How to Look Professional with Long Hair Over 50

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  • @tracybrown9752
    @tracybrown9752 Рік тому +144

    The best part of being older is not caring what other people think. Wear your hair long and free. Who cares…do your own thing.

    • @notesc821
      @notesc821 Рік тому +1

      Some of us love ourselves enough to care how we take care of ourselves… for ourselves. 😮

    • @samd2762
      @samd2762 Рік тому +16

      Exactly. I stopped messing with my hair and discovered I have long blonde healthy curls that are going white. I don’t blow dry it, I don’t straighten it, I don’t part it any certain way, it’s wild and free and has never looked better or matched my personality more. My hair has fallen out many times, so it’s exciting. I find the “some people care how they look” comment to be sanctimonious and completely misses the point. Some people know what’s important, some don’t. Aging is amazing, I embrace it fully because I’m lucky to have the opportunity to do it. There’s nothing shameful or wrong about it. I severely doubt I’ll be on my deathbed regretting doing a center part rather than a side part.

    • @FROCKT
      @FROCKT Рік тому +8

      BRAVO !!!! You are sooooo right 😊

    • @MsLouisVee
      @MsLouisVee Рік тому +4

      You go, girl

    • @lumity238
      @lumity238 11 місяців тому +4

      Yes, im 65 and have long hair and i do not care about people think of me, i love myself and I Love My Hair.☺️

  • @debbieventimiglia2216
    @debbieventimiglia2216 Рік тому +55

    I am 68 and I have tailbone length hair that thick, wavy, auburn, age is just a number. If I don't wear it down, I wear it in a waist length side braid, or protective style s like milkmaid braids, I love my long hair.

    • @robinluettke47
      @robinluettke47 Рік тому +2

      How do you do your milkmaid braids?

    • @MsLouisVee
      @MsLouisVee Рік тому +2

      You go, girl

    • @rasberryfields2132
      @rasberryfields2132 2 місяці тому

      I ❤ braids! Thinking about growing my own! I'm 69 and trying to follow
      "the rules" is robbing my joy! Good for you!

  • @judymitchell27
    @judymitchell27 10 місяців тому +1

    Your hair is so silky looking! Beautiful!

  • @ElfinMadness
    @ElfinMadness Рік тому +4

    I don’t want to look Professional at all, but confident, artistic, authentic. Wigs are great.

  • @mariankeller5852
    @mariankeller5852 Рік тому +8

    I'm almost 80 and my hair is below my shoulders..I wore it curly most of my life until I got a bad perm 2 years ago that destroyed my hair.. after wearing straight hair that made me look old and tired I got another perm....my hair is curly..soft and looks great ..My attitude changed..I no longer feel my age..even my husband says I Iook yesrs younger..I feel more like my old self again..and it feels good

  • @rasberryfields2132
    @rasberryfields2132 2 місяці тому

    Your hair is beautiful and healthy looking! That deep side part is called a C-part. Blessings!

  • @helene615
    @helene615 Рік тому +29

    I'm 63 this year and have had mid-back length for a few years. I've got a long narrow face, so I get where you're coming from with trying to prevent elongating the face.
    My hair is dark brown and uncoloured, with a white strip just to the side of centre. I love it and try to use it when putting my hair into any style. I don't curl it as my hair doesn't hold curls without "stuff" which I'm sensitive to, but it has a bit of natural wave that I can use to my advantage. However, I usually braid it when it's first washed so it dries into lovely waves.
    Last year I learned how to use hair sticks and they are my go-to for everyday and dressy when I want my hair up. Left down, it depends on a good cut with light layers that give movement.
    Sometimes I don't mind the "stark" look of hair pulled back, but I prefer something more soft. I dislike wisps around my face, but some face-framing layers world be nice. Maybe next time!
    I grew up in the era that said that older women shouldn't have long hair. I love my long hair and thing it's very flattering and feminine. Short hair only emphasizes my strong features. Going to keep the length for as long as I can maintain it myself! I've got years to go!!

  • @Rosa-tr3bx
    @Rosa-tr3bx 10 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful hair, love the styles. My daughter would like this.

  • @treasureslayer3049
    @treasureslayer3049 2 роки тому +9

    You have the most beautiful hair it’s always so shiny

  • @jo-penford
    @jo-penford Рік тому +5

    I have a hair consult tomorrow.. was going to get my long hair all cut off... now I'm going to keep my hair long but get it thinned out and blonder. Thank goodness I saw your video.

  • @karengilchrist3854
    @karengilchrist3854 Рік тому +4

    I think the best part is your hair looks super healthy and shiny. At 63, I am growing my hair out and going for a healthy looking shoulder length. My hair is fine and straight so I think that’s the optimum for me.

  • @christinahickman9497
    @christinahickman9497 Рік тому +53

    When are we going to stop putting all these rules and restrictions on woman ??!! Who decides how long our hair gets to be or how we wear it? Who decides what we get to wear or what is or is not in style this year?? We need to STOP this.
    I'm 49. My hair is almost to my waist and it's healthy and beautiful on me and no one is going to tell me any different. Ladies, stop putting limitations on yourself. Do what looks and feels right for you. Not what society says you should do.

  • @fionafrazer8820
    @fionafrazer8820 Рік тому +17

    Your part is in a really good place. A center part is one of the most unflattering parts for women of a certain age. It accentuates the nose (which is still growing as we age) and makes the face look longer (only good if you have a really round face). A side part is much softer, and usually gives more height to the crown.

    • @Sienna-s5p
      @Sienna-s5p Рік тому +2

      I have long thick hair. 67. I go with a Lob, basically. And my part is center just off cowlick. So for me I can't do Side part. And I've already done Rhinoplasty 😅

    • @MsLouisVee
      @MsLouisVee 11 місяців тому

      I agree the center part is not flattering for most women

  • @user-ov4wr5yu4r
    @user-ov4wr5yu4r 11 місяців тому +2

    So many people are like "Don't tell me what to do". 🙄 I don't feel like you're doing that. I wear my hair loose whenever I want, but if you have new ideas I like, I'm all for it. Different styles for different days. 😊👍

  • @jenneke2
    @jenneke2 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for the easy and elegant do-able styling tips. I also have long hair and two left hands when it comes to teasing, Bobby pins or “products”. I’ve a tip that has been a game changer for me…the Goody company has a pin called spin pins or twirly pins that come 2 or 3 to a package and in two sizes. Even in my heavy straight hair, I only need 2 of them to make a upstyled bun that lasts all day. Easy peasey!😅

  • @LenaSheppard
    @LenaSheppard 2 роки тому +6

    Oh your hair is so pretty and long! I've always had like short, short hair & I've been growing it out but battling hair thinning.
    Thank you for keeping us company !

  • @AlisonCartwright-t5u
    @AlisonCartwright-t5u Рік тому +1

    I enjoy the way you edit; I appreciate that you don't waste our time with unnecessary chat while you do the obvious. There are many videos I have to quit for thst reason

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much for noticing that. I wouldn't say I always do it that way, but I try! I get bored easily, so I like to keep the video moving. Thanks again!

    • @MsLouisVee
      @MsLouisVee Рік тому

      Yes, same I hate chatting chatter chatter gossip gossip, just get to the point and stick to it. I’ve clicked off many videos for that reason.

  • @notesc821
    @notesc821 Рік тому +1

    Your hair is so silky and thick! Goegeous

  • @barbaramelady110
    @barbaramelady110 Рік тому +5

    Really your best is the look just at the beggining of Your video ,so natural and beautiful nothing juvenile about it in my opinion xo

  • @SheenaDeyo
    @SheenaDeyo 7 місяців тому

    God Bless you, Thank you for helping me with my hair!

  • @lucindamoran8686
    @lucindamoran8686 Рік тому +2

    I am 69 and have lovely dark brown wavy hair that l wear up or down many different ways! My hair is just as beautiful as in my youth! Feel fortunate&BLESSED! I don't worry about what others think! I enjoy my hair! I also am a hairdresser! Still working in a salon! What ever style l chose is professional! Lol!

  • @laurameng3715
    @laurameng3715 11 місяців тому

    You have absolutely beautiful hair! It cooperates and does what you want it to do, and you have given very lovely examples. Thank you!!

  • @sweetpea9737
    @sweetpea9737 Рік тому +1

    I like your hair back with the clip--very chic!

  • @kellyhirsch8542
    @kellyhirsch8542 2 роки тому +10

    Thank you Bobbie!!! My hair is a similar length, and I really loved seeing how you style your hair. Your hair is gorgeous! I haven't played with bigger barrel curling irons. I'm going to have to try them 🙂

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  2 роки тому

      Yes…try them! It makes a huge difference!

  • @calisun3652
    @calisun3652 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks Bobbie. Love all your hair style ideas. I do a French twist with 2 smaller clips (then doesn’t hit the headrest when driving). 😃🌸🌺

  • @marlettamcclain1950
    @marlettamcclain1950 11 місяців тому

    You and your hair are absolutely beautiful

  • @bethbilous4720
    @bethbilous4720 Рік тому +2

    This is what I needed right now, as growing mine out for daughters wedding. Its making me crazy right now, so thanks a ton.

  • @SandiTink
    @SandiTink 2 роки тому +6

    Your hair is so shiny, silky, and healthy. What products do you use on it?

  • @lisachurch6814
    @lisachurch6814 2 роки тому +1

    I ordered 2 of those side ways clips when you had them in yahoos and boos. Best hair clips EVER. I wear mine to the pool all the time. They are great when you are cleaning the house too! ♥️

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  2 роки тому

      Oh good! I’m glad they work well for you Lisa!

    • @DawnH123
      @DawnH123 Рік тому

      @@MindfulMidlife what clips is she referring to? I tried looking up the description she gave but was not able to find anything. Thanks.

  • @leoramessinger6795
    @leoramessinger6795 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you. My hair is at the same length. You got me ready for summer.

  • @kathleens3848
    @kathleens3848 11 місяців тому +1

    I like that your hair is very shiny what products to use including colors?

  • @helenconnell5195
    @helenconnell5195 9 місяців тому

    I do a quick and imperfect French braid. Fold it up, secure with a narrow band and use the clip over the top. The French braid is hidden, my grey streaks look cool, I get height at the top and no loose bits.

  • @ruthlutz7389
    @ruthlutz7389 8 місяців тому

    I absolutely love the color of your hair. Do tell color and highlights 🙂. Ruth

  • @Foxeknighton-beatty3438
    @Foxeknighton-beatty3438 Рік тому +3

    What kind of comb/brush are you using? I love your various styles! I am 68 with long hair that I don’t want to cut. These are great ideas for me.

  • @christinefarrall9391
    @christinefarrall9391 Рік тому

    Yes. That's what I do with my part. I spend time parting it, and parting it until I get it right.

  • @sandiland0000
    @sandiland0000 11 місяців тому

    hahee your so funny (edits) 😂🤣 and wonderful and nice job😊 i’m going to try combing my hair differently when putting it up in a ponytail. God bless

  • @deannawiggins9992
    @deannawiggins9992 11 місяців тому

    Your hair is so healthy

  • @vickihenyon2287
    @vickihenyon2287 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your styles with us. Sunglasses HEADBAND!?! You've just brought more joy to my life! :) I didn't see a link in the description to give you some credit, but I had to order one to try. Happy New Year!

  • @oilinmylamp
    @oilinmylamp Рік тому

    Great video! Great tips!

  • @altarockerinamusicalmood3887
    @altarockerinamusicalmood3887 7 місяців тому

    You have fabulous hair! More power to all women for making their own choice, without pushback from anyone, including dopey men. Your hair would really look beautiful underwater. You should try that!

  • @susanbhatt3128
    @susanbhatt3128 11 місяців тому

    So entertaining and informative!

  • @kapangaf1
    @kapangaf1 9 місяців тому

    your hair color is gorgeous

  • @lynettemaritz5653
    @lynettemaritz5653 Рік тому

    Lovely thanks. Your hair is beautiful

  • @jackiedavis6398
    @jackiedavis6398 2 роки тому +1

    I am so envious of your hair! I have grown mine out from a pixie. It's just now long enough where I can pin it up or pony tail

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  2 роки тому

      I had a pixie as well! It takes a long time but I won’t go back. I like long way better.

  • @sharonczalbowski457
    @sharonczalbowski457 2 роки тому +2

    Your hair looks so pretty that length. Healthy too. I liked the deep side part and wavy with curling iron. Love the Magic Root cover up. My go to. You gave a lot of options. Thanks Bobbie😊.

  • @Marykellogg
    @Marykellogg Рік тому +1

    Getting my hair cut tomorrow!!!!!!

  • @laurawatson7182
    @laurawatson7182 Рік тому

    You made that video fun to view!! Thank you for your instruction. It was helpful.

  • @user-qv4ni9hd8m
    @user-qv4ni9hd8m Рік тому

    Thank you for your tips! 💕 Kim

  • @KROERT
    @KROERT 2 місяці тому

    Your eyeshadow colors are beautiful. You and I have sort of similar coloring although I don’t have your pretty blue eyes. What eyeshadow are you wearing? 🙂. Thank you for the great styles.

  • @wwlt.trevor0512
    @wwlt.trevor0512 3 місяці тому

    I, too, grew up around women who only wore short, permed hair after a certain age. Thank God I stopped thinking short hair was my only option. My hair is long, wavy, uncolored & thick with a gray streak at each temple. My hair problem is it gets frizzy and can look too much like Rosanna Rosanna Danna but I can’t find an affordable salon who listens & knows I need some layering to make it lay down.

  • @brigittedossor8167
    @brigittedossor8167 2 місяці тому

    Beautiful and helpful

  • @lfmccune
    @lfmccune 2 роки тому +3

    Great video! I too had problems with wearing a large clip in the back, particularly when I wanted to wear a Summer hat. I started braiding my hair to the side and rolling it up in what I call a "Half Leia," coiled and clipped just behind one ear. My hair is very fine so this worked for me. I love the look the curling irons gave you! Thanks for sharing the links!!

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  2 роки тому +1

      Sounds pretty!

    • @debbielee7117
      @debbielee7117 Рік тому

      I also wear the “Half Leia” bun behind my right ear. Great minds think alike!

    • @cathymartin8778
      @cathymartin8778 11 місяців тому

      Clips in the back can be a "pain" while driving for me

  • @VallerieMalkin
    @VallerieMalkin 11 місяців тому

    It helps that you have really good hair!

  • @rachelmaier1057
    @rachelmaier1057 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your video. I got a few ideas where i can wear my long hair. I use clips and hair bands. I wear braids most of the time. When my hair was above my shoulders i used lots of clips. No clip stays in my hair now. I use bobby pins and hair spray. My hair is too thick and long, it's my culture. First time watching your video and it was interesting. 👍

  • @lilshaz8378
    @lilshaz8378 Рік тому +7

    My hair is mostly white now and I grew it long. You only live once 😅

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  Рік тому +1

      Oh man...I love white hair! Mine has a few grey strands, but I don't think I'll ever go completely white or grey. My mom isn't and she's 83.

  • @loislind4242
    @loislind4242 2 роки тому +1

    Bobbie, this was wonderful!!💜

  • @Nana_to_four_beauties
    @Nana_to_four_beauties Рік тому

    Ohhh thank you I love them all

  • @bethbilous4720
    @bethbilous4720 9 місяців тому

    I agree it looks good

  • @carolcoleman7107
    @carolcoleman7107 Рік тому

    Lovin your hair that length and style..❤

  • @vickileonardson9130
    @vickileonardson9130 Рік тому

    Love these ideas. Thank you!

  • @kallasusort2986
    @kallasusort2986 11 місяців тому +1

    At 69 years old I wear my hair in a long braid to control it and it looks tidy and contained. No haircuts, no major upkeep. Just Natural ....

  • @TLH3795
    @TLH3795 2 роки тому +1

    Great video, I do all the same hairstyles other than the curls, but you have inspired me to get another curling iron 😊. Another one I do is do your deeper part pull just the side part bit of hair up on one side kind of right above your ear but a bit behind and secure with bobby-pins criss crossed.

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  2 роки тому +1

      Ok…I can’t picture it. I wish you could link a picture here.

    • @TLH3795
      @TLH3795 2 роки тому +1

      @@MindfulMidlife I do the deeper part and pull my “bangs” to the side and use Bobby pins to hold it. Like a swag in a curtain but only on one side. 😂

  • @deborahanley8230
    @deborahanley8230 2 роки тому +2

    You have such awesome hair! Great video! Thx!

  • @suevantassel1406
    @suevantassel1406 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for your tips, I think your cute. You remind me of my niece.🤗

  • @grettalemabouchou6779
    @grettalemabouchou6779 Рік тому +1

    My hair is 28inches from root to tip. I am in my 60s. I really love my long hair 💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  Рік тому

      That is awesome! I used to wonder if I was getting too old for longer hair, but now...I DON'T CARE! I look so much better with some length on it. Wow...28 inches...Love it!

    • @MsLouisVee
      @MsLouisVee Рік тому

      You go, girl

  • @Sheba62000
    @Sheba62000 Рік тому +1

    I’ve waited my whole life to have someone show me how to put my hair in a ponytail. 🤣

  • @stellah1643
    @stellah1643 Рік тому

    Thanks for the tips!

  • @patb8138
    @patb8138 2 роки тому

    Your hair is gorgeous!

  • @annawhite2572
    @annawhite2572 11 місяців тому

    I wish my 66 yr old hair was that thick! I'm total grey but have loss so much on top and sides! If I expose my frame on top, you see each individual hair on my scalp! 😬 I like longer hair but feel self conscious about the loss! Your hair is beautiful.

  • @IMOO1896
    @IMOO1896 11 місяців тому +1

    I’ve not cut my hair since 2020, and I’m sure there are man6 who can say the same. I have very light gray naturally highlighted thru, with a streak that cuts thru very dark. I simply twist and clip. Never have I had such easy hair

  • @denisegoodin5941
    @denisegoodin5941 Рік тому

    Your hair is beautiful!

  • @suzannemckitterick2781
    @suzannemckitterick2781 Рік тому

    Very nice. Thank you. Useful and easy info I will duplicate.

  • @sunshinegirl1655
    @sunshinegirl1655 Рік тому +3

    Almost all of women on those Housewives shows wear their long and it doesn't appear juvenile. They aren't teenagers. Maybe hair in two pigtails with ribbons would be juvenile, but simply having longer hair shouldn't be an issue. Type of hair can also be a factor. For those with curly hair wearing it longer can give more styling options without having to use alot of heat or a ton of products. However, I really like the suggestions here and appreciate the video.

  • @phido9235
    @phido9235 Рік тому

    I love your video and will do it sometime
    Thanks ❤️

  • @andreareed8365
    @andreareed8365 2 роки тому

    Great info! Neither here nor there in the big scheme of things, but you say "exemplifies" and I think you mean "accentuates"... Love your presentation either way!!

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  2 роки тому

      I say things wrong all the time! 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @jo-penford
    @jo-penford Рік тому

    You have lovely hair !!

  • @sandrablow6305
    @sandrablow6305 11 місяців тому

    Gtreat video!!!

  • @Vamsee7
    @Vamsee7 Рік тому

    Very pretty ❤

  • @Jennifr1966
    @Jennifr1966 11 місяців тому

    Do you do your own highlights? I cannot afford to get mine done.

  • @Leaffycottage
    @Leaffycottage Рік тому

    You have gorgeous shiny hair.

  • @maureensmiley6722
    @maureensmiley6722 Рік тому

    You have beautiful hair.

  • @julielopez7475
    @julielopez7475 Рік тому

    You have the prettiest blue eyes

  • @jenniferharris3989
    @jenniferharris3989 11 місяців тому

    My hair does what it wants on any given day I don't fight it I put on my mascara and lip gloss and a pair of funky pants and strut my stuff

  • @jessiejohnson6016
    @jessiejohnson6016 Рік тому +1

    You don't look like a little girl you look amazing 😍

  • @marydlutes1792
    @marydlutes1792 Рік тому

    You have great hair.

  • @denisefuentes7905
    @denisefuentes7905 Рік тому +4

    I spend all that time with the curler and 5 minutes later the curl/wave is completely gone. Yes, I’ve used every product in existence.

    • @hollyavillella554
      @hollyavillella554 Рік тому

      Try diluting a teaspoon of sugar in a cup of water in a spray bottle. Lightly mist your hair before curling. Spray each section individually, comb through, curl. Sugar "hairspray" works very well with hot rollers. Hope it works for you! Totally nontoxic and economical!

  • @maureensmiley6722
    @maureensmiley6722 Рік тому

    What shampoo and conditioner do you use?

  • @KathleenHopper-o3j
    @KathleenHopper-o3j Рік тому

    I know this is an old video but had a question,how is your hair cut?

  • @jessiejohnson6016
    @jessiejohnson6016 Рік тому

    Love your videos ❣️

  • @dianag4025
    @dianag4025 Рік тому

    What dry shampoo do you recommend?

  • @bonnirpottet1048
    @bonnirpottet1048 Рік тому +6

    I am 67 yrs old and my hair is past my butt by 4 inches, i never tie it up. My hair has been long all my life. Your hair is very pretty, but i would not call it long. It is short to me.

  • @joanobrien7754
    @joanobrien7754 2 роки тому

    Your hair is beautiful...where do we find the holder for your hair that is flat against the head?

  • @marynall7280
    @marynall7280 2 роки тому

    Would you list the clips you used? I love the large one.

    • @MindfulMidlife
      @MindfulMidlife  2 роки тому

      Some we purchased in a store in CA that I can't remember, but we also got these from Amazon: amzn.to/39mbDi5

  • @jo-penford
    @jo-penford Рік тому

    How the heck did you get that butterfly comb from your mouth...impressive😊

  • @reginaclarke1574
    @reginaclarke1574 28 днів тому

    The top layer of my hair is your length but really frizzy. I have bought in all kinds of products and nothing helps. Heat seems not to help, either. The layers underneath are naturally curly and smooth and look grand. I wish I could make the top layer look the same! Oh, top layer is gray and layers underneath are brown, unchanged from my natural color when I was younger. Weird.

  • @sue-w6x8n
    @sue-w6x8n 11 місяців тому

    I am 57 snd embracing what the Lord has given me naturally, a crown of glory, which are my grey hairs, but they are growing in exactly where you say to highlight, so I guess I have natural God given highlights! 😂 I think we should embrace aging with grace and dignity and just own the way we look! 💜👍💜

  • @Lilyflowers659
    @Lilyflowers659 Рік тому +1

    I have flushes still. and have to pin my hair up all the time.

  • @hilarybowering1246
    @hilarybowering1246 Рік тому

    What kind of tongs do you use

  • @christinefarrall9391
    @christinefarrall9391 Рік тому

    Nice.

  • @Pkeats817
    @Pkeats817 Рік тому

    I have only anout 1/10th of your hair. However, my part is exactly the same and my natural grey is highlighting my face. I also can’t get my hair to be that long being that is paper thin and fine.