How I Got Over My Ex

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  • @Kyngdavyd
    @Kyngdavyd Рік тому +4242

    Dating in this generation is like a new form of self harm
    Edit: Don’t give up hope. Just because dating nowadays isn’t as easy as it was, never lose hope that you’ll find someone that will love you. 🙏

    • @DaytradeWarrior__
      @DaytradeWarrior__ Рік тому

      ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ, sᴇɴᴅ ᴍᴇ ᴀ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴡʜᴀᴛsᴀᴘᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ɴᴜᴍʙᴇʀs ᴀʙᴏᴠᴇ..

    • @axurrity2
      @axurrity2 Рік тому +42

      So real

    • @Zankiz
      @Zankiz Рік тому +17

      Facts

    • @olajohnson6266
      @olajohnson6266 Рік тому +8

      Facts

    • @arthurianpendragon8968
      @arthurianpendragon8968 Рік тому +6

      Well struck king David 🔥💯

  • @manigeReviews
    @manigeReviews Рік тому +2111

    "You can either get bitter or better" - Iman Gadzhi. Words of wisdom.

    • @adamlevy8092
      @adamlevy8092 Рік тому +19

      it is actually from Matthew McConaughey.

    • @Waynequotes
      @Waynequotes 11 місяців тому +4

      I've been following your advice n it's actually workingg
      Tysm :)
      THE MAN WHO INSPIRED ME TO BECOME SOMEONE SPECIAL ❤-

    • @jonathangoldstein5757
      @jonathangoldstein5757 10 місяців тому

      @@WaynequotesAw

    • @Itzyaboyjammy
      @Itzyaboyjammy 6 місяців тому +2

      @@Waynequotes not special better beacause everyone was always special

    • @izmolaitela6684
      @izmolaitela6684 5 місяців тому +2

      @@adamlevy8092 Its actually Josh Shipp quote

  • @tomasmonteverde5126
    @tomasmonteverde5126 8 місяців тому +198

    "When a man truly loves a woman, you cannot fathom how much it tears him apart when it finally ends."

    • @joshuarudolf3643
      @joshuarudolf3643 2 місяці тому +4

      So true…this is much deeper than some people want to make it look like.

  • @tiffanypr.9448
    @tiffanypr.9448 9 місяців тому +597

    As woman, it was interesting to see how it is for men. I myself cannot let any other men treat me like a princess while still being heartbroken. It breaks my heart even more because I would have hoped for it to be only him. But indeed, working on yourself to become the best version of yourself will be your biggest win. Stay strong to all the heartbroken kings out there! xx

    • @aidanb1711
      @aidanb1711 8 місяців тому +17

      Respect, it's good you recognise these emotions and that jumping at another man will simply be trying to fill the void that you haven't truely gotten over the ex partner, the time and patience to fully heal will make it all perfect. You got this.

    • @tiffanypr.9448
      @tiffanypr.9448 8 місяців тому +1

      @@aidanb1711 thank you, it has been 2y and still focused on healing/ getting over him on my own. It's lonely at times but that will make the next relationship all the more special!

    • @skybri69
      @skybri69 6 місяців тому +12

      Exactly the same! I’m going through the wringer right now and the only person I wish I could talk to is him. Don’t know how other women or men can just jump into something new after a relationship is over.

    • @reginageorgetownuni
      @reginageorgetownuni 6 місяців тому +4

      Ikr. You wish it was him but when it isn't, your heart is just not into it. It gets better over time though, so rebounds are useless.

    • @stylezgaming9324
      @stylezgaming9324 3 місяці тому

      Thanks. I needed this

  • @filiprucki2123
    @filiprucki2123 Рік тому +863

    “I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”

  • @n_f5304
    @n_f5304 Рік тому +342

    One thing I learnt that has helped me when I’ve lost someone important is to realise that the person you lost didn’t make you feel the love you felt, it was you. You created that love and you made them the centre of it but really it was you.

    • @anandmohan9296
      @anandmohan9296 9 місяців тому +2

      Good one

    • @AriTre
      @AriTre 6 місяців тому +3

      I knew

    • @Regal23_
      @Regal23_ 5 місяців тому

      Thank you so much

    • @Weba77
      @Weba77 5 місяців тому

      Love this comment

    • @luchoc898
      @luchoc898 4 місяці тому

      This just click in for me . Thx you sr

  • @rasmuskarlman
    @rasmuskarlman Рік тому +417

    View hardships as challenges - not threats! Went through a breakup a year ago soon and it was the absolute best thing that ever happened because I realized the importance of working on yourself. It can be tough but it can also be a fantastic opportunity! You got this brothers.

    • @BryanKalama
      @BryanKalama 9 місяців тому +8

      Am going through a heartbreak right now and all the time am just thinking about the times we spent together I know it sucks but we will cover over it bros,stay strong everyday and everything will fall into place ,be the version of yourself let you know chase woman chase the bag and they will come after you .We can do it

  • @Plu2ok9
    @Plu2ok9 Рік тому +71

    As men we got each other. I appreciate this video in its entirety. Let’s get this work in💪🏽.

    • @AlbenianKomrad
      @AlbenianKomrad 9 місяців тому +2

      Godbless Man, my Gf Just Blocked me, its burning this hard man, but it's Okay.

    • @392brad6
      @392brad6 9 місяців тому

      @@AlbenianKomradit’s actually sad man

  • @weiyuan20
    @weiyuan20 Рік тому +1232

    Went through my first breakup about half a year ago and I'm proud to say that I did all of these things on my own accord. It was a great learning experience!

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +76

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @soccergalsara
      @soccergalsara Рік тому +3

      of your own accord, exactly, i dont get wyhy these sort of videos exist.

    • @hashtagaroma7778
      @hashtagaroma7778 Рік тому +23

      @@soccergalsarabecause some people don’t know these things

    • @TheMultiflamer
      @TheMultiflamer 10 місяців тому +5

      @@soccergalsarasome guys grew up without male rolemodels. Which makes us understand woman better but not was masculinity is. I watched a shit ton of videos like this when i had my first dating experiences/heartbreakes.

    • @gregefth6207
      @gregefth6207 Місяць тому

      How is it going man. Feeling any better??

  • @realtimeshadow
    @realtimeshadow Рік тому +104

    This was exactly what I needed last week, now I’ve dealt with the ending of a toxic relationship that had me hooked.

    • @shakhzosh
      @shakhzosh 3 місяці тому

      Do u think it's possible to completely get over a person who u've been in a toxic relationship with?

    • @zudar7857
      @zudar7857 27 днів тому +1

      You never completely get over a person, especially if they have caused you trauma, since trauma means a strong sense of emotions and those are impactful, whether you like it or not. But we live on just focusing on ourselves, distracting ourselves with self improvements and life, then eventually the thought of them gets diluted to the point that it wouldn't bother you anymore

  • @iuusufduishenbiev8663
    @iuusufduishenbiev8663 Рік тому +101

    It’s been a month a half since i broke up with a girl i’ve been with for 4.5 years, wanted to propose this year but some things got changed. Iman you’re a life saver. Thank you my man!

    • @oscardominguez1680
      @oscardominguez1680 Рік тому +4

      Fuck.. i'm in a similar place. Did not break up yet. Any advice?

    • @sumitthakur3742
      @sumitthakur3742 Рік тому +4

      @@oscardominguez1680 leave her

    • @Aldiimani
      @Aldiimani Рік тому +3

      So did I, 3 years with her and now we broke up

    • @DandelionSpring96
      @DandelionSpring96 7 місяців тому

      @@oscardominguez1680how is it now? Why do u ever thought of breaking up anyways

  • @ElleMay
    @ElleMay Рік тому +31

    Looking in from a woman’s perspective you have some amazing advice Iman.
    So many guys get emotionally destroyed when they break up from their first love..
    This in turn sadly causes a lot of mental health problems..
    As a mother of three children, two boys coming of age this is an amazing video to show them..
    I am a single mother like your mom.. Your mother has given you brilliant life skills for your future in life.. I’m trying to do the best by my children..
    But this also hit home for me too…keeping card’s, photos, messages is not good for me. I need to destroy them and move on.
    Thank you for this and from a lot of the messages I can see you have helped a lot of young men and adults move forward.. 🙏🏼💜

  • @deano9930
    @deano9930 Рік тому +192

    I’m 18. Met this girl when I was 17, she was a year older. The most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen (and most guys would agree) and to this day find it hard to think there’s many girls her age more beautiful than her. We got together and she was the exact person I’ve always imaged in a girlfriend. We broke up after a year and got back together to break up again. I’m back where I’ve started and experiencing the same pain form when we first broke up again. However this time I’m not begging and pleading, I’m moving onwards. This video came at the perfect time, thank you

    • @samgarrad7879
      @samgarrad7879 Рік тому +32

      No matter how many times you read a book, it will always have the same ending

    • @lorenzoantonio6367
      @lorenzoantonio6367 Рік тому

      Hope everything is going well for you

    • @shereenfacey1350
      @shereenfacey1350 4 місяці тому

      Yes indeed move on my dear🙏

    • @xannecorinnex
      @xannecorinnex 2 місяці тому +2

      @@samgarrad7879 I think it would only apply if both people haven't worked on themselves. if you let time go by and two people re-connect, it can sometimes be for the better since they would've grown and healed on their own.

    • @leoceanburst3328
      @leoceanburst3328 4 дні тому

      How r u doing now

  • @ArchitSach
    @ArchitSach Рік тому +248

    Your videos inspire me brother! I recently made a Hamza impression video which was alright but nowhere near your level of storytelling... Thanks for inspiring me Iman.

  • @nathanking3349
    @nathanking3349 9 місяців тому +51

    I just finish watched this with tears running down my face, thank you Iman... You've changed my life and I hope you understand that you have quite literally saved my life

    • @xonezo_9345
      @xonezo_9345 4 місяці тому +1

      Right now.. I can't relate to you more.

    • @Articcan405
      @Articcan405 4 місяці тому

      @@xonezo_9345me too man we all are heart broken we gotta be strong just by us commenting together it shows so many people r going through the same thing at the same time were gonna get through this brother and be stronger in a few months

  • @anotherone1191
    @anotherone1191 Рік тому +2

    Everything could be seen in your eyes and through your throat veins popping up.
    Huge Respect.

  • @nathanb2048
    @nathanb2048 Рік тому +122

    Just went through a heartbreak stage with a girl that I didn’t even date. I really needed this Iman. I turned soft. It’s time again not to be.

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +20

      You got this bro!

    • @187_-_ViRus
      @187_-_ViRus Рік тому +3

      Same but it’s in the past gotta focus on the future

    • @playmakersmusic
      @playmakersmusic Рік тому +7

      As someone similar, it definitely gets better with time. Trust in the process of building yourself and as what Iman said, channel the pain into something else.

    • @xnervemusic
      @xnervemusic Рік тому +1

      Been through the same Nathan few days back

    • @thevanster8084
      @thevanster8084 Рік тому +3

      Situationships suck

  • @wzdomx
    @wzdomx Рік тому +105

    Thank you very much, Iman. This was what I needed to hear. I got tired of chasing her and insisting, and I realized that she is in a stage where she likes to party with different men and she still hasn't become a woman, so I love her so I have to let go. You are like the dad I never had. God bless you and keep making great content.❤

  • @jakemartin8524
    @jakemartin8524 11 місяців тому +34

    Just broke up with my girlfriend last night. Honestly thought she would be my wife and have a wonderful relationship forever. Absolutely loved her.
    It’s hard to move on, can’t sleep, eat, she even comes up in my dreams.
    However, I truly understand that I must move on and we all should move one.. stay strong

    • @secredeath
      @secredeath 3 місяці тому

      It's time to move the mountain friend

  • @MrFrankenstein92
    @MrFrankenstein92 Рік тому +9

    Damn bro this really just lifted me out of the hole I was in. Felt like a friend telling you the cold hard truth and not sugar coating it to save my feelings. Thank you soo much for this video.

  • @elijahdiedrichs1307
    @elijahdiedrichs1307 Рік тому +20

    Thank you, I just had my first heartbreak one week ago and I really needed this Iman. Don’t wish this upon anyone, even my enemies, worst feeling I have ever felt honestly.

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +2

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @emmanuelmondesir
      @emmanuelmondesir Рік тому +3

      Make a list of all her flaws and all the bad things she did to you. Get angry instead if sad. Use that anger to grow so that it never happens to you again.

  • @Jordan-xx5cn
    @Jordan-xx5cn Рік тому +12

    Been going throw it for a 5 months now, and i'm glad this popped up on my recommended. It's not nothing I don't already know, it's just good to be reminded of what you need to do and to stop focusing on the past. Use it as fuel!!

  • @vahansargsyan7386
    @vahansargsyan7386 Рік тому +16

    Another life lesson from you Iman, listening to all the things you were saying I could relate to them so much, I remembered my old self how vulnerable and mentally unstable I was during that periods of time , and I can assure all of you gentleman that its really like this after your first breakup you are turning from a boy to a MAN and you understand that you should go and work hard to have your dream life and be accompanied by your queen.
    once again Thank you Iman feels like you are really watching over me.

  • @rajhridoy7101
    @rajhridoy7101 Рік тому +1

    Needed this harsh talks man. Now, I know that pain is man's best mate.

  • @miguelernstoskate7653
    @miguelernstoskate7653 Рік тому +21

    Went through a breakup a month ago. Right timing. Needed to hear this❤

  • @sschmi07
    @sschmi07 Рік тому +34

    I really needed this. Im just now going through my first breakup this week. This couldn’t be more perfectly timed. Thank you so much

  • @ofcArthurspeaks
    @ofcArthurspeaks Рік тому +1

    This helped. Thanks a lot man!

  • @juantelle1
    @juantelle1 6 місяців тому +18

    Going through my first breakup right now (25). It was the most perfect relationship I could ever ask for. I had to move to another country. It feels like 50 cars hit you at the same time. Been crying for the last 20 days

    • @chiragvalia4656
      @chiragvalia4656 3 місяці тому

      Yesterday night happened to me, she lost interest 😒

    • @xannecorinnex
      @xannecorinnex 2 місяці тому

      Same here, it's been almost a month post-break up but it's gotten so much better as time goes on.

  • @adrianlifestyle17
    @adrianlifestyle17 Рік тому +351

    So grateful that I found this video. Just today I broke up with my longtime girlfriend and that pain that accumulated over the past couple of months even until this day is just hard to describe in words. Just went for a run to forget my feels and saw a loving couple which broke my heart but at the same time built me up to never forget that there are good things in life. Thank you Iman for your advice in times like this 🙏🏼

    • @mjav__
      @mjav__ Рік тому

      stay hard goat

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +18

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @nathanyakubu
      @nathanyakubu Рік тому +14

      I also broke up with my girlfriend last week. I feel your pain bro

    • @adrianlifestyle17
      @adrianlifestyle17 Рік тому +13

      @@nathanyakubu We gotta keep our heads up king even though we bleed… It’s the only way out. And in times like this brotherhood is the one pillar in our lives that gets more and more important.

    • @TylerDavie
      @TylerDavie Рік тому +1

      how u doing now man?

  • @messi9603
    @messi9603 Рік тому +34

    I love where Iman is bringing his channel, moving it more from business related videos to helping and guiding young men.

  • @pepeter1351
    @pepeter1351 Рік тому +2

    I really appreciate you because you say what we need to hear, not what we want to hear.

  • @stylishh12
    @stylishh12 Рік тому +2

    well said brother , everything was said on point specially the part with "it's only just a beginning of the journey" , really hope people would take your advice!

  • @TysonHockley
    @TysonHockley Рік тому +287

    I just turned 15 recently, and I am a truth speaking teen who constantly gets called a conspiracy theorist by his peers. God bless all the free thinkers out there! 🙏❤️

    • @truckerssupport800
      @truckerssupport800 Рік тому +5

      I believe I followed you on Facebook a while back, now im subbed to your UA-cam channel :) good patriotic kid fighting for what's right!

    • @Juice_e_74
      @Juice_e_74 Рік тому +2

      Same here Bro 👍

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +32

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @l.iam_moore
      @l.iam_moore Рік тому +3

      Tyson, I’m a 14 year old and I am the same way. Just trying to spread the truth and help people.

    • @richard38618
      @richard38618 Рік тому

      w but that can get you killed at some point be careful

  • @victorfaleiro2220
    @victorfaleiro2220 Рік тому +316

    Thank you Iman, another class that I will take for life. For me the first ending was really difficult, days and days listening to sad music and feeling bad for what happened, but after everything I went through I realized that it was just a moment in my life that I needed to go through to become better and be able to find a queen.

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +17

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @onewiththestud
      @onewiththestud Рік тому +4

      For me I was over it consciously but then from time to time the trauma I bottled up just over flowed and come out causing me to have a break down

    • @victorfaleiro2220
      @victorfaleiro2220 Рік тому +2

      @@onewiththestud We, as men, have challenges to overcome every day, whether it's overcoming love or even taking care of the mother, we are often the pillars that support everything and the safe place for those we love.

    • @onewiththestud
      @onewiththestud Рік тому

      @@victorfaleiro2220 yeah

  • @Ryaanfr
    @Ryaanfr Рік тому

    thx bro for all ur content, keep up the good work

  • @dastan2286
    @dastan2286 9 місяців тому +3

    I'm going the same experience as you gone through and i can say i watch this video every single night before fall asleep because i can't find any other videos that is better that this thank you for sharing your experience and story we men really need that kind of advice because in the end of the day NO ONE CARES! About how we men actually feel it's just us here helping each other to be free of our thoughts and mind.

  • @johncraig933
    @johncraig933 Рік тому +4

    I just got out of a relationship and I am going to definitely take this advice and thank you. You have helped me a lot since I started watching u.

  • @aphiwemajola7543
    @aphiwemajola7543 Рік тому +23

    Iman is like the big brother that tells you the hard cold truth as it is and you're better after it

  • @owethutyupu9971
    @owethutyupu9971 Рік тому

    Bro that last piece of advice... thank you best thing I've heard 👌

  • @NIKOSTAR1234
    @NIKOSTAR1234 9 місяців тому +28

    Thank you man, you literally have mentioned everything I’m going through and I have never felt this low in life before. The stuff you said in this video is probably going to change my life in so many ways. You truly saved me mentally ❤

  • @Noone01010
    @Noone01010 Рік тому +7

    I actually needed that Mr.Iman as I had a breakup recently and lacked motivation and planning...thank you for turning my life around

  • @dcdiego7
    @dcdiego7 Рік тому +11

    I just started watching you last week and I just got out of a relationship last week as well. This video couldn’t have came at a perfect time.

  • @Alexfrfr
    @Alexfrfr Рік тому

    This is amazing. Needed this. Thank u🤝

  • @Codeagam
    @Codeagam Рік тому

    Thanks Iman I needed this.Let my new chapter begin.

  • @Lumiere2001
    @Lumiere2001 Рік тому +44

    Bro I’m so proud of myself. I’ve done all the things you mentioned way back 2019 when we broke up. The fact that I did all of that before you even made this video made me realize I’m somehow better, and getting better. Since last year I’m fully healed. It’s not an easy journey, but it’s all worth it. Do it for yourselves guys! We are rooting for you! Love yourself more!

    • @Tarik.krblt6
      @Tarik.krblt6 5 місяців тому

      If your ex come back and better herself would you came together soon after your breakup in the past?

    • @ngkristal2895
      @ngkristal2895 5 місяців тому

      @@Tarik.krblt6 I think you should just listen to your heart king. It always have the best answer for you

    • @xannecorinnex
      @xannecorinnex 2 місяці тому

      @@Tarik.krblt6 If they have worked on themselves for the better, you could yes but it would still take work on both ends.

  • @alitxlop
    @alitxlop Рік тому +4

    Really needed this right now. I am grateful to you, Iman

  • @AmanSharma-eg2jj
    @AmanSharma-eg2jj Рік тому

    thanks Iman, Really Needed this at this time.. You are just like a "Big Brother"

  • @PierreWendyEm5
    @PierreWendyEm5 7 місяців тому +3

    That's very helpful and inspiring video thanks for sharing with honesty.

  • @Haikal_Hafis
    @Haikal_Hafis 5 місяців тому +13

    A devastating breakup is a "Rite of passage" from a young boy to manhood, if and only if you embrace it and make it a chance for character development. Been there, done that. Well said, Iman!.

  • @poornachandras349
    @poornachandras349 Рік тому +5

    Big bro advice fr- ✊🏼
    I'm so thankful I came across you. You've no idea how much you mean to me... You have all my love and respect ❤️🙏🏼

  • @maegg7545
    @maegg7545 Рік тому

    Really needed this, I just got dumped yesterday. I always watch your videos but this one showed up at the right time

  • @lknd1300
    @lknd1300 Рік тому

    your videos helped me out of a dark place
    all I can do is thank you

  • @Exsoslya
    @Exsoslya Рік тому +30

    Needed this Iman, went through a break up about a 2 weeks ago and was looking for guidance on how to get over this!

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +6

      My pleasure man

    • @i_Groomer_Dr.E
      @i_Groomer_Dr.E 7 місяців тому +2

      Me too man, went through this too recently.... It really hurts bro

  • @rihanabdulkader7032
    @rihanabdulkader7032 Рік тому +8

    Thanks Iman for inspiring & showing the right path to us, you are making us men, Really appreciate you efforts.

  • @SangNguyen-lt9om
    @SangNguyen-lt9om Рік тому

    Thanks. This is just exactly what I need to hear right now brother!

  • @brandonsarasty1482
    @brandonsarasty1482 Рік тому

    Bro, just thank you for the message, we needed this

  • @Reesh2202
    @Reesh2202 9 місяців тому +4

    I just went through a breakup recently and it was my first to be honest , it was heartbreaking , i would forget abt her while I worked but once I was alone images of her smiling , laughing would creep inside and make me feel like dying , well I really didnt understand what I should be doing , I was very confused wether I should just go back to her or stay the hell away but this video , it gave me a spark of hope that things are going to be alright eventually , it made me realise that maybe yes she was the most pretty girl I've ever met , both facially and heart wise but maybe it's time for her to go and time for me to move on :) thanks for the video iman ! It was extremely encouraging

  • @tanunegii
    @tanunegii Рік тому +8

    I am a women and I gotta say . Your words are so helpful for both the genders 🙌. You're my idol , I am young but I love your channel and I really wish the younger generations also get to know about you , It was very hard for me For my to forget someone. I was feeling very low and all day I can't never get off my mind . But Time heals , I wish I had this video in earlier times . Best channel ever

  • @billreed3265
    @billreed3265 Рік тому +1

    I needed this thanks bro

  • @MonsieurMauMau
    @MonsieurMauMau Рік тому +1

    went through my breakup for ten months now, I must say it has been a two hard years journey and I am just not chasing anymore and more just working on myself and what legacy I should leave for my kids.... people call it dry spell, I call it the Time that Healed both relationship trauma and all was caused on my in my childhood. I am ready to build my world and not chasing but knowing what should I do to be inspired.

  • @yavuzozgun1732
    @yavuzozgun1732 7 місяців тому +4

    Fascinating Iman. The same scene happened to me when I was 16. We were forced to split because of relocation. Down to the not being able to speak, entering the uber with tears. Funny the loneliness we felt in the moment, in truth was the script that others also played. Thank you for sharing

  • @iki_edits
    @iki_edits Рік тому +18

    Thank you Iman for this video. It truly gives me motivation to better my self for my future to become a man that i need to become. To all the guys out there that are reading this i just have one thing to say. Follow your dreams and love will come to you. Never let someone break your mental that much that it will change the way you live your life.

  • @CarolinaBass704
    @CarolinaBass704 Рік тому

    Needed to hear this today. Keep your head up Kings.

  • @hamidkhalili1969
    @hamidkhalili1969 Рік тому

    Needed a video like especially from a person I look up to truely related to everything you said. from the beginning till the end keep doing what your doing bro lots of love.

  • @la_princesse_des_beauxarts
    @la_princesse_des_beauxarts Рік тому +6

    I’m a young woman but I appreciate this insight too; a lot of it is good for not just men but any human being period. Thank you!

  • @ochejpeg
    @ochejpeg Рік тому +6

    Inspiring as always. What you do means alot to guys like me in the world and I hope you continue to help and inspire us into becoming men and building a better future for ourselves

  • @PRANJALLAMBO
    @PRANJALLAMBO Рік тому

    Hey bro thanks for making this video, I needed it the most 💯💯

  • @Pitakpen
    @Pitakpen Рік тому +1

    Your videos always show up in times of need. Thank you Iman

  • @Daniel-ug5tg
    @Daniel-ug5tg Рік тому +6

    This is what I lacked a year and a half ago after the first break-up. I would like to hear your opinion on relationship management in one of your upcoming videos

  • @devonbaca4055
    @devonbaca4055 Рік тому +16

    I lost the girl that I’ve only ever felt love for and it was an actual relationship. I’m 20 and it’s hard to get her out of my head knowing she’s with someone else and she doesn’t love me anymore, but knowing that she did just by the look in her eyes when we laid together is killing me.

    • @jamesleth806
      @jamesleth806 Рік тому +3

      Remember it has happened to all of us men. It is painful but we get back up and continue.

  • @EduardoHernandez-qf1ip
    @EduardoHernandez-qf1ip Рік тому

    Thank you for this. This video was my wake up call. 🙏🏽

  • @benbarton6404
    @benbarton6404 10 місяців тому

    Thank you a lot Iman this has helped me a lot and enabled me to feel more positive about my future and how I should be carrying myself post breakup

  • @wolofgambian9thalchemist6
    @wolofgambian9thalchemist6 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you Iman this is the most realset and humbled Video I have EVER came across 💪🏾💯 Gave me a second wind to Win and rather then becoming Bitter so we all can become Better Spiritually and Physically .

  • @muskeldeutsch4769
    @muskeldeutsch4769 10 місяців тому +54

    Bro, I really really really need to hear this even if I'm 30 years old already.
    I was in a 6 years serious long distance relationship (different countries), worked very hard every single day to improve myself in order to become a good husband for her. I planned to marry her next year, but we broke up a month a ago and yesterday I knew she got into a new relationship and she thinks that person is the best for her.
    I can't describe how sad I was, but the last few minutes of your video really cheering me up! I want to say thank you very much! I will keep working hard for my future wife and kids.

    • @RandomGameShorts5
      @RandomGameShorts5 10 місяців тому +6

      damn bro thats hard be strong ik u gonna get through that

    • @anilkumaradithya6115
      @anilkumaradithya6115 10 місяців тому +7

      Never make the same mistake bro, distance relationship suckks, girlfriend can cheat by saying, "I miss you were here" by having sex with another dude.

    • @keithbrown2425
      @keithbrown2425 5 місяців тому

      I’m going throughout the same things as you to bro. She told me she still wanted to be single and then I found out two weeks later she’s Introducing. The guy to her mom.

    • @luftpods4444
      @luftpods4444 3 місяці тому

      hey man, do you have updates for us? going through a breakup right now and would be great to hear from you :)

  • @GermanMusikManager
    @GermanMusikManager Рік тому

    Imam you are absolutly a top G! Your an absolute example for me and most men out there. Keep it up!!!

  • @Timgatcha
    @Timgatcha Рік тому

    Thanks Iman!, I just went through a heartbreak and it really inspired me to become a new person because of this video

  • @spankrocketgaming294
    @spankrocketgaming294 9 місяців тому +7

    My gf broke up with me because she felt we didn't have enough space for each other. I treated her so well and I feel so betrayed.

    • @czseven
      @czseven 15 днів тому +1

      How do you feel now brother?

    • @spankrocketgaming294
      @spankrocketgaming294 15 днів тому

      @czseven doing ok since the summer I spose but she destroyed my confidence in meeting other women. Now I just work, chill and avoid people

    • @79Dnivara
      @79Dnivara 7 днів тому

      You treated her so well. That's the problem. A boy's definition of treating a girl so well is suffocating her with his presence. That's why she left you. Learn from the experience and improve your strategy.

    • @spankrocketgaming294
      @spankrocketgaming294 7 днів тому

      @79Dnivara when I say try, she was the one who wanted to see me everyday. The irony

  • @arnavxd
    @arnavxd Рік тому +14

    I wanted this video so bad... I am going through a breakup... Thank you Iman... You motivate me so much I only watch your videos... I don't watch any other thing on UA-cam. I love you and keep doing stuff you are doing ❤

  • @hydrated6021
    @hydrated6021 9 місяців тому

    Thanks man for helping me with this phase of life

  • @espengrnnesby6165
    @espengrnnesby6165 11 місяців тому

    Thanks needed that reminder, did everything right but so on my way!

  • @aphiwemajola7543
    @aphiwemajola7543 Рік тому +3

    If only more people listened to you man, Iman you have changed my life on an exponential level, you have no idea.

  • @901ogdoclee
    @901ogdoclee Рік тому +10

    Preach Brother 💯❤️ i found love again after a hard divorce. Had my son involved. But i left with my head high and moved on. Yes it was hard but i met someone who gives me a whole new outlook on life and she is great to my son. Trust the process ❤️‍🔥💯

    • @901ogdoclee
      @901ogdoclee Рік тому

      Sorry to reply so late but I got your message. Lets talk brother

    • @901ogdoclee
      @901ogdoclee Рік тому

      Link me

  • @samiulislam_live
    @samiulislam_live Рік тому

    Thank you, King.
    That's all I can say.

  • @roger9162
    @roger9162 Рік тому

    Thanks bro needed this 💪🏻🔥

  • @rihanabdulkader7032
    @rihanabdulkader7032 Рік тому +6

    I am 15, Your videos have helped me a lot in self development, understanding how life works and motivated me to become a high value man.

  • @rohiturang05
    @rohiturang05 Рік тому +13

    The exact same things I did to get over it 😸 but I had to do it the hard way ( took a long time to execute it) not mention the the harsh feelings i had before I moved on ..now I'm on a journey to build myself as a man .. with great mentors like you 🔥

    • @ImanGadzhi
      @ImanGadzhi  Рік тому +2

      Nice work!

    • @mohammednyangli
      @mohammednyangli Рік тому

      Thanks Iman. It is not easy dealing with break especially if You had something real with your woman..This video is Dope!!

  • @elijahdizzle1
    @elijahdizzle1 11 місяців тому

    I love you man, needed to hear this, Love your content and everything you represent

  • @ethantalley90
    @ethantalley90 Рік тому

    More of this type of content please. This is a great one.

  • @Ghost19200
    @Ghost19200 Рік тому +4

    Keep up iman
    You are changing a lot of men

  • @janburczymucha1169
    @janburczymucha1169 Рік тому +3

    Bro changes thumbnail and title like socks, awesome video by the way

  • @landoncarr4535
    @landoncarr4535 Рік тому +2

    Love your content bro, i had to learn all of this the hard way I wish I’d seen this video 2-3 years ago. The best feeling is when you are over them and a completely different man and they come back and say how sorry they are. Then you politely reject them.

  • @citadel397
    @citadel397 Рік тому

    Thanks man, this is just the encouragement and advice I need to help me through this. I will overcome this and emerge a better man.

  • @NWFC91
    @NWFC91 6 місяців тому +23

    I went through a 4 year relationship break up in my early 20s and it was the hardest thing ever but I used it as fuel to better myself and my situation. I had my ups and downs along the way but it paid off. I’m now in my 30s happily married. Every time I look back at my past I’m glad it happened because I grew from it. Also don’t be afraid to date around and get hurt if it doesn’t work out. Be a man and get on that bull😉

    • @FunFanaticFridays
      @FunFanaticFridays 4 місяці тому

      Hii please can you tell me how you moved on ???

  • @DtradesAcademy
    @DtradesAcademy Рік тому +3

    It's crazy how, I'm going through a heartbreak now and I saw this video. Thank you 💟

  • @justified2065
    @justified2065 Рік тому

    The queen reference made me see things very differently, thank you!

  • @realtayylee
    @realtayylee 9 місяців тому

    Thank you so much 🙏🏾

  • @henrytorrico6271
    @henrytorrico6271 Рік тому +6

    Iman, I really don’t remember how I get to your content, but one thing I know is that since I started watching you with all the mindset, all the improvements in my personal day to day my life change to better. Thank You Iman. Saludos desde Bolivia 🇧🇴

  • @Aryan-3
    @Aryan-3 Рік тому +2

    Iman truly gives me a Vibe of a big brother explaining his younger brother.

    • @DaytradeWarrior__
      @DaytradeWarrior__ Рік тому

      ᴛʜᴀɴᴋs ғᴏʀ ᴡᴀᴛᴄʜɪɴɢ, sᴇɴᴅ ᴍᴇ ᴀ ᴍᴇssᴀɢᴇ ᴏɴ ᴡʜᴀᴛsᴀᴘᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴛʜᴇ ɴᴜᴍʙᴇʀs ᴀʙᴏᴠᴇ..

  • @jacky_my_boy1704
    @jacky_my_boy1704 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Iman, honestly this is some of the best breakup advice I’ve ever heard

  • @Nyxathit
    @Nyxathit 10 місяців тому

    Thank You. This is the best advice for Move On.