @helenarichard
    @helenarichard Місяць тому +6

    I gave up on finding love at 32 and found the love of my life at 33. Now am 35 and trying. Fertility depends a lot on the semen, not so much the woman, if she is still in her thirties everything is possible. But honestly this world makes me exhausted that sometimes I wonder if I would be ok as a mother.

  • @nathenialsplaceofficial
    @nathenialsplaceofficial 2 місяці тому +55

    3:15 A lot of people won't realise that a lot of these older celeb dads are utilising fertility treatments like ICSI. But they are hardly going to advertise that fact!

    • @MsSimpleMovies
      @MsSimpleMovies 2 місяці тому +10

      And that's why many have twins.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 Місяць тому +2

      @@MsSimpleMoviesalmost always it’s IVF if the twins are fraternal

  • @bernob9770
    @bernob9770 2 місяці тому +29

    More people need to talk about this topic!

    • @John-ih7gp
      @John-ih7gp 2 місяці тому +4

      Why? It's been obvious for decades! Is this new to people right now?

  • @pd1596
    @pd1596 2 місяці тому +138

    What a depressing thing to watch on a Sunday evening lol

    • @achilles2229
      @achilles2229 2 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂

    • @sahab999
      @sahab999 2 місяці тому +2

      😅😅😂😂

    • @remimerchant8354
      @remimerchant8354 2 місяці тому +7

      Same here! And I did it to myself 😂😂

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 2 місяці тому

      Dnt watch the media! It's all bad news.

    • @richild3967
      @richild3967 2 місяці тому +3

      Honestly! I guess it shook me out of my delusional state.

  • @allforclout2040
    @allforclout2040 2 місяці тому +235

    Feminism is doing its job

    • @biscaynesupercars
      @biscaynesupercars 2 місяці тому +49

      🎯 the comparison of men and women to this was hilarious. The woman just aged out but the men being infertile were do to extreme external circumstances and for most of them improving their diet, sleep and physical activity brought their sperm count back to normal in a short period of time so the 2 are not the same thing. And its this type of propaganda that leads to women believing they have more time than they really do

    • @jacobperez8921
      @jacobperez8921 2 місяці тому

      Absolutely! Feminism lied to generations of women and now they are realizing too late.

    • @Vilominelova
      @Vilominelova 2 місяці тому +8

      ​@@biscaynesupercars my brother is a fertility coach, and woman can also bring up their AMF with a proper diet and lifestyle change, and the can but a little more time too up until 45 . I saw how he help many women over the age of 40 get pregnant

    • @neverstop2493
      @neverstop2493 2 місяці тому +5

      ​ @karlaNova-d9t don’t give women the idea that a special diet will allow them to stay fertile until 45. female fecundity is predicted by the combination of 1)ovarian reserve measured by AMH and 2)chromosomal degradation determined by age. Women over 35 desiring babies need to get their AMH level checked ASAP and discuss family planning with their OB/gyn.

    • @Tribuneoftheplebs
      @Tribuneoftheplebs 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Vilominelova very risky to have babies after 40 because the chance of down syndrome is over 10%

  • @johntaylor8381
    @johntaylor8381 2 місяці тому +15

    Just want to commend how good this video is. Not condescending but hitting on some really tough issues. I've learnt some new stuff

  • @Michael-os1zd
    @Michael-os1zd 2 місяці тому +59

    Reduced economy, reduced masculinity, reduced responsibility, reduced marriage and commitment - what does one expect - the biology is following the mindset. I for one have a sizeable family and am an outlier, and I cannot think of anything more rewarding. The hard work however is not for the faint hearted.

  • @abymathew295
    @abymathew295 Місяць тому +14

    People cant afford babies anymore. Thats the truth.

    • @helenarichard
      @helenarichard Місяць тому

      Babies aren't that expensive. Mortgages are. And jobs are unstable now. No more careers. Men alone had good careers all their life, there was no job hopping with daily contracts and stuff.

    • @abymathew295
      @abymathew295 Місяць тому

      @helenarichard ..True

  • @starlightHT
    @starlightHT 2 місяці тому +48

    Who spent decades saying at school that the world didn't need more people because we had too many people? They forgot to say that it wasn't in European countries but the problem was in Africa, Asia, South America... Now women say they can be a mother at 50 because some famous woman was a mother at that advanced age. And nowadays women start looking for a partner to be a mother at 35 (look) and try to get married at 40 and be a mother at 50...

    • @angelaschone2847
      @angelaschone2847 2 місяці тому +3

      South america is in the same trend, exclude them and asia at some countries is worse the fertility

  • @Saad_889
    @Saad_889 Місяць тому +3

    As a 25-year-old Virgin man, I’ve noticed that having too much information in advance has put us in a difficult position. We start worrying about the future, wondering if our bodies will function well when we’re married or if our cells are strong enough to produce a baby. We’ve filled our minds with so much information that when we start thinking negatively, it begins to affect us that way. In the past, we were unbothered, uninformed, and didn’t even know these things existed in our bodies we remained unworried so our bodies functioned well.

  • @danielwebb8402
    @danielwebb8402 2 місяці тому +97

    Has the lie that we can delay... led to people delaying, then regretting it?
    Yes

    • @ss-ds2dn
      @ss-ds2dn 2 місяці тому +15

      The "your biological clock is running out" thing has also led to many people picking bad partners. This isn't simple.

    • @Rudi_Mentary723
      @Rudi_Mentary723 Місяць тому

      Shhhh... We don't say that to modern women.

  • @constitutionalcarrot3720
    @constitutionalcarrot3720 Місяць тому +6

    I became a single mother by choice in the US at 33 via IUI and donor. More than the $$, time is the greatest resources sorely depleted in our 20s. The pandemic was the perfect time to do fertility treatments without worrying about making excuses to evade my employer’s potential discrimination. Tax incentives for those who want parenthood and grants for parents are only part of it. We need more PTO, expanded WFH, and cheaper childcare!

  • @bodhisattva2348
    @bodhisattva2348 2 місяці тому +37

    It never cease amaze me that at 31 a woman will act like she's 62. 🤔

    • @notmanymore1521
      @notmanymore1521 Місяць тому +4

      When she may have roughly 4 years left to have babies, and considering most people don't just have a baby as soon as they meet a partner, that leaves for a pretty small window of time left. I'm also 31 and yes, I do sometimes feel 62

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 Місяць тому +9

      @notmanymore1521 u are aware that if u have eggs u & a period u can have a baby right. She's 31 not 62

    • @bsd1158
      @bsd1158 Місяць тому +3

      Research shows that a single woman over 30 has a very slim chance of ever becoming a mother. She's very smart and brave to take control of her life like that.

    • @CarolaTesla
      @CarolaTesla Місяць тому +5

      ​@@notmanymore1521 She has like 10 more years to have a baby lol

    • @TheSecretBaller
      @TheSecretBaller Місяць тому +1

      @@CarolaTeslapast her prime physically, men look for younger women

  • @The_Voice_of_Reason_is_here
    @The_Voice_of_Reason_is_here 2 місяці тому +107

    This is Western Civilisation that they so desperately want to spread

    • @ProfessorMeeks
      @ProfessorMeeks 2 місяці тому +2

      Yup it's satanic and against family and God.

    • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
      @marriagecausesdivorce7540 2 місяці тому +5

      That who wants?

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 2 місяці тому +13

      Lol😂 true. That's why they need immigrants to push the fertility numbers up but will complain like hell

    • @danielr4774
      @danielr4774 2 місяці тому +6

      Low fertility is happening in Africa too

    • @savioblanc
      @savioblanc 2 місяці тому

      The actual Western people, who have warned about this, have been ignored and pushed out and their views shut down.
      Ask yourself why every poll taken in the West shows the people have the lowest trust in their own news and media agencies and their journalists.

  • @vlad-dracul
    @vlad-dracul 2 місяці тому +72

    When she was 21 there were probably some men who wanted to start a family with her, but she is strong and independent.

    • @mercymdw
      @mercymdw 2 місяці тому +9

      Your opinion may be right but it's usually good to know what ones life has been like. War and the economy is a worldwide issue. Other people have dependents.

    • @joyariffic4217
      @joyariffic4217 Місяць тому +21

      21 is waaaay to young to be a mom

    • @Amatuallah-jt2kg
      @Amatuallah-jt2kg Місяць тому +13

      @@joyariffic4217and 31 is way to old to be a mum

    • @fartunyep4501
      @fartunyep4501 Місяць тому +11

      I doubt it. What 21 year old man in the west settles down.

    • @tinkshu4002
      @tinkshu4002 Місяць тому +1

      @@joyariffic4217you really wrong

  • @leodekleijn7712
    @leodekleijn7712 2 місяці тому +104

    31 single by choice

    • @RTMgi9
      @RTMgi9 2 місяці тому +45

      Hasn't found Chad yet

    • @c.f.okonta8815
      @c.f.okonta8815 2 місяці тому +27

      @@RTMgi9yea she is still looking for Chad and will remain childless until she finds him at 41

    • @andre1987eph
      @andre1987eph 2 місяці тому +28

      They had great fun in their 20s 😅

    • @faithalbers1589
      @faithalbers1589 2 місяці тому +20

      @@c.f.okonta8815why do people always assume it’s cause she hasn’t met “Chad” yet. Can there not be women and men who genuinely just want to stay single and do it the right way. I know that may not be common but like myself I’ve managed to stay single without sleeping around at all.

    • @nax1807
      @nax1807 2 місяці тому +6

      what chad would want a 31yo when he could have a 21yo? oh well, at least she has the streets.

  • @KevTheImpaler
    @KevTheImpaler Місяць тому +4

    I had two sperm tests. One was a general sperm quality test: are they the right shape, are they swimming vigorously in a straight line, is there enough of them. That came back good. Then I had a DNA fragmentation test. That came back the lower end of good.

    • @CaptainCoook
      @CaptainCoook Місяць тому +2

      Good information, more gents should know about this. DNA fragmentation is always there, but it accelerates at 35 and beyond. Men can't wait for too long.

  • @mr.unknownindian1764
    @mr.unknownindian1764 2 місяці тому +34

    Most brave people can survive singlhood, I fully support their personal choice.❤

  • @Terminator550
    @Terminator550 2 місяці тому +18

    This is a sad, coping video.

  • @nathanbell6962
    @nathanbell6962 2 місяці тому +26

    Uk has the lowest birth rate in the EU, -18%

    • @Joshua-eo5hr
      @Joshua-eo5hr Місяць тому +3

      With immigration lol 😂

    • @HM-bd9un
      @HM-bd9un Місяць тому

      @@Joshua-eo5hr😂😂😂 touché!

  • @Deano00777
    @Deano00777 Місяць тому +2

    Why is the world having a lower population a bad thing?
    More food per person, more housing, less pollution, more water.

  • @ravendronesolutions
    @ravendronesolutions Місяць тому +18

    Feminism along with policies that made it very difficult for most people to even have a home is the cause of this

  • @DC-YTC
    @DC-YTC 2 місяці тому +6

    Are we leaving it too late?!?! 2010 when we fell to the lowest of the G7 nations was when it should have been addressed

  • @jasm5205
    @jasm5205 2 місяці тому +47

    I’m lucky enough to have found my person young. I look around and see the women now. I honestly think I’d just be single if I didn’t have her.

  • @mursheedalam7485
    @mursheedalam7485 2 місяці тому +25

    men fertility rate can be increased by just chnging their diet and adding some excersie .but this thing is not same with the woman even though they chnge their diet .

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 Місяць тому +10

      lol even if that's true (which it's not), they still need a woman to procreate with and vast majority of young women don't want disillusioned and broke middle aged men. Even the ones that settle for rich guys for a short while are crazies. no sensible women wants to be with someone of her dad's age.

    • @bsd1158
      @bsd1158 Місяць тому +5

      Most young guys are lazy and complacent in my experience. Much bigger issue than any women issue. I'm a man too.

    • @allinmybackyard3988
      @allinmybackyard3988 Місяць тому +3

      ​@@rpaafourever7908 i think most men know the cards they are dealt with in life as time progresses and as they age they become richer and more mentally stable for a lot of women to consider them. the entire low tfr hysteria that the media peddles out blaming men, blaming pfas, the economy is just women finding out abt biological realities of being a woman and trying to deflect the blame.

  • @claudiaclutch1958
    @claudiaclutch1958 Місяць тому +1

    I'm 32, Woman, Single living in south east England... living with parents. I can't afford having my own home.

  • @alexandriamares1402
    @alexandriamares1402 Місяць тому +4

    People cant afford to survive anymore. Who would want to being a baby in the world just to struggle , harder than they did before bringing a baby into the world.

  • @stanleykachuik2589
    @stanleykachuik2589 Місяць тому +3

    Correction: Historically ( before 1960 ) pregnancy after 27 years of age was considered geriatric.
    It was recently that they raised it to 35. Due to advances in modern medicine and to suit the Liberal narrative.

  • @missandry2669
    @missandry2669 2 місяці тому +45

    Don’t be a single mother women wake up!!!

  • @LightSaber12345
    @LightSaber12345 2 місяці тому +68

    Human extinction is not a bad thing, especially when it's voluntary.

    • @child_of_Lilith__
      @child_of_Lilith__ Місяць тому +3

      agreed

    • @ST-ly8uf
      @ST-ly8uf Місяць тому

      Humans ain't gonna die willingly, One continent has a massive birth rate

    • @FactsCountdown
      @FactsCountdown Місяць тому +1

      Extinction due to natural disaster will cause much more suffering than voluntary extinction.

  • @ambersouthwick3509
    @ambersouthwick3509 Місяць тому +7

    Im 35, Canadian. I am university educated and been employed since 15. I feel my husband and I should be studied for our fertility. I'm having our 4th and last just after my 36th bday. Weve never struggled with fertility. And as I research more, listen to more stories it is mind boggling that it comes so easy to us. Im curious what makes us special when we know others who struggle? I had my first at almost 28, and this last at 36. Young women, STOP WAITING!! Embrace the wonderful woman witchcraft that is the ability to make babies out of thin air. Dont start at 35 and wonder why it isnt working.

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 Місяць тому

      nah don't want to make rapists, thieves, killers etc. every criminal has a parent

  • @apocolex93
    @apocolex93 2 місяці тому +13

    No. Also fostering and adoption are perfectly valid options.

    • @Noname-oo9gn
      @Noname-oo9gn Місяць тому

      They ain't your bloodline though 😢 I'm good had my 2 daughters young now a grandmother of 3 a d I'm only 43.

  • @T-Hazza
    @T-Hazza Місяць тому +4

    im 25 single never had a GF and still live with my family!

  • @agnosticmanquestionsall2409
    @agnosticmanquestionsall2409 Місяць тому +5

    Dating apps make it impossible to meet anyone for most men.

    • @-schattenpflanze-3755
      @-schattenpflanze-3755 22 дні тому +1

      Visiting bars does the same. If your out of Highschool your chances for relationship as an average, let alone below average men are slim.

  • @davida4641
    @davida4641 Місяць тому +6

    As a guy, I asked a question to my self in my late 20's, which was - Would I recommend life to someone who doesn't exist? The answer I came to then was 'No', and nothing has changed. I'm in my mid 30's now, and I'm just not that cruel. There is far to much uncertainty in the country/world. Nothing seems to work anymore and the toxic, ego driven, fallacy ridden behaviours and irresponsibility of people seems to be off the charts.

  • @prernasingh8908
    @prernasingh8908 2 місяці тому +6

    I'm in my 40s and trying now!

  • @myworkrota1928
    @myworkrota1928 2 місяці тому +40

    The issue with democratic and capitalistic societies is they tell women to prioritise their careers over motherhood. Women then often find out too late that they should have prioritised mother hood over a career.

    • @CDAmG
      @CDAmG 2 місяці тому +1

      The emphasis on women working full time is Marxist. Historically, many feminists are Marxists and the Soviet Union had day care and generous maternity leave all the way back in the 1920s. It is Marxist to emphasize on uniformity between different kinds of people. This has come to the West since the 60s.

    • @ss-ds2dn
      @ss-ds2dn 2 місяці тому +8

      No the issue is that society hasn't found a way for women to balance the two. It's not women's job to do a crap of unpaid unappreciated labor just because they have a uterus. Every free person needs incentives.

    • @taridean
      @taridean Місяць тому

      Bingo!

  • @7S5y3X.0th
    @7S5y3X.0th 2 місяці тому +27

    Suddenly pre arranged marriges make way more sense.

    • @raalaa121
      @raalaa121 Місяць тому +5

      100 % the best thing that ever happened to me. Otherwise i'd be like my friends on dating apps trying to find the "one" ... I made my spouse the "one" after marriage.

    • @jessy7884
      @jessy7884 Місяць тому +4

      Gross

  • @caliac
    @caliac 2 місяці тому +26

    So nature and time make no prisoners, huh? What a shock 😑

  • @margarethamaartje3716
    @margarethamaartje3716 Місяць тому +3

    Why is infertility a problem? The world is over populated and complicated, i think life will br simpler, more connected and more beautiful with less people in it.

  • @I_main_Mercy
    @I_main_Mercy Місяць тому +6

    Lads, if shes over 30 and "ready to settle down", run.

    • @JackFrost-u6f
      @JackFrost-u6f Місяць тому +2

      Not fair to be honest. Everyone has their own reasons.

  • @James-pyon
    @James-pyon 2 місяці тому +53

    Feminism, enjoy.

    • @Hollyucinogen
      @Hollyucinogen 2 місяці тому +5

      Actually, this is a much more complicated social problem than your over-simplified explanation suggests. There are many factors that go into this.
      To be honest, though, humans are a blight on this planet. We've earned this.

  • @eapenkurian4134
    @eapenkurian4134 2 місяці тому +22

    Thanks to Corporate

  • @ChocolateAutizzy
    @ChocolateAutizzy День тому

    I been crying about this all year

  • @brianoleson9224
    @brianoleson9224 Місяць тому +2

    this is such a foreign topic to me im 31 and i have never made out before

  • @AKGWORLD123
    @AKGWORLD123 Місяць тому +6

    Strong independent woman

    • @JeremySayers38
      @JeremySayers38 Місяць тому +2

      Yeah, she gonna freeze her eggs!!!! £15000 to freeze eggs, better to buy a MX5!!!

    • @AKGWORLD123
      @AKGWORLD123 Місяць тому

      @JeremySayers38 good one 👍👍

    • @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh
      @AnnetteCurtain-tc4mh Місяць тому

      Career single mother's,paid for by government ruined the nuclear family.

  • @jessicawatson3320
    @jessicawatson3320 Місяць тому +1

    Childcare costs, impact on earnings, cost of living, cost of rent/mortgages I agree government gives no incentive

  • @mkf628
    @mkf628 2 місяці тому +35

    girl boss queens

  • @raalaa121
    @raalaa121 Місяць тому +1

    Pre-arranged marriage ... BEST thing that ever happened to me.

  • @Marcho978
    @Marcho978 2 місяці тому +29

    The wall always wins

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 Місяць тому +5

      Not for too long.. and remember when the wall wins, men lose too 😂

  • @mdaaaa1211
    @mdaaaa1211 2 місяці тому +102

    These women chose to pass on marry good men seeking the perfect guy. No sympathy

    • @marriagecausesdivorce7540
      @marriagecausesdivorce7540 2 місяці тому +32

      Finally! 🎯🎯🎯 Best comment I've read so far. Why are birth rates/fertility down? Well because marriage rates are down and more people are single. Why are more people single? Well it is because certain people have delusional standards. If guys like Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Elon Musk are ending up divorced, what chance does the normal nice guy stand?

    • @imwatchingonyoutube5024
      @imwatchingonyoutube5024 2 місяці тому +61

      Not true. Tons of men reject and ignore good women. Stop blaming women

    • @imwatchingonyoutube5024
      @imwatchingonyoutube5024 2 місяці тому +37

      @@marriagecausesdivorce7540What chance does a normal girl stand guys go from one girl to the next are that corn addicted they even ignore good women nowadays

    • @imwatchingonyoutube5024
      @imwatchingonyoutube5024 2 місяці тому +40

      So sick of women being blamed when men do this to women and ignore them and reject them

    • @josiestubbs4468
      @josiestubbs4468 2 місяці тому +25

      @@imwatchingonyoutube5024I think both sexes are to blame really. Some men reject good women and some women reject good men. Plus people prioritise a good time and self image these days instead of commitment and responsibility. I think finances and a lack of awareness of fertility is also a problem too. People think that IVF and adoption will be quick fixes for infertility but they’re really not

  • @Advic77
    @Advic77 Місяць тому +2

    Its about prioritising the most important things in life..Reschooling the public on family life.

  • @Lucpol1986
    @Lucpol1986 2 місяці тому +3

    It’s down to the individual, so don’t pay attention to critics. Simples 👍🏾

  • @aaaabbbbccc123
    @aaaabbbbccc123 2 місяці тому +4

    Blame UK FAMILY LAWS - Most men dont wanna be screwed by women. So no babies thank u

  • @CamCam99206
    @CamCam99206 Місяць тому

    I’m 35 & it’s proving to be near impossible & few have IVF money

  • @cathyo1089
    @cathyo1089 Місяць тому +3

    35 is the tipping point usually

  • @ello34
    @ello34 2 місяці тому +18

    they are experts in male biology now

  • @Smartlib_lol
    @Smartlib_lol Місяць тому +4

    Add to all this feminism… single most impactful factor for drop in fertility.

    • @GirishPandit-y7v
      @GirishPandit-y7v Місяць тому

      intentionally introduced so as to not let countries go the way of Indo China population boom

  • @eyesonly4755
    @eyesonly4755 2 місяці тому +1

    a lot of people would gladly become grandparents and raise the grandchildren, to ease the economic concerns

  • @Gustav_Smit
    @Gustav_Smit 2 місяці тому +19

    Excellent video👍 Increasing infertility is the biggest, unknown crisis Western countries will face over 20 years from now.

    • @jabberjaw84
      @jabberjaw84 2 місяці тому +3

      Video showed it's not just Western countries, other countries are paying ppl to have babies!!

  • @rachedhaddar9741
    @rachedhaddar9741 Місяць тому +6

    spend the 20s "having fun"

  • @Crazy111AUT
    @Crazy111AUT Місяць тому +2

    I think the issue is that we tell young women that they are supressed by the patriarchy if the are not striving to become a CEO.

    • @MaxFromSydney1
      @MaxFromSydney1 Місяць тому

      Who is “we”?
      It isn’t society telling women this, it’s feminism.

  • @cl1ff892
    @cl1ff892 2 місяці тому +44

    Blaming men. Typical. Biology is unfair ladies deal with it

  • @alikhan-ri5ye
    @alikhan-ri5ye 2 місяці тому +25

    They forgot to mention that low sperm count improves with simple life style changes in most cases and women have lost 90% of their eggs(they are born with),90% of those female eggs are gone by age 30.
    IVF specialists often try to use eggs of teenager girls, for better outcome.Eggs of women over 30 are considered of poor quality for IVF purposes.

    • @purpleviolet219
      @purpleviolet219 2 місяці тому +5

      Lifestyle and genetics can improve egg quality regardless of age though, but yes, it's still healthier for women and even men to reproduce earlier in general

    • @alikhan-ri5ye
      @alikhan-ri5ye 2 місяці тому +1

      @@purpleviolet219 I am afraid i have to disagree with that quality of egg improves with life style changes too or menopause could be delayed with life style changes.
      The only difference with life style changes in women, cause menopause symptoms to be better tolerated by some women.

    • @purpleviolet219
      @purpleviolet219 2 місяці тому

      @@alikhan-ri5ye That's not true actually, having a healthy lifestyle greatly increases the chances of conceiving, especially eating organ meats and balancing hormones through consuming enough vitamins a. d and cholesterol. Obviously women can not conceive after menopause but I am talking about before going through the change. Most people eat inadequate and processed junk nowadays.

    • @catherineball7584
      @catherineball7584 2 місяці тому +8

      Men over 35's sperm is not wanted by sperm banks either.

    • @venomrx6442
      @venomrx6442 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@catherineball7584 quality may drop but men can give sperms into their 60s lol women eggs stop wayy before like 40s

  • @titeness
    @titeness 2 місяці тому +5

    People don’t believe in God anymore - so they give in to circumstances.

    • @Arun-dx9sn
      @Arun-dx9sn Місяць тому +1

      I dont see anything unusual in this video.What should we expect in this country after supporting and proclaiming abortion like anything.Shedding innnocent blood is not simple in the eyes of god

    • @christophebrou1178
      @christophebrou1178 Місяць тому

      Lol, God!

  • @mpex1980
    @mpex1980 Місяць тому +1

    Could Tattoo ink affect fertility?

  • @GreatGazoo8
    @GreatGazoo8 Місяць тому

    A career in middle management at the widget factory is surprisingly unfulfilling to most women

  • @muckraker7942
    @muckraker7942 2 місяці тому +65

    Meanwhile Mustafa in his council flat having ten babies.

    • @mr.unknownindian1764
      @mr.unknownindian1764 2 місяці тому +10

      It's his mindful religion, don't be jealous.

    • @MuftiMasala
      @MuftiMasala 2 місяці тому +7

      Lmaoooo

    • @jakelister5152
      @jakelister5152 2 місяці тому +15

      Ask him for tips

    • @Victor-y9g1w
      @Victor-y9g1w 2 місяці тому +13

      and that too from only 1 wife, he has 3 other in three other council flats. soon, UK will be become UKe (united kingdom emirat)

    • @mr.unknownindian1764
      @mr.unknownindian1764 2 місяці тому +5

      ​@@Victor-y9g1w I want to see wwe ( wild west economic 📉 ) ....
      Hindus Vs Muslims Vs christians Vs SCIENCE 😂

  • @allinmybackyard3988
    @allinmybackyard3988 Місяць тому +1

    interesting how the only instance men are included in the discussion is when women want to make it seem like the birth rate crisis is not the issue of one sex. also, men and women sharing nearly equal parts of reproductive health issues is complete bull and not nearly equal like the lady wishes to show in the video.

  • @YTUser_999
    @YTUser_999 2 місяці тому +47

    I'm an Anti-Natalist, so I am one of a growing number of people who believe that bringing sentient beings into existence is a bad idea because of the amount of suffering within life.

    • @Jen-lg4hp
      @Jen-lg4hp 2 місяці тому

      Agreed! Problem is we are more clued in and aware of the injustice and tyranny of the self-styled elites and are not producing enough future wage slaves to make billions for the globalist corporations. That's why they want to import more obedient baby- making machines to replace us.

    • @SprSamson_
      @SprSamson_ 2 місяці тому +33

      Speak with a therapist

    • @Joshua-eo5hr
      @Joshua-eo5hr 2 місяці тому +5

      Smh 🙄 that's just dumb

    • @SpitfireMLG
      @SpitfireMLG 2 місяці тому

      Anti-nature

    • @annb1855
      @annb1855 Місяць тому +2

      Absolutely makes sense

  • @shayazi3758
    @shayazi3758 2 місяці тому +15

    Errrrmmm y we not talking about the rise feminist man hating zeitgeist

  • @ammarsawi
    @ammarsawi 2 місяці тому +1

    Never too late Remember Zachary

  • @geoms6263
    @geoms6263 Місяць тому +3

    feminist movement have something to do with infertility

  • @J.Shabazz
    @J.Shabazz 2 місяці тому +11

    NOT IN SOUTHEAST ASIA, AFRICA, or INDIA

    • @rpaafourever7908
      @rpaafourever7908 Місяць тому +6

      It's coming there.. already seeing signs of it.. just wait 🤭

    • @bsd1158
      @bsd1158 Місяць тому

      Southeast asia is much worse than the west. Look at birthrate of Thailand, Taiwan, Singapore etc.

    • @Kotramail
      @Kotramail Місяць тому

      Ethiopian here 31 and still single. It's an issue in Urban areas.

  • @jackbrown6788
    @jackbrown6788 Місяць тому +1

    Plus a generation of young men who are growing up resenting women because they can't get a date. It remains to be seen if they will be receptive to women suddenly showing an interest in them when they hit 35.

    • @Dylan-y6n
      @Dylan-y6n Місяць тому

      who in your opinion is responsible for that, men or women?

    • @jackbrown6788
      @jackbrown6788 Місяць тому

      @@Dylan-y6n I'd say technology is responsible, primarily. Social media and dating sites. Don't get me wrong, some men are unpleasant and probably don't deserve dates but there are a lot of nice guys that aren't getting any female interest because they aren't great at presenting themselves well on social media or just aren't good looking enough or maybe a bit socially awkward.

    • @burmesepython393
      @burmesepython393 Місяць тому

      A very interesting point. Guys will be thinking to themselves if the attention they’re all of a sudden getting from women is either genuine or simply because time is running out and they can’t be blamed for thinking that way.

  • @charlesopoku-afriyie7113
    @charlesopoku-afriyie7113 2 місяці тому +11

    It's funny how they take a small percentage of men and magnify it and use it as a shaming tactic

  • @jamesstpatrick8493
    @jamesstpatrick8493 Місяць тому +2

    This is because of women choosing to be an adult and joining the workforce

  • @HarleyButler-ox3qn
    @HarleyButler-ox3qn 2 місяці тому +13

    Ow no, what will the preditors at the BBC do now!

  • @esparda07
    @esparda07 Місяць тому +2

    To some it's a crisis.
    To the healthcare community it's another money making opportunity.

  • @Nana-rn3iq
    @Nana-rn3iq Місяць тому

    Before having a family one must need money and be financially stable.

  • @sirblackshield8000
    @sirblackshield8000 Місяць тому +4

    Feminism