I have a colleague who cut her mother and family out of her life, for reasons that I think are really trivial. She made his family her whole life. She had been married for 22 years when the husband started an affair with his secretary and left her. His entire family knew this. She is also a recent breast cancer survivor. Now my colleague is sitting without the ex in laws and without her own family. Her family has rejected her attempts at reconciliation. Sad sad story. And to this bride, your mum should be there.
We don’t know the backstory but this sucks on all levels. From all parties. The daughter is totally unfeeling; the mother is cringeworthy with her begging. Dad gets to be there but mom doesn’t? There is never going to be a win for anybody in this story. 😢
If the bride doesn't want her mother there then the bride doesn't want her mother there. If the groom doesn't want his family there then that's the right because it's their wedding and they're paying for it. Everybody's entire stance in this comment section. Well, at least a lot of you are that everybody who ever elopes are selfish people. They're not that people are allowed to have the wedding day they want. And not have to kowtow to what everybody else wants.
Oh, but she's heard it so many times, and she's so darned _tired_ of it! Why won't her silly mother simply... get over the fact her daughter doesn't want her at her wedding? After all, the day is about the bride. It has nothing whatsoever to do with family who love her, have supported her, and wish to _continue_ to be supportive of her, and want to celebrate this milestone with her. Sheesh. If I were as dismissive of my mother as she is of hers, I would have deserved all the nasty things Mama said about me throughout my life.
If I were this mother and sisters, I would not have been there. First your mother had to deal with the divorce and it’s trauma, now she has to deal with your betrayal. Shame on you.
This woman is a jerk. Inviting her immediate family will "create a snowball effect"? She thinks then she has to invite dozens of people? Of course she doesn't. Either have a very small wedding in Tuscany - include the mother who birthed you painfully from her loins - or just skip Tuscany and have a larger wedding in Houston. You can go to Tuscany for your honeymoon. You don't have to get married there. Everyone thinks you're cruel and they're all correct !
If her mom has been a nightmare all her life or it’s just going to be her and her husband MAYBE I can understand. But she said “really small ceremony”. What does that mean? Is it you, your husband and the witness? Snowball effect sounds like she’s thinking she’s avoiding stepping on toes or hurting people’s feelings. But I think people would totally understand if you invited your parents. Again, maybe if her mom was a nightmare. But it appears they have a good relationship. And if it’s because of the cost, the sisters joked they had their tickets booked so it appears they’d be willing to pay for their own tickets. And if they don’t want to stress about including others in their plans as they explore Tuscany, they can just make that clear that they will have to make their own plans with lodging and entertainment or such. To think that there are many brides who would do anything to be able to have their parents with them and present at an important day in their life.
She's not cruel, she's not a jerk. And yes, inviting family causes a snowball effect. How many brides and grooms have given up on what they want because it's not what their families want. Probably more than not. As somebody who's planning a wedding. Me and my fiance don't want children at our wedding. The guilt tripping and emotional manipulation sound just like what the mother's doing. We are paying for the wedding on our own by ourselves. No help from anyone. My fiance biggest request for the entire wedding was that we got married in an old Victorian estate that doesn't allow children. I'm not rearranging my entire wedding and not putting what my fiance wants over what you want any day. And if that makes me a jerk or selfish. I really don't care what judgy people like you have to say. This bride and her groom are allowed to have the wedding they want. You know why cuz they're paying for it and you know why else because it's their wedding. And if they want to have a private ceremony with just the two of them that's their right. That's what it means when you elope people. Because if you're saying absolutely everybody that's ever eloped on the face of this planet that they're selfish genetic, I think that says more about you than it does about the people who have allowed. And I understand people are really uncomfortable when women have backbones and make a boundary and they stick to it. As a woman who has a backbone myself makes clear boundaries and expects people to respect those boundaries. I'm not going to apologize for that. Just like this woman shouldn't have to. I'm sorry. Karen, your kid is not coming to my wedding because your need to bring your your kid to my wedding is not as important as what my fiance wants. Because I'm making a commitment to him not you. And if you can't make it cuz you can't be away from your child, I completely understand. And you can see the wedding photos if you'd like when I choose to share them. I'm not going to cry or be sad that you can't come. Sorry. Not sorry
@@LLandS18 There's a big diference between 1) not inviting your mother, and 2) not inviting any children. It's perfectly fine to not invite children, I've been to many weddings where children weren't invited and people with children may not like it - but everyone understands why it's being done. Not inviting your own parents is a whole other deal and it is cruel.
She doesn't divorced her husband within a year of marrying him. Gave absolutely no explanation and wouldn't settle the divorced w/o compensation. He eventually just gave in to her demands just to get out of the relationship. Within 8 months of her ending the relationship she was pregnant by another man and is likely married to him. Her ex-husband is now married to an amazing woman who treats him well. It's all on his Facebook, and you can Google their wedding in Italy and video..
@@kristagerry8505Yes, I heard about it all before and her ex dodged a bullet and marrying her was a big mistake. Glad he is married to a better woman now.
I would have given anything to have my mom at my wedding. I lost my parents to death before I got married. One day when her mom is gone, she will regret that decision
Now there are things that we don’t know about. I was NOT close to my mother because of her narcissistic behavior. She was toxic to me. She’s gone, and I don’t feel anything. So there goes your theory
Factually, you don’t know more about this type of relationship than this woman. Genuinely, your comment is blatantly threatening. It encourages suffering. If you missed your mother, and valued that relationship, you wouldn’t threaten the same grief on another out of envy and disapproval of choice - thats f’d up. Her relationship with her mother is long, personal, and includes a lot of private information…and likely lots of challenges. Estrangement and strained relationships exist for a reason - peaceful coexistence and survival. Factually you have no idea what type of mother she is - and no reference point to judge it. You don’t know the daughters reasons. And most importantly, you don’t have to. I understand wanting to know what it’s like…longing for it even. But keep in mind, not everything is sunshine, lollipop’s, and rainbows. Shit happens - as well you know. Things like death of a beloved child’s parents, and also, conversely, things like being born directly into the arms of an abuser that only conceived you so they could have something to easier to hurt. Don’t forget the other side of the coin.
How selfish not to have you parents at your wedding. One of my friends had a big wedding in Tuscany and we all paid to go.We had a week's holiday in Italy at the same time. It was wonderful.
There are brides who really want their mothers to be at their wedding but can't because of an illness or because mom passed away. Elopement was brought up and that's fine but that is usually done without bringing your mom to watch her daughter try on wedding gowns etc. I think that it would be very painful to not be invited to a daughter's wedding.
Yeah, my biological father died and people used to say that about me not having him in big events in my life. I don't regret it. In fact, one of the best things about looking back at those photos besides the event itself is he's not in them. You don't know their relationship. You've literally watched 10 minute video of them and you think you're an expert. Don't tell people they'll regret things. Also, let's not make entire life plans on what we may potentially or may not potentially in the future. Regret. And I guarantee you if people like you met my biological father, you'd be all like well. Why wouldn't she invite you? He seems like it's such a nice guy. You don't know nothing cuz you don't know that person.
I have 3 daughters and there is no way they wouldn't have me at their wedding. I was blessed to be at 2 of my daughters ceremonies, my oldest daughter is a single mother who doesn't want to get married and that's ok with momma. Italy should of been her honeymoon
I also have three daughters and last month my baby girl got married without me there. It broke what was left of my heart after her father divorced us after 27 years of marriage. I will never understand it and I don’t know that I can ever forgive her because there’s no reason that that other woman was there and I was not. I never would’ve thought that either of my daughters would’ve done anything like that to me or without me.
I am so sorry. That is unforgivable. I am so 😡 angry. Sorry crappy daughter . Daddy must be the financier. My mother passed before I wed. There was a rose and an empty chair. I wished she was there. You deserve so much more.
@@Sauci4Lyfeget over yourself. He divorced YOU, not the children. Furthermore if you can't forgive your daughter than don't vie to be in her life. There's a reason you weren't invited and there's a reason you were divorced. Look in the mirror and take accountability for the part you played in both scenarios. Maybe you'll be able to reconcile with your daughter and be amicable with your ex husband. That is all 😌.
@lovebug6388 YOU don't know either. This woman was fine for 27 yrs then she wasn't. Maybe she was a bad wife and mother, maybe he finally had enough of her crap...OR...maybe he's a $hit husband who left his wife for aging/gaining weight/not "getting" him or any other lame reason men leave their wives. Truth is none of us know. What we DO know is this woman birthed and raised this ungrateful daughter and had every right to be at her wedding. If she were an uncaring mother she wouldn't care about the wedding. Most likely daddy held the purse strings and cutting out wife no. 1 may have been part of the financial package. Either way she's better off without her loser husband and thoughtless daughter.
People elope. And it's okay. People want different weddings than what you want. And quite honestly if my mother behave the way this mother did with the emotional manipulation and gaslighting and black male. No she wouldn't be invited either.
@LLandS18 exactly, so many people in this comments section are saying the daughter is being selfish and is horrible, but you aren't even seeing it from her side.
Still seems odd to not bring your mother BUT there are always two sides to a story. Maybe she couldn’t deal with the drama of both parents and chose no parents??
it really stuck out to me when she said the “domino effect” and “floodgates are open” bc to me it sounds like “my mother is very good at testing crossing my boundaries”
That's the reception ...your wedding day is the most important freaking day...they deserve to be there for it just as much as anyone else. ... SHAME ON YOU
Seems like a wedding at home and honeymoon in Italy makes more sense. Why even have a venue in Tuscany if nobody else is there? That’s weird. There are extra hoops to jump through to get married in Italy. I wonder if it actually happened that way.
Oh hell no 🤣 you know nothing about their relationship outside of this. Mom could be ridiculously manipulative her entire life. There’s obviously an important reason the bride doesn’t want her there. The mom mentioning not being there so many times is red flag enough. The bride set the boundary
No shame on you for thinking you can judge this person after seeing it for 10 seconds. I understand people like you are uncomfortable when women have strong boundaries. But this is what it means to have a boundaries stick with it. And not given to emotional, black, male manipulation and gaslighting. And I understand that makes you uncomfortable because those are probably tactics you use in your relationships, but hopefully for your sakes. Since you can't seem to handle it, you don't ever run into somebody with a shiny spine. Who won't take your BS.
She wouldn’t have to make it up to them if she did the right thing and let her immediate family be in Italy. I’m pretty liberal minded but you don’t slight your parents. My sympathy is instantly not there. And kinda gross she drags them to pick out a dress for a ceremony they won’t be at. Selfish.
Really!! How does a parent being part of the marriage ceremony jeopardize it. Hope she's served the same dish as what she's dishing out to her mother, karma is for real.
No, she's not. I understand that it makes people uncomfortable for women to have boundaries and stick with them. But having boundaries and sticking with them doesn't make one selfish. You're allowed to have the your wedding you want. You know how I know because there's a keyword in that sentence and it's "your"
No, it's not. It's not cruel not to have your parents at your wedding. Unless you're saying absolutely everybody in the history of time. Who's ever eloped is cruel. Then you have a very odd definition of that word.
Yeah I mean how selfish to have the wedding she's paying for the way she wants it. I mean God forbid. I mean doesn't she know that her wedding is really about her mother. Not about her. Making a commitment to her husband the way that her and her husband have always imagine. No no, no, it's about her mother. As someone who's planning a wedding people like you can go pound sand. I don't want kids at my wedding. I'm not having kids at my wedding. If you can't come because you can't be away from your children for one night. Well I respect that. That's your decision but you don't get to make me feel guilty about it. Just like this mother doesn't get to make her daughter feel guilty about having the wedding. She envisions. Because believe it or not my wedding and the daughter's wedding isn't about other people. It's about me and my partner and her and her partner. So no Karen. I'm not changing the location of my wedding venue that My fiance wants. Because your kids can't go there. If you can't come so be it. But you don't get to gaslight me emotionally manipulate me and emotionally blackmail me cuz I don't want to give into your demands. And that's what I feel about this bride. Here's a hint when you have a wedding. You can do whatever you want. You can have a wedding where you get married to your mom. If she's that important. That you're right. But to the rest of us we're going to respect what the bride and groom want and move on with our lives
Someday she will become a mother of a daughter and will finally comprehend how her decision hurts her mother and family. Some here are saying this may be the mom’s fault…well, if that’s the case why have her at Kleinfeld’s with her? The term…invite only the parents and they each pay their own way.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjor hear me out. Maybe she'll actually not be a boundary stomper and be excited. Her daughter gets to have the wedding she wants. An actual healthy mature adult does.
My daughter cut me out of her wedding and included her wealthy dad and his GF, he flew them to Vegas along with many of her friends. She now has a child is divorced, Daddy war-bucks pays the bills but she is alone, and YES after 13 years, i too would reject any attempts for reconciliation. To this bride, you have ONE mother and unless she is the reincarnation of "Mommy Dearest" you are a selfish fool to exclude her! Personally i would not attend the reception! THIS JUST BREAKS MY HEART FOR THE MOM, and Randy, SHAME ON YOU, the very least you should have kept your mouth shut!
Also having a boundary and sticking with it is not selfish. Not giving into emotional manipulation. Black, male and gaslighting is not selfish. In fact, it's the sign of a healthy adult. I understand women having boundaries and sticking with them makes a lot of people really uncomfortable.
She just didn't want her mum there, the "snowballing" is an excuse. Why else would she be happy for Randy to join. No one would say anything about having her mum, its a given.
That's what they are doing. They're eloping. No family members are going to be there on either side. Did you watch this show. Or are you confused cuz she said her father's going to walk her down the aisle at the reception that's going to be held in where they live. It's like you guys have just decided to be mad and now you're just going to make things up because you're mad
My thing is if the family wants to come and pay for all their own accommodations then fine but I also understand the family would want a mini reception to eat and drink and that costs money so if they are willing to help pay for that then allow them
@@JacquelinePayne-cp6iwWRONG. A wedding is a happy occasion to be shared with family and loved ones - it's an announcement to the world that you vow to have chosen this person to share your life with no matter what. Why even have a reception unless she wants the perks that go with it. Shame on this selfish bride.
As someone who's mom has passed, the family dynamics are always complicated. You will never get that chance back. She has mentioned several times she's a perfectionist, I think it's less to do with dynamics and more that she has a vision. She doesn't want anyone at her Tuscany wedding
@@mommynabI agree and I lost my mom and dad so can’t have them there even if I wanted to. This selfish woman refuses to invite her own mom. She divorced so I wonder if she invited her the second time around.
@@mommynabmy condolences for your mother, but you cant project your feelings onto someone else's situation. Im pretty sure she has a good reason. But nobody has to invite the parents to the wedding.
I would never deny my PARENTS…. My biggest supporters….. my best friends….. to attend my wedding. They would be the TWO most important people to be at my wedding. 🤷🏻♀️😔
Well, here's a crazy notion you're not that bright. Your parents are not that mother. It's almost like you're two separate people. And your anecdotical story is not important in this situation. I know crazy that everything that happens on this planet isn't about you and your family, but look you can come to terms with it trust me
My son is getting married this May. He and fiance decided on Costa Rica as their Wedding destination, but only if I could make it. You bet your ass I am going to be there. This bride has her priorities wrong.
No she doesn't. She wants to have a wedding that's about her and her fiance. That's about what the couple wants and not what everyone else in her life wants. With the way the mother is so comfortable with using emotional, black, male and manipulation and gaslighting, it says a lot about their relationship. People are allowed to elope.
The woman can do what she wants for her own wedding. She's making an effort to still keep the family included while holding her ground on what she wants. It isn't her family's wedding, and it especially isn't her mom's. Lots of respect for her.
As a former bride who had my entire wedding plan flipped on its head because I let others convince me they knew what was best, I applaud her for sticking to her guns. But as a mother to a daughter, I would be crushed if I wasn't at her wedding.
We'll see this. Is it the daughter's allowed to have the wedding she wants she's allowed to elope and Tuscany if that's what she wants. The mother's allowed to be hurt by that. Everybody's acting like it's the first person on the planet to every lobe.
You just don't cut your parents out of your wedding day. Your mother gave birth to you and it looks as if you two have a good relationship. There's no excuse for this brides behavior. Her mother's heart will never heal from missing the wedding.
Just because someone gave birth to you doesn't mean you owe them. Anything. Somebody doing what they're legally mandated to do when they have a child that they decided to bring into this world. Doesn't allow you to bounty stop. It doesn't allow you to use emotional manipulation, black, male, and coercion to try to get what you want. This is a perfect example of gaslighting. Also, just because the bride's a woman doesn't mean she isn't allowed to have hard boundaries.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjYou have to stop spreading Reddit lies like they're the truth. That's the only place you can find this. And if you think Reddit is real life, you're the problem. Look, I understand that you've built the narrative up of this woman in your head because you decided any woman who dare has a backbone and sticks to boundaries is toxic but you're wrong.
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj no, you're lying. Everybody else has Google and they know you're lying. That's why the only person in this whole comment section saying any of this nonsense is you. Or people saying oh someone in the comment section said this. Because again, the only place that this information is found is on a fake fake Facebook page that's been flagged by Facebook as being fake. And a Reddit account. Maybe you're not lying. Maybe you're just so gullible you fell for that nonsense. That's just pathetic. Be better to be lying.
@@SonaArtistplease stop repeating this Reddit lie. That's the only place you can find this. Unless you're telling me. You know this couple personally. Which let's be honest you don't.
She's spending thousands on a second dress, traveling to Italy but cannot afford to invite her family to the event....??? Spoiled, spoiled & blaming it on being a perfectionist? Excuse me?
I was supposed to get married in another country as we are international couple. It was killing me that my parents wouldn’t be there. We will have another ceremony and party in my country with family and friends, but still… well we didn’t ended up getting married there😅 I understand there are some people who have good reasons to cut the family, but that bride is just a b….
The WOMAN that CARRIED YOU for 9 months. The WOMAN who was there when YOU TOOK YOUR FIRST STEPS. Entered SCHOOL. GRADUATED. Probably went to COLLEGE HELP PAID YOUR TUITION! Tupac said it BEST… Their isn’t a WOMAN ALIVE WHO CAN TAKE MY MOMMA’s PLACE 🙏🏿❤️ Dear Mama
Not everyone has the same experience of family. Apparently the parents are divorced, Dad's not going to be at the wedding, either, so there may very well be some things they choose not to share on national television as to why the parents are not going to be there. Maybe the parents can't manage to be in the same room at the same time without starting drama and the bride and groom don't want to have to bail her parents out of an Italian jail. Or maybe the groom's parents are the ones with the drama. We don't know and if they don't want to share their reasons that's their right.
Oh yes! How dare somebody have the wedding they want. How dare somebody who's paying for an event have that event the way they want. How dare anybody ever on the face of the planet? Elope. I mean, don't they know that their event is about you and what you want. Cath
Our two daughters had destinations weddings. One had only the couple standing up for them as guests and the other decided at the last minute while on vacation and no one knew until they got back. It’s the way the new generations do these now, we were cool with it and had parties on their return. It was their day!
Oh my God common sense. You mean people get to have the wedding that they want and not completely bow down to what everybody else expects in their lives. Shocking. Are you telling me that even though she's a woman, she's allowed to have hard boundaries and stick with them. Oh my God. This comment section is full of a lot of really toxic people. I'm glad I found your comment because it makes me hopeful for the future Also, I will add as someone who works in victim services and works with a lot of parental abuse cases. I see a lot of familiar behavior from the mother. Like my alarm bells were ringing in the back of my head.
It's hard for me to watch a mom beg her daughter to attend her wedding. It's super sad. Why didn't the bride just invite a few close family members to the Italy wedding? Everyone else will understand I'm sure. I can't imagine getting married without my mom present.
Because that's not what they want. Not her not her fiance. People are allowed to have the wedding they want that they are paying for. If you don't see the mother's behavior for exactly what it is, which is gaslighting and emotionally manipulative that's your problem, not the brides.
She is so selfish...she doesn't want her mother to be at the wedding but she wants her to be at the fitting...she says she wants her mother to be there but she's not even willing to consider to take her there
That just was a different kind of a wedding plan than Im used to. Not having my Mom there, I just couldnt do it. Then again, my Mom and I were best friends. But we dont know what kind of relationship the mother and daughter have together.
She is flaunting going off to Italy in 2 months to elope. I remember when eloping meant you just went and got married and then you came back and told everybody, she’s telling everybody upfront, she wants them to be jealous, she wants to keep telling them that they’re not invited, throwing it in their face, they should care less. I wouldn’t have gone with her dress shopping if I was her mother. You don’t want me at your wedding? Why would I want to dress shop with you. It’s a very very selfish thing that the daughter did. She is lucky that her mother is alive, and that the mother wants to be with her. Selfish girl.
I cannot imagine not being at my daughter’s wedding! That is such an uncaring thing to do to the woman who gave you life and raised you. It’s just cruel.
No, it's not. You're not old a wedding. You're not owed an invitation into your daughter's lives. You're not allowed to use manipulation, emotional, black, male, and gaslighting to get what you want. That's toxic and cruel.
@@LLandS18the entire appointment the daughter rolled her eyes at mom. She is disrespectful. The mom doesn’t seem to be toxic. She is heartbroken. I wonder if mom is paying for the dress, reception etc.?
@AmySpencer-z9e no. And when people don't respect what you want and you emotional manipulation to blackmail you into giving them what they want. Rolling your eyes is being nice.
@AmySpencer-z9e no. I just actually have a backbone. And I don't like people manipulate me into doing something. That's not what I want. You people have never heard of an elopement.
The daughter don't deserve the mother. A good, loving mother is just priceless. To do this to your own mother, after all she's done for you is heart breaking. Everyone else can stay, but the parents should have been invited.
I love it you people. You've watched less than 10 minute clip on their relationship and now you think you're entitled and knowledgeable about all the interpersonal relationships they have with each other. You don't know what that mother's like. That mother could have been manipulative bullying gaslighting using emotional, black male against her daughter. She could have hit her daughter for all you know you don't know. You literally saw a 10-minute clip. Quite honestly how easy the mother slips into emotional manipulation and black male come on. She's comfortable with that behavior because she's familiar with that behavior. Also, having a shiny spine and having boundaries and remaining firm in those boundaries isn't selfish
@LLandS18 Whatever, you're just 1 of those losers Who dump their parents in homes after they've used them. Now you were suddenly hurt, after all they've done for you, you won't give them anything in return. Yes there's incubators who don't deserve the term mother, but this woman is clearly a loving mother. You must feel very proud of yourself, I'll treating your mom. Watch out, karma is coming for you.
@Largo-y what. I own a home and I have a guest home where my mother lives for free. What are you talking about? Project harder. Just cuz your kids don't want you around anymore because you were a bad parent. Doesn't mean that's true for everyone.
Well that's great. When you get married that's what you can do. But what you would do or wouldn't do in a situation. Quite honestly is not relevant to what other people would or wouldn't do.
From a 9 minute clip nobody knows any of the reasons that they are going to Tuscany to get married or why none of their parents or siblings are invited. My oldest son had a large wedding 2 years ago (Nov 5, 2022) He invited his Memaw (my mother), his Uncle & Aunt (my brother & SIL) my oldest nephew, his wife and oldest child (13). He didn't invite his brother or me. There are very complicated dynamics in families of divorce everywhere. Did it hurt my feelings? You're damn right it did I raised him for 16yrs while his father was just like a friend and buddy financing car, insurance, spending money, I even was the one that paid for college, all the books, everything for his dorm room & so much more. When he broke his foot, he didn't call his dad who he was living with he called his mom the RN who was living 700 miles away to find out what to do because he didn't have insurance, so I told him to go to his Memaw and she would go to urgent care with him. His father was off doing his usual "business" that I kept him from for 16yrs but when he got that DL and dad bought the car and I set boundaries, rules and he thought he was all grown up he decided he wanted to go live with his dad for the last month of junior yr and senior year. Do you think I let my mother, brother or him when I heard about the honeymoon to Italy & France last Christmas no. They don't think I saw pictures because it was all supposed to be kept secrets from me even my brother! I knew where the wedding took place and the venue had pictures on their website the next day. I saved one picture of the bride & groom. My poor mother was already in early Dementia and doesn't even remember and doesn't have any pictures, my brother claims he didn't take any with his phone. He's been Allen Funt all our lives he has a digitial camera with all the lens. I never let any of them see my pain cause reality is they don't GAF. One day he's going to realize who the parent really was and who was the drug dealer, thief, had committed attenpted murder, DV on me, was the product of rape and when I said I was divorcing him, he wanted to sign his rights over and never see him again (I've never told him any of this and he's 35) because I'm the better human being.
Love is a two way street, not just what suits the daughter. There are a ton of red flags going on here and I suspect the daughter is going out of her way to hurt her mom and family. Good luck groom. Wink Wink. If your fiancé/wife can do this to her own mom and family, then she can cut you off as well. What groom thinks this is normal? Shame on him too!
You're right, there's a lot of red flags going on from the mother. As someone who works in victim services and works with parental abuse cases all the time. Little alarm bells are going off in the back of my head with how easily the mother slipped into the role of gaslighter, emotional, manipulator. And victimhood. People are allowed to elope. And guess what? It's not selfish. People allowed to have the wedding they want doesn't make them a jerk. Are allowed to have hard boundaries and stick with them doesn't make them selfish.
@ victims advocate? You probably destroy families rather than help to restore them. So tired of so many people under a certain age blaming everything in their lives on their parents without owning any responsibility for their own actions. Parents are not perfect but most of them do not deserve the so called “boundary setting” narrative that you are promoting. My parents are not perfect but I would never treat them the way this spoiled girl is treating them.
I don’t see what the issue is……if mom and the other family members are prepared to pay for their own tickets and stay, then why can’t they go…..selfish little girl, you’ll regret it….!!!!!!!
I can understand wanting to have a small destination wedding but I can't fathom having parents/step-parents. When she says 'the whole family will be at the reception'. I don't think you can lump your parents in with cousins, nieces, nephews...Lots of people have small weddings with just immediate family and then have reception for larger family
My daughter said she wouldn't have dreamt of getting married without me there, in fact I was a witness to the marriage, both myself and my son in laws mum signed the certificate for them!
Im sorry but this is so selfish on this daughter’s part to not have her mother there. Hope she won’t regret this in the future . Wait until she has a daughter and that daughter tells her she can’t come to her own wedding. 😡😡😡
Imma be probably one of the few to say this but, maybe mom and her don’t have that great of a relationship. Maybe the bride just wanted to do a small wedding in Italy and then do a reception afterwards for family and friends after she’s married to lessen her bridal nerves. There’s probably many reasons to why she’s doing things how she is. People say your mom birthed you how could you leave your mom out. But just because she did birth ya doesn’t give her a pass. As Randy said it’s their wedding and they had their reasons.
No she won't. You people have to stop. You have to stop acting like because that's her parents. Their owed access 100% to her life. You're allowed to elope. You're allowed to have a private wedding you're allowed to not have your parents there. And as somebody who's never invited her father to anything as an adult or even as in a as a teenager when I was old enough to finally voice my opinion. And he has now passed on. I don't regret it one second. Not one minute of him not being there. What I regret is not speaking up sooner for myself. And not letting him come to my events and embarrass me. You've literally saw 10 minutes of the relationship and you've decided now that your knowledgeable about all the interpersonal relationships they have going on. Here's a hint you're not
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Oh is it upsetting when people have boundaries and they stick to them. When they won't. Just give you everything you want. Mean don't people realize you're the most important person on the planet. What you want is way more important than what anybody else wants even if it's their own event and they're paying for it. Poor little baby
I feel although the mum is hurt by her not going to the wedding it's not her day and there must be other reasons for her not going. I don't think we are hearing the full story. But the amount of emotional blackmail mum is trying to pull constantly is wild. If that was my mother I would not invite her to shop for dresses. The bride is fixed in her want to have a very small ceremony, mum does have to respect that and she doesn't. It sounds like mum pushes the bride's boundaries constantly and this is one boundary the bride is sticking with.. She is still celebrating back at home.
The bride is ungrateful of all the moments the mom did that the bride was a baby to remember.Just because your mom is at the reception doesn’t mean she will not be at the most loving moment ever.😵Mom,I feel bad for you gave birth to her and this is how she thanks you for her first wedding.😞
Oh good lord, you people have to stop acting like you, owe your parents to bend over backwards and take whatever they want to give you for the rest of your life because they chose to have you. No, you don't. You don't know what their relationship's like. You've no idea you saw 10-minute clip. This mother could hit her daughter in privacy, could scream at her belittle her. From what I saw I saw a mother that yes she's hurt. She's not invited but I also saw her slip very comfortably into the role of gaslighter emotional manipulator. People are allowed to have the wedding they want. And quite honestly just because it's not the waiting you would want or not. The without your family is not f****** irrelevant.
Wow! I think inviting your MOTHER is the least you can do. She said her dad was walking her down the aisle. So how does she justify leaving her mother left out. Mom is most definitely hurt and rightfully so. It bothers me that dad id more important here. I can assure you one day this bride WILL regret this stupid and selfish decision.
Her dad is walking her down the aisle at the reception. Not at the wedding. Nobody's going to the wedding but the bride and groom. I'm not sure but people seem to be pretty confused about the definition of an elopement.
Also, you don't know if she's going to regret this decision as someone who's never invited my father to anything. Once I was old enough to speak up and say I don't want him there and now he's passed away. I don't regret it for a second. Not one teensy tiny second. In fact, what I regret the most is not being brave enough to speak up earlier for what I truly wanted, which is him not to be there. So you have no idea what she'll regret. Maybe she'll look back at her wedding pictures and say wow. I'm glad that I finally stood up to my mother and had what I wanted. Especially when you see how easily and simply that mother slides into gaslighting and emotional manipulation. Maybe she'll be like. I'm glad I had The wedding I've always dreamed about.
I would not have gone with her to pick her dress, and theres no way i would b going to the reception, hope no one turns up then the happy couple can have there reception alone as well as the ceremony, i hope mum didnt pay for her dress
The Mom commenting on she “gave birth” speaks VOLUMES! It screams of Narcissism. People forget that even a Parent, a person who births you, can be toxic. She strikes me as the type of person who has made boundaries with her Mother and the Mother still wont accept those boundaries. The fact she had a card to please let your mother come to Italy is a Narcissistic Flag. One that the Mother was hopping to use as a way of embarrassing or brow beating her Daughter. The daughter saying that this is not the place to have this discussion means that she KNOWS and has prepared herself to shut down her Mother’s ‘antics’ and boundary crossing.
OR she’s desperate to go to her daughter’s wedding. Your trying way to hard to defend the bride with not inviting her family not just her mother. If she doesn’t have a good relationship with her mother she wouldn’t have brought her to the appointment or she would’ve mentioned it in her interviews. It’s ridiculous to not invite immediate family to your wedding. That’s literally what a small wedding is for. ESPECIALLY if they are willing to pay for their own flights. The mom isn’t narcissistic the daughter is just selfish
Oh for God's sakes. Peoples have to stop acting like childbirth is the worst thing on the planet. The mother chose to get pregnant, chose to have the child and chose to raise the child. And she was legally obligated by the law to raise that child. Children don't owe their parents anything.
@@NatalyGarcia1999If you bring parents or anybody it is no longer an elopement. Also what you would or wouldn't support is irrelevant because this isn't your family.
@@NatalyGarcia1999 It's almost like picking a wedding dress and getting married on the wedding day are two different events. It's almost like those situations as tangentially related as they are have nothing to do with each other. And picking a dress is way less stressful than the wedding day. Amazing I know
How hurtful to her mother and family. I hope she paid for this herself. This will bite her in the ass later in life. It’s BS that her mom has to beg to go.
It said they were paying for it themselves. And it's not cruel to elope. You people need to calm down and get your head out of your ass. Guess what? Your kids don't owe you anything Karen. You're not entitled because you chose to bring them into the world.
There the bride and groom. And they get to have the wedding they want. As somebody who's planning a wedding. This attitude and this comment section does not surprise me. The amount of people who think they're entitled to how me and my partner decide to have our wedding is mind-blowing. I used to think that stuff was just made up for TV. As someone who is also a woman and has a very shiny spine and no problem sticking up for herself and what my partner wants people like you can go pound sand.
I don't know why people go to Reddit and think it's the gospel truth. That rumor showed up online before they were even married. This is why we can't have nice things because people are so gullible they think everything they read on online is the gospel truth
I would change the venue or destination so that my parents and family could all be at my wedding. Italy should be the honeymoon. This girl strikes me as being very selfish and dismissive of her mother’s feelings.
My husband and I canceled our wedding (the big one - we later got married by the JP with just our witnesses) because his mother and my sister decided that they were going to take over our wedding. Then his mother said that if we have the formal wedding (and that we did not include her in our plans) that she was going to wear sweats and a ripped shirt to it because, she hated me so much. So we both agreed to cancel it (it was supposed to be on July 23, 13 years ago - we instead go married on Aug. 19 and go to the court house instead. The only thing that I regret is not having my parents there. It really hurt my mom's feelings. I still regret it as my mom passed away 8 years ago.
If you're on good terms with your parents, they should be the first and most important guests on your list; everyone else comes after them. Her mother really loves her and is hurt, but she rolled her eyes at her mother's wish.
If that’s what my daughter wanted, I’d respect her wishes and be happy for her. It’s her day, me not seeing her get married isn’t going to ruin my life or our relationship. As long as she’s happy, I’m happy.
I have a colleague who cut her mother and family out of her life, for reasons that I think are really trivial. She made his family her whole life. She had been married for 22 years when the husband started an affair with his secretary and left her. His entire family knew this. She is also a recent breast cancer survivor. Now my colleague is sitting without the ex in laws and without her own family. Her family has rejected her attempts at reconciliation. Sad sad story. And to this bride, your mum should be there.
We don’t know the backstory but this sucks on all levels. From all parties. The daughter is totally unfeeling; the mother is cringeworthy with her begging. Dad gets to be there but mom doesn’t? There is never going to be a win for anybody in this story. 😢
@ a win, only for the father. And his new wife.
If the bride doesn't want her mother there then the bride doesn't want her mother there. If the groom doesn't want his family there then that's the right because it's their wedding and they're paying for it. Everybody's entire stance in this comment section. Well, at least a lot of you are that everybody who ever elopes are selfish people. They're not that people are allowed to have the wedding day they want. And not have to kowtow to what everybody else wants.
@ elopement is different my friend, in case you don’t know. Nobody’s family is there.
Sad 😢
So she rolls her eyes at her mother's hurt feelings. Nice.
Oh, but she's heard it so many times, and she's so darned _tired_ of it! Why won't her silly mother simply... get over the fact her daughter doesn't want her at her wedding? After all, the day is about the bride. It has nothing whatsoever to do with family who love her, have supported her, and wish to _continue_ to be supportive of her, and want to celebrate this milestone with her. Sheesh. If I were as dismissive of my mother as she is of hers, I would have deserved all the nasty things Mama said about me throughout my life.
she's so mean... i feel sad for the mom...
Yes, that was disgusting!
You have no idea the relationship between these two. Don't be so naive and think a 9 minute clip says anything.
@@MonicaTovar-c8d who raised her to be that way?
If I were this mother and sisters, I would not have been there. First your mother had to deal with the divorce and it’s trauma, now she has to deal with your betrayal. Shame on you.
I wouldn’t have been there for the dress choice. No need to share that experience. She will regreat this
This woman is a jerk. Inviting her immediate family will "create a snowball effect"? She thinks then she has to invite dozens of people? Of course she doesn't. Either have a very small wedding in Tuscany - include the mother who birthed you painfully from her loins - or just skip Tuscany and have a larger wedding in Houston. You can go to Tuscany for your honeymoon. You don't have to get married there. Everyone thinks you're cruel and they're all correct !
darn right she is cruel
If her mom has been a nightmare all her life or it’s just going to be her and her husband MAYBE I can understand. But she said “really small ceremony”. What does that mean? Is it you, your husband and the witness? Snowball effect sounds like she’s thinking she’s avoiding stepping on toes or hurting people’s feelings. But I think people would totally understand if you invited your parents. Again, maybe if her mom was a nightmare. But it appears they have a good relationship. And if it’s because of the cost, the sisters joked they had their tickets booked so it appears they’d be willing to pay for their own tickets. And if they don’t want to stress about including others in their plans as they explore Tuscany, they can just make that clear that they will have to make their own plans with lodging and entertainment or such. To think that there are many brides who would do anything to be able to have their parents with them and present at an important day in their life.
@@Amaryllis-4Uthat was her stepmother not her sister
She's not cruel, she's not a jerk. And yes, inviting family causes a snowball effect. How many brides and grooms have given up on what they want because it's not what their families want. Probably more than not. As somebody who's planning a wedding. Me and my fiance don't want children at our wedding. The guilt tripping and emotional manipulation sound just like what the mother's doing.
We are paying for the wedding on our own by ourselves. No help from anyone. My fiance biggest request for the entire wedding was that we got married in an old Victorian estate that doesn't allow children. I'm not rearranging my entire wedding and not putting what my fiance wants over what you want any day. And if that makes me a jerk or selfish. I really don't care what judgy people like you have to say. This bride and her groom are allowed to have the wedding they want. You know why cuz they're paying for it and you know why else because it's their wedding. And if they want to have a private ceremony with just the two of them that's their right. That's what it means when you elope people. Because if you're saying absolutely everybody that's ever eloped on the face of this planet that they're selfish genetic, I think that says more about you than it does about the people who have allowed.
And I understand people are really uncomfortable when women have backbones and make a boundary and they stick to it. As a woman who has a backbone myself makes clear boundaries and expects people to respect those boundaries. I'm not going to apologize for that. Just like this woman shouldn't have to. I'm sorry. Karen, your kid is not coming to my wedding because your need to bring your your kid to my wedding is not as important as what my fiance wants. Because I'm making a commitment to him not you. And if you can't make it cuz you can't be away from your child, I completely understand. And you can see the wedding photos if you'd like when I choose to share them. I'm not going to cry or be sad that you can't come. Sorry. Not sorry
@@LLandS18 There's a big diference between 1) not inviting your mother, and 2) not inviting any children. It's perfectly fine to not invite children, I've been to many weddings where children weren't invited and people with children may not like it - but everyone understands why it's being done. Not inviting your own parents is a whole other deal and it is cruel.
This young woman has many hard lessons ahead of her…
Yeah it seems like mom has a bad habit/s that daughter knows is gonna ruin the wedding
This girl came off as selfish and didn't care about other people's feelings.
She doesn't divorced her husband within a year of marrying him. Gave absolutely no explanation and wouldn't settle the divorced w/o compensation. He eventually just gave in to her demands just to get out of the relationship. Within 8 months of her ending the relationship she was pregnant by another man and is likely married to him. Her ex-husband is now married to an amazing woman who treats him well. It's all on his Facebook, and you can Google their wedding in Italy and video..
@@kristagerry8505 Thank you for the info!!! Glad he escaped.
darn right as she has a cold heart
@@kristagerry8505Yes, I heard about it all before and her ex dodged a bullet and marrying her was a big mistake. Glad he is married to a better woman now.
@@kristagerry8505 how do I find this to read about it.
I would have given anything to have my mom at my wedding. I lost my parents to death before I got married. One day when her mom is gone, she will regret that decision
Now there are things that we don’t know about. I was NOT close to my mother because of her narcissistic behavior. She was toxic to me. She’s gone, and I don’t feel anything. So there goes your theory
I was blessed with my Dad and my grandparents but my mom wasn’t living when I got married.
@@Ladywolf2263 so sorry for your situation.
But it doesn’t seem like that’s the case with this bride.
@@Ladywolf2263 Not really but that's clearly not the situation here.
Nice try though.
Factually, you don’t know more about this type of relationship than this woman. Genuinely, your comment is blatantly threatening. It encourages suffering. If you missed your mother, and valued that relationship, you wouldn’t threaten the same grief on another out of envy and disapproval of choice - thats f’d up. Her relationship with her mother is long, personal, and includes a lot of private information…and likely lots of challenges. Estrangement and strained relationships exist for a reason - peaceful coexistence and survival. Factually you have no idea what type of mother she is - and no reference point to judge it. You don’t know the daughters reasons. And most importantly, you don’t have to. I understand wanting to know what it’s like…longing for it even. But keep in mind, not everything is sunshine, lollipop’s, and rainbows. Shit happens - as well you know. Things like death of a beloved child’s parents, and also, conversely, things like being born directly into the arms of an abuser that only conceived you so they could have something to easier to hurt. Don’t forget the other side of the coin.
How selfish not to have you parents at your wedding. One of my friends had a big wedding in Tuscany and we all paid to go.We had a week's holiday in Italy at the same time. It was wonderful.
I wish I could have my dad on my day but he died so that ain't gonna happen
There are brides who really want their mothers to be at their wedding but can't because of an illness or because mom passed away. Elopement was brought up and that's fine but that is usually done without bringing your mom to watch her daughter try on wedding gowns etc. I think that it would be very painful to not be invited to a daughter's wedding.
Wow what a selfish daughter! When her mother passes on she will regret it. I would regret it for the rest of my life if I did that to my mom.
Yeah, my biological father died and people used to say that about me not having him in big events in my life. I don't regret it. In fact, one of the best things about looking back at those photos besides the event itself is he's not in them. You don't know their relationship. You've literally watched 10 minute video of them and you think you're an expert. Don't tell people they'll regret things. Also, let's not make entire life plans on what we may potentially or may not potentially in the future. Regret. And I guarantee you if people like you met my biological father, you'd be all like well. Why wouldn't she invite you? He seems like it's such a nice guy. You don't know nothing cuz you don't know that person.
I have 3 daughters and there is no way they wouldn't have me at their wedding. I was blessed to be at 2 of my daughters ceremonies, my oldest daughter is a single mother who doesn't want to get married and that's ok with momma. Italy should of been her honeymoon
I also have three daughters and last month my baby girl got married without me there. It broke what was left of my heart after her father divorced us after 27 years of marriage. I will never understand it and I don’t know that I can ever forgive her because there’s no reason that that other woman was there and I was not. I never would’ve thought that either of my daughters would’ve done anything like that to me or without me.
I am so sorry. That is unforgivable. I am so 😡 angry. Sorry crappy daughter . Daddy must be the financier. My mother passed before I wed. There was a rose and an empty chair. I wished she was there. You deserve so much more.
P.S. I brought my bouquet to her resting place.
@@Sauci4Lyfeget over yourself. He divorced YOU, not the children. Furthermore if you can't forgive your daughter than don't vie to be in her life. There's a reason you weren't invited and there's a reason you were divorced. Look in the mirror and take accountability for the part you played in both scenarios. Maybe you'll be able to reconcile with your daughter and be amicable with your ex husband. That is all 😌.
@lovebug6388 YOU don't know either. This woman was fine for 27 yrs then she wasn't. Maybe she was a bad wife and mother, maybe he finally had enough of her crap...OR...maybe he's a $hit husband who left his wife for aging/gaining weight/not "getting" him or any other lame reason men leave their wives. Truth is none of us know. What we DO know is this woman birthed and raised this ungrateful daughter and had every right to be at her wedding. If she were an uncaring mother she wouldn't care about the wedding. Most likely daddy held the purse strings and cutting out wife no. 1 may have been part of the financial package. Either way she's better off without her loser husband and thoughtless daughter.
Absolutely atrocious behavior.
Poor mom.
As a mother of four daughters, my heart goes out to this mom.
Not even gonna finish this episode.
People elope. And it's okay. People want different weddings than what you want. And quite honestly if my mother behave the way this mother did with the emotional manipulation and gaslighting and black male. No she wouldn't be invited either.
@LLandS18 exactly, so many people in this comments section are saying the daughter is being selfish and is horrible, but you aren't even seeing it from her side.
@@J3cka2008Because she is!
The mother has a right to be upset about this ffs!
Still seems odd to not bring your mother BUT there are always two sides to a story. Maybe she couldn’t deal with the drama of both parents and chose no parents??
No sympathy for her at all.
Mother and stepmother are at the appointment though, so no drama there.
Her dad will be there. They said he would walk her down the aisle.
@@lady7258she said he would walk her down the “Aisle” at the reception, not the wedding.
it really stuck out to me when she said the “domino effect” and “floodgates are open” bc to me it sounds like “my mother is very good at testing crossing my boundaries”
That's the reception ...your wedding day is the most important freaking day...they deserve to be there for it just as much as anyone else. ... SHAME ON YOU
Seems like a wedding at home and honeymoon in Italy makes more sense. Why even have a venue in Tuscany if nobody else is there? That’s weird. There are extra hoops to jump through to get married in Italy. I wonder if it actually happened that way.
Oh hell no 🤣 you know nothing about their relationship outside of this. Mom could be ridiculously manipulative her entire life. There’s obviously an important reason the bride doesn’t want her there. The mom mentioning not being there so many times is red flag enough. The bride set the boundary
The mother & family of the bride is NOT OWED a wedding. The mother already had her day as a bride.
No shame on you for thinking you can judge this person after seeing it for 10 seconds. I understand people like you are uncomfortable when women have strong boundaries. But this is what it means to have a boundaries stick with it. And not given to emotional, black, male manipulation and gaslighting. And I understand that makes you uncomfortable because those are probably tactics you use in your relationships, but hopefully for your sakes. Since you can't seem to handle it, you don't ever run into somebody with a shiny spine. Who won't take your BS.
@@LLandS18 It is blackmail not black male
She gave me bad feelings! Just doesn't come across as being a nice person at all!!
I think we all feel that way.
She wouldn’t have to make it up to them if she did the right thing and let her immediate family be in Italy. I’m pretty liberal minded but you don’t slight your parents. My sympathy is instantly not there. And kinda gross she drags them to pick out a dress for a ceremony they won’t be at. Selfish.
Really!! How does a parent being part of the marriage ceremony jeopardize it.
Hope she's served the same dish as what she's dishing out to her mother, karma is for real.
your mother is crying because her heart is broken.
I don’t think the daughter is selfish. We don’t know their relationship. Give grace people. Especially when you don’t know the circumstances.
☝️☝️☝️☝️This needs to be repeated to all the commenters calling her selfish.
The bride is very selfish.
No, she's not. I understand that it makes people uncomfortable for women to have boundaries and stick with them. But having boundaries and sticking with them doesn't make one selfish. You're allowed to have the your wedding you want. You know how I know because there's a keyword in that sentence and it's "your"
It's cruel to not have your parents at your wedding.
No, it's not. It's not cruel not to have your parents at your wedding. Unless you're saying absolutely everybody in the history of time. Who's ever eloped is cruel. Then you have a very odd definition of that word.
Nothing, I mean NOTHING, will help me understand the selfishness of this daughter! I didn’t even finish watching this!
I didn't either! I can't imagine doing that to my mother.
My point is who is more important than your parents?!?!?!!?? Like the sister wasnt going so like who WHO?!?!! Your friends???? Whatttttttttt
Me too and she is disgusting!
Yeah I mean how selfish to have the wedding she's paying for the way she wants it. I mean God forbid. I mean doesn't she know that her wedding is really about her mother. Not about her. Making a commitment to her husband the way that her and her husband have always imagine. No no, no, it's about her mother.
As someone who's planning a wedding people like you can go pound sand. I don't want kids at my wedding. I'm not having kids at my wedding. If you can't come because you can't be away from your children for one night. Well I respect that. That's your decision but you don't get to make me feel guilty about it. Just like this mother doesn't get to make her daughter feel guilty about having the wedding. She envisions. Because believe it or not my wedding and the daughter's wedding isn't about other people. It's about me and my partner and her and her partner. So no Karen. I'm not changing the location of my wedding venue that My fiance wants. Because your kids can't go there. If you can't come so be it. But you don't get to gaslight me emotionally manipulate me and emotionally blackmail me cuz I don't want to give into your demands. And that's what I feel about this bride.
Here's a hint when you have a wedding. You can do whatever you want. You can have a wedding where you get married to your mom. If she's that important. That you're right. But to the rest of us we're going to respect what the bride and groom want and move on with our lives
Someday she will become a mother of a daughter and will finally comprehend how her decision hurts her mother and family. Some here are saying this may be the mom’s fault…well, if that’s the case why have her at Kleinfeld’s with her? The term…invite only the parents and they each pay their own way.
Exactly !!
Exactly and the cycle will repeat itself. What goes around comes around.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjor hear me out. Maybe she'll actually not be a boundary stomper and be excited. Her daughter gets to have the wedding she wants. An actual healthy mature adult does.
My daughter cut me out of her wedding and included her wealthy dad and his GF, he flew them to Vegas along with many of her friends. She now has a child is divorced, Daddy war-bucks pays the bills but she is alone, and YES after 13 years, i too would reject any attempts for reconciliation. To this bride, you have ONE mother and unless she is the reincarnation of "Mommy Dearest" you are a selfish fool to exclude her! Personally i would not attend the reception! THIS JUST BREAKS MY HEART FOR THE MOM, and Randy, SHAME ON YOU, the very least you should have kept your mouth shut!
Wait, your daughter is going to distance herself from you. She will think you are toxic. It’s the latest thing to do. Your daughter is SELFISH!
Being selfish is very healthy. We don't know their story and how the mother was her whole life.
Also having a boundary and sticking with it is not selfish. Not giving into emotional manipulation. Black, male and gaslighting is not selfish. In fact, it's the sign of a healthy adult. I understand women having boundaries and sticking with them makes a lot of people really uncomfortable.
She just didn't want her mum there, the "snowballing" is an excuse. Why else would she be happy for Randy to join. No one would say anything about having her mum, its a given.
She probably doesn't want Randy there. She was making a joke.
What family members ARE going, if not the parents?
If you don't want any family, elope.
The bride seems to want the drama.
I agree and that was what my second brother did since my whole family was against his marriage.
That's what they are doing. They're eloping. No family members are going to be there on either side. Did you watch this show. Or are you confused cuz she said her father's going to walk her down the aisle at the reception that's going to be held in where they live. It's like you guys have just decided to be mad and now you're just going to make things up because you're mad
Keep the family drama at home. There's certainly much more underneath than needed to be aired on TV
My thing is if the family wants to come and pay for all their own accommodations then fine but I also understand the family would want a mini reception to eat and drink and that costs money so if they are willing to help pay for that then allow them
She will regret that no one is there.
Already divorced
@@aray1312how do you know
@@madisyn.here2132these are old not new
@@madisyn.here2132they don't. They read a story on Reddit and because it fit the narrative they want to have about this woman they ran with it.
@@aray1312You don't know that. The only place that I can find that is on Reddit. And if you think Reddit is real life, you're the problem.
Why not have it with family and honeymoon in Italy. Seriously how selfish
The bride and groom get to plan their own wedding.
@@AFAskygoddess
I agree 💯. We see why NO FAMILY is allowed to come. This bride has to put her foot down. The guilt trip of "I gave birth to you".
@@JacquelinePayne-cp6iwWRONG. A wedding is a happy occasion to be shared with family and loved ones - it's an announcement to the world that you vow to have chosen this person to share your life with no matter what. Why even have a reception unless she wants the perks that go with it. Shame on this selfish bride.
Ask a daughter of a controlling, NPD mother. The young woman is an adult and it’s right for her and her husband to be to make vows alone.
The mother isn’t getting married. It’s the daughters wedding and they can get married the way she wants to
She divorced so I wonder if she invited her mom the second time around.
What??? Is this her 2nd marriage?
@@lovebug6388No, this was her first time and she divorced and is now on her second marriage.
Oh my goodness! How did you find out?
She knows her family dynamics. She knows WHY she doesn't want them in Italy
It can also be that she is selfish too.
As someone who's mom has passed, the family dynamics are always complicated. You will never get that chance back. She has mentioned several times she's a perfectionist, I think it's less to do with dynamics and more that she has a vision. She doesn't want anyone at her Tuscany wedding
@@mommynabI agree and I lost my mom and dad so can’t have them there even if I wanted to. This selfish woman refuses to invite her own mom. She divorced so I wonder if she invited her the second time around.
@@mommynabmy condolences for your mother, but you cant project your feelings onto someone else's situation. Im pretty sure she has a good reason. But nobody has to invite the parents to the wedding.
@@ItsMrstoyoubooI doubt it and I think she is just selfish.
I would never deny my PARENTS…. My biggest supporters….. my best friends….. to attend my wedding. They would be the TWO most important people to be at my wedding. 🤷🏻♀️😔
Well, here's a crazy notion you're not that bright. Your parents are not that mother. It's almost like you're two separate people. And your anecdotical story is not important in this situation. I know crazy that everything that happens on this planet isn't about you and your family, but look you can come to terms with it trust me
My son is getting married this May. He and fiance decided on Costa Rica as their Wedding destination, but only if I could make it. You bet your ass I am going to be there.
This bride has her priorities wrong.
No she doesn't. She wants to have a wedding that's about her and her fiance. That's about what the couple wants and not what everyone else in her life wants. With the way the mother is so comfortable with using emotional, black, male and manipulation and gaslighting, it says a lot about their relationship. People are allowed to elope.
The woman can do what she wants for her own wedding. She's making an effort to still keep the family included while holding her ground on what she wants. It isn't her family's wedding, and it especially isn't her mom's. Lots of respect for her.
Bride has learned to say no🎉🎉. I love that for her.
The way she rolled her eyes at her mom having rightfully hurt feelings was disgusting. What a selfish brat.
As a former bride who had my entire wedding plan flipped on its head because I let others convince me they knew what was best, I applaud her for sticking to her guns. But as a mother to a daughter, I would be crushed if I wasn't at her wedding.
We'll see this. Is it the daughter's allowed to have the wedding she wants she's allowed to elope and Tuscany if that's what she wants. The mother's allowed to be hurt by that. Everybody's acting like it's the first person on the planet to every lobe.
Did you pick friends over your mom?
You just don't cut your parents out of your wedding day. Your mother gave birth to you and it looks as if you two have a good relationship. There's no excuse for this brides behavior. Her mother's heart will never heal from missing the wedding.
Just because someone gave birth to you doesn't mean you owe them. Anything. Somebody doing what they're legally mandated to do when they have a child that they decided to bring into this world. Doesn't allow you to bounty stop. It doesn't allow you to use emotional manipulation, black, male, and coercion to try to get what you want. This is a perfect example of gaslighting. Also, just because the bride's a woman doesn't mean she isn't allowed to have hard boundaries.
And if your heart is so broken because you didn't go to a wedding, you need therapy immediately.
She will regret, for the rest of her life, not having her mother there!
No, she won’t as she divorced so had another chance.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjYou have to stop spreading Reddit lies like they're the truth. That's the only place you can find this. And if you think Reddit is real life, you're the problem.
Look, I understand that you've built the narrative up of this woman in your head because you decided any woman who dare has a backbone and sticks to boundaries is toxic but you're wrong.
@@LLandS18no, she DID divorce! Look it up and no one is lying except for YOU!
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj no, you're lying. Everybody else has Google and they know you're lying. That's why the only person in this whole comment section saying any of this nonsense is you. Or people saying oh someone in the comment section said this. Because again, the only place that this information is found is on a fake fake Facebook page that's been flagged by Facebook as being fake. And a Reddit account. Maybe you're not lying. Maybe you're just so gullible you fell for that nonsense. That's just pathetic. Be better to be lying.
Hopefully her husband isn’t apart of this no mom thang
Ex-husband apparently. They got divorced
@@SonaArtistplease stop repeating this Reddit lie. That's the only place you can find this. Unless you're telling me. You know this couple personally. Which let's be honest you don't.
@@LLandS18 Anthony posted it on his Facebook and Kayla herself did on business insider stating they got a divorce. Pretty easy to look up.
This has been posted before.
Wth!!!! Explain WHY SHE IS NOT GOING?
Randy, sometime YOUR COMMENTS ARE UNNEEDED
I have the feeling can’t afford the trip to Italy.
This young woman is selfish. Best wishes to the groom.
They divorced which is not shocking.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjhow do you know that
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj😮
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fjpero se casó en la Toscana 😏
@@Redyella211It is on the internet and someone mentioned it here too.
She's spending thousands on a second dress, traveling to Italy but cannot afford to invite her family to the event....??? Spoiled, spoiled & blaming it on being a perfectionist? Excuse me?
I was supposed to get married in another country as we are international couple. It was killing me that my parents wouldn’t be there. We will have another ceremony and party in my country with family and friends, but still… well we didn’t ended up getting married there😅 I understand there are some people who have good reasons to cut the family, but that bride is just a b….
The WOMAN that CARRIED YOU for 9 months. The WOMAN who was there when YOU TOOK YOUR FIRST STEPS. Entered SCHOOL. GRADUATED. Probably went to COLLEGE HELP PAID YOUR TUITION!
Tupac said it BEST…
Their isn’t a WOMAN ALIVE WHO CAN TAKE MY MOMMA’s PLACE
🙏🏿❤️
Dear Mama
Totally agree
She didn't ask to be born 😂 mom decided to have her and ask for nothing in return. Your children don't owe you shit.
Not everyone has the same experience of family. Apparently the parents are divorced, Dad's not going to be at the wedding, either, so there may very well be some things they choose not to share on national television as to why the parents are not going to be there. Maybe the parents can't manage to be in the same room at the same time without starting drama and the bride and groom don't want to have to bail her parents out of an Italian jail. Or maybe the groom's parents are the ones with the drama. We don't know and if they don't want to share their reasons that's their right.
@@anjatellem4619 are you sure? Because out of million of sperms, she fought to be born! So, no she CHOSE TO BE BORN.
Agree
So selfish. Mother is nicer than me. I would tell her where to go and how to get there
Oh yes! How dare somebody have the wedding they want. How dare somebody who's paying for an event have that event the way they want. How dare anybody ever on the face of the planet? Elope. I mean, don't they know that their event is about you and what you want. Cath
u should at least have ur parents and thennnn do a reception with everyone
Our two daughters had destinations weddings. One had only the couple standing up for them as guests and the other decided at the last minute while on vacation and no one knew until they got back. It’s the way the new generations do these now, we were cool with it and had parties on their return. It was their day!
Oh my God common sense. You mean people get to have the wedding that they want and not completely bow down to what everybody else expects in their lives. Shocking. Are you telling me that even though she's a woman, she's allowed to have hard boundaries and stick with them. Oh my God. This comment section is full of a lot of really toxic people. I'm glad I found your comment because it makes me hopeful for the future
Also, I will add as someone who works in victim services and works with a lot of parental abuse cases. I see a lot of familiar behavior from the mother. Like my alarm bells were ringing in the back of my head.
It's hard for me to watch a mom beg her daughter to attend her wedding. It's super sad. Why didn't the bride just invite a few close family members to the Italy wedding? Everyone else will understand I'm sure. I can't imagine getting married without my mom present.
Because that's not what they want. Not her not her fiance. People are allowed to have the wedding they want that they are paying for. If you don't see the mother's behavior for exactly what it is, which is gaslighting and emotionally manipulative that's your problem, not the brides.
Your mom was nice to come to your appointment, I really feel for her mother
She is so selfish...she doesn't want her mother to be at the wedding but she wants her to be at the fitting...she says she wants her mother to be there but she's not even willing to consider to take her there
That just was a different kind of a wedding plan than Im used to. Not having my Mom there, I just couldnt do it. Then again, my Mom and I were best friends. But we dont know what kind of relationship the mother and daughter have together.
If she is not having her mother or family at the wedding, why did she even have them go with her to look for a dress? That's just awful!!
She is flaunting going off to Italy in 2 months to elope. I remember when eloping meant you just went and got married and then you came back and told everybody, she’s telling everybody upfront, she wants them to be jealous, she wants to keep telling them that they’re not invited, throwing it in their face, they should care less. I wouldn’t have gone with her dress shopping if I was her mother. You don’t want me at your wedding? Why would I want to dress shop with you. It’s a very very selfish thing that the daughter did. She is lucky that her mother is alive, and that the mother wants to be with her. Selfish girl.
I cannot imagine not being at my daughter’s wedding! That is such an uncaring thing to do to the woman who gave you life and raised you. It’s just cruel.
No, it's not. You're not old a wedding. You're not owed an invitation into your daughter's lives. You're not allowed to use manipulation, emotional, black, male, and gaslighting to get what you want. That's toxic and cruel.
@@LLandS18the entire appointment the daughter rolled her eyes at mom. She is disrespectful. The mom doesn’t seem to be toxic. She is heartbroken.
I wonder if mom is paying for the dress, reception etc.?
@AmySpencer-z9e no. And when people don't respect what you want and you emotional manipulation to blackmail you into giving them what they want. Rolling your eyes is being nice.
@@LLandS18are you the daughter by chance? Or do you know the daughter?
@AmySpencer-z9e no. I just actually have a backbone. And I don't like people manipulate me into doing something. That's not what I want. You people have never heard of an elopement.
i find that daughter super cruel and selfish actually. love the 2 moms
The daughter don't deserve the mother. A good, loving mother is just priceless. To do this to your own mother, after all she's done for you is heart breaking. Everyone else can stay, but the parents should have been invited.
I love it you people. You've watched less than 10 minute clip on their relationship and now you think you're entitled and knowledgeable about all the interpersonal relationships they have with each other. You don't know what that mother's like. That mother could have been manipulative bullying gaslighting using emotional, black male against her daughter. She could have hit her daughter for all you know you don't know. You literally saw a 10-minute clip. Quite honestly how easy the mother slips into emotional manipulation and black male come on. She's comfortable with that behavior because she's familiar with that behavior. Also, having a shiny spine and having boundaries and remaining firm in those boundaries isn't selfish
@LLandS18 Whatever, you're just 1 of those losers Who dump their parents in homes after they've used them. Now you were suddenly hurt, after all they've done for you, you won't give them anything in return. Yes there's incubators who don't deserve the term mother, but this woman is clearly a loving mother. You must feel very proud of yourself, I'll treating your mom. Watch out, karma is coming for you.
@Largo-y what. I own a home and I have a guest home where my mother lives for free. What are you talking about? Project harder. Just cuz your kids don't want you around anymore because you were a bad parent. Doesn't mean that's true for everyone.
I would get married with all family and friends in attendance. I would have the honeymoon in Italy.
Much better idea! ❤
Well that's great. When you get married that's what you can do. But what you would do or wouldn't do in a situation. Quite honestly is not relevant to what other people would or wouldn't do.
From a 9 minute clip nobody knows any of the reasons that they are going to Tuscany to get married or why none of their parents or siblings are invited. My oldest son had a large wedding 2 years ago (Nov 5, 2022) He invited his Memaw (my mother), his Uncle & Aunt (my brother & SIL) my oldest nephew, his wife and oldest child (13). He didn't invite his brother or me. There are very complicated dynamics in families of divorce everywhere. Did it hurt my feelings? You're damn right it did I raised him for 16yrs while his father was just like a friend and buddy financing car, insurance, spending money, I even was the one that paid for college, all the books, everything for his dorm room & so much more. When he broke his foot, he didn't call his dad who he was living with he called his mom the RN who was living 700 miles away to find out what to do because he didn't have insurance, so I told him to go to his Memaw and she would go to urgent care with him. His father was off doing his usual "business" that I kept him from for 16yrs but when he got that DL and dad bought the car and I set boundaries, rules and he thought he was all grown up he decided he wanted to go live with his dad for the last month of junior yr and senior year. Do you think I let my mother, brother or him when I heard about the honeymoon to Italy & France last Christmas no. They don't think I saw pictures because it was all supposed to be kept secrets from me even my brother! I knew where the wedding took place and the venue had pictures on their website the next day. I saved one picture of the bride & groom. My poor mother was already in early Dementia and doesn't even remember and doesn't have any pictures, my brother claims he didn't take any with his phone. He's been Allen Funt all our lives he has a digitial camera with all the lens. I never let any of them see my pain cause reality is they don't GAF. One day he's going to realize who the parent really was and who was the drug dealer, thief, had committed attenpted murder, DV on me, was the product of rape and when I said I was divorcing him, he wanted to sign his rights over and never see him again (I've never told him any of this and he's 35) because I'm the better human being.
Love is a two way street, not just what suits the daughter. There are a ton of red flags going on here and I suspect the daughter is going out of her way to hurt her mom and family. Good luck groom. Wink Wink. If your fiancé/wife can do this to her own mom and family, then she can cut you off as well. What groom thinks this is normal? Shame on him too!
You're right, there's a lot of red flags going on from the mother. As someone who works in victim services and works with parental abuse cases all the time. Little alarm bells are going off in the back of my head with how easily the mother slipped into the role of gaslighter, emotional, manipulator. And victimhood. People are allowed to elope. And guess what? It's not selfish. People allowed to have the wedding they want doesn't make them a jerk. Are allowed to have hard boundaries and stick with them doesn't make them selfish.
@ victims advocate? You probably destroy families rather than help to restore them. So tired of so many people under a certain age blaming everything in their lives on their parents without owning any responsibility for their own actions. Parents are not perfect but most of them do not deserve the so called “boundary setting” narrative that you are promoting. My parents are not perfect but I would never treat them the way this spoiled girl is treating them.
I don’t see what the issue is……if mom and the other family members are prepared to pay for their own tickets and stay, then why can’t they go…..selfish little girl, you’ll regret it….!!!!!!!
I can understand wanting to have a small destination wedding but I can't fathom having parents/step-parents. When she says 'the whole family will be at the reception'. I don't think you can lump your parents in with cousins, nieces, nephews...Lots of people have small weddings with just immediate family and then have reception for larger family
The tears are because they're hurt...
why do u want ur mom at this appointment if she isnt going to see the dress on the wedding day anyway?
i didn't want my parents at my wedding and i really don't regret it. I owe them nothing
Very selfish daughter.
the second dress is nottt it
It was horrible!
My daughter said she wouldn't have dreamt of getting married without me there, in fact I was a witness to the marriage, both myself and my son in laws mum signed the certificate for them!
SELFISH! JUST SELFISH! This girl can NEVER get round "not inviting Ma" to the main event.
Im sorry but this is so selfish on this daughter’s part to not have her mother there. Hope she won’t regret this in the future . Wait until she has a daughter and that daughter tells her she can’t come to her own wedding. 😡😡😡
Imma be probably one of the few to say this but, maybe mom and her don’t have that great of a relationship. Maybe the bride just wanted to do a small wedding in Italy and then do a reception afterwards for family and friends after she’s married to lessen her bridal nerves. There’s probably many reasons to why she’s doing things how she is. People say your mom birthed you how could you leave your mom out. But just because she did birth ya doesn’t give her a pass. As Randy said it’s their wedding and they had their reasons.
I lost my mom 4 years ago, and I gave all to let her be next to me…
Someday if she has a daughter, she will understand.
No she won't. You people have to stop. You have to stop acting like because that's her parents. Their owed access 100% to her life. You're allowed to elope. You're allowed to have a private wedding you're allowed to not have your parents there. And as somebody who's never invited her father to anything as an adult or even as in a as a teenager when I was old enough to finally voice my opinion. And he has now passed on. I don't regret it one second. Not one minute of him not being there. What I regret is not speaking up sooner for myself. And not letting him come to my events and embarrass me. You've literally saw 10 minutes of the relationship and you've decided now that your knowledgeable about all the interpersonal relationships they have going on. Here's a hint you're not
@@LLandS18I bet you are just like her so are defending her on every post!
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Oh is it upsetting when people have boundaries and they stick to them. When they won't. Just give you everything you want. Mean don't people realize you're the most important person on the planet. What you want is way more important than what anybody else wants even if it's their own event and they're paying for it. Poor little baby
I feel although the mum is hurt by her not going to the wedding it's not her day and there must be other reasons for her not going. I don't think we are hearing the full story. But the amount of emotional blackmail mum is trying to pull constantly is wild. If that was my mother I would not invite her to shop for dresses. The bride is fixed in her want to have a very small ceremony, mum does have to respect that and she doesn't. It sounds like mum pushes the bride's boundaries constantly and this is one boundary the bride is sticking with.. She is still celebrating back at home.
The bride is ungrateful of all the moments the mom did that the bride was a baby to remember.Just because your mom is at the reception doesn’t mean she will not be at the most loving moment ever.😵Mom,I feel bad for you gave birth to her and this is how she thanks you for her first wedding.😞
Oh good lord, you people have to stop acting like you, owe your parents to bend over backwards and take whatever they want to give you for the rest of your life because they chose to have you. No, you don't. You don't know what their relationship's like. You've no idea you saw 10-minute clip. This mother could hit her daughter in privacy, could scream at her belittle her. From what I saw I saw a mother that yes she's hurt. She's not invited but I also saw her slip very comfortably into the role of gaslighter emotional manipulator.
People are allowed to have the wedding they want. And quite honestly just because it's not the waiting you would want or not. The without your family is not f****** irrelevant.
Why do you arrenge a wedding without your loved ones? It doesn't make any sense, they are suppose to be the witnesses, too.
The efficient can be the witness. Also, people elope all the time. It's really not that controversial
What a brat! I feel for the mom so much.
I love the dress!! So pretty… the episode was in 2019 do you think it still can be bought?
The daughter is sssssooo selfish…I feel sorry for the mother
Wow! I think inviting your MOTHER is the least you can do. She said her dad was walking her down the aisle. So how does she justify leaving her mother left out. Mom is most definitely hurt and rightfully so. It bothers me that dad id more important here. I can assure you one day this bride WILL regret this stupid and selfish decision.
Her dad is walking her down the aisle at the reception. Not at the wedding. Nobody's going to the wedding but the bride and groom. I'm not sure but people seem to be pretty confused about the definition of an elopement.
Also, you don't know if she's going to regret this decision as someone who's never invited my father to anything. Once I was old enough to speak up and say I don't want him there and now he's passed away. I don't regret it for a second. Not one teensy tiny second. In fact, what I regret the most is not being brave enough to speak up earlier for what I truly wanted, which is him not to be there. So you have no idea what she'll regret. Maybe she'll look back at her wedding pictures and say wow. I'm glad that I finally stood up to my mother and had what I wanted. Especially when you see how easily and simply that mother slides into gaslighting and emotional manipulation. Maybe she'll be like. I'm glad I had The wedding I've always dreamed about.
I would not have gone with her to pick her dress, and theres no way i would b going to the reception, hope no one turns up then the happy couple can have there reception alone as well as the ceremony, i hope mum didnt pay for her dress
The Mom commenting on she “gave birth” speaks VOLUMES! It screams of Narcissism. People forget that even a Parent, a person who births you, can be toxic.
She strikes me as the type of person who has made boundaries with her Mother and the Mother still wont accept those boundaries. The fact she had a card to please let your mother come to Italy is a Narcissistic Flag. One that the Mother was hopping to use as a way of embarrassing or brow beating her Daughter. The daughter saying that this is not the place to have this discussion means that she KNOWS and has prepared herself to shut down her Mother’s ‘antics’ and boundary crossing.
OR she’s desperate to go to her daughter’s wedding. Your trying way to hard to defend the bride with not inviting her family not just her mother.
If she doesn’t have a good relationship with her mother she wouldn’t have brought her to the appointment or she would’ve mentioned it in her interviews. It’s ridiculous to not invite immediate family to your wedding. That’s literally what a small wedding is for. ESPECIALLY if they are willing to pay for their own flights. The mom isn’t narcissistic the daughter is just selfish
Poor mom , she gave birth to you girl, don't cause tears to your mom
Oh for God's sakes. Peoples have to stop acting like childbirth is the worst thing on the planet. The mother chose to get pregnant, chose to have the child and chose to raise the child. And she was legally obligated by the law to raise that child. Children don't owe their parents anything.
Marriage is not about the fantasy day, it is about years of commitment.
But at least invite your parents.If my sister was eloping,I will support her as long as she brings mom and dad.👫🏻😇
@@NatalyGarcia1999If you bring parents or anybody it is no longer an elopement. Also what you would or wouldn't support is irrelevant because this isn't your family.
A marriage is not about a fantasy day but a wedding is.
@ But the mom would rather be at the wedding than choose a dress.
@@NatalyGarcia1999 It's almost like picking a wedding dress and getting married on the wedding day are two different events. It's almost like those situations as tangentially related as they are have nothing to do with each other. And picking a dress is way less stressful than the wedding day. Amazing I know
How hurtful to her mother and family. I hope she paid for this herself. This will bite her in the ass later in life. It’s BS that her mom has to beg to go.
It said they were paying for it themselves. And it's not cruel to elope. You people need to calm down and get your head out of your ass. Guess what? Your kids don't owe you anything Karen. You're not entitled because you chose to bring them into the world.
Get married at home and have the honeymoon in Tuscany! I can’t imagine not inviting my own mother and siblings to my wedding - that’s just messed up
She could do a live video of the wedding so the family feels included
Yes, that was what my cousins did. They had a destination wedding and live streamed it to their parents so they can feel included.
Who is paying for all of this wedding?
There the bride and groom. And they get to have the wedding they want. As somebody who's planning a wedding. This attitude and this comment section does not surprise me. The amount of people who think they're entitled to how me and my partner decide to have our wedding is mind-blowing. I used to think that stuff was just made up for TV. As someone who is also a woman and has a very shiny spine and no problem sticking up for herself and what my partner wants people like you can go pound sand.
@@LLandS18How do you know that? Others can be paying too.
After this selfish marriage, they got divorced within a year. And within a few months of the divorce she had an affair with another man
I don't know why people go to Reddit and think it's the gospel truth. That rumor showed up online before they were even married. This is why we can't have nice things because people are so gullible they think everything they read on online is the gospel truth
I would change the venue or destination so that my parents and family could all be at my wedding. Italy should be the honeymoon. This girl strikes me as being very selfish and dismissive of her mother’s feelings.
My husband and I canceled our wedding (the big one - we later got married by the JP with just our witnesses) because his mother and my sister decided that they were going to take over our wedding. Then his mother said that if we have the formal wedding (and that we did not include her in our plans) that she was going to wear sweats and a ripped shirt to it because, she hated me so much. So we both agreed to cancel it (it was supposed to be on July 23, 13 years ago - we instead go married on Aug. 19 and go to the court house instead. The only thing that I regret is not having my parents there. It really hurt my mom's feelings. I still regret it as my mom passed away 8 years ago.
If you're on good terms with your parents, they should be the first and most important guests on your list; everyone else comes after them. Her mother really loves her and is hurt, but she rolled her eyes at her mother's wish.
If that’s what my daughter wanted, I’d respect her wishes and be happy for her. It’s her day, me not seeing her get married isn’t going to ruin my life or our relationship. As long as she’s happy, I’m happy.
Wow the amounts of entitlement in comment section is astonishing 😮
absolutely disgusting to do this to your parents! She is a selfish person shame on her!!!