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Enjoyed being with my husband,especially in retirement and living a more natural healthy lifestyle.Been difficult to be a widow.❤
Keep strong
Sending you an empathy hug. ❤
I hope you find connection and community in your mourning. You’ve still got a beautiful life to live ❤
I hope you meet someone, it's never too late.
I'm curious about how was it more healthy and natural?
Thank you ❤
True wisdom because it's the hardness of one's heart that refuses to see the devotion towards their beloved, especially with dvac ❤shalom
Thank you Rabbi Friedman!! Wish you and all here a great week!! Shavua Tov!!
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Thank you Rabbi Friedman
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Thank you kvod Harav. SHAVUA TOV
Thank you rabbi
No spouse can deal with continued adultery and that includes pornography.
pornography is a problem on it's own for many reasons (besides being a sin by itself, it corrupts the mind, wastes time and energy, becomes an addiction, it decreases a persons capacity to love[ for the duration that the corruption lingers] and an insult to ones partner [it belittles your/& partners 5ex appeal & beauty ])
but it's not adultery (not even if you look deeper and cast away semantics & practicalities because it doesn't constitute choosing someone else or unchoosing you [ not even then he engages in this])(it doesn't mean that you can or should deal with it in your partner )
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😂this guy is great
SHALOM
Never get divorced !
Just...Go !
If your religious generally you don't want to get divorced. Unless there's something serious going on, such as physical mental or verbal abuse or such. In other cases if your partner wants to stay you should work it out.
It (lockdown) wrecked my marriage because my science and intention was Tikkun Olam whereas everybody else up to Justice level was Yimakh Shemo - I'm a Gentile apparently.
Rav, a divorce took place in 2017- he remarried but he has functioning schizophrenia. This mental status makes him believe I'm his possesion. I have had a difficult time beginning anew bc he finds them and says lies to his advantage and they abandon interest. The other horrible thing, he will terminate their life if I do get married. He stalks as often as he can. I can't stand this anymore.
You do not have to live together🤷
Couples should put more effort into solving their problems.
True 100 %
Sometimes Lubavitcher shadchanim just push for a mazal tov and push gerim and baalei teshuva into impossible matches. Then the bais din pressures the husband into signing a shtar kisvu utnu, because the woman falsely cries that she will be an aguna. The divorce is pushed through before the husband/father can assert his rights for visitation and parenting agreements. The bais din isn't concerned at all what the halacha says, only in pshara krova l'din in favor of the female. Then the son grows up with motzei shem ra about his father (from his mother and her murderous racist brother) which he repeats in 770 (without any thought of chakira, drisha, ush'eila heitiv, which would dispel the rumor easily and completely). The son becomes a Rav, shochet and dayan and doesn't even invite his father to his wedding. Now the father has to try to access grandchildren with no help from anyone. Thanks Chabad Lubavitch.
one shouldn't let himself pushed into a relationship with anyone.
they push a person to be married because they think being married is the right way to be, if one is unsure about the match they should say:"next"(they just don't want or think that one should linger in doubt and make a decision)
if nothing happened don't sign a cetsuva.
even though the Chabad movement has it problems & problematic people, you weren't scammed by them you were scammed by your ex"wife" and she simply used the movement and it's problems against you.(from what you say I can deduct that she isn't really religious either, she only keeps appearances to get status &help from the movement [they don't know what you know and you can't depend on then to discover what you know. you should have fought for truth, if you didn't manage to gather enough evidence to convince them that's not on them.])
b.t.w they attempt to do pshara because that's an option that's always in the boundaries of the halacha, they are afraid to do otherwise unless you convince them that you are right beyond any doubt. (and that she is unfit to be a mother)
I have to ask, is it over?
What is the problem with people who choose to be alone? If it's not a sin, then what's the problem? Why can't you acknowledge that some people, not all, are rather off alone? Everybody is different, then why do you prescribe everyone the same close minded way of life? Because it implies, that only married people with kids can have fulfilling lives, which is simply not true!
Why are you watching his videos?
@@dumbphonemom why not? I don't always agree with what he says, but I still find them insightful and I like learning about different perspectives.
Even G-d said that it is not good to be alone. Try watching his other videos on marriage for another perspective. When you marry your partner you become as one; and that is not something you can do alone. I am single too, but I would prefer to marry rather than stay forever single. I am simply waiting to find the right one.
@@ladybistre9596 But it's obviously not the reality of many people, so what is then said about it - that these people live wrong? Didn't God create the people who end up alone and without kids?
Religion does have grain of truth in it, but I find it's still contaminated by people's need of controling others.
because it's not about what feels good, it's not about having fulfilling lives, it's not about what you are rather off with/without.(in the first place only delusional people get married with this mindset [that they'll feel better or something because of marriage as if it is magic ])
Judaism rejects the idea that what's feels good is good, (it even rejects the idea that it's enough to be fair and nice to be good because it's not enough to make the world better ) Jews believe that the true goodness is devoting yourself to something meaningful and bigger then yourself or building meaningful things not only for yourself is good.
(like family that will continue your values and help build the world according to them, to make a better world after you are gone)(if you are not a religious person you probably don't believe in marriage as a concept [because in essence it's a religious pact that can't make sense to logical unreligious people], nor you believe it can make a better world because you believe values are but a human construct that can't be absolute.[it can be worse some people I.k don't have values or their values start and end with themselves])
would have been perfect with a musical instrument,maybe a kinor or a guitar
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What about abuse, abandonment and adultery.? I faced all three. No way to change it as he refused.
if you know the answer why wait to solve it?
when you find your wife with your lawyer in your bed, while you work, for her (catholic) to have a LV-purse.
I personally think that a couple is a team, two generals on different fields of action.
My beloved רבע is dead...
Maybe Rebbe Mani is right.
תודה.
It would be amazing to follow this person always Simon and hasidic jews. They have a more filtered approach. Follow him and don't listen to these other people
The leading cause of divorce is marriage.
Stay single Men, focus on being a better Man than you were yesterday. Keep your freedom, keep your happiness, keep your money.
What a great accent this guy has
B"H here in Israel your video was preceded by a "ISRAELI Jews for J--us {In Hebrew} advertisement.I noticed 3 of the 5 speakers were not born "Jewish". Israel's biggest problem is that many of our "Jews ar not born Jewish. Erev Rav